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CONGRATULATIONS

Let me congratulate you on unlocking the secrets to bettering your dating


life and joining the most superior men in the world who can maneuver
through the dating world effortlessly. What you will learn are powerful yet
subtle techniques that will transform you from an amateur texter to a full-
blown professional texter!

Just think about all the times you were left on read or never received a text
back. Now imagine the tables being turned, and it's you leaving women on
read! Having a woman who keeps checking her phone because she lusts for
one of your text messages is the ultimate goal. Ultimately, you will agree
with me that when it comes to dating, if you can change your mindset and
your text game, then you can change your life!

Normally, in the dating game, you can fall into either of two different
categories: boys, or men. Fortunately for you, by reading this ebook and
practicing the simple techniques herein, then becoming a master at your
craft, you will separate yourself from the boys immediately. The average
Joe has incredibly low self-esteem in the texting world and even in the real
world. And if you think women can't sense the lack of confidence through
text, then you are wrong! But I have great news, my guy, after reading this
ebook, you will not be the average Joe anymore, and you will be texting
women with supreme confidence and skill!

The reason I know you will be texting with supreme confidence after this is
because YOU are the type of person who wants to improve the quality of
your dating life. YOU had the guts to seek more knowledge! Lastly, YOU
know you should be getting exactly what you want and, more importantly,
what you deserve!

I take this very seriously. So, I will try my absolute best to get you all the
information you need to turn yourself into a texting professional with
women! This book will help turn your phone into an attractive, irresistible
and seductive tool.

As with everything in life, it’s going to be a process: today you are a rookie,
tomorrow you'll be a professional texter! So, without further ado, let’s get
started on your texting journey!

Thank you,
THE DIFFERENCE

Most guys don't understand Understand, women see the


what turns most women on, and world through emotion and
likewise, what turns them off. intuition, while men see the
The phone plays a huge factor world through logic and
in whether you're: 1. Going on a reasoning. To get a better
date with a woman, 2. Going to understanding, here's an
be used as a "texting buddy," or example: When men get into a
3. Going to be left on read. You heated disagreement with
and the way you text a woman other men, the most logical
is going to determine this in thing to do is to either go to
most cases. One of the reasons war with each other until we
you purchased this ebook is reach a mutual agreement or
because you weren't having a simply agree to disagree and
lot of success with texting walk away from each other.
women or you want to better
your texting game. Women, on the other hand,
don't do either one of those
Regardless, you must things. What most women do
understand that this book isn't if they're in a heated
about giving you "pick-up lines". disagreement is tear each
If it was all about pickup-lines, other down EMOTIONALLY.
don't you think most guys
would be successful? They'll talk behind each
other’s backs, spread rumors
The reason I won't be giving about each other, hold
you pick-up lines is because grudges, and in most cases,
after you use a smooth pickup never talk to each other ever
line and get a girl interested, again. So, do you see the
then what? Exactly, nothing. difference between men and
You don't want a woman to just women?
like you for "pick -up lines".
Pick-up lines will pique her
interest, but not keep them!
THE WHY

Now that you know that women see the world through emotion and
intuition, you have an advantage over other men who still are confused
about this notion.

If you're still confused about how this ties into dating women, then check
this. Think about a time you were supposed to go on a date with a woman
and she ended up flaking on you. There are several reasons why a woman
would flake, but usually, the main reason is because of how she felt that
day of the date.

If she felt like she didn't want to see you, she most likely won't see you. If
she felt like a better option came, she'll most likely take the better option.
Most women are slaves to their emotions, just like most men are slaves to
their sexual urges and ego.

The only way to get women to like you and stay with you is to get her
emotions attached to you! This and more are what you're going to be
learning in this ebook! You’ll learn how to attach her through text and
other tips and tricks emotionally.

However, take your time with the tips and tricks. Be more focused on the
"why" behind the tips and tricks; understand why they work.
Understanding the "why" is fundamental to your mastering the texting
game.
LOL VS EMOJI

We will start with ubiquitous slangs because almost everybody know what
they mean. Take note, however: be careful when using phrases like "haha,
LOL or "LMAO", and NEVER EVER use "K". When you use those phrases, it
makes you come off as goofy, feminine and an ass kisser. These phrases are
also tension killers, well get into tension later.

Let's normalize saying what we have to say, exactly how we mean it


without coming across frail. She is not texting one of her female friends or
gay best friend. You are a potential love interest. Don't make her
subconsciously lose respect for you as a man because the way you text.

Overusing emojis is just as unpleasant as her using phrases like ‘LOL’ all the
time! The key is to not text like a teenage girl, but to text like a respected
man. Women can see the use of emoji's as endearing if not used often. So,
be strategic.
ONE WORD ANSWERS

Never text back one-word responses. So, for example, if you ask a woman a
question like "What did you do today?" and she texts you back "Nothing!"
or, let's say, you compliment her on something and all she says is "Thanks"
or sends you an emoji. Do you know how to handle that? Don't ever text her
back until SHE initiates contact with you first. No ifs ands or buts! I am not
going to elaborate. YOU SIMPLY STOP COMMUNICATING WITH HER.

If you DO text her back after she disregarded you, not only is she going to
lose respect for you, you're going to lower your self-esteem because you're
teaching yourself and her that that's how you want to be treated. You teach
someone how to treat you based on what you allow.

What you also need to take into consideration is that women are on a pro
level when it comes to being social. If you're used to being around women a
lot, you'll notice they are exceedingly loquacious beings.

Women love social groups, gossip and anything that has to do with them
actively socializing. Remember when you were a kid, and it was gym time?
What did most women do during gym? They got in groups and socialized
while the boys played.

They've mastered the ability to be able to hold conversations since pre-


school. So, if a woman can't hold a text conversation with you, that is a red
flag. Her interest level in you is LOW. Delete her and never initiate contact
with her again until she reaches out. If she ever does.

If you respond to one-word messages, it's a win-win situation for you


because then you will get your time well-spent by someone who doesn't
really want to talk to you. Your dignity and self-esteem will remain intact.
This makes you attractive to high-quality women in the future, and last, but
not leas, if it was a shit test, she will double text you and change her
attitude toward
TEXTING MULTIPLE WOMEN

Never text one woman! There is a immense of reasons you shouldn't text
just one woman. Please note: this only qualifies if you're not in a
relationship. The reason you should text more than one woman is because
you'll end up believing she is "The One," and you will start to give off the
energy through text that you are needy and clingy.

This will eventually turn any women you're talking to completely off, and
you will start to feel like she is playing games with you because she'll start
to act distant because of your needy behavior, especially if she had high
interest in you in the beginning.

OVER COMPLICATING

If you're familiar with dating coaches, you will hear a lot of them say never
validate a woman. Now this is a bit immoderate because most women are
insecure. So, if you're a confident alpha male guy and you don't compliment
a woman, she'll start to believe that you don't like her.

A lot of women can't handle feeling insecure, and they'll stop talking to you
just because of it. Now, if you do take this route (of not complimenting a
woman) and actually get a woman to chase you, the truth is she's not
chasing you. She's chasing your validation. BIG DIFFERENCE!

Now the reason people say don't compliment women is because they get
over complimented! The majority of men get these highly attractive women
and can't help but keep telling them how beautiful they are, which ends up
making the woman feel and seem more valuable than you are. This also
makes the woman believe he is not used to getting attractive women, and
women don't want men that other women don't want.

Moderation is key. Always have a good balance when complimenting a


woman. It's almost impractical not to ever compliment a woman, and if you
do manage to not compliment a woman you'll just come off as a dull,
inauthentic person.
END THE CONVO

A large majority of men think either two things, one, that they should either
text back hours later to keep a woman interested or two they should keep
pushing a conversation that is going nowhere to keep a woman interested
and both of these men are absolutely Misguided.

Now if you're texting a woman and you start to see the conversation go dry
NEVER try to keep the conversation going! This attempt makes you come off
as a try hard and a guy who has nothing better to do and nothing
interesting going on in your life.

When you first start dating a woman she should never feel like you don't
have a life outside of texting her! A woman loves a man that is busy. But not
too busy don't get it Twisted.

When you end the conversation let her know something came up and you
will talk to her later. You don't need to give her A specific time, let her
wonder sometimes when she is going to hear from you again.

Playing the not texting back for hours game can back fire because in her
feminine mind she's either going to think you aren't interested in her at all
and just leave you alone because that what she does to guys she not
interested in, or even if she does start liking you because of you texting
hours later down the road she is going to find out that you're a "fake" busy
man and she will lose interest and respect in you for lying through your
actions. The real you will eventually come out, so get busy with hobbies and
your purpose.

Instead of trying to play the waiting game (which is a game that you will not
be able to sustain in the long haul if you're not a busy person) ending the
conversation when you're actually busy will be much more potent because
you're actually doing something with your life than just WAITING on a text
SEXTING

You can build sexual tension through text, but I would highly advocate that
you do it over the phone or do it in person. I would also recommend that
you don't send anything that would embarrass you or that you would be
ashamed of should it be made public. Last but not least. Before you request
or send anything sexual CONFIRM the AGE of the person you are
conversing with! And once you feel like you have confirmed it.. CONFIRM
IT AGAIN!

The reason I say for you to build sexual tension over the phone or in person
is because you want to be able to see if you have any effect on her. You
want to be able to read her body language and listen to the tone of her
voice so you know if she feeling what you're saying or isn't because through
text you have no idea how she's processing your text messages, she could be
laughing at you and sending what you're saying to her friends. Sometimes
women will have their friends text for them, so be cautious.

OVER COMPLICATING

Just like sexting, joking or to much banter over text can be a turn off. The
way women joke and men joke is different in a massive way. The way men
joke most of time can be very offensive to a lot of women especially women
with no sense of humor or low to moderate interest in you, one bad joke
and their interest will deteriorate.

Even if its just a small joke just don't do it through text because context can
easily be lost through text and can easily be taken as an insult.
GETTING TO KNOW HER

They say the phone is strictly meant for setting up dates, I would rather you
get to know a woman on the phone or video chat than through text
conversation; even in that case that can still harm you because women in
todays society are famous for using the phone as a way to get to know you
without actually ever planning on seeing you. With experience you will be
able to spot those types of women out.

If a woman says " I would like to get to know you more through text before
I see you" in a lot of cases is a red flag. What you have to understand about
women is everything is based off of her interest level, if she's not that into
you she'll make excuses! Her insecurities have nothing to do with you, now
you can try to lead her through her insecurities but if its too much of a
burden then find some less insecure and is ready to date now. You dont
want that headache.

There's a lot of variables that play in her wanting to get to know you
because it can also be her comfort level. Some women say that because they
haven't gotten a chance to talk your head off and get you to invest. A
woman an feel like she's gotten to know you just by talking about herself.
But like I said before with experience you will know the difference. We
don't live in a conservative time like in the 1940's and most women are not
raised to be moral virgin wives.

They don't need to get to know you. There's also nothing wrong with getting
to know her through text BUT MAKE SURE ITS YOUR IDEA AND NOT HERS.

Learning how to trust your intuition is a must. Your instinct will know if
shes worth the wait or not. In most cases women do not treat all men
equally, they make low quality men wait and they throw themselves at men
that they perceive as high quality. If she has yet to make an effort to see you
after a certain time frame because you need a time period, then take the
high road and move on. A woman only has a week sometimes two
depending on the situation to see me.
GETTING TO KNOW HER
CONT

t's okay to hold conversations through text and asking her question about
herself, trying to gain some ground. Showing her you're able to hold an
adult conversation. Don't let her control the narrative though. I would
rather you control the narrative and you get to know her and qualify her
through text than the other way around. Think of it like this, if she gets to
know you through text then she will show no alacrity to see you because
she already got to know you.

Make her pill back bits and pieces about you overtime you should be an
open book.

Be aware of your emotions over text This is probably the most monumental
piece of advice that I am going to give you. Emotions can cloud your
judgment and make you unable to think clearly, which may decrease your
ability to self-regulate, whilst increasing your ability to come across as
needy, clingy, and a man with no other purpose than women. Believe it or
not, women feel your desperation on a subconscious level.

Also you don't know this woman from a can of paint, and you're getting
excited that an attractive woman is texting you back? When you do that
you're giving off the energy that attractive woman don't come to you that
often. In most cases the reason you get excited is because attractive women
don’t text you that often.

To piggyback off the fact that you barely know the woman begs the
question as to why are you getting excited or even anxious? These women
have a lot of flaws! What if she is a crazy psycho? What if she stinks and
doesn't bath that much? What if she has STDs? Would you still be excited?
No, you wouldn't. So, because you don't know her, you shouldn't be excited
just because she's attractive. When you feel yourself getting excited, wait
until the feeling is over and then text back with a logical mind which is
much more attractive. Women do things with their emotions, men are not
supposed to, you lose women when you operate like one.
TEXT & FORGET

So, after you send a text message to a woman and you find yourself doubting if "she's
going to text back", "if she understood the joke" or "should I have said that" you're
already in a very weak, submissive position and only it's a matter of time before you
lose her.

Me personally the only way I was able to use this strategy effectively was through
sacrifice, and the reason most men cant get the women they want is because they
aren't willing to sacrifice. If I had a woman’s number and I couldn’t think of anything
to say I would delete her, if I was too excited or anxious to see what she would text
back after I had texted her, I would block her number because that meant I was
unconsciously putting her on a pedestal in my mind. I know this sounds extreme BUT
IT WORKS LIKE MAGIC, IT GIVES YOU A SENSE OF FREEDOM AND HIGH SELF
ESTEEM THAT YOU NEVER HAD BEFORE! Everyone who I made do this will tell you!

Sometimes I would delete a woman’s number the minute I got it without even texting
her because I was too emotional/excited from getting her number, this trained my
mind to never put women on a pedestal at all and it made me that much more
attractive through text and in person. I was no longer excited or anxious from getting
a beautiful woman's number nor did i care if she texted back or not because getting a
beautiful woman's number wasn't a big deal to me anymore. i could delete a woman's
number now without hesitation.

Now this is just a strategy to take women off the pedestal mentally, so making it a
habit to delete every single woman can become a destructive behavior.

You must sacrifice women today to win with them tomorrow and the more I
sacrificed women the more I stopped putting women on a pedestal, and the more they
responded to me nicely when I did actually text them. Imagine having the power to
delete a beautiful woman's number and not give a damn if you ever hear from her
again, that's true freedom!

You must get to the point where you can text a woman whatever you want and not
care if she's going to text back or if she's going to get offended, etc.

This is a tough thing to do, but with practice and consistency, it gets easier to the point
you can become extremely creative charming and witty with your text because you're
fearless. This rule keeps you from putting any power into a woman's hands.

This is a great strategy because men fall in love through investment, this keeps you
from investing. When you’re thinking about a woman who is not around, especially if
you’re stressing about her texting you or a text you sent, THAT’S AN EMOTIONAL
INVESTMENT! A woman must earn your investment!
IF SHE DOESNT TEXT BACK

I think it's unfortunate that I have to tell men that if a woman doesn't text
you back, never text her again until she initiates FIRST.

It's like playing a game of tennis. If the other person doesn't hit the ball
back, you're not going to pick the ball up and hit again trying to force the
other person to play. That is insanity. You want to get to the point in your
texting game that if a woman doesn’t text you back, especially if days or
weeks pass, she can’t get a second chance with you.

CUSTOMISE

When a woman sees a text from you, she should know it’s from you just by
how you text without reading your name. Now how I personally customise
my text is by sending gifs and voice messages SOMETIMES. This
automatically separates me from the crowd.

GETTING RETURN Q's


Now, this is especially important if you're just starting a conversation with
a woman and let's say you ask a simple question like, "How is your day
going?" and she texts you something like “i'm doing fine” but doesn't care to
turn the question on to you, then that is a woman who is neither interested
in you, nor in keeping the conversation going.

You must always keep in mind that texting is a balanced interaction. You
can't force someone to have a conversation with you, so if that happens,
leave her on read until she initiates again. If she ever does.
NO NICKNAMES

Now, this is especially important if you're just starting a conversation with


a woman and let's say you ask a simple question like, "How is your day
going?" and she texts you something like “i'm doing fine” but doesn't care to
turn the question on to you, then that is a woman who is neither interested
in you, nor in keeping the conversation going.

You must always keep in mind that texting is a balanced interaction. You
can't force someone to have a conversation with you, so if that happens,
leave her on read until she initiates again. If she ever does.

QUALIFYING YOU

If you just received a woman's number whether, it is on Tinder or in


person, and she is asking you for a picture, the reason is because she is
trying to qualify you to see if you meet her looks standards.

Never let a woman qualify you! If she asks you for a picture, what you do is
either tell her to video call you, set up a date, or tell her to send you a
picture first and you will send her one after. If you bluntly send her a
picture after she asks for it, you just gave her all the power and basically
told her that she has the power to qualify you and look to see if you meet
her expectations.

When a woman asks you to do something like that, what she is saying is
jump through this hoop for me. NO, you make her jump through hoops, you
qualify her!
QUALIFYING HER

You should be qualifying a woman through text messages. It shouldn't be


her qualifying you. The way that you qualify a woman through text is by
asking yourself these questions: Is she putting some effort into her text
messages, or are they dry and dull? Is she texting back 5+ hours or in a
well-mannered time frame?

Is she asking you questions about yourself? Is she helping you hold the
conversation? If the answer to all those questions is no, then you probably
want to leave that woman on read. Never tolerate a woman that's not at
least looking like she is putting forth any effort.

Also ask her to send pictures of herself, ask her how tall she is, and if you’re
an advanced texter and you are really bold ask her in a charming way her
weight, ask her what she does for a living, ask her if she can cook and clean
etc.

This is how you subconsciously communicate to her that you are qualifying
her to see if she meets your standards. Now if she doesn’t answer any of
these questions it’s because she doesn’t look up to you nor does she respect
you and she thinks that you aren’t in a position
to qualify her. Don’t let your ego get involved leave those types of women
alone and on read.
WHEN YOU DONT HAVE
ANYTHING TO TEXT BACK

If you're at the point where you need to figure out what to text a woman
back because you fear getting left on read or being too boring, you already
lost. The reason I say that is because you're putting way too much energy
into a woman you barely know, which comes through text messages.
WOMEN CAN SENSE ENERGY.

This is why if you come to a point where you don't know what to text back,
then you don't text back anything. More than likely, if you get busy doing
things, you will think of something to text back, but never be sitting there
thinking of something clever to say because she needs to think of something
clever to say to you.

Remember, this is a two-way street, not a oneway street. Respond when you
think of a response. Sometimes don’t respond at all, let her wonder why
you haven’t texted back. Maybe she didn’t put enough effort in her
response to get a response back, let her question herself.

PUT HER ON DO NOT DISTURB

This is perfect for a guy who is a beginner in the texting game. This method
automatically allows you not to text a woman back exceedingly quick,
making you not come across as desperate and getting you mainly left on
delivered or read. Remember, you should be busy with your life.
MAKE ASSUMPTIONS
AND STATEMENTS

Making assumptions and statements is a potent tool because when you text
and ask a lot of questions or even boring questions like, "What are you
doing?" that is you signaling that you NEED a response back from her. But
let's say you text a statement like, "I hope you're doing something
productive today," it’s a less needy text message, and it signals that you
DON’T NEED a response. Moreover, it also saves you from feeling low if you
don't get a response. This also doesn't mean to never ask questions.

Assumptions are just as powerful because when you text with an


assumption, this makes the woman have to invest a lot in her text and she
has to think about what she going to text you. This keeps her not texting
you on autopilot like she texts every other boring guy
For example, suppose the woman doesn't give you back a lot of
information. In that case, that’s usually for two reasons: One, she's not that
interested, or two, she's not an interesting person who can keep a
conversation. Now, if she keeps giving you little effort in these text
messages, you have to leave her on read. This tells her that you aren't going
to accept anyone who isn't giving you effort back. Remember, it’s a two way
street, you shouldn't be forcing anything! You don't want someone who
can’t hold a conversation or who is not interested in you.

If she happens to text you back after you left her on read and asks you why
you left her on read, you be direct with her and tell her "Because I felt like I
was the only one Investing in the conversation”, 9/10 if she likes you, she
will make an effort to talk and will respect you after she sees you are
willing to leave her on read and be direct with her when you aren't being
treated right. (Disclaimer - sometimes it can take you up to 3-4 times of
leaving a woman on read before she starts to realize you’re valuable and
treat you accordingly).
MAKE YOUR TEXT
MESSAGES ADDICTIVE

I know a lot of this contradicts the statement "Only use the phone to set up
dates," but that is more for men who are in their careers, have too many
options with women and really don't have the time to text nor do they care
if they lose a woman because they aren’t texting them all day everyday
(which is where I want you men to be).

Moreover, it also depends on the age and maturity level of the woman
you're talking to. If you're in high school or college, not talking to a woman
until the day of the date may not work for you, especially if you aren't
talking to a large majority of women daily because women are flakey,
especially younger woman, and they instinctively know you aren't
extremely busy, especially if you aren't actually busy and just a regular guy
in high school or college.

So, what you must do is make your text messages interesting and addictive.
The way to do that is by asking open-ended, wellarticulated questions and
making assumptions and statements. Your text messaging times should be
inconsistent — sometimes you text back 5 minutes later, 15 minutes later,
30 minutes later, 1 minute later, 1 hour later etc. This method comes across
as more authentic than sticking to 1 time frame, but this only works if the
woman is somewhat into you and your text messages are interesting
enough for her to WANT to answer.

This is what gets her hooked and desperate for your attention! This strategy
comes much more authentic if you’re texting a bunch of women, is busy
with your life, getting hobbies, joining clubs and finding your purpose in
life because you will naturally be busy and more attractive through text
because of it.
MAKE YOUR TEXT
MESSAGES ADDICTIVE

I know a lot of this contradicts the statement "Only use the phone to set up
dates," but that is more for men who are in their careers, have too many
options with women and really don't have the time to text nor do they care
if they lose a woman because they aren’t texting them all day everyday
(which is where I want you men to be).

Moreover, it also depends on the age and maturity level of the woman
you're talking to. If you're in high school or college, not talking to a woman
until the day of the date may not work for you, especially if you aren't
talking to a large majority of women daily because women are flakey,
especially younger woman, and they instinctively know you aren't
extremely busy, especially if you aren't actually busy and just a regular guy
in high school or college.

So, what you must do is make your text messages interesting and addictive.
The way to do that is by asking open-ended, wellarticulated questions and
making assumptions and statements. Your text messaging times should be
inconsistent — sometimes you text back 5 minutes later, 15 minutes later,
30 minutes later, 1 minute later, 1 hour later etc. This method comes across
as more authentic than sticking to 1 time frame, but this only works if the
woman is somewhat into you and your text messages are interesting
enough for her to WANT to answer.

This is what gets her hooked and desperate for your attention! This strategy
comes much more authentic if you’re texting a bunch of women, is busy
with your life, getting hobbies, joining clubs and finding your purpose in
life because you will naturally be busy and more attractive through text
because of it.
SHOWING VALUE
THROUGH TEXT

Valuable people know what they bring to the table and how they can
benefit people’s lives! So, what do you bring to the table? How can you
benefit a woman's life? What does a woman benefit from entering your life,
or is she only there to complete you? Now, if she is only there to complete
you, you WILL be guaranteed to be unattractive to her because of the
neediness you're going to express. What do you bring to the table as a man?
Do you bring more to the table than her? If so, how can she complete you?
A woman is nothing more than an add on to a man’s life, a help mate!

A valuable man knows he brings way more than her to the table and can
benefit her more than she can benefit him. So she can’t complete him. To be
valuable through text first, you have to think of yourself as valuable by
knowing what you bring to the table and being consistent and disciplined in
following these rules I have set.

you also show value by not putting up with anything that is below your
standard, like, for example, not dealing with a woman who leaves you on
read, not texting back one-word responses, etc. People who are of low value
have NO STANDARDS. Google has high standards because they know their
company is one of the best, McDonalds has low standards because anybody
can do that job and its one of the worst and most replaceable jobs which is
why they put up with ANYBODY!
BEING DESPERATE
THROUGH TEXT

Being desperate, needy and clingy through text is most men’s Achilles heel!
See, every time you double-text women who send you one-word responses
and try to keep a conversation going with someone who is showing you that
they aren't interested, every time you put your pride aside, every time you
lower your standards or compromise, you end up lowering your self-esteem
and dignity in the process.

If you are lowering your self-esteem, this makes you unattractive to the
next high quality women, or women in general that you meet because you
have made it a now habit to be such a desperate individual with low
standards that you will turn off every woman you text, because they won’t
be able to respect you because of the new desperate habits and
characteristics you're now displaying toward them.

Women can’t fall in love with a man they don't respect. So, every time you
want to be weak and not follow the rules set in place, think about what
you're doing to yourself because you watch what you do and everything
you do becomes your new habit. Having high self-esteem, dignity and
standards is what makes you EXTREMELY attractive!
WHEN TO ASK TO SEE HER

Now, after you've established character to her, and she sees you as valuable
because of the texting behaviors that you displayed—you'll know this by
how fast she's now responding to your messages (if she wasn't in the
beginning), how much effort she is putting into texting you and the
consistency of her being like that. So, if you see a change in her behavior
and she's been texting back fast and putting in effort for a couple of days
now, then it’s time to ask her when she is free to meet.

Now, if it’s a woman who, from the start, has been showing high interest in
you, then you ask her from the jump when she is free to meet up. Now I
recommend that when you try to set up a date to actually video chat or call
the woman and set up the date because that increases the chances of her
actually not standing you up and setting up the date. If when you ask her
when she’s free to meet up, and she says, "I'm never free," "I'm always
busy," or she never gives you a day, this woman is not interested. But don’t
be bitter about it. If this happens, just simply move on.

But never text a woman and try to set up a time to meet her in that same
day of texting her, UNLESS YOUVE ALREADY HAD SEX WITH THIS WOMAN
or you have already had a long great conversation with her in person! The
reason I say that is because you give a woman the opportunity to say “No,”
and when a woman rejects you, she starts to think that she doesn’t actually
like you on a subconscious level, because if she really liked you she
wouldn’t have said "no" to you.

That’s female psychology for you. You can tell a woman's interest level in
you by how often does she say “yes” to you, with in reason of course.
Overall, it’s safe to set up a date in advance. So make sure when you’re
setting up a date that the probability is low for her to say “no” to you. It’s
also important to know that women stand up men that they know will give
them another date, which is why they sleep with celebrities on the first
night because they know they might not ever get another chance. So, make
sure she knows that if she flakes that there is no second date, but make sure
you communicate that to her in a charismatic, charming way, don’t be an
asshole about it.
THE LAW OF ATTRACTION

When you EMOTIONALLY stop caring for any women to text you back, that is when
you will start to see women drastically text you back! To get to this on an emotional
level you have to train yourself ( I tell you how to do this later) until you feel like you
don't care if you ever hear from a woman again. The more you care and get bitter at
women not texting you back and wanting to get revenge, the more women are going
to react to you with not texting you back.

If you are into spiritual laws, this makes perfect sense, if you're not, then this is
foreign to you. What you put out into the universe on a emotional level repeatedly is
what you get back. You reap what you sow. So, suppose you emotionally keep letting
women make you mad and bitter. In that case, that is what you're going to keep
attracting in your life regarding women because of the energy you keep sending out
into the universe.

There's a reason why if your day was to start off bad and you put emotion into it, then
it'll end bad because that’s the energy you're putting out there and you're also super
focused now on bad things happening, regardless of whether good things happened
to you that day.

Women are more in tune with their spiritual side than men, and there’s a reason that
they can feel what’s wrong with a baby; on a "subconscious level", they can feel when
a baby is crying for food and they can feel your emotions as well, which is why it is
immensely important to be able to always control your emotions as a man! Only men
who are in control of their emotions have the most success in life and with women.
So, when you get left on seen or you don't receive a text back DON’T act on the urge to
be annoyed or bitter, make it a habit to have an "it is what it is" attitude. There is a
difference between not acting on emotion and holding emotion in, but just move on
and you will see the way women respond to you change drastically for the better.
Getting mad and giving a woman your emotions early on is no different than you
sending double texts to a woman you just met, even if you delete her. She doesn't
deserve an emotional reaction out of you.

As long as a woman knows that she got some level of emotion out of you or she’s on
your mind, she has the validation she wanted and she doesn't need to text you back
because all women want is your emotional and spiritual energy and that’s the
equivalent to sex to us, which is why it gives them the ego boost for them to leave
once they get that from.
CREATING TENSION

You have to always ask yourself when you're texting a woman, "Is what I'm
saying going to create tension or kill the tension?" Texting is nothing more
than a tool to create tension but you don't want to make the mistake of
creating too much tension. When you create too much tension you aren't
going to be able to maintain it, or get it any higher. Too much tension has to
be released. Whereas just enough tension can be built on, and you build on
that tension in a person. Autopilot texting like "wyd", "how was your day",
using emojis a lot, using phrases like LOL and asking way too many
questions are tension KILLERS, especially, if you were having a good texting
conversation.

Setting up a time in advance to see a woman right before the tension gets
way too high is the key. For example, let’s say you’re texting a woman and
y’all are talking about the type of movies y’all are into and she likes scary
movies, that would be the perfect opportunity to text something like, “I like
scary movies too. Matter of fact, we should watch one together sometime
when are you free?”

If a woman you're texting isn't trying to build tension with you or puts you
in a position where, if you respond to a certain text, it'll kill the tension then
you'll have to leave her on seen. You have to have the mindset that either
y’all are building tension or you are not texting at all, don't let a woman get
the chance to make you unattractive to her because she will try to out of
her own ignorance and lack of knowledge! I have to leave women on read a
lot because I know if I keep texting back and answering all her questions
it'll kill the tension and we wont see each other. Also know tension isn’t
always sexual, tension could just be getting her anxious and excited to meet
you in person.
NUDES

I know my book is titled "GET NUDES", but let's be honest bout something.
You want to have sex rather than get nudes, right? So, what is the point of
wanting nudes? To masturbate to them? I hope not! Or to show off to your
buddies? Once again, would you rather brag about sex or nudes? I'm sure
you picked sex. I've consulted with guys who told me they could always get
nudes from a woman but still couldn't see her in person, or even sleep with
them. The best way to get nudes is to take the picture of her in person, or
after you guys have had sex. Sometimes, they will even send them to you
randomly after sex. I'm not here to teach you guys how to get nudes. You
can’t have sex through text.
TRAINING YOURSELF

The truth behind why you're a horrible texter is because you care way too
much! If you were not to take anything else from my book and only took
this strategy that I'm about to tell you, you would automatically become an
elite texter. If you were to practice getting beautiful women's numbers and
then deleting their number after you got it until you stopped caring that
you deleted their number, your texting game would change forever. That is
because now that you can easily delete any woman's number, when you
text a woman you won't be clingy, desperate, walking on eggshells and not
knowing what to text her because you won't care to turn her off or even
delete her number if she’s not complying which is attractive behavior to
women.

Women will also be able to pick up on your "I don't care" energy
(unconsciously) that you're displaying through text and act accordingly. A
woman's game is to get you to care because if she can get you to care and be
emotional about her, this gives her leverage, security, and the strength to be
able to leave you if she wants to. This is what I had to do and I still
sometimes do it to keep my game sharp so I don't ever put a woman on a
pedestal and let my emotions control me over a pretty face and nice body.
Once you stop emotionally caring, women will care and you will be
AMAZED at how women will start to treat you right just by you making
sacrifices like deleting women.
TRAINING YOURSELF

The truth behind why you're a horrible texter is because you care way too
much! If you were not to take anything else from my book and only took
this strategy that I'm about to tell you, you would automatically become an
elite texter. If you were to practice getting beautiful women's numbers and
then deleting their number after you got it until you stopped caring that
you deleted their number, your texting game would change forever. That is
because now that you can easily delete any woman's number, when you
text a woman you won't be clingy, desperate, walking on eggshells and not
knowing what to text her because you won't care to turn her off or even
delete her number if she’s not complying which is attractive behavior to
women.

Women will also be able to pick up on your "I don't care" energy
(unconsciously) that you're displaying through text and act accordingly. A
woman's game is to get you to care because if she can get you to care and be
emotional about her, this gives her leverage, security, and the strength to be
able to leave you if she wants to. This is what I had to do and I still
sometimes do it to keep my game sharp so I don't ever put a woman on a
pedestal and let my emotions control me over a pretty face and nice body.
Once you stop emotionally caring, women will care and you will be
AMAZED at how women will start to treat you right just by you making
sacrifices like deleting women.

GRAMMAR

This should be common sense, but make sure you're rereading every text
you send because you don't want to sound stupid repeatedly. It's a turn off.
Also, have proper grammar. No immature texting like "u, luv, lol and wyd".
Spell your words out correctly. There’s nothing more embarrassing than
someone who can't write correctly.
THE QUESTIONS YOU
SHOULD ASK

LAST BUT NOT LEAST, YOU DO NOT, I REPEAT, YOU DO NOT ASK A
WOMAN ANY DEEP QUESTIONS UNTIL SHE KNOWS YOUR VALUE IS HIGH!
How you'll know that is by how fast she's texting and how much effort she
is putting into her responses to your text messages. I know i've said that
before but I have to drill it in your head.

A woman needs to feel like you're trying to get to know her, and the best
way to show that is by asking deep questions and letting her answer them.
She will feel like she has gotten to know you just by talking about herself.
The most charismatic people are people who let other people talk about
themselves.

If you are a guy who will touch anything because you are very thirsty,
asking questions won't work for you because men of value are immensely
picky with women and won't touch just anything, which is why they ask
women all these penetrating questions: to evaluate, or even qualify if they
even want the woman to begin with.

You should do the same but the average guy is too thirsty to care, which is
also why he cant get anything from a woman because he's in that thirsty
state of mind.

Wanting to know the answer to questions is how you find and attract high-
quality women. Here are some questions you can ask: "What’s your love
language?", "Are you still healing from Someone in the past?", "How often
do you get depressed?", "How long does it take for you to know if you like
someone?",

"What is a sign that you need space?" Don't ask too many questions. Save
the rest for the date, so you don't break the tension. You can also come up
with your own questions by going on Google and picking questions you
want to ask. These questions are also better asked on the phone. This part
can not be a strategy, you should want to know who you're dealing with in
any
situation.
CONCLUSION

To get what you want out of dating, you have to follow these tips, tricks and
rules. If you happen to not be disciplined and not follow the rules, there will
be consequences, but if you follow it to a tee, you will reap the benefits. Not
everything I said here will resonate with you, so study the gems that did
resonate with you! Do not read this ebook only once. You will have to read
it many times until the book becomes you. YOU NEVER LEARNED
ANYTHING BY HEARING IT ONCE,

Thanks for reading! Make sure you follow me on all my social media
platforms for more elite-level game other than texting!

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