Professional Documents
Culture Documents
LanguageandCommunicationEssay en
LanguageandCommunicationEssay en
Therefore, when observing the recording, I stress that the best way to start the
conversation is to go to questions that show the child that he or she is important. \
We must not judge children. If they feel criticized or judged they
immediately cease communication
keep in mind what the interests of the children are and on the basis of them initiate
dialogue: if the child is playing we can ask questions like "what are you playing? ,
what is that TV show about? , or what are those characters called?" meaning always
asking open questions. The opening of the dialogue can also start with questions
related to their daily reality such as "tell me what did you like most about school
today? What made you angry? or what did you do today with your friends?". Now,
in case the girl or boy is distracted, achieving eye contact through gentle contact
would be the most important thing in this case.
Using an appropriate tone of voice and volume is another strategy that I see as vital
to communicate effectively with children. The ideal is that the tone is soft, warm and
affectionate to generate confidence and security. However, if instruction or a wake-
up call is required, the intonation of the voice may vary to emphasize what is being
corrected or made clear. One of the most common mistakes parents/caregivers make
is thinking that authority and respect is achieved by raising the volume of the voice
or hardening gestures. However, you can use a calm but firm tone of voice. The
screams, therefore, do not work because the child gets scared, concentrates on how
angry the adult may be and stops paying attention to the message.