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theREDstack
The
most
powerful
tool
of
Authentic
Seduction.
• Live
the
Best
Life
• Be
Social
• Be
Sexual
• Live
Life
theREDstack
is
not
only
the
most
effective
tool
of
Seduction
but
it
is
the
only
tool
that
depends
on
absolute
Authenticity.
Superior
Methodology
100%
Authenticity
The
Seducer
–
A
man
that
lives
life
where
every
expression
of
himself
attracts
the
women
he
deserves.
The
Authentic
Man
–
A
man
that
lives
the
undisputed
expression
of
self.
My
Hope
–
My
name
is
Steve
Mayeda.
I
have
been
teaching
in
the
Dating
and
Seduction
Industry
for
the
better
part
of
a
decade
now.
My
hope
is
that
every
man
reading
this
can
achieve
the
life
of
a
Seductive
Man.
The
life
of
The
Seducer
and
The
Authentic
Man
is
a
life
of
freedom,
absent
of
shame,
guilt,
and
anger.
The
path
laid
out
in
this
document
can
help
you
achieve
this
life.
Years
back
I
made
a
post
on
one
of
those
message
boards
about
meeting
women
referencing
something
called
theREDstack.
It
was
a
joke
that
I
made.
Me
being
the
joker
I
am,
many
people
took
it
seriously.
Shortly
after
that
I
was
hired
by
one
of
my
first
clients
and
was
asked
to
make
him
a
customized
set
of
routines.
You
can
read
his
story
below.
I
would
encourage
you
to
so
that
you
can
know
just
how
powerful
this
form
of
Social
Dynamics
is.
For
years
theREDstack
has
been
an
underground
product.
One
of
those
things
everyone
has
heard
about
but
never
really
known
exactly
what
that
is.
Not
because
it
was
so
taboo
that
it
could
not
be
shown,
but
because
it
was
a
labor
love.
They
were
all
made
by
me,
and
their
production
was
limited
by
my
ability
and
time
to
write
them.
I
wrote
each
and
everyone
of
them
personally.
They
took
hours,
literally
hours!!!!
They
started
out
8-‐12
pages
when
I
first
started
and
they
evolved
to
over
100
pages
documents.
A
complete
manual
of
your
authentic
seduction
path.
I
truly
loved
writing
them,
however
I
put
so
much
into
them
that
they
ended
up
taking
me
70-‐80
hours
just
to
complete
1.
It
is
a
brilliant
product,
however
it
is
limited
by
my
ability
to
produce
them.
It
is
the
product
that
redefines
Social
Dynamics
and
Seduction.
It
is
the
only
product
that
will
allow
you
to
be
yourself
and
meet
the
people
you
want.
Nothing
else
comes
close.
My
hope
for
you
reading
this
product
is
summed
up
in
3
simple
ideas
–
-‐ Live
The
Sexual
Life
-‐
Live
a
truly
authentic
life
where
your
social
and
sexual
life
is
a
true
expression
of
who
you
are
-‐ Give
you
the
ultimate
formula
to
communicate
to
the
world,
being
the
absolute
best
person
you
were
meant
to
be.
-‐ Learn
the
Social
Dynamic
that
will
have
you
disregard
the
current
industry
standards
of
in-‐authenticity,
façade
and
social
value.
theREDstack
is
the
most
prestigious
product
I
have
available,
and
is
also
the
most
prestigious
product
in
the
industry.
To
this
day
there
is
nothing
else
that
does
what
it
does
–
teach
you
to
be
yourself
and
be
the
seducer.
Using
theREDstack
theREDstack
methodology
will
revolutionize
your
sexual
life.
The
result
will
be
you
being
the
absolute
expression
of
yourself.
The
women
and
people
in
your
life
(your
girlfriends,
lovers,
social
circle
and
friends)
will
be
a
complete
refection
of
you
as
a
man.
Not
only
will
you
get
the
unique
experience
of
this
new
and
fresh
form
of
social
dynamics,
you
will
also
start
to
transform
your
entire
life.
When
you’re
being
the
best
expression
of
who
you
are
and
interacting
with
the
best
people,
your
life
starts
to
take
on
a
new
shape.
In
the
years
of
its
existence
and
hundreds
of
satisfied
customers
it
is
impossible
to
deny
that
the
success
gained
from
theREDstack
transcended
into
people’s
personal
and
professional
lives.
The
power
in
the
tool
that
you’re
reading
is
limitless,
unique…
and
yours
to
take
a
hold
of,
study
and
use
now.
You
owe
it
to
yourself
to
live
the
best
possible
life,
living
the
best
Sexual
Life.
This
is
your
tool
to
get
there.
theREDstack
-
The
History
In
June
of
2007
I
was
hired
to
fly
to
Arizona
to
work
1-‐on-‐1
with
a
stockbroker.
His
name
was
Ronnie
and
his
goal
was
clear,
Ronnie
wanted
to
live
the
best
possible
life
with
the
best
women.
There
were
no
exceptions.
I
flew
in
to
Phoenix
to
meet
Ronnie.
We
had
met
at
a
workshop
that
was
taught
in
a
group
capacity
a
few
months
prior.
In
Arizona
Ronnie
and
I
spent
4
days
intensely
working
together,
endless
12-‐16
hours
a
day.
Ronnie
seemed
to
have
himself
together
in
so
many
ways.
He
was
a
professional,
he
was
social
but
he
just
felt
he
couldn’t
meet
the
women
he
wanted
to.
He
was
one
of
the
first
guys
I
ever
worked
with
privately
and
at
the
time
I
didn’t
realize
how
unique
of
a
guy
he
was.
In
fact
in
many
ways
he
was
the
perfect
client.
He
was
a
recipe
for
success
Tenacious
Loved
women
Open-‐minded
and
Driven
On
the
3erd
day
I
was
wondering
how
much
Ronnie
learned.
He
seemed
to
have
everything
necessary
to
be
good
with
women
but
something
was
missing.
I
knew
that
I
would
have
to
forge
new
ground
and
think
outside
of
the
box
to
get
Ronnie
the
success
he
desired.
On
the
last
day,
Ronnie
pulled
me
aside
and
said,
“Steve,
I
need
to
talk
to
you.
I
have
known
and
worked
with
so
many
dating
coaches.
I
have
worked
with
the
best
guys
in
the
world,
but
I
knew
you
could
help
me
because
you’re
the
only
guy
that
has
a
humanity
to
him.
You’re
real
and
have
values,
you’re
a
normal
guy.
You’re
a
guy
that
I
would
model
myself
after.
My
real
problem
isn’t
approaching
or
talking
to
women,
I
am
good
at
that.
I
want
you
to
look
at
some
pictures.”
Ronnie
pulled
out
a
small
camera
and
started
scrolling
through
the
pictures.
I
saw
some
of
the
pictures
from
the
weekend
of
him
and
I,
him
and
I
with
women…
we
were
basically
going
through
a
timeline
of
our
weekend.
He
kept
going
and
going
with
the
pictures.
Then
he
stayed
on
a
picture
with
him
and
a
beautiful
blonde
woman.
They
were
happy
and
smiling.
He
said,
“That’s
Kate,
and
we
were
supposed
to
get
married
this
last
year.”
My
first
thought
was,
‘Man,
you
need
to
get
over
her’
but
I
held
my
tongue
and
said
nothing.
Ronnie
then
started
to
get
upset
and
looked
at
me
very
seriously…
“This
picture
is
old,
it
was
taken
when
she
was
healthier.
The
last
year
I
spent
taking
care
of
her
while
she
had
cancer.
She
died
right
next
to
me
and
everyday
of
my
life
I
wish
she
had
stayed.
I
wish
we
had
gotten
married
and
I
wouldn’t
be
here
with
you
right
now.
But
that
is
not
the
case,
I
am
alive
and
she
is
not.”
He
started
to
cry.
“Like
I
said,
I
hired
you
to
help
me,
not
to
learn
how
to
talk
to
women.
I
hired
you
because
when
I
met
you
I
knew
I
could
actually
talk
to
you
about
this
and
I
hoped
you
could
help
me.
I
don’t
think
you
know
how
good
of
a
teacher
you
are.
You’re
the
only
one
in
your
industry
that
does
what
you
do.
You
care,
you
have
compassion
and
you’re
someone
who
can
truly
change
someone’s
life.
I
don’t
think
you
know
that
yet,
but
you
need
to
know
that.
We
have
one
more
night
working
together,
and
before
we
go
out
I
want
you
to
help
me
with
something.
I
want
to
know
how
to
express
this
to
a
woman.
I
want
to
be
myself
to
a
woman
and
have
her
attracted
to
me.
Can
you
help
me
communicate
who
I
am,
what
I
feel
and
my
life
to
women?
I
don’t
want
to
have
to
lie
about
anything
to
anyone,
I
want
women
to
want
me
for
me
and
not
some
set
of
stereotypes.
Can
you
do
that?”
That
day
we
came
up
with
the
first
of
theREDstacks
ever.
It
was
hand
written
on
a
piece
of
hotel
paper
and
rehearsed.
It
had
many
different
things
to
it.
It
had
humor,
generating
a
girl’s
attention
and
it
had
some
deep
stuff
about
his
life
he
had
just
told
me
about.
Ronnie
went
out
that
night
and
killed
it.
He
took
a
girl
to
his
apartment
that
night,
but
to
be
honest
he
was
doing
that
the
night
before.
This
isn’t
the
end
of
the
story,
that
would
not
do
Ronnie
justice.
Ronnie
became
good
friends
with
me.
We
traveled
around
together
(even
through
Europe
in
2008)
he
would
come
to
Dallas
and
Austin,
and
he
always
had
way
more
success
with
women
than
myself,
Sinn
and
Captain
Jack
(2
of
the
world’s
best
PUAs
at
the
time).
Sinn
hated
him
for
this.
I
recently
talked
with
Ronnie
(over
5
years
later).
He’s
married,
and
they’re
expecting
a
baby.
He
told
me
something
that
made
me
a
little
bit
envious…
“Steve,
you
have
no
idea,
my
wife
is
my
10
in
everyway.
She
is
cultured,
beautiful
and
professionally
she
is
on
my
level
as
well.
I
knew
I
wanted
the
best,
but
I
had
no
idea
what
the
best
was
until
I
met
her.”
Ronnie
had
told
me
in
that
conversation
that
our
experiences
over
the
years
together
changed
his
life.
But
in
reality
Ronnie
changed
my
life.
He
is
the
reason
why
I
teach
today.
What
he
told
me
in
Arizona
made
me
realize
how
intense
of
an
impact
my
relationships
with
my
clients
could
be.
He
told
me
to
go
in
a
different
direction
and
I
did
it.
He
also
showed
me
the
potential
of
what
I
could
teach.
It
wasn’t
just
how
to
go
and
talk
to
a
woman,
it
was
the
BEST
way
to
go
up
and
talk
to
a
woman
and
as
a
result
you
could
live
the
Sexual
Life.
In
5
years
Ronnie
progressed
in
his
career
in
leaps
and
bounds.
Even
in
an
economic
recession,
he
lived
an
international
life
filled
with
women
and
adventure.
When
we
would
travel
he’d
always
have
stories
of
the
many
women,
adventures
and
continent-‐crossing
friendships
that
would
make
any
man
envious
of
his
life.
He
knew
success
on
a
new
level,
and
most
of
all
he
developed
the
personal
freedom
that
helped
him
enjoy
that
success.
What
I
learned
from
Ronnie
and
the
many
other
clients
that
I
had
written
stacks
for
was
that
when
you
could
truly
communicate
to
the
world
using
the
ultimate
tool
of
self-‐expression,
you
were
put
on
the
path
of
completely
changing
your
life.
It
was
almost
like
the
women
(the
reason
why
you
purchased
theREDstack
were
simply
a
side
effect
of
an
evolved
lifestyle.
As
I
mentioned
above
Ronnie
is
married
and
happily
living
in
NYC.
His
wife
is
European,
beautiful
and
everything
he
every
wanted.
They
traveled
the
world
together
for
the
past
few
years,
and
now
they
are
expecting
their
first
child.
Ronnie
is
another
one
of
those
examples
where
his
life
surpasses
mine.
I
am
always
surprised
when
years
later
when
the
phone
rings
out
of
the
blue
and
after
telling
me
about
his
bountiful
lifestyle
he
ends
the
call
with,
“Thank
you
so
much,
you
really
changed
my
life.”
Since
then
I
have
written
over
150
customized
documents
for
people.
This
is
theREDstack.
No
2
are
alike,
some
range
from
8
pages
to
120
pages.
After
my
first
25
stacks
11
of
my
clients
had
massive
transformations
within
a
week
using
them,
they
got
laid
while
being
themselves.
I
remember
the
people
there
were
people
on
the
forums
posting
about
how
they
finally
had
a
tool
where
they
could
be
themselves
and
attract
women.
A
ton
of
guys
(30%
to
be
exact)
would
get
laid
within
the
first
10
days
of
being
emailed
theREDstack.
And
as
they
continued
to
use
it,
they
soon
realized
it
rounded
out
the
edges
of
the
not
so
smooth
areas
of
their
lives.
In
the
first
3
years
of
its
creation
nearly
every
major
company
tried
to
copy
theREDstack,
even
trading
their
services
just
to
get
their
hands
on
them.
One
of
the
most
prominent
companies
at
the
time
actually
traded
their
services
and
products
for
negative
reviews
of
theREDstack.
They
never
could
produce
anything
that
came
close
or
got
the
results
that
theREDstack
achieved.
These
days
(currently
summer
of
2012)
I
haven’t
advertised
theREDstack
for
over
2
years.
I
get
weekly
emails
about
theREDstack…
“How
much
are
they?”
“Give
me
samples?”
“How
do
I
write
my
own?”
I
will
only
accept
4
to
5
clients
a
year
for
an
unadvertised
product,
and
the
minimum
I
will
charge
for
theREDstack
is
$2500,
and
it
goes
all
the
way
up
to
$10,000.
It
has
become
a
truly
elite
product.
I
has
proven
to
be
the
best
of
the
best.
The
complete
manual,
that
not
only
gives
you
the
best
results
with
women,
but
also
gives
you
the
path
to
an
entire
transformation
while
being
yourself.
This
is
what
you
hold
in
your
hands,
it
is
the
manual
to
the
manual.
This
is
not
just
a
document
that
will
give
you
a
slight
edge.
It
is
the
document
that,
if
applied
will
give
you
one
to
the
biggest
gifts
humanity
is
capable
of…
The
ability
to
connect,
express
and
exchange
with
anybody,
of
any
culture,
in
any
environment
while
being
you.
The
Customized
Approach
Customization
is
the
only
path
to
Seduction
Whether
your
goals
are
to
rampage
around
the
world
meeting
and
having
sex
with
as
many
women
as
possible
or
you
want
a
relationship
with
the
woman
of
your
dreams,
the
only
road
to
this
is
to
take
a
custom
approach.
There
are
2
things
that
make
theREDstack
an
untouchable
product
–
1) The
Systems
–
theREDstack
does
not
teach
you
the
standard
system
for
social
dynamics
and
seduction,
it
takes
a
completely
different
approach
that
uses
you
completely
and
solely.
2) Customization–
in
order
to
use
you
completely
it
is
tailored
to
you.
It
is
your
stack
that
only
you
can
really
use.
Everything
about
you
is
taken
into
consideration
and
utilized.
Your
connections
with
people
will
be
beyond
anything
you
can
imagine
while
taking
a
customized
approach.
Many
people
ask
me
about
the
importance
of
customizing.
Every
time
I
get
asked
this
I
think
to
myself,
‘what’s
the
alternative’?
Personally
interacting
with
my
clients
and
customization
their
lives
to
principles
of
social
dynamics
is
the
only
way
to
work
with
someone.
It
not
only
produces
the
best
techniques
that
surpass
stagnant
systems
and
routines,
but
it
allows
you
to
grow
with
them
and
become
the
best
you,
you
can
be.
Seduction
=
Exchange
Seduction
is
an
exchange,
in
order
to
have
a
good
sexual
experience
one
needs
to
be
themselves
not
something
else.
When
learning
an
approach
that
is
based
on
a
system
that
you
are
forced
to
change
in
order
to
apply
you’re
not
able
to
exchange.
You’re
taking
the
‘human’
out
of
the
human
experience.
Non-‐custom
Approach
=
Self-‐hate
When
changing
your
life
to
achieve
a
result
it
can
mean
sacrifice
or
it
can
mean
one
of
the
greatest
acts
of
self-‐hate.
How
do
we
differentiate
this?
The
difference
between
sacrifice
and
self-‐hate
lie
in
the
result
of
our
actions.
By
result
I
do
not
mean
‘what
we
get’…woman,
lays,
money,
but
by
‘result’
I
mean
do
we
transition
to
become
ourselves.
Most
systems
of
social
dynamics
are
a
recipe
for
self-‐hate.
You
might
think
this
is
a
bold
claim,
however
after
years
and
years
of
seeing
men
(in
an
attempt
to
transform
themselves)
put
their
faith
in
a
system
of
seduction
guaranteeing
them
to
have
a
lush
sexual
life
I
have
seen
an
intense
anger
and
frustration
be
the
most
prominent
outcome.
I
have
see
more
people
being
ashamed,
detached
and
angry
than
I
have
get
good
with
women.
The
reason
is
simple.
You
need
to
change
yourself
to
‘get
good’.
Then
you
need
to
take
actions
on
denying
yourself
in
order
to
get
the
fruits
of
the
system.
When
you
do
get
results
(if
that
even
happens),
it
is
because
you
were
not
yourself.
Bottom
line
–
Sex
is
based
on
an
exchange
between
2
people.
If
you’re
experiencing
one
of
the
most
human
acts
as
a
result
of
denying
yourself
then
you
have
put
yourself
on
an
extreme
path
of
unhappiness.
In
the
realm
of
social
dynamics
we
are
trying
to
achieve
connection,
intimacy
and
sex.
These
are
human
qualities
at
any
level.
I
don’t
care
if
you’re
trying
to
simply
sleep
with
as
many
people
as
possible,
you’re
not
going
to
achieve
this
without
being
able
to
achieve
a
point
of
authenticity.
A
system
of
social
dynamics
that
has
no
room
to
customize
will
halt
you
from
achieving
the
true
essence
of
being
a
‘sexual
man’.
Sadly,
when
you’re
only
using
a
system
that
requires
you
to
change
in
order
to
apply
it,
that
system
is
the
result.
Sadly
these
systems
achieve
very
poor
results,
and
in
addition
to
that
the
results
you
get
have
nothing
to
do
with
you.
Your
relationships,
sexual
experiences
and
friends
are
based
on
something
that
has
denied
you.
Progressive
Learning
System
The
fundamental
of
theREDstack’s
success
is
based
on
the
Progressive
Learning
System,
this
is
a
system
of
learning
that
creates
a
feedback
loop
of
success
based
on
your
identity.
It
uses
your
identity,
lifestyle,
ideals
and
who
you
are
defines
the
environments
and
situations
and
types
of
women
you
meet.
Those
environments
and
situations
define
your
techniques.
The
results
from
those
techniques
feeds
back
into
your
identity.
Identity
–
Your
Ideals,
Attraction
and
Lifestyle
>
Application
-‐
Types
of
Women
and
Environments
>
Techniques
-‐
Strategies
and
Tactics
>
Identity
and
Lifestyle
Most
models
of
social
dynamics
say
–
Learn
the
technique,
this
defines
what
types
of
women
and
where
you
will
meet
them
and
your
results
from
this
define
your
identity
and
lifestyle.
In
the
direction
of
theREDstack
you
become
the
best
version
of
your
‘self’.
In
the
other
you
sacrifice
who
you
are
to
learn
a
technique
that
is
dependent
upon
a
location
and
group
of
women
that
has
nothing
to
do
with
you.
If
you
achieve
success
in
this
you
ultimately
define
your
entire
life
as
some
‘club
guy’
that
plays
dress
up
for
women
that
wear
too
much
make
up.
Of
course
if
that’s
what
you
want
then
go
for
it.
When
you
customize
Seduction
is
that
much
bigger
of
a
playing
field.
When
you
see
things
in
terms
of
Seduction
and
using
a
path
of
Customization,
how
you
meet
women
is
limitless.
If
I
meet
a
woman
and
have
sex
with
her,
I
want
her
to
be
having
sex
with
me,
and
not
some
false
presentation
of
me.
As
you
will
see
the
level
of
customization
that
I
offer
technically
surpasses
anything
non
customized
material
other
people
offer.
I
am
not
telling
you,
‘You
fit
in
this
sexy
stereotype’
or
‘you
have
an
interesting
voice
so
use
it
in
this
way’
or
‘dress
like
this
because
it
fits
your
demeanor’.
I
work
with
people
in
how
they
think,
what
they
feel
and
how
I
can
teach
them
how
to
communicate
with
their
entire
life.
There
is
no
concept
of
‘value’
or
‘lower
value’
in
my
system
and
never
has
been.
Every
single
part
of
you
can
be
used
to
connect
with
someone.
You
can
‘seduce’
from
the
good
and
the
(so
called)
bad.
In
fact
if
you
don’t
seduce
from
your
true
self
the
result
will
be
discontent,
and
a
fairly
intense
discontent
at
that.
Imagine
living
a
life
where
you
can
be
you,
your
best
version
in
the
lifestyle
you
want.
Women
are
loving
you
for
who
you
are.
Your
entire
self
is
accepted,
desired
and
aroused.
The
decisions
you
make,
the
feelings
you
have
are
all
genuine
and
in
balance,
and
meeting
the
women
you
want
is
no
longer
a
fight.
Meeting
women
simply
happens.
This
is
the
end
goal.
The
only
way
to
this
goal
is
to
be
yourself.
Customizing
your
learning
experience
is
the
most
effective
to
get
to
this
ideal
you
can
imagine
for
yourself.
theREDstack
The
Hacker’s
Guide
to
the
Ultimate
Seduction
Tool
Part
1
This
is
a
complete
breakdown
to
shows
you
how
I
created
this
system
of
social
dynamic
that
can
be
customized
to
anyone.
There
are
2
Parts
to
this
series
Part
1
In
this
document
you
will
learn
how
to
go
all
the
way
from
approaching
a
stranger
to
getting
a
deep
level
of
rapport
and
sexuality,
all
while
customizing
it
to
you.
It
might
get
a
little
complex
at
times,
but
as
you
will
see
it
all
flows
together.
Part
1
Covers
Meeting
Attracting
and
Gaining
Interest
Approaching
and
Opening
Bait
Teasing
Transitioning
Teasing
to
Qualification
Qualification
to
Rapport
Cycling
Rapport
Rapport
Cycling
Part
2
Covers
Getting
Sexual
Intent
Framing
Sexual
Frames
Cold
Reading
Logistics
Dates
Escalation
How
to
Use
This
You’re
going
to
have
to
put
in
some
work!
In
this
document
I
have
tons
of
different
examples
and
explanations.
I
can
only
hold
your
hand
so
much.
First
off
this
is
not
specifically
written
for
you,
you’re
going
to
have
to
do
that
part.
Second
all
journeys,
especially
seduction,
needs
to
have
you
involved
in
the
process.
There
is
no
magic
wand
that
makes
women
desire
you.
You
need
to
go
out
there
and
make
this
happen.
The
best
application
for
success
always
has
these
3
components
–
-‐ Study
-‐ Apply
-‐ Study
What
you
need
to
do
is
study
this.
Do
the
exercises,
and
take
the
concepts
and
apply
them
to
your
life.
I
would
recommend
after
learning
the
concepts
you
need
to
1)
try
and
construct
them
yourself
by
writing
them
2)Applying
them
immediately
Take
one
concept
at
a
time.
When
you
attempt
to
learn
2
or
3
things
at
once
you
don’t
learn
twice
as
fast,
you
learn
twice
as
slow.
Get
started
and
if
you
have
any
questions
don’t
be
afraid
to
ask
–
steve@thesexuallife.com
Let’s
meet
up
on
the
adventure
of
life!
The
greater
the
adventure
the
better
of
friends.
If
this
isn’t
enough
and
you
really
want
to
learn
more
theSexualLife.com
has
many
online
and
live
programs
that
will
get
you
where
you
need
to
be
with
these
techniques.
1
-
Meeting,
Attracting
and
Interest
–
The
Theory
Customizing
your
Approach
and
Openers
Before
you
can
seduce
a
woman,
you
have
got
to
find
a
woman.
You
have
got
to
meet
her,
attract
her
and
generate
an
interest.
You
want
to
find
the
right
women,
meet
her
in
the
right
places,
and
attract
her
in
the
right
ways.
The
essence
of
theREDstack
is
to
bring
it
all
back
to
you.
Your
approach,
your
conversation
and
all
your
tools
of
‘getting
her
attention’
need
to
come
back
to
who
you
are.
There
are
a
few
concepts
I
want
you
to
understand
before
you
dive
into
the
techniques.
Remember
the
Progressive
Learning
System
-‐
using
this
model
will
allow
you
to
progress
in
an
authentic
way.
Identity
>
Application
>
Techniques>
Identity
You
need
to
determine
who
you
are
and
what
you
like,
and
live
that
life.
Discovering
your
Identity
-
One
of
the
most
important
documents
I
have
is
the
Identity
PDF
from
the
Mastermind
Program.
Through
this
PDF
you
will
discover
the
deep
layers
of
self
that
will
allow
you
to
create
that
feedback
loop
of
seduction.
For
now
determine
these
4
fundamentals,
we
can
do
a
lot
with
these
for
now.
DON’T
SKIP
THIS
EXERCISE
1
–
What
you
think
is
attractive
about
women,
physically,
emotionally
and
what
type
of
woman
you
would
want.
2
–
What
is
attractive
about
you?
What
physical
attributes
do
you
have?
What
situational
attributes
do
you
have,
what
parts
of
your
life
and
personality
are
attractive.
3
–
Where
are
the
types
of
women
you
want
to
meet?
Are
they
at
bars,
yoga
classes,
art
shows,
fund
raisers,
night
clubs
and
so
on?
Simply,
what
type
of
social
arenas
can
you
meet
the
type
of
women
that
you
want
to
meet?
4
–
What
is
your
experience?
Do
you
want
to
focus
on
approaching?
If
you
haven’t
approached
many
women
(or
any)
you
need
to
learn
that
pat
first.
If
you
need
to
build
more
rapport
then
you
focus
there.
This
needs
to
be
determined.
Now
we
have
answered
the
questions
above.
Let’s
start
putting
them
to
use.
Approaching
and
Opening
–
There
are
2
goals
of
Approaching,
it
doesn’t
matter
how
you
achieve
them
–
-‐ Isolate
-‐ Escalate
And
remember
all
your
forms
of
communication
need
to
come
back
to
who
you
are.
People
make
approaching
far
too
complex,
and
put
way
too
much
emphasis
on
it.
Here
are
4
simple
fundamentals
of
approaching
that
make
the
whole
act
a
whole
lot
easier.
-‐ Read
the
Situation
-‐ Keep
it
Simple
-‐ Match
Energy
-‐ Isolate
There
are
many
ways
to
approach,
but
if
you’re
not
Keeping
it
Simple,
taking
the
Situation
into
consideration
and
coming
in
at
the
same
Energy
Level
you’re
not
going
to
be
able
to
fluidly
transition
into
meaningful
and
intense
conversations.
If
you
learn
to
meet
women
in
an
incongruent
way,
like
having
a
false
façade
of
energy
or
a
misrepresentation
then
you’re
stating
off
on
the
wrong
foot,
on
the
wrong
path,
walking
in
the
wrong
direction.
Approaching
women
should
not
be
complex.
It
is
much
easier
than
you
think.
The
only
reason
why
we
over
think
it
is
because
it
can
hold
the
biggest
fear.
Many
men
have
not
approached
many
women,
so
they
are
afraid
of
what
might
happen.
Men
can
also
fear
approaching
women
because
they
expect
too
much
of
a
result
with
it.
When
you
have
expectations
you
build
barriers
in
front
of
yourself
that
never
existed
before.
Approaching
should
be
seen
as
simple
and
casual.
It
should
never
been
out
of
the
ordinary.
This
philosophy
NEEDS
to
be
adopted
in
order
for
you
to
fully
succeed
in
having
genuine
and
organic
interactions.
A
simple
rule
for
approaching
is
before
you
memorize
a
bunch
of
content,
you
need
to
make
sure
you
internalize
these
foundations.
1
–
Read
the
Situation
–
The
Environment
The
Situation
There
are
2
main
things
to
look
at
with
reading
a
situation.
The
Environment
or
venue
and
the
Social
Dynamic
or
how
she
is
interacting
with
her
friends.
You
should
be
asking
yourself
–
“How
can
I
best
approach
this
group
of
people?”
“What
part
of
me
do
I
need
to
be
communicating
with?”
“How
am
I
going
to
be
bringing
this
back
to
who
I
am?”
You
don’t
want
to
over
think
this,
but
be
smart
about
your
progression.
A
short
plan
before
and
a
little
assessment
after
does
a
lot
for
your
growth
and
progression.
The
situation
defines
your
technique
and
how
you’re
going
to
make
any
headway
with
who
you
want
to
meet.
The
situations
you
meet
women
in
should
be
based
on
the
type
of
places
you
like
to
go
and
the
women
that
you
meet.
If
you’re
in
a
nightclub
the
situation
is
defined
by
the
unwritten
rules
of
that
club.
Ultimately
you
simply
want
to
be
integrated
in
the
Situation.
You
are
never
going
to
redefine
it.
For
instance,
if
you’re
in
a
bar,
you’re
going
to
have
to
socialize
within
the
cultural
structure
of
that
bar.
If
you’re
in
a
nightclub,
you’re
going
to
have
to
socialize
within
the
cultural
structure
of
that
club.
If
you’re
out
running
on
a
nature
train,
you’re
going
to
have
to
socialize
within
the
culture
of
that
trail.
Your
environment
determines
everything
about
how
you’re
going
to
interact
with
her.
You’re
going
to
choose
a
completely
different
approach
with
women
sitting
at
a
café
then
you
would
with
women
dancing
in
a
club.
You’re
also
going
to
need
to
take
into
account
immediate
social
mode.
Is
she
talking
to
her
friends?
Do
they
look
absolutely
engaged?
Is
she
drinking?
Is
she
happy
and
overtly
social?
Is
she
dancing
flirting
with
many
people?
All
these
have
to
do
with
her
immediate
Situation
and
Social
Dynamic.
You
need
to
be
a
part
of
that
Situation
in
order
to
get
her
attention.
This
doesn’t
mean
you
will
need
to
maintain
the
Social
Dynamic,
but
you’re
best
bet
at
getting
her
attention
is
to
be
a
part
of
it
at
the
approach.
If
she
is
dancing
with
her
friends,
you
might
want
to
wait
a
minute
until
she
slows
down
a
bit.
However
if
you
like
dancing,
go
up
and
start
dancing
with
her.
In
order
to
talk
to
her
you’re
going
to
need
to
dance
for
10
seconds
to
10
mins
with
her
and
transition
into
a
conversation.
The
best
way
to
find
the
best
situations
that
you’re
gong
to
grow
into
happiness
with
is
this…
Do
the
things
you
like
to
do
and
go
for
the
women
within
this
environment.
If
you
only
like
things
that
are
not
social,
you’re
going
to
have
to
change
those
things.
You’re
going
to
have
to
push
the
envelope
a
bit.
Where
a
lot
of
guys
go
in
the
opposite
direction
of
the
Seducer’s
Feedback
Loop
is
they
start
trying
to
be
‘that
Club
guy’
when
they
hate
clubs.
Push
the
envelope
but
don’t
compensate
yourself!
2
–
Keep
it
Simple
–
Socializing
and
Sex
are
2
of
the
most
normal
things
we
can
do
in
our
lives.
In
fact
it
was
what
we
were
meant
to
do.
Being
social
and
having
sex
make
way
more
sense
than
showing
up
to
a
job
everyday.
That
being
said
your
end
goal
is
to
move
closer
to
this
mentality
of
‘I’m
meant
to
be
a
social
and
sexual
person’
with
all
of
your
actions.
When
you
approach
a
girl
it
has
less
to
do
with
a
theory,
technique
or
what
you
say
than
just
going
up
and
talking
to
someone.
It
should
be
simple
and
effortless.
It
should
never
be
a
big
deal.
In
the
Seduction
Industry
there
is
a
concept
called
‘Approach
Anxiety’.
This
is
one
of
the
most
misleading
concepts
that
keeps
men
stagnant.
Approach
anxiety
means
you’re
afraid
to
approach
a
woman
you
don’t
know.
There
are
2
categories
that
I
see
this
in.
1
-‐
Afraid
to
approach
because
the
woman
is
attractive
and…
2
-‐
Afraid
to
talk
to
everyone
3
–
Discontent
for
people
If
a
woman
is
attractive
and
you
are
afraid
to
talk
to
her
that
is
normal
and
supposed
to
happen.
Part
of
being
a
confident
man
is
you
walk
past
that
fear
and
talk
to
her
in
a
calm
and
confident
way.
In
order
to
do
this
you
need
experience,
some
knowledge
of
technique
and
confidence.
Confidence
is
a
result
of
action.
Because
every
situation
and
person
is
unique,
and
every
sexual
situation
is
unique
you’re
going
to
be
nervous
every
time
you
approach
a
new
woman
that
you
think
is
attractive.
If
you’re
afraid
to
talk
to
everyone,
this
is
completely
different.
You
need
to
get
social
first.
You
need
to
get
used
to
talking
to
everyone
first.
You
also
need
to
get
used
to
talking
to
woman.
If
you
start
learning
to
talk
to
women
using
only
technique
then
you
will
move
away
from
being
yourself.
Your
identity
will
be
the
technique
and
not
all
the
awesome
stuff
about
you.
If
you’re
afraid
to
talk
to
people
because
people
are
getting
on
your
nerves
then
you
are
doing
something
wrong.
Socializing
is
not
easy
for
you.
Of
course
you
need
to
push
through
your
comfort
zones,
but
the
reason
why
you’re
discontent
is
because
you’re
most
likely
doing
something
you
don’t
like.
For
instance,
in
teaching
seduction
I
found
myself
in
nightclubs
150-‐200
times
a
year.
I
have
never
liked
nightclubs.
Before
this
career,
during
this
career
and
after
probably
after
this
career
I
will
not
like
nightclubs.
No
wonder
I
would
be
discontent
with
people.
I
am
in
an
environment
I
don’t
like.
Now
I
had
proven
I
could
approach,
seduce
and
all
of
the
above
in
a
nightclub.
I
lived
the
PUA
expectation.
However,
I
wanted
to
like
My
Life
with
women,
not
something
else.
I
needed
to
find
my
environment
I
like,
with
people
that
I
like
and
then
my
perspectives
could
change.
In
the
end,
if
you
see
a
woman
you
like,
in
the
situation
and
environment
you
like
your
best
results
of
expression
yourself
and
your
intent
are
going
to
come
from
being
yourself
and
Keeping
it
Simple.
I
know
you’ve
heard
this
before,
‘Be
yourself’.
It
is
some
confusing
advice,
but
only
confusing
because
you
don’t
know
the
right
way
to
express
yourself.
3
–
Match
the
Energy
–
One
of
the
oldest
tricks
of
social
dynamics
is
to
approach
a
girl
at
the
a
little
bit
more,
a
little
bit
less
or
equal
energy
levels.
This
is
an
easy
mentality
and
practice
to
implement,
however
many
times
guys
forget
it.
Sadly
in
my
experience
of
teaching
I
see
guys
time
and
time
again
practice
in
a
night
club,
then
they
think
that
is
how
they
are
going
to
talk
to
someone
on
the
street.
I
find
it
amazing
that
guys
will
pay
a
‘PUA
Guru’
thousands
of
dollars
to
learn
‘Daygame’
just
to
learn
how
to
be
a
clown.
If
you
see
women
interacting
and
joking,
when
you
approach
them
you
probably
need
to
be
having
a
happy
and
fun
energy
level
to
yourself.
If
you
see
a
woman
at
an
art
opening
and
she
is
drinking
a
glass
of
wine
absorbed
in
the
picture
in
front
of
her
you
need
to
approach
her
in
that
mellow
and
appreciative
state.
In
other
words,
if
you’re
in
a
nightclub
it
works
best
if
you’re
having
fun
in
that
club
drinking
and
partying.
The
key
to
all
of
this
is
enjoy
that
lifestyle
first,
then
you
don’t
have
to
fake
it.
For
myself
I
talk
to
women
at
café’s
or
that
are
at
lounges
and
restaurants
that
I
frequent.
I
like
those
environments
so
it
is
effortless
for
me
to
match
the
energy
of
the
situation.
I
can
relax
and
the
situation
allows
the
rest
of
the
people
there
to
be
relaxed
so
I
can
effortlessly
approach,
exchange
and
seduce
how
I
want
and
who
I
want.
Once
you
find
out
where
you
want
to
meet
women
look
at
how
that
environment
communicates.
You
want
to
Match
that
energy
level.
4
–
Isolate
–
You
need
to
isolate!
People
can
over
think
‘how
to
approach’
a
woman.
There
are
no
rules
to
it.
I
have
seen
it
done
in
many
ways.
There
are
ways
that
I
think
would
never
work
that
people
have
proven
to
work
and
make
consistent.
There
is
one
main
goal
of
approaching
a
woman,
and
that
is
to
take
things
further
and
see
if
you
really
like
her.
In
order
to
do
anything
else
you
need
to
isolate.
You
need
to
talk
to
her
individually.
I
don’t
care
if
you’re
in
a
situation
where
you’re
going
for
purely
a
sexual
experience,
you’re
going
to
need
to
talk
to
her
1-‐on-‐1
and
not
to
her
and
3
of
her
friends.
This
is
fundamental.
When
I
was
first
learning
about
women
from
my
buddy
CJ
in
Dallas
I
read
on
some
seduction
forum
–
“As
soon
as
I
open
I
immediately
try
and
isolate.
I
open
and
then
grab
their
hand
and
say
come
with
me.”
I
read
this
and
thought
this
was
non-‐sense.
Then
I
saw
that
my
mentor,
CJ,
posted
right
underneath
saying,
“Most
people
think
this
is
wrong
but
it
is
100%
right.”
Later
I
asked
CJ
about
it.
He
told
me,
“We
are
not
talking
about
‘Picking
Up
Chicks’
we
are
talking
about
Seduction.
Those
other
guys
only
want
attention,
I
want
to
get
laid.
In
order
to
do
that
I
need
to
be
alone
with
the
girl
and
make
my
impression
on
her.
If
I
am
talking
to
the
group
I
am
only
trying
to
get
attention.”
After
that
all
I
focused
on
was
isolating
girls
quickly.
I
didn’t
just
yank
them
away,
I
built
some
finesse
into
it.
What
I
came
to
realize
that
it
didn’t
matter
what
I
did
when
I
approached
women,
what
mattered
was
that
I
talked
to
them
individually
almost
instantly.
They
could
still
be
standing
near
their
friends,
it
wasn’t
about
distance,
it
was
about
me
only
talking
to
them
within
1
min
of
talking
to
them.
Of
course
sometimes
it
took
longer,
but
a
good
goal
to
shoot
for
would
be
to
isolate
within
1-‐2mins.
The
Art
of
Opening
We
have
the
4
fundamentals
of
Approaching
and
Meeting
women
down.
We
need
to
learn
how
to
‘Open’.
There
are
a
few
rules
to
opening
–
1
–
There
are
no
rules
–
There
is
no
style
that
is
better
than
the
next.
Choose
what
works
for
you
and
that’s
what’s
good.
However
you
do
need
to
bring
the
topics
back
to
yourself.
2
–
The
goal
of
opening
is
to
-‐ Get
her
attention
-‐ Qualify
-‐ Escalate
I
don’t
care
about
how
good
you
are
at
‘opening’,
it
is
unimportant
if
you
aren’t
accomplishing
these
3
things.
What
is
important
is
you
getting
her
attention,
seeing
if
you
like
this
girl
and
then
if
you
guys
like
each
other
take
the
interaction
further.
The
best
‘opening’
techniques
in
the
world
will
at
their
best
achieve
an
ability
to
escalate
the
situation.
The
3
Styles
of
Getting
Her
Attention
-
Opening
There
are
many
ways
to
initiate
conversation
with
women,
however
they
all
fall
underneath
3
simple
categories.
This
is
the
first
step
to
Opening
–
Getting
her
attention.
If
you
do
this,
you
accomplish
your
goal.
Now
don’t
get
me
wrong,
you
can
mix
in
all
sorts
of
other
creative
angles
and
tactics
to
also
build
more
entertainment
or
sexuality
to
it,
but
the
main
goal
is
to
Get
her
attention.
1
–
Indirect
–
You’re
approaching
the
women
about
something
other
than
stating
your
intent.
This
could
be
asking
them
about
their
opinion
or
perspective
on
something.
Example
–
“Excuse
me,
I
needed
an
opinion
on
something?
What
is
the
reason
why
women
are
always
late?”
Immediately
I
would
have
to
transition
into
something,
however
my
only
goal
here
is
to
Get
her
attention.
As
I
continue
I
will
see
if
she
and
I
are
qualified
to
talk
to
each
other,
then
determine
if
and
how
to
escalate.
2
–
Direct
–
This
is
when
you
approach
a
woman
and
directly
state
your
intent.
For
example
–
‘You’re
adorable,
I
had
to
come
and
talk
to
you…my
name
is
Steve.”
There
are
different
strategies
for
both
direct
and
indirect
that
people
might
consider
different
or
conflicting,
however
there
are
always
the
same
3
goals
–
Get
her
attention,
Qualify
and
Escalate.
3
–
Situational
–
In
this
style
of
opening
you’re
looking
at
the
situation
and
using
the
situation
to
make
a
connection.
This
could
be
dancing
at
a
concert,
lost
and
finding
direction
and
basically
taking
what
life
brings
you
and
getting
her
attention,
qualifying
and
escalating
based
on
that.
Example
–
You’re
standing
in
line
at
a
café
thinking
about
what
you’re
going
to
order.
There
is
a
girl
in
front
of
you
and
you
know
you
have
about
a
minute
before
you’re
going
to
get
your
order
in,
and
you
say
(in
a
humorous
tone)…
“You
know
this
is
really
kind
of
weird
but
I
am
one
of
those
guys
that
always
has
to
run
a
big
decision
by
someone
first,
but
I
was
thinking
about
the
large
coffee,
but
it
wasn’t
masculine
enough…”
This
get’s
her
attention,
now
you’re
going
to
have
to
move
towards
seeing
if
you
2
are
qualified
to
talk
to
each
other.
Qualification
–
The
turning
point
in
all
communication.
Qualification
–
Asserting
yourself
and
seeing
if
it
is
Accepted.
This
is
one
of
the
most
fundamental
qualities
that
will
determine
not
only
your
success
but
it
will
get
you
the
relationships
you
want.
Also
it
will
prove
to
be
the
most
useful
tool
in
order
to
connect
with
people
on
deep
levels
extremely
quick.
Qualification
means
much
more
than
what
you
might
have
assumed
it
to
mean.
In
this
unique
perspective
on
Qualification
you
will
learn
the
absolute
foundation
let
you
have
the
sexual
experiences
you
have
always
wanted.
Qualification
is
a
concept
that
we
will
talk
about
at
length,
however
for
now
we
need
to
know
that
if
we
are
talking
a
woman
that
and
we
haven’t
established
that
we
both
are
qualified
to
talk
to
each
other
then
we
are
wasting
each
other’s
time.
At
first
many
times
men
will
only
look
for
physical
features
in
a
woman
to
see
if
she
is
qualified
for
him.
There
is
nothing
wrong
with
looking
at
a
woman’s
breasts,
face
or
ass
and
being
attracted
to
it.
There
is
something
wrong
with
limiting
the
qualities
you’re
looking
for
in
women
to
that.
Believe
me
I
know
what
it
is
like
to
just
want
to
have
sex
with
a
hot
ass
woman,
but
even
if
I
am
looking
for
sex
I
also
know
that
I
need
connect
more
with
than
simply
my
desire
for
her
sexually.
The
4
Functions
of
Qualification
1- Gain
Value
–
This
is
what
it
is
normally
sited
as,
a
tool
of
value.
If
you
establish
your
value
and
then
see
if
she
respects
your
value
by
showing
it
to
her
then
she
is
‘Qualifying’
herself
to
you.
This
is
important
but
if
you
are
only
seeing
Qualification
with
this
depth,
you
will
not
grow
with
it.
2- Calibrate
–
This
is
also
a
common
reason
sighted
by
most
instructors
for
Qualification.
If
you
Qualify
someone
and
they
Qualify
themselves
(simply
ask
a
question
that
is
fairly
deep,
and
they
answer
it)
then
you
are
in
‘comfort’
or
rapport
with
a
girl.
This
is
true,
but
there
are
a
few
things
to
address
here.
First
attraction,
comfort
and
seduction
are
always
prevalent.
To
say
they
shift
into
a
phase
and
stay
there
is
wrong.
Also
someone
being
‘real’
or
getting
comfortable
with
you
can
happen
before
asking
a
heavy
question
or
after.
I
would
see
Qualification
as
more
than
just
seeing
where
you
are
in
an
interaction.
3- Guide
–
This
is
always
overlooked
and
something
that
is
unique
to
theREDstack.
To
this
day
I
am
the
only
person
that
has
pointed
this
out,
and
I
have
for
years.
It
saddens
me
that
other
people
teach
and
haven’t
figured
this
out,
it
just
makes
sense.
When
you
are
Qualifying
–
however
you
do
it,
verbal,
physical,
situational
ect…
–
you
are
leading.
Because
you
are
leading
you
are
building
direction.
A
few
Examples
–
Verbal
–
If
you
ask
about
someone’s
‘Passions,’
this
does
not
mean
you
need
to
just
see
if
they
answer.
It
means
that
you
can
talk
about
your
‘Passions’.
Physical
–
When
touching
a
girl
you
don’t
need
to
see
if
she
touches
you
back,
but
you
can
touch
her
while
exuding
sexuality,
comfort
or
just
compliance
towards
plain
old
touching.
The
thing
is,
if
you
are
pulling
her
around
by
the
waist
or
something
along
those
lines
then
it
will
be
communicating
sexually.
If
she
is
compliant
in
this
way
she
is
Qualifying
herself
to
you
towards
that
action
and
most
likely
Sexually.
Situational
–
When
you
create
certain
situations
like
a
date
perhaps
you
allow
her
to
be
compliant
in
what
you
like.
To
use
an
extreme
example
of
this,
my
friend
who
is
over
40
will
meet
women
at
bookstores
and
take
them
out
to
dinner
then
talk
them
into
going
to
a
strip
club
with
him
after.
Since
he
is
pretty
persuasive
this
usually
works.
When
they
agree
to
go,
they
are
Qualifying
themselves
towards
many
things,
and
the
date
usually
ends
with
a
pretty
good
Sexual
Barrier
broken
down.
I
have
always
taught
Qualification
as
a
tool
to
guide
and
change
topics.
4
-
Are
they
Qualified
–
All
this
Qualification
stuff
is
about
being
able
to
show
yourself
and
meet
people
that
are
Qualified
to
talk
to
you.
This
is
actually
what
Mystery
saw
as
its
main
purpose.
However,
people
seemed
to
remember
the
value
component
to
it.
It
may
sound
stupid,
but
the
real
reason
for
Qualification
is
to
see
whether
or
not
you
like
them.
If
you
ask
about
her
ideals
and
she
doesn’t
want
to
answer
the
question,
then
how
much
do
you
really
want
to
talk
to
this
girl?
If
you
have
boldly
shown
yourself
and
she
doesn’t
care
to
contribute
then
she
is
probably
someone
you
don’t’
want
to
talk
to.
If
you
ask
her
about
her
Ideals
and
she
answers
something
that
you
don’t
respect
then
she
is
probably
someone
you
don’t
want
to
talk
to.
If
she
likes
this
topic
and
is
going
along
with
you
showing
yourself
and
who
you
are,
adding
things
that
you
like
–
then
you’re
building
a
life
with
the
women
you
want.
For
instance,
I
like
cultured
women,
so
I
always
talk
about
things
that
have
to
do
with
that….art,
travel,
open-‐mindedness,
and
then
I
ask
questions
accordingly.
If
women
can
contribute
to
this
then
I
keep
talking
to
them.
Sounds
simple,
but
this
is
often
over
looked.
In
the
Seduction
Industry
the
general
idea
is
that
if
a
girl
doesn’t
do
what
you
want
you
need
to
do
something
different
to
get
her
to
do
what
you
want.
The
only
thing
you
can
truly
work
on
is
the
best
possible
way
to
assert
yourself
and
cycle
rapport.
If
you
only
use
it
for
value
or
calibration
then
you
are
not
getting
what
you
want,
and
getting
what
is
only
in
front
of
you.
When
looking
at
those
4
Functions
of
Qualification
we
can
start
to
build
on
better
ways
to
use
Qualification.
Now
you
should
have
a
good
idea
of
what
we
are
working
with.
Let’s
look
at
some
applications.
2
-
Meeting,
Attracting
and
Interest
–
The
Applications
Customizing
your
Approach
and
Openers
When
we
approach
someone,
remember
our
only
real
goals
are
to
-‐ Successfully
get
attention
-‐ Isolate
-‐ Truly
present
ourselves
-‐ Move
towards
Qualification
and
Rapport
The
sooner
we
can
accomplish
all
of
that,
the
better
and
more
powerful
our
interactions
will
be.
When
creating
content
for
theREDstack
all
I
cared
about
was
making
‘openers’
for
guys
that
got
them
talking
about
their
lives
and
then
started
qualifying
whoever
they
were
talking
to
on
it.
Within
2
mins
they
could
be
in
deep
rapport
with
anyone
they
talked
to.
There
were
almost
endless
structures
I
worked
in
to
generate
these
openers,
but
here
are
3
prominent
ones.
1
–
Genuine
Direct
2
–
Shotgun
3
-
Bait
Genuine
Direct
was
for
guys
who
had
1
of
2
personality
types.
1
–
They
were
not
good
at
socializing
2
–
They
had
some
good
experience
with
women.
Those
might
sound
like
2
very
unalike
things
but
here
is
why.
For
guys
that
weren’t
good
at
talking,
conversation
and
so
on,
going
direct
can
be
an
easy
tool
for
people
to
get
a
girl
to
start
talking
first.
For
instance,
if
I
approach
and
say,
“You’re
the
most
attractive
women
I
have
seen”
then
ask,
“why
are
you
from?”
She
will
be
the
one
starting
off
the
talking.
More
often
than
not
she
will
start
a
conversation
about
where
she
is
from
rather
than
just
saying
a
city.
The
Genuine
part
is
great
because
it
makes
it
easy
to
continue
the
conversation.
It
also
elicits
her
emotions
of
compassion
and
so
on.
This
is
what
the
‘social
value’
based
guys
never
got.
Emotions
are
how
we
communicate.
They
were
so
obsessed
with
looking
cool
that
they
overlooked
one
of
the
most
powerful
human
attributes,
eliciting
emotion.
Now
for
guys
that
had
a
lot
of
experience
with
women,
they
just
wanted
to
get
to
the
point.
They
had
the
confidence
to
not
dance
around
with
anything.
They
just
wanted
to
get
to
the
point
and
escalate.
Once
someone
who
shows
true
sexual
confidence
mixes
in
a
point
of
true
genuine
expression
showing
some
shyness
it
is
a
major
turn
on
for
a
woman.
This
small
act
will
completely
open
a
woman
up
emotionally
and
in
some
cases
sexually
right
from
the
start.
In
order
to
bring
this
back
to
that
person’s
values
I
needed
to
take
a
look
at
‘what’s
most
attractive
about
my
client’
or
‘what
is
he
attracted
to
in
woman?’
This
would
fuel
what
my
‘hard
switch’
would
be.
Exp
1
–
Client
–
Engineer,
Not
too
social,
not
from
a
good
family,
values
friendships,
little
experience
with
women.
My
goal
is
to
give
this
guy
an
opener
that
will
get
him
social,
not
intimidate
him
and
transition
him
to
rapport
as
quick
as
possible.
“Hey
you’re
adorable,
I
just
wanted
to
come
up
and
talk
you.
Oh
man,
I
am
sorry,
I
didn’t
think
I
would
be
this
nervous,
but
I
bet
you
get
awkward
guys
in
front
of
you
all
the
time.
(smile)
Let
me
ask
you
(insert
qualifier
based
on
something
you
value.
Exp
“someone
who
has
this
effect
on
me,
do
you
attract
people
who
are
more
genuine
or
superficial
people?”)
The
idea
behind
this
is
that
is
allows
a
guy
that
might
not
be
too
experienced
to
move
quickly
to
a
rapport
based
topic
right
off
the
opener.
That
might
not
stick,
but
you
can
switch
to
it
fairly
easily
by
simply
offering
another
question
based
on
what
you
value.
Think
less
entertaining
and
more
switching
to
rapport.
Exp
2
–
Client
–
Student,
has
had
2
long
term
relationships
–
knows
women,
but
not
many
women.
Not
too
much
money,
but
confident.
Used
to
getting
some
attention
with
women
but
doesn’t
know
what
to
do
with
it.
“Hey…
(pause
smile)
Wait
I
am
embarrassing
myself.
I
was
trying
to
think
of
something
to
say
because
I
was
attracted
to
you,
but
now
I
forgot.
My
name’s
(insert),
do
you
always
have
this
effect
on
strange
men
who
approach
you?”
The
beauty
in
this
is
that
you’re
not
only
starting
off
in
rapport,
but
you
can
thread
your
conversations
instantly
into
her
femininity
and
how
she
asserts
herself
as
a
female
and
so
on.
So
simple
its
almost
too
easy.
Perhaps
one
of
the
most
important
things
here
is
not
the
technique
of
the
opener,
but
the
direction
it
is
moving
in.
My
only
concern
for
the
client
is
to
move
to
a
topic
he
can
talk
about
what
is
attractive
about
him,
or
what
he
is
attracted
to
in
a
woman.
2
–
Shotgun
This
can
be
done
in
many
ways,
but
it
means
opening
and
bringing
up
2-‐4
topics
within
the
opener
in
order
to
see
where
to
go
in
the
conversation.
All
of
those
topics
will
be
thing
that
you
value.
You
can
go
direct
or
indirect.
Let’s
play
off
of
the
above
examples
of
Genuine
Direct
first.
Shotgun
openers
are
great
for
guys
who
have
good
conversational
skills.
If
you’re
a
guy
that
says
to
himself,
‘I
am
terrible
at
meeting
women,
but
if
only
I
could
just
get
in
a
conversation,
I’d
be
great’
this
is
for
you.
Exp
1
–
Client
–
Business
owner,
divorced.
Driven
at
business,
but
not
social.
A
little
beaten
up
after
the
last
relationship,
and
looking
to
get
back
in
the
saddle.
Knows
he
has
value,
but
his
ex
really
beat
it
out
of
him.
He’s
willing
to
try
anything
at
this
point,
but
doesn’t
want
to
embarrass
himself
with
the
majority
of
the
dating
industry’s
material.
“Hey…
(pause
and
smile)
I
am
sorry
I
meant
to
come
up
and
say
something
really
amazing,
but
I
kind
of
froze.
My
ex
always
said
I
am
bad
at
meeting
people.
I
always
had
a
different
way
of
thinking
that
doesn’t
always
work
when
I’m
nervous.
My
name
is
(insert),
Let
me
ask
you
are
you
someone
one
who
has
2
sides
to
you
that
can
have
trouble
communicating?”
Here
is
what
is
great
about
this.
You
might
be
thinking
this
sounds
confusing,
but
try
and
read
it
out
loud.
He
is
bringing
up
-‐ He’s
divorced
-‐ He’s
attracted
to
her
-‐ He’s
nervous
but
wants
to
talk
-‐ Has
multiple
sides
to
him
All
in
about
10
seconds
of
conversation.
Seems
complex
at
first
but
guys
that
try
this
sort
of
opener
a
few
times
will
get
the
true
genius
of
it.
Most
likely
she
will
be
receptive
to
one
of
the
topics
you
present.
As
the
conversation
flows
you
can
hit
all
the
topics,
and
personality
traits
you
bring
up.
Exp
2
–
Client
–
In
his
mid
40’s
like
younger
women
and
doesn’t
think
he
can
attract
them.
Professional,
has
experience
with
older
women,
but
wants
to
be
the
guy
that
gets
the
younger
girls.
Good
talked,
doesn’t
want
to
come
across
creepy.
Has
had
many
jobs,
but
has
had
tons
of
sales
experience.
This
opener
will
be
indirect
–
“Excuse
me,
I
have
a
question.
I
didn’t
mean
to
startle
you
but
I
have
a
question
that
only
that
someone
that
attracts
a
lot
of
attention
can
answer.
It
has
to
do
with
perspectives
and
different
age
groups,
and
I
think
that
for
some
reason
you
will
give
me
a
good
answer…”
Once
again
I
this
sounds
confusing,
you
need
to
read
it
out
loud.
He
is
stating
-‐ She
attracts
a
lot
of
attention
(she’s
attractive)
-‐ He
addresses
immediately
that
he
doesn’t
want
to
startle
her
-‐ Age
differences
-‐ Highlighting
perspectives
-‐ He
wants
an
individual
answer
from
her
If
I
were
writing
a
specific
routine
for
this
individual
I
would
tell
him
to
start
with
this
thread
then
drop
it
and
move
to
something
more
meaningful.
Remember,
I
basically
just
want
someone
to
transition
into
a
deep
conversation
as
quick
as
possible.
Here
is
what
I
might
write
-‐
Exp
2
continued
We
will
start
with
the
original
opener.
“Excuse
me,
I
have
a
question.
I
didn’t
mean
to
startle
you
but
I
have
a
question
that
only
that
someone
that
attracts
a
lot
of
attention
can
answer.
It
has
to
do
with
perspectives
and
different
age
groups,
and
I
think
that
for
some
reason
you
will
give
me
a
good
answer…
But
now
I
want
to
ask
you,
what
do
you
think
people
are
attracted
to
when
they
give
you
attention?”
(She
answers
or
is
somewhat
confused,
so
he
continues)
“I
don’t
mean
to
confuse
you,
but
I
have
always
been
someone
who
was
a
people
person.
People
always
loved
me,
but
I
started
to
notice
as
I
grew
more
in
my
life
that
certain
people
were
immediately
intimidated
by
me
and
would
pre-‐judge
me
and
push
me
away.
You’re
someone
who
is
somewhat
attractive,
but
how
often
do
people
treat
you
with
what
that
attraction
is
worth.
In
other
words,
do
you
have
men
treat
you
the
way
you
deserve
to
be
treated?”
In
this
she
might
still
be
confused,
but
the
stage
has
been
set
and
set
quickly.
I
would
also
say
that
for
this
guy
in
particular
he
could
quite
easily
then
talk
about
his
age
being
a
deterrent
for
some
women,
but
really
how
that
might
be
a
fear
of
not
knowing
what
being
a
‘woman’
was.
Also
anyone
who
looks
at
this
material
and
says,
“that’s
moving
too
fast”,
well
the
idea
that
you
can’t
move
that
fast
is
more
absurd
than
thinking
you
can.
I
move
this
fast,
my
clients
move
this
fast,
and
if
you
still
think
that
you
need
to
gain
more
‘value’,
‘compliance’
or
some
other
flawed
philosophy
of
social
dynamics
then
you
have
no
understanding
of
social
dynamics.
It
won’t
work
all
the
time,
but
it
will
work
more
than
those
other
systems,
so
it’s
a
pretty
good
deal.
Exp
3
–
Client
–
20
year
old,
had
a
lot
of
problems
growing
up.
He
believes
if
he
brings
up
anything
about
who
he
is,
no
one
will
like
him.
Feels
alienated
and
isolated,
not
close
with
his
family.
Works
a
lot,
not
going
to
school.
(this
is
actually
closest
to
me!
Especially
at
that
age)
My
goal
with
a
client
with
these
beliefs
is
to
get
an
emotional
connection
and
a
sense
of
relating
as
quick
as
possible.
For
instance
if
he
thinks
he
has
unattractive
parts
to
him,
I
want
him
to
talk
about
them,
and
see
that
people
can
like
him
for
it.
He
has
got
to
learn
how
to
talk
about
them
though.
He
will
start
with
an
indirect
opener.
“Hey
I
didn’t
mean
to
interrupt
but
I
really
need
advice
on
something.
I
didn’t
grow
up
with
the
best
family,
and
it
is
something
that
made
me
think
really
different.
It
gave
me
a
unique
perspective
on
the
world.
I
want
to
know
what
one
thing
gives
you
a
perspective
that
you
live
by
and
how
did
that
change
you?”
A
few
short
notes
here.
This
opener
might
sound
pretty
weak,
but
as
long
as
you
hit
the
end
of
it
hard
where
you
are
clearly
stating
you
want
their
story,
not
advice,
it
will
all
work
out.
Also
we
are
going
to
continue
with
it.
One
principle
with
theREDstack
is
that
anytime
you
can
get
someone
to
understand
you,
you
can
literally
get
‘attraction’
out
of
anything.
This
means
a
woman
can
be
emotionally
and
sexually
attracted
to
you
as
long
as
you
can
get
her
to
understand
you,
no
matter
who
you
are.
Also
if
you’re
talking
about
something
that
you
think
is
bad,
the
quicker
you
can
have
pride
in
that,
the
more
you
will
see
how
beautiful
this
‘bad’
thing
is.
I
have
many
of
clients
who
have
extremely
checkered
pasts.
I
always
encouraged
them
to
share
those
as
quick
as
possible,
and
the
results
were
always
the
same,
women
connected
with
them
emotionally
the
most.
I
myself
have
always
been
amazed
at
this,
whether
I
was
caught
in
severe
chaos
legally,
emotionally,
or
just
a
mess
I
was
always
able
to
meet
women.
In
fact
the
most
solid
and
least
drama
filled
women
I
have
ever
dated
all
came
out
of
chaotic
situations
with
my
life.
Let’s
continue
with
this
opener
so
you
can
understand
the
direction
I
would
want
to
go.
“Hey
I
didn’t
mean
to
interrupt
but
I
really
need
advice
on
something.
I
didn’t
grow
up
with
the
best
family,
and
it
is
something
that
made
me
think
really
different.
It
gave
me
a
unique
perspective
on
the
world.
I
want
to
know
what
one
thing
gives
you
a
perspective
that
you
live
by
and
how
did
that
change
you?”
(she
might
be
confused
or
need
time
to
think
about
it,
all
we
are
going
to
do
here
is
ground
our
perspective
a
little
bit
more.)
“I
don’t
mean
to
confuse
you,
I
really
think
you
will
give
me
a
good
answer.
But
when
I
grew
up,
I
didn’t
get
along
with
my
family
and
because
of
this
it
made
me
feel
isolated,
but
also
it
taught
me
to
think
outside
of
the
box.
Many
times
when
I
see
people
that
seem
to
have
it
all
I
wonder
how
much
they
value
their
creative
side
instead
of
just
relying
on
what
they
have.
What
is
something
about
you
always
thought
was
not
good
about
you
but
then
discovered
it
was
a
good
thing?”
(She
might
still
be
confused,
so
we
are
going
to
ground
again.)
“For
instance,
I
never
thought
I
would
be
able
to
accomplish
anything,
and
there
are
times
when
I
can
still
think
that,
but
then
when
people
can
simply
relate
to
me.
They
don’t
even
need
to
understand
specifically
what
I
mean
it
more
has
to
do
with
how
people
can
connect
and
relate
with
each
other.
I
think
you
understand
what
I
am
saying,
like
you
relate
with
this.
When
was
the
last
time
you
felt
like
an
outsider
but
then
you
realized
that
you
had
everything
it
took
to
be
included?”
Here
is
where
theREDstack’s
style
can
be
really
powerful
and
yet
so
many
people
took
it
for
granted
because
it
did
not
fit
the
general
template
of
social
dynamics.
It
is
therapeutic
as
well
and
effective.
People
were
able
to
be
themselves,
and
through
connecting
with
people
emotionally,
sexually
and
socially.
Many
men
found
a
great
relief
in
simply
just
learning
the
best
ways
to
express
things
that
plagued
them
for
years
and
discovered
they
were
attractive.
I
do
not
care
what
it
is,
you
could
be
a
mass
murdered
(not
that
you
should
strive
for
this)
you
can
build
a
connection
with
people.
You
could
even
build
a
connection
with
people
while
talking
about
that.
Bait
–
This
is
one
of
my
favorite
tools
in
all
social
dynamics.
It
isn’t
just
push/pull
it
is
push
so
that
things
become
attracted
then
pull
back
in.
Bait
is
great
because
we
put
things
into
a
conversation
and
they
attract
attention
(in
our
case
a
specific
type
of
attention)
then
we
pull
them
back
in.
theREDstack’s
use
of
bait
is
so
consistent
it
is
uncanny.
For
instance
you
can
go
up
to
people
and
say…
“Hey
how
old
are
you….oh
wait,
I
can’t
ask
you
then…”
They
will
go
crazy
simply
wanting
to
know
what
you
were
going
to
ask.
There
are
many
ways
to
bait,
but
bait
just
means
we
put
something
out
there
and
then
get
a
reaction
back.
What
makes
theREDstack
unique
is
that
all
the
reaction
always
point
back
to
something
we
can
use.
They
are
used
to
guide
us
into
the
right
conversations.
Lets
take
another
look
at
the
Progressive
Learning
System,
We
start
with
identity
and
everything
else
leads
back
to
your
identity.
This
means
every
tool
is
going
to
push
in
a
specific
direction.
If
we
value
our
passions,
ability
to
have
a
relationship,
how
a
woman
can
allure,
all
of
our
technique
is
going
to
push
in
that
direction.
Bait
is
one
of
the
most
consistent
tools
that
will
get
someone’s
attention.
When
writing
people’s
stacks
I
would
take
the
main
qualities
that
they
valued,
was
most
attractive
about
them
and
also
what
they
were
looking
for
in
women
and
simply
use
a
typical
form
of
bait,
then
attach
that
quality
to
it.
For
instance,
there
are
3
basic
forms
of
bait
–
Asking
and
denying
Challenging
and
Being
Vague
Once
you
understand
them
you
can
get
very
creative
with
them.
Someone
is
going
to
use
these
forms
of
bait
whenever
he
wants
to
turn
the
conversation
in
a
different
direction.
This
could
even
be
used
while
opening,
however,
it
can
also
be
used
when
a
conversation
hits
a
thread
that
isn’t
going
anywhere
or
hits
a
point
that
is
not
interesting
to
him.
It
can
also
be
used
to
re-‐stimulate
a
conversation.
Bait
is
the
best
tool
to
get
someone
on
a
topic.
Fast,
efficient,
consistent
and
easy.
Bait
-
Asking
and
Denying
–
Present
a
question
or
situation
and
then
deny
the
person
it.
This
will
have
them
wanting
to
know
more.
Exp
–
“I
want
to
ask
you
this
question
about
perspective,
but
are
you
from
here
or….you
know
forget
it.
I
can’t
ask
you
this?”
You
can
see
how
this
would
cause
someone
to
build
more
interest.
Another
example
would
be
if
I
were
to
say
to
you,
“I
want
to
know
what
your
goals
are?”
You
reply
“You
know,
I
don’t
know
if
I
can
tell
you
this
then.”
It
is
a
simple
trick.
It
is
easy
and
you
can
guide
things
in
your
direction
so
easily.
Exp
1
–
Client
–
Late
20’s,
Newly
single,
looking
to
just
get
laid
as
much
as
possible.
He
never
really
experienced
that
in
his
life.
He
wants
to
bring
out
a
girl’s
wild
side,
and
doesn’t
care
about
getting
emotional
with
anyone
right
now.
He
knows
if
he
can
feel
a
woman’s
sexuality
then
he
will
be
motivated
to
talk
to
her
more.
“Hey,
I
want
to
ask
you
something…
(the
girl
gives
her
attention)
Wait,
I
don’t
know
if
you’re
the
right
person
to
ask,
you
seem
too
reserved…”
The
active
bait
here
is
“I
don’t
know
if
you’re
the
right
person
to
ask’.
The
part
where
he
starts
pushing
thing
in
his
direction
is
‘you
seem
too
reserved’.
What
is
really
interesting
here
is
where
you
can
take
it.
If
I
were
writing
him
a
stack
I
would
then
make
a
few
qualifiers
and
rapport
cycles
that
could
follow
this
bait.
If
you’re
saying
you
can’t
ask
her
something
because
she
is
too
reserved
then
she
is
going
to
want
to
prove
that
she
isn’t
too
reserved
(hopefully,
maybe
she
really
is
too
reserved).
“Hey,
I
want
to
ask
you
something…
(the
girl
gives
her
attention)
Wait,
I
don’t
know
if
you’re
the
right
person
to
ask,
you
seem
too
reserved…”
(She
reacts
back,
half
questioning
and
half
offended)
Calms
her
-‐
“No
I
didn’t
mean
anything
bad
by
that,
what
I
mean
is
some
people
aren’t
really
open-‐minded
about
who
they
are
and
what
they
feel.
What
is
it
that
makes
you
free?”
This
is
an
approach
that
he
might
take
to
seduce
her
emotions.
For
instance
the
thread
would
work
in
this
structure
–
Qualifier
-‐
“What
makes
you
free?”
She
answers,
Ground
-‐
He
would
continue
by
then
grounding
‘freedom’
as
an
expression
of
sexuality
and
humanity.
“I
think
freedom
has
to
do
with
how
comfortable
we
are
with
ourselves.
For
instance
I
noticed
in
my
last
relationship
I
held
on
to
it
too
long
and
it
ultimately
limited
our
freedoms
with
each
other.
We
couldn’t
even
be
the
sexual
beings
we
were
meant
to
be.”
Challenge
–
Now
he
can
ask
the
same
question
or
a
different
one,
but
it
will
have
a
more
intense
meaning.
“So
let
me
ask
you,
when
was
the
last
time
you
felt
free
with
a
man?”
From
the
tool
of
bait
we
can
turn
a
conversation
to
be
extremely
deep,
very
fast
and
moving
in
a
sexual
direction.
What
you
see
above
is
a
rapport
cycle.
It
is
one
of
the
ultimate
tools
of
conversation.
Let’s
take
the
same
bait
and
turn
it
into
a
different
rapport
cycle.
Bait
–
“Hey,
I
want
to
ask
you
something…
(the
girl
gives
her
attention)
Wait,
I
don’t
know
if
you’re
the
right
person
to
ask,
you
seem
too
reserved…”
(She
reacts
in
a
playful
way)
Plays
back
–
“Oh
really,
so
you’re
saying
you’re
not
reserved…Alright,
I
gotta
see
this…”
Qualifier
-‐
“What
is
the
most
important
thing
about
you
that
you
can
let
loose?”
(She
thinks
about
it
or
answers)
Ground
–
“Well
I
have
always
found
that
when
I
am
too
stagnant
or
afraid
of
things
my
life
can’t
turn
into
what
it
is
supposed
to
be.
I
think
the
same
thing
happens
with
people
and
their
sexuality.
We
get
all
caught
up
in
what
its
supposed
to
be
and
not
what
it
is.
We
connections
with
people
that
have
nothing
to
do
with
who
we
are
and
what
makes
us
truly
who
we
are.”
Challenge
–
“Let
me
ask
you
this…if
I
told
you
I
thought
you
were
attractive
would
you
feel
too
nervous
to
be
honest
with
me
about
how
you
felt?”
The
main
difference
with
the
2
directions
of
both
examples
is
this
–
How
she
reacts
to
the
initial
bait.
If
she
is
offended,
he
will
have
to
calm.
It
she
is
playful
back
he
will
be
playful.
The
rest
(the
rapport
cycle)
could
be
interchanged
between
the
2.
Exp
2
–
Client
–
No
experience
with
women.
A
virgin,
and
in
his
mid
20s,
he
knows
everything
about
sex
from
researching
but
has
no
experience
–
in
other
words
he
knows
nothing
about
sex.
He
has
researched
many
of
the
industries
products
and
knows
the
‘social
dynamic’.
My
goal
is
to
have
him
get
some
experience.
If
he
knows
everything
and
has
no
experience,
he
really
knows
nothing.
This
is
a
common
attribute
in
the
industry’s
clientele.
“Hey,
how
old
are
you?
(She
answers
in
any
way,
even
if
she
says
“You
shouldn’t
ask
a
woman
her
age”,
continue)
“You
know
what
I
am
sorry
I
will
have
to
ask
someone
else…”
At
this
point
the
bait
has
created
a
huge
push
pull
dynamic.
You
will
get
a
reaction.
What
this
guy
needs
to
do
is
push
it
in
a
specific
direction.
My
goal
is
to
get
him
some
experience
and
start
to
change
his
beliefs.
About
himself,
women
and
socializing.
If
he
can
do
this,
then
his
interactions
will
begin
the
awesome
road
to
transformation.
If
not,
he
will
just
be
performing
a
technique.
I
need
him
to
add
a
direction
to
this
bait
and
get
him
into
a
rapport
cycle.
Let’s
take
a
look
at
where
we
can
go
with
this.
Bait
–
“Hey,
how
old
are
you?
(She
answers
in
any
way,
even
if
she
says
“You
shouldn’t
ask
a
woman
her
age”,
continue)
“You
know
what
I
am
sorry
I
will
have
to
ask
someone
else…”
Calm
–
“I
don’t
mean
to
offend
you,
I
just
have
a
specific
question
I
am
looking
for…”
Qualifier
–
“Where
are
you
from?”
Ground
–
“I
actually
grew
up
in
a
pretty
interesting
family,
and
we
had
different
views
on
socializing
and
interacting,
so
sometimes
I
can
be
a
little
bit
different
than
others.
I
think
how
we
were
raised
has
the
most
effect
on
our
beliefs,
and
those
beliefs
effect
who
we
become.”
Challenge
–
“What
is
something
that
changed
you’re
beliefs?”
If
anybody,
not
just
someone
with
no
experience,
started
their
conversations
off
with
something
like
this,
there
would
be
a
whole
new
social
realm
that
would
open
up
for
them.
Bait
-
The
Challenge
This
is
an
extension
of
asking
and
denying.
The
2
are
very
similar
however
in
the
challenge
we
take
things
a
bit
further.
In
asking
and
denying
we
push
and
then
begin
to
pull
back
in
a
specific
direction.
For
example
We
might
want
to
move
more
towards
her
wild
side
and
say
something
like
this…
“I
want
to
ask
you
this,
but
for
get
it,
you’re
too
tame.”
If
we
were
to
challenge,
we
would
take
things
a
step
further
and
give
them
an
opportunity
to
really
take
on
that
role.
Hence
we
give
them
a
path
to
walk
on
and
challenge
them.
You
will
see
that
as
you
get
used
to
this,
you
will
begin
to
naturally
start
to
challenge
people.
Also
you
will
see
that
you
will
that
this
naturally
leads
to
qualification
and
rapport
cycling.
Exp
–
1
Client
–
Early
30’s,
confident
career
bachelor.
He
is
already
good
with
women,
but
wants
to
get
better.
His
goal
is
to
date,
maybe
meet
the
right
girl
but
mainly
to
only
meet
the
best
women.
His
goal
is
to
elicit
value
and
sexuality.
“I
want
to
ask
you
something
but
I
am
afraid
what
you
might
say?
You
know
what
I
shouldn’t
have
brought
it
up…”
(She
responds)
“Well
I
am
attracted
to
a
woman
that
is
not
only
beautiful
but
knows
what
her
beauty
deserves.
I
have
a
great
deal
of
pride
in
my
life,
I
only
want
people
in
it
that
share
the
same
standard.”
As
you
can
see
in
this
example
we
set
up
a
bait
so
that
he
could
really
put
the
pressure
on
in
terms
of
what
he
expects
from
women.
If
he
were
use
this
form
of
bait
with
women
as
soon
as
he
knew
he
liked
them
he
would
notice
some
immediate
patters
of
how
women
react.
Less
confident
women
would
get
shy
or
overly
prove
themselves,
in
fact
they
might
even
get
a
little
defensive.
More
confident
women
might
stand
up
to
the
challenge
or
simply
brush
it
off.
Some
women
might
even
be
playful
back.
No
personality
type
of
women
is
wrong
here,
however
you
will
develop
a
preference
and
the
more
you
can
have
some
tools
to
elicit
the
type
of
female
personality
you
desire.
If
I
were
to
write
for
a
guy
that
valued
a
woman
that
had
a
little
bit
of
insecurity
(like
I
said
no
personality
type
is
wrong),
but
also
knew
how
to
respect
him.
Perhaps
a
beautiful
looking
woman
who
has
a
healthy
night
life,
but
also
knows
how
to
respect
him
I
might
continue
the
bait
sequence
like
this…
“I
want
to
ask
you
something
but
I
am
afraid
what
you
might
say?
You
know
what
I
shouldn’t
have
brought
it
up…”
(She
responds)
“Well
I
am
attracted
to
a
woman
that
is
not
only
beautiful
but
knows
what
her
beauty
deserves.
I
have
a
great
deal
of
pride
in
my
life,
I
only
want
people
in
it
that
share
the
same
standard.
I
don’t
mean
to
be
too
direct.
I
think
a
woman
that
knows
how
to
feel
attractive,
and
draw
attention
from
men
is
a
beautiful
thing.
But
that
woman’s
ability
is
pointless
unless
she
knows
how
to
stay
close
to
what
grounds
her.”
Depending
on
how
he
communicates
he
could
make
all
sorts
of
metaphors.
He
could
say,
“You
know
how
to
use
your
wings,
but
you
know
that
if
you
fly
too
close
to
the
sun
you’re
going
to
be
lost
forever.”
Or
if
he
is
less
poetic
and
more
straight
business
“A
person
needs
to
be
free
to
grow,
but
they
also
need
to
know
what
keeps
them
a
lady.”
Of
course
all
of
this
doesn’t
give
someone
an
absolute
to
this
type
of
women,
but
when
we
develop
a
skill
for
this
we
will
realize
how
we
can
discover
new
paths
of
a
woman’s
persona
more
quickly
and
efficiently
all
base
on
what
we
really
want.
Exp
2
–
Client
–
An
over
achiever,
everything
about
his
life
is
near
perfect.
His
lifestyle,
job
and
fitness
are
all
in
alignment.
However
he
is
always
single,
and
has
fleeting
relationships.
They
never
last.
Deep
down
there
is
anger
and
resentment
towards
women.
My
goal
in
writing
for
him
is
to
make
peace
with
this
anger
first.
There
are
many
roads
to
this,
however
in
my
experience
the
best
way
to
give
this
resentment
peace
is
to
express
it
and
find
a
new
path
for
it
to
walk
on.
“I
have
a
question
for
you,
you
know
what
I
am
not
sure
if
I
can
trust
you…”
She
responds
“Ok
well
it
has
to
do
with
a
sensitive
issue,
I
have
always
been
someone
who
can
see
the
cup
half
empty
with
people’s
personalities.
I
want
to
know
what
women
really
want,
but
not
just
any
woman,
I
mean
women
that
get
have
really
good
lives.”
The
interesting
thing
here
is
we
are
moving
in
a
direction
of
understanding
women,
but
also
proudly
asserting
ourselves.
Many
times
guys
would
tell
me,
‘isn’t
this
negative
stuff
unattractive
towards
women?’
This
couldn’t
be
further
from
the
truth.
Being
confident
or
simply
directly
honest
about
flaws
that
you
have
are
extremely
attractive.
This
means
confidence
and
honesty
are
the
attractive
qualities.
One
simply
needs
to
know
how
to
communicate
those
things.
With
this
type
of
client
I
always
take
the
approach
of
moving
towards
results
of
attention
from
women
mixed
with
an
explorative
path
of
discovering
the
nature
of
women.
Sadly
the
dating
and
seduction
industry
focuses
blindly
on
getting
results
(often
times
they
are
incapable
of
getting
results).
If
someone
has
anger,
doubt,
loneliness
towards
women
towards
then
if
they
are
getting
the
results
of
dating,
sex
and
relationships
it
will
only
give
them
a
louder
and
broader
platform
for
those
defects.
I
see
this
over
and
over
again
with
some
of
the
people
who
instruct
in
the
industry.
They
have
achieved
results
with
women,
yet
learn
to
hate
them
more.
They
can
‘get’
women
but
they
can’t
have
relationships,
get
violent,
and
frustrated
over
and
over
again.
Many
of
the
people
creating
products
out
there
come
to
me
privately
about
their
sexual
issues
with
women.
The
route
is
always
the
same.
It
is
not
a
game
against
women,
it
is
a
way
to
communicate
how
to
love
women
or
be
a
fan
of
women
better.
Somehow,
being
a
dominant
male
means
always
competing
against
what
you
want
rather
than
ingratiating
it.
Here
is
where
I
would
continue
on
with
this
bait
sequence.
“I
have
a
question
for
you,
you
know
what
I
am
not
sure
if
I
can
trust
you…”
She
responds
“Ok
well
it
has
to
do
with
a
sensitive
issue,
I
have
always
been
someone
who
can
see
the
cup
half
empty
with
people’s
personalities.
I
want
to
know
what
women
really
want,
but
not
just
any
woman,
I
mean
women
that
get
have
really
good
lives.”
(She
may
be
a
little
confused
by
this,
but
as
long
as
she
is
listening
its
all
good)
“Maybe
I
shouldn’t
be
asking
you
this…I
don’t’
know
it
you
know
what
I
mean
here
(more
bait).
What
I
am
asking
here
is
have
you
ever
felt
like
you
didn’t
like
something,
but
in
the
end
you
realized
that
all
you
wanted
was
acceptance
of
that?
I
bet
you
have
seen
this
in
relationships…
My
mother
used
to
always
say,
I
might
know
what
I
want,
but
she
knows
what
is
really
good
for
me.
What
is
it
that
you
want?”
When
we
get
into
Rapport
Cycling,
we
will
learn
that
here
we
are
simply
using
a
story
of
our
life
in
order
to
present
an
idea.
In
order
for
her
to
open
up
about
who
she
is
and
what
she
wants
we
lead
the
way
with
a
story
about
who
we
are
that
defines
what
we
want
to
open
up
about
her.
In
the
above
example
we
are
saying
we
want
to
know
her
intimate
side,
so
we
share
that
type
of
intimate
side
of
ourselves.
Bait
–
Vague
From
its
title
alone
this
can
sound
confusing,
but
don’t
let
that
stop
you.
Our
goal
isn’t
to
confuse
people,
it
is
to
get
deeper.
Often
times
our
conversations
hit
stagnant
points
or
topic
that
mean
nothing
to
us,
this
is
when
we
use
any
form
of
bait.
Here
we
are
turning
something
all
of
do
naturally
into
something
a
bit
more
consistent.
To
understand
the
power
of
being
vague
we
need
to
think
back
to
a
time
when
we
were
trying
to
explain
something
that
was
very
important
and
had
a
great
meaning
to
us.
Often
times
those
things
are
hard
to
explain,
and
sometimes
we
just
need
to
come
out
and
say
them
rather
than
explain
them.
What
we
need
to
realize
is
that
when
we
are
trying
to
explain
ourselves
unsuccessfully
people
become
more
intrigued
to
our
conversations.
For
example,
it
I
wanted
to
tell
you
about
the
entire
results
of
you
using
theREDstack
it
would
not
be
possible
without
experiencing
the
entire
thing.
Imagine
we
are
meeting
face
to
face
and
you
ask
me,
“Steve,
what
can
I
expect
from
theREDstack?”
and
I
do
my
best
to
answer
“Well,
it
really
is
the
only
thing
out
there
that
is
customized
and
tailored
specifically
for
you,
but
what
is
really
great
about
it
is
hard
to
say.
I
mean
it
is
something
where
you
can
have
deep
connections,
but
it
is
more
than
just
talking
to
someone,
it
is
an
exchange
that
has
something
more
behind
it…”
What
I
am
trying
to
articulate
to
you
is
that
theREDstack
is
the
only
product
that
is
customized,
has
the
best
technique
and
will
affect
your
life
in
its
entirety
when
used.
However
this
is
hard
to
simply
just
say,
so
I
end
up
over
explaining
myself
never
really
making
a
clear
point.
However,
the
whole
time
you’re
listening
to
me.
Especially
if
we
are
in
a
1-‐on-‐1
conversation,
you
will
really
try
and
see
what
I
am
getting
at.
You
might
even
want
to
jump
in
and
finish
my
sentences.
This
is
what
being
vague
does.
It
sucks
you
in.
Exp
–
1
Client
–
Confident
young
man
in
his
mid
twenties.
He
has
been
a
waiter
and
musician,
not
really
focusing
on
a
career.
He
doesn’t
want
to
use
his
artistic
talents
to
attract
women.
He
wants
women
to
like
him
for
him.
Also
he
has
just
been
release
from
a
drug
rehabilitation
and
wants
a
new
way
of
meeting
women
that
can
be
authentic
and
not
dishonest.
In
a
situation
like
this
I
would
want
to
achieve
a
few
things.
However,
mostly
I
would
want
to
use
the
tool
of
honesty
and
intent
to
carry
all
the
attraction.
I
would
write
this
in
the
voicing
of
-‐
He
wants
to
express
the
differences
and
confusion
of
expressing
himself
as
well
as
what
he
wants.
“You
were
talking
about
something
that
is
really
interesting,
but
for
me
it
is
always
hard.
I
am
a
musician,
but
I
don’t
want
people
to
just
see
that.
If
I
have
a
relationships
with
someone
they
don’t
care
about
that,
they
care
about
who
I
really
am.
I
am
not
sure
if
you
understand.
I
am
someone
who
has
lived
in
many
ways,
sometimes
they
look
cool
and
sometimes
they
are
really
bad
for
me,
those
have
nothing
to
do
with
me…”
In
this
case,
the
girl
may
be
trying
to
follow
him
but
nothing
is
really
making
sense.
It
is
like
she
knows
he
is
talking
about
being
misunderstood
or
something
like
that.
At
this
point
he
is
going
to
make
the
bold
move
of
now
stating
a
large
topic.
This
could
be
a
question
or
a
concept.
I
am
going
to
include
the
above
example
to
show
how
it
will
flow.
“You
were
talking
about
something
that
is
really
interesting,
but
for
me
it
is
always
hard.
I
am
a
musician,
but
I
don’t
want
people
to
just
see
that.
If
I
have
a
relationships
with
someone
they
don’t
care
about
that,
they
care
about
who
I
really
am.
I
am
not
sure
if
you
understand.
I
am
someone
who
has
lived
in
many
ways,
sometimes
they
look
cool
and
sometimes
they
are
really
bad
for
me,
those
have
nothing
to
do
with
me…
I
am
confusing
you,
let
me
just
ask
you
this,
have
you
ever
had
someone
see
the
real
inside
of
you,
or
do
they
only
see
the
façade?”
The
last
line
here
is
key.
“have
you
ever
had
someone
see
the
real
inside
of
you,
or
do
they
only
see
the
façade?”
When
being
vague
you
set
the
stage
for
a
massive
transition.
It
is
like
you’re
trying
to
explain
a
massive
concept
or
something
very
personal
and
the
only
way
to
make
your
point
it
to
directly
ask.
However
let’s
say
you’re
motivated
by
asking
about
how
sexual
a
girl
is,
this
would
not
get
a
good
response
if
you
simply
asked,
“How
sexual
are
you?”
Most
woman
would
really
not
be
too
receptive
to
this.
Let’s
revisit
one
of
the
fundamentals
of
theREDstack
If
someone
can
understand
it
they
can
be
attracted
to
it.
If
I
use
the
tool
of
being
vague,
I
can
be
talking
to
a
girl
for
a
few
mins
and
then
switch
to
this
topic.
Let’s
see
how
we
do
it
in
the
example
below.
Exp
–
2
Client
–
A
seasoned
veteran
of
the
Pick
Up
Artist
Community.
He
knows
how
to
get
dates,
get
laid,
and
meet
people.
However
he
wants
to
get
more
sexual
with
women
faster
and
with
a
genuine
approach.
Rather
than
presenting
empty
routines,
he
wants
women
to
be
attracted
to
who
he
really
is.
In
writing
for
a
client
like
this,
I
can
take
some
bigger
chances.
I
can
have
faith
that
they
will
have
the
right
instincts
to
let
off
the
gas
at
the
right
times
and
the
right
times
to
push.
They
also
know
that
commitment
and
dedication
to
good
material
should
yield
a
heavy
result.
Because
of
this
I
want
to
write
a
little
bit
more
aggressively
so
they
get
truly
mind-‐
blowing
results.
“I
want
to
ask
you
something,
but
I
am
not
sure
if
you’re
too
shy
to
ask
or
not.
I
mean
you’re
someone
who
seems
really
open
but
I
can
be
too
sensitive
at
times,
but
also
very
aggressive
and
I
don’t’
like
being
judged
for
things
that
people
don’t
fully
understand
about
me…
(here
is
where
he
switches)
Look
I
just
met
you
and
can
tell
I
am
attracted
to
you,
but
I
can
be
a
very
sexual
person
and
I
can
only
be
around
open-‐minded
people,
what
is
the
most
sensual
thing
about
you?”
As
you
can
see,
this
transitions
a
few
times.
He
is
diffusing
judgment,
framing
himself
as
a
sensitive
and
aggressive
person
as
well
as
directly
saying
he
needs
open-‐mindedness
and
the
cherry
on
top
is
him
asking
her
about
her
sensuality.
However
let’s
take
another
look
at
moving
quickly
in
terms
of
sexuality.
We
will
end
with
the
exact
question,
“How
sexual
are
you?”
while
using
the
vague
tool.
“I
always
was
someone
who
could
ride
the
line
of
what
is
appropriate
and
inappropriate
at
times,
do
you
know
what
I
mean?
People
can
get
all
confused
about
so
much,
I
mean
I
can
be
the
best
and
worst
at
relationships,
mainly
because
I
am
such
a
sensual
person.
Many
times
people
get
ashamed
or
start
judging
because
of
that.
I
think
I
am
confusing
you,
let
me
ask
you…
How
sexual
of
a
person
are
you?
(Now
because
I
am
escalating
the
conversation
here
I
was
to
relax
it)
Obviously
I
don’t
mean
that
as
anything
offensive
of
lewd,
but
I
really
want
to
know,
how
sexual
are
you?”
If
there
was
one
thing
that
I
use
to
transition
my
conversations
towards
sexuality
and
sexual
identity
it
is
bait.
Use
it!
Any
large
topic
that
I
can’t
articulate
right
off
the
bat,
will
be
catapulted
into
fruition
successfully
by
bait.
Teases
–
This
is
the
age-‐old
technique
that
was
a
revolution
in
social
dynamics.
When
guys
with
no
social
skills
wanted
to
get
attention
from
women
and
had
no
idea
how
to
lubricate
a
conversation
this
is
the
first
thing
they
learned.
In
fact
they
learned
a
form
of
teasing
called
–
‘negging’
or
‘negs’
The
idea
of
this
was
to
gain
social
value
as
well
as
having
fun.
The
assumption
in
the
social
dynamic
theory
was
that
if
they
‘negged’
their
‘target’
then
they
could
start
an
element
of
push
pull
as
well
as
gain
some
power
or
dominance
over
her.
It
is
impossible
to
not
see
the
immediate
functionality
of
this.
However
to
only
see
‘negs’
as
what
they
were
defined
by
limits
your
use
of
the
many
tools
of
this
way
of
getting
attention.
‘Negs’
are
a
part
of
a
broader
topic
I
call
teasing.
Teasing,
is
exactly
what
it
says
it
is.
You’re
playfully
having
fun
with
someone.
You’re
creating
a
social
dialog
where
you
are
having
fun
with
someone.
If
you’re
only
looking
to
socially
over
power
someone
you
are
going
to
limit
yourself.
Many
more
aspects
of
attraction
are
there.
Women
can
be
attracted
to
your,
playfulness,
positivity,
your
directness,
your
sexuality,
your
kindness…the
list
goes
on.
In
order
to
share
these
with
her,
in
order
to
be
sexual
with
her
whether
you’re
socially
dominant
over
her
has
nothing
to
do
with
it.
Seduction
has
no
correlation
to
getting
attention,
other
than
you
need
to
get
someone’s
attention
in
order
to
seduce
them.
How
you
get
there
attention
doesn’t
matter
much.
However
-‐
The
type
of
attention
does
matter
This
is
where
theREDstack
is
unique.
Every
single
tease,
neg
or
joke
is
going
to
do
exactly
what
baiting
does
–
transition
into
you!
Every
tease
you
make
is
going
to
transition
into
a
topic,
a
qualifier
or
rapport
cycle
that
has
to
do
with
what’s
attractive
about
you
and
what
you’re
attracted
to.
However
how
we
are
going
to
workshop
these
is
going
to
be
a
bit
different
than
how
we
workshoped
the
baits,
we
are
going
to
show
a
different
aspect
of
how
I
would
create
some
of
these
teases
for
my
clients.
Simple
Teases
–
The
beauty
of
the
tease
is
it
can
simply
start
turning
a
conversation
into
a
direction
you
might
like.
It
is
a
great
tool
of
push
pull.
Push
in
one
direction
so
you
can
pull
back
in
a
direction
that
you
want.
All
these
examples
are
made
for
your
immediate
use.
The
beauty
of
them
all
is
that
they
are
built
on
the
dynamic
of
you
having
a
specific
value,
and
stimulating
a
conversation
with
her
about
that
topic.
I
will
give
3
simple
examples
but
encourage
you
to
be
creative
with
this.
It
is
easy.
Exp
1
-
Topic/Value
–
Non-‐Judgmental
The
client
values
non-‐judgment
and
open-‐mindedness,
and
besides,
that
is
always
a
good
quality
to
go
for.
“Oh
my
god,
I
so
can’t
talk
to
you,
I
bet
you’re
one
of
those
people
that
is
completely
closed
minded!”
As
you
can
see
this
is
simple,
and
most
likely
she
will
begin
defending
herself
saying
she
is
not
closed-‐minded.
Exp
2
-
Topic/Value
–
Adventurous
“Well
now
I
am
not
so
sure
about
you,
you
seem
like
one
of
those
girls
who’s
night
of
fun
and
craziness
relies
on
alcohol
and
someone
else’s
idea.”
Once
again
you
can
see
the
dynamic
here
–
I
know
I
value
adventure
so
I
am
pushing
towards
her
being
unadventurous.
As
a
result
she
pushes
back
in
the
direction
of
her
being
adventurous.
I
always
wondered
why
people
never
did
this
with
teases.
It
is
so
simple.
Yet
once
again
it
is
one
of
the
flaws
with
only
seeing
social
value
as
the
only
tool
of
attraction.
We
forget
that
is
we
can
use
social
dynamics
as
an
expression
of
self
rather
than
an
expression
of
a
mechanism.
Exp
3
–
Topic/Value
–
Courage
“Ok,
so
are
you
one
of
those
girls
that
runs
from
creepy
crawly
things?
Actually
most
women
are
really
afraid
of
being
who
they
are
with
someone
that
is
good
for
them.
Don’t
tell
me
you
only
have
the
backbone
to
date
douche
bags?”
This
one
is
a
little
more
complex,
but
it
is
the
same
concept.
I
am
simply
shotgunning
out
more
aspects
to
her
personality
here.
You
will
see
in
the
‘Tease
into
Conversations”
section
(that’s
next)
that
we
get
a
little
bit
more
creative
there.
This
example
shows
how
much
you
can
make
this
concept
work
for
you.
Teases
into
Conversations
–
I
have
always
had
a
wide
range
of
clients.
Their
personalities
spanned
the
globe.
It
went
all
the
way
from
Politicians,
Judges,
Senators
to
MMA
fighters,
Cops,
Drug
dealers,
and
just
your
average
joes.
I
have
had
men
with
psychological
problems,
physical
disabilities
and
guys
who
have
had
heavy
abuse
growing
up.
One
of
the
biggest
gifts
was
to
have
men
realize
that
they
truly
had
an
outlet
to
express
themselves.
It
as
something
that
everyone
else
avoided
and
even
would
try
to
cover
up.
That
being
said,
how
we
are
going
to
workshop
the
teases
here
is
to
list
them
by
topic,
then
present
the
different
clientele
profile
I
would
write
for.
By
all
means
this
is
a
style
of
social
dynamics
that
can
be
very
complex,
there
for
pay
careful
attention
how
there
are
structured,
and
when
you
understand
and
apply
it
I
want
you
to
be
able
to
come
up
with
your
own
topics.
Example
–
The
Topic
is
Sexual
Experience
Either
the
client
is
attracted
to
this
or
he
finds
this
attractive
about
him.
Client
Profile
1
–
Virgin
with
little
experience
talking
to
women.
Has
enormous
fears
towards
the
opposite
sex
and
a
lot
of
assumptions
about
what
‘women’
are.
He
needs
to
transition
into
showing
intent
and
qualification
as
well
and
simply
expressing
himself.
Even
bringing
up
the
truth
about
who
he
is
and
his
sexual
experience
rather
than
thinking
it
is
‘low
value’.
Client
Profile
2
–
Sales
consultant,
mid
50s,
recently
divorced.
Has
a
poor
perspective
on
women
due
to
his
ex
wife,
but
also
has
a
great
idea
of
how
great
it
can
be
to
be
in
the
lives
of
many
women.
It
has
just
been
a
while.
He
wants
to
meet
as
many
young
women
as
possible.
No
plans
of
a
relationship,
but
in
time
it
could
happen.
Client
Profile
3
–
Entrepreneur,
35,
just
hitting
a
stride
with
business.
He
wants
multiple
relationships
with
women.
As
many
quality
women
as
he
can
have,
but
at
the
same
time
he
wants
to
cultivate
the
stability
of
one
women.
Client
1
–
“Oh
man,
I
don’t
know
if
I
can
talk
to
you
anymore…you’re
too
crazy
for
me!
You’re
one
of
those
girls
who
eats
men
for
breakfasts.
Too
much
for
my
virgin
ears.
But
really
I
want
to
know,
what
is
the
most
attractive
thing
about
you?”
The
beginning
of
this
is
playful
and
fun,
yet
it
transitions
into
an
important
qualifer
about
her
views
on
attraction.
From
there
we
can
move
directly
into
some
intense
forms
of
dialog
and
rapport.
For
someone
with
little
experience,
I
want
him
to
know
it
is
ok
to
talk
about
his
lack
of
experience.
It
can
be
fun,
and
to
be
honest
they
may
not
even
know
that
is
what
he
is
saying.
He
needs
to
learn
how
to
be
himself
in
front
of
a
woman,
and
then
push
in
a
direction
of
intent,
here
that
is
done
in
with
qualification
Client
2
–
“Hey
take
it
easy
woman,
I
am
not
used
to
all
this
nouveau
slang
of
you
girls
these
days…you
might
make
me
agree
to
something
that
will
leave
me
tied
up
and
begging
for
more.
But
really
I
think
it
is
funny,
different
generations
express
sexuality
in
different
ways,
but
in
reality
they’re
always
saying
the
same
thing.
In
what
ways
are
men
you
meet
the
most
insecure?”
Here
client
2
is
able
to
address
the
age
gap,
which
is
a
superficial
issue
as
well
as
one
that
should
not
be
given
much
credence.
Also
he
transitions
towards
her
sexuality
very
smoothly.
You
need
to
look
at
where
the
tonality
within
this
tease
takes
place.
The
first
part
is
fun
and
jovial
and
the
second
part
is
direct
deliberate
and
confident.
Remember
sexuality
if
not
loud,
fast
and
fun
(parts
of
it
are),
sexuality
is
calm,
deliberate
and
exchanging.
Client
3
-‐
“You’re
one
of
those
girls
that
is
always
out
to
take
everyone’s
money
and
blow
it
all
on
fun…I
see
how
you
are.
My
favorite
thing
about
women
with
large
fronts
is
that
they’re
always
the
most
submissive
and
loyal.
I
see
that
with
my
staff
all
the
time.
Let
me
ask
you
something,
when
was
the
last
time
you
were
in
a
relationship
that
wasn’t
working
out
but
you
could
put
your
emotions
aside
and
do
the
right
thing?”
Entrepreneurs
with
a
sexual
appetite
are
literately
the
most
interesting
clients.
They
know
how
to
manage,
be
direct
and
escalate.
With
any
guy
like
this
I
am
always
going
to
encourage
him
to
push
harder
than
most
any
other
client.
I
will
give
them
huge
goals
and
they
always
turn
it
into
something
bigger
and
better
than
I
intended.
The
Topics
–
I
chose
these
topics
because
they
are
great
topics!
Women
like
them,
and
they
will
force
a
level
of
rapport
as
well
as
easily
transition
into
sexuality.
-‐
Passions
-‐
Insecurities
-‐
Sexuality
Of
course
these
are
simply
examples
for
you
to
see
how
teases
can
be
transitioned
into
conversational
threads
and
rapport
cycles.
The
key
to
this
(as
you
will
soon
notice)
is
transitioning
with
a
‘qualifier’
or
question.
These
are
only
3
topics
The
first
‘Passions’
is
something
everyone
can
accept
talking
about,
however
you
might
be
a
little
apprehensive
to
talk
about
it
this
quickly.
The
second
‘Insecurities’
is
something
most
people
will
be
fear,
however
you
can
absolutely
talk
about
this
and
get
to
the
core
of
anybody.
If
you
want
to
have
real,
authentic
and
deep
connections
with
people
you
need
to
not
be
afraid
to
show
yourself.
Here
we
will
explore
how.
The
third
‘Sexuality’
nearly
all
people
are
afraid
of.
If
someone
is
willing
to
talk
about
it
in
a
conversation
they
will
be
afraid
to
do
so
in
a
deep
way,
usually
relying
on
novelty
or
humor
to
introduce
it.
Sexuality
is
one
of
the
baselines
of
humanity,
everyone
can
relate
with
it,
everyone
can
talk
about
it.
Other
Topics
–
If
I
were
to
write
for
my
clients
of
the
stack
I
would
write
for
them
with
these
topics
Passions
Purpose
Ideals
Insecurities
Fears
Family
Breakthroughs
Open-‐mindedness
Sex
Sexuality
Relationships
Career
What
is
unique
about
all
these
is
that
1
–
By
talking
about
them
alone
you
are
moving
into
a
rapport
based
conversation.
2
–
Everyone
can
relate
to
them
3
–
They
all
have
the
ability
to
connect
deep
with
people,
therefore
can
transition
into
building
a
massive
connection.
Passions
–
This
is
one
of
the
simplest
topics
to
present.
Everyone
has
them,
often
times
people
aren’t
living
them.
By
bringing
this
up
you’re
bringing
part
of
the
deepest
part
of
that
person
to
the
forefront
of
the
conversation.
If
you
can
get
to
the
point
of
showing
intent
towards
someone’s
passions
that
conversation
immediately
becomes
sexual.
Client
1
–
23
Year
old
college
student.
Has
physical
handicap,
and
feels
bad
about
it.
Everything
else
in
his
life
is
successful,
but
he
has
little
experience
with
women.
He
lacks
confidence
socially
and
with
women
especially.
My
goal
with
him
is
to
own
anything
that
he
thinks
is
wrong
with
him.
Often
times
it
can
seem
like
making
fun
of
his
disability
or
whatever
is
obviously
different
about
him.
This
is
not
the
case,
he
needs
to
learn
he
has
pride
in
himself.
He
needs
to
learn
the
main
principle
of
theREDstack,
if
people
can
understand
you
they
can
be
attracted
to
you.
He
will
transition
from
a
Tease,
to
a
Qualifier
into
a
Rapport
Cycle,
ending
with
a
Challenge
“I
see
how
it
is,
you’re
one
of
those
girls
who
lives
a
‘dull
life’…
I
am
just
joking,
but
really
I
think
it
is
an
important
thing,
how
someone
lives.
When
I
was
a
kid
all
I
wanted
to
be
was
a
musician
rock
star,
so
I
know
how
to
deal
with
girls
like
you…
Let
me
ask
you,
what
gives
you
meaning?
You
know
it
is
funny
because
I
have
always
had
this
problem
with
my
legs,
they
kept
me
from
playing
sports,
driving
in
high
school
and
I
can
remember
the
first
time
I
was
left
out
of
something
because
of
it.
The
thing
is
that,
for
the
longest
time
I
thought
that
meant
I
couldn’t
live
what
I
believed
in.
I
think
the
best
part
about
me
not
believing
in
myself
is
that
it
makes
the
journey
of
coming
to
believe
in
myself
that
much
more
special.
When
I
ask
you
what
gives
you
meaning,
this
is
what
I
mean…”
Client
2
–
30
Year
old
single
man
that
works
as
an
engineer.
Has
some
experience
with
women,
but
doesn’t
think
there
is
anything
passionate
about
him.
He
is
very
technical
and
prefers
to
consider
the
skills
of
conversation
for
other
people.
His
hobbies
have
been
watching
some
sports
but
a
big
time
videogame
and
comic
fan.
My
goal
with
him
is
to
showcase
that
he
can
have
those
hobbies
and
be
attractive
to
women,
as
well
as
be
a
good
conversationalist.
Conversation
takes
skill
but
at
the
same
time
it
also
is
within
us
all.
We
just
need
to
start
talking
about
what
we
enjoy.
This
process
is
going
to
go
in
a
the
form
of
a
Tease
to
a
Qualifier
to
a
Rapport
Cycle
and
then
a
Challenge.
“Look
I
grew
up
in
a
sheltered
environment
for
the
past
few
years…you
have
gotta
go
easy
on
me.
I
am
only
into
outsider
thing,
you
seem
like
one
of
those
girls
who’s
all
into
the
‘norm’…
But
let
me
ask
you,
what
is
the
most
unique
thing
about
you
that
no
one
ever
notices?
(She
will
probably
be
a
little
confused
here,
but
still
interested.
That’s
good.)
I
am
bringing
that
up
because
people
always
tell
me
how
they’re
different
or
they
think
they
can’t
relate
with
someone,
but
that
is
not
true.
For
instance
I
am
into
videogames,
comics
and
work
as
an
engineer,
but
it
is
a
lot
like
how
a
woman
puts
on
her
makeup.
It
is
one
of
those
things
that
men
will
never
understand.
They
will
never
understand
the
way
they
examine
every
little
inch
and
detail
of
their
face.
However
the
beauty
that
comes
from
it
people
can
relate
with.
It
is
a
different
language
that
is
being
spoken.
This
is
what,
happens
to
me
when
I
am
in
my
world.
The
language
I
am
speaking
when
I
am
doing
the
things
I
love
is
the
same
as
it
is
for
you.
That
is
what
I
mean
when
I
am
asking
you
what
is
the
unique
thing
about
you
that
nobody
notices,
so
what
is
that?
Insecurities
–
Many
people
might
think
this
is
not
possible
to
talk
about
this
and
gain
attraction
but
once
again
this
is
a
misinterpretation
of
social
dynamics.
It
is
also
a
misinterpretation
to
think
that
this
is
using
vulnerability
to
gain
attraction.
Humanity
and
social
dynamics
is
much
more
simple
than
that,
If
you
can
relate
with
someone
then
they
can
feel
attractive.
If
you
can
connect
to
a
deep
part
of
them
and
show
intent
towards
that,
or
they
show
intent
towards
you
in
that
way
you
will
build
an
instance
sexual
connection.
Client
1
–
50
Year
old
male,
grew
up
in
a
small
town
and
always
appreciated
a
small
town
life.
His
goal
is
not
to
meet
‘club
girls’
but
to
meet
good
women.
He
values
a
genuine
connection
but
is
also
attracted
to
young
women.
If
there
is
a
way
to
meet
women
in
their
20’s
or
early
30’s
he
wants
to
know
what
that
is.
My
goal
with
him
is
to
get
him
a
connection.
I
have
had
my
fair
share
of
50-‐60
year
old
clients
date
women
in
their
20’s
however
what
ultimately
made
them
happy
was
not
the
age
of
the
girl
but
the
value
of
the
connection.
Also
if
a
guy
is
insecure
about
his
age,
he
needs
to
get
over
that
in
order
to
date
younger
women.
It
will
always
be
there,
but
the
belief
that
it
is
impossible
needs
to
be
flattened.
“Call
me
old
fashioned
but
I
am
a
softy
when
it
comes
to
people
that
can
relate
on
multiple
levels.
It
takes
a
special
person
to
understand
this.
Do
you
know
the
difference
between
a
someone
who
doesn’t
know
themselves
and
someone
who
does?
It
took
me
a
long
time
to
learn
this,
but
growing
up
in
a
small
town
it
was
something
that
I
learned
early
on.
It
had
to
do
with
what
part
of
yourself
you
could
embrace
and
what
part
you
feared.
For
instance
I
have
always
feared
being
alone,
and
when
I
allow
that
to
take
over
me
all
I
want
is
what
I
think
will
fulfill
me.
My
insecurities
speak
more
than
my
real
self.
If
I
asked
you
what
you’re
real
voice
was,
would
you
be
able
to
tell
me?”
Client
2
-‐
An
important
member
of
society,
he
works
in
politics
at
a
high
level.
A
judge,
mayor
or
congressmen,
he
wants
to
meet
more
women,
but
not
get
slammed
with
the
negative
connotations
of
being
a
single
man.
He
wants
quality
women,
and
has
dated
quality
women.
He
values
women
who
are
earnest
and
loyal.
My
goal
is
to
give
him
an
open
door
to
start
screening
if
a
woman
is
open
to
communicating
with
him
as
a
sexual
being.
His
tease
will
have
less
edge
and
the
whole
sequence
will
be
keeping
a
dignified
guide
to
all
his
communications.
It
will
follow
the
same
pattern
as
above
–
Tease,
Qualify,
Rapport
Cycle,
Challenge
“I
don’t
know
if
I
can
be
around
people
like
you,
you
bring
too
much
of
the
best
out
of
people…
You
shouldn’t
be
insecure
about
that.
You
need
to
own
who
you
are.
Do
you
think
you
can
learn
something
from
your
insecurities?
One
of
the
most
important
lessons
I
ever
learned
from
being
under
the
magnifying
glass
of
the
public
was
that
if
there
was
something
that
I
didn’t
believe
in
myself
about
or
something
that
was
an
unchangeable
flaw
I
needed
to
own
it.
I
think
people
aren’t
willing
or
courageous
enough
to
take
advantage
of
what
they
think
is
a
defect.
What
are
you
passionate
about
that
is
surrounded
by
doubts?”
Sexuality
–
The
taboo
subject
of
sex.
Everybody
has
it,
thinks
about
it
and
yet
nobody
wants
to
talk
about
it.
You
can
joke
about
it,
you
can
dance
around
it,
but
the
true
art
is
to
elicit
it
through
a
conversation
and
start
exchanging
with
it.
If
you
can
establish
a
sexual
connection
early
on
you
can
literally
sit
back
and
relax.
Often
times
the
situation
will
manifest
itself
once
you’ve
created
a
sexual
tension
through
dialog.
Client
1
–
25
year
old
man,
in
shape
and
an
athlete.
His
social
skills
are
lacking
a
bit.
He
understands
heavy
exercise
and
dedication.
He
can
shelter
himself
by
physical
activity.
He
knows
he
gets
a
lot
of
attention
for
his
looks,
but
doesn’t
know
what
to
do
with
it.
He
has
many
missed
opportunities.
My
Goal
with
him
is
to
get
him
social
and
make
him
feel
what
it
is
like
to
have
a
woman
attracted
to
him.
The
best
thing
to
teach
sex
and
seduction
is
to
get
sexual
and
experience
it.
Same
process
of
Tease,
Qualify,
Rapport
Cycle
and
Challenge
“I
am
sorry
I
am
a
shy
guy
and
I
don’t
always
relate
with
crazy
girls
like
you.
The
funny
thing
is
people
always
get
the
wrong
impression
of
me,
I
bet
you
thought
I
was
just
some
superficial
guy…
Let
me
ask
you,
what
do
you
think
is
attractive?
I
have
always
been
someone
that
kept
to
myself
and
was
more
quiet
than
anything.
I
never
appreciated
people
who
were
attracted
to
superficialities,
but
it
is
like
most
people
are
attracted
to
my
superficialities
and
expect
me
to
act
like
this
tough
guy,
but
that
is
not
me
at
all.
You’re
an
attractive
girl
I
be
the
things
that
you
think
are
attractive
aren’t
the
things
people
notice
about
you.
The
sad
thing
is
people
define
themselves
by
what
they
attract,
have
relationships
with
and
have
sex
with.
How
do
you
think
the
people
you
attract
defines
your
sexuality?
Client
2
–
38-‐year-‐old
male.
Free
spirit,
and
aspiring
entrepreneur
unsure
of
life’s
path.
One
thing
is
for
certain
he
is
looking
for
quickly
determining
if
a
woman
is
a
potential
sexual
partner
or
not.
If
not
no
big
deal,
he
wants
to
meet
more
people.
Younger
women
are
not
an
issue
with
him,
but
he
is
truly
attracted
to
any
age.
My
goal
with
him
is
to
use
his
playful
attitude
and
open
mind
to
see
if
women
are
open
to
being
sexual
and
the
meaning
of
that.
The
more
willing
a
guy
is
to
be
emotional
the
more
I
will
push
him
in
that
direction.
You
guessed
it!
Tease,
Qualify,
Rapport
Cycle
and
Challenge.
“Alright
I
don’t
know
if
I
can
talk
to
you,
you’re
one
of
those
closed
minded
women.
You
know
what
they
say
about
people
like
that
right?
(she
will
most
likely
challenge
back
that
she
isn’t
one
of
those
closed
minded
women)
Well
they
say
they’re
all
prudes
that
make
funny
faces
while
in
bed…
Ok
so
I
have
got
to
ask
you,
what
is
the
craziest
thing
you’ve
ever
done
or
are
you
afraid
to
tell
me…
As
for
me
I
don’t
care
about
what
a
person
says
they
are
or
what
they
want
to
show
me,
I
want
to
feel
them
and
experience
them.
People
are
afraid
by
that
like
I
am
talking
about
so
sort
of
taboo
thing.
When
I
meet
someone
or
you
meet
someone
there
is
something
about
just
two
people
meeting
that
makes
them
think,
‘hmmm
I
wonder
what’s
attractive
about
this
person’.
I
bet
you’re
afraid
to
know
what
I
thought
about
you?
In
fact
I
shouldn’t
be
bringing
this
up…
Would
you
be
embarrassed
or
get
all
freaked
out
if
I
told
you
I
was
sexually
attracted
to
you,
because
I
really
don’t
have
to
say
anything
at
all…”
Above
you
have
seen
a
pattern
occur.
You
have
seen
us
take
our
teases
and
shape
them
into
conversations
that
are
accomplishing
a
few
very
important
things.
At
minimum
you
can
see
that
these
conversations
are
moving
into
a
level
of
rapport
as
well
as
hitting
specific
topics.
What
you’re
seeing
is
a
technique
called
Rapport
Cycling…
Rapport
Cycling
–
The
Ultimate
Conversational
Tool
There
are
many
formulas
to
building
conversations,
however
none
come
close
to
the
simplicity,
depth
and
versatility
of
Rapport
Cycling.
In
its
simplest
form
you
can
learn
Rapport
Cycling
and
use
it
in
just
a
few
minutes.
However
it
is
a
skill
that
you
can
spend
years
honing
as
well.
If
you
want
to
use
it
to
meet
a
girl
and
elicit
her
sexuality
in
a
matter
of
minutes
you
can
use
it
for
that.
If
you
want
to
impress
your
potential
boss
on
a
job
interview
you
can
use
it
for
that…
And
if
you
want
to
use
it
in
sales
you
can
use
it
there
as
well.
The
best
part
of
it
is
that
it
is
easy
to
adapt
and
customize.
In
comparison
to
anything
else
out
there
it
is
the
Ultimate
tool
of
conversation.
In
order
for
Rapport
Cycling
to
be
executed
properly
I
have
set
a
few
standards.
It
must
accomplishe
the
4
functions
of
qualification,
achieve
rapport
and
move
in
a
specific
direction.
As
we
learned
above
qualification
has
4
functions
-‐ Value
-‐ Calibration
-‐ Guide
-‐ Qualify
Rapport
Cycling
should
accomplish
all
of
these.
It
also
must
achieve
Rapport.
This
simply
means
to
gain
an
equal
ground.
It
is
where
we
start
to
exchange
with
someone.
This
exchange
is
usually
emotionally
based.
With
theREDstack
it
definitely
is
emotionally
based.
Lastly
it
needs
to
move
the
conversation
in
a
specific
direction.
Not
just
bring
up
a
topic,
but
it
must
showcase
what
you
value
about
that
topic.
I
teach
a
whole
6
month
course
on
Rapport
Cycling,
so
it
can
be
very
complex.
Here
we
are
going
to
look
at
defining
it,
and
workshop
it.
If
you
want
learn
the
dynamic
art
of
Rapport
Cycling
in
the
most
efficient
way,
I
would
recommend
signing
up
for
one
of
the
live
or
online
courses
offered
on
theSexualLife.com
Rapport
Cycling
The
Elements
Rapport
Cycling
is
simply
a
technique
that
takes
Qualification
and
not
only
amplifies
it
but
also
puts
it
immediately
into
a
conversation.
To
understand
it
and
grow
with
it
we
need
to
explore
the
4
elements
of
Rapport
Cycling
–
-‐ Opening
Qualifier
-‐ The
Ground
-‐ The
Challenge
(a
heavier
or
heavier
voicing
of
the
Qualifier)
-‐ The
Definition
The
Opening
Qualifier
is
to
just
start
things
off.
However
the
whole
Cycle
is
the
true
Qualifier.
We
have
spent
some
time
defining
what
Qualification
means,
lets
define
the
other
elements
you
will
see
as
we
Cycle
Rapport.
The
Ground
-
Grounding
is
simply
a
story
about
-‐
you
-‐
someone
else
or
a
-‐
perspective.
Grounding
is
necessary
because
we
want
all
of
our
interactions
to
be
based
off
of
who
we
are.
If
we
don’t
have
a
story
to
articulate
that
is
based
on
us
then
it
should
be
based
off
of
an
experience
we
can
share.
This
can
also
be
someone
else’s
experience
because
we
might
use
it
to
share
our
perspective.
We
can
also
simply
not
tell
a
story
and
share
our
perspective.
The
main
thing
is
that
we
make
it
reflective
on
who
we
are.
Here
are
some
examples
–
If
I
want
to
share
a
story
about
the
topic
of
success
I
can
tell
a
story
based
on
Myself
–
“When
I
started
working
at
the
age
of
16
I
really
didn’t
care
about
money
or
anything
like
that,
I
just
wanted
independence.
It
wasn’t
till
I
was
in
my
30s
that
I
started
to
make
any
money,
but
still
the
same
thing
that
defined
my
success
had
everything
to
do
with
my
freedom.”
Someone
else
–
“My
friend
Vince
has
always
been
the
guy
in
my
head
that
defined
success.
The
reason
being
is
because
he
did
whatever
he
wanted.
It
was
like
his
lifestyle
was
so
unique
to
him.
He
had
a
good
business
sense,
huge
work
ethic,
simple
life
and
always
looked
like
a
bum,
yet
he
was
one
of
the
wealthiest
men
I
knew.
Through
all
that
he
always
kept
a
full
time
job
as
a
nurse.”
My
Perspective
–
“Success
is
such
an
odd
topic.
Everyone
defines
it
in
so
many
different
ways.
But
if
it
doesn’t
serve
you
in
everyway
then
it
will
work
against
you.
It
is
kind
of
like
a
marriage,
if
there
are
20
things
that
you
need
to
make
a
marriage
work
and
you
only
have
19
then
it
won’t
work.
Success
means
having
everything
in
its
right
place.”
Notice
how
all
of
these
may
talk
about
many
different
things,
but
they
all
talk
about
success.
Also
in
the
story
about
someone
else
it
is
not
necessarily
me
only
talking
about
them,
it
is
talking
about
them
to
share
my
perspective.
Your
ground
will
always
be
about
you.
You
need
to
share
your
perspective
to
truly
assert
yourself.
Another
important
aspect
to
Grounding
is
the
structure
of
it.
In
most
of
the
things
covered
in
this
document
our
‘grounds’
will
be
short.
Maybe
only
2
lines
maybe
6,
but
there
is
a
structure
to
it.
Either
way
the
Ground
is
centered
around
you,
however
there
is
a
second
part
to
it
that
needs
to
transition
into
her.
For
instance
if
you
were
to
structure
the
Ground
you
could
think
of
it
like
–
1
–
My
story
2
–
How
it
relates
to
her
How
I
would
structure
‘my
story’
would
be
something
that
I
think
is
attractive
or
interesting.
How
I
would
structure
‘how
it
relates
to
her’
would
be
based
on
what
I
find
attractive
about
women.
This
may
sound
complex
but
here
are
some
examples
–
If
I
really
like
that
I
can
be
emotional
that
might
structure
my
story.
And
if
I
think
it
is
attractive
when
a
girl
realizes
sees
me
as
an
emotional
guy
I
might
say
–
“I
am
someone
who
has
always
been
more
on
the
emotional
side
of
things.
In
fact
I
think
that
most
men
are
ashamed
of
that,
but
it
has
given
me
more
depth.
A
woman
that
can
see
that
is
really
attractive.”
Another
example
might
be
–
I
like
to
travel,
but
I
am
really
attracted
towards
open-‐minded
women.
This
would
shape
my
Ground.
“You
know
I
have
always
been
an
open-‐minded
person
and
I
think
one
of
the
biggest
reflections
of
that
is
travel.
I
love
it,
but
in
a
very
unique
way.
You
being
an
attractive
woman
probably
have
a
different
perspective.”
You
can
see
that
towards
the
end
of
the
Ground
there
is
something
connecting
it
to
them.
In
review
–
The
Ground
is
simply
-‐ A
story
about
myself,
someone
else
or
my
perspective
-‐ Fairly
short
(at
least
for
now)
-‐ Shares
my
story
but
connects
to
her
The
Challenge
-
Rapport
Cycling
is
based
on
Qualification
and
needs
to
achieve
the
4
functions
of
Qualification.
It
almost
always
starts
with
a
Qualifier
or
question.
However
you
need
to
see
the
whole
process
of
the
cycle
to
truly
Qualify.
This
means
that
the
entire
dialog
that
is
delivered
(including
the
Ground)
is
a
part
of
the
Qualifier.
Rapport
Cycling
allows
you
to
get
massive
Rapport
however
it
also
will
fulfill
all
4
functions
of
Qualification
as
well.
This
is
done
through
this
component
–
The
Challenge.
A
Challenge
comes
right
after
the
Ground
and
will
truly
Challenge
the
Topic.
Essentially
Qualification
was
meant
to
Challenge
in
some
ways,
however,
this
process
engages
through
the
initial
Qualifier
(Topic),
then
engages
through
the
Ground
and
Challenges
with
the
second
Qualifier.
If
in
our
Ground
we
share
a
part
of
ourselves
and
link
it
to
them
we
can
follow
it
up
with
another
question.
That
question
will
have
more
meaning
because
it
follows
the
Ground.
Sounds
confusing?
Let’s
look
at
some
examples.
Topic
-‐
Insecurities.
My
story
-‐
I
am
honest
about
my
insecurities.
What
I
am
attracted
to
-‐
women
being
confident
with
their
insecurities
I
can
say
something
like
–
“I
have
always
been
someone
that
thinks
being
human
is
a
beautiful
thing.
The
good
and
the
bad.
For
instances
I
have
fears
just
like
anyone
else.
I
mean
one
of
my
biggest
fears
is
that
people
can
see
my
insecurities.
But
I
think
it
is
different
for
you.
But
women
don’t
realize
that
one
of
the
most
attractive
qualities
a
woman
can
have
is
if
she
is
confident
about
things
that
may
not
be
her
strongest
points.
Let
me
ask
you,
what
do
you
think
is
your
most
attractive
about
you
that
other
people
might
think
is
a
bad
thing?”
That
last
line
is
the
Challenge.
Here
is
another
example
–
Topic
–
Integrity
My
story
–
I
can
be
easy
going
but
with
people
and
connections
I
hold
them
at
the
highest
value.
What
I
am
attracted
to
–
A
woman
that
is
not
flaky
I
can
say
something
like
–
“You
know
what
I
think
is
one
of
the
most
interesting
things
about
people
is
how
we
all
connect.
It
is
funny
cause
I
have
always
been
an
easy
going
guy,
I
mean
I
just
go
with
the
flow,
but
when
it
comes
to
my
relationships
with
people
I
feel
they’re
the
most
important
thing.
One
of
the
least
attractive
qualities
in
someone
is
when
they’re
flaky.
It
would
be
great
to
get
your
perspective
on
this
cause
women
who
have
a
lot
going
in
their
life
like
it
seems
you
do
might
have
a
different
perspective…
Are
you
a
girl
that
values
how
you
interact
with
people
you’re
close
too?”
You
can
see
here
that
in
the
Ground
I
bring
up
my
perspective
on
what
I
value,
then
before
I
connect
to
her
I
bring
up
that
I
find
it
unattractive
to
flake
on
people.
What
I
ultimately
challenge
her
on
is
the
value.
This
really
doesn’t
matter.
The
main
thing
is
that
I
am
properly
asserting
myself.
What
is
important
about
the
idea
of
Challenging
is
that
we
must
always
remember
that
we
are
trying
to
cultivate
what
we
are
attracted
to.
In
examining
the
Design
and
Direction
of
our
Topics
we
learned
that
the
end
goal
of
your
Topic
needs
to
move
in
the
direction
of
what
you
are
attracted
to.
We
need
to
learn
how
to
Challenge
a
girl
on
what
we
find
attractive.
If
we
do
our
best
at
getting
to
this
Challenge
and
she
can
not
answer
then
she
is
not
Qualified
to
talk
to
us.
I
guarantee
you,
if
you
get
good
at
Challenging
the
girls
who
Challenge
you
back
and
redefine
your
Challenges
will
be
the
ones
you’re
most
attracted
to.
This
is
my
end
goal
of
a
Challenge.
It
isn’t
to
dominate,
it
is
to
reciprocate.
The
Definition
-
We
have
begun
our
understanding
of
Qualification.
We
also
have
begun
to
understand
how
to
base
it
off
ourselves
through
Grounding.
We
understand
that
we
need
to
Challenge
on
what
we
are
attracted
to.
However
one
thing
that
people
always
seem
to
forget
it
to
put
a
definition
on
it.
There
is
a
term
in
the
PUA
Industry
called
Framing.
It
actually
comes
from
NLP
meaning
that
you
put
a
frame
around
you
and
that
person.
When
teaching
for
the
first
2
years
all
people
asked
me
about
was
‘Framing’.
This
is
main
because
I
was
a
student
of
Captain
Jack’s
and
he
would
say
one
of
the
most
important
things
you
need
to
do
is
‘Sexually
Frame’
a
woman
in
order
to
sleep
with
her
the
same
night
you
met
her.
In
exploring
the
idea
of
framing
more
and
more
it
evolved
into
the
simple
idea
of
putting
a
definition
on
all
of
your
interactions.
Sometimes
it
can
be
as
simple
as
stating
my
definition,
other
times
my
structure
of
dialogue
might
build
the
definition.
The
main
thing
is
that
you
need
to
be
proactive
in
achieving
a
Definition
to
your
interactions
with
people.
This
is
an
extension
of
the
knowing
the
Direction
you
want
to
move
your
topic
in.
You
want
it
to
have
an
end
point.
The
design
of
your
Rapport
Cycling
needs
to
get
to
this
end
point
or
definition.
For
instance
lets
look
at
another
example
popular
from
my
clients.
-‐ I
like
my
accomplishments
but
they
are
unpopular
with
women
-‐ I
am
attracted
to
women
who
can
show
emotion
back
to
me
-‐ I
am
very
technically
minded
This
is
a
very
popular
dynamic
for
many
guys.
Believe
it
or
not
it
is
one
of
the
best
set
ups
you
can
have
to
gain
interest
in
about
anyone.
And
the
more
people
you
can
gain
interest
with
them
more
selection
you
can
have
to
truly
Qualify
them.
Let’s
look
at
how
we
could
define
all
of
this…
Up
until
now
we
have
been
presenting
questions
and
ideas
to
women.
We
might
even
be
asking
heavy
questions,
and
the
act
alone
of
that
will
gain
interest
and
even
women
attracted
to
you,
but
we
want
to
take
things
further.
We
want
to
Define
our
relationship
with
someone
we
like.
From
what
is
listed
above
we
can
see
that
the
client
is
attracted
to
someone
who
can
be
really
emotional
with
them.
Their
definition
can
be
a
simple
statement
–
“You
know
you’re
someone
who
I
can
tell
really
understands
my
perspective,
but
in
an
emotional
way.”
To
understand
how
I
can
fire
off
this
Definition
let’s
incorporate
all
the
tools
above
–
Opening
Qualifier
–
“I
know
we
just
met,
but
I
wanted
to
ask
you
what
do
think
is
the
most
important
aspect
of
your
life?”
The
Ground
–
“The
reason
why
I
ask
is
because
I
am
a
really
technically
minded
person,
I
can
be
blind
to
a
lot
of
things
about
how
people
interact.
I
mean
I
have
always
accomplished
a
lot
and
overachieved
at
times,
but
if
you
don’t’
experience
it
with
someone
it
means
nothing.
Even
though
we
just
met
I
think
that
you
understand
this
dynamic
with
yourself
too,
but
in
a
different
way…”
The
Challenge
–
“What
is
the
most
important
quality
about
connecting
with
someone?”
As
long
as
she
you
still
feel
she
is
qualified
to
talk
to
you,
Define
it!
The
Definition
–
“You
know
you’re
someone
who
I
can
tell
really
understands
my
perspective,
but
in
an
emotional
way.”
Lets
take
another
look
at
it
in
a
bit
more
aggressive
form.
We
will
stick
with
the
same
personality
profile
as
the
above
example.
However
in
looking
at
our
Direction
and
Design
we
know
that
we
want
our
Definition
to
be
more
about
her
being
an
emotionally
sexual
person.
Opening
Qualifier
–
“I
am
really
curious
about
what
you
want
in
life?”
The
Ground
–
“I
know
that
is
a
really
deep
question
and
we
just
met,
but
I
am
someone
who
can
be
a
little
bit
too
detached
at
times.
I
mean
I
have
always
been
technically
minded
and
that
can
be
helpful
at
times,
but
I
really
value
human
connection,
but
it
can
be
one
of
the
hardest
things
for
me.
Humanity
at
its
core
is
socializing,
I
mean
even
sexuality
is
a
part
of
that.
Those
are
the
things
that
I
am
always
a
step
away
from…”
The
Challenge
–
“So
let
me
ask
you,
what
is
something
that
defines
the
essence
of
a
woman
to
you?”
The
Definition
–
“You
know
I
can
tell
you
were
a
bit
shy
there,
and
that
is
understandable,
but
I
think
I
could
understand
where
you
were
coming
from
emotionally
in
that
feminine
sensuality
sort
of
way.”
One
of
the
main
reasons
why
Definitions
are
so
important
is
because
when
escalating
with
a
woman
in
an
interaction
we
are
always
looking
for
a
sign.
She
might
feel
uncomfortable
and
you
might
feel
uncomfortable
because
there
is
no
Definition
on
how
we
should
interact.
One
of
the
best
examples
of
this
is
a
job
where
your
boss
does
not
have
a
clear
definition
on
what
your
job
is.
You
may
know
what
your
job
description
is
but
you
have
no
clear
direction.
This
makes
you
have
an
unpleasant
experience
with
your
job
and
your
boss.
You
need
to
do
this
same
thing
with
the
people
you
interact
with…including
the
women.
Now
that
we
have
a
definition
on
the
elements
that
make
up
Rapport
Cycling
let’s
take
a
look
at
the
different
patterns
I
want
you
to
focus
on.
Ultimately
all
you
need
for
Rapport
Cycling
are
the
above
elements
listed;
however,
what
is
going
to
make
you
understand
the
elements
are
some
templates
to
achieve
success
with.
Conclusion
of
Part
1
You
have
reached
the
end
of
theREDstack
the
Hacker’s
Guide
Part
1.
You
might
be
thinking
this
is
complex!
It
is
only
complex
for
3
reasons
1
–
You
haven’t
examined
yourself.
You
need
to
do
your
Identity
Accessment
(remember
theREDstack
is
100%
based
on
you)
2
–
You
haven’t
broken
down
each
technique.
If
you
notice
they
all
flow
into
each
other.
Opening
flows
to
Baiting
and
Teasing.
Baiting
and
Teasing
flow
into
Qualification
and
Rapport
Cycling.
It
is
simple.
Once
you
get
the
idea
of
how
they
transition
into
each
other
you’re
set
on
a
path
that
truly
becomes
effortless.
3
–
You
haven’t
applied
it!
You
need
to
go
out
there
and
try
it.
You
need
to
make
mistakes,
fix
them
and
get
creative
with
it.
Once
you
get
it,
you
will
be
amazed
at
how
quickly
you
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with
people.
Nothing
compares
to
it.
You
will
have
conversations
where
in
5
minutes
the
women,
soon
to
be
friends
and
acquaintances
will
be
saying,
“I
can’t
believe
I
am
having
this
conversation
with
you,
it
is
like
we
have
known
each
other
forever.”
This
document
is
meant
for
you
to
learn
the
Best
Social
Dynamic.
You
have
everything
you
need
to
know
to
get
deep
with
anybody,
while
being
yourself
in
any
situation,
but
if
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manual
isn’t
enough
you
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always
go
to
thesexuallife.com
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Also
if
you’re
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‘I
just
want
to
get
theREDstack’
–
well
I
only
do
5
a
year
and
they’re
not
cheap
–
but
feel
free
to
email
me
–
steve@thesexuallife.com
Part
2
–
You
might
be
thinking
there’s
more???
Well
there
is,
there
is
much
more.
In
order
for
theREDstack
to
be
the
best
product
out
there
it
had
to
be
extremely
thorough
and
dynamic.
In
fact
what
theREDstack
is
famous
for
is
not
what
is
broken
down
in
the
many
pages
above.
What
it
is
famous
for
is
–
Framing
Sexually
Framing
Cold
Reading
And
Escalation
Techniques
However
Part
2
has
all
that
and
even
some
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How
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Well,
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check
it
out!
Thanks
for
reading
Now
go
out
and
put
it
to
use!
Steve
Mayeda
Creator
of
theREDstack
Founder
of
theSexaulLife.com
steve@thesexuallife.com