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Seducing Women Is A Children’s Game

November 8, 2011 by CH Copyright © 2015. Chateau
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Here’s a little secret: some of the “routines” that pickup artists use to attract
food fight and do not
women are actually reformulations of children’s games. The games that you used
necessarily represent the
to do as a child to annoy your little brother or sister, or the pig-tailed girl on the
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playground, are those same games that spark an attraction in adult women. Why?
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Because children’s games are essentially LONG FORM NEGS.

Following are examples of children’s games that you should play with women you
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The Repeating Game

This is a classic. You repeat everything she says or does back to her. The quicker P
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Stop Touching Me

Put her hand on yourself, then reprimand her by saying “Stop touching me” while T U
pushing her hand off. Do this a few times, each time increasing the fake @FamesBlond @LouiseMensch
annoyance in your voice. “Seriously, stop touching me!” “Stop touching me or I’ll The Fundamental Premise in
tell mom.” “Stop touching me pervy mcpervster!” “Wow, you just can’t get enough action. 3 weeks ago
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RT @FamesBlond:
Simon Says @ChateauEmissary

Girl: Will you buy me a drink? @LouiseMensch SMH at the

sheer bitterness towards the
You: You didn’t say ‘simon says’. few men have those options

Girl: Simon says, buy me a drink. compared to volume of opp…

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market has a nihilism bias.
Sidewalk Cracks
But women who really fear
This game is really fun when you are walking her back to your place for the F abandonment have another
close. Announce “Don’t step on the cracks or you’ll break your mother’s back” and option: don't marry a super
start hopping from one sidewalk square to another. If she joins you in the alpha. 3 weeks ago
silliness, she’s DTF. The ridiculous fun factor goes up to 11 if you are walking with
@MiaoReport Sure, but like
her on a cobblestone street.
White altruism, it never stops
Thumb Wrestling "working" until the
environment changes and
Self-explanatory. Any situation will work. “We have to thumb wrestle for it.” You
makes it pathological.
can trick her with the ‘snake in the grass’. This is where you cheat by using your
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index finger to pin down her thumb. If she punches you after losing, she’s DTF.
@therajraj That's probably
Some of you may be wondering when to play these games with women. Well,
right, but at the margins
pretty much whenever you sense an opportunity. They can be played during the
sustained and aggressive agit-
attraction stage as a way to tease a girl and disqualify yourself. Or you can play
prop can alter people's
them while sitting with her on a couch and getting comfortable. They’re great
behavior. 3 weeks ago
mood lifters and routine breakers in LTRs. A woman would have to have a heart of
stone not to get into the spirit of a fun, goofy game. @FredAGunter @ClarkHat
USA circa 1955 was ~90%
Children’s games work because children know how to tease. The art of teasing is
White. That couldn't have
lost as the years pile up and adult responsibilities deaden the soul. Teasing is
been coincidental to America's
extremely attractive to women because it signals you aren’t automatically
dominance then. 3 weeks ago
impressed by them. Women love to feel like they have to earn the attraction of a
man they are talking to, just as a man has to earn a woman’s attraction.

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Endorsing these strategies is really no different than women endorsing
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Matador on November 8, 2011 at 1:46 pm

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I wasn’t aware of NA’s trollish past, but the issue is similar to the 60 Years of Challenge
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This stuff is kind of advanced, only for guys who got the fundamentals right.
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It’s advanced in that almost anything will go poorly without proper
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state and frame. But if you’ve got those, or even just acceptable
state and frame I think that these techniques will work.

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n/a on November 9, 2011 at 4:46 am

I see my nom de blog has earned a troll.

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RVT on November 8, 2011 at 1:36 pm

The more I practice, the more I’m convinced that good game is 90%
body language, and the rest is fluff in comparison.

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Laconophile on November 8, 2011 at 2:41 pm

Language has only been around for an evolutionary blink of the eye.
It makes sense that non-verbal forms of communication (like posture,
body language, or facial expressions) would be more arousing to the
animal nature of woman.

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Matador on November 8, 2011 at 1:36 pm

Good stuff.
It reminds me of one of my favorite openers (I think Mystery came up
with it):

“Remember when we were kids and you could just make new friends whenever
you wanted… and you said ‘want to be my friend?’ Do you want to by my new
friend?”

Childhood stuff is great. But I’d be careful not to overdo it with the lawyercunt
types.

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Anonymous on November 8, 2011 at 1:38 pm

Another one is that stupid ass game where you make a circle with your
thumb and index finger and put it on your thigh and say “Hey” and look
down at it. They’re supposed to look down because you did. When they
see it they know they fucked up.

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Aurini on November 8, 2011 at 1:48 pm

One of my favourites is – should you get up to refill your drink – grab her
leg and start dragging her off the couch for no reason. A mix of pointless
fun, and subtle dominance.

“What are you doing?”

“Nothing,” rakish grin.

“No – no – no – no – no!” Giggle/gina tingle.

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 Jay Gatsby on November 9, 2011 at 10:51 am

Instead of saying “nothing” you should say “Me Tarzan, you Jane!”
You’re a caveman dragging her off to your “cave” for a little fun….

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Zatarra on November 8, 2011 at 1:50 pm

I use “stop hitting yourself”.

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Heathcliff on November 8, 2011 at 2:23 pm

Lock eyes, in a serious tone “give me your hand”. Tension builds as

she puts her hand in yours. Procede with “stop hitting yourself”.

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Mayaisatroll on November 8, 2011 at 1:58 pm

That’s really cute! Does it work on guys as well?

[Heartiste: We’ve been through this before, troll. You know the
answer already. Tits, ass and face work on guys. Teasing a guy will hardly
have any impact on how attractive he finds you, except as a signal that
his game is working on you.]

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Random on November 8, 2011 at 2:04 pm

Thumb wrestling is such a go-to move for me. You don’t even need a
pretext, just stick out your hand. If she looks confused, look at her like
she’s an idiot and grab her hand.

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Jake on November 8, 2011 at 2:17 pm

I like ignoring them like I do children. Not completely, just enough.

All those games though, be careful playing them with those 27-29 year
olds. DTF turns into sperm stealing whores in no time at all.

Here, even journalists for large publications admit to entrapping you:

http://two.cedonulli.com/2011/11/sperm-stealing-bitches/

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Anonymous on November 8, 2011 at 2:18 pm

Possibly a bit off topic, but what exactly is the difference between negs,
shit tests, and banter?

I’ve always thought as banter as playful teasing as largely described in the post.
When I’ve found a girl who was good at it, it was an absolute pleasure. Obviously,
there are things w/her that are even greater pleasures, but banter is something I
thoroughly enjoy and seek out in a woman.

I thought negs were for when she is just being mean using a shit-test and were
meant as a way to tell her that I’m not going to tolerate your behavior while
keeping your cool.

I realize that I may be wrong. I’m just looking for clarification.

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The Chrome Microphone on November 8, 2011 at 8:50 pm

Negs are subtle insults or backhanded compliments to lower her value

 Shit tests are things she does or says to ascertain your value as a man

Banter is light-hearted back and forth and isn’t necessarily specific to game or
male-female interaction

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Anonymous on November 9, 2011 at 2:42 am

like telling a 40 yr old woman if she bought her grandchildren if

the gift she is holding is for her grandkids, and saying how nice
she is.

diabolical….

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Basil Ransom on November 8, 2011 at 2:22 pm

Playing Mercy is better than all of these. Tell her to wrap both her hands
around your non-dominant hand, and then make her scream mercy.
Chicks love it, and it’s much more dominant than thumb war.

You can transition into it by shaking her hand and commenting on her strength,
preferably facetiously.

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Spandrell on November 8, 2011 at 2:22 pm

Holy shit i’m getting married just to avoid this boring crap.
Wtf
Tagging?

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Aaron on November 8, 2011 at 5:42 pm

Flirting is so boring! I’d rather be engaged in something serious and

worthy of my pretensions… where are you guys all going?

[Heartiste: heh.]

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spandrell on November 9, 2011 at 7:56 am

Hey, I’m not arguing with the facts. Its very possible that childish
crap such as this is necessary to score some pussy.

I happen to think that’s sad. We all should. Men used to be able to score
pussy without playing simon says.

[Heartiste: What is it with you anti-gamera and haters that false

premises are the only coin of the realm you trade in? It’s not
*necessary* to play these games to score pussy. But it does help.
It’s just another tool in the game toolbox. Use at your discretion.
Jesus Christ it’s like I’m reprimanding a class of autistics.]

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spandrell on November 9, 2011 at 6:11 pm

Hey no offense intended, you have done much good for this
world.

But its you who are marketing the blog to autistics when you make it a
catalogue of lame game techniques.

[Heartiste: There’s always someone who will find any one

particular game technique to be lame. That doesn’t discredit the
technique.]

The level of the game talked about here used to be higher.

 [I bet you could go all the way back into the archives and find at
least one commenter per post saying the same thing you are
saying here.]

Too high it convinced me to get out of the market, as a matter of fact.

Its a pity the left half of the bell curve always finds a way of ruining
everything.

[If you seriously think these kinds of goofy games aren’t excellent
flirting techniques and LTR management tactics then you obviously
haven’t tried them. Hint: Not too many younger women like sticks
in the mud.]

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Anonymous on November 25, 2011 at 9:53 pm

Flirting is boring? Duude.

Flirting is one of the main things about seduction…it really, really

is.

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Anonymous on November 8, 2011 at 5:44 pm

Boring crap beats stupid crap, like marriage. You should start hiding
your money now. Though usually poor folk are the ones suckered into
marriage, so maybe that won’t be much of an issue for you below the
poverty line.

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Anonymous on November 26, 2011 at 1:35 am

I’ll second the boring beats stupid remarks. I wouldn’t say that
the poor folk are the only one suckered into marriage as it is
these days- seems there’s a lot of money to be made assraping
men as a divorce attorney these days.

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Aaron on November 8, 2011 at 7:02 pm

The point is that it’s not boring if you enjoy pure fun with a woman
that is sexually attractive to you. If you doubt yourself in something
this simple it’s probably because you take yourself too seriously. I
bookmarked this post because it’s a nice reminder that the best ways to have
fun with a girl are the easiest

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mavala (wife & mother) on November 8, 2011 at 2:24 pm

My husband will bite my finger, and when I complain that it hurts, bite
stronger and stronger, making signs with his hands that he wants to hear
me to scream “stop! it hurts!” louder. Only when I can not bear it no
more will he release my finger and laugh.

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Rant Casey - BR on November 8, 2011 at 6:10 pm

I bite the ass of my girlfriend often. And then give it a rub like when
you take an injection and they sub cotton + alcohol.

She screams “nooooo! alcoholllll nooooooo!”

She’s good game.

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 Rant Casey - BR on November 8, 2011 at 6:13 pm

Errata: read “rub” instead of “sub”.

I was just reading about bondage and commited a freudian slip.

lol

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johnno on November 8, 2011 at 2:24 pm

I also take them to playgrounds for dates.

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Dearth on November 8, 2011 at 2:38 pm

That sounds like some fun to me. Better having fun than being bored.

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Ovid on November 8, 2011 at 2:40 pm

“Take her to the zoo!” (Pauly Game?)

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Anonymous on November 9, 2011 at 8:41 pm

that was not pauly but the driver of the guy rocky worked for

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Heuristics on November 8, 2011 at 2:46 pm

In parts of Sweden there is the yellow car game where you lightly hit the
other person as soon as you see a yellow car (might not work if your taxi
cars are yellow since it would happen too often). This game can be done
every day over the course of a few years.

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whorefinder on November 8, 2011 at 5:23 pm

We call it “punch buggy” in the U.S. You hit them when you see a VW
Beetle—not a hugely common car, but with enough older models and
newer wannabes to make it interesting.

Be sure you tell her she hits like a girl.

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Anonymous on November 25, 2011 at 9:59 pm

Actually, it works wonders with the LTR I’ve got going right at the
moment- in spades actually. (And there’s quite a few where I’m at
and it pisses her off to no end when I drive by a dealership… >:-
D)

If you’re not going to have silly fun with it every once and a while, you’re
probably doing it wrong. I’m in it to live life to the fullest and have as
much friggin fun as I can have while doing it. After 15 years of beta HELL
with two fucking BPD women, I’ve had it with trying to be serious all the
time.

To those that think this is retarded, you probably ought to give it a bit of
an honest try of it. It works better than you’d think and you might actually
have a bit of fun other than just nailing broads.

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whorefinder on November 8, 2011 at 2:47 pm

Five minutes of Alpha: how Steve McQueen got a hot model / biggest
female movie star in the world to give up her career and be his
subservient housewife—while he openly cheated on her:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2057769/Steve-McQueen-Wife-beater-
drug-taker-relentless-philanderer-brutal-truth-actor.html

Money quotes:

“No way was he going to allow his young wife to resume her career, even if she
was the hottest female star in Hollywood.As far as Steve McQueen was concerned,
Ali was better off barefoot and pregnant, serving him up meat and potatoes at
6pm precisely, which he’d devour alone in front of the TV.”
—old school alpha. And she loved every minute of it.

“Even the gossip columnists knew he was cheating on Ali — by renting a suite at
the Beverly Wilshire in LA for quickies, though no one quite dared put it that way
in print.”
—openly cheating, but even gossip columnists wouldn’t dare mention it. Absolute
control.

“sometimes only chose to communicate in grunts”

—-caveman, but from a small, scrawny man. How much frame did he control?

“Hard to believe now that he was widely viewed as the most attractive alpha male
of his time.”
—only someone poisoned by feminism would think or say this.

“‘I was obsessed with Steve from the moment he stepped into my world, and
there was never enough air for me to breathe to change that feeling. He was very
taken with me, too, although I wasn’t necessarily his dream lady physically.”
—Wow. Just wow. She admits her alpha obsession with him, and how alpha
presence alone physically messed with her. And check her insecurity about her
looks—a former model and red-hot movie star!—– he’s still negging her, from
beyond the grave.

And the final coda to this ultimate alpha story?

After their divorce, she never remarried. She’s still obsessed with him.

Ultimate Alpha: Steve McQueen.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2057769/Steve-McQueen-Wife-beater-
drug-taker-relentless-philanderer-brutal-truth-actor.html

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Matador on November 8, 2011 at 5:48 pm

Impressive.

But still, he got cuckolded (funny how the fembot writer wonders why
he doesn’t trust women, right after referring to his first wife’s infidelity).

It means that being too alpha can backfire. 90-95% alpha, 5-10% beta. That’s
the dosage of a LTR.

That is, if one cares enough to keep a woman around.

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Flahute on November 8, 2011 at 6:11 pm

Illustrating the differences between male and female attraction, when

both were asked how they first met, gentlemen I give you Ali McGraw
and Steve McQueen:
Ali: “He walked into my life as Mr. Humble, no ego, one of the guys. Steve was
this very original, principled guy who didn’t seem to be part of the system,
and I loved that. He was clever, demure, exciting and had all the answers. I
bought that act in the first second. We had this electrifying, obsession
attraction.”

Steve: “She had the nicest ass I’ve ever seen on a woman.”

from “Steve McQueen: Portrait of an American Rebel” by Marshall Terrill

 [Heartiste: hilarious! I knew there was a reason I like ol steverino.]

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Doug1 on November 9, 2011 at 3:14 pm

No way was Ali MacGraw the hottest Hollywood actress of her day.
She’s an 8.

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King A on November 11, 2011 at 3:22 pm

Doug1 wrote: “No way was Ali MacGraw the hottest Hollywood
actress of her day.”

Who else you got? Sure she was. If not she was right up there. Jane Fonda
or Julie Christie, maybe? Brigitte Bardot, Jane Birkin, Britt Ekland? De
gustibus.

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Anonymous on November 10, 2011 at 11:50 am

MY favorite quote of his,” I live for myself and I answer to noone.”

words to live by.

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Listener on November 8, 2011 at 2:50 pm

Truth. I worked as a substitute teacher and as a 1-on-1 guitar teacher for

a spell, and that time around kids has helped me tap into an “I’m in total
control, but I’ll keep it light,” “benevolent king” frame of mind around
women.

I think the evolutionary psychology takeaway here is not “women are children,”
but “women are would-be mothers.” A guy who can operate on this childish level
is, incidentally, indicating that he’d be alright at raising kids.

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Laconophile on November 8, 2011 at 3:07 pm

I like the way CH referred to this frame of mind (I’m not sure if he
coined the term): amused mastery.

The disinterestedness of the ‘amused master’ signals that he has options and
that he is comfortably off (not necessarily materially). I don’t think it has to do
with how well he gets along with kids.

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tyrone on November 8, 2011 at 6:08 pm

I was told that in college already for that very reason. Still no kids
though. I can’t imagine that Texas judge who beat his daughter being
too playful around the house.

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A.B. Dada on November 9, 2011 at 9:07 am

There’s a lot of truth in that. Even if you don’t like playing the kids
games with the dames, hinting that you do can get the hamster going
and make her think you’ll be good with kids.

I have some body damage that women ask me about — a missing tooth, some
pretty rough facial scars and body scars, etc.

If a woman asks me how I lost my tooth or got a scar, my answer is always

childish and light.
 Her: “Wow, that looks painful, when did that happen?”

Me: “I was playing Duck Duck Goose and I had an accident.”

Her: “What?? When you were little?”

Me: “Nah, two years back.”

Works like a charm, every time.

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King A on November 11, 2011 at 4:10 pm

Listener wrote: “I think the evolutionary psychology takeaway here

is not ‘women are children,’ but ‘women are would-be mothers.’ A
guy who can operate on this childish level is, incidentally, indicating
that he’d be alright at raising kids.”

Women are both children and “would-be mothers.” That schizophrenia forms a
tension to be exploited, a contradiction you keep them bouncing between,
from extreme to extreme, to generate whiplash energy. You are her father-
figure or her partner-mate, stable-protector or adventurer-lover, depending on
circumstance and need. Too much of the former and she is infantalized, too
much of the latter and she starts having destructive fantasies of equality
(which lead to a nameless loathing and loss of her sexual identity).

“Benevolent king” is a good approach/attitude.

The “all right at raising kids” angle, as some say above, is fine insofar as it
plays to a woman’s conscious understanding of her attraction. But we all know
that her check list is faulty at best, diametrically opposed to what truly
seduces her at worst. She is not attracted to kid-friendly skills for her own
future kids so much as for the permanent child inside every woman (the
premise of Heartiste’s post above). The supplication/obsequiousness that
accompanies a typical “good with kids” character — beyond the teasing
playfulness — will give off beta vibes, those tingle killers which women insist
attract them but in reality do no such thing.

Gamers confuse this balance. Sometimes they honor the need for benevolence
by insisting on deliberate beta game. But because they automatically
characterize all such fatherly affections like protectiveness and generosity to
be white knighting born of weakness, they will insist that any deployment of
those traits be a disingenuous means to an end. In truth, charity is the yin
against which the darker yang is defined and made effective, the necessary
bright background that allows contrast for the PUA methods we all know and
love by throwing them into high relief.

But men today are shell-shocked and war-weary from the battle of the sexes
into which we were born. We want out of the trenches and into covert activity,
where women in their postmodern pomposity are more vulnerable than ever
to the sneak-attack. PTSD veterans that we are, we aren’t inclined to see the
gentle treatment of the opposition as anything other than an expression of
unjustifiable sympathy with the enemy.

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Anton on November 8, 2011 at 2:52 pm

“Scaring” them with ghost stories and/or trips to cemeteries at night

work this way too.

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Cat Patrol on November 8, 2011 at 2:55 pm

Play Hot Hands or a Wet Willie in the opposite ear.

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YaReally on November 8, 2011 at 3:18 pm

“If it worked when you were in kindergarten, it works now.”

Don’t become a dancing monkey with it though. Remember that it’s not
the game that’s building attraction it’s what the game demonstrates about you
that does (showing you aren’t trying to impress her, instigating touch, teasing,
self-amusement, etc). With the wrong frame shit will come off weird (like Horse
Girl).

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Langhorne on November 8, 2011 at 3:27 pm

I have had great success with incorporating a “pinky swear” into one of
the earlier dates. Though… I would recommend keeping the “oath”
lighthearted.

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Lord Byron on November 8, 2011 at 3:38 pm

OT: Ciao, Silvio. You remain an inspiration to red-blooded men

everywhere.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/finance/financialcrisis/8846201/Debt-crisis-live.html

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Ovid on November 8, 2011 at 5:15 pm

Beat me to it, Byron.

http://news.yahoo.com/berlusconi-promises-resign-amid-italy-debt-
woes-192448516.html

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Anonymous on November 8, 2011 at 3:45 pm

I get good reactions from picking her up and carrying her over my
shoulder. It feels scary to them and they love it.

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Lazarus on November 9, 2011 at 4:17 am

And when they’re screaming and laughing, “PUT ME DOWN!” that’s

when you dump them ass-first in the nearest bin.

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Anonymous on November 9, 2011 at 8:48 pm

use it as an opportunity to give them one spank on the ass and then
a bite, caveman style

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Annette on November 8, 2011 at 3:54 pm

“Women love to feel like they have to earn the attraction of a man they
are talking to, just as a man has to earn a woman’s attraction.”

Sentences like these make me want to fall in love with you. What an amusing
change.

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Anon on November 9, 2011 at 8:46 pm

Send him nude pictures. That’s the only way to express your feelings.

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feral1404 on November 8, 2011 at 4:03 pm

Wrestling is another simple, easy one. Letting her win a little then
effortlessly pinning her down will make her totally ready for what comes
next. You can see it in their eyes. Physical domination is insta-lube.

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whorefinder on November 8, 2011 at 5:21 pm

Ya know, this is true, especially nowadays, with the laughable “grrl-

power” movement and vastness of the beta pool.

I’ve challenged or been challenged a few new girls to arm wrestling. I tell
them to start, then jokingly keep asking them when they will start before
easily pinning them.

Given that beta men 1) shy away from physically dominating women; 2) are
physically weak; and 3) will deliberately “lose” to a girl to make them “feel
better”, the move is a great DHV. Many girls get a weird wet shine in their
eyes afterwards I only now recognize to be instinctual attraction to a man
proud to exhibit physical and social dominance.

But still, its no Steve McQueen.

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Whitehall on November 9, 2011 at 12:30 pm

Totally agree. Just picking them up and whirling them around a bit
gets them going.

They will scream “Stop, you’ll hurt yourself!” A shit test response to which you
toss them up an inch or two and tell them to STFU.

Minor wrestling moves help. That was my sport in school and the one with the
best application in real, adult life.

This technique is good reason 1) not to date a real fatty and 2) keep lifting the
weights.

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J. Gutts on November 8, 2011 at 4:35 pm

KUATO IS MY WINGMAN.

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John Norman Howard on November 8, 2011 at 4:40 pm

“I know you are, but what am I?”

/gots nuthin’

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maurice on November 8, 2011 at 4:58 pm

Principle is sound–but all these are silly and would need modification to
work in an adult setting, except for thumb wrestling, which has kino
along with the game/teasing.

[Heartiste: The repeating game works really well on chicks, and

especially on gfs. Of course, context matters. There are situations when
these kinds of goofy teasing games will feel clumsy and forced. You get a
feel for when the timing is right.]

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Corporal Hicks on November 8, 2011 at 5:20 pm

A man who doesn’t care what others think of him is irresistible to women.
Period.

Just. don’t. give. a. fuck. and women will LOVE you.

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 (r)Evoluzione on November 9, 2011 at 7:27 pm

Yeah, and take a shower. OK, Paul. We heard you twice the first time.

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Corporal Hicks on November 8, 2011 at 5:22 pm

Betas have taken the blue bill and thus are unable to see the women for
what they really are (hypergamous, amoral, promiscuous, dangerous
fireballs of estrogen)

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whorefinder on November 8, 2011 at 5:24 pm

Damn straight.

Well,maybe not the last. Eastwood is still around.

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Anonymous on November 8, 2011 at 5:42 pm

“Are you ticklish?”

“Only in certain places…”

“Like here?”

“Haha no!”

“What about here…” etc

In a LTR it can get to the point where a “ghost” tickle will cause her to burst into
fits of laughter from 4 feet away. Just wiggle your fingers while walking towards
her and she’ll ball up defensively and start giggling.

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Anonymous on November 9, 2011 at 2:55 am

nice one. soooooo true. women love aggressive men, and tickling is
by nature aggressive because women can’t stop you

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itsme on November 8, 2011 at 5:44 pm

women come to resent guys who take them seriously, so treat women as
children – they’ll love you for it.

of course, some situations require some seriousness. just remember, if you can
give her five minutes of alpha, she’ll let you get away with five seconds of beta.

when in doubt, go the non-serious route.

i do a slight variation of the repeating game:

on the third or fourth repetition, do a rapid-fire repetition like a broken record.

‘i’m a big doofus….click….i’m a big doofus….click….i’m a big doofus….’ with a subtle

but sharp jerk of the head on the clicks.

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tyrone on November 8, 2011 at 6:05 pm

I just make playful sexual gestures throughout the day and use this as a
form of extended foreplay. I joke around a lot and will enact a playful
demeanor. Works great. I also make up humorous songs and will sing
them around the house to make a point or neg her or whatever. Unsnapping bras
unexpectedly also works well. If a woman is bitchy do it 2-3 times in a row. If
she’s still bitchy,do the repeat her words game on her and unsnap her bra some
more. As a minimum, you can get her to wrestle you and then its a short trip to
the bedroom. I’ll call my wife mean several times a day and she never is. CG Jung
also commented on the childlike sense of euphoria one feels when one is in love.
This is all an expression of those games and are intrinsic to courtship. Extending
that feeling indefinitely works wonders in an LTR.

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tyrone on November 8, 2011 at 6:09 pm

I also like to pull on my wife’s ears and call her silly names.

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Anonymous on November 8, 2011 at 6:15 pm

Teasing is beaten out of kids by pc it doesn’t just disappear

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walawala on November 8, 2011 at 7:00 pm

Tickling, brushing of hair, grabbing her nose..touching your face—all the

kinds of things you’d do with a small child or baby seem to work for me.

This kind of small kino if done with negs, push-pull works tremendously.

I tried this with a “back turn” the other day with a girl I was gaming who was
giving me IOI’s.

After chatting, kinoing, teasing her….I just suddenly turned around and walked
away as if distracted.

Two seconds later she was sidling up beside me trying to make conversation.

The things mentioned in this post seem to trigger some kind of surprise or strong
attaction.

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spiralina on November 8, 2011 at 8:02 pm

Heartiste, why do I get the feeling you’d be a lot of fun on a date?

[Heartiste: Trust your instinct.]

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xsplat on November 8, 2011 at 8:55 pm

Women Orgasm More For Wealthy Men

A British researcher finds that women come more often in the arms of
wealthy men.

“Women’s orgasm frequency increases with the income of their

partner,” said Dr Thomas Pollet, the Newcastle University psychologist
behind the research.

He believes the phenomenon is an “evolutionary adaptation” that is

hard-wired into women, driving them to select men on the basis of
their perceived quality.
The study is certain to prove controversial, suggesting that women
are inherently programmed to be gold-diggers.

Women are turned on by wealthy men. It really is true. But the idea that
stereotypes are true of course is evil crimethink. We are encouraged to respond to
such thoughts by engaging in what Orwell called CrimeStop. But the mental
technique of CrimeStop is protective stupidity. I do not feel more safe as a result
of the promotion of this mental technique.

The desire of women for a wealthy man seems an obvious product of evolution.
That people behave in ways that are a product of our evolutionary history seems
obvious to me. Of course ignorant people come up with all sorts of alternative
explanations for why we behave as well do.
 Cassie is unrepentant about dating rich men. “Of course it is much
better to sleep with men with lots of money,” said the 27-year-old
lawyer from London. “Any girl who tells you different is lying. Rich
men are powerful and successful and confident and charismatic. They
know what they want, and they go out and get it. That translates to
being fantastic in bed.”

Women do pick up on the confidence of a successful alpha male and most are
attracted to it. So pick-up artists like Roisy advocate a strategy of adopting alpha
male behaviors as pick-up techniques. While some (though not all) of his female
readers object to the efficacy of these techniques I think he’s right overall. But if
you can create wealth then you’ll do even better. Alpha behavior techniques plus
wealth work
better than just wealth or just the techniques. So it still helps to get rich.

We are the products of our evolutionary history Denying this does not change us.
The denial just leads us into rationalizations to explain why we engage in
behaviors that are evolutionary strategies.

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Too Smart To Fail on November 9, 2011 at 3:33 am

Heartiste, be honest with me, I’ve read these posts for over a year
and I’m aware of the context, it is nothing new to me, I have
assimilated the info, I’ve applied the game, I’ve done the whole 9
yards.
You guys are going to crown me Omega of the Year, but I’m cool with that
because nothing seems to work.
I am 32, multi-millionaire, 6’2″ 180lbs., multiple college degree’s, men’s
fitness cover model physique, world traveled, speak multiple languages, you
name it or want it, I got it!
All the things you think would be impressive, attractive, and what woman
desire, but not so in reality. What you guys think is attractive to woman is only
intimidating to them because they are sooo insecure. They are not these self-
entiltled anal princessess you think they are. That is their front towards you!!
You mention that I should only be shooting for 9’s and 10’s, yet I keep getting
the ‘you’re too good for me bs’. Yes, woman go from attracted and intrigued,
to what’s the point, this guy’s a fucking stuck up asshole!!
I know I can’t get any better looking, more money is not going to help,
applying the game only makes woman feel more inferior and me more
unattainable. Seriously, I need some advice! I don’t know what I’m doing
wrong, the only thing I hear is ‘You’ll find the one’. Fuck that!
I asked my female friends, who coincidentally, think I’m just too picky and my
standards are impossible to meet (womanese for ‘I’m too insecure with all the
girls eyeing you’). What happened to having reasonable standards? Heartiste,
I’m not desperate for woman, I can get laid whenever I want, but I’m never
attracted to woman who have the courage to approach, chat, dance, whatever.
The DHV is real, not fake.
The majority of inhabitants on this planet don’t live like me, have the freedom
I have, or the experiences, knowledge, or power.
Honestly, I think woman are jealous of me instead of attracted, however that
works. How the fuck can life be so great for me, and no woman?
Do woman look at guy like guys look at woman and think, ‘He would never go
for me’?
Heartiste, if you joined me for one evening out, I know you could pin-point the
problem I am faced with, but I can’t see it nor can anyone else. I’m not
trolling, but it’s getting to the point that my parents can’t figure out what is
going on, how can you have everything going on, and no girls?? I’m am
straight as an arrow, no question.
Can you help a brother out?

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Tyrone on November 9, 2011 at 11:44 am

Go to Kiev. Hang out in cafes near the opera house and ask
women if they speak English. You will be meeting women from
Chevchenko University, the top university in Ukraine, and will
meet more sexy, high caliber, marriageable women than you ever thought
possible.
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Too Smart To Fail on November 9, 2011 at 2:59 pm

I didn’t make it to Ukraine or eastern europe on my last european

trip, I’ve got my serbian/bulgarian language skills on point. Still
working on my russian.
I will definitely visit Chevchenko on my way to Hungary next year! Thanks!

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itsme on November 9, 2011 at 11:58 am

I’m not desperate for woman, I can get laid whenever I want

then what’s the problem?

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xsplat on November 9, 2011 at 1:56 pm

Yes – do you mean by no woman no woman who meets your

criteria that has accepted your desire for a serious relationship?
I’d guess that’s it.

I can only sit cross legged in front of you and listen to what to me are
fantastic tales – cause your world is so distant from mine. I’ve got to work
with very different tools than you do – especially in terms of looks.

But I’m very curious about your situation and how it gets resolved.

I’m going to guess displays of humbleness will be recommended. Perhaps

styling yourself in a pink or pastel shirt – generally toning down your
masculinity and playing up the vulnerability.

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Too Smart To Fail on November 9, 2011 at 3:21 pm

Xsplat, I know you live outside the US, is it malaysia, thialand, or

phillipines?
I share your view on american woman, however, I never indicate
I’m looking for a serious relationship, but yes, very, very few woman meet
my criteria. That is only because 9’s and 10’s (inside and out) are rare.
I do the qualifying. I do play the alpha sprinkled with beta. I am very
humble because life was not easy for me growing up and eventhough I
share the dark triad of traits, I do sympathize with those who struggle and
in many ways are at a disadvantage in life. Working out and working in a
highly competitve business keeps the masculine side strong, but a strong
leader encourages and helps those around him strive to do better. That is
as far as I’m letting my vulnerable surface. Thanks Xsplat, your advice is
well-recieved.

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Too Smart To Fail on November 9, 2011 at 3:08 pm

Itsme, if you have female acquaintances that are up for a romp,

but you know they don’t fuck guys 3-4 points higher than them,
and if you are a 9-10 male, it is not very appealing or enticing.
For me, it’s the quality, not the quantity. As Heartiste mentioned, I should
only be shooting for 9’s and 10’s.

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itsme on November 9, 2011 at 12:39 pm

Yes, woman go from attracted and intrigued, to what’s the point,

this guy’s a fucking stuck up asshole!!
I know I can’t get any better looking, more money is not going to
help, applying the game only makes woman feel more inferior and me
more unattainable.
then turn down your game a bit. don’t dress too flashy, drive a nice but
not outrageous car, don’t flash too much cash, etc. try to come across as
well off, not filthy rich.

also, in your post you come across sounding like an entitled whiney little
bitch. if girls get even a slight whiff of that, their pussies will dry up.

I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, the only thing I hear is ‘You’ll find the
one’.

there’s no such thing as an ideal woman, they’re all a set of compromises.

I asked my female friends

mistake.

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Too Smart To Fail on November 9, 2011 at 5:10 pm

Itsme, I do like to keep a bit of mystery about myself, no need to

give the candy store away. I do dress nice, almost to a dandy, but
I never flaunt the cash, park the ride up front, brag about my
house, or boast about my accomplishments. These things, I reveal
gradually after she has earned my attention. Consequently, woman view
me as LT potential and modify their behavior accordingly, the one-night
stand they want every night!
Try-hard to impress is different than having those things impressive that
requires talent, hard work and/or brains.The thing with people who have
money is that they think they are entitled just because they have money.
They forget that there is always someone who has more. This is a poor
strategy to employ initially. However, that is not to say that the power that
comes from having money is not attractive to woman either.

The getting laid part.. Quality trumps quantity. I’m not interesting in
banging woman below an 8, for practice or sport. Or woman that fuck 3-4-
5-6-7 men, not that I don’t want those guy getting laid, I just prefer
woman who can fuck guys like me. Absent from many american woman
today, I am highly attracted to woman with integrity and character. Beauty
is a difficult judge of character, an the idea of a great mother for my
children is highly arousing..
And of course, but not least..
As GBFM would say, “I have the Full-Hazmat containment suit, with kevlar
re-enforced goggles and snorkel-lens for when you go down on her tuna
salad!

Very Romantic!

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Matador on November 9, 2011 at 8:24 pm

Assuming you’re not a troll, I don’t get it. You have it all, you
attract women, you get laid, and then they dump you because
you’re too perfect?

Something is missing.

On one of Tyler Durden’s videos (Yareally posted similar videos in the last
post or so, I think it’s in there), he refers to a typical problem encountered
by rich dudes. The chick follows him and then, when they get in his fancy
car, or in his mega-mansion, she starts to play games, like “I’m not that
type of girl”, “You’re too perfect for me”, “I want to know you better”….

They just want to play coy, to prove that they’re not slutty and to ensure
that you’re gonna commit…

Either it’s that, in which case the only solution is to game them harder and
ignore their coyness or the problem is with your expectations.
You’re looking for a hard 9 with a perfect feminine personality. I guess it’s
hard to find, most of the beautiful chicks I ever encountered are either too
slutty or too entitled.
The perfect marriage material feminine specimens are in the 7-8 range.

It’s hard to be a pair-bonder in this day and age. My advice would be to

keep playing the field, hard. It’s not written in the stars that you’re gonna
find a perfect match.
Or explain your problem better, because honestly, I don’t understand
exactly what the fuck you’re complaining about.

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Too Smart To Fail on November 10, 2011 at 2:49 pm

Matador, I like your thesis that a 35 year-old man should aim to

marry a 25 year-old woman. I’m not a rich dude, I’ve come a long
way, I live comfortably, and my life continues to improve.
Your synopsis of what transpires is accurate, they play coy, hide the overt
sexual whore’s they want to be, and try to get me to re-frame them as
investment material. The car says a lot without saying a word, but the car
is as far as it gets. The house can be a double-edged sword, I might
mention something she might be interested in seeing, to build her interest
and intrique in wanting to see where I live, then I postpone that curiosity
into the future.
You are addressing my complaint, how do I get around this by gaming
harder without saying your an anal princess who used to give it up for
free, and you want me to pay for it?

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So, Do the Zonk on November 12, 2011 at 4:53 pm

“The perfect marriage material feminine specimens are in the 7-8

range.”

Spot on. Beautiful girls are all psycho. Their beauty is a thing apart from
themselves that has a drug-like effect on people, that is at once a free
ticket to everything and a curse. And then they start to hit the wall and
get treated like normal human beings for the first time, and it is a shock,
and they go even more psycho. A girl who is sweet and slim and 7 at 25
will be pretty much the same at 40. A 9 at 25 will be a miserable 40 since
she used to be queen of the world, and she thought that was the order of
nature.

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Student on November 9, 2011 at 8:38 pm

my first impression is that you sound like a total narcissist. im not

trying to slight you; its an honest opinion since i know many
have-it-all types who don’t have the issues you do. i know the
perfect guy types, w $, looks, body, education etc. it is true that many
girls are intimidated by them, which is why they have to make themselves
approachable in other ways.

the fact you emphasize all that you have speaks volumes to me. it does
not matter one lick (for the goal you seek, although it certainly doesn’t
hurt). the whole point of this blog is that *everything* is about internal
frame. i know people much wealthier than you that are the happiest ppl on
earth as well as those who are the most miserable ppl on earth. whats the
difference? some like negative drama and are all wrapped in their heads,
and others love everything and attract good things and vibes as a result.
you want to find a quality girl? get out a lot, take up hobbies where you
interact with lots of new people. smile! don’t be on the prowl for a girl
that’s “worthy of mr perfect”. enjoy the good life with the resources you
have, and youll be alright. fwiw, my best looking guy friends often don’t
physically date up. 10s can get really tiring when they live off looks (which
is usually the case). consider dating who you are attracted to, not who you
think you “worthy” of you.

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Too Smart To Fail on November 10, 2011 at 3:24 pm

I like your attitude and your advice. At times, I have difficulty

interpreting a woman’s level of interest, I confuse her
nervousness with either being unconfident or highly attracted, but
uncomfortable with her feelings. I can assume the attraction from every
girl I encounter, but the interaction moves forward with finess when she is
at ease with herself. So, what I am gathering here is ‘turn your game
down a little if she is intimidated’, and ‘turn your game up, when she is
playing coy’.
10’s with brains never get boring! I’m very hypergamous, and a 10 that
keeps my interest, keeps me keen and committed. I find dating multiple
woman time consuming and less productive. I find my ambition increases,
my drive accelerates, and the desire to pursue a higher quality of life
increases when a prospect worthy of commitment enters the picture. I feel
satisfied I can achieve greatness with her by myside, instead of being pre-
occupied with always looking for something better. So yeah, Alpha’s
commit, but you had better be one hell of woman!

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Student on November 10, 2011 at 5:41 pm

cool. i didnt mean to allege you were actually a narcissist; you

would not have humbly asked for advice if you were. just saying
you seemed to emphasize the physical, which is one of the main
symptoms. but you are obviously smart enough to see past it.

10s or close w solid inner beauty + intel exist, they aren’t even that rare.
you might not get a victorias secret type, but certainly something close to
that scale of physical attractiveness. what is rare is finding them at the
right time; single, no emotional drama, in a situation where you can have
an in. but if all you say about yourself is true and your frame is right, you
just might find yourself a holy grail; but they usually pop up when you
least expect it. so don’t stress the search too much.

the one thing i would suggest is going out with a female friend(s). you will
be much more approachable and they usually make the best wingppl. the
girl does not even need to be beautiful either. its the best form of social
proof in my experience.

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Serenety on November 10, 2011 at 12:25 am

Question.

Do you want to be attracted to the ones that have the courage to

approach,chat, dance etc?

If so, straight out tell them that you like it better when you approach,
chat, dance, whatever. And you will when and if your ready.

Maybe that will start your own hamster whirring, you like a challenge don’t
ya.

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Too Smart To Fail on November 10, 2011 at 3:46 pm

Can you handle the intense anxiety of feeling insecure that your
man is desirable to the most attractive woman? Do you crave the
feeling of intense sexual attraction for him because he is desired,
while finding it highly arousing that he only longs for you?
If you find such a man, will you be truly comfortable falling into extreme
sexual bliss, allowing yourself to become immersed in the throws of
passionate ectacy???? or is your self-perception of inadequacy going
sabotage your pursuit of enduring multiple body-quivering orgasms?

Yes, I love when woman approach. I game them harder, turn them on
more, and leave them wetter than before. I am a cooch-tease in that
regard. Yeah, you got it.

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Serenety on November 11, 2011 at 12:35 am

“You see, I sit across from a man. I see his face. I see his eyes.
Now, does it matter if he wants a hundred dollars of paper or a
hundred million dollars of deep sea drilling equipment. Don’t be a
fool. He wants respect. He wants love. He wants to be younger. He wants
to be attractive. There is no such thing as a product. Don’t ever think
there is. There is only sex. Everything is sex. Do you understand that what
 I am telling you is a universal truth?”

— Robert California – The Office

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King A on November 11, 2011 at 5:22 pm

Too Smart To Fail wrote: “I’ve read these posts for over a year
and I’m aware of the context, it is nothing new to me, I have
assimilated the info, I’ve applied the game, I’ve done the whole 9
yards. … nothing seems to work.”

Student comes closest to pinpointing the problem. You are too self-
conscious about technique and analysis and incidentals and not enough
into the the vibe and the way of life.

The traits you claim of yourself are hindrances more than assets because
you are fixated on them as delivery vehicles rather than the subordinate
complementary factors to your core swagger. If you were starting with less
raw material, you’d be more in tune with your fundamental deficiencies.

Technique and deception will only get you so far. All of this game trickery
is designed for creating a temporary diversion to go in, grab what you
want (sex), and leave before the truth catches up with you.

If you are indeed a multimillionaire, I find it incredible that I have to ask

you this, but: What precisely is your goal? As many 10’s as possible in the
next ten years? A harem? A long-term relationship? Once you decide on
the end-point, you can work backwards to where you are now, using game
at every step along the way. One flaw is your lack of focus.

If you can’t game women who think you’re too good for them, or women
“jealous” of your success, you must be willfully sabotaging yourself at
some point or utterly misreading the advice from game sources. It simply
does not compute, and you are withholding some key information about
your situation. Women are not envious of success, they are primordially
attracted to the smallest sign of it.

I suppose there could be some A+ unapproachability about you, like a

famous actor or supermodel in a room full of much less intimidating B+’s,
but that is easily disarmed through self-deprecation. Your inability to make
women relax in your presence has less to do with them than it does to do
with you and your by-the-numbers approach.

Your best practical move is to befriend an alpha mentor (somewhere other

than the internet). That you don’t already have a number of candidates in
your circle of acquaintances — to whom this peculiar plea for advice
should have been addressed — makes me suspect much of your self-
assessment is either exaggerated or flat-out false.

You have somehow figured out a way to make the accoutrements of power
and success stymie your pussy hunt? How do you fuck that up? Seriously,
give us more because you are currently making little sense. That rarefied
air of freedom you claim as your environment is the alpha’s domain, and,
even if you haven’t stumbled your way into alpha yourself, you should
have plenty of examples among your acquaintance. Or else I call bullshit.

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Too Smart To Fail on November 9, 2011 at 3:34 am

I see.

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xsplat on November 8, 2011 at 8:59 pm

Women Orgasm More For Wealthy Men

http://www.futurepundit.com/archives/005883.html

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DoesNotMatter on November 8, 2011 at 9:57 pm

motherfucking gold this post is. Better than the posts on the MRM issues

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blaggher on November 8, 2011 at 11:12 pm

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_traditional_children's_games

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gbfm lzozolzlz on November 8, 2011 at 11:16 pm

lzoozozozozoz a peite asian college hootiie left her shirt in my car after
hanging out

she came back to get it but i was gone

she texted me about it

i texted back, “can i wear it out a few days first?”

zlzozozollzlzlzl

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Anonymous on November 9, 2011 at 2:25 am

hilarious that this post came up

Just this past week I have been playing the repeating game like crazy. I
love acting like a complete jackass, knowing i’m acting like a jackass, and her
knowing i’m acting like a jackass.

bitches love it for sure

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Anonymous on November 9, 2011 at 2:37 am

This actually the first good post in a LONG time. I have a daughter and I
LOVE LOVE LOVE teasing her. I constantly repeat her, cheat when horse
playing, and so on.

She always laughs, tries to “get even”, and she always tries to “one up” me.

Just this morning I was playing the repeat game with a girl over text messaging.
Before I played the game the texting was kind of boring, she wasn’t playing and I
was taking care of homework. So, I just threw in some repeats to have fun and
then she wanted to know about what I was doing, when I wanted to meet up, etc.

Act like a big fucking kid and chicks will love ya.

Side story. I was on an airline coming back from my dad’s funeral in chicago to
San Diego. We all got our drinks in those little cups and I was having fun talking
to the girl next to me. The stewardess starts coming through collecting cups. The
people in aisle seats were putting their cups in her trashbag, but she was grabbing
middle seat and window seat cups.

In a split second I thought of being a jackass. When she got to my seat, she
reached for my cup and I went to hand it to her. Just as she was about to grab my
cup, i took it away from her and laughed. Both the stewardess and the girl next to
me laughed as I did it. Chicks love silly stupid games

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Anonymous on November 9, 2011 at 4:11 am

interesting. Similar to McQueen most alpha-males i know personally are

bastard children.

[Heartiste: Not been my observation. But it has been my observation that

most rejects, criminals and drug addicts are bastard spawn.]

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 Jay Gatsby on November 9, 2011 at 11:22 am

Some of the strongest Alpha males I’ve met have terrible

relationships with their fathers. They rebelled against the rules their
fathers set down – preferring to be on their own than to submit to
another man. In some cases, they also disliked their mothers, but only where
their mothers took their father’s side or favored an older/younger sibling over
them.

Bottom line, many (not all) Alpha males have poor or non-existent
relationships with their parents.

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Costo-J on November 9, 2011 at 4:27 am

Have you ever been to Prague?

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dice3510 on November 9, 2011 at 8:18 am

What if her reaction is something along the lines of “Wow, you’re so

mature”

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xsplat on November 9, 2011 at 8:57 am

Whack-a-mole at arcades.

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Rollo Tomassi on November 9, 2011 at 9:11 am

Long before I’d ever been aware of formal Game I’d been doing the ‘kid’s
play’ route with women. One thing that worked like fucking magic was a
variation of the “stop touching me” game. As I was driving us to
wherever we were going (usually to bang) I would causally wait for her to look
away for a moment and then poke her like kids do in the car to annoy each other.
Then quickly pretend like it wasn’t me who poked her, and I’m the only other
person in the car.

It’s funnier than hell the first time you do this, because it kind of shocks her back
into the ‘bratty sister’ frame of mind. It conveys that you’re fun, but it also kind of
reminds them not to take themselves too seriously, and in a very nuanced way it
playfully serves as a Neg that tells them “I see through all your high heels and
make up and I know you’re really that girl I used to tease on the playground,
you’re not fooling me.”

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xsplat on November 9, 2011 at 1:59 pm

Good line:

“I see through all your high heels and make up and I know
you’re really that girl I used to tease on the playground, you’re
not fooling me.”

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(r)Evoluzione on November 9, 2011 at 7:30 pm

Yeah, I do this too, especially when I’m driving us somewhere. Goose

her knee, tell her that it means she’s boy-crazy. (old-school game).
The poking thing, just general physical teasing, tickling, then when
she retaliates with her own goosing & tickling, I say: “No harassing the
driver!” Then keep doing it.

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John Norman Howard on November 9, 2011 at 9:37 am

The best childhood game to play with a bitchy woman is Kick The Can.

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lazy guy on November 9, 2011 at 9:58 am

It’s either “a child’s game” or it’s “a game for children”.

I’m surprised a site with such good writing made such an obvious error in
grammar.
Anyway, hats off to this site for all the value it offers to so many men.

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Deutsch on November 9, 2011 at 11:32 am

This article brings back childhood memories… Damn you, now I’m feeling
old.

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Nestorius on November 9, 2011 at 11:35 am

As I remember from childhood, teasing was a good way to create interest

and relation, but after this, seduction was not always an easy game.
Maybe their moms taught them not to let anybody touch them or kiss
them.

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itsme on November 9, 2011 at 12:23 pm

when she does or says something retarded (this will be often), slap her
ass hard.

when walking next to her, randomly bump her into a street lamp.

trip her.

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xsplat on November 9, 2011 at 2:02 pm

I like to slap the ass hard for no reason. And in public.

In the middle of the grocery isle, with many people around, as she is
ahead of you pushing the cart… SMACK! Loud enough to turn heads.

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Emma the Emo on November 10, 2011 at 10:03 am

Lol!
I don’t allow ANY man to do that to me. Not even my father.

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itsme on November 10, 2011 at 10:33 am

you just haven’t met the right daddy yet.

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Bo Ergu on November 9, 2011 at 1:13 pm

References to Steve McQueen reminds me of the Hong Kong movie “Days

of
Being Wild”, whose Chinese title is identical to the Chinese title of “Rebel
without a Cause”. Released in 1990, it has become a HoF grade classic in the
Chinese-speaking world, and many people of my generation remember many
lines by heart.

Upon reading this post, I went to Youtube to take a look at it again (the first
time since I discovered game), believing that I’d be viewing scenes that I was
very familiar with. WRONG! The first half-hour alone is a concentrated
demonstration of how game (and the lack of it) works, something I never noticed
before learning game!

Here are some links:

Playback isn't supported on this device.

0:00 / 0:00

Trailer with English subtitles (2:27)

Days of Being Wild 1/11

Playback isn't supported on this device.

0:00 / 9:40

Part 1 of 11 (9:39)

Cast:
Leslie Cheung – The heart-throb alpha
Maggie Cheung – Nice girl
Carina Lau – Bitch (a shit-test professional – see how she does it in the movie)
Jackie Cheung – Beta car mechanic who falls for the bitch
Andy Lau – Cop who later becomes a sailor
Rebecca Pan – The alpha’s foster-mother who falls for a younger man

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Bob on November 10, 2011 at 10:54 am

Leslie Cheung an alpha!? He threw himself off a building what a twat

….and have you not seen happy together where Tony Leung bangs
him in the arse? Can’t see Steve McQueen doing that. Andy Lau
seems somewhat alpha.

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Bo Ergu on November 10, 2011 at 2:37 pm

In real life, Rebecca Pan isn’t Leslie Cheung’s foster-mother,

either. What else do you not understand?
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Ive on November 9, 2011 at 7:14 pm

You said ‘They can be played during the attraction stage as a way to
tease a girl and disqualify yourself.’ Disqualify yourself from… getting into
her pants? That seems counterproductive.

[Heartiste: Disqualification is a tactic that involves making a girl think

you aren’t actively hitting on her, usually by referencing some obstacle
that keeps you from fully appreciating her charms.]

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(r)Evoluzione on November 9, 2011 at 7:34 pm

This only works on girls who like to be spanked hard, and otherwise like
to be dominated in the bedroom, which is to say most girls, after
dominance and frame have been established:

The towel-snap to the asscheek. Get good at delivering a variety of styles of the
towel snap. Deliver it gently with a beach towel, or with speed and welt-raising
snap with a wet dishtowel. Then rub it after, as if to assuage the pain, while you
kiss her ear.

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yetanothertroll on November 9, 2011 at 9:31 pm

Are modern women:

1) impressed with your alpha cred when you thumb wrestle because of
coding into some ancient DNA? Thumb wrestling clearly exhibiting status,
as the dogma on this site.

[Heartiste: Yes.]

or

2) hopelessly immature.

[Grown-ups suck.]

Modern birth control exacerbating the fecklessness and delayed marriage dragging
out adolescence even more. Spoiling feminized fathers harboring crushes on their
hottie daughters doesn’t help matters. Lack of seriousness regarding sex,
marriage, childbirth.. means that the hopelessly vapid and superficial modern
female mind gets turned on by seeing men cater to their infantalism. Actions of
kindness, honor and long term vision, far from appealing to the woman-child,
disgust it. In this state, sex is just another amusement and the lucky cads who
cater to the ADD bratty western female mind aren’t really alphas, but glorified
clowns.

[I dunno, I don’t feel like I’m catering to anyone when I’m getting muh-
dik sucked.]

I am not arguing with the effectiveness of your methods, just the underlying
cause for why they work and the hopeless self-delusion of “alpha” womanizers.

[If alpha womanizers are using effective methods then how are they
hopelessly deluded?]

There is a reason why womankind has never run any major country or produced
anything of significance for time immoral: they are flawed.

[Or men are more willing to take risks for access to quality poon.]

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Anonymous on November 9, 2011 at 9:51 pm

What does “DTF” stand for?

Thanks

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 Anonymous on November 10, 2011 at 8:31 am

It means “down to fuck”.

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Anonymous on November 10, 2011 at 1:26 am

Also mercy game, is incredible.

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TUY on November 10, 2011 at 5:41 am

check out this huge mangina and ‘male feminist’ Hugo Schwyzer writing
an article on Jezebel about why men ‘really want to date younger
women.’

http://jezebel.com/5857933/insecurity-invisibility-and-the-reason-older-men-
want-to-date-you

He tells aging harpies what they want to hear.

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Arturo de Gheaube on November 10, 2011 at 11:07 am

Slightly off topic for this particular post, but spot on for the Chateau take
home message :

“Consciously or not, men cloak their short-term sexual interests in the appearance
of long-term attachment. As Mr. Wright puts it, “natural selection may favor males
that are good at deceiving females about their future devotion and favor females
that are good at spotting deception.”

From : http://amren.com/ar/1995/04/index.html

Sincerely,

crimesofthetimes.com

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bygoditsatroll! on November 10, 2011 at 1:47 pm

I am not arguing with the effectiveness of your methods, just the

underlying cause for why they work and the hopeless self-delusion of
“alpha” womanizers.

[Heartiste: Again, you do realize you’re contradicting yourself? Maybe

not. You write like an autistic tard.]

[If alpha womanizers are using effective methods then how are they hopelessly
deluded?]

Because anyone who calls themselves “alpha” (?) suggesting genetic superiority
because they play thumb games… is engaging in hopeless conceit.

[Genetic superiority are your words, not mine. And conceit is not the
same as self-delusion.]

Yes, you can shoot lots of blanks into emotionally troubled and infantile women
through mind manipulation.

[There’s shooting blanks because you want to, and because you have no
choice . Which category do you think the use of condoms falls under?
And, btw, all women love game. Are men who fall for slender babes in
makeup and sexy clothes emotionally troubled and infantile? Rhetorical.]

Even filet mignon gets tiring and so does sex with another borderline disorder late
20 something who wishes she were married.

[Filet mignon takes a lot longer to get tiring than pigs’ hooves or
vegetarianism.]

Sex is an ATM transaction in 2011, your conquests are of little meaning or value.

[Which is why so many betas bitterly complain of not getting enough

sex.]
When women say that single men are losers or players, this is an admission of
their low value

[ftfy.]

because decent men quickly tire of the drama and get out of the singles scene
promptly.

[Or they give up all hope and settle for the nearest frump who will have
them.]

So the “alpha” male is just an undercompensated gigilo with a high tolerance for
drama and patience for female idiocy..

[If you’re truly alpha with your women, you won’t be experiencing much
drama or idiocy from them.]

who never has kids (because most of his lays know he’s not fit)

[which is why they so eagerly jump in the sack with them. *rolls eyes*]

a decent wife and while away their lives figuring out how to prey on the frailties of
modern women.

[If women are so frail and susceptible to alpha charms then why can’t
alphas convince them to have kids?]

The site should focus more on finding decent ladies to get out of this lifestyle.

[How’s your hunt for a decent lady going?

ps chicks don’t dig celibate martyrs.]

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anonymous on November 11, 2011 at 2:27 pm

>filet mignon
>late 20 something

Pick one.

Late 20 something is the equivalent of chopped up cube steak that needs A1

sauce to be edible.

Filet mignon is more like a nice fresh 19 year old.

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Tritogeneia on November 10, 2011 at 10:34 pm

Boyfriend does this all the time.

It’s simultaneously cute and hot.

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DarkByke on November 13, 2011 at 10:19 pm

Go somewhere out in public together and scream out as loud as you can
“NO I WILL NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOU LADY!”

Good times.

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Allerious on November 13, 2011 at 10:29 pm

Wimmin *are* children with tits and hips.

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Wilf on November 15, 2011 at 10:47 am

Thanks for this post. A few days after reading it, I decided to try some
games out on my wife who is very intelligent and tends to have a serious
demeanor. She jumped on them all like a cat on a ball of string. Thumb
wrestling | rock, paper, scissors | even arm wrestling which she knows she’s going
to lose!
 I was pleasantly surprised. I forgot how competitive she is. Gotta find more
games and teases…

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Anonymous on November 21, 2011 at 6:21 pm

Ran into a problem with the repeating game: “I love you.”

i just replied to the original question

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Crazy Stupid Love – An Honest Review By An on November 25, 2011 at 9:37 am

Honest Man | The Alpha Persona

[…] interaction, but notice all of the re-frames, all of the teasing, at one point he
even does some childish grade-school teasing (“That was a double negative” –
“You’re a double negative!”). […]

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