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Traditionally, extended family members live together and often help in child rearing.
However, there has been an ongoing demographic and social change over the years in terms
of family size, education, employment, and role of women.
In recent years there has been a gradual decline of nuclear families in urban areas and on rise
in rural India
Culturally, the parent–child bond is encouraged through child-rearing practices such as
breast-feeding that provides not only nourishment to the baby, but also allows increasing
physical and emotional contact between mother and child.
55-80% of children are breastfed exclusively for the first six months in India, which is
significantly high when compared to US where only 24.9% are.
practices such as cuddling and body massage which add physical contact between mother and
child, and provides a sense of security for the child, is encouraged. Even sharing a parent’s
bed is quite common for children in India
Until recent years girls were trained to be housewives, and boys to be breadwinners. As a
result, girls were given more household responsibility than boys, and therefore girls may
become independent earlier than boys where self-care and household responsibilities are
concerned.
Indian parents prefer male child to a female child. Such notions might result in differential
treatment and training of children based on their gender. Preference for male child may lead
to rejecting behaviour towards girls and warmth towards boys.
However, contrary to these perceptions, one study showed that fathers actually showed more
emotional warmth for female child, and rejecting behaviour toward male child
(Acharya, 2013) also reported that female college students were more likely to perceive their
parents as authoritative, and less likely to perceive them as authoritarian or permissive than
male college students. These evidence prove that contrary to popular assumptions, girls
are not rejected, and parents are quite warm towards them than towards boys, while
showing more control over boys.
These findings are consistent with west. A large meta-analysis in US found that parents were
slightly more controlling with boys than with girls,
Hence, it is quite possible that with education, awareness, and several initiatives made by the
government of India to protect girl children, there appears to be a social transformation, and
gender discrimination associated with parenting behaviours are diminishing.
This may be evidenced by the increasing number of women working in recent years with
almost 43% of working women in regular wage and salaried positions
Overall, these studies indicate that Indian parents are more likely to be highly
demanding, less accepting, and use more control and harsh punishment, which is
suggestive of authoritarian parenting style.
Expectations of the children are also changing, and current generation children may be
demanding more autonomy than before. This may be due to an increase in exposure to
Western cultures through movies and social media.
(Albert et al., 2007) reported that when Indian mothers use high control, children reported
less avoidance and anxiety. On the other hand, a much more recent study (Jahan & Suri,
2016) found that stress, anxiety, and depression were associated with high control by
mothers.
Both authoritarian and uninvolved parenting styles were associated with social anxiety,
socially withdrawn behaviours, delinquency, poor academic performance, low self-esteem
increased feelings of loneliness, higher suicidal ideation, hopelessness and trauma.
Authoritarian parenting was also associated with interpersonal problems, external locus of
control, frustration, aggression, anxiety, and depression.
Amongst all the parenting styles, authoritative parenting style was found to relate to the
most optimal long-term development in children in India.
AUTHOROTATIVE
high acceptance and involvement
warm, attentive, and sensitive to their child’s needs
emotionally fulfilling parent–child relationship
exercise firm, reasonable behavioural control- giving reasons for their expectations
disciplinary encounters as “teaching moments”
gradual, appropriate autonomy granting- allowing the child to make decisions in areas where
he/she is ready
place importance on communication
in case of disagreement- joint decision making when possible.
willingness to understand the child’s perspective
AUTHORITARIAN
low in acceptance and involvement
cold and rejecting.
high in coercive behavioural control
low in autonomy granting.
Exert control through- yelling, criticising, threatening, commanding
make decisions for their child and expect the child to accept their word unquestioningly- if
not accepted; they use force & punishment
hold excessively high expectations
psychological control- intruding and manipulating verbal expressions
frequently interrupt or put down the child’s ideas, decisions
when dissatisfied, they withdraw love
children= anxious, unhappy, and low in self-esteem
achieve poorly in school
react with hostility
boys- show high rates of anger and defiance
girls- acting-out behaviour
commit fewer antisocial acts than peers
exhibit adjustment problems involving both anxious, withdrawn and defiant, aggressive
behaviours.
PERMISSIVE
warm and accepting but uninvolved
either overindulgent or inattentive
no gradual autonomy
allow children to make many decisions for themselves at an age when they are not yet
capable of doing so.
child can do whatever they wish
parents practice this because - lack confidence in their ability to influence their child’s
behaviour.
Children = impulsive, disobedient, and rebellious.
overly demanding and dependent on adults
poorer academic achievement
more antisocial behaviour.
UNINVOLVED