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Seminar 2
Seminar 2
In public, for instance, most British people do not randomly chat with each
other at the grocery store, on the street or at restaurants and if someone (an
American or other) starts the conversation, they seemed almost shocked, as if
an giraffe just walked up to them.
However I don’t think this means that they are unfriendly or cold, because
often if you can break through that, the strangers can’t stop talking. I had an
experience at an airport baggage claim at a small London airport where my
husband talked to a stranger for more than an hour. I thought we were never
going to leave. Everyone likes to talk and connect with each other, I think
culturally Americans are more used to it happening more often.
I was told more than once that Americans are generally positive and chipper
about everything while Brits are more cynical in general. When people ask you
how you are, Americans say “Great,” or even the less enthusiastic “fine.” while
Brits say “Can’t complain,” which means it is their best day ever.
After the first meeting, to me it feels like a lot of Americans’ general openness
and friendliness is superficial, if you called someone the next day for another
chat, they might not even remember you, it is just one of thousands of
interactions they have in their lifetime. But if you really connected with a
British person that is more meaningful and you could count them as one of
your true friends for life.
3. Which of the learned cultures are reserved, formal, tacit & friendly. Comment
on your answer. Give reasons.
5. Make notes of Ter-Minasova’s book The War and Peace of Languages &
Cultures. (in Rus. Война и мир языков и культур. М.: Астрель, 2017. 286 с.)
“To have a steady boy/girl friend” is very important to Am. college students.
Relationships define sexuality, and so people who don’t have mates are assumed to be
homosexual or weird”. Prove that Ukrainian students think otherwise.
To have friends and mates means to be social & friendly. In contrast, it is not viewed
as weird not to have a lot of friends and dates in Ukraine. But if Americans have a
“true” friend, they call him/her a “best friend” or “close friend”. Write whether it is
true to fact.
Courtesy and respect. How can you account for the fact that in Ukraine a woman
expects a man to open the door for her, help her to put on a coat. Which are other
actions that a man should display towards a woman to mean ‘respect’. Americans not
doing so are considered as not courteous. American females consider these acts
disrespectful. They don’t want men to take care of them, they wish to be independent
and want respect not just because of their gender, but because they are valuable
members of society.