Question: my heart feels harder than a rock, any advice?

All praise and thanks belongs to Allah, peace,mercy and blessing of Allah
be upon our Prophet Muhammad(pbuh) whom Allah send to us to purify our
hearts, and

Beautiful question my dear brother, know that its a must that we purify
our hearts and you being concerned about it is a good sign, may Allah
purify your and our heart and make it sound, amen

Allah(Subhanahu wa Ta'la) said in Quran Surah As-Shuara 87-89:

‫ن‬
َ‫ُو‬
‫َث‬‫ْع‬
‫يب‬ُ َ ‫ْم‬
‫يو‬َ ‫ِى‬ ‫ِن‬
‫تخْز‬ ‫و‬
ُ ‫َاَل‬
And do not disgrace me on the Day all will be resurrected
‫ن‬
َ‫ُو‬
‫بن‬ ‫ۭ و‬
َ ‫َاَل‬ ‫ل‬
ٌ‫ما‬َ ُ ‫َع‬
‫ينف‬َ ‫َ اَل‬‫ْم‬
‫يو‬ َ
the Day when neither wealth nor children will be of any benefit.
‫ِيم‬
ۢ
ٍ ‫ٍۢ سَل‬
‫ْب‬‫َل‬‫ِق‬
‫َ ب‬‫َى ٱهَّلل‬‫ْ َأت‬
‫من‬َ ‫ِإاَّل‬
Only those who come before Allah with a pure heart ˹will be saved˺.” 

and Prophet(pbuh) said:

Abu Huraira reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said,
“People whose hearts are like the hearts of birds will enter Paradise.”
Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2840

We must strive to purify our hearts as from it come intenton, and reward
for our deeds based on intention, as if our intention is wrong we will
not get reward for our good deeds and beside this we will be committing
shirk because we did a deed which should be done for the sake of
Allah,for the sake of other than him and that will leads us to hellfire

Verily, in the body is a piece of flesh which, if sound, the entire body
is sound, and if corrupt, the entire body is corrupt. Truly, it is the
heart.
Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 52

in another ayah:
‫ها‬
َٰ‫َّى‬
‫َك‬ ‫من ز‬ ‫لح‬
َ َ ‫د َأف‬
َْ َْ‫ق‬
Successful indeed is the one who purifies their soul
‫ها‬
َٰ‫دسَّى‬
َ ‫من‬ ‫َاب‬
َ َ ‫د خ‬َْ
‫َق‬‫و‬
and doomed is the one who corrupts it!
Quran 91:9-10

Among the reasons that Allah(Subhanahu wa Ta'la) have send Messenger to

us is that to purify us
ِ
‫ِۦ‬
‫ه‬ ‫ٰت‬
‫يـ‬َ‫ءا‬
َ ْ‫ِم‬‫ْه‬
‫لي‬ ‫۟ ع‬
ََ ‫ُوا‬‫ْل‬
‫يت‬ ‫ِم‬
َ ْ ‫ِه‬
‫ُس‬‫ْ َأنف‬
‫من‬ِّ ‫َسُواًۭل‬
‫ْ ر‬‫ِم‬
‫ِيه‬‫َ ف‬
‫َث‬‫بع‬َ ْ
‫َ ِإذ‬
‫ِين‬‫ِن‬‫ُْؤم‬
‫ٱلم‬
ْ ‫َى‬‫َل‬‫ُ ع‬‫َّ ٱهَّلل‬
‫من‬ َْ
َ ‫د‬‫َلق‬
ٍ‫ِين‬‫مب‬ ‫ٰل‬
ۢ
ُّ ٍ ََ
‫لـ‬ ‫ِى ض‬‫ُ َلف‬
‫ْل‬‫َب‬
‫ِن ق‬ ۟
‫ُوا م‬ ‫َان‬
‫َِإن ك‬ ‫ة و‬ ََ ‫ٱلحِك‬
‫ْم‬ ْ َ‫َ و‬
‫ٰب‬ ‫ِت‬
‫َـ‬ ‫ٱلك‬
ْ ُ ‫هم‬
ُُ َِّ
‫لم‬ ‫يع‬ ‫ْ و‬
َُ ‫ِم‬
‫ِّيه‬
‫َك‬ ‫يز‬
َُ‫و‬
Indeed, Allah has done the believers a great favour by raising a
messenger from among them—reciting to them His revelations, purifying
them, and teaching them the Book and wisdom. For indeed they had
previously been clearly astray.
Quran 3:164
here ‫ِم‬
‫ِّيه‬
‫َك‬ ‫يز‬‫ و‬and purifying them), commanding them to do righteous works
َُ
and forbidding them from committing evil. This is how their hearts will
be purified and cleansed of the sin and evil that used to fill them when
they were disbelievers and ignorant.

Anas narrated:
"The Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) would often say: Ya Muqallibal-qulub,
thabbit qalbi 'ala dinik('O Changer of the Hearts! Strengthen my heart
upon Your Religion.)' So I said: 'O Prophet of Allah! We believe in you
and what you have come with, but do you fear for us?' He said: 'Yes.
Indeed the hearts are between two Fingers of Allah's Fingers, He changes
them as He wills.'" (Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2140)

its important for us to know reason of our heart becoming hard:

1.hearts gets sick and hard because of the sins that we commit:
Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be
upon him, said, “Verily, when the servant commits a sin, a black mark
appears upon his heart. If he abandons the sin, seeks forgiveness, and
repents, then his heart will be polished. If he returns to the sin, the
blackness will be increased until it overcomes his heart. It is the
covering that Allah has mentioned: No, rather a covering is over their
hearts from what they have earned.” (83:14) (Sunan al-Tirmidhī 3334)

regarding this verse 83:14

No, rather a covering is over their hearts from what they have earned.”
Al-Hasan (Al-Basrī) said, “It is because of doing one sin after another,
until the heart becomes blind and dies.”
Qatādah also said, “It is because of doing one sin after another, one sin
after another, until the heart dies and becomes black.”
Ibn Zayd said, “Their sins overcome their hearts until no good can get
through to them.”
Mujāhid explained, “They used to consider the heart like a hand: when a
person sins, his heart starts to scrunch up,” and he folded his little
finger, “and when he does another sin,” he folded the next finger and
continued until he had his fist clenched. “Then a seal is placed over it,
and they used to say that this is the ‘covering’.”
Al-Tabarī in his Tafsīr, Sūrah Al-Mutaffifīn.

in another ayah 5:13:

But for breaking their covenant We condemned them and hardened their
hearts. They distorted the words of the Scripture and neglected a portion
of what they had been commanded to uphold. You ˹O Prophet˺ will always
find deceit on their part, except for a few. But pardon them and bear
with them. Indeed, Allah loves the good-doers

It is reported that Qatādah – Allāh have mercy on him – said:

Verily the Qurān guides you to your disease and your treatment: as
for your disease, it is your sins; and as for your treatment, it is to
seek the forgiveness of Allāh.
Al-Bayhaqī, Shuʿab Al-Īmān 9:347 no. 6745.

It is reported that Makḥūl – Allāh have mercy on him – said, “The people
with the softest hearts are those who sin the least.”
Abū Nu’aym, Ḥilyah Al-Awliyā` Vol. 2 p344.

It is reported that ‘Awn b. ʿAbdillāh, the ascetic and jurist, said, “Sit
with the repentant, for they have the softest hearts.”
Abū Nu’aym, Ḥilyah Al-Awliyā` Vol. 2 p192.

2. Eating too much

Abu Barzah reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said:
‫َى‬
‫هو‬ ْ ِ‫ِاَّل ت‬
َ‫ال‬ ‫مض‬ ‫ْ و‬
َُ ‫ُم‬‫ُوجِك‬
‫ُر‬‫َف‬
‫ْ و‬
‫ُم‬‫ِك‬
‫ُون‬
‫بط‬ُ ‫ِي‬
‫َيِّ ف‬ ْ ِ‫َات‬
‫الغ‬ ‫هو‬ََ‫ْ ش‬
‫ُم‬‫ْك‬
‫لي‬ََ ‫َّا َأخ‬
‫ْشَى ع‬ ‫ِم‬ ‫ن م‬
َّ‫ِإ‬
Verily, among what I fear most for you are seductive temptations in
your stomachs and passions, and the misguidance of whims.
Musnad Aḥmad 19787

Ibn Umar reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon
him, said:
‫َاحِد‬
ٍ ‫ِع‬
‫ًى و‬ ‫ِي م‬
‫ُ ف‬
‫ُل‬‫يْأك‬ ‫ِن‬
َ ُ ‫مْؤم‬
ُ‫ال‬ ٍ‫َا‬
‫ء و‬
ْ َ ‫مع‬ْ‫ِ َأ‬
‫َة‬‫ْع‬
‫ِي سَب‬
‫ُ ف‬
‫ُل‬‫يْأك‬ ‫ِر‬
َ ُ ‫َاف‬
‫الك‬
ْ
The unbeliever eats with seven intestines, and the believer eats with
one intestine.
Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5079

And Abu Ja’far, may Allah have mercy on him, said:

‫د‬
َُ‫َس‬
‫الج‬
ْ ‫َى‬
‫َغ‬‫ُ ط‬
‫ْن‬‫َط‬ ْ ‫ََأل‬
‫الب‬ ‫مت‬ْ‫َا ا‬
‫ِإذ‬
When the belly is full, the body will transgress

3. speaking too much as well as sleeping too much:

Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be
upon him, said:
‫َب‬
َّ ‫َال َأح‬ ‫َم‬‫ُ ع‬‫الخَالِئق‬
ْ َ‫ِل‬
‫َم‬ َ ِ
‫ما ع‬ ‫ِه‬ ‫ِي‬
‫َد‬ ‫ٍ ب‬
‫َّد‬
‫َم‬‫مح‬
ُ ُ‫ْس‬
‫نف‬َ ‫ِي‬
‫الذ‬
َّ َ
‫َو‬‫ْتِ ف‬
‫َّم‬
‫ِ الص‬
‫ُول‬
‫َط‬‫ِ و‬
‫لق‬ُُ‫الخ‬
ْ ِ‫ُسْن‬
‫ِح‬‫ْكَ ب‬
‫لي‬ََ
‫ع‬
‫َا‬
‫هم‬ ‫ِن‬
ُْ ‫ِ م‬ ‫ِإَلى هَّللا‬
You must have good character and observe long periods of silence. By
the One in whose hand is the soul of Muhammad, no one can behave with
deeds more beloved to Allah than these two.
Shu’ab al-Imān 4591

Ibn Umar reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon
him, said:
‫ن‬ ‫ْبِ و‬
َّ‫َِإ‬ ‫َل‬
‫لق‬ْ‫ل‬
ِ ‫ة‬ ‫َسْو‬
ٌَ ‫ِ ق‬
‫ِ هَّللا‬
‫ْر‬‫ِك‬
‫ِ ذ‬‫ْر‬ ‫ِغ‬
‫َي‬ ‫ِ ب‬
‫َاَل م‬
‫الك‬
ْ ‫ة‬
ََ‫ْر‬
‫َث‬‫ن ك‬ ‫ِ ف‬
َّ‫َِإ‬ ‫ِ هَّللا‬
‫ْر‬‫ِك‬
‫ِ ذ‬
‫ْر‬ ‫ِغ‬
‫َي‬ ‫َ ب‬
‫َاَل م‬
‫الك‬ ‫ِر‬
ْ ‫ُوا‬ ‫ْث‬
‫تك‬ُ ‫اَل‬
‫ِي‬
‫َاس‬
‫الق‬
ْ ُ ‫لب‬َْ
‫الق‬
ْ ‫هَّللا‬
ِ ْ ‫ِن‬
‫َّاسِ م‬
‫د الن‬ ََ ْ‫َأ‬
‫بع‬
Do not speak too much without remembering Allah. Verily, too much
talking without remembering Allah hardens the heart. The furthest of
people from Allah is one with a hard heart.
Sunan al-Tirmidhī 2411

Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him
peace, said, "Laugh little. Much laughter kills the heart."
Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 252

Anas ibn Malik reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be
upon him, said, “The faith of a servant is not upright until his heart is
upright, and his heart is not upright until his tongue is upright. A man
will not enter Paradise if his neighbor is not secure from his evil.”
Musnad Aḥmad 13047
Umar ibn al-Khattab(may Allah be pleased with him said:
“A person who talks too much is a person who often makes mistakes, and
someone who often makes mistakes, often has wrong actions. The Fire has a
priority over such a frequent sinner.”

‘Ubadah ibn al-Samit reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and

blessings be upon him, said, “Speak what is good and acquire gains, or
refrain from speaking evil and be safe.”
Musnad al-Shihab al-Quḍāʻī 666

Abdullah ibn Amr reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be
upon him, said, “Verily, Allah despises an extravagant speaker among men,
who flaps his tongue about like the flapping of a cow.”
Sunan al-Tirmidhī 285

4. Arguing and debating about something that we don’t have knowledge, as

Allah(Subhanahu wa Ta'la) said in Quran 40:35
َ‫ِين‬‫ٱلذ‬َّ ‫د‬ َ‫ِن‬‫َع‬‫هَّلل و‬
ِ‫د ٱ‬ َ‫ِن‬ ‫ًا ع‬
‫ْت‬‫مق‬
َ َ ‫ُر‬
‫َب‬‫ْۖ ك‬‫هم‬ ‫ٰنٍ َأت‬
ُٰ‫َى‬ ‫َـ‬ ُْ‫ِ س‬
‫لط‬ ‫ْر‬
‫َي‬‫ِغ‬ ‫ٰتِ ٱهَّلل‬
‫ِ ب‬ ‫يـ‬َ‫ءا‬ ‫ِى‬
َ ٓ ‫ن ف‬
َ‫ِلو‬
ُ‫ٰد‬
‫َـ‬‫يج‬ ‫ِين‬
ُ َ ‫ٱلذ‬
َّ
‫ر‬ ‫ا‬ ‫ب‬ ‫ج‬
ۢ ََّ ٍ
ٍ ‫ر‬ ‫َب‬
‫ك‬
ِّۢ ُ‫ت‬
َ ‫م‬ ‫ْب‬
ِ ‫ل‬ َ
‫ق‬ ‫ُل‬
ِّ ‫ك‬ ‫َى‬
‫ل‬‫ع‬
ٰ َ ‫هَّلل‬
ُ ‫ٱ‬ ‫ع‬ ‫ب‬‫ط‬
ْ
َُ َ ‫ي‬ ‫ِك‬
َ ‫ل‬ ٰ
َ
‫ذ‬َ‫ك‬ ۚ۟
‫ا‬ ‫و‬ُ‫ن‬ ‫م‬ ‫ا‬
َ َ‫ء‬
Those who dispute Allah’s signs with no proof given to them. How
despicable is that for Allah and the believers! This is how Allah seals
the heart of every arrogant tyrant.

these are some of reasons that hardens the heart and the main reason
among them is sins, so my advice to you and myself is that seek
forgiveness of Allah and leave haram, and here are some ways of curing
your heart:

1.Allah described it as healing for the hearts, so increase in reading it

reflecting and acting upon it:

‫ۭا‬
‫َسَار‬
ً ‫َ ِإاَّل خ‬ ‫ِم‬
‫ِين‬ ‫ٰل‬
‫َّـ‬
‫د ٱلظ‬
ُ‫ِي‬
‫يز‬ ‫َۙ و‬
َ ‫َاَل‬ ‫ِن‬
‫ِين‬ ‫ُْؤم‬
‫لم‬ ٌَ
ْ‫ۭ ِّل‬
‫ة‬ ‫ْم‬
‫َح‬‫َر‬
‫ء و‬ ‫ِف‬
ۭ‫َٓا‬
ٌ ‫َ ش‬
‫هو‬ُ ‫ما‬
َ ِ‫ءان‬
َْ‫ُر‬
‫ٱلق‬ ‫ِن‬
ْ َ ‫ل م‬ ‫َز‬
ُِّ ‫نن‬
َُ‫و‬
We send down the Quran as a healing and mercy for the believers, but it
only increases the wrongdoers in loss. - Quran 17:82

‫هو‬
َ ُ ْ‫ُل‬
‫ۭۗ ق‬ٌّ‫ِى‬
‫َب‬‫َر‬
‫َع‬ ‫ۭ و‬
ٌّ‫ِى‬
‫َم‬‫ْج‬‫۬ع‬‫ءا‬َ ۖ‫ه‬ ‫ۥ‬‫ٰت‬
ُٓ
ُ ‫يـ‬َ‫ءا‬َ ْ َِّ
‫لت‬ ‫ُص‬ ‫۟ َلو‬
‫ْاَل ف‬ ‫َالوا‬
ُ ‫ۭا َّلق‬‫ِي‬
ًّ ‫َم‬
‫ْج‬‫ًا َأع‬‫ءان‬
َْ‫ُر‬
‫ه ق‬ ‫َـ‬
ُٰ َْ
‫لن‬ ‫َع‬
‫ْ ج‬‫ََلو‬
‫و‬
ۚ‫ًى‬‫َم‬‫ْ ع‬‫ِم‬
‫ْه‬‫لي‬ََ‫َ ع‬ ‫هو‬
َُ‫ۭ و‬ ‫ْر‬
ٌ ‫َق‬‫ْ و‬‫ِم‬‫ِه‬ َ
‫ءاذان‬ َ ٓ‫ِى‬ ‫ن ف‬َ‫ُو‬‫ِن‬
‫يْؤم‬ ‫ِين‬
ُ ‫َ اَل‬ ‫ٱلذ‬
َّ َ
‫ءۖ و‬ ‫ِف‬
ۭ‫َٓا‬
ٌ ‫َش‬
‫دى و‬ً‫ه‬
ۭ ُ ۟‫ُوا‬
‫من‬َ‫ءا‬َ َ‫ِين‬ َّ‫ل‬
‫ِلذ‬
٤٤ ٍ‫د‬
ۢ‫ِي‬‫بع‬ٍَ ‫َان‬ ‫ك‬‫م‬َّ ‫ِن‬‫م‬ ‫ن‬
َ ‫و‬
ْ ‫د‬
َ ‫َا‬
‫ن‬ ‫ي‬
ُ ‫ِئك‬
َ ٓ
ٰ‫ـ‬‫ل‬َ‫و‬
۟ ‫ُأ‬
ۭ
Had We revealed it as a non-Arabic Quran, they would have certainly
argued, “If only its verses were made clear ˹in our language. What! A
non-Arabic revelation for an Arab audience!” Say, ˹O Prophet,˺ “It is a
guide and a healing to the believers. As for those who disbelieve, there
is deafness in their ears and blindness to it ˹in their hearts˺. It is as
if they are being called from a faraway place.
Quran 41:44

ٌَۭ
‫ة‬ ‫ْم‬
‫َح‬‫َر‬
‫دى و‬ ًۭ‫ه‬
َُ‫ِ و‬
‫دور‬ ‫ِى ٱلص‬
ُُّ ‫َا ف‬
‫ء ِّلم‬
ٌ ‫ِف‬
ۭ‫َٓا‬ ‫َش‬
‫ْ و‬
‫ُم‬‫بك‬ ‫من ر‬
َِّّ ٌَ
‫ة‬
ِّ ۭ ‫ِظ‬
‫ْع‬‫مو‬
َّ ‫ُم‬
‫تك‬ْ‫ء‬
َ‫َٓا‬ َْ
‫د ج‬ ‫َّاسُ ق‬
‫ها ٱلن‬
َ‫ي‬ُّ‫َٰأ‬
ٓ
‫يـ‬َ
‫ِين‬
َ ‫ِن‬
‫مْؤم‬
ُ ْ
‫ل‬ ‫ل‬
ِّ
O humanity! Indeed, there has come to you a warning from your Lord, a
cure for what is in the hearts, a guide, and a mercy for the believers.
- Quran 10:57

2.Help an orphan, or someone who is dire need of help, or someone who is

not valued in your community, go to them bring them food change their
clothes, do something and talk them, and anyone who is dire need

Abu Huraira reported: A man came to the Messenger of Allah, peace and
blessings be upon him, and he complained about the hardness of his heart.
The Prophet said:
‫ِيم‬
ِ ‫َت‬ ْ َ‫َْأس‬
‫الي‬ ‫ْ ر‬
‫مسَح‬
ْ‫َا‬
‫َ و‬
‫ِين‬
‫ِسْك‬
‫الم‬ ‫ِم‬
ْ ْ ‫ََأط‬
‫ْع‬ ‫ِكَ ف‬
‫لب‬َْ
‫َ ق‬
‫ْيِين‬
‫تل‬ ‫دت‬
َ َ ‫ن َأر‬
َْ ْ‫ِإ‬
If you want to soften your heart, feed the poor and pat the head of
the orphan.
Musnad Aḥmad 7576

3. Fast 3 days of each month seeking Allah's pleasure:

Amr ibn Shurahbil reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings
be upon him, said:
‫هر‬
ٍ َْ‫ش‬ ‫ُل‬
ِّ ‫ِن‬
‫ْ ك‬ ‫ٍ م‬ َّ‫ِ َأ‬
‫يام‬ ‫ثة‬َ‫ثاَل‬
َ ُ
‫ْم‬‫َو‬
‫ِ ص‬
‫در‬ ‫َ الص‬
َّْ ‫َر‬‫َح‬ ‫ِب‬
‫ُ و‬ ‫ذه‬
ْ‫ي‬ ‫ِم‬
ُ ‫َا‬ ‫ْ ب‬
‫ُم‬‫ُك‬
‫ِر‬ ‫َأاَل ُأخ‬
‫ْب‬

Shall I tell you about what will rid the heart of impurities? Fasting
three days of every month.
Sunan al-Nasāi 2385

4.make dua and talk to Allah about condition of your hearts and ask for
forgievness, and constantly remember Allah espicially in 1/3 of night,
here are some daus:

Rabia reported: Abu Darda, may Allah be pleased with him, said, “Verily,
everything has a polish and the polish of the heart is the remembrance of
Allah Almighty.

Source: Shu’ab al-Imān 503

Al-Aghar al-Muzani reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings

be upon him, said:
ٍ
‫َّة‬
‫مر‬ َ ‫ِاَئ‬
َ ‫ة‬ ‫ِ م‬
‫ْم‬‫َو‬
‫الي‬
ْ ‫ِي‬
‫َ ف‬ ‫ِر‬
‫ُ هَّللا‬ ‫ْف‬
‫َغ‬‫ِّي َأَلسْت‬
‫َِإن‬
‫ِي و‬
‫لب‬َْ
‫َى ق‬
‫َل‬
‫ن ع‬
ُ‫َا‬
‫ُغ‬‫ه َلي‬
ُ‫ن‬َّ‫ِإ‬
Verily, at times there is fog over my heart, so I seek the
forgiveness of Allah one hundred times in a day.
Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2702

Zayd ibn Arqam reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be
upon him, said:
‫ها‬َ‫َّا‬‫َك‬
‫ْ ز‬
‫من‬ ‫ْر‬
َ ُ ‫َي‬
‫َ خ‬
‫نت‬ْ‫ها َأ‬‫َك‬
َِّ ‫َز‬
‫ها و‬
َ‫َا‬
‫ْو‬‫تق‬
َ ‫ِي‬
‫ْس‬ َ ِ‫َّ آت‬
‫نف‬ ‫هم‬ َّ
ُ‫الل‬
O Allah, grant my soul a sense of righteousness and purify it, for You
are the best to purify it.
Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2722

Abdullah ibn Mas’ud reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings
be upon him, said:
 ‫ِن‬
ْ ‫َا م‬ ‫ِّن‬
‫َج‬ ‫َن‬
‫ِ و‬‫َ السَّاَل م‬‫ُل‬‫َا سُب‬‫ِن‬‫هد‬
ْ‫َا‬‫َا و‬ ‫ِن‬
‫ْن‬‫بي‬
َ َ‫َات‬ ‫ْ ذ‬‫ِح‬ ‫ََأص‬
‫ْل‬ ‫َا و‬ ‫ِن‬
‫ُوب‬‫ُل‬‫َ ق‬‫ْن‬‫بي‬
َ ْ‫َّ َأِّلف‬
‫هم‬ َّ
ُ‫الل‬
‫ِن‬
‫َا‬ ‫َاع‬ ‫َأ‬
‫ِي سْم‬ ‫َا ف‬ ‫ْ َلن‬
‫ِك‬ ‫بار‬ ََ‫َ و‬‫َن‬‫بط‬
َ ‫ما‬ ‫ها و‬
ََ ‫ِن‬
َْ ‫َ م‬‫هر‬
ََ‫ما ظ‬ َ َ‫َاحِش‬‫َو‬
‫الف‬
ْ ‫َا‬ ‫ْن‬
‫ِّب‬
‫َن‬‫َج‬
‫ِ و‬ ‫َاتِ ِإَلى الن‬
‫ُّور‬ ُُّ
‫لم‬ ‫الظ‬
‫َّحِيم‬
ُ ‫ُ الر‬ ‫َّاب‬‫َّو‬‫َ الت‬‫نت‬ ْ‫َّكَ َأ‬
‫َا ِإن‬ ‫ْن‬
‫لي‬ََ
‫ْ ع‬‫تب‬ ‫َا و‬
َُ ‫ِن‬
‫يات‬ ‫ُر‬
َِّّ ‫َذ‬
‫َا و‬ ‫َاجِن‬ ‫ََأز‬
‫ْو‬ ‫َا و‬ ‫ِن‬‫ُوب‬‫ُل‬
‫َق‬‫َا و‬ ‫ِن‬‫َار‬ ْ‫ََأ‬
‫بص‬ ‫و‬
‫َا‬
‫ْن‬ ََ
‫لي‬ ‫ها ع‬ ‫ِم‬
ََّ ‫ََأت‬‫ها و‬َ‫ِي‬ ‫ِل‬ ‫َاب‬‫ها ق‬ َِ
‫َ ب‬‫ِين‬‫ْن‬‫مث‬
ُ َ‫ِك‬‫َت‬
‫ْم‬‫ِع‬
‫لن‬ِ َ‫ِين‬ ‫ِر‬‫َا شَاك‬ َْ
‫لن‬ ‫ْع‬
‫َاج‬‫و‬
O Allah, bring our hearts together, reconcile between us, guide us to
ways of peace, and deliver us from darkness into light. Keep us away from
immorality, outwardly and inwardly, and bless us in our hearing, our
seeing, our hearts, our spouses, and our children. Accept our repentance,
for You alone are the Relenting, the Merciful. Make us grateful for Your
blessings, praising and accepting them, and give them to us in full.
Sunan Abī Dāwūd 968

5. Seek knowledge and know that knowledge is having taqwa(fearing ALlah

and being concious of him), and you cant attain it without knowledge and
this knowledge is about knowing ALlah, his names and attributes and
aqeedah in general:

Abdullah ibn Mu’awiyah reported: A man said, “What is purification of the

soul?” The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said:

‫ن‬
َ‫َا‬
‫ُ ك‬
‫ْث‬‫َي‬
‫ه ح‬‫مع‬
َُ ‫َل‬
َ َّ ‫َج‬
‫َّ و‬
‫َز‬ ‫هَّللا ع‬
َ ‫ن‬ َّ‫َ َأ‬
‫لم‬َْ
‫يع‬ ْ‫َأ‬
َ ‫ن‬
That one knows Allah Almighty is with him wherever he is.
al-Mu’jam al-Ṣaghīr 555

And there’s more and a lot can be quoted and said, but know my dear
brother that its not only about knowing more and more, its about taking
action with you already have learned, and the best source of knowledge is
Quran, and its tafseer so increase in reading and learning from it