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THE TEXTING COMMANDMENTS

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Fellas, welcome to the 21st century, the age of technology, a lot has changed & continues to
change. Technology has changed all aspects of our life & this includes the way we interact as
well. Interactions between the two sexes has changed, a few decades ago, interactions were
more in person than over digital spaces. With the invention of the cellphone & it’s constant
evolution into what is called a smartphone. Then add on the arrival of platforms like Facebook,
Twitter, Instagram, WhatsApp & the likes, new ways of communication have been established.
Texting is the new way of communicating. And so this article focuses on the DOs & DON’Ts when
texting, many guys fail dismally to utilize texting. Below are some of the major texting
commandments:

1. DON’T ALWAYS TEXT – if any time you get to have a chat with her, you find yourself having to
text her first, you’re forcing things. Communication should be a two way thing, there’s no reason
why a woman who finds you interesting will have to wait for you to text her always. She will
naturally want to interact with you as well. But when you’re always texting first, that’s not her
interacting with you, she is simply replying you. If many of you guys were to stop texting first,
you’d be shocked by the number of dead flowers you’ve been watering. You’re simply giving out
your valuable attention to women who absolutely want nothing to do with you. Respect yourself
as a man, don’t end up being that guy who only gets texted first when she wants a “favor”. If you
know you’ve put in the efforts to try & make the communication a 2 way thing but somehow she
doesn’t seem to get the hint, then it’s clear you’re the very least of the people she’s interested in.
The only respectable thing left to do is to delete the contact. On to new prospects.

2. DOUBLE TEXTING – she already saw your first message, it’s now a matter of her being busy or
simply not wanting to reply. There’s really no need to double text or even triple text a woman,
because women are always with or on their phones. Know this about women & smartphones,
they’re inseparable. Her phone is her world – it is her source of income, source of gossip, source
of attention & source of entertainment. What you need to understand about women is, leaving
you on read/seen or not opening your text is actually validation for her, that’s why they brag
about how their DMs are always full of guys & unread texts. You only further validate her by
double texting her. And by then, she thinks less of you. It’s needy behavior & nothing kills a
woman’s feelings than needy behavior, it’s the ultimate pussy repellent. Once you send her text,
that’s it, she will reply if she wants & even if she does you should be able to judge by the time she
took to reply, if she’s just tolerating you. And if she is, remove yourself from such a situation. To
avoid such scenarios whereby you end up double texting or feeling some type of way when she
replies late, interact with as many women as possible. By the way, no woman is texting one man,
yet here you’re stuck on her like a lovesick puppy.

3. REPLYING IMMEDIATELY – don’t be readily available anytime she texts you. Psychologically, a
woman is more likely to respond to a text replied a few hours later with enthusiasm compared to
a text replied immediately. It makes you look like someone who is desperate & who really doesn’t
have much going on in their life. You’re a man, surely you should be occupied by other important
things other than eagerly waiting for a text back. Okay even if you’re not that busy, at least
appear to be busy. When she asks you “WYD” aka “what are you doing” your response should
never be “nothing”, you’re a man you must surely have something important other than a
woman soaking up your time. Don’t be readily available, women only value what they earn.
Infact, learn to ignore her, she already has an army of orbiters trying to get her attention. Stand
out from the crowd.

4. SENDING HER PICS – stop that nonsense, that is feminine behavior. What are women
supposed to do if you’re now the one acting like a bad bitch. Most guys have this feminine
behavior of sending women pictures of their muscles, dressed in designer clothes, drinking
expensive liquor, in exotic cars or by posh places. All you’re doing is seeking her validation, when
it’s supposed to be the other way. All it highlights to the woman is you’re insecure, yet she wants
a confident man.

It gets worse when these guys go as far as sending their dicks all in effort to impress her. The
intention is to show her you’re packing but the result is you only end up portraying yourself as
thirsty. You need to remember she already has a gallery of dick pics from other stupid guys like
you, not to mention from random guys on her social media. Be different, put a premium on her
dick, she must earn it.

5. FAN BOY – don’t be her fan boy, don’t give compliments she hasn’t earned. Most guys tend to
be commenting on pictures women will have put all in an effort to push their agenda. But it has
the opposite effect, female logic will translate it as fandom. She now believes she is some sort of
celebrity to you, that’s why you always compliment her. Remember, to a woman you’re either her
inferior or superior, never her equal. Deep down a woman wants to be objectified by a man
above her & be worshipped by a man below her. Respect yourself, if she wants your opinion on
her pictures, she will send them directly to you. And even so, don’t go overboard with the
compliments, there’s really nothing new you can say about her imagined beauty, she has heard it
all.

5. USE OF EMOJIS – avoid too much usage of emojies, it really makes you look unconfident.
Especially when you’re in the process of trying to escalate the chat to more of a sexual tone,
avoid emojies. Onee of the fastest ways to dry her pussy up, is hinting sexual inuendos then hide
behind some emojies. A guy will go something like “I wanna smash that” then add lol or . She
translates it as lack of confidence, in her mind she’s like if he’s such a pussy over the phone then
he’s probably a pussy in bed as well. She already has a pussy, she doesn’t want another one.

Don’t even get me started on the dysphoric emojies ( )

that’s weakness at it’s peak, total turn off. Not to mention those cringe heart emojies, she even
feels like vomiting.

6. INTERVIEWS – last but definitely not least, avoid asking too many questions. You never get to
know a woman through the phone, that can only happen in person. Stop interviewing women
when texting them, you’re degrading yourself & pedestalizing her. The more questions you ask
her, the more power you’re giving her. She should be the one so eager to know much about you,
that it leads to an in-person interaction. Bring her into your world, instead of trying to get into
hers. The real reason for the phone is to set up logistics, so you can meet in person, instead of
being her text buddy. Set up the meeting.

To conclude, work on your texting game, know the DOs & DONTs so you don’t end up becoming
like every other guy who is doing nothing more than inflating her already gigantic ego. Don’t be
just another orbiter, stand out from the crowd. She’s actually looking for a guy who will actually
treat her like a normal being instead of worshipping her. Have some self respect.

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