Professional Documents
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Kyungae Won
Pro-Seminar II
The quote by Albert Einstein, "Learn from yesterday, live for today, and hope for
tomorrow," resonates with me because through learning, I can create and choose a better path for
myself. In full transparency, it's easier to reflect now, but my "yesterday" is past 50 years. I am
hopeful for tomorrow because I continue learning and living today. Growing up, I was focused
on what I thought I should do because my parents sacrificed their livelihood to ensure my sisters
and I could have the "American dream" and live happily ever after. And then there's the term
coined by William Petersen in 1966 called the model minority. He observed the strong work
ethic and family values that he claimed perpetuated the success of the people of Asian ethnicity.
The thought is since Asian families work and study hard, they will be successful. This spilled
into education when an Asian student is expected to do well in science, math, and music because
they were born Asian. This expectation and need to satisfy what society expected from me were
difficult. Unfortunately, rather than driving me to do better, it led me away from what was
expected. My paths were obstructed by constantly asking why I needed to do something I didn't
think I was good at or wanted to do. My middle and high school years had some mid-to-high
turning points, with several lows during my early adult life. In the last fifteen years, I have had
Additionally, during the low turning points, I struggled with collecting myself and getting
on the right path. Still, at this point in my life and career, I have the skills to recognize the
situation and adjust as necessary to get back on the right path. This assignment was more than
just reflecting on the turning points as a leader and an individual with various influences that
impacted my choices throughout my life. I appreciate having this platform to share and allow me
to gather further insight into the choices I've made up until now. From here, I can learn from
them, apply what I have learned, stay on the path to being a great leader and have joy in my life.
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The earliest recollection of the turning point that impacted me is when I was elected as the
Secretary of the student government in my high school senior year. This was somewhere
between mid to high because I ran for Secretary. After all, I didn't think my peers would see me
in a leadership role in either the President or Vice President role. So, I played it safe, hoping I
was a better candidate for a lesser responsible position. It turned out that in a town where it's
predominantly white, and there were "cliques" in the school, I was pleasantly surprised and made
my parents proud to be elected. It also gave me a sense of relief because it gave one of my
younger sisters exposure to the seniors she didn't have until then. This paved the way for her to
try out for the cheerleading squad, making the team and getting accepted to the "clique" she so
desperately wanted to be part of. Fortunately for our youngest sister, her time at the same high
school was more manageable. Still, she lived in the shadow of our other sister and me.
My role as the Secretary allowed me to be part of something bigger than I thought was
possible at that time. Additionally, I knew this would look like my high school transcript when
applying for college. As the Secretary, I was more than just a Korean girl who attended the same
school. I helped plan for school activities and helped propose a student lounge that would allow
us to be with our friends and not just hang out in the hallway. One of my biggest takeaways from
this role was when I dared to speak up; my peers listened, which gave me confidence. I
suggested relocating the trash cans so they're more accessible for the students throughout their
trash. Through my observation and walking the property, I shared that we have several trash cans
that are not being utilized and missing from where it's needed most, the hallways. I made this
argument to our administrators with the support of the student government body, and the
trashcans were relocated to suitable locations. It took no time before the paper wads didn't litter
our hallways and the cleanliness of our school was noticeable. The best part was the appreciation
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from the janitorial personnel because it gave them the time to do what they needed to do rather
than picking up after the students. At that moment, I realized people would listen when you can
explain effectively how a change can improve the current state as well as their life, they will
listen. A simple thing such as relocating trash cans made the janitors, students, and
With a newfound confidence and excitement to learn that my viewpoints and suggestions
can make a positive impact, I wanted to continue this path at the University of Central Florida.
Reality sat in immediately through the magnitude of the number of students and different
personalities and backgrounds I was exposed to early on. I again struggled with losing my
identity and purpose because I felt lost and defeated. Why did I think this way? My confidence in
making a convincing argument to make a change seemed irrelevant and trivial in the university
setting. I mean, who was I kidding? I merely suggested moving trash cans; who would care about
that? My desire to have a sense of belonging and be part of something bigger was gone. All I
cared about at the time was hoping my professors don't realize I was absent from class. The end
of the first semester was my lowest turning point because not only did I drop out of school, my
parents were disappointed. I felt like a failure and didn't know my life's purpose. Looking back,
it's silly to think I could transfer the momentum from a small school to a university of such scale.
Fast forward a few years, with a few ups and downs, I had an opportunity to be an office
manager for a construction company. This was a mid to high turning point for me because, up
until then, without a college degree, my choices for decent job opportunities were limited. I took
this role to learn from the training and build relationships with industry professionals. To my
surprise, the importance of treating people with respect and dignity stood out because I observed
firsthand the difference in behaviors between the workers, clients (stakeholders), and people in
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the office. When I observed the employees' interactions with our boss, they were agreeable and
looked happy. I thought they were putting on a face because he was the boss. When the foreman
or other supervisors addressed them, sometimes it seemed like they ignored the directions and
their communication efforts. It took some time, but what was evident once I realized it was our
boss was always talking to the workers with respect and making them feel valued. He also tried
to give them bonuses when the job was completed on time and with minimum setbacks. The
forepersons and supervisors told them what to do and put pressure instead of talking to them like
human beings. I realized how vastly different the approach between the boss and the supervisors
were, but I didn't know why. All I knew was that I wanted people to react to me positively, as
these workers were for our boss, so I watched how I spoke and approached them. It was simply
watching my tone, words, and nonverbal cues and, of course, thanking them for their hard work.
As much as I learned working as an office manager, I realized being around people, and
uplifting them brought me happiness. This led me to join Starbucks because it was a space where
I could build relationships and look to grow, and I was not frowned upon because I lacked a
college degree. I applied the valuable lesson of how important it is to treat others with respect
and dignity, and I was committed to living with that in mind. Starbucks provided me with a sense
of identity and purpose. It's similar to how I would describe when I met my husband; I just knew
it felt right. As I grew into my role as a Shift Supervisor, it wasn't a high turning point in my
career because I faced several challenges to overcome. For the first time, I had to consider the
needs of others while supporting my manager. It required building relationships, navigating, and
This was an excellent opportunity to showcase my planning and prioritizing skills and build
relationships with peers across 14 stores in our district. Through collaboration and support from
the district manager, I delegated responsibilities to others on the planning team. The planning
included picking the day of the week, a centralized location, activities to accommodate not just
the partners but their families, and, most importantly, the menu. Our district has many
vegetarians, so recognizing their preferences was vital to show partner care. After almost five
weeks of planning and organizing, the picnic was a success. Our peers, managers, and district
manager recognized us for a successful event. This was a high turning point because it showed I
could work well with others while leading ad executing with purpose.
Other opportunities to show my leadership capabilities arose, and I was promoted to the
assistant store manager(ASM). This should be another high point. However, I was in this role for
an extended period, which impacted my confidence and frustration and affected how I showed
exceed sales goals. I often was the one who was working shoulder to shoulder with the team.
After a few months, I was approached by another district manager to join their team. But this
meant leaving the team I had helped build and starting fresh with partners I was unfamiliar with
or those who may not know my skill sets and my strengths and weaknesses.
I approached my district manager and shared my thoughts on this new opportunity. I will
never forget what he asked me. He asked me if I trusted him to do what was in my best interest.
Initially, this question baffled me. The only question I had for my DM was, "Do you trust me to
succeed as a manager, a people leader?". We had an honest conversation, and he expressed why
he was waiting to give me my store. It's not because I am not capable but because he wanted to
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make sure he could set me up to succeed. So, his indecisiveness kept me from moving into my
next role. Fortunately, shortly after this conversation, he found a store he thought was a perfect
fit for me. What came next was the lowest turning point, followed by several high turning points
Trusting my district manager that he placed me in a store to help me succeed was short-
lived, as the promotion timing came right before the holidays. South Florida is not just the most
beautiful time of the year but also the busiest. Staffing was an opportunity because of the
downtown location, and the volume of the business was too great for some partners. Many days I
felt incapable of being a leader or even knowing the business to deliver results. I was lost; the
person who started the journey to serve others was also lost. I caught myself dictating and
micromanaging my shift supervisors and often showing frustration in front of the team and
customers. I was lost and felt walls crashing down. It was similar to the overwhelming feeling I
had first entering UCF almost fifteen years prior. The turning point was reflecting on my journey
and why I wanted to be in the manager role. This allowed me to turn what could have been the
end of my career at Starbucks into solidifying why I wanted to remain and continue in my
position. I remembered Starbucks' values resonating with me because I have observed and
realized how important it is to treat others the way I want. Kindness and grace will make a
positive impact on others as well as our communities. I've been in my role for eight years.
Although I work for a for-profit organization, it's only possible to achieve the goals set before us
by surrounding myself with those with similar values and purpose. When I recognized this and
accepted its simplicity yet, significance, how I showed up and supported my partners changed.
This also led to a couple of other high turning points when I was awarded the Spirit of Starbucks
for my involvement in bringing AAPI awareness to my local community and my fellow Asian
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partners. I spoke up and shared the importance of our names because it's one thing that truly
belongs to us and provides us with our identity. Additionally, through a partnership with our
local municipality, May has been recognized as AAPI heart gage month through the passing of
the proclamation. Another high point was when I received Community Champion Award for my
involvement in building relationships and inspiring the partners to give back to those less
fortunate. This meant a great deal because my passion for inspiring others to give, serve, and
help others in need has started to have some traction. My cadence has been connecting on how
we can be more involved in the communities we are part of by simply being kind to those who
walk through our doors. Also, I am showing them the importance of reflecting and focusing on
The recent high turning point is receiving a notification I've made it on the Dean's list
again at Arizona State University. This gives me the strength and perseverance to continue my
efforts and commitment and makes my family proud. I am grateful to have the support system at
home and at Starbucks for giving me the manager role and flexibility. Until recently, I have been
fortunate to have the necessary time to focus on school because I can schedule myself.
Unfortunately, when there's a staffing shortage, I am the one who has to cover that gap. I plan to
get my team back to where we were because, with the holidays upon us, my goal is to support
the partners the best I can by mitigating stress due to a lack of staffing. As a leader, I aim to
provide an environment where they can thrive and feel supported. I want to have a plan and have
my partner's trust that I will do everything within my capabilities to take care of them. I want my
partners to trust me as I did my district manager. The school has had its share of ups and downs,
Additionally, I am grateful for the resources and knowledge I have learned throughout the
courses to share and apply in my current role. My ultimate goal is to support, encourage, and
provide guidance to partners and bring out their best version each day. I want to be in a role
where I can inform the partners of what's possible and available for them to be happy and
Recently I applied for a role that would allow me to participate in the support center
helping guide the partners when they have questions or concerns. I hope to interview and get the
position. Still, regardless of the outcome, I am proud to have taken this chance, and if this doesn't
pan out, I know there will be other opportunities, and I can accept that and it’s my high turning
point.
There have been multiple reflection assignments in other OGL courses, and they all have
brought to the forefront something about myself that I did not know. However, with this
assignment, going back as far as I did, at least now I can accept why I made the choices at those
moments. It also clarifies some of the questions I've had in the past and present. Nothing will
justify the disappointments and heartaches I've caused my family. Still, I am more conscientious
and can take my experiences and knowledge to be a better person, bring joy to others, and
appreciate it in my life. It's necessary to have a range of low to high turning points in our lives
because without the struggles and celebrations, how can we have gratitude and the chance to
change our course? I will have one more plot on the graph in May of 2023, which will be a high
turning point to see the pride on my parents and loved ones' faces.