Homeschooling is an education system which provides child’s main education
program at home. Homeschooling takes the place of full-time school attendance and it usually meets state of requirements for compulsory education. Although homeschooling might be easier to manage and could achieve the objectives of compulsory education, I feel that homeschooling isn’t the best educational system to be applied. The main thing is homeschooling system doesn’t wrap all of the learning aspects neither like the public school. First, homeschooling system doesn’t give any room for students to socialize, interact, and get to know each other with the other students out there except with the teacher itself. Now, let’s talk about humans. Humans are categorized as a social being which means we as humans needs that interaction, relation, and help from each other. The lack of interaction with other people can give a negative impact on a person’s social life. Lack of relation, lack of communication, and lack of solidarity, it’s 180 degrees inversely proportional to the meaning of us, humans, as social creatures. Now, looking towards to our country, Indonesia. Indonesia is a large country and the students are from many kinds of different backgrounds, which means that students need a kind of glue to make them stick with each other to give them a sense of unity. Compared to the public school, the easiest and the best place to get that kind of glue is in the public school. Without the present of the glue between each other, students may not be able to fit into the mass society, which means, among other things, believing of what most people believe and liking what people like. Or homeschooling may not be able to help students to find a set of values with which they could resist and reject man values of the mass society. Homeschooling does provide a comfort surroundings to the students, such as no bullies or something else that may disturb the student at the surrounding of them. But we must think more critically with the comfort surroundings provided by the homeschooling system, we have to think ahead. So, what if we think about the student’s future? Homeschooling may not give the students a good development to face their real future where they must interact, understand each other, solving several problems, and even compete with each other which they don’t even get the spirit and development to compete with one another. They wouldn’t know how to control and face a problem that they don’t want to and they don’t even have any experiences with things related to the problem. Guess what, all of it comes from the comfortable private surroundings around them. But for me, all problems have a way to solve them. Great things come from a small thing. I’m sure that by making a small event for homeschooling students to interact with other students or even strangers in the society such as a small meeting, having fun together in the weekends, and other things that can be done related to socializing. So, the conclusion of my opinion is homeschooling may be effective in the management and homeschooling does provide safe and comfortable surroundings for the students, but it will give a negative effect towards a student’s social life and their future. So, homeschooling isn’t the best educational system.
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