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Chapter 1
INTRODUCTION
Rationale
Children whose parents split in this generation are more than four and half times
more-likely to have developed an emotional dissorder than one whose parents stayed
together. According (to Doughty (2008), it also showed that two parents are much
better than one of children are to avoid slipping into emotional distress and anti-social
behavior and also looked at conduct dissorder which result in aggressive, violent or
anti-social behavior.
Ampong et al,(2018), cited to their study (Escutin 2013), the Filipino family
context there are some common factors that contributes to the problem of Filipino
family, this includes disintegration which can result to broken family; domestic violence,
absence of parents, which weakens the relationship of the family, economic difficulties,
which results to malnutrition of the family, and the risk of biological parents to adopt
their children.
Agero and Guhao(2016), cited to their study (Dunn 2008), children are largely
circumtances. Families led by single mother face three major problems namely,
Based on readings, aside from the fact that they are all in the international
setting, those studies are quantitative in nature. In fact, the researchers have not come
across a similar study in the local setting that looked into the depth and realm of student
from broken family. With this context, it encourage the researchers to explore in detail
the resilience of student from broken family. It also aimed to broaden the perspective
of finding solution of the long dilemma of students from broken family. Through this
study, they could find ways to sustain courage and overcome challenges and
experiences of students from broken families order to build resilience in facing their
family problems. It aid to understand how a child from broken homes achieves
resilience. It also aimed to explore the experiences of public senior high school
students of Cabantian National High School, Cluster III, Davao City Division, Region
XI.
Research Questions
1. What are the experiences of Public Senior High School Students from
broken families?
2. How do students cope with the challenges as students from broken families?
Theoretical Lens
humans' innate curiosity. His theories parallel many other theories of human
humans.
needs of society as its base and then proceeding to more acquired emotions. Maslow's
motivation. Maslow used the terms "physiological", "safety", "belonging and love",
which human motivations generally move. This means that in order for motivation to
occur at the next level, each level must be satisfied within the individual themselves.
Family is a single word with many different meanings. People have many ways
of defining a family and what being a part of a family means to them. What every family
has in common is that the people who call it a family are making clear that those people
are important in some way to the person calling them his family. Some teenagers can
define a family as their best friend, teacher, classmate and people who will always be
there for them. But some other teenagers defined it as their enemy,
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problem, heartache and most hated people in their life because of being into a broken
family. A broken family is defined as a family that has split or separated due to a variety
of reasons that we will know in the next part of this research. Broken homes can cause
children to question their self- worth, to experience unnecessary grief, guilt and
confusion. It can affect their whole life, especially in their studies and in their emotions.
Being into a broken family gives a lot of effects in a teenager. The one who should
support and be there for them are the one who hurts their feeling.
This leads to children being raised by single parents, stepparents or others not
related to the biological parents. The study is primarily focused on the impact of broken
family among the teenagers and students. In this study, we will focus on the behavior
of the students in school and how it affected their lives. We will be stating facts and
other information about the teenagers being into a broken family. Our main point in our
studies are simple, to learn about the effects of being into a broken family among
Definition of Terms
Broken Family is defined as a family that has split or separated due to a variety
National High School, Davao City Division, Region XI who came from broken families.
The data were gathered from 10 chosen student participants through in-depth
interviews and focus group discussion. The study was dependent on the ability of the
participants to describe their experiences and answer the interview based on open
ended questions. Participants had varying degree of knowledge and experiences and
access to the participants, the School Principal was informed of the study and its
purpose.
such relationships in urban areas only. There could be a possibility that the condition
of such situation differed from students who came from rural areas, which can be
studied through in further research. Because there were only 3 participants for the in-
depth interview and seven participants for the focus group discussion, the results of
the research study would not be generalizable to other students from broken families
emphasizes the importance of the study. It explains what has been research in the
past, and present. It is followed by the discussion of the researcher’s purpose of the
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study which aims to give further reliable information and the live experience of senior
high school students from broken families. It intends to unfold the participants
resilience as they encounter many challenges along the way, as well as to describe
their behavior that will possibly affect their relationships with other people. Next is the
presentation of the research question which utilizes the in depth-interview, and focuses
on group discussion.
Another portion of this chapter is the presentation of the theoretical lens which
is associated with the research study. The significance of the study and the people
who will benefit from this research are also discussed. It is also important to have a
clear understanding of the terms, thus, important words in the study are operationally
defined. The last part of this chapter is the delimitation and limitation of the study. The
weaknesses and validity of the study are also presented in this chapter.
Chapter 2. The researchers have accumulated the readings that they made to
understand the research better. The chapter exhibits different scholarly articles that
are related to the topic being studied. Moreover, the chapter also features different
Chapter 3. Discusses the design and methodology used in the study including;
research design, role of the researchers, research participants, data collection, data
analysis, trustworthiness which explains the four criteria such as; credibility,
the study
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Chapter 4. Present the result of the study which has four parts namely; the
informants’ data, the data analysis procedures and the step in the categorization of the
emergent themes, the responses to the interview and the summary of the responses.
Chapter 5. Finally presents the discussion of the results. It elaborates the key
findings in relation to the literature cited. This also contains the implications for practice,
Chapter 2
Children are innocent victims of broken homes and they suffer unnecessary for
something of not their faults. Amato (2000) & Anderson (2002), asserted that broken
homes are always serious calamity if there are children between the couples and that
these children suffer the most. Boys from broken homes caused by separation or
compared to those homes were disrupted by the death of the mother (19%), the death
It may be that the stability of the family after divorce is an important factor.
Mednick et. Al., (1990) found that divorce followed by changes in parent figures
predicted the highest rate of offending by children (65%) compared with divorce
followed by stability (42%) and no divorce (28%). It may be that the process of family
breakdown such as the reasons for the disruption its timing, loss of the mother and
father, as well as high conflict may be relevant (Wodsworth, 1979, Cernkovich and
broken homes and the development of self-control (at around age 3) using data from
the fragile families and child wellbeing study, and tested whether social causation (the
selection (individual select into certain environments and thus certain factors, such
parental antisocial propensity, might explain the broken home/ self-control relationship).
Kolvin et. Al., (1988) found that the percentage of boys who experienced family
disruption up to the age of 5 years who were convicted up to age 32 was doubted (53%,
compared with 28% of the remainder). Farrington (1992) found that disrupted families
were as strong a predictor delinquency as other major risk factors (hyperactivity, low
family income, large family size, low school attainment, poor parental supervision and
higher probability of moving out of the family home early than those from intact homes.
The stress that is experienced can lead adolescents to become sexually active earlier
and to form inappropriate relationships that lead to early marriage and/or childbirth and
the cycle of broken homes (Armour and Haynic, 2007, Hill, Young, & Duncan, 1996;
role of the family in socializing children (Hirschi, 1995, Farrington, 2010). When
families do not sociable their children or when families break apart, the negative effects
that may emerge will involve both the adults and the children, especially if there is
continued conflict between them (Thomberry et, al., 1999). This breakdown can be
regarded as a process with problems that emerge years before an actual separation
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or divorce often beginning with one both partners disengaging from the relationship
(Amato, 2000).
In the study of Forehand (1991), Greaves (1991) & Buehanna et. Al., (1991)
that adolescent from broken homes performed very low in their academic. This is
because most adolescent from this home cannot afford to pay extra curriculum
activities; they lose concentration in the class and they rarely involve in class activities.
(1980), Hammer (1999) & Brown (1999) that adolescents who are experiencing the
divorce of their parents usually exhibit poor social development with their peers and
their peers and they often end up a miscreant, political things and armed robbers in
the society.
separated parents and other children are not always, that marked (Furstenberg and
Kierman, 2001; Stanley and Fincham, 2002 & Sun and Li, 2002). However, compared
to children whose parents live together, children whose parents have broke up are
more likely to experience certain physical health disorder, present various externalized
behavior problems, be less successful in school, stay in school for a shorter length of
time and experience more social relations problem (Amato, 2010; Ambert, 2009).
Meta-analysis ( a study combining the result of many studies in the same topic),
separation and other children, after having decrease in the 1980’s, increase of the
Some studies suggest that younger children may be more affected than older
ones by parental break up due to the rapidity of development during early childhood
(Cavanagh and Huston, 2008; Heard, 2007; Pegani et. Al., 1997; & Strohschein, Roos,
and Brownell, 2009). Young children may not only less able to understand what is
happening and express their feelings about the situation (Ambert, 2009; Roger, 2004).
But, also may have a more restricted social network to rely on in such circumstances
parents may experience more financial problems and social isolation, conditions likely
average a lower health status and level of well-beings compared to those of intact
break-up to better ascertain the impact on the children (Stanley and Fincham, 2007).
disunited families can be in part due to the parents own family histories (Fomby and
Cherlin, 2007), or pre-existing inter-parent or family conflict (Amato and Booth, 1997;
effect of divorce on child development (Amato, 2010). However, it has been observed
that parental break-up can have a positive effect in certain context, for example on
criminal behavior (Rodgers and Rose, 2008). In a meta-analysis studies found that
equality of life (Amato and Keith, 1991). However, adult with divorced parents have
less personal relationship commitment to their son marriages and less confidence on
their own ability to maintain a happy marriage with their spouse (Whitton, Rhoades,
Moreover not all children with divorced parents are at risk. Some children with
divorced parents are found to be achievers and to be positive despite their parental
divorce. Lintey & Joseph (2004) mentioned that children in extreme and non-
experience. The success as failure of a child on dealing with parental divorce depends
When an acute stress occurs, the environment can be a buffer for its negative
impact. Intra-family support, support of the extended family, support from friends,
religion, open communication among family members, work, and financial security
wise factors promoting resilience in divorced families (Greff & Vander Merve, 2002). In
Research on parental divorce close by Cui, Finchan, Dan Dutschi (2011). Found
that parental divorce had an impact on the romantic relationship of teenagers and
adults whose parents divorced. However, the perceived impacts depends on how the
subject assesses the divorce of both parents. The perception of young adults absent
parental divorce depends on the situation of conflict as parental issues the divorce.
religionists, and social environment. Teens also experienced conflict on the family was
found able to get rest of the pressure and revive from bad experiences of the past.
Nyarko (2011), posted that a broken home produces children derived of quality
education and better academic performance. It means that a children from a broken
(2006), Abudu & Naim (2013) revealed that broken home has negative impact on a
pupils academic performance in schools. However, Fadeiye (1985) stated that children
from broken homes have low-esteem; perform poor academically and eventually drop
out to school.
Likewise to the study of Westerstem and Blakeslee (2013) stated that broken
home make children unsafe, uncertain of his future or makes children feel that the
future is break and they became less because they fear that something bad could has
fell to them. Furthermore, Creistein (1995) & Anderson (2002); Schuktz (2006), opined
that children from broken homes are at gender rest for symptoms of poor psychological
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Similarly to the study of Salami and Alawed (2000) conducted that children from
broken homes have higher residence of a poor academic performance that other
children from broken intact names. In addition Yahaga (2012), Identified educational
problems: emotional problems: social behavior and learning difficulties as some of the
school dropout, trouncy, teenage pregnancy and drugs addiction as some of the
problem face by children from broken names. Saika (2012), also mentioned adjustment
addictions.
Ogbuide (2011), broken homes occur when husband and wife separate from
each other either natural cases (death) or by human cause (divorce) leaving the care
and responsibility of the children to one parent . Schultz (2000) noted that if
adolescents from unstable homes are to be compared with those from stable homes,
it would be seen that the former have more social , academic and emotional problems.
cities are affected by change of school due to adequate financial resources or poverty,
poor study habit and low self-concept .In addition Azubuike(2015), said teachers
commonly describe students from single parent as more hostile, aggressive, anxious,
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fearful, hyperactive and destructive that students from intact families. Clay(2011), who
state that most students from broken homes often comes late to school. Similarity of
idea Akinade (2011) said that these students from broken homes often lack of manners.
problems specially on how they response property. Olabisi(2012), also asserted that
most students from broken homes lack money to pay school fees. According to
Goodman (2008) who stated that most student from broken homes lack proper
supervision at home for healthy academic work, and also agreed with Ogunlade (2000)
stated that some student from broken homes do not have time for academic work.
Most students from broken homes are disobedient to authority Clay (2011), but
aggeed with stone (2004) that most student from broken homes are truants. Moreover
keth (2004) that most student from broken homes suffer from emotional disturbance
which affect their mentality that is to say from functioning well academically.
Most of the student from broken homes lack orientation about academic
activities (Mouris 2011), and also disagreed with Okafor (2012), that some of students
from broken homes do not carry out assignment due to the conflict in their home. The
study agreed with Baumrind (2011) that students from broken homes sometimes are
Broken home can be defined as when one out of two people who is responsible
for the maturing and child plasing is not available, and the work meant for two people,
is now been carried out by only one person (Osnunloye, 2008). Single-parenthood may
arise when either the male or the female decides to produce and rear a child or children
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doubled responsibilities requiring time, attention and money of the parent. Hence , less
attention and money of the parent. Hence, less attention is paid to the education of the
child. The teachers commonly describe children from broken homes as more hostile,
aggressive, anxious, fearful, hyperactive and destructive that children from intact family
divorced would occure. For most people, the real choice is whether to continue to live
together in disharmony, or to divorce. In choosing divorce, they must also choose the
complex and often unhappy consequences they and their children will then experience.
Most children who experience a divorce are likely to acquire a step parent later on and
to live in a intact home. All these experiences do require adjustment, and some are
very painful. It is not yet certain, that these experiences have a lasting, destructive
likely to become involved that in delingquency and crime. In study after study socialist
find this is to be true. But why should this to be? The single parent (usually women)
must devote a good deal to support and maintenance activities that are at least to some
extent shared in two parents family. Further, she must do so in the absence of
A study of divorced women found that anger, loneliness, and depression can
continue for 10 years or more after a divorce. Although some people can turn a divorce
into a positive experience of growth, even they suffer short term negative
lead to blended families with stepparent and step children. But Cherlin in 1981
suggested, such blended families can involve complications and difficulties for the
According to the study of Khulna City Corporation Area In (2012) carried out the
result that they can be easily manipulated by adults who are involved with various
crimes such as drug abuses, child trafficking, and robbery. Most of them mothers in
the broken families are either house maid or day labourer. Victims have said that they
do not receive support from their parents. A lack of parental love, violent behavior from
attracted to drugs. As data show in the findings section, their future plans range from
becoming a nurse. Their dreams are not too unrealistic. If they are given a proper
environment to explore their talent, many of them may be able to fulfil their dreams.
children with divorced parents compared with children with continuously married
higher scores on the child behavior check list as compared to the control group. Their
scores on social competence were lower, and scores on aggression, withdrawal, and
social problems were higher as compared to the matched group (Liu etal,2000).
the form of family Breakup accounted for significantly higher depressive and anxiety
symptoms when compared with adults who reportedly have stressors free childhood
regardless of participants’ gender (Chu, Williams, Harris, Bryant, & Gatt,2013). Finding
and Markman (2008). They claims that offspring’s of divorced parents as compared of
the offspring’s of non-divorced parents have more negative attitudes toward marriage,
they have less personal relationship commitment to their own marriages, less
confidence in their own marriages, less confidence in their own abilities to maintain a
happy marriage , and they were less optimistic about the long lasting healthy marriage.
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Chapter 3
METHODOLOGY
This section includes description of the research design, role of the researcher,
considerations.
Research Design
approach for exploring and understanding the meaning of individuals or groups ascribe
understand the meaning people have constructed, that is, how people make sense of
their world and the experiences they have in the world (Merriam, 2009).
Senior High School Grade 12 from a broken families Students. Phenomenology is the
experience things. Thus the meaning of life is based in our experience (Stanford
As researchers, their role was to gather reliable information from the participants
mentioned in the book of Tracy (2013). The researchers were able to follow certain
They acted as interviewer, note taker, encoder, and facilitator. Ultimately, they became
the primary data collector. As an interviewer, the researcher conducted focused group
discussion and in - depth interview using semi structured interview guide. The interview
among the participants was tape recorded to ensure that the data or information
Research Participants
The participants of this study were public Senior High School Grade 12 from
broken families students of Cabantian National High School, Km. 10.5 Cabantian
Davao City that are enrolled for School Year 2019 - 2020.
The process of selecting the participants was purposive sampling since the
researchers decided on the needs to be known and sets out to find people who can
sampling is the deliberate choice of an informant due to the qualities that the informant
possesses. It is nonrandom technique that does not need underlying theories or set
Data Collection
suggested that gathering of data should happen in a natural setting which could
materials. For this reason, the researchers personally gathered data in Cabantian
National High School Senior High School, while following their protocols in conducting
research the researchers considered the type of research participants that for
Data Analysis
The interview transcripts were transcribed for analysis with the help of the
language data. It represented an audio taped record, and the record itself represented
an interactive event, (Linsay, 2009). During research class, the researchers were
oriented on how to analyze the data. That the answers were coded according to the
main themes and core ideas. First, it is important to thoroughly read the transcription
segments and divided the text accordingly. Third, eliminate the unnecessary phrases
or words that were not related to the topic. The researchers summarized the text and
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created themes.
Trustworthiness
(Gempes, 2015 citing Lincoln & Guba , 1985). In order to establish credibility, the
triangulation was brought about through the use of variety of methods in gathering of
data such as in-depth interviews, focus group discussion and the use of audio visual
materials.
Ethical Considerations
avoid violations of participants rights. Herein, some of the principles were being
highlighted. The researchers talked to the research participants to get their initial
in research are made from an informed position. The researchers have undertaken
The researchers included the agreement letter, the right of the subject and the
study participants to withdraw from the study anytime, the central purpose of the study
and the procedures to be used in data collection, comments about protecting the
with participation in the study, the expected benefits to be added to the study
participants, and a place for them to sign and date the form will be included in the draft,
The conducted in depth interview and focus group discussion were scheduled
on informants’ availability, properly done in the place and environment safe and
suitable enough for the study. Lastly as a sign of gratitude, participants were given
tokens for sharing their stories and experiences as well as their time for the realization
of this study.
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CHAPTER 4
RESULT
Presented in this chapter are experience of the study participants, how they
cope with the challenges as an experience of students from broken families, their
insights and perceptions as well as the constructs with emerged from the information
This chapter is divided into four parts: Part 1 tackles the participants
information from which the qualitative data were collected. Part 2 covers the data
analysis the in-depth interview and focus group discussion. Part 3 deals with the
responses to the interview and focus group discussion questions under each
Participants
The participants in this study were composed of 10 senior high school students
that has an experience from broken families. It comprises 3 participants for in-depth
interview and 7 participants for focus group discussion. We applied the sampling
techniques to conduct an interview, and validated and approved by the school principal.
The ideas expressed by these individuals were used to sort out issues, insight and
Participants Information
Focus group discussion was conducted to seven participants, six women and one men
from a broken families. The in-depth interview was conducted to three participants with
Themes and Core ideas on Experiences of Senior High School students from
Broken Families
From the data collected on the experience of the study the participants, four
determine which core ideas to report. These themes are: Isolated and cut off from the
The experience of students from a broken families revealed the first theme
“Isolated and Cut off from the Rest of the World” because isolated because it was a
student's reaction when he came from broken families he felt like he was different and
he noticed that he was lonely as if no one loved them. While cut off from the rest of the
world because he/she got jealous of others because they has a complete family and
he/she feels that there is lacking in his character. The same is true for the focus group
Table 1
Embarrassing
The second major theme that come out is the embarrassing. There is a time
when a student product of broken families has a financial problem that causes family
conflict. They feel ashamed of their parents' separation; feels no hope; feels not
determined; lack of support of the parents. The student is becoming inactive and no
Hurting Inside
The third major theme which emerged during the focus group discussion and
in-depth interview of experience of students from broken families. Hurting Inside this
is the moment for them to: cry, think about why this happened, feel the pain of parental
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separation, and accept what has happened because anything else can never be
repeated again. Their experience needs of guidance of the person who are older from
Most of the study participants echoed the same information that being an
student from a broken families offer a revenue for learning and develop anger and
disappointed to their parents. They pointed out that when opportunities come, they
have to make the best of what they are doing. Their determination actually helped each
From the data collected, there were three major themes which emerged from
the response as shown on Table 2. These are: Close Family Relationship, Ignore
and inclusion. Social needs are very important basic human needs. When social are
not satisfied it can also lead to mental and physical health problems. Especially for
young children satisfying the love of family is very important to sustain wellbeing and
quality of life.
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Table 2
Themes and core ideas on How Participants Cope with the Challenges as
students from a Broken Families
seen at the most people from a broken family. The pain they are holding inside they
don’t mind it. This likely when: They remember those painful experience they going
inside their room, listen music, going outside with friends and doing a thing’s that can
Athena saying:
Go home, play computer / go to relatives' house and
spend some time to avoid in trouble.
(TTSHSSFBFPRIDIP#3)
is praying and believing in our God, to overcome those challenges, in order to try to
master, minimize or tolerate stress and conflict. The strategies to overcome all those
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problems are: going church and worship him, always asking his guidance, trust on him
and offer everything to him. They always believe that God is highly influential in the
Coping the challenges as an student’s from a broken families is not easy, they
can encounter hardship and trials in their lives. Despite of being an broken family they
have a supportive family, classmates, and friends that inspire, boost their morale, and
give them praise and affirmations. Teachers have considered them as the reason why
Themes and Core Ideas on Insight that Participants can Share to other Students
in General
The responses of the informants and participants of the study are presented in
matters, Respect begets respect, Trust even more, Accepting things as it is.
conflict between the parents. A person needs to find his/her expectations especially in
their parents. The family should have a healthy relationship between child and parents.
Table 3
If the family have a good communication there will be a big impact to the studies
of the students. It can help to improve the communication skills of the child especially
in solving conflict.
Here are some insights of the participants meeting needs for proper communication
Daisy saying:
Talk about problems. (TTSHSSFBFPRFGDP#4)
The second theme for the lessons and insights and the final theme generated
overall in the focus group study and one on one interview. Guardians ought to never
feel burnt out on showing their developing youngsters the estimation of regard. All
things considered, they are the principal instructors and are answerable for
demonstrating genuine guides to their children. A home where individuals from the
family live in amicability and regard will support dependable kids who realize how to
remember to look for the guide of the Book of scriptures that shows propensities and
The third for the lessons and insights for the experience of students from a
broken families. Trust is an excessively significant piece of a solid relationship, yet it's
something that numerous individuals battle with, for a variety of reasons. To build up
your relatives' prosperity. Try not to pay special mind to your very own advantages, yet
in addition for the interests of your life partner and family. Be obliging of their needs
and wants.
Accepting things as it is
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The last themes for lessons and insights and the final theme generated overall
in the focus group study and one on one interview. Acknowledgment is investigating
things as they are at the present time. You let go of judging or deciphering. You don't
have to include the layer of feeling like a disappointment or injured individual in view
of the circumstance. As opposed to getting some distance from what is, you move in
the direction of it and get what's here with extraordinary empathy and comprehension.
CHAPTER 5
DISCUSSION
This chapter presents the discussion of the results of the study as well as the
conclusions and the implication for the future research which are anchored on the
results of the investigation. This study aims to describe the experience of students
from a broken families by bringing out their feelings, lessons, and insights and
The participants of the study simply describe their live experience regarding
multiple ancillary functions. The first major theme that emerge in this study is Isolated
and cut off from rest of the world: because Isolated means is a condition of finish or
close total absence of contact between an individual and society. It varies from
dejection, which reflects impermanent and automatic absence of contact with different
people on the society or even in the family. Considering when Sunflower very sad
saying, that not exactly what my family is like I’m comfortable, I’m not comfortable with
what’s we have now. Marguerite also said I was jealous of other children because they
have complete family, and me, I was in my family I didn’t feel the love.
social, (2) mental, and (3) physiological. Right now, these pathways were utilized to
social confinement. There were sure negative wellbeing results of social separation
that didn't fit into the Berkman et al. structure, including all-cause mortality, falls, re-
Embarrassing came forth as the second major theme of students from a broken
families. The students feel really silly and awkward in everything they do: wanted to
surrender it out; they change the suffering into the happiness; feels no hope; feels not
determined; lack of participations in school. The students accepting the facts that their
family will never be complete again. A response from Aquila when she not easily
overcome the challenges but she accept everything happen in their family even its
hurts. Cherry Blossom also said she considered herself as lack of support from a
Same with the study of (Miller, 2007). Shame likely developed to keep up social
request, since in being humiliated individuals convey to others that they perceive and
lament their rowdiness and will attempt to improve. Analysts have discovered that
individuals who show humiliation at their social offenses are increasingly inclined to be
preferred, excused, and trusted than the individuals who don't, and, therefore, their
shame hides any hint of failure (Keltner and Anderson, 2000). In any event, prodding
and tease, which incite and bring out humiliation in the focused on individual, are
persuaded by the craving for expanded preferring (Keltner and Anderson, 2000)
Hurting Inside surface as the third major theme for the experience of students
from a broken families. Hurting Inside this is the moment for them to: cry, think about
why this happened, feel the pain of parental separation, and accept what has
happened because anything else can never be repeated again. Their experience
needs of guidance of the person who are older from them to guide them and come up
into a good decision. The case of Aquila she was frustrated saying although it was
painful but I could do nothing, I must admit that this is what my family has been through.
Same also with Cherry Blossom said I do not feel the presence of my dad/mom ever
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since I live that’s why it’s painful for me. The case of Aquila and Cherry Blossom
connects to the study of CPC acts, (March 2014) when a family separation it is typically
hard for everybody. It’s like a passing which carries with it sentiments or misery and
misfortune. A great many people need time to become acclimated to the progressions
and every individual reaction can be totally different. Guardians attempt to think about
their own sentiments while they settle on commonsense and very important choices
that mean the finish of a special connection between two grown-ups yet not the finish
of a connection among youngster and parent. kids need the ongoing adoration and
In addition, Adam (2002) revealed that visit the separation from parent,
generated three major themes like Close family relationship, ignore though its hurting,
Believe in divine intervention. Close family relationship is the first major theme that
emerge in our study. Close family relationship means they are satisfied to obtain an
affection/openness, control and inclusion. Social needs are very important basic
human needs. When social are not satisfied it can also lead to mental and physical
health problems.
Especially for young children satisfying the love of family is very important to
sustain wellbeing and quality of life. Reviewing the response of Daisy has positive
aura said they need advices from people who are ahead on them especially in people
who are expert in giving advice to those who suffered from pain. And Aphrodite was
very happy said just get courage from your father/mother, no matter what happen you
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are not left behind, he/she is the one who supported you, despite what happen to them
as a couple. Similar to the study of Childers and Rao 2010, saw that friends influence
more for some type of products like public luxuries and not private necessities. This
symbolism. Friends are likely to help children in assessing products, brands, and
separate from parents. Whereas older children could respond from a position of
The second major theme which is Ignore though its hurting. It can be seen at
the most people from a broken family. The pain they are holding inside they don’t mind
it. This likely when: They remember those painful experience they going inside their
room, listen music, going outside with friends and doing a thing’s that can help them
and destroy them as a person (feeling discourage). The case of Athena that she said
go home, play computer, I go to relatives house and spend some time to avoid also
in trouble. And also Tulip with the same feeling saying it is good to pretend nothing
Their case are likely interconnected to the study of (Drysdale & Rye, 2007).
They are the victims of unintentional broken family. Children are encouraged to blame
the separation for whatever unhappiness they may feel, which makes them feel
helpless about improving their lives (Ahron, 2007). In addition the affected adolescents
use smoking as coping mechanism to broken home. Aside from smoking, adolescents
also are engaged to drinking, taking illegal drugs, sexual activity, and juvenile
delinquency as coping strategies (Cruz & Berja, 2008). In terms of psychological, girls
more likely exhibit emotional distress toward boys (Yeo & Huan, 2007) Believe in divine
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intervention come out to be the last major theme for coping strategies of students from
broken families. Praying and believing in our God, to overcome those challenges, in
order to try to master, minimize or tolerate stress and conflict. The strategies to
overcome all those problems are: going church and worship him, always asking his
guidance, trust on him and offer everything to him. They always believe that God is
according to the teachings of divine religions, Trust-in-God pertains to matters that are
outside of man’s authority and full control. Trust-in-God accompanies the trusted in the
way ahead and assures the person that his/her actions are resourceful. Trust-in-God
brings the trusted inner peace and confidence. One of the outcomes of Trusting-God
is relying on one’s hope in God’s grace and blessing rather than solely on people.
The participants of the study take into the shared insights learned from their
experience as a students from a broken families. Core ideas are developed four major
Respect begets respect, Trust even more, Accept things as it is. Proper
find his/her expectations especially in their parents. The family should have a healthy
relationship between child and parents. If the family have a good communication there
will be a big impact to the studies of the students. It can help to improve the
Not too far from the patterns of family communication, developed by McLeod
communication focusses where parents permit children to freely produce and express
their ideas and views. These two dimensions of parent to child produce four-fold
on any of the dimensions whereas consensual families stress on both the dimensions
The second theme generated for the lessons and insights with the experience
never feel burnt out on showing their developing youngsters the estimation of regard.
All things considered, they are the principal instructors and are answerable for
demonstrating genuine guides to their children. A home where individuals from the
family live in amicability and regard will support dependable kids who realize how to
offer respect to other people. Aside from being acceptable good examples, guardians
ought to always remember to look for the guide of the Book of scriptures that shows
paying little mind to their age, race and status throughout everyday life.
respecting, obeying, and learning from elders in the kinship network and community
(Willis, 1992). Respect has been defined in terms of showing honor and esteem to
skills (Briggs, 1986). Parents indicated that they viewed conflicts with children in terms
of respect for parents, obedience to authority, and the importance of cultural traditions
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(Smetana & Gaines, 1999; Smetana, Crean, & Daddis, 2002). In contrast, the young
Trust even more is the third theme generated for the lessons and insights with
piece of a solid relationship, yet it's something that numerous individuals battle with,
individual. Act to boost every one of your relatives' prosperity. Try not to pay special
mind to your very own advantages, yet in addition for the interests of your life partner
Same with the study point out that adolescents need parental support, an
atmosphere of trust and love. Moreover, trust created by the family enables the
adolescent to adapt to the changes emerging in this phase (Bulut, 1996). The positive
relationships of the adolescent with the family have positive effects on his/her social
And the lastly the theme generated for the lessons and insights with the
Acknowledgment is investigating things as they are at the present time. You let go of
judging or deciphering. You don't have to include the layer of feeling like a
some distance from what is, you move in the direction of it and get what's here with
The insight shared related to building bonds between the surviving spouse, the
new spouse, and both their immediate and extended families is crucial to maintaining
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parenting quality (Anderson & Greene, 2013). It also encourages acceptance for the
new spouse, who often feels uncertain and insecure (Brimhall & Engblom-Deglmann,
2011). Parents make decisions about what information to share with children
regarding their relationships and their desire to repartner (Anderson & Greene, 2005;
As the end of this study, several questions were formulated in the minds of the
researchers. These are the following: “why did the researchers choose this study?”
What pushes or encourages the researchers to study this particular topic?” The
researchers knew from qualitative methodological standpoint that their stories have
not been told before which would illuminate the live experiences Senior High School
students from broken families. We personally believe that this under taking would be
significant source of information not only to students from broken families but for
Students from broken family can be stressful. Such families are faced with
noted that students from unstable homes would be seen to have more social,
academic and emotional problems A good realization and learning insights that can be
shared to other students whom in one way or another share the same experience.
Since this study is limited to public secondary school students from Cabantian
National High School, Km. 10.5, Cabantian, Davao City, the following future
That the findings of the particular study are not generalizable beyond the 10
students from a broken families in Cabantian Senior High School of Davao City. With
students from a broken family in other parts of the country to add to the research base
the study to see whether their views and perceptions have changed over a period of
time. The findings of the study were viewed from the lens of senior high school students
Concluding Remarks
Gathered from the findings of the study are the experience of students from a
broken families which revealed that most of the participants experienced positive and
negative circumstances from their experience which challenged them to aspire more
advancement to become better person despite the challenges they face. The findings
of the study showed that students from broken families are at first embarrassed but
eventually accept the circumstances with the helped friends and all the people that
knowledge in education. Despite of being a broken family, life is not easy. They cannot
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control the situation. But their part as students from a broken family can gain particular
learnings in life. As students, the researchers, realized that the experiences of students
from a broken family is not easy. That parents should be enlightened on the need to
counselor to counsel students from broken homes, child raised by single parent and
parents who do not pay adequate attention to their children’s education and those
students experiencing challenges in schools. That parents should ensure that they
provide their children’s educational materials to promote their teaching and learning in
schools. That there is need for personal social, group counseling and individual
counseling in schools where students from broken families are counseled. And lastly,
that students should develop positive self-concept in life to assist them in their
academic achievement.
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