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Has The Power of Positive Thinking by Norman Vincent Peale been sitting on your
reading list? Pick up the key ideas in the book with this quick summary.
The Power of Positive Thinking is among the seminal American self-help books. It is
one of the first books of its kind to explain how changes in your thinking can influence
outcomes that you at first perceived to be inevitable, making it a piece of American
pop culture history.
The book was wildly popular, selling at least 5 million copies following its publication,
and it continues to be widely read.
This popularity did not stop the book from being controversial: both the author’s
arguments as well as his methods for presenting information were highly contested,
and continue to be so. Many, however, still praise the book for its insights into positive
thinking. They have changed their lives by using the techniques presented in the book
and are thankful for the results they’ve seen.
Even if you don’t find all of the author’s arguments convincing, these book summary
will nevertheless show you how self-confidence, a focus on positive outcomes, and an
appreciation for the people around you are essential to a happy, healthy life.
Feelings of anxiety and inferiority are like a modern plague. Many people feel as
though there are problems everywhere they look, then get overwhelmed before
trying to shift the blame for their situation onto others or their circumstances, rather
than actively fighting to change it.
In some ways, this is true: if you feel inferior, or suffer from negative thinking, then
you’re more likely to experience negative outcomes.
For example, if you start your new job thinking that you’ll never fit in and that no one
will like you, then you will have created a self-fulfilling prophecy. Once your feeling of
inferiority has been vindicated, you’re more likely to have negative feelings about the
future, which only leads to a vicious circle that feels impossible to escape.
Yet it’s not impossible! If you have self-confidence, then you have the power to shape
your life the way you want it. For example, the author knew a man who had lost
everything, but was able to regain his energy and the willingness to continue living
simply by making a list of all positive things he still had in his life. By focusing on these
aspects, he proactively changed his perspective to a healthier one.
But if you want to change your circumstances, then you have to change your thinking
instead of passively accepting your situation.
Just like the man in the example, you too can use the power of focusing on the positive
and believing in success in order to overcome any obstacles in your life.
One way to do this is by visualizing the possible positive outcomes that you want for
yourself, and then visualizing your problems. By comparison, they seem smaller and
more easily solvable.
For example, the author’s magazine, Guideposts, underwent a serious crisis that was
solved in a curious way: during a meeting, the staff actively visualized having more
subscribers. That’s it. And yet, this wishful thinking was followed by a real increase in
their readership!
First, you must realize that the reason other people don’t like you lies within you – it’s
your attitude. Thankfully, you can actually change your attitude in order to be
appreciated by others by learning to become a comfortable person.
James A. Farley, the former Postmaster General of the United States, is a great
example of a comfortable person. He was well liked by virtually everybody because he
had the right attitude: others felt that he was “natural,” “honest,” and “comfortably
outgoing.”
Think for a moment about the people you really like: do they talk about themselves all
the time, or do they show an interest in you? They probably show interest in you, and
you should do the same. When you think positively about others, show them that you
care about them and what they do, who they are, etc., then they will want to be
friendly with you in return.
For example, the author once counselled a man at his clinic who felt as though
everyone disliked him. He realized eventually that this was caused by his exhausting
love for himself and self-centered attitude. So he made a list of all the people he met
every day and made a concentrated effort to talk to them and notice them as
individuals.
By shifting his focus from himself to others, he soon became loved and appreciated.
You will of course find some individuals who are not easy to like. Yet even they have
hidden positive qualities you can discover if you put in the effort.
Do you ever feel like you can’t ever truly take a break because no one could do your
job as well as you can? That without you, everything would fall apart? For many, the
consequence of this attitude is the heavy burden of mounting problems and
depression.
And when you feel depressed and burdened by your problems, do you ever think: “No
one in the whole world ever had the same problems as me”? While it certainly might
feel that way, this kind of thinking is actually an illusion; millions of people out there
have the exact same problems.
There is wisdom in this bit of truth: no situation is hopeless. Just imagine – there are
people who have overcome “every conceivable difficult situation,” and even when they
felt hopeless, they found a way to carry on.
On the other hand, negative thoughts, hopelessness and isolating yourself lead mostly
to unhappiness and failure. You can combat this with reminders to focus on the good,
by doing things like keeping motivational notes that highlight the power of your
positive thoughts.
What’s more, sometimes our sense of self-importance can make us feel as if we are
carrying the world and all its problems on our shoulders. But if you make every
problem your own, then you’re less likely to solve any!
This is because we have only limited time to solve seemingly infinite problems. Trying
to solve everything leads to haste, tension and a lack of concentration.
However, you can combat this stress with prayer or meditation to reduce tension. In
addition, you can delegate tasks and organize yourself in order to achieve better
results and better health.
Ultimately, if you accept that you, your abilities and your problems aren’t totally
unique then you’ll experience better outcomes and a healthier life.
Have you ever felt totally overwhelmed by all your problems? While some of them
might be real and pressing, such as debt or disease, it’s your attitude toward those
problems that is of the ultimate importance. Debts take time to pay, and diseases don’t
disappear with the wave of a wand, but you can change your attitude in an instant.
If you live your life with a focus on positivity and the search for inner peace, you’ll have
enough energy to overcome your perceived problems. In fact, you can easily organize
your life in a way that leads to inner peace.
For example, the author once had a breakfast meeting with two people who had both
had very different experiences the night before: one watched the news and slept
poorly, the other read the Bible and enjoyed a wonderful sleep.
While this might seem trivial, our sleep is of the utmost importance because it
refreshes our energy. Sleeping with “an earful of trouble” – for example, by watching
the news while dozing off – will lead to a restlessness that prevents you from tackling
your problems. Luckily you have the power to positively influence this vital source of
energy.
If you think positively, you set up positive forces that bring with them positive results.
Thinking negatively, on the other hand, brings negative results, and this negative
thinking can even affect your physical health by making you ill.
We can see this principle in action by examining one young man, whom the author
describes as “one of the most complete failures” he had ever met. For the longest time,
he couldn’t make any positive changes in his life because he wouldn’t examine his
attitude. However, after realizing that his life was bad because his thoughts were
negative, he was able to set everything right.
It’s only natural to feel worried or insecure. However, while worrying about things like
your finances or health is understandable, it is also unhealthy, and can lead directly to
illnesses and undesirable changes in your personality.
Thankfully, worrying is a merely a “habit,” and habits can be overcome. This particular
habit is one that is especially worth ridding ourselves of, as it is the source of many
physical and psychological diseases. For example, the stress from worrying can lead to
higher blood pressure, lower life expectancy, or even arthritis.
And yet, breaking the habit of worrying is surprisingly easy: simply believe that it is
possible to free yourself from it! If you can imagine a worry-free life, then you can live
it. There are a variety of techniques that you can use to get a hold of and ultimately
break your habit.
All of these techniques will have one thing in common: they involve the practice of
draining your mind, i.e., ridding your mind of oppressive, negative thoughts. This is
especially important before going to sleep, as that’s when our thoughts sink deeper
into our subconscious. Fears, worries, and other negative thoughts can “impede the
flow of mental and spiritual power” if you don’t drain them before they have a chance
to sink into your subconscious.
However, it’s not enough to simply drain your mind; you must fill it back up again, this
time with positive thoughts to replace the negative ones. These are thoughts that
inspire feelings like hope, courage and faith. It may be difficult at first, but you must
keep at it by practicing every day if you want to achieve positive change.
It’s no secret that modern life can often be hectic and over-stimulating. As a result,
sleeplessness, stress and headaches have become common for many. Most feel
unhappy under these conditions, but they just can’t seem to find a way out of them.
In fact, many people destroy themselves emotionally and physically in their attempts
to keep up with the swift tempo of modern life. Today’s “feverishly accelerated” pace
can lead to serious emotional illnesses, such as chronic fatigue and frustration.
It’s therefore important that we are able to find strategies to deal with the stress and
anxiety that are part of modern living. The author, for example, often felt the burden
of a hectic modern life overwhelming, especially when he was in a big city like New
York. He found that by taking the time to go out into the woods, he could relieve that
tension.
But these conditions are not as important as our attitudes towards them: they have
the power to further entrench unhappiness into our lives or help us choose happiness
despite negative conditions. If unhappiness is chosen it can lead to a loop: seeing
everything negatively will again produce unhappiness.
Children are the living proof of this concept: they are “experts in happiness,” and
because they are not “super-sophisticated” they have not yet learned that society
expects them to be unhappy.
Have you ever been totally unprepared for an important meeting? It’s a horrible
feeling, isn’t it? It’s certainly important for us to prepare for possible obstacles, but
when we expect the worst, even only theoretically, then we’re more likely to
experience negative outcomes.
In fact, when you focus on the worst possible outcomes, you stop the power flow, thus
cutting off your ability to handle obstacles. Even if you do manage to stand up to these
obstacles, your negative thinking will prove you have little strength to deal with them.
We can see an example of this in the legendary tennis player from the 1940s, Pancho
Gonzalez. Although he was not the most skilled player, and by all means an outsider,
he nevertheless managed to win many championships during his career.
How did he manage it? He never allowed himself to become discouraged when he
faced defeat, always looking for positive possibilities instead and striving for them.
And we can solve every problem this way because there are no unsolvable problems.
You must simply practice positive thinking and see the possibilities available to you.
Surely your subconscious is telling you that there are problems you cannot solve.
However, your subconscious can be trained to be more positive. One way to
accomplish this is by changing the way you express your possible life outcomes,
focusing on the positive aspects and not the negative ones.
Here the practice of mental “draining” is once again important: if you can rid your mind
of negative outcomes, then you can focus on the achievable, and thus overcome your
problems.
Often there is more than one solution to a given problem, and you may not find it on
your first attempt. With a clear mind focused on the positive, you stand a much better
chance of finding them.
The Bible and Christianity are often seen as offering abstract advice or general
guidelines for how to live life. But the teachings of the Bible can build a foundation for
your thoughts and actions, helping you in your quest for positive thinking, and
consequently changing your life much more radically.
In fact, biblical lessons are quite practical, and they can help solve many problems if
you follow them. The Bible teaches us that we should avoid becoming angry, and
instead view others in the most positive light possible. Doing so will lead to a healthier
and happier life.
For example, two friends of the author, Bill and Mary, felt cheated when Bill wasn’t
offered his retiring boss’s job, as they’d been led to believe Bill would be his successor.
The author offered him advice based on the teachings of the Bible: let go of the anger
towards the new boss, and instead deal with the frustration in a positive way, by
working even harder. Soon enough, the new boss moved on to a better job, and Bill got
promoted, all thanks the teachings of the Bible.
However, your faith can only help you to succeed if you first know what you want,
where you want to go, and whether it is right to want it.
In order to answer these questions, you can turn to prayer, which can help release
negative energy and lead to creative ideas. If think about your problems from a bird’s
eye view through prayer, then you have a better vantage point from which to see
solutions.
However, your faith can only guide you to these solutions if the success you seek is
“morally, spiritually and ethically” right. If the success you want “is wrong in the
essence it is bound to be wrong in the result.”
We know that the mind and the body are intricately related: that when you
experience stress, for example, it can manifest as physical pain. Sometimes, too, our
body’s “complaints” offer no clear medical explanations. In these cases, it’s not the
body at all that’s the problem, but the mind: not only must we take care of the body,
but also mind and spirit.
While we shouldn’t rely upon faith alone to heal our physical ailments, a combination
of “God and the doctor” will lead us to true health.
Indeed, some medical doctors known to the author had begun to prescribe religious
and inspirational books in lieu of traditional medicine with the aim of helping their
patients help themselves by acquiring a positive mind-set and faith.
In fact, the author even ran a clinic in New York City together with a psychiatrist,
where they cooperated with one another to combine their therapies. By pooling their
knowledge, recognizing their own unique roles and skill sets as well as the importance
of the other, they were able to achieve the strongest results.
The reason that they could work so well together is related to the power of the
subconscious mind. While the conscious mind “may suggest sickness, even death,” the
vast majority of your mind lies within the subconscious. If you “let the picture of
health sink into the subconscious,” then “this powerful part of your mind will send
forth radiant health energy.”
This is why faith is so important: by trusting in a higher power, you’re better able to
truly believe in your positive convictions about your health. Positive thoughts can lead
to healing and health, but only when those thoughts are actually genuine. You have to
actually believe in your own physical and spiritual healing, and that requires faith.
Final Summary
No matter how insurmountable they may seem, there are no problems in your life
that cannot be overcome by the power of positive thinking. By staying calm, gaining
perspective, nurturing your faith and focusing on positive outcomes, you will have
the power to create a happy, healthy life.
Remind yourself to stay motivated. Write a note to yourself such as: “The difficult
times are only mental. I think victory – I get victory.”