Hello.

Yeah, it's great to meet you finally.

Yes, yes.
I'm a little bit nervous, but I'm
blessed to be here talking to you.
I guess what I want to talk to you
about is I feel like I need guidance.
You've been part of this whole journey
that I started like a year ago.
So this is the story.
A year ago, I met this guy.
We dated for three months and then
he decided to end the relationship.
He felt like he wanted to end it.
I couldn't understand why everything was going well,
but I realized when he ended that relationship
was for me an awakening, a spiritual awakening.
So I started this journey in terms of I realized that
the awakening that I have was that I was trying to
finding him when I should have been going to the source.
Well, we want to talk about this just
a little bit because they're two important things
that we want to say to you. Yes.
What you said about not wanting to count
on someone else for the way you feel.
Most people are living a very conditional experience.
So if something that they consider to
be wonderful is happening, they feel wonderful.
But if something happens that feels disappointed, like
not being able to control the desire of
another person, then sometimes it feels like you
don't have control over the way you feel.
And certainly that's natural.
We're going to sort that out in just a minute.
But we don't want you to jump there so quickly
because it's an important process to have experiences in order
to really ascertain what it is that you do want.
Because while we know you all believe that you
are ready right now to make a very clear
statement of desire about many, many things, you could
say, we know you believe it.
That I know exactly how much money I want to make.
We know that you believe that.
We also know that your life experience is going
to continue to expand and that right now you
don't know what you're going to want forever more.
You don't know where you're going
to want to live forever more.
You only know from where you stand, what you
think would be an improvement to where you are.
You are such evolving beings.
The whole nature of evolution is about being where you are
and from where you are getting a new vantage point.
So we're going to give it to you just like this.
Here you are standing, sifting and sorting, and
a rocket of desire shoots out of you.
And the rocket of desire feels weird in
the beginning because you're not used to it.
But then you sort of play the games that we ask you
to play and you do the processes we asked you to process.
And you managed to become a vibrational match to
this desire, which felt weird just a little bit
ago, and now a vibrational match to it.
Now what you want comes to full fruition
because you've managed to think about it.
And now, along with that manifestation comes a
whole new set of contrasting experiences that causes
you to launch another rocket of desire.
This is especially true relative to relationships.
Especially true relative to
those significant relationships.
Sometimes you've lived something that has been
absence of something that you really wanted.
So you launched a strong rocket of desire.
And that rocket of desire is disproportionate
to other things that matter too.
But it's extra inflamed, because this
relationship caused it to be inflamed.
So you're asking in such a strong way, we
might even say in a lopsided way, that now
you're like that bus that Esther and Jerry were
driving down the road, dragging something along behind that
desire is so strong that then law of attraction
brings you something that satisfies that desire.
So you settle into that relationship
and it feels so good.
But then life shows you that while that
one thing is being satisfied, that there are
other things that are important to you too.
And you launch those rockets of desires.
And so it takes a lot of exposure to
life and exposure to experiences in order for you
to create this wonderful desire, this vibrational desire.
We called it a vibrational reality.
We called it the vortex of
creation, this launching of these rockets.
It takes a lot of experience because words don't teach.
You could sit with your mother or with a
mentor and they could say from my experience, this
is what you want in a mate. Here's the list.
It took me years to come to this conclusion, and a
lot of it after I was unhappily married for 30 years.
They'll tell you, but this is the list that you want.
Here's the list of things you want.
You would not let anybody give you that list.
It's only life experience that gives you that list.
But we want you to know it's not not
acquiring the list that keeps you from living happily
ever after earlier in your life experience.
It's not being a vibrational match
to the list that you've gathered.
We want you to realize that, you know, you
want someone who is nice, someone who's considerate, someone
who cares about you, someone who cares about himself.
Also.
You want someone who is easy to be with.
You want someone who is energetic and alive.
You want someone who gets up
and greets the day happily.
You want someone who rises easily to feeling good.
You want someone who is critical hardly ever at all.
You don't want someone who's a doormat.
You don't want someone who will do
anything that you ask them to do.
You want someone who's a thinking person.
You want someone who's had some life experience.
You want someone who's eager about life.
You want someone who dresses well and who likes money and
who likes nice things and who drives a nice car.
There are lots of things that
over lifetime you have gathered.
But most of all you want someone who is
intuitive enough to know when they are in alignment
and when they are not in alignment.
You want someone who understands that they
create their own reality and who is
willing to take responsibility for their own.
You've created a really good list of things that you
want, but you are like so many people, you are
often not a vibrational match to your own list.
So since you've got a mixed bag of vibrations
going on, your attraction power is not clean yet.
It's not in pure vibrational alignment with what you want
because you put an engine going this way and an
engine going this way and an engine going this way
and an engine going this way and an engine going
this way and an engine going this way, so you've
got this vibrational point of attraction going.
And of course, what you are attracting right now has some
of what you want and some of what you don't want.
Some of what you want, an absence
of some of what you want.
So what we're saying to you, we would not
encourage you to want that relationship to turn around
when you're still in the process of defining what
it is you really want in a relationship.
So we know that if we were to stop talking, which is
not likely, and ask you to give us a list of things
that you desire, we know that you could we know that you
could give us a list of things that you desire.
We also know that you are wanting more practice
in being a vibrational match to those things.
So when you started out by talking about how this breakup,
which was painful to you, set you off on a spiritual
quest or a spiritual journey, we know that what you mean
by that is that you want to do a more deliberate
job of offering your vibration in the direction of what you
want instead of in the vibration of what you've got.
The thing that we want to say to all
of you in a way that you can hear
it as if volume would make a difference.
It doesn't is that if you could get to this place in
a week or two or three or four or five or months.
Or two or three or four three months.
Three months.
If you could for three months
set the subject of relationship aside.
The subject of relationship with another human aside.
And if you could focus only upon your
mood and attitude about all other subjects so
that you could enhance the relationship that you
already have with your inner being.
You're such a sensitive person and
that's such a good thing.
But the reason that you would describe yourself
as sensitive is because you hurt yourself often
with your own thoughts about things.
It doesn't matter what somebody else thinks.
It only matters what you think about
what you think they're thinking about.
You're the only one who can plunk
those trains in opposition, you see?
So we want to pronounce to you in a
very bold and loud way, nothing's gone wrong.
Nothing went wrong except you had a clarifying experience
because things are always working out for you.
We wanted to jump in and the opening words that
you were offering and say to you, this is the
best thing that has ever happened to you, because moving
down that road was going against so many things that
we know are in your vortex.
Your inner being is not going to encourage you toward a
relationship of any kind, whether it's a very fast one or
a very long one that is not in vibrational harmony with
who you really are and what you really want.
But you know what happens sometimes absence of a
relationship makes you think that presence of any relationship
is a good thing, and that's just not true.
Did you hear what we said?
Well, we'll tell you what we really mean.
You think, oh, any relationship
is better than no relationship.
Any relationship is not better than no relationship.
Because in the absence of another person, you
might have an opportunity to form a conscious,
deliberate relationship, meaning mood and attitude and vibrational
alignment with your own inner being.
And when you line up, oh, when you line up
with who you really are, it is our promise to
you that in that absence of resistance, the person that
you are looking for is going to come into your
experience with such swiftness and such clarity.
And as you meet this person, there will be no question
in either of your minds, you won't be playing those games,
you won't be testing each other, you won't be dragging up
the past, you won't be trying to get somebody to make
promises that they're not ready to make.
They will already have gestated, and they will already
be at the point of alignment for you. You see?
Do you understand how this vibrational reality
works with everything that you've been living?
And it's been enough.
We're not saying that you need more data to
collect in order to create the perfect relationship.
You've already created it.
And that relationship exists in your vibrational
reality, but you are nowhere near.
And we don't want to be harsh because almost
everybody would be saying the same thing to them
about so many things that they want.
You're nowhere near being a vibrational
match to what you want.
You are so often not a vibrational match to
what you want, and then what you don't want,
which you are a vibrational match to, keeps coming.
Do you know most people are more of
a vibrational match to doubt in relationships than
they are to living happily ever after?
And so you get some of what you want,
some of what you don't want, some of what
you want, some of what you don't want.
And then you say, you need to be
different because I'm getting some of what I
want and some of what I don't want.
I need somebody who will just give me what I
want, what I want, what I want, but I keep
getting what I want and what I don't want.
So you need to be different.
We say, nobody can be
different than what you're outputting.
Nobody can be different than what you're outputting.
If you want them to clean up their act,
you got to clean up your act first.
You've got to be a vibrational match, which
means you can't harbor thoughts of doubt.
You can't worry about those things you're worried about and
then try to get somebody else to promise you that
they won't do those things that you're worried about.
It never works.
When you're really worried about something, you're going
to attract the very person who's most likely
to do that thing that you're worried about.
Then you say, I knew it.
I could feel it all along.
And we say, of course you could.
Of course you could feel it all along. You see?
So when someone moves away from
you, it's not a bad thing.
It's a good thing, because it means that
what's going on in your vortex and what
you really want isn't a vibrational match.
So just accept things are always working out for me, and
this is one of the best things that has ever happened
to me, because it gave me clarity about this and about
this and about this, and then tell your general story about
relationships in a way that pleases you.
And let and this is the hard part, but you can do it.
Let your conversation with yourself about what's coming
and the joy that you know you're going
to live when it does come.
Let that hold you for three months while you
clean up your vibration, and then watch what happens.
Okay? Good enough? Yes. Thank you.