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discuss that understanding the intensity and differentiation of emotions may help in
communicating emotional expressions
explore one’s positive and negative emotions and how one expresses or hides them
demonstrate and create ways to manage various emotions
According to Sternberg, every relationship is made up of one or more parts intimacy, passion and
commitment. And various combinations of these aspects can lead to different types of love.
A close friendship has intimacy, where the two people share a bond. Love at first sight is based on
passion. There is the loveless relationship where the feeling of excitement has passed into
intimacy and commitment, and there is no passion. There are various other combinations and
descriptions f these three parts intermingling.
STAGE 2: Romance – it is an act of trying to influence or gain the favour of another by lavishing
attention or gifts upon them. These are two types of romance: selfish romance and selfless
romance.
Selfish Romance occurs when you do romantic acts solely for the purpose of gaining something for
yourself.
Selfless Romance on the other hand, occurs when you do romantic acts for the enjoyment and
pleasure of your partner. You receive your enjoyment and pleasure through his/her happiness.
STAGE 3: Passion- it is the desire for another person, which has grown to an intensity that cannot
be ignored. This is often the point where an emotional relationship turns into a physical
relationship.
STAGE 4: Intimacy - it is a close association with another person of the deepest nature.
During this stage, you share your thoughts, your feelings, your dreams. In true intimacy, there is
nothing that you cannot tell the other person (though we often hesitate because of our own
unfounded fears).
STAGE 5: Commitment – it is a pledge to remain true throughout good and bad times.
Commitment is easy when times are good but can be extremely difficult when times are bad.
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ACTIVITY #2: After learning the dynamics of attraction, love and commitment, what have you
realized? Think of three topics and write a reflection of how they have impacted your life