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Day 1-5.

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Hello! Thanks for accepting my friend request. Its a pleasure to be your friend on
Facebook.
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I'm sorry for intruding into your profile, I was actually searching for an old
friend when i came across your profile on Facebook suggestion. you look nice and
have an interesting profile as well.
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I found myself in a situation I could not help looking at your profile.
you are a very beautiful woman, and i hope we would be able to spend time knowing
more about each other in our subsequent conversations.

I'm doing well, I've just gone through your profile, i must say you are a very
beautiful woman. I'd like to spend time knowing more about you.
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I appreciate your prompt response; it was so nice to know you care about writing me
back.
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I'm Shelton, from Bismarck, ND and i work with the US special Operational forces.
I'd like to know more about you. Are you married? Do you have Kids?
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I'm a single father of lovely kids,
My wife died of cancer three years ago.
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I had a fiancee but she died of cancer three years ago. We've been together since
2005. Since then i have been on Deployment, first was in Iraq and currently I'm In
Kabul Afghanistan. Apparently, time never seemed right for me to enter into any
steady relationship. I have until November this year before My contract Terminates
with the OFS Afgha. I'm sure this will be my last deployment for a long period of
time
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for a peace keeping mission.
I was deployed last year in support of Operation Freedom's Sentinel as a member of
the Combined Joint Special Operations Task Force.
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I'd like to know more about your background, education,life experiences, your
goals and dreams, your interests, and anything else you want to tell me.
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Well, I'm a single father with two lovely twin girls..I was Born on Feb 10th in
Bismarck, ND. Lost my Parents in a Car Crash at the Age of 15. This was my worst
life moment. Moved to Austin Texas to live with my late Uncle who was a Military
Priest. I signed up for the Army shortly after 9-11 Attack, Studied Criminology and
Information System at university of Austin and Westpoint respectively . ..I
currently work with the US Special Forces Operational Detachment Team....Currently
Stationed in Kabul Afghanistan. I hope to return home and be with my girls in
November. I hope to settle down once again and be with a lovely, caring and Family
Oriented woman..I have deep passion for sports, fitness Exercise, Music, Out door
activities and politics. My favorite color is Blue and Black and Favorite meal is
Rice and Chicken with Pasta..lol. I'm also the shy type because i grew up to be an
introvert but that has changed with time.
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I had a very rough and tough childhood when my parents died at 15.
My relatives abondoned me due to family vendettas.
I had to pass through several Hardships and adversities to become the man I'm
today.
Joining the military offered me a better chance of survival.
I'm thankful to God Almighty that I'm still Alive today.
Without his grace and mercies, i would be dead by now.
I have lost quite a good number of friends since i came here last year.
But i still stand firm and alive today.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wXX8Be4VQy4
This song by Marvin sapp inspires me a lot. I think it's my favorite gospel song.
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I came to realize that she's unfaithful to me.
She lives a very promiscuous life while I'm away. It's hurt a lot to see someone
you love mess around with your friend.
Chat conversation end

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Since my wife's death, my life has been filled with making some certain decisions
about my career, trying to meet with new friends, counting my blessings and facing
squarely the challenges and vissisitudes that life has presented including being a
single father.
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I have intensions to begin a new life and settle down once more when my contracts
here is over.
All i want and always prayed for is a caring, loving, family-oriented and
dedicated woman to be the mother of my kids.

I truly believe in Gods time, all the people and life lessons we experience, are
part of the big plan he has for us.
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I aslo want you to know that I'm chatting you live from the Military command center
here in Kabul where i work as an information system analyst.
My Job here in the Tactical operation unit is to monitor military Intelligence,
Survillience, network administration, database management and computer hardware and
software implementation.
Sometimes i aslo join the combat team on special missions and beat Patrols when it
is required of me.

I must tell you that things work very differently here when compared to the real
world.
We call it the control or war room, it is heavenly secured and monitored
constantly.
most times it is very difficult to have a personal conversation without having them
decoded and recorded by the military Authorities.This is to ensure discipline among
our troops.

Talking with you here on FB is safe as long as i don't get caught.


Most soldiers find it dificult to cope and would sneak out of camp to get the
satisfaction they desire.
Though a heavy penalty await those who default the camp rules.

I know i shouldn't be telling you all of these but i see you as a very
understanding and caring woman.
I want you to know that i find pleasure chatting with you not withstanding these
rules.
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Day 6-10

Building trust********Building trust


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1. What do you do for fun?


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I love travelling, Swimming, hunting, surfing the net, soccer and music.
hunting is my favorite because i hardly miss games.
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2. Do you smoke or drink?
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i never smoke but i drink occassionally.
My favorite drink is hieneken or leinenkugel's honey Weiss beer.
whiskey soda. Or vodka soda
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3. What is your favorite meal?
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I love Tea and Bread with egg source for breakfast, Pasta for lunch (spaghetti) I
hardly eat macaroni. I also love Shrimps and Tilapia Ceviche,
I drink plenty of red wines. How about you
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4..Do you read books at all? What's the last thing you read?
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The last thing i read was the Bible. I have aslo read "how to make friend and
influence people by Dale canergie" I have read it several tiI lo read 50 shades of
grey but i'm yet to watch the movie.
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5. What kind of personality do you have? And how tall are you?
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I'm a little bit shy, easy going, sensitive, lenient, some times adventurous,
organised, spiritual and a computer geek haha. 6'1"
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6. If you were an animal, what animal do you resemble most?
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A cat or an eagle. cats are very clean and smart creatures whereas eagles are
strong and have strong vision.
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7. Are you a night owl or an early bird.
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I'm a night owl, i spend most of my night working in the war room or patroling.
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8. What kind of music do you listen to?
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I love gospel musics, Pop, blues and some classical Musics.
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9. What's your favorite movie?
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I love to watch action movies and also commic movies. My favorite is Fast and
furious. Oh I miss paul walker.
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10. If you have a chioce, how best would you like to dress?
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I love be on casual and sometimes i dress sporty, during Haloween i love being on
Elvis Atire.
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11. What's your definition of love?
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I think love is an unconditional mutual attraction between two people.
if it is not mutual, then it is not love.
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12. What's your ideal date?
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A walk along the waterfront of a beach or Having a dinner with my partner in a very
calm and serene environment.
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13. What are your likes and dislike?
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I have no place for lairs and dishonest people. I hate lazy and arrogant people.
I'm a great sucker for intelligent, hardworking and independent women.
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14. They say your bed room tells more about you.
What and what can be found in your bed room?
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I love flowers around me, romantic pantings on my walls, frames and photo of my
loved ones.
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15. Are you very romantic? How do you treat your partner?
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Although I'm very shy and finds it dificult to be romantic outside but i love to
treat my woman with much respect.
I enjoy stolen kisses from her, frequent hugs and verbal communication.
I always like to make love to her daily, this binds us together and make our
relationship more stronger.
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16. What's your greatest fantasy?
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Having a honeymoon is sydney, Australia. It's a very beautiful city.
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17. Do you like your Job? How much do you earn from it?
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I'm not too rich, but i have everything to make life confortable for me and my
family.I earn a total of US$68,540 per anum together with my allowance and combat
grants.
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18. Where do you sit on the political fence?
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I don't like our politicians, i think they al all crooks.
As veterans, we aren't treated well or given enough benefits and no one cares about
our families when we are gone.
We are been used as mercenaries rather patrotic U.S Soldiers who strive to defend
our country well. And it hurts so much because our patrotism and love for our
father land has been taken for granted.

Obama refused to re-deploy some of our troops who have being serving here for quite
a long time unless by emergency leave which is often times not granted.

Our politicians use us to enrich themselves and increase their statues at the
detriment of our lives and families....We risk ourselves here for alost nothing.

Day 11-15
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Building real Love*****Love Builder.
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I don't know how to approach this with you online.
I have been fighting a terrible battle within myself since we met.
My heart says i should tell you how i feel but my head tells me not to be stupid
that it will only cause a terrible damage to our new friendship. And that you
wouldn't be interested.
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It is very important for me to tell you how cute and lovely you are.
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I wish I could do this in person while gazing into your eyes,
but since we are physically separated by miles of emptiness,
this expression must come in the form of letters such as this.
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I know that distance dosen't allow actions to be felt but trust me, our words can
convey our feelings when distance hinders.
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As the saying goes: "True Love and Friendship knows no boundaries and no distance;

If what i felt for you is real, then distance mean absolutely nothing in the face
of love for love dosen't count by the miles. It's measure by the heart.
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I want to spend the next phase of my life with you baby.
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What do you have to say?
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It's a great pleasure to be you friend and a greater one to be able to look into
our future and see a mixture of serenity, hope, love and happiness.
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This fairly recent relatioship of ours is something i consider sacred already. Our
connection is divine.
Believe me, this friendship is so precious to me, i intend to keep it till the end
of my days on earth.
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The test of true love is not when we are together, It comes when we are far apart
and still realize that despite the distance, our thoughts and feelings are still
conveyed.
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Sometimes, I wish you were here or that I am there, or that we were together
anywhere because this is a rather unconventional way of starting up a relationship.
What we started as a mere internet contact has turned into a stronger bond between
two peple that have now discovered the true meaning of loving in an unconventional
way.
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I have learnt a lot from this relationship. I have seen what's like to trust and
give yourself completely to the other person when are so far apart.
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The Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle, rather a great reminder of just
how strong true love can be.
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Transaction*****Trasactions****$$$$
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Emergency leave
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I would really love to see you soon baby,i cant imagine spending months here
without meeting you,I think my contract might be extened till next year and this
makes me go crazy each time i think about it.I don't want to lose you honey.
I would really want us to spend time with each other and behold great moments that
will forever lingers in our minds.
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We could make this a reality baby.
We could be together in a couple of weeks if only i could be granted an Emergency
Leave out of camp.
Emergency leaves are often not granted, but in cases of serious illness and marital
arragement, a soldier can be granted an emergency leave out of Kabul.
Also, as a seargent (E7) and I'm entitled to a 31 day emergency leave provided i
have a sort ofacquaintance to be my leave applicant and if we are able to meet up
with the necessary requirements, then we are going to be together in a couple of
weeks.
I haven't done it before but i know a couple of soldiers who have successfully got
redeployd home with this medium.
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I think there is a little cost attached to it. You have to write a formal letter to
the deplartment of defense, leave board and request for my Emergency leave on
marital basis.
Tell them i need to come back home ahead of our Marriage.

I have already spoken to my commandant about it.

I will get the military connect email address so that you can start the application
from now.

Your letter should look like this baby.

US MILITARY DEPARTMENT
APPLICATION FOR EMERGENCY LEAVE

"I am (your complete name) from (your address) here by wish to apply for EMERGENCY
LEAVE on behalf of my fiance Sgt (your name)
(UN/US ARMY 009/16770/UNAMIL),MOS-18E\OFS
stationed in Eggers, Kabul Afghanistan.
I'm writing to ask if He can be granted an emergency leave vacation so that he can
come home and prepare for our marriage rites.
I will be grateful if my request can be granted.
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I have already taken time to speak with my commandant concerning you.
I told him i would need an Emergency leave to come home and prepare ahead of our
marriage which is supposed to take place this month.

He advised that you should write a formal letter to the DOD, requesting for an
emergency leave on my behalf.

This will take less time to achieve since miliatry Authorities gives much
preference and aderence to Health and also soldiers seeking to fufil their marital
rites.

I have search for the DOD military connect emal address.


It is militarydepartment.o.defense@usa.com
I will give you my miliatry identification number, insatlation and unit.

"I am (your full name) from (your address) here by wish to apply for EMERGENCY
LEAVE on behalf of my fiance Shelton Mueller; squad leader ssgt;
(UN/US ARMY 009/16770/UNAMIL) ;MOS-18E\OFS.
Who is currently stationed in Eggers, Kabul Afghanistan on operation freedom's
sentinel mission.
I' want him to come home and prepare for our marriage rites which is schedule to
take place this month.
I will be grateful if my request could be granted.
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Consult box without mission by iyke.
MMC4richnigas, Jah bless our hustle.
I must buy a car before dec.

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