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COURT, LUCKNOW
.. Petitioner.
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..Respondent.
15. That after the marriage when the Petitioner was expecting a
welcoming attitude from her in laws and other family members
of the Respondent, it came as a shock to the Petitioner that
instead of being welcoming the Respondent and his family
members started harassing the Petitioner, the mother and
father of the Respondent started taunting the Petitioner by
saying, ‘‘marriage arrangements were not as they had
imagined” and “Gaon mein log dahej dekhte hain aur tumhare
mata pita ne to tumhe khali haath bhej diya hai. Log hum par
has rahe hain” For which when Petitioner retaliated
Respondent mother Late Smt. Sansaar Sohni Saxena that her
Father has already given 8 Lakhs cash for furniture, untrnsils
etc. only for which, Respondent’s father Sh. Vishambhar Dayal
Saxena said that he has spend same amount on his
daughter’s wedding so this is return of it. Petitioner should
forget about that money now. Therefore, despite of best
marriage arrangements the Petitioner had to listen these
taunts and greedy demands of the Respondent’s family
members who also passed sarcastic comments with respect to
her dark complexion and caste.
16. That the even after having a luxurious marriage of their son,
at expense of Petitioner’s family, obtaining dowry and gifts for
themselves and their entire extended family as per their
demands and further taking away the Petitioner’s jewelleries,
gifts and ornaments, the Respondent’s parents and his family
members kept taunting the Petitioner and badmouthed about
her family members, saying that not enough dowry was given
by the Petitioner’s father in the marriage and that in villages
big dowry from the bride’s side is what creates an impression
upon the neighbouring households.
21. That after the above said incident and seeing how the
Respondent didn’t even reacted to the above said incident, the
Petitioner was in a constant state of fear, under the
apprehension of a similar behaviour from the Respondent’s
younger brother Piyush Saxena. That the said fear of the
Petitioner became a reality when on the evening of the 4th day
of marriage of the Petitioner. The Petitioner was told by her
late mother in law that ceremony of ‘muh-dikhai’ was to be
conducted on the said day and gave the Petitioner explicit
instructions that she was not to even step out of her room,
until asked to by the former herself. The Respondent’s younger
brother gained knowledge of the said fact and taking
advantage of the same entered the Petitioner’s room
clandestinely, where she was alone with the Respondent, and
drew the curtain behind his back.
22. The Petitioner still under fear of the incident that had occurred
on the 2nd day of her marriage, started to hide behind the
Respondent as to safeguard herself from the perversion of her
younger brother in law, however the Respondent’s younger
brother forcingly grabbed the Petitioner from behind in such a
way that one hand of the Respondent’s younger brother was
on the Petitioner’s right breast and his other hand, that was
full of chemical colours, was on the Petitioner’s mouth. The
Respondent’s younger brother, the entire time he was grabbing
the Petitioner, was inimically laughing and was also
simultaneously threatening and coercing the Petitioner to open
her mouth so that he can force the chemical colours in her
mouth. The Petitioner under the fear that the chemical colours
would enter her mouth was not able to open it but was
constantly trying, with both her hands, to free herself from the
Respondent’s younger brother hold.
23. That when this appalling and disheartening incident for the
Petitioner went on for a full ten minutes and she saw that the
Respondent was just standing in the corner, laughing, and
thereby abetting his brother illicit behaviour, she started
weeping. It was only when the Respondent and her younger
brother heard their sister, Pooja Sinha, approaching towards
their room that the Respondent’s younger brother let the
Petitioner go.
24. That in a state of trauma and shock when the Petitioner tried
to find solace in her sister in law, by narrating her the entire
incident, she was shut-out by the latter when the Petitioner
observed that her sister in law, in an unfazed manner, told her
to clean her face and get ready as the ‘muh-dikhai’ ceremony
was about to start.
25. That after the above-said incident the Petitioner got really
scared and in order to avoid and safeguard herself from such
incidents in future, after the ‘muh-dikhai’ ceremony, called her
friends in Pune and narrated entire incident as she could not
share the same with her parents or family members and they
suggested Petitioner to call her Father and ask him to take you
back for some ritual. That as advice the Petitioner called her
father and told him that since the Pagfere (पगफेरे ) ritual is yet
be completed, he should talk to the Respondent’s father about
the same. Upon assurance of his father that he would talk to
the Respondent’s father the next day, the Petitioner spent rest
of her day in fear and distress contemplating upon the
harrowing acts committed upon her by her younger brother in
law and abetted by his own husband, the Respondent.
26. That the next day the Petitioner’s father called the
Respondent’s father requesting them to send the Petitioner
back to Lucknow for the Pagphere ceremony to which he
agreed over phone but the request by the Petitioner’s father
was not well received by the Respondent’s family and they
started to badmouth about the Petitioner and her family right
in front of her. That the Respondent also reprimanded the
Petitioner afterwards in their room and asked the Petitioner as
to call her father and tell him not to come to take her until the
Respondent’s mother herself calls the Petitioner’s father for
performing the pagphere ceremony. That when the Petitioner
explained to the Respondent that her father wanted to
complete the said ceremony as soon as possible because the
inauspicious month of “kharmaas” will be starting soon and
during the said month no auspicious work or ceremony can be
performed and since both the Petitioner and the Respondent
are working and have to go back to Pune it will not be possible
for either of them to wait for a month, she was ridiculed and
shouted at by the Respondent.
27. The Petitioner in the hopes that such incidents will not
happen again, once Respondent and the Petitioner move back
to Pune, she refrained from telling any of the innumerable
illicit and humiliating incidents that had occurred with her at
the Respondent’s ancestral home to her parents.
28. That after the Pagphere ceremony, the Petitioner along with
the Respondent, travelled back to Pune. That when the
Petitioner went to the Respondent’s flat in Pune she witnessed
that the flat was in such a mess and was so dirty that it took
her four entire days to clean it and make it habitable, all by
herself, as no helping hand was lent by the Respondent. The
Petitioner, during the cleaning process, also found out that the
Respondent didn’t even had necessary kitchen utensils, items
and other household stuff at his home.
29. That when the Petitioner told the Respondent that dinner set
and other necessary day to day stuff is to be bought, the
Respondent in a harsh voice and with a straight face told the
Petitioner that from now on all the household expenses and
other future expenses of herself and the Respondent shall be
borne by the Petitioner herself and he would not spend a
single penny for the same as he had bought the flat, thereby
taking a completely contrary stand as to what he had
promised the Petitioner before marriage. This incidence
completely shook the conscience of the Respondent towards
her marriage which ultimately caused tremendous mental
agony to the Respondent, but since the Petitioner is a
professional, she didn’t lose hope that things would improve
when the Respondent would witness the tremendous efforts
the Petitioner is willing to put in their relationship.
30. That, the Petitioner was not allowed to keep a maid even at her
expense, the Respondent used to call the Petitioner as his
‘Nokrani’ and told her “free me rehne ko mera ghar mila hai
utna kafi nahi hai kya. Mere ghar saare kaam tujhe hi karne
hain” Respondent also used to send photos and videos of the
Petitioner while she was doing household work of washing
dishes or cleaning floor and spread it to his friends and
relatives by saying “maine to Padhi likhi kamwali bai rakh li
hai.” Comparing oneself with the maid was very insulting for
the Petitioner and this act of the Respondent caused severe
mental agony to the Respondent.
35. That the Petitioner was frequently asked to bring money from
her father and when the Petitioner denied to fulfil the
demands of the Respondent, he started abusing and beating
her on every such occasions. The Petitioner was left with no
option and therefore she told the Respondent that if his
behaviour would not change then she will have to tell about all
the incidences that had occurred with her, to her father. At
that time the Respondent got frightened and from thereon he
started showing changed behaviour but he started spying on
the Petitioner and used to check the Petitioner’s cell phone to
see whether if she has informed her family members about
any incidence that had occurred between her and the
Respondent. On this sole reason the Petitioner was not
allowed by the Respondent to visit her maternal home for the
next 8 months after the marriage after the above expounded
incidence.
39. That the Respondent and his mother kept on harassing the
Petitioner for months for the Petitioner not giving her entire
salary either to the Respondent or his mother. That with an
intention to further humiliate and harass the Petitioner, the
Respondent used to call his family members and discuss with
them, as to how less dowry was given by the Petitioner’s father
at the time of marriage and how his daughter is such an
upstart that even she wouldn’t even cover the shortcomings in
dowry by giving her entire salary to the Respondent, while
keeping his cell phone on speaker mode, thereby ridiculing the
Petitioner and her family members.
41. That the Petitioner being born and brought up in a loving and
caring joint family, had not witnessed such behaviour from
one member of a family towards another and the constant
humiliation, harassment and distress caused by the
Respondent and his family members to the Petitioner, pushed
her in a state of depression.
45. That the pleas and requests of the Petitioner were met with
abuses and caste based slurs from the Respondent. The
Respondent abused the Petitioner by saying “How can you
even think that I would want to have my children with a
despicable and low caste woman like you?”. Which came as a
shock to the Petitioner and she said that she will take this
matter to both the families.
49. That the Petitioner belongs from a respected family and has
not suffered such pain and insult before this incidence. And
also because she has good morals and ethics, therefore for
saving her, her parent’s and the Respondent’s honour in front
of the housing society, she chose not to file the complaint
against the Respondent and tried harder to fix the situation
and save her marriage.
50. That the family of the Respondent visited the Petitioner and
Respondent at their residence in Pune during summer
vacations, the Petitioner was forced to do every everything
from cooking to washing the utensils, even though she is a full
time working lady and used to go to the office daily, and no
one from the Respondent’s family assisted her. They did not
wash even their own utensils after eating and waited for the
Petitioner to return from the office and the she would wash
utensils cook food for everyone and the again wash utensils
after every one has finished eating.
51. That observing the fact that the Respondent doesn’t harass
and beats the Petitioner physically while the former’s family is
around, the Petitioner even tried to make the Respondent’s
mother stay back with them, hoping that would bring some
harmony and balance in the married life of the Petitioner.
However as soon the family of the Respondent’ family left for
their ancestral home in village Barwar, he again started
harassing and beating the Petitioner.
53. That the Petitioner used to find different ways to harass the
Petitioner. That the Respondent used to deliberately poke the
Petitioner and abuse her family so as to provoke her into
getting into an altercation with the former and as soon as the
Petitioner would object to the abusing and cursing of her
family by the Respondent he would call either his own family
members or the Petitioner’s family members to portray that it
is the Petitioner who is quarrelsome, in order to malign the
social image of the Petitioner.
55. That the Respondent stoop down to such a level that he dared
to call the parents of the Petitioners and made false allegations
against her that the Petitioner is the one who uses violence
against him.
60. That the Petitioner later also was told by the friends of the
Respondent that he is a misogynist and doesn’t consider
women to be equal to men and the Petitioner had herself heard
the Respondent talking over the phone that he considers
women to be of no use and that they should never be given
employment by anyone.
61. That the Petitioner also called up her mother in law to discuss
and request to her that if the latter will talk with the
Respondent he will surely comply and have a child with the
Petitioner. But to the astonishment and dismay of the
Petitioner, her mother-in-law rhetorically questioned and
advised the former the same thing the Respondent had said,
as to why the Petitioner wanted to have kids of her own when
Respondent’s brother’s children are already there. That she
should take care of Respondent’s brother’s children and look
after their financial requirements instead of having her own
kids.
62. That somehow to Respondent agreed for having the child but
even after a lapse of two years of marriage, the Petitioner was
not able to conceive a child, so she met with a doctor who
advised her to undergo some medical test which was
necessary to confirm the fertility of the Petitioner and in which
all the test came in favour of Petitioner and it was confirmed
that she was capable of conceiving a child.
63. That when the Petitioner requested the Respondent to get the
necessary test done in order to determine his fertility, but the
Respondent always tried to change the subject by either name
calling the Petitioner or her family members or by shouting at
her for petty stuff. That the concerned request of the Petitioner
that the Respondent should take the Fertility Test was
revealed by him to his entire family, because of the
Respondent’s family being of a patriarchal mindset, led the
Respondent’s entire family ridiculing the Petitioner.
70. That when the Petitioner came to know of the said fact and
enquired the Respondent about the same, he tried to ignore
the topic and started giving vague answers and then became
aggressive. That the Respondent finding it to be a good
opportunity to further malign the image of the Petitioner in
front of his family members, put his phone on speaker and
started saying that the Petitioner does nothing but suspects
the loyalty of the Respondent and thereafter disconnected his
phone. The Petitioner thereafter received call from her Mother-
in-law who further cursed the Petitioner that it was she who
was responsible for sabotaging her own marital relationship by
unnecessarily suspecting the Respondent.
71. That the Respondent used to talk with the some lady over
phone whole night sometimes the communication was till
04:00 A.M. or 05:00 A.M. in the morning. That although
normally the Respondent used to shout and talk loudly with
the Petitioner but while talking to the lady the Respondent
used to talk very softly and when Petitioner questioned as to
whom is he talking so late at night and that to so frequently
on an almost regular basis, the Respondent in order to hide
his illegitimate relationship with other woman used to throw
the Petitioner out of the house and didn’t let her in up until he
had completed his talks with said lady.
74. That the Petitioner under state of depression got filed two
cases one under section 125 Cr.P.C. and other under section
12 of Domestic Violence Act which were withdrawn and in the
domestic violence case liberty to file a fresh was obtained from
the Hon’ble Court as the correct and actual facts were not
mentioned therein. True Copy of the Certified Copy of order,
dated 22.03.2021, passed by the Hon’ble Chief Judicial
Magistrate (Custom) Court is annexed herein as Annexure-P7.
75. That the Petitioner had also made a police complaint vide
under section 498- A, 323, 504, 506, 406 OF IPC at
Vishrantwadi Police Station, Pune vide C R No. 121/2019
wherein the chagesheet has been filed against the Respondent.
76. That when the Petitioner went back to Pune she shifted at her
friend’s house and the Respondent on false pretence of
reconciling visited the Petitioner at her friend’s house and till
then also Petitioner was having soft corner for the Respondent
and was hoping that things could still improve but
Respondent stole her memory card which photos from the
college time of the Petitioner and while the Petitioner and her
family members were busy in reconciling the relations,
Respondent was engrossed in the act of defaming the
Petitioner by sharing her objectionable pictures to
Respondents relatives and making false stories there by
putting final nail in coffin of relationship, leaving no scope for
reconciliation.
77. That the Petitioner in order to thwart the Respondent’s
efforts to defame the former, reported about the above
explained matter to Women power Helpline 1090 and filed a
complaint against Petitioner on 23.01.2019, case no. 219-I-
014553. Women Power line called the Respondent 5-6 times
between 23.01.2019 to 14.02.2019, questioning him for his
unethical deeds and to return Respondents memory card
immediately. That even after that the Respondent keep on
spreading rumours, false stories about the Petitioner with her
pictures which the Respondent had obtained from the memory
card stolen by him between his own relatives and friends as
the said memory card is still in the possession of the
Petitioner.
80. That the Petitioner has suffered immense pain and hurt
form the Respondent. The Petitioner in mentally, physically
and emotionally scarred/drained and she is unable to carry on
anymore like this adamant and loose character person.
81. That it is significant to mention here that all the
streedhan article are still lying with the Respondent and his
family, In spite of repeated request from the Petitioner to the
Respondent for returning the articles, which actually belongs
to the Petitioner. Further all the expensive gifts are also lying
with the Respondent.
87. That the present petition has not been filed by Petitioner
in connivance with the Respondent.
88. That no such petition pending or has been filed or
decided by any court of Law on same subject matter between
the same parties.
90. That a fixed court fee has been paid on the petition.
Prayer
Lucknow Petitioner
Date:- Through
(COUNSEL)
VERIFICATON:
Verified that the contents of Paras No.1 to ____ and ____ of the
petition are true to best of my knowledge and Paras No. ____&____
of the petition are true to best of my belief as information received
by me through my counsel. Last Para is the prayer before this
Hon’ble court.
Verified at __________ on ____ day of ………………..; 2021.
Petitioner
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VERIFICATION
Deponent.
IN THE COURT OF HON’BLE PRINCIPAL JUDGE, FAMILY
COURT, LUCKNOW
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LIST FO DOCUMENTS
Date:- Through
(COUNSEL)