Writing 2023.

Family Pánczél Kitti

Dear xy
Let me tell you my thoughts about your situation. I understand it is a very tough situation for
you and for the family as well. Seeing your daughter with these emotions and not to be able to
help her, is already a difficult place to be, and also your family is facing a completely new
phrase in its life.
Being a young woman, and finding the right partner to build a new life, can be challenging.
Unfortunately, an adult relationship is not easy, a breakup might happen for several reasons.
A young couple after the “honeymoon phrase” must face several difficulties, such as
differences in family patterns, love language. Committing to one and other they also need to
match their ideas about life, values, divide everyday responsibilities. It is on the couple if they
can get through these relationship phrases.
Experiencing your adult daughter getting back to the parental home must leave you
with mixed feelings. She has been evolving to a completely different person in a way, she is
expecting you to see that. The most important thing to deal with this situation, is to respect her
individual personality, cherish every time she wants to spend with you, but give her the
privacy that she needs to grief. You might as well set new boundaries. For example, if you
have regular activities with your husband, don’t break the chain. If you are fighting a lot, try
to communicate in a calmly manner. If she leaves dirty plates or any other habit you don’t
like, you must be clear about what is expected by you. For example when I moved back to my
parents as a young adult, it was very frustrating for me, when my father talked to me as a
child. But as soon as we have sit down to talk, we found that we were on the same page.