Lust Intensifiers

The Oral Intensifier

by Lawrence Lanoff

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The Oral Intensifier

"Learn to give a woman great head, and welcome yourself to a lifetime of
pleasure."
–T. Harvey

One of the biggest complaints I’ve heard from my female students is about
the lack of great oral sex they have in their lives.

“I give him blow jobs all the time, but he never returns the favor. I keep
waiting for him to get the message."

“My man gives my pussy a good college try, but he’s terrible at it. I hate
encouraging his poor pussy eating skills, but I just want it to end so I
usually fake an orgasm or tell him I’m ready to fuck.”

“He has one move – hard and fast. He doesn’t understand that the clit has
to slowly build to being able to handle that much pressure and speed.”

“Teeth! Why does he use his teeth?!”

"My clit. How is it that so many men have no idea where my clit actually
is? It's bizarre."

I understand that for a lot of you, eating pussy can feel intimidating.
Especially if you are chasing her orgasm to prove your virility and
confidence.

The reality is, the pussy can be a mysterious, fickle creature and, if not
handled properly, can lead to enormous frustration for women.

The Problem with the Elevator Button

The biggest mistake men make is treating the clit like it is a button of
some kind.

And if you don’t know what I’m talking about, then you are probably
making this mistake . . . so keep reading.

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The button idea is, if you just press hard enough, or rub the “button” with
one signature move, that is all you need for her to have a screaming
orgasm. I wish it were that easy, but it isn’t!

The real tragic part is many of you think you are great at eating pussy, but
in reality you probably couldn’t eat your way around a happy meal.
Women are notorious for faking orgasms as a way of ending an unpleasant
oral experience, while keeping your ego intact. They sacrifice their own
pleasure, in order to not hurt your feelings. It sucks, but it is true.

And the big, terrible truth about this is – as a result – men never learn how
to eat pussy well.

However, if you can master the art of pussy eating, you will have a woman
who will stay focused 100% on you.

Sexual Zen Moment: A way to a woman’s heart is by eating her pussy

beautifully, artistically, and with absolute appreciation.

The technique I’m going to teach you will elevate you from being OK to
WOW! in her mind.

Even if your skills are great at pussy eating, this technique will floor her.

The Oral Oral Primer

If you aren’t 100% percent confident or need to brush up on your pussy

eating skills, read this first.

Step 1: Ask what she likes. Every vagina is slightly different, so asking
your woman what she enjoys is the number one thing you need to do.
Speed, position, and area of focus are critical information in order to give
a customized experience.

Step 2: Wetter is better. Lubricant or lots of saliva are key. A dry mouth is
terrible for pussy eating. So drink lots of water, in order to be in top
saliva-producing mode.

Step 3: Practice makes better. If you haven’t eaten a lot of pussy, your
tongue will probably get tired and your jaw will ache. Like any skill, the

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more you practice, the easier it becomes! You can practice by giving
shorter oral sessions to her (like a precursor to vaginal sex).

Step 4: Not just the tip, not just the clit. The clit is the most sensitive part
of her body. Too much tongue action there, too soon, may feel
uncomfortable. Most women like the tongue action to start slow and soft,
gradually building to more intense and focused pressure on the clit.

Step 5: Be enthusiastic and super appreciative. This is probably the

number one tip on giving great oral. She loves it when you act like you
genuinely want to give her pleasure. And like you truly appreciate the
beauty of her pussy. This will also help her relax, which will increase the
chances that she will actually be able to orgasm. Anxiety is the number
one reason it can be difficult for women to orgasm during oral. They can
worry about all kinds of things – does he like the way I smell? Taste? Am
I taking too long to cum? The more you can communicate that you love
everything about being down there and are happy to be down there as long
as it takes, the more likely she is to actually let go of those worries and
concentrate on the pleasure she feels, which usually leads to orgasm. But
not always . . . and that’s perfectly normal and OK.

Phase 1: The Slow Tease

I had a woman once tell me, “I’m so tired of men making me feel like a
computer with three keys – two nipples and one clit. The only places they
ever lick or tease are my nipples and my clit. It’s like they believe these
are the only places that feel good. It’s sad because my whole body is an
erogenous zone and all those other parts get completely neglected because
they are so focused on the obvious spots.”

Women love to be teased. You can start by kissing her neck then run your
fingers and mouth slowly down her chest. Gently graze a nipple with your
lips but no tongue yet. Make her wait for it! Suck and lick her hips and
stomach. Gently massage her. Move back up and lightly tug a nipple with
your teeth then quickly move on to something else. This will drive her
mad with anticipation.

Lightly caress and tickle her hips and upper and inner thighs. Run your
tongue in circles in those areas.

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Do this for several minutes. Graze your fingers and mouth over her pussy
but then quickly move away to other areas. Before you are done, you are
going to have her begging you to put your mouth on it.

She may even grab your head at this point and move it there for you.
Tease her and say, “Not yet,” and lick her inner thighs more. Don’t let her
wait too long, though, once she is obviously crawling out of her skin with
desire. This exciting anticipation can quickly turn to frustration if you
withhold your attention from her pussy too long.

Phase 2: Pussy Eating - Your First Kiss - Make It Count.

Stop what you’re doing and make eye contact with her. Let her see how
hungry you are to eat her pussy. Smile, keep eye contact, and gently lick
your lips.

Tell her how much you love her pussy:

 I love how swollen your pussy is.

 You smell amazing!

 Your pussy looks so fucking delicious.

 I’m going to really enjoy eating you for a really long time.

 I love eating you.

 I love it when you just let go and relax.

And you will love it when she is relaxed. Think about it. This moment,
with you between her spread open legs, is just the moment her mommy
and daddy warned her AGAINST. All her cultural programming can come
crashing down in this moment unless you understand that this is the
moment to let her know that she’s in amazing hands. Be nonjudgemental.
Move slow and steady.

Just say whatever feels most natural to you.

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Now gently pull her lips apart and let her see you looking at her inner lips,
even lick them if you want. Then spread the top of her pussy up until you
can find the clit. Women’s clits come in all different sizes, just like cocks!
It doesn’t mean a thing as far as her capacity for orgasm. All it means is
that more nerve endings are hidden beneath the skin.

Before touching it, make sure your finger is wet! Lube is essential. It
doesn’t feel good to get a hand job without lube and the same goes for
women’s clits! Dry rubbing can be excruciating. You can either use saliva,
her own juices, or some lube. My personal favorite is extra virgin coconut
oil. Gently rub your finger around the clit and, only occasionally, gently
flick your finger over it.

Now run your tongue up and down between her inner and outer lips.
Gently spread her legs more with your hands. If you feel tension in her
legs as you spread them, invite her to take a deep breath and relax.

Tongue fuck her opening, deeply. Women love this! It also teases the hell
out of her because she is now really wanting your attention on her clit.
Investigate. Take a look at her clit now and see if it has enlarged and is
peeking out from its’ hood. If so, lick it. If you can’t see it, it might still be
waiting for you underneath – like I said all clits are different. Bring your
tongue to the top of her slit and feel for her clit. You may still barely feel
it. But even if you can’t feel it, you can make it rise to attention by licking
the skin that is over it.

Lick harder now, with firm pressure. Do this until you notice that she is no
longer climbing in ecstasy. This means she may have habituated to this
stroke and you need to mix up, in order to increase sensitivity for her
again.

You do this by gently pulling her lips apart and flicking your tongue
against the clit. Do this quickly. You may notice her legs begin to shudder.
Some women can only orgasm with their legs straight together, instead of
spread wide apart. If you feel her straining to bring her legs together, you
may need to move out of the way to let her do that and go for her clit from
the side. You can resume back to your original stroke for a little while.

If you really want to increase her pleasure, you can finger fuck her at any
point during your clit licking extravaganza. Woman have a sensitive area,

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called the G-spot, right at the roof of their vagina. You can find it by
feeling around for an area of skin that feels a little more rough than the
surrounding skin. It is usually about the size of a quarter, but again, all
women’s G-spots are different.

Some need a lot of pressure and some need just a little. A good rule of
thumb is to always begin with less and gradually increase the pressure,
watching to see how she reacts.

Make sure to use two fingers. One is too little and three is often too much.
I’ve found two fingers, in general, pleases mostly everyone. Two fingers
have girth, which feels great, and stimulates the long legs of her clitoris,
which run down the sides of her pussy walls.

Again, make sure your fingers are wet. Slide them inside, slowly at first,
then a little faster. Be rhythmical and speed up only when she does. Listen
to her breathing. And watch her abdomen. It’s been my experience that the
closer a woman gets to orgasm, often times, the more expanded her
abdomen becomes.

Phase 3: The Big Finale

Once you can see she is getting close to orgasm, make your lips into an
“O” and take her clit in your mouth. Start to suck gently and pay attention
to her reaction. If she is moaning and gripping your hair, that is a good
sign that she can handle it and it would probably be ok to increase the
pressure and suck harder. Follow her movements. If she lifts her pelvis in
the air, move with her don’t fight against her. Hold on to that clit for dear
life and keep that pressure and pace. At this point, she will probably be
saying, “Don’t stop! Don’t stop!” And don’t. It’s very important to not
change anything. Which is hard by the way. Everything is moving fast.
But when she says, “Right there, right there,” stay right there. She means
it.

Stay with her all the way over the finish line. Even a few seconds beyond.
You’ll know when she arrives, because everything becomes super
sensitive.

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When she starts to come down from her first orgasm, press your tongue
against the underside of her clit, leaving your lips covering the top. Move
your tongue in and out of her pussy. If your fingers are inside her, move
them, too, gently and slowly. Things are extremely sensitive just now.

Sometimes I also just come to a full and complete stop, while still keeping
everything in position. My mouth. My hands. But I just stop and let her
shiver and shake. And complete her orgasmic cycle.

Bonus info:

Some women like to have their man rub and enter their anus with their
finger, while they are being eaten out. If your woman wants you to finger
her anus, lube is mandatory! Saliva will not cut it! I cannot stress this
enough. Especially, if your woman is experimenting with trying this out.
You want to make sure that you do everything possible to ensure a
positive experience. And lots of lube will give you the best chance that
this will be something she will enjoy and want to try again (maybe even
with your penis. ;)

Phase 4: Aftercare

After you’ve blown her mind by giving her great head, don’t leave her
alone just yet. Talk to her, stroke and caress her. Press the palm of your
hand over her vagina and place the other hand on her chest and breathe
together. Keep doing this until you can feel her energy coming down.

Women have told me that orgasming through oral sex can feel more
vulnerable than orgasming any other way. It’s important to be sensitive to
this in the first few moments after climax.

Frequently Asked Questions:

I tried this technique and she loved it, should I do it like this every time?

No. I don’t think so. Variety is important, even when it comes to

something you love.

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You can do pieces of this each time, but if you make every single time the
same, it can get boring and predictable. Switching it up keeps that sexual
tension buzzing.

Should she orgasm every time I eat her pussy?

For this technique, I think you should give her head until she cums.
However, none of this is an absolute requirement. You can always eat her
pussy for a few minutes, get her really nice and turned on, then switch to
vaginal or anal intercourse. That’s all good too! And as always, have fun.