Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Handling People
Chapter 1 - Stop any criticism
Criticism stirs up resentment, hurts one’s pride, and won’t solve the problem you
criticized.
So instead of criticizing people for what they did wrong, tell them the benefits of doing
the right thing next time.
To become less critical and talk better about people I should ask me “What would a non-
critic and 'praiser’ do?”
I should try to put everyone’s actions in as good a light as possible.
People can’t fundamentally think that’s their fault for anything 9/10 cases because they
justify their actions
I shouldn’t judge others for their criticism but clean my own doorstep first.
I should ask questions to understand the justification so I become kinder and understand
why people do what they do
Lincoln said “They are just what we would be under similar circumstances”