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Whether she's someone you're da ng or just one you're talking to, you can go a li le crazy
when a girl pulls away.
In this guide I'll show you exactly how to deal with this situa on, including:
How to understand why she pulls away
Ways to troubleshoot the root cause
A method to halt her pulling away
Steps to keep her around a long, long me
Let's begin.
Contents
Instead, stop her pulling away – then fix it.
Why Women Pull Away. 4 Reasons Why and How to Keep the A rac on! (h ps://www.apolloniapon .com/why-women-
pull-away-4-reasons-why-and-how-to-keep-the-a rac on/): a good list of value-based reasons women pull away
4 Reasons Women Pull Away (And How To Keep Them HOOKED (h ps://www.yourtango.com/experts/kate-spring/why-
women-pull-away-and-how-keep-them-hooked): a review of mostly a ainability-based reasons women pull away
Depression Traps: Social Withdrawal, Rumina on, and More (h ps://www.webmd.com/depression/features/depression-
traps-and-pi alls): her pulling away won't always be because of you. Social withdraw is a #1 sign of depression, too
“ Hey, I noticed you've been kind of cool with me lately. What's going on with that? I really mean it, I'm not just asking.
“ I need to know what's going on with you. You've got to tell me. I know you're upset about something but I don't know
what.
She might be annoyed with you. But she s ll has ears and she hasn't totally wri en you off altogether yet.
How she responds will tell you a lot, even if she doesn't directly answer (at first):
If she's confident and dismissive (confident, chipper voice: “I'm fine! I don't know what you mean”), either you have a
value problem or she's so deep in auto-rejec on (//www.girlschase.com/content/secrets-ge ng-girls-staying-out-auto-
rejec on) she's trea ng you like you have a value problem
If she's angry or rude (angry, bi er voice: “Like you actually care”) it's a ainability
If she's indifferent but busy (neutral voice: “Sorry, I've just been busy”) it's likely compliance (possibly mixed with value or
a ainability)
If she's depressive ( red, beaten-down voice: “[sigh] I'm fine. I just haven't had a lot of me lately”) it's likely depression
or another mood disorder
If she doesn't spell it out for you at first, don't worry.
O en mes once you've asked, if she didn't immediately answer, she will circle back later and tell you what the issue is.
And if she doesn't?
Ask again.
Want to know how to get her to stop in her tracks and not pull away?
Then keep reading...
You: Eh, go ahead. Keep pulling away. Might as well take this whole relationship and throw it in the trash.
This works best with women you're already in a rela onship with.
Women you're already in a rela onship with are invested enough they aren't ready to throw it all away at once (and instead,
the pull back is a gradual process -- and they weren't finished yet).
By jumping the gun, you rush their decision, which interrupts the pa ern.
Here's one you can use with women you're da ng and women you aren't:
The last gasp proposal.
Before you give up, propose one last thing.
You'll call the pull away out here too... yet rather than dismiss the rela onship, you'll propose one last hurrah. One final par ng
shot (//www.girlschase.com/content/par ng-shot).
Like so:
You: Well, I know you're pulling away. But I've got one last thing to do with you before you go. Come on.
Then lead her into some suitable ac vity for where she's at.
For instance, a long-term girlfriend you will probably be able to get to take a 'last gasp' day trip with you to some interes ng
locale.
Then plan to do the next steps in this guide with her there.
But a girl you've talked to for 45 minutes in a bar who's pulling away may not even move 10 feet with you if she's sufficiently
far gone.
So instead of propose a move with her, you'll play a li le game with her, like the 3 favorite animals game
(h ps://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/three-favorite-animals-game-2010.46/).
Once that window closes, you'll have a hard me ge ng it open for another interrupt.
When you use this to buy me, you need to make sure you use that me to fix her pulling away.
What can you do to fix it?
Read on...
Don't Chase
Humans are all wired with the same basic psychology:
When something we want (be that a colorful ball or a desirable mate) starts to roll away, we reach out to grab it back.
If it keeps drawing away, we get up and start to chase it.
It's unconscious, unthinking, and more or less automa c.
Yet when it's a person you're chasing, and she sees you're chasing, what does that make her do?
It makes her pull away faster and more.
You chase, she runs. You chase harder, she runs faster.
She runs, and you chase. You chase, and she runs.
Resist the urge to chase women.
Instead, use the pa ern interrupt we talked about in the last sec on to freeze a woman who's pulling away in her tracks
so you can deal with her on even terms.
To learn more about chasing and its alterna ves, check out these guides...
Keeping Your Cool: Don't Chase Women (//www.girlschase.com/content/keeping-your-cool-dont-chase-women)
Why Chasing Women Doesn't Work and Why Persistence Does (//www.girlschase.com/content/why-chasing-women-
doesn%E2%80%99t-work-and-why-persistence-does)
How Long Do Women Pull Away For? Days? Months? Answer Revealed! (h ps://www.developa rac on.com/how-long-
women-pull-away-for/)
During a courtship, if you fix a reason a girl was pulling away, make a mental note not to do what you did that caused it again...
or not to forget what you didn't do that caused it.
e.g., if you quit teasing her (//www.girlschase.com/content/teasing-girl-right-way) and she started to pull away because she
needs more arousal, start teasing her again... and don't let up un l she's fallen into bed with you and you're too busy doing
physical things to tease.
By making permanent tweaks, you 'lock in' the fix, and make it so she won't pull away again.
Conclusion
Follow this guide, and I hope you'll discover yourself equipped to tackle any girl who's
pulling away from you, no ma er the root cause.
How've you dealt with girls pulling away in the past?
Has it been value, a ainability, or other issues that caused women to pull away from you?
Let me know in the comments.
Chase
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Chase woke up one day in 2004 red of being alone. So, he set to work and read every book he could find, studied every teacher he could meet, and
talked to every girl he could talk to to figure out da ng. A er four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way),
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