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Insensitivity
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I look at you sometimes and wonder, “What is
going on with her?” I can tell that something
is happening, but I don’t know what. Are you
angry but not showing it? Are you bored but
not saying it? Are you simply happy and
relaxed? Sometimes I really can’t tell.
Even during sex I wonder. Are you motion-
less because you are lost in bliss or because
you are trying to give me a message that you
are tired? Did you just have an orgasm or did
I accidentally hurt you, so you trembled and
moaned? Are you ready to stop making love or
just getting started?
I try to feel into you but often I’m at a loss.
Your women friends don’t seem to have this
problem. They seem able to read your feelings in