Mission: Attract & Approach

This course will show you how to attract/approach a girl.

I will also say something about the first dates!

If you’re having problems with those things, admitting is the first step.
Buying this course is the second.
Applying these tips and succeeding is the third and the last one!

I want to help you. But a lot of things depend on you. You can’t sit at home,
read this, do nothing, and say it didn’t help you. I really want you to focus,
work hard and learn when you get tired to have a rest - not to quit!

So, it’s really more up to you than me. In order for this to work, you have to
take me seriously. I am a woman, and I will tell you our secrets.

What kind of man attracts us? Even if you are a 5, you can become a 10 with
the right personality.

Sit back, relax and find out how you can improve your game.

I hope you will enjoy reading this as much as I enjoyed writing this!
How do I attract a girl that I like?

It’s really important how you look, stand, smile, walk, smell, dress when you
want to attract a girl.

Firstly, you have to work on yourself and love yourself for someone else to
love you. You attract a girl once you get your confidence, start respecting
yourself, become aware of your values and worth when you stop being afraid
of approaching and being rejected.

The more you get rejected - the more you learn how to do better. Rejection is
a lesson, not a loss.

Women like men who are aware of their existence. We like men who maybe
are a bit egoistic but that is just because it looks so good on you.

We see everything! We are complicated human beings. The things that we

won’t pay attention to - affect us too!

For example;

If you keep your life private on social media, no posts or few posts, no posting
stories… that is a HUGE plus! We can see that you are mature (in our minds,
only boys put their private stuff or post too much on the internet). But a true
man, that every woman wants, won’t have the time to spend on social media.

So you must work on yourself. You have to build yourself first to build your
relationship. We fall for men that spend their time well, working, learning,
upgrading. Make yourself busy!

That’s why we also like it when you don’t answer us immediately. Because if
you do, we can feel that you need us and you don’t have anything else to do!
It’s like you’re waiting for us to reply! Don’t do that, you have something better
to do than answering our ‘My dog peed on my carpet’ message.

Keep yourself busy. Remember. Once you do that, your look will improve a lot!
How you spend your time is how we get attracted to you. Because how you
spend your time is telling us a lot about you. We need to see what kind of a
man you are, not hear. It’s what gets us turned on, seeing you so busy and
masculine is hot!

When you’re talking with us - don’t be needy. Don’t be too interested in us, it
will darken the mood, you will be too easy. We like to fight for you because
good things take time and work. If you’re not good - you will be easy.

Don’t be scared to approach us. Your body language can tell us everything. If
you come up to us all shaky - no matter what you say, you lost your chance!
You have to SHOW us you’re not scared to approach a girl. When you’re
talking to us, look us in the eyes. You can gently check us out (then you’re
giving us confidence and making us feel good. This is important because if we
can see that you like us, it will make us want to look better. We like a man’s
attention, it gives us confidence. So we will appreciate you more because you
made us feel good!)

We don’t like men with low confidence. I’m sorry, but it’s true! It reminds us of
us - women are the ones who usually have problems with self-esteem. Then
we get a feminine feeling about you, and we suddenly want to be friends with
you, not a lover. It makes us want to help you in a friendly way.

Work on yourself - your body, your mind, your presence - before approaching
any girl. It affects a lot of your love life. If you are a 6 - you will get to a 9 just
because of your attitude. I know a lot of men who are not that hot but their way
with women is crazy! Women are falling for men with confidence.

So, when you’re approaching a girl - don’t say a shy ‘Hi’, because she is the
one who can be shy. You can’t have two shy people! It won’t work! And
remember - she is just a human. Don’t think she is the only girl in the world. If
she rejects you, it’s okay! It’s really important to experience those things to
become better at approaching.

Dress masculine. It’s really important how you dress because when a man has
a style - our panties go wild! It’s really hot to see a man who knows how to
dress. It’s a big plus when you know how to dress. Just like you don’t want to
have a woman that dresses like a dude, we don’t want to have a man that
doesn’t know how to dress! You don’t have to wear suits, but don’t wear
sweatpants! Simple outfits but with some details are hot!
For an example:
All these men are wearing simple clothes. Nothing too much but they do look
good. It’s not something outrageous but it’s making them stand out. Your
clothes give you power. Maybe it is not supposed to be that way, but it is. It’s
lifting you and making you look better. If you dress well, it will show us that you
have a taste. We love men who have a taste! And who can dress! Your
clothes tell a lot about you.

Wear perfume! Your presence should affect every sense (smell, vision, touch).
I can still remember a perfume my man wore on our first date. It brings out so
many memories. Clothes make you stand out, but perfume makes you
memorable.

Okay, now when you know what women like, let's find out how to approach
them!

HOW TO APPROACH HER

A lot of men don’t know what to say when they’re approaching a girl. And that
is one of the biggest reasons why men won’t approach a girl!

Firstly, don’t forget it’s important WHAT and HOW you say it. In my opinion,
HOW you say it is more important. Because you can approach a girl with
literally anything! If you’re in a club, you have to be careful you don’t end up
looking like a creep. Don’t come up dancing to her, she might end up dancing
away from you. You might buy a girl a drink, and bring it yourself. Throw her a
compliment, maybe something like ‘This is for catching my eye.’ Throw a
subtle smile, don’t be way too into it! It’s simple, short, and cute. She won’t
reject you, because you didn’t ask anything from her - right? She won’t refuse
a free drink, there is no way! Ask her for her name, is she from your town, etc.
SIMPLE QUESTIONS. Just start a conversation. It doesn’t have to be a club,
it can be anywhere. Park, college, market... just represent yourself as a high
confidence, valuable man.

Let's say you’re grocery shopping. You saw a real cutie, and you wanted to
approach her. The most common thing everyone is doing - grabbing
something and asking for an opinion. I would say this is a really great way,
because women DO like giving opinions and talking. So, don’t be afraid! If she
says she never used an item you asked about, just laugh about it and say
something like ‘You look like you know a lot of stuff, so I thought I will ask you.’
- this is also cute, something simple, natural, nothing too much. For every
thing she says, think of a way to continue a conversation. Don’t answer with
‘Yes’, ‘No’, ‘Maybe’. ALWAYS say full sentences. You have to keep a
conversation alive. If you get the feeling like it went smooth, and that there
might be a sparkle, don’t be scared to ask for her number. If she sees your
scaringness on your face - it’s immediately a ‘No’. Even if you do everything
perfectly, and it still ends up with a ‘No’, DON’T LOSE YOUR CONFIDENCE
THEN. Be fine with it. Don’t beg her or ask her if she’s sure. Just simple, with
even a smile say; ‘Okay, have a nice day!’ and go. It’s not a lost opportunity,
it’s an earned experience. The more you do something, the better you get at it.
Don’t lose hope.

Be careful with your words. Don’t play a macho man so you can show her who
you are. Show your qualities but don’t push them under her nose. You can
point them out, but she is the one who needs to figure out that you’re a
masculine, dominant man.

When you’re talking, don’t change your opinions because of her. If you’re
talking about a movie, If she says she liked it (but you didn’t), she won’t like
you because of you agreeing with her. We like strong, open minded men but
with strong opinions. If she feels she can change your opinion that easily, she
will think she can have the power over you. And we don’t want that.

Look her in the eyes. DON’T LOOK DOWN! She needs to be the one who will
look down. A person that needs to submit is the one who looks down.
Remember that! Show her you’re not afraid to keep looking at her and being
the dominant one. It might be a little uncomfortable to her, but that’s because
your dominance is taking over.

Be careful with your body language. Your body is telling more than your own
words.

An example of bad body language:

The first pose is telling her that you are shy, afraid, submissive, scared to talk
to her, it shows your nervousness.

The second pose is usually used in punishments, anger, fights. It’s aggressive,
you don’t want to scare her.

An example of a good body language:

This is showing her that you are interested in her. It’s simple, non-treathing,
open, hot, sexy, masculine, relaxed, it shows you’re not scared to talk to her,
you have experience with women, you’re not nervous. It just spreads the
positive vibe, it makes her want to talk to you.

We usually tell other people more with our bodies. It shows who we actually
are and makes us look and feel better. It’s really important to stay relaxed. A
lot of men, who look good, give a wrong impression just because of their body
language. Body language affects us, women, just like it affects you. You don’t
want to have a masculine girl, right? Who walks like a dude, stands crooked.
Likewise, we don’t want a man that stands crooked, looks shy, etc.

So, work on your words but also work on your body language. You can work at
home, in front of the mirror! Just work on being an open, relaxed, funny, flirting
guy. Psychologists usually give ‘talking to yourself in the mirror’ therapy to
people who struggle with anxiety, shyness, and low self-esteem. It can really
help you with your approaching game, so you can gain more confidence. Give
it a try! I recommend doing it daily. If it’s easier for you, write some questions
or lines on a piece of paper and read them in front of a mirror. Stand, act, talk
to yourself in a mirror in the way you would talk to a girl.

We are women. We are complicated, but we are easy too. Don’t forget, you’re
a man, you’re stronger than us. Our rejection means nothing to you. If she
says yes, don’t jump up and down like a little boy. Be cool with it, stay calm! If
she sees you getting too excited, it will cool her emotions down.

Don’t worry about the opening line. My personal opinion; these ‘Where's the
piece of paper you dropped from, candy?’ are too cringe. I can’t remember
exactly what my man was saying to me when we first met, but I remember him
being way too funny, relaxed, and a confident man. It’s better to have an easy
going conversation than throwing some pick-up lines and praying to God it will
work. Talk to her like you’re talking to a friend. And ask her interesting
questions, because women like to talk about themselves. She has a feeling
that you want to get to know her, and you are genuinely interested in her.

You see a girl on the beach that looks good and nice? Bring a volleyball, some
of your friends and ask her (and her friends) to play together. There is a less
chance of getting rejected when you and her both are not alone (her friends
might like some of yours etc). Then through a game, show her you are
interested in her. Aim ball at her, smile at her, laugh at her when she misses
(jokingly). Don’t do it ALL THE TIME tho, but enough she can realize you like
her. After the game, approach her. Give her a compliment (we LOVE
compliments). Take it easy. Smile, look her in the eyes and don’t try too hard.
Maybe tease her a little bit, get in those “small fights” so she can get more
interested in you. A fun guy is what she wants!

There are a million other ways you can approach a girl. This course would be
so long if I wrote every single one! But I can’t do everything for you, because
you have to learn it yourself (you will get good at it only then, and you will
always be prepared to approach a girl. When you get good at it, you will see
how it is easy to approach a girl).

We like simplicity. As long as you are not trying way too hard, and you are
talkable - you are fine!

Just like in relationships, when you’re talking to a girl you just approached, you
have to lead the conversation. She needs you to be smarter, funnier than her.
Women don’t (usually) like men who are dumber than her. She gets a feeling
she’s talking to someone way younger than her. She gets the feeling like
you’re a kid (it’s supposed to be the other way around).

After some time of approaching women, you will start to see what DID and
what DIDN’T work. So start upgrading those things which did work, and lose
those who didn’t.

Approach women EVERYDAY. You can’t do it once a month and say there is
no woman for you. All women are for you if you make it that way. The more
you approach, the better you will get better at it. You have to do it, don’t even
think twice about this. DO IT. She doesn’t have to be that pretty, just give it a
try. You have to get over your fears which won’t vanish if you stay at home and
think about being single your whole life.

Instead of complaining about your life - think how to change what bothers you.
Same thing with women. What bothers you about yourself when it comes to
women? Don’t complain about being bad at approaching them - just learn how
to do it and DO IT. No one else will do it for you. You are on your own in life.
It’s not just about reading stuff online. You have to apply them in your real life.
If you read all this, will you just close it and keep playing games on your
phone, look at Instagram all day, or will you dress up, put perfume on, and go
out? Your woman WON’T come to your life. You have to find her by
approaching women.

My man approached me. He could’ve stayed at home and hoped he would

find someone who would fit him perfectly. But he didn't! He went out, saw me,
and approached me.

Who knows, maybe you saw your ideal woman but you won’t have her
because you never approached her? Maybe you lost a chance by not even
trying to do anything. That’s a bad way of doing anything in life. It’s better to
try than fail, than not try at all. Rejection is not bad, it gives you a lesson. You
learned something - That’s a HUGE step!

Don’t let rejection discourage you. If you approach 20 women, at least 1 will
go on a date with you. If you approach 0 women, 0 will go on a date with you.
Can you see my point? Don’t give up if out of 20, 19 said no (or maybe all of
them, that’s fine too!). Be proud of yourself, you did it and even a rejection
didn’t stop you. If 20 women don’t find you attractive, who says the next 20
won’t? You will find out only if you try it.

If you give up before trying, you’re weak. Man up! Don’t be scared of women,
they’re humans. There are worse things than rejections. Imagine if rejection
was the biggest problem in your life? If you’re scared of it - then you HAVE to
do it. Your fears will eat you alive. Be stronger than them. Work everyday on
yourself. You know this one; ‘What doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger.’
Rejection won’t kill you.

So, these are the important steps:

1) Work on yourself everyday

2) Dress and smell good
3) Your body language speaks louder than your words
4) Approach everyday
5) Be simple!
6) Rejection is NOT BAD!
7) Inform yourself about approaching, then apply it everyday
WHAT TO DO ON A FIRST DATE

Let's say you approached a girl, she gave you her number, you talked and
decided to go on a date. Do you remember what I said earlier? Look and
SMELL good! Give her a full experience of your existence.

On a first date, it’s really important to leave a great impression.

Firstly, pay for a date. If she says you don’t have to do it, and fights for a bill,
don’t give up! You’re showing your weakness (it’s usually a test, deeply down,
subconsciously, she wants you to pay for it. Not because she is a materialist,
but a man that pays for a date is usually a man who is dominant,
hard-working, takes care of his girl, gentleman.)

If you are shy, (but you’re working on it), and you want to go somewhere
where it will be easier for you, you can go watch a movie. It’s fine, but I would
suggest you get over your fears and oppose them. You won’t ever get over
them if you always cancel them. Do it now! Going to the movies is better on a
4th, 5th date when you already know something about each other, so you
don’t have that many themes to talk about.

I think it's best to go for a drink. It can last as long as your drink lasts - or
longer! On a first date, if she gets too much of you, what will you give her on a
second date? She needs to want you more after the first date. So don’t be on
the date too long and don’t talk about yourself much. You have to be
mysterious. If she asks you to tell more about yourself, just tell her something
like ‘The more we go on dates, the more you will find out about me.’ This way,
you’re showing her you’re interested in her, and you want to see her again.
And in that way, you will see if she’s interested in that too.

You can go eat on a first date, but I think that’s too much. Most women are shy
when it comes to eating in front of a man. It’s stupid, but it’s true. You want her
to feel comfortable. If SHE says she wants to eat somewhere, then it’s great!
Go eat! But you, as a man, have to decide where you will go. Start simple!
Have a drink, go for a walk, go for ice cream. Something where you will be
doing more talking than anything else.
It’s important to talk all the time. Don’t get to the phase where both of you are
quiet and don’t know what to say. It makes you both uncomfortable and you
may both lose interest. Talk about anything, literally make her laugh, but show
her you’re a serious man, and not some kid. Your emotions pass on her, so
relax! She can feel your energy.

So, I hope you realize now how easy it can be to approach a girl. But as I
already said, it depends on you. How serious will you take this? Will you work
on this everyday? Will you let rejections stop you from approaching more
women?

Working on your game, daily, is the key. Flirt with women often. You are in the
market? Flirt a bit with a pretty cashier. Nothing too much, just something to
make her smile. You will see how easy it is to get a woman’s attention.
Compliments are everything to us. Flirting is like a game to us. So do it!

To be good at something, you have to practice. Don’t be afraid to fail, because

that way you won’t ever succeed. Once you start doing it every day, you’ll get
better at it.

When you exit this course, I want you to throw on some nice clothes, put on
nice perfume, and go out. With friends or alone, it doesn’t matter. Just
approach someone.

Have fun!

Lovers’ Guide.