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Pathological Grief: Diagnosis and Explanation VeM#i** ^


MARDI J. HOROWITZ, MD, GEORGE A. BONANNO, PHD, AND ARE HOLEN, MD

Pathological grief deserves a place in the diagnostic nomenclature. Because posttraumatic stress disorder
requires an event beyond the range of usual experience and bereavement is virtually a universal experience,
a new diagnosis of signs and symptoms precipitated by a loss event is needed. Many varieties of pathological
grief have been noted in clinical research studies, and multiple diagnoses of pathological grief would make
research difficult. The authors advance a solution in a personality-based explanation of abnormal responses
to loss events; this allows for a single diagnosis of pathological grief.
The authors also present a predictive model to partially explain pathological grief by antecedent trait
combinations. The hypothesis is that persons with a preloss combination of both contradictions in relational
schemas about the deceased and tendencies toward excessive control to stifle unwanted affect will tend to
have unsuccessful processes of mourning. Types of contradictions and overcontrol may vary, yielding
personality-based varieties of response within a single diagnostic category.
Key words: bereavement, diagnosis, emotion, grief, schema.

The addition of posttraumatic stress disorder considering certain personality-based explanations


(PTSD) to the diagnostic nomenclature was an ad- of symptom formation, a single set of criteria can be
vance in the study of stress response syndromes (1). developed, and a single diagnostic category
Although the PTSD diagnosis facilitated research on achieved. Specifically, we address personality in
the consequences of unusual and catastrophic stres- terms of enduring but contradictory internalized
sors such as war and disasters, there are still clinical views or schemas of self as related to other, as well
and research problems in trying to understand mal- as habitual styles of defensive overcontrol that pre-
adaptive responses to loss. One root cause is DSM- vent resolution of such contradictions.
III's criterion that the stressor event be "outside the
range of usual human experience." Bereavement is
part of the usual range of human experience. None-
theless, it may be shockingly stressful for the person BACKGROUND
who sustains the full impact of the loss. Responses
PTSD became a part of the descriptive categories
may include intrusion and denial symptoms of
of DSM-III in 1980 and was grouped as an Anxiety
PTSD. To allow better recognition of psychopathol-
Disorder. The reason for such a grouping was to
ogy precipitated by loss, we suggest the establish-
maintain coherence of prominent symptoms. People
ment of a pathological grief disorder diagnosis or with PTSD often report symptoms of intrusive and
modification of the PTSD stressor criteria to include anxiety-provoking ideas, worry over loss of control,
bereavement as a stressor that can incite a disorder new phobias plus fear of repetition of the traumatic
in predisposed persons. event, chronic tension, and hypervigilance (3, 4).
In discussions on how to form DSM-IV, several The symptoms of intrusion may co-occur with their
theorists, such as Beverly Raphael and her col- seeming opposites: symptoms of denial, disavowal,
leagues, have suggested diagnoses of multiple cate- avoidance, blunting, and numbing. These extreme
gories of pathological grief (2). Multiple categories deflections to "too much" and "too little" conscious
would complicate nosology and make research more experience themselves may occur simultaneously
complex. In this paper, we take the position that by or may show a sequence of phases (Figure 1). The
phases can also be defined by specifying the event
criterion as a bereavement, leading to a differentia-
tion of normal and pathological grief that is pre-
From the Langley Porter Psychiatric Institute, University of sented in Table 1.
California, San Francisco. Some people do not have intrusions and periods
Address reprint requests to: Mardi J. Horowitz, M.D., UCSF, of numbness during their response to serious life
Langley Porter Psychiatric Institute, Center for the Study of stressors, and many people who do have these ex-
Neuroses, 401 Parnassus Avenue, Box 37-B, San Francisco, CA
94143.
periences have them at the same time rather than
Received for publication August 5, 1992; revision received in phasic sequences. In addition, people who com-
November 17, 1992 plain of grief and seek professional help often do so

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Intense and prolonged


experiences may become
symptomatic as follows:

WORKING
THROUGH
Facing the reality of

Fig. 1. Phases of response after stressor life events. From Horowitz M): Stress Response Syndromes, 2nd Edition. North vale, N], Jason
Aronson, 1986.

not only because of intense symptoms but also be- A pathological stress response can take several
cause they recognize an undue prolongation and forms. There are psychological perturbations, as in
lack of progression in their personal responses to the persons who have continuing distortions in thought
stressor event. A model of normal to pathological and mood. There can be deflections from ordinary
stress responses that includes such observations is conscious experience into states in which there are
presented in Table 2. It shows (a) resilient responses either intrusive ideas and feelings or omissions of
during stress without postevent perturbations, (b) a expectable ideas and feelings. There are also pro-
normal period of stress-event-induced perturbation longed states in which inhibitions so reduce mental
that does not warrant diagnostic labeling, and (c) a expressions that the processing of stressful events is
pathological stress response with impaired func- not completed. Nonconscious processing (or ephem-
tional capacity and prolonged experience of disturb- eral moments of consciousness that are not contin-
ances. ued or remembered) may occur, leading to sharp

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TABLE 1. Normal and Pathological Grief*


Phases of Reaction Normal Response Pathological Intensification
Outcry Outcry of emotions with Panic; dissociative reactions;
news of the death and reactive psychoses.
turning for help to others
or isolating self with self-
succoring.
Denial Avoidance of reminders, so- Maladaptive avoidances of
cial withdrawal, focusing confronting the implica-
elsewhere, emotional tions of the death. Drug
numbing, not thinking of or alcohol abuse, counter-
implications to self of cer- phobic frenzy, promiscu-
tain themes. ity, fugue states, phobic
avoidance, feeling dead
or unreal.
Intrusion Intrusive experiences in- Flooding with negative im-
cluding recollections of ages and emotions, un-
negative relationship ex- controlled ideation, self-
periences with the de- impairing compulsive
ceased, bad dreams, re- reenactments, night ter-
duced concentration, rors, recurrent night-
compulsive enactments. mares, distraught from in-
trusion of anger, anxiety,
despair, shame or guilt
themes, physiological ex-
haustion from hypera-
rousal.
Working through Recollection of the de- Sense that one cannot inte-
ceased and contempla- grate the death with a
tions of self with reduced sense of self and contin-
intrusiveness of memories ued life. Persistent
and fantasies, increased warded off themes may
rational acceptance, re- manifest as anxious, de-
duced numbness and pressed, enraged, shame-
avoidance, more "dosing" filled or guilty moods, and
of recollections and a P5ychophysiological syn-
sense of working it dromes.
through.
Completion Reduction in emotional Failure to complete mourn-
swings with a sense of self ing may be associated
coherence and readiness with inability to work,
for new relationships. create, to feel emotion or
Able to experience posi- positive states of mind. In
tive states of mind. extreme cases, persisting
delusions or bizarre ideas
may occur.
* From Horowitz M), Stinson CH, Fridhandler B, et al: Pathological grief: An intensive case study. Psychiatry, in press.

and unexpected pangs of emotion. These pangs of reactions can also include social perturbations.
emotion have physical sensory components result- Some persons may be stigmatized by loss, others
ing from increased levels of autonomic nervous sys- may destroy available social support systems and
tem activation, neurotransmitters, and stress hor- not resume social responsibilities.
mones. Chronic high levels of stress hormones may How a person reacts to a stressor will depend on
produce physiological and immune system changes the nature of the event, its place in relation to
and even lead to enduring structural change in vul- cascades of other events, and its social and physical
nerable organ systems. For that reason unresolved environmental contexts. How a person reacts will
grief may be reflected in bodily perturbations from also depend on how the event and context interact
a variety of psychophysiological and psychosomatic with the person's preexisting personality structure
symptomatologies, perhaps exacerbating preexisting and style(s) of coping. Personality will affect the type
conditions. The enduring effects of unresolved grief of experiences formed, the duration of each phase

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of response, and whether or not adaptive completion TABLE 2. Types of Response to Stressor Events
of a mourning process is achieved. Resilient Normal Stress
Pathological
Certain personality characteristics might make Time
Response Response
Stress
subjects respond with turbulent emotions; other per- Response
sonality characteristics might make subjects re- Before event Equilibrium Equilibrium Equilibrium
spond by stifling emotional responses. Conse- (or pre-
event tur-
quently, which phase of stress response led to symp- bulence)
toms (and so presentation for diagnosis) might vary, During event Emotional Outcry Prolonged or
depending on the personality features of subjects. perturba- too intense
These personality differences can be individually tion outcry
formulated in clinical work and eventually might After event Equilibrium Denial phase Excessive and
be included in a multiaxis diagnosis, as Axis II of prolonged
denial,
DSM-III-R is improved into better defined, empiri- repression,
cally derived, and reliably assessed typologies or dissocia-
prototypes. tion
Intrusion Excessive and
phase prolonged
intrusion
and flood-
PERSONALITY FACTORS

era
Combined Combined
How They May Affect Successful or denial and denial and
Unsuccessful Processes of Mourning intrusion, a intrusion
working without re-
No generally agreed upon classification of person- through duction
ality has yet been achieved in psychology, and the phase with over time
psychiatric classification of disorders of personality reduced
denial and
has yet to achieve highly reliable descriptive cate- intrusion
gorization. Nonetheless, clinical research on normal Equilibrium Reschema-
and abnormal responses to stressor life events such tization
as loss do indicate that the inciting changes do not into a path-
fall on a blank slate but, rather, on an internalized, ological
equilibrium
enduring, and slowly changing knowledge structure. (e.g., char-
Bereavement activates the generalized meanings acter dis-
pertaining to the relationship between self and the tortion)
lost other, object, or function in life. Bereavement
itself casts aspects of personality into a bolder man-
ifestation so that features of personality may be
rendered more recognizable. Among the features so indicated the higher prevalence of rage, and defen-
highlighted are derivatives of the subject's schema- ses against rage leading to somatic changes, in the
tizations of self and others, as well as habitual styles ambivalence and guilt themes that tended to occur
of how the subject handles emotional tendencies, more frequently in pathological than in normal grief
especially how he or she tends to express or stifle reactions. Others indicated the importance of unre-
strong negative affects. Understanding such aspects solved dependency themes in uneasy schemas of
of personality, especially in combinations, can help attachment as more prevalent in persons clinically
us consider the utility of a single diagnosis of path- found to have pathological grief reactions (9-12).
ological grief, even though various typologies of Such variations in configurations before the loss
grieving will be found even within such a diagnostic could lead to variations after the loss, which is why
"umbrella," and can help us understand the differ- some have suggested different types of pathological
ence between successful and unsuccessful mourn- grief (2). The variety of antecedent meaning struc-
ing processes as well as the outcome of such proc- tures about a relationship can be understood, in part,
esses in terms of states of normal or pathological by considering these meaning structures as person
grief. schemas.
Freud (5) emphasized issues of ambivalence and Person schemas generalize, organize, and retain a
guilt in pathological, as differentiated from normal, great deal of information about the relative roles and
grief. Lindemann (6), Deutsch (7), and Klein (8) also attributes of self and others, and plans for how

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Ordinary Relations News of Death


EVENTS With Other of Other

CURRENT
WORKING MODEL Mutuality t Help
OF RELATIONSHIP
Other Harmed
Other

ENDURING
SCHEMA OF
RELATIONSHIP

ACCORD OF WORKING
AND ENDURING SCHEMAS Mismatch

EMOTIONAL SYSTEMS Alarming Rate


Equilibrium
of Arousal

STATES OF MIND Calm Fearful Outcry

Fig. 2. Modeling a state shift from calm to alarm. From Horowitz MJ. Person schemas. In Horowitz MJ, (ed), Person Schemas and
Maladaptive Interpersonal Patterns. Chicago, University of Chicago Press, 1991.

interactions might occur in sequences (13-20). expected schemas do not accord with new realities.
Mourning is an evolutionary success story: it takes Take for example a period early in bereavement, as
such schemas of the relationship with the deceased shown in Figure 2. Before the news of the death, a
and modifies or reschematizes them so one can go subject would feel calm even when apart from the
on living with zest and meaning in spite of the loss, loved one. The current belief, or the current working
although there is a period of painful transition (21). model of the relationship, to use Bowlby's term, is
Attachment bonds are not "forgotten;" the relation- one of being in an enduring mutual relationship that
ship lives on in the mind, but habitual procedures accords with the enduring relationship schemas.
of living are modified to accord to new realities and After news of the other's death, the current working
even new opportunities through the process of re- model no longer accords with the enduring schema.
schematization (22-28). The result is a pang of powerful and negative emo-
Extreme emotions may occur during the resche- tion. Often, as also shown in Figure 2, the current
matization process, especially during the outcry and model may not fully accord with external reality.
intrusive phases of grief if these are experienced. The deceased may be modeled as harmed and des-
The denial, numbing, and avoidant phases are in perately in need of help. Outcries of fear, helpless
part an effort to ward off these strong feelings. The excitement, and despair'may result from the sud-
emotional responses are due to the social loss in real denly recognized discrepancies between the current
situations, and to internal or mental assessments of working model, as derived from the news of death,
the meanings of the loss both to the self and to other and the as yet unchanged enduring schema of the
loved ones. In addition, some important aspects of relationship. Persistence of the schema of the other
the emotionality that occurs have to do with the as alive can lead to the prolonged and erroneous
differences between internalized knowledge struc- belief that the deceased will return (29), as well as
ture and external realities, the mismatches between to a continued and episodic sense of the presence of
existing but now outmoded schemas and the actual the deceased (28-30).
perceptions found in real contexts. Let us repeat for clarity how person schemas relate
Alarm emotions may occur when enduring and to grief emotions. A bereaved person's cognitive-

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EVENTS Empty Situations Empty Situations

CURRENT
WORKING MODEL Need
OF RELATIONSHIP
Absent Absent
Other Other

ENDURING
SCHEMA OF
RELATIONSHIP
Absent
Other

ACCORD OF WORKING
AND ENDURING SCHEMAS Mismatch Match

EMOTIONAL SYSTEMS Alarming Rate Equilibrium


of Arousal

STATES OF MIND Poignant Sadness or


Agitated Sadness Resignation

Fig. 3. Reduction of Alarm states with development of schema of others as lost. From Horowitz MJ: Person schemas. In Horowitz MJ,
(ed), Person Schemas and Maladaptive Interpersonal Patterns. Chicago, University of Chicago Press, 1991.

emotional state changes sharply with the news of indicates to the bereaved person a progress in
the death of the loved one. Often the other is viewed mourning. This simplified model of working through
as if harmed rather than dead. The emotional re- and reschematization is shown in Figure 3.
sponse is intense and there may be considerable The revision of existing schematic structures re-
agitation related to helplessness. As mentioned, quires both some awareness of the inability of pre-
there are alarm emotions, the sharp surges of inter- viously held knowledge structures to account for
rupting affect, that occur when enduring schemas new information, and time to develop new meaning
do not match well with current working cognitive structures. Yet we often avoid repetitions of such
models of what is happening "now." There is a rapid awareness and cling to existing beliefs even in the
increase in arousal resulting in the outcry phases as face of obvious incongruities (18, 31). This is largely
indicated in Figure 1 and Table 1. Various types of a product of the important role played by schemas
arousal activate different brain areas and functions. in most aspects of our daily lives. We rely on these
Different types of peripheral autonomic nervous sys- condensed knowledge structures to maintain a sense
tem, endocrine, and immune system responses re- of the world as safe and predictable (32). Periods of
sult. These lead to bodily sensations and changes, change in these knowledge structures, above and
and hence to social as well as individual psycholog- beyond all the searing pain of the loss itself, make
ical appraisals and reactions to bodily changes. the world and the emotional self feel less in control.
Worry for the self as well as the other may occur as Alarm reactions are themselves anxiety provok-
a response to perceived bodily changes. ing, leading to secondary pathological effects, and,
After a time, repetitions of the fact that the other speculatively, physical ones. Alarm reactions in-
is lost forge a schematization of the self, longing for clude the intense bodily responses that lead to strong
and needing but not finding the other. Gradually, physical sensations such as startle-induced muscu-
upon reminders of the loss, this tendency to enter lar contractions, palpitations, or gastrointestinal
states of agitated sadness becomes a tendency to spasms. The autonomic nervous system physiology
have states of poignant sadness and resignation. This is associated with emotional pangs in a way that is
shift in the emotional intensity of alarm reactions probably extensive but this has never been fully

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worked out. The repetition of many alarm reactions especially powerful and distressing pangs of emo-
could have psychosomatic consequences from com- tion.
plex combinations of peripheral neurological, en- The representation of an ambivalent relationship,
docrine, and immunological system responses to al- then, should prove to be even less flexible in accom-
terations in the brain. There are probably cycles modating to the loss of the other. Consistent with
involving cortisone-releasing hormone (CRH), this hypothesis, ambivalent feelings toward the de-
ACTH, cortisol, and epinephrine, with feedback ceased (psychological dependency, guilt, anger) have
loops through blood circulation back to the activity been cited as a major factor in pathological grief
of cells in the hypothalamus, limbic system, and reactions (26, 28, 30). Yet, although ambivalent rep-
temporal lobe cortex. These feedback loops may resentations will be perhaps more difficult to rec-
readjust levels of CRH and similar substances. Con- oncile, the presence of ambivalence alone would not
stant repetition of pangs could prevent CRH reduc- necessarily prohibit reassessment and revision of
tion and so inhibit reciprocally the production of schematic representations. As already mentioned,
restorative hormones such as growth hormones. The we propose that the reconciliation of unresolved or
enduring structure of these interactive systems conflicted representations of the deceased will be
could be affected. more difficult for individuals who habitually avoid
painful topics, and contrary thoughts and emotions
The process of psychological reschematization can that feel alarming and difficult to control. Such
reduce emotional pangs, but it is usually slow. individuals would be less able to identify contradic-
Mourning takes months or years rather than days. tory beliefs and, consequently, less able to adjust
Schemas developed and maintained over long pe- their expectations of life, explore new behaviors, or
riods of time facilitate information processing by to find new meanings.
becoming relatively "automated" and by operating
outside of conscious awareness (33, 34). By virtue of
their repeated activation, however, long-held sche-
matic representations tend to assimilate rather than Anxiety and Cognitive Avoidance
accommodate (35) new information. They are, thus,
less easily revised and up-dated and, in some cases, Consider the experience of excessive anxiety, a
may be adhered to rigidly (18, 31]. The schematic common feature of bereavement, particularly in the
representations of marital partners and members of early months following the loss. The death of a
the nuclear family generally exemplify such auto- spouse or important family member can often instill
mated knowledge structures. in the survivor a profound sense of "aloneness"
accompanied by marked insecurities as well as re-
The person's ability to revise schematic represen- alistic fears, such as those related to financial hard-
tations during mourning depends to some extent ship (39). A portion of any bereaved sample, how-
upon the degree of ambivalence or schematic con- ever, will tend to exhibit more severe anxiety states.
tradiction in that person's relationship to the de- These individuals also tend to evidence a previous
ceased prior to the loss. The official glossary of history of anxious states of mind (25, 40). Thus,
psychoanalytic terms (36) defines ambivalence as individuals prone to the chronic experience of anx-
"the simultaneous existence of opposite feelings, iety are mostly likely to exhibit excessive anxiety
attitudes, and tendencies toward another person, during bereavement.
thing, or situation." Ambivalence is virtually uni- Chronically anxious individuals in a variety of
versal; it is noteworthy as a clinical phenomenon populations have been associated with "cognitive
only when contradictory feelings or tendencies be- avoidance" (41)—the avoidance of extended or pro-
come so strong that they cannot be integrated (15, longed processing of threatening information (42,
37) or when they are experienced as intolerable (38). 43). The individuals prone to experience excessive
In the language of schema theory, a highly ambiva- anxiety during grief, then, could also be expected to
lent relationship would indicate a preexisting state avoid contemplation of the emotional implications
in which one organized set of beliefs is not readily of the loss to the self. They should be less able to
accommodated to another related body of informa- process the meaning of the loss and, as we are
tion. Contradictory and nonintegrated relational proposing, should tend to exhibit more severe grief
schemas would exist. The mourning process is one reactions. A number of studies have demonstrated
of review of a relationship and would activate these the concordance of excessive anxiety with severe
contradictory schemas. When very discrepant sche- (31, 32) or prolonged (44, 45) grief responses. In
mas were activated, the mismatch would lead to addition, consistent with our proposal, the data from

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several studies has shown a relationship between duced conscious experience (or reports of) anxiety
excessive anxiety, severe grief, and the inability to demonstrated with repressors has been understood
reconcile and review the representations of the de- in terms of each type of person's habitual style of
ceased (45, 46). regulating attention and so the nature of their on-
going conscious awareness (61, 65, 66). The role
played by attention in self-regulation is sometimes
viewed on a continuum from an internal focus to-
Avoidant Personality Styles ward the self to an external focus toward the envi-
Avoidant information processing has also been ronment (61, 67, 68). The focus of attention inwardly
assessed as a habitual "coping" style in a variety of intensifies negative-affective states (e.g., 69, 70) and
normal personality dimensions. While personality is leads to an increase in the activation of self-relevant
often cited as a likely predictor of grief outcome, information derived from schemas of self (e.g., 71,
these dimensions have not been investigated in be- 72). Although self-focused attention is considered an
reavement research. One such group that might essential element of normal self-regulatory proc-
have difficulty adjusting to a loss are individuals esses (61, 68, 71), it is actively avoided when, for
identified by questionnaire as "information blun- example, it would lead to a negative emotional state
ters" (47, 48). In one study blunters and their coun- because the dominant current self schema is dis-
terparts, information monitors, were confronted crepant from a desired self schema and a wished for
with low probability electric shocks and given the state (73), or when responsive emotions become ex-
choice of listening to an information channel about cessive and intolerable (74). These conditions hold
the shocks of distracting themselves with music. an obvious similarity to the features of the mourning
Blunters spent more time listening to the music process described on the preceding pages.
channel (48). In a study of combat-related PTSD (49), The experience of anxiety has long been associ-
blunters responded in a manner similar to chroni- ated with excessive self-focused attention (61, 68,
cally anxious individuals. They self-reported more 71, 75-77). Self-focused attention appears to mani-
symptoms and greater problems in social function- fest in anxious individuals as a "priming" toward
ing, and had higher levels of intrusions and avoid- the perception of anxiety-related information (78-
ance on the Impact of Event Scale (50). 80). Such an anxiety-related "vigilance" seems to
A different group of individuals identified by further heighten arousal which, in turn, leads anx-
questionnaire and associated with avoidant infor- ious individuals to inhibit any further processing of
mation processing have been labeled "repressors" the threatening information (41, 81).
(51). Repressors comprise about 20 to 25% of a nor- We propose that these same processes are opera-
mal population and have been the object of consid- tive in pathologically grieved individuals when they
erable study (52-54). They consistently exhibit the experience excessive anxiety or other negative-sig-
behavioral signs of avoidance (51, 55) and demon- nal affects. The characteristic "vigilance" to threat
strate poor memory for emotional events (56-58). has been observed in overly anxious, bereaved in-
Yet, the repressor and information blunter measures dividuals (40). The resulting arousal-vigilance se-
appear to assess different personality dimensions quence should then minimize any prolonged self-
(59, 60). Furthermore, repressors differ from chron- reflection and exacerbate symptoms. Accordingly, it
ically anxious individuals in that they appear to is not surprising that acute-anxiety states early in
avoid the "experience" of anxiety (61). Individuals bereavement predict prolonged anxiety at later
suffering from anxiety disorders report elevated stages (39, 40).
anxiety and exhibit heightened physiological Repressors, on the other hand, have been associ-
arousal in response to stressful laboratory situations ated with the opposite of self-focused attention, what
(41, 62). Repressors also exhibit heightened arousal Bonanno and Singer (61) have referred to as "percep-
in response to laboratory-induced threat but, in con- tual cognition"—a lessened self-consciousness, ac-
trast to anxious individuals, they do not report a companied by a global and superficial attention to
corresponding increase in anxiety (51, 63, 64). the external environment which is easily and fre-
quently shifted from one object to another. Such a
minimization or absence of self-focused attention
should result in a lessened experience of negative
Attention and Control Processes affect and less accessible self-schema. Consistent
The difference between the cognitive avoidance with this line of theory, it is not surprising that
utilized by many anxious individuals and the re- repressors do not show the selective vigilance to

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EXTERNAL STRUCTURES CONSCIOUS


SITUATION AND PROCESSES EXPERIENCES

Internal working model- Well being


of external situation
matches schemas of
self and other(s)

i Emotional alarms
Internal working model

ii
of new external
situation does not
match schemas of self
and other(s) ]_

I Regulation
I
L
I
to
modulate emotion
nIi
I i
I
| Supports ) » Reassesses situation Emotional-relational
' '< to revise schemas efforts at restoration;
trial and practice of
new behaviors and
recognitions; possible
turbulence requiring
endurance and hope

Modified repertoire of Well being (completion


schemas of self and of normal grief)
other(s) matches new
external situation and
opportunities

Fig. 4. Successful mourning.

negative stimuli typically exhibited in anxiety states the life of the self after the loss. The more contra-
(55, 82). Repressors also distract themselves more dictions, the more turbulent the emotionality during
readily than do other individuals (55) and appear to such processing. There would be different types of
more efficiently dissociate the experience of exces- emotionality and different ideational preoccupa-
sive arousal or unpleasant feelings (63, 64). tions depending on the different aspects of contra-
Given these characteristics, bereaved repressors dictions and qualities of ambivalence. At the same
would not be likely to exhibit anxiety-related symp- time persons would vary in how they habitually
toms during the initial phases of grief. It is possible used processes of control to reduce emotionality.
that they may be especially prone, however, to the There would be different styles of overcontrolling
later development of symptoms, or "delayed grief" emotionality, that is, different ways of reducing neg-
(26, 28, 30, 46). Repressors could also be expected to ative emotional states of mind to such an extent that
exhibit signs of strong grief reactions indirectly as, reschematization opportunities are impaired by ex-
for example, psychosomatic complaints or night- cessive avoidance of processing the ideas and feel-
mares, and to exhibit avoidant or escapist imagery. ings that would lead to the reschematization. Nei-
To recapitulate, we have suggested that persons ther factor alone would lead to pathological grief,
may have many different types of person schemas but contradictions (of any kind) and overcontrol (of
for organizing belief and behaviors in relation to the any kind) in combination would yield such an un-
deceased, and the self as related to the deceased. successful mourning process that pathological out-
People with many contradictions and discrepancies comes and prolongations would occur.
within these person schemas or internalized object This theory is given graphic form in Figures 4 and
relationships would be more likely to have strong 5, and provides an explanatory basis for how path-
negative emotions while processing and reschema- ological grief might contain different patterns of
tizing all the implications surrounding the loss and ideational, emotional, and behavioral content, and

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EXTERNAL STRUCTURES CONSCIOUS


SITUATION AND PROCESSES EXPERIENCES

Internal working — Approach-avoid


models of external dilemmas, problems in
situations are unstable relating, and contusions
due to contradictory or contradictions in
schemes of serf and feelings
other(s)

Internal working model Emotional alarms,


of new external severe moods, frozen
situation does not states
match schemas of self
and others; activation
of latent contradictory
schemas I

Overcontrol
to avoid dreaded
emotional states

{ Inhibited or distorted — Compulsive repetitions


I information processing and negative emotional
• prevents reassessments recognition that
I of situations and behaviors are
modification of schemas inappropriate,
(and walls off support) excessive numbing or
flooding of emotion

Repertoire of schemas
remains contradictory - More severe dilemmas,
and does not match symptoms, problems, or
new external situation extreme avoidances
and opportunities (pathological grief)

Fig. 5. Unsuccessful mourning.

yet have a common enough form that a single diag- person. The loss may be of a body part, a bodily
nostic entity could be defined for nosological and function, or even one's personal status, position, or
research purposes. possessions. Unlike the stressor in PTSD, such a loss
does not have to be out of the ordinary range of
experience. On the contrary, at some point in life,
losses of this kind are likely to happen to everyone.
DIAGNOSIS OF PATHOLOGICAL GRIEF Beyond the stressor event criterion, the criteria
for the diagnosis of pathological grief encompass
The polythetic criteria of DSM-III-R makes it pos- three categories of symptom-related features: intru-
sible and reasonable to include different expressions sions, avoidance, and dysfunctional adaption. These
of psychopathology which share common features criteria are shown in Table 3. Intrusions include
within the same diagnostic entity. In addition, from recurring, unbidden, and uncontrollable conscious
a research point of view, a single diagnostic catego- experiences, such as haunting thoughts and hard to
rization of pathological grief offers methodological dispel images, including memories, images, dreams,
advantages over any more complex set of typologies and most especially nightmares.
such as acute, chronic, delayed, or stifled grief. Pop- A difference between traumatic reactions to ac-
ulation samples can be smaller if there is one rather cidents, disasters, or violence and pathological grief
than many entities to consider. may be found in the manner in which the intrusions
As in PTSD, the first criterion for such a diagnosis are experienced. Individuals suffering from PTSD
is the evocative event—the loss of an object or a may feel out of control because they cannot avoid
function that for the person has had an enduring images that repeat the traumatic perceptions; these
importance as an "attachment" of the self. The loss represent a kind of hypermnesia or an excessive
may be of a spouse, a child, or another significant activity of memory. Similar intrusions may occur in

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TABLE 3. Diagnostic Criteria for Pathological Grief flated by idealized fantasies or selective forgetting
Criteria Description of negative features. In such instances the giving up
A. Stressor Loss of a significant other of the lost object usually is associated with strong
B. Intrusion 1. Occurrence of distressing, intrusive images, and overwhelming emotions, and may for this rea-
ideas, memories, recurrent dreams, or night- son be avoided. Such manifestations would appear
mares; the mind is flooded with emotions to reflect the combination of contradictory sche-
without a sense of reduction in intensity. matic representations and the overcontrol of emo-
2. Illusions or pseudohallucinations. The mind
is "haunted" by a sense of presence of the
tional experience discussed earlier.
deceased without a sense of reduction in The maladaptive component of this phenomenon
intensity. is manifest in the inability to make decisions in
C. Denial 1. Maladaptive reduction in or avoidance of accord with the here-and-now reality. Pangs of fear,
contemplation in thought, communication,
or actions of some important topics related
sorrow, rage, shame, or guilt may emerge. The per-
to the loss. son constantly feels close to loss of control; intense
2. Having an implicit relationship for more than motoric emotional responses and startle reactions
6 months with the deceased as if alive; keep- are easily triggered by any factual or symbolic re-
ing the belongings of the deceased exactly minder of the deceased.
or completely as before.
D. Failure to adapt 1. Inability to resume work or responsibilities A variety of escape-from-death images, illusions
at home beyond 1 month after the loss. and pseudohallucinations, may be entrenched in
2. Barriers to forming new relationships be- socially accepted and promoted systems related to
yond 13 months after the loss. death issues. These include ideas of reincarnation,
3. Exhaustion, excessive fatigue, or somatic communication with the spirit world, and the prom-
symptoms having a direct temporal relation
to the loss event and persisting beyond 1
ise of life after death. When and if these notions are
month after the loss. spiritual beliefs and acts of faith, they are beyond
* General rule for the diagnosis of pathological grief: The person
the scope of diagnosis. No established belief system,
must meet criterion A, and in addition needs to display at least one irrational as it appears, can be a criterion of a dis-
manifestation within all of the classes from B to D. It also is possible order. In order to assess the avoidant criterion for a
to diagnose pathological grief if only one of the criteria from B to pathological grief diagnosis, functional impairment
D is present to a highly maladaptive degree. must be assessed in relation to shared beliefs held
by a surrounding group of affiliated individuals or
social network. For a diagnosis to be made there
pathological grief response. Yet a considerable por- must be functional impairment in addition to irra-
tion, of the intrusions may arise in relation to mem- tional beliefs or intrusive images.
ories or images that serve as essentially positive and Cultural schemas and social belief systems for
temporarily comforting portrayals of the deceased how a person is to behave in bereavement will relate
as still alive. Such ephemeral comforts result, how- to the question of whether or not a functional im-
ever, in a repeated intrusive realization of the void pairment is present. In some cultural contexts, for
or absence of the lost object and constitute a painful example, widows or widowers may be expected to
reminder of the present that is devoid of the lost remain celibate and to avoid the experience of a
object. There is a 'trauma of contrast' between what new love. In most western cultures, by contrast,
was and what is. The survivor is tormented by mourning is viewed as a relatively brief, finite phase
exposure to the present now schematized to consist of experience with a completion. After the mourning
of an excruciating emptiness and in sharp contrast period, the person is expected to resume relating to
with the absorptions in 'good' memories of the past. others in a normal manner. If a bereaved person's
A further distinction of pathological grief reac- experience is dominated by rigid social beliefs about
tions from the experience of shock-induced PTSD is the mourning process, there may be a failure to
that some pathologically grieving individuals prefer adequately comprehend the personal meaning of the
by choice to indulge tenaciously in the 'good' mem- loss and to revise the schematized representations
ories or images of the past over such an extended of self with intimate others.
period of time that it becomes an obstacle to their A premature attempt to replace the lost person
reorientation in life. Despite the untoward conse- may lead to perplexed and awkward states of mind.
quences, such an avoidant dwelling on the past may If the person has not yet revised their role-relation-
be experienced as an appealing relief and a comfort ship models to accommodate anyone other than the
and as a solitary source of gratification. deceased, they may experience uneasiness, intense
Positive memories of the deceased are often in- guilt, or even panic (15, 21). The confusion engen-

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dered by a "new" social obligation to a new other of those used for a diagnosis of Major Depressive
may also motivate avoidant or escapist coping mech- Disorder. In a study now underway, analysis of some
anisms. of the early subjects has shown a high level of
In pathological grief, avoidance may also manifest interrater reliability for the diagnosis of pathological
behaviorally in the form of staying away from places grief by criterion as shown in Table 3. Preliminary
or people that are reminders of the deceased. An diagnosis of this sample shows that there are persons
enduring dissociated state of mind, with elements of who, after a spousal bereavement, have signs and
depersonalization or derealization may be observed. symptoms that warrant the diagnosis of major de-
Avoidance may also be expressed through indulg- pressive disorder without other Axis I diagnoses,
ence in excessive activity, or hypomania. other subjects who warrant the diagnosis of both
Prolonged dysfunctional or maladaptive behavior major depressive disorder and pathological grief,
will be evident in an individual's relationship to and subjects who do not have the symptoms that
work, in the general manner in which responsibili- would warrant a diagnosis of major depressive dis-
ties are carried out, and in social relationships. In order but who do warrant the diagnosis of patholog-
the work sphere the person may have a curtailed ical grief. The proportion of subjects found in all
ability to complete projects, to concentrate, or main- three categories indicates the need for an additional
tain a daily routine. Like PTSD patients, pathological diagnosis.
grief cases occasionally have a dismaying sense of a Because of the criteria in the diagnosis of posttrau-
foreshortened future. More common is the feeling of matic stress disorder, many persons who have per-
being on hold. In the social realm, pathologically sisting intrusive and denial-numbing-type symp-
grieving individuals appear to be unable to give as toms without the signs and symptoms of major de-
much as before to children, relatives, or close pressive disorder after a loss are given a diagnosis of
friends. More clearly pronounced are the problems adjustment disorder, possibly only within the time
reflected in the ability to approach to a new intimate frame of 6 months. Unfortunately adjustment dis-
relationship. order is a time-limited and diffuse entity, inadequate
Once formed, the person may encounter substan- to problems of either research or clinical work. One
tial problems in maintaining or deepening the new alternative possibility to our suggestion of a patho-
relationship out of guilt toward the deceased. Guilt logical grief diagnosis would be to modify the stres-
is sometimes especially prominent when the person sor event criterion of the posttraumatic stress dis-
discovers new qualities or joys in a relationship orders to continue emphasizing the intrusive and
compared with the previous relationship with the denial-type symptoms as found in DSM-III-R as well
deceased. as to add some proposed diagnostic criterion for
pathological grief in Table 3.
This paper is based on research supported by the
Differential Diagnosis John D. and Catherine T. MacArthur Foundation's
Pathological grief can be diagnosed by a set of Health Program through funding of its Program on
separate and distinct criteria that are independent Conscious and Unconscious Mental Processes.

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