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Can you learn to be social, alone in a room, on your computer or phone? Not really – you must get out into the world and socialize.
A man is not defined by his job, car(s), trophy wife (or wives), luck in the gene c lo ery (good looks), muscles, house(s), other
expensive toys (airplane(s), yacht(s)) or cashflow. He can have all those things, and s ll be considered a ruffian. Rough around
the edges. People may s ll generally avoid him outside of what he can provide for them in terms of access to the various
resources he commands.
What’s the missing ingredient? What is the feature which one finds to be ubiquitous among people who belong to the old
landed aristocracy – the nobility – in Europe, and its American counterpart – “older” money (descendants of the industrial
barons of the Gilded Age) and those belonging to the first families to set foot in today’s United States?
This will be the subject of today’s ar cle. I will endeavor to guide you through what I consider to be the single most important
tool you can possess to achieve personal sa sfac on in life.
We Are Social
Social media doesn’t help socialize you – quite the opposite in fact, it heightens your narcissis c tendencies – it doesn’t teach
you how to socialize. And if you’re not socialized, you will never feel truly fulfilled.
There’s li le that’s “social” about it.
Human beings are ins nc vely social creatures.
The more me you spend by yourself, enjoying only superficial rela onships with others, the more anxious you will feel. This
anxiety will eventually morph into a general a tude of fear towards life and where you are headed: musings and rumina ons
which taken to their extreme lead to depressive states.
In these situa ons, you are already socially proofed (//www.girlschase.com/content/how-use-social-proof-get-girls). If you
play an instrument, you can go jam in a venue close to where you live. People will accept you there and feel grateful for you
having provided value to them. The same applies to wri ng some amateur poetry (or even prose!) and reading it during an
open mic night at a poetry reading session.
It is indescribably beneficial to share of yourself in that way with total strangers and feeling them respond posi vely to your
opening up. It’s like a release, a huge weight being li ed from your shoulders. Because we want to feel that others have similar
experiences/thoughts to ours: this is what socializing is all about.
Whether you’re playing an instrument, singing, reading a poem, or doing some stand-up comedy: these are expressions of
your inner being in universal languages which others can understand and connect with.
And guess what? Girls are usually at these things. Some mes even hot or very hot girls. And you have an excuse to talk to
them, situa onally (//www.girlschase.com/content/how-use-situa onally-relevant-openers-women), socially.
It's actually a relief to socialize. And you may even meet a hot girl or two doing it.
As for short courses, these should ideally be geared towards things you’re passionate about. Because it gives you pleasure to
study those things in greater depth, and here you have the added bonus of having other people to interact with about those
things, and eventually invite them socially to:
Play sports
Go to the cinema
Go out/have a meal outside of classes
You can also start cha ng with guys you see regularly at the gym and do the same: invite them to do the above with you
outside of workout sessions.
Try to provide value in these exchanges. You can do this by pu ng yourself in your interlocutor’s shoes. Trying to experience
his or her point of view.
Smile.
You shouldn’t feel “obliged” to be with your parents because it’s Christmas or Easter or Thanksgiving or whatever.
Once you become an adult, you are the captain of your own household.
If you s ck to your parents or siblings for socializing you will never truly develop into a fully autonomous adult man. This
means being able to adapt to any city or country, be it in terms of:
Crea ng or joining social circles
Mee ng beau ful women
Ge ng laid
Finding gainful employment
Conclusion
In this ar cle, we saw that socializing is beneficial, as it makes you more comfortable around people and so allows you to feel
accepted by them while you accept others. This helps improve what you tell yourself every day, which defines who you are in
the long run.
Addi onally, socializing helps you by allowing you to expand your social circle or join other circles. By doing this you can make
new friends, boys or girls, and eventually meet single girls. At this point, having become less needy from socializing more
o en, you’ll be more natural or at ease when interac ng with these single girls.
The more social you are, the more social you'll be with women.
If you aren’t already proficient, you’ll want to learn how to seduce girls regardless. But prac cing socializing will give you
posi ve social momentum and eventually allow you to build social grace (//www.girlschase.com/content/are-social-grace-
savvy-and-empathy-unmanly), the province of the elite. This will make you hugely sought-a er and give you immense personal
sa sfac on in life.
Author
Frankie is a guy who went from socially-awkward high school virgin to popular college man a er hi ng the gym and befriending the foreign exchange
students who threw the best par es. Later, he found a niche in the tourism industry, becoming a guide and cashing in on horny tourist girls.
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