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https://dialecticalbehaviortherapy.com/distress-tolerance/radical-acceptance/
Radical acceptance means practicing a conscious effort to acknowledge and honor difficult
situations and emotions. Fully accepting things as they are, instead of ignoring, avoiding, or
wishing the situation was different, can be a critical step in moving through a difficult
experience to experiencing more meaning.
Often, when we are affected by intense negative emotions, our natural reaction to them can be
anger, feeling upset and blaming the situation or others for how we feel. Maybe ruminating over
past event, can’t get over the fact that it did happen. We can’t let it go and channel our energy
in a more effective situation.
Another way to practice radical acceptance. When you’re dealing with emotions, thoughts, and
situations that you have a hard time accepting, you can use coping statements.
These statements are meant to remind you that there are some things you can’t change, and by
accepting the reality as it is, you can free yourself from emotional tension and judgmental
thoughts. Again, this by no means is meant to undermine the situation and turmoil you've been
through, it is simply a way for you to try to let go of the negative feelings and thoughts.
In the list below you will see examples of coping statements that you can use. Consider which
ones you like the best and write them down in the worksheet so that you will have them ready
to use: