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Self-confidence
The psychologists who paved the way for this concept were Carl Rogers and
Abraham Maslow. According to Rogers, everyone strives to become more like an “ideal
self.” The closer one is to their ideal self, the happier one will be.
Self-concept is a mixture of cognitive perceptions and attitudes that people have about
themselves. It is multidimensional and every one of its dimensions explains different roles.
● Cognitive level
● Emotional level
● Behavioural level
What is your self-concept?
It is the understanding and knowledge you have of your own existence and how you see
yourself in relation to others and to your surroundings. In order to possess a positive or
healthy self-concept you must:
● Know yourself
● Love yourself
● Be True to yourself
Today we live in an increasingly complex and multifaceted world. In order to meet the
challenges we now face, it is more important than ever to build a solid personal foundation-a
foundation consisting of self-knowledge, self-love and self-confidence.
To be sure, a healthy self-concept is more than having high self-esteem. While high
self-esteem is important, the term itself can be misleading since self-esteem is largely based
on your 'feelings' of self-worth and encompasses your 'beliefs' about being valuable and
capable. It consists of your self-image, either positive or negative, at an emotional level.
When based on emotion, self-esteem can be wavering and vulnerable to threats. Likewise, if
it's obtained mostly from external factors, such as an attractive physical appearance, or being
popular, you can feel on top of the world one day, and find yourself disillusioned or
disappointed on the next.
Therefore, a healthy self-concept must derive from within. Instead of being dependent upon
validation from external sources, or the wavering opinions of others, self-esteem must result
from self-reflection, self-analysis and self-acceptance.
● The ability to know yourself; to be able to assess your strengths, weaknesses, talents
and potential.
● The ability to be honest with yourself and be true to who you are and what you value.
● The ability to take responsibility for your choices and actions.
● The ability to love and accept yourself as you are, knowing that you can improve and
develop any aspects of yourself that you choose.
Developing a healthy self-concept takes deliberate planning and concentrated effort. It takes
acknowledging your intrinsic value as a human being, and then working to acquire the skills
needed to confront the many challenges and adversities we encounter in life.
When you posses a healthy self-concept, nothing can rattle you, or take you off your stride.
You are confident, poised, and assured because you know you are equipped to handle
whatever comes your way.
Self-Esteem
Self-esteem is your general attitude toward yourself. It refers to general feelings of
self-worth or self-value. It is mostly measured on a scale from positive to negative and is
based on whether you think you are successful, a good person, smart, and so on. It can vary
depending on the situation. It is a particular way of experiencing the self. It involves
emotional, evaluative, and cognitive components. It also entails certain action dispositions: to
move toward life rather than away from it; to move toward consciousness rather than away
from it; to treat facts with respect rather than denial; to operate self-responsibly rather than
the opposite.
1. The practice of living consciously: respect for facts; seeking to understand not only the
world external to self but also our inner world.
2. The practice of self-acceptance: the willingness to own, experience, and take responsibility
for our thoughts, feelings, and actions, without denial.
3. The practice of self-responsibility: realizing that we are the author of our choices and
actions
4. The practice of self-assertiveness: being authentic in our dealings with others; the
willingness to stand up for ourselves and our ideas.
5. The practice of living purposefully: identifying our short-term and long-term goals or
purposes and the actions needed to attain them.
6. The practice of personal integrity: living with congruence between what we know, what we
profess, and what we do; telling the truth, honouring our commitments.
What all these practices have in common is respect for reality. When we seek to align
ourselves with reality as best we understand it, we nurture and support our self-esteem. When
either out of fear or desire, we seek escape from reality, we undermine our self-esteem.
Healthy self-esteem
Healthy self-esteem means liking yourself for the most part, as you are.
Forgive yourself for your mistakes. We are so used to negative feedback that we are
more aware of our weaknesses. Set achievable targets and get regular feedback. Change the
way you talk to yourself - stop putting yourself down. Be sure that you are not judging
yourself against unreasonable standards. Beating yourself for your weaknesses is
self-defeating. Healthy self esteem is vital for happiness. The key to healthy self esteem is
becoming aware of our personal strengths and accepting ourselves as worthy persons despite
any real weaknesses we have. It is a matter of cultivating the right attitude, regardless of our
personal circumstances
Talking to other people helps us see that we are not the only ones with problems. Stop
letting our negative points overwhelm our good ones and poisoning our self-image. Helping
others and being a good listener are good ways to develop a sense of being good at something
and a greater sense of self worth. Being busy gets us out of ourselves, especially if what we
are doing gives us a sense of achievement. The truth is that the most attractive trait is to show
interest in and be nice to others.
The following tips can help everyone who has severe or low levels of self issues.
❖ Avoid Issues
❖ Avoid Negative Behaviour
❖ Don't Become a Past Dweller
❖ Pessimistic Outlook
● Celebrate your strengths and achievements by regularly reviewing what went well instead
of thinking only about problems or setbacks.
● Change negative thoughts about yourself to positive ones.
● To build self esteem, it is essential to recognize our strengths and good traits.
● Spend more time doing useful things and less time sitting around thinking about
ourselves.
● Listening and being nice to others is one of the easiest things to change about ourselves,
and it is one of the best ways of starting to feel better about ourselves.
● Take good care of yourself.
The key difference between self-concept and self-esteem is that the addition of
feelings. Self-concept is simply the informational side of things, where you know facts about
what you are like. Self-esteem is how you feel about those things you know, like whether you
enjoy the fact that you are talkative at parties (high self-esteem) or you think that you are
annoying and need to learn to shut up sometimes (low self-esteem). There are a variety of
self-esteem effects that can come from the self-concept.
Self-esteem combines the degree to which we feel capable with the degree to which
we feel loved. It colors our perceptions of our accomplishments and failures. Self-concept is a
component of self-esteem. It is our description of ourselves, and it changes as we grow. Good
self-esteem requires a positive self-concept. Self-esteem is based on how positive we feel
about the picture we have of ourselves. It is partly a result of the feedback we get from others.
Based on this feedback, we develop a perception of whether the traits we have are valued or
not.
Carl Rogers' humanistic personality theory
Key Points
Terms
● congruity
An instance or point of agreement or correspondence between the ideal self and the
real self in Rogers' humanistic personality theory.
● phenomenal field
Our subjective reality, all that we are aware of, including objects and people as well as
our behaviors, thoughts, images, and ideas.
● humanistic psychology
A psychological perspective which rose to prominence in the mid-20th century in
response to psychoanalytic theory and behaviorism; this approach emphasizes an
individual's inherent drive towards self-actualization and creativity.
● holistic
Carl Rogers was a prominent psychologist and one of the founding members of the
humanist movement. Along with Abraham Maslow, he focused on the growth potential of
healthy individuals and greatly contributed to our understanding of the self and personality.
Both Rogers’ and Maslow’s theories focus on individual choices and do not hold that biology
is deterministic. They emphasized free will and self-determination, with each individual
desiring to become the best person they can become.
Humanistic psychology emphasized the active role of the individual in shaping their
internal and external worlds. Rogers advanced the field by stressing that the human person is
an active, creative, experiencing being who lives in the present and subjectively responds to
current perceptions, relationships, and encounters. He coined the term actualizing tendency,
which refers to a person's basic instinct to succeed at his or her highest possible capacity.
Through person-centered counseling and scientific therapy research, Rogers formed his
theory of personality development, which highlighted free will and the great reservoir of
human potential for goodness.
Rogers further divided the self into two categories: the ideal self and the real self. The ideal
self is the person that you would like to be; the real self is the person you actually are. Rogers
focused on the idea that we need to achieve consistency between these two selves. We
experience congruence when our thoughts about our real self and ideal self are very
similar—in other words, when our self-concept is accurate. High congruence leads to a
greater sense of self-worth and a healthy, productive life. Conversely, when there is a great
discrepancy between our ideal and actual selves, we experience a state Rogers called
incongruence, which can lead to maladjustment.
Rogers described life in terms of principles rather than stages of development. These
principles exist in fluid processes rather than static states. He claimed that a fully functioning
person would continually aim to fulfill his or her potential in each of these processes,
achieving what he called "the good life." These people would allow personality and
self-concept to emanate from experience. He found that fully functioning individuals had
several traits or tendencies in common:
Ecopsychology
Ecopsychology studies the relationship between human beings and the natural
world through ecological and psychological principles.The field seeks to develop and
understand ways of expanding the emotional connection between individuals and the
natural world, thereby assisting individuals with developing sustainable lifestyles and
remedying alienation from nature. Theodore Roszak is credited with coining the term
in his 1992 book, The Voice of the Earth. He later expanded the idea in the 1995
anthology Ecopsychology with co-editors Mary Gomes and Allen Kanner. Two other
books were especially formative for the field, Paul Shepard's 1982 volume, "Nature
and Madness," which explored the effect that our ever-diminishing engagement with
wild nature had upon human psychological development, and philosopher David
Abram's The Spell of the Sensuous: Perception and Language in a More-than-Human
World, published in 1996. The latter was the first widely read book to bring
phenomenology to bear on ecological and ecopsychological issues, examining in
detail the earthly dimensions of sensory experience, and disclosing the historical effect
of formal writing systems upon the human experience of nature's agency, voice, and
interiority.
Practical benefits
∙ American psychologist
∙ Theory of personality: Self-theory –(1947)
∙ He stressed the importance of an individual’s self for determining the process of his
growth, development and appropriate adjustment to his environment.
∙ Self-theory holds that Personality is a the interaction between two systems of ones
phenomenological field.
● Organism: - It represents the totality of one’s experience both conscious and
unconscious. (center of all experience)
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● The self: -it refers to totality of ideas, feelings and attitudes the individual has
about himself (self-concept). (I, Me and Myself). It developed through the
process of interpersonal and social experience.
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∙ A world of an individual’s subjective experience is called ‘phenomenal field’.
∙ The acquisition of the concept of our self is a long and continues process.
∙ Human beings have inherited the tendency to develop their self in the process of
interpersonal and social experience.