PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT Q2 3.
Attachment – long-lasting commitments are
REVIEWER
Relationship - a relation between people; a state of
connectedness between people (especially an emotional
connection)
Personal relationships - refer to close connections
between people formed by emotional bonds and
interactions
Love - strong affection for another arising out of kinship
or personalities.
Commitment - the act of binding yourself (intellectually
or emotionally) to a course of action
Responsibility - a form of trustworthiness; the trait of
being answerable to someone for something or being
responsible for one’s conduct
Family - The Bureau of the Census defines family as
"two or more persons who are related by birth, marriage,
or adoption and who live together as one household."
Friendship - can be thought of as a close tie between
two people that is often built upon mutual experiences,
shared interests, proximity, and emotional bonding.
Partnerships - romantic partnerships, including
marriage, are close relationships formed between two
people that are built upon affection, trust, intimacy, and
romantic love.
Mother and Child – very first meaningful relationship
THREE STAGES OF FALLING INLOVE (Helen Fisher)
1. Lust – is driven by the sex hormones, testosterone,
and estrogen.
2. Attraction – a lovestruck phase that involves
neurotransmitters in the brain such as dopamine,
norepinephrine, and serotonin.
exchanged and may lead to raising a family. Oxytocin
believes to promote intimacy; vasopressin promotes
long-term relationships.
ROZENBERG QUARTERLY: THEORIES ON
ATTRACTION
1. Transference effect
2. Propinquity effect
3. Similarity
4. Reciprocity
5. Physical attractiveness
6. Personality character and traits
Sexual abuse - is also a type of violence, and involves
any kind of unwanted sexual advance
Emotional abuse - is anything that harms your self-
esteem or causes shame.
BASIC RIGHTS IN A RELATIONSHIP
❖ The right to emotional support
❖ The right to be heard by the other and to respond
❖ The right have your own point of view, even if this
differs from your partner’s
❖ The right to have your feelings and experiences
acknowledged as real
❖ The right to live free from accusation and blame
❖ The right to live from criticism and judgment
❖ The right to live free from emotional and physical
threat
❖ The right to live free from angry outbursts and rage
❖ The right to be respectfully, asked, rather than
ordered
Community activities and civic responsibility -
community activity is part of civic responsibility. It’s about
doing things in our community because we want to or
feel we should, rather than we have to by law.
SOCIAL INFLUENCE - according to Rashotte, the
authors: Defined social influence as things such as
behavior, actions attitude, concepts, ideas,
communications, wealth, and other resources that bring
about changes in the beliefs, attitudes, and/or behavior
of persons as a result of the action/s of another person.
VARIETIES OR TYPES OF SOCIAL INFLUENCE
(Herbert Kelman)
1. Compliance - Is when a person seems to agree, and
follows what is requested or required of him or her to do
or believe in, but does not necessarily have to really
believe or agree to it;
2. Identification -is when a person is influenced by
someone he or she likes or looks up to, like a movie star,
social celebrity, or a superhero.
3. Internalization -is when a person is able to own a
certain belief or act, and is willing to make it known
publicly and privately.
OTHER TYPES OF SOCIAL INFLUENCE
1. Conformity / Pagsang-ayon - a type of social
influence that involves a change in behavior, belief, or
thinking to be like others.
2. Conversion / Pagbabagong-loob - occurs when an
individual whole-heartedly changes his or her original
thinking and beliefs, actions, and attitudes to align with
those of the other members of a group.
3. Minority influence - happens when a bigger number
of people are influenced by much smaller number or
people and when the minority’s way of looking at and
doing things are accepted.
4. Reactance - is when there is a willing rejection of a
social influence being exerted on an individual or group.
5. Obedience – is another form of social influence
wherein a person follows what someone tells him or her
to do, although it may not necessarily reflect the
person’s set of beliefs or values.
6. Persuasion - is used by one person or group to
influence another to change their beliefs, action, or
attitudes by appealing to reason or emotion.
LEADERSHIP / PAMUMUNO - the action of leading a
group of people or an organization.
LEADER / PINUNO - often typecast as someone who is
the head of a group of people by virtue of having great
strength and wisdom, or may have inherited a position of
power even if strength and wisdom were not part of his
person’s virtues.
VARIOUS TYPES OF FAMILY
1. Nuclear family: basically consists of two generations
of family members living in the same household.
2. Extended family: this type of family structure
generally consists of three or more
generations living in the same household (or very close
proximity).
3. Step-families: One consequence of high rates of
divorce and remarriage (or cohabitation) is an increase
in the number of families headed by step-mothers and
step-fathers.
4. Single parent family: This can be either a father or a
mother who is individually responsible for the raising of a
child.
5. Adoptive family: A family where one or more of the
children has been adopted
6. Blended family: A family that consists of members
from two (or more) previous families.
7. Conditionally separated families: A family member
is separated from the rest of the family. This may be due
to employment far away; military service; hospitalization;
etc.
8. Foster family: A family where one or more of the
children is legally, a temporary member of the household
9. Gay or Lesbian family: refers to lesbian and gay
individuals or same sex couples and their children.
10. Bi- racial or multi-racial family: those consisting of
parents of different races and their biracial/multiracial
offspring.
11. Trans –racial adoptive family: a family adopts a
child of a different race.
12. Immigrant family: at least one of the parents was
born outside of the country of residence.
13. Migrant family: a family that moves its residence for
the purpose of employment in agricultural labor.