THE

HOW TO GET ANYTHING

5 GUIDE
5 STEP

FROM ANYONE
GET A 'YES' FOR THAT PROPOSAL OR IDEA

At the start of anything you want to do, you'll feel inadequate and you'll
stumble along making mistakes. Having someone to guide you or assist
you can accelerate your growth and change your whole life. There are
many people you come into contact with online and in your life, people
with influence or resources to help you. You can lose a major opportunity
just by the way you initiate the conversation when you meet the person.
It is possible to get what you want if you know how to ask for what it is
that you want.

I will show you how to stop your current strategy, prepare yourself for
encounters, package your presentation and ask for what you want with
higher chances of receiving it from the person you are interested in. You
can use this to convince them to buy from you, mentor you or help you in
any way you want.

Graduating both in the classroom and in the streets Banele

Rewo is an Entrepreneur with many failed businesses in 10
years before finding his success. He has worked in the
streets, corporate and creative industry for over 15 years.
All these fails and wins have built a teacher, leader and
inspiration to thousands of young men and women who
appreciate his life-changing coaching focused on business,
relationships and mental health for men.
BANELE REWO
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1 BEGGING TO LOSE
As South Africans or Africans in general, we have UBUNTU, always willing to help and humbly expect
help from people who can. As with everything, we find ourselves abusing people’s generosity by
expecting from them based on the mere fact that we want or need them to. We are quick to critique
people who reject our pleas for help and see them as cruel, greedy or selfish. What you may not be
realising is that you are the one being more selfish when you are begging for help from another person
because whatever it is you are begging for requires the person to act on your behalf and for your
benefit. This is what you are doing when you are begging for someone to help you with anything

They must set aside time to attend to you

They must allocate resources like money to give you
They must spend energy on your needs for your benefit.

You are essentially asking them to serve you. No matter how noble your cause is, ultimately it is for you
than them.

2 PREPARE YOURSELF TO
APPROACH.

If you are a man, you know that approaching a woman is all about your manner of approach. Your aim
should be to demonstrate why they should pay you the attention you want. Craft your approach and
wording in a way that shows you know a bit about them or have paid attention to them before they even
knew you existed. For you to do that you need to

Know what they do, and get as many facts as you can about what they do and how it connects to you
or what you want to do.
Point out one thing they do that you like that will show that you are indeed someone who has been
following their progress. The best scenario is highlighting a little-known fact about them, maybe
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Identify exactly how you can contribute to what they do if they were to agree to help you.
Be professional in how you interact with them, they are not familiar with you even though you have
been familiar with them for a while, they do not know you like you know them
Introduce yourself and immediately tell them what you do so they can connect why you are
approaching them even before you tell them why you are telling them.

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3 INTRODUCTION

SCENARIO: YOU ARE A FASHION DESIGNER AND WANT TO ASSOCIATE, COLLABORATE OR WORK
FOR ANOTHER FASHION DESIGNER.

(IF YOU MEET THEM IN PERSON, EMAIL or TEXT)

Hi, my name is Banele Rewo, congratulations on your recent award, it’s great to see you being recognised after 7
years since you started with that first collection ‘the street wear’ back in 2013 it inspires me as a fashion designer
myself.

What you have just done here is show that you acknowledge their current activity and are aware of how they
have always been destined to be where they are. This is flattering, you spoke about them more than about you
but never missed the opportunity to mention what you do. At this point they now know you are in their tribe,
you are one of ‘them’. That makes anyone comfortable knowing they are meeting someone who loves what they
love.

(IF YOU GOT THEIR NUMBER FROM SOMEONE ELSE)

If you got contact details from someone else. Ask the person to send the target a message with the text like -

Heita, there is a good friend of mine who’d like to send you a single message on email or text and will not contact
you again if you are not interested and you do not have to respond.

It’s likely that they could agree because the request is asking for nothing from them except to give the smallest
possible attention, no money, no use of too much energy no robbing them of time.

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Hi, my name is Banele Rewo, I asked for your number from X and asked him/her to alert you that I will contact you. I
am a fashion designer specialising in streetwear. I use specialised materials and new forms of design that no other
designer uses, I would like to incorporate my designs onto one of your designs at no cost to you, this could take your
collection into the next season.

You have just introduced yourself and what you do to build that connection with the target in the most concise
way possible. Remember you have only one message and you don’t want to waste any of their time. They could
be reading this message while busy with something, they only have less than 3 seconds to decide to keep on
reading. All they have been given here is the simple choice to say YES/NO in their minds before they can reply
to you. The way you have presented this is leaving them no choice but to say YES because you are giving them
something. They are agreeing to get a gift.

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4 THE BIG ASK
In the BIG ASK you have to make it easy for them to give by making the process of you getting
as effortless as possible for them to almost feel like they will not take any physical action. You
set it up in a way that the only action they need to take is just to say YES OR NO. Remember
that you have already made them say yes in their minds on the previous step.

I will be around your area/shop on Tuesday or Friday I can pick up the garment and return it after I
work on it on by next Monday for you to judge my work and we can discuss how you would like to move
forward from that point.

You have just taken it upon yourself to do the hard work of logistics, asked to be given a garment
for free, and return it within a specified time demonstrating your efficiency and speed. That means
they have not lost money, they have not spent energy. All they did was say YES, to get a gift from
you a good stranger who is committed to working.

What did you get?

Introduction to your hero

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Ignited anticipation of a gift
Potential collaboration on the cards

You wait for a reply then send your biggest card. Even if they say to you they will be happy to give
you the garment but they want to charge you for it. You shoot back...

If you are not happy with the work I will pay for the gift 100% retail price, if not, I can only afford for
now, to just pay the cost price instead of the retail price and if you love it you can keep it as a gift no
cost for my work and effort.

Here you have just added a guarantee that they will get money for the garment if they don't like
your work. You are not a chance taker or a thief. You may not have the money yet but you will have
to make sure that you put in your best work possible because if not, you will cost yourself.
Unfortunately, you cannot take risks without the possible cost of losing.

Worst case scenario you have not impressed them and they do not like the work you did. You offer
to come back again to collect the garment and pay for it. You then to have to find the money to
pay for the garment BUT!

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5 THE REJECTION

What will you get for this disappointment?

You have the opportunity to create a video where you are leaving your house to collect the
garment (make sure you did document the first pick-up but did not post) the second time you have
an opportunity to meet the person again, giving you a chance to state your case again.

Come back with the garment, take proper photos and post on your socials and tell a positive story
about how you took the task of converting a garment from well-known designers.

Do not mention that they rejected it

Do not tag them or try to get their attention
Keep is as positive experience.
Try again with another designer and show that you have worked on a project for another
designer
Name drop in boardrooms not in public
Use it in your portfolio.
You do this a couple of times more you gain free schooling on how to improve, you gain
familiarity with big names, you have a portfolio with relatively big names at some point you
will have an impressive portfolio even though they were 'NO's

You can do this with any company or sector. Each time you get a rejection you add another big
name to your collection or portfolio.

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