Thanks for having interest in my sub slave Lilan.

She has been a well trained slave

and obedient one i trained, she just completed her training. planning to take her
submission i promise, you won't regret it. taking her submission will cost you $500
for a contract agreement form (paperwork) after payment it will be sent to you for
certifying and signing. only that will prompt her submission to you and relocate
with you Master Marc within 24hours to your preferred location.

I am serious about my search for a slave and would consider you further if you can
follow My rules. I believe in Discipline and Kinks. I am very serious about
Dominating you. I think you should be mature and honest,and know how to serve and
treat a Goddess like me. I am a Versatile Domme of Class, Distinction &
Sophistication with the experience of unparalleled Domination and alluring control.

I promise, you won't regret it. taking your submission. I am very serious about
Dominating you. I think you should be mature and honest,and know how to serve and
treat a Goddess like me..

will cost you $200 for a contract agreement form (paperwork) after you make the
payment the contract agreement form will be sent to you for certifying and
signing. only that you will prompt your submission to you and relocate to
yourcountry

I have more than what it takes to make you my slave because I am gifted with a
wealthy knowledge and understanding of the Psychological and Physical aspects of
the S/M B&D Lifestyle.

I am very serious about Dominating you. I think you should be mature and honest,and
know how to serve and treat a Goddess like me.. I am very adventurous and
experienced, and I would like to take you on a journey of a lifetime (long term) if
you prove worthy of my Supremacy. I am serious about my search for a slave and
would consider you further if you can follow My rules. I believe in Discipline and
Kinks. I am a Versatile Domme of Class, Distinction & Sophistication with the
experience of unparalleled Domination and alluring control. I am Well versed from
Sensual & Provocative to Strict & Merciless. It all depends on my understanding of
My slave and what urges I feel My slave and I have in common.

I have more than what it takes to make you my slave because I am gifted with a
wealthy knowledge and understanding of the Psychological and Physical aspects of
the S/M B&D Lifestyle.

You must be Obedient,Honest, Trustworthy, Loyal, Submissive, Slut,Pamperer,

Respectful. I will train you to exhibit all these characteristics with STRICT
training and Domination. I will take total control of your being and existence, as
your only aim and goal in Life will be to please me.

Do you like STRICT training and Domination ?

I have more than what it takes to make you my slave because I am gifted with a
wealthy knowledge and understanding of the Psychological and Physical aspects of
the S/M B&D Lifestyle.You must be Obedient,Honest, Trustworthy, Loyal, Submissive,
Slut,Pamperer, Respectful. I will train you to exhibit all these characteristics
with STRICT training and Domination. I will take total control of your being and
existence, as your only aim and goal in Life will be to please me. Although when
out together,you will be more like a friend than a slave. You will have to be very
good with your tongue because it will always be at work, either licking up my wet
pussy or my nectar. I will get you a special leash and collar, which i will use to
walk you around and tie you up when i don't want you laundering and whenever you
disobey.i know you may find this embarrassing at first,but this frank and
forthright exchange will allow both of us to feel confident about the activity and
to understand our needs. Due to the vast range of activities and intensities that
are possible in bondage play and fetish sex, i have realistic expectations and the
anticipated acts will be enjoyable to you and I.I will like us to base this D/s
relationship on Trust and Honesty, this should be our foundation,and i believe the
sky will be the limits.. I know time will tell if you are truly willing and will be
loyal to me. Your mistress.attitude is more important to me than physical type or
appearance. I want a submissive who is honest, is capable of trusting me, and who
has a strong desire for power exchange. I have had submissives with all levels of
experience.

Does anyone know about your kinky lifestyle?

Have you ever been a slave?.If yes,how many women have you served?.how long did you
serve?.why did you leave your previous mistress?

A legal style document to help you negotiate and define your power exchange
dynamic. and that will cost you $200 for a contract agreement form (paperwork)
after payment it will be sent to you for certifying and signing..As a practicing
sex therapist and person who lives this lifestyle I admire your detail and work
regarding contracts The BDSM Contract

Here are some guidelines:

A Tribute � some online Mistresses will require a tribute before considering you.
This is their fee for time taken to go over your slave application (if they have
one) and to determine whether you are a worthy consideration. It�s a way for the
slave applicant to show good faith and it it�s also the Mistress�s way of weeding
out insincere applicants and time wasters.

The tribute fee is usually minimal ranging from $5 to $25, but some do charge as
much as $300. Note, you should not expect to get anything in return for the tribute
other than for the Mistress to consider you. The tribute is not refundable and does
not guarantee the Mistress will ever contact you. Take it as an application fee.
Many Mistresses don�t require any tribute.

When looking for a BDSM relationship or hookup online, please be aware of online
scammers. As with any dating scene, there are trustworthy members and then there
are the bad apples you need to look out for. Here are some tips to avoid being
scammed:

Choose a reputable BDSM dating site � But don�t rely on the site to keep you safe.
Even if a site is reputable, an unscrupulous member may try to take advantage of
you. Although a dating site may have strong measures to keep out/ban scammers, they
can�t control every single interaction between their members. Take the
responsibility onto yourself to stay cautious. Here are some sites you may like to
try:

Fetlife.com � whilst not a dating site, it�s a great place to meet like-minded
people and make connections.

Vanilla-Umbrella.com � a discreet BDSM Fetish Kink dating mobile app. This app has
safeguards in place including one account per device (to avoid fake profiles) and
does not allow findom (financial domination) or other money exchanges including
prodomme services. It�s for those genuinely interested in meeting, dating, chatting
with like-minded people.

Local is safer � Scammers like long distance relationships as it reduces their

likelihood of getting caught. If you want to meet a real partner or lover, staying
local is probably your best bet. Don�t forget your offline options too. These
include local munch meetings, kink communities and events. You can still come up
against scammers but at least you�ll get the chance to meet them in person and to
build some trust. If you need help, don�t be afraid to reach out to someone. Many
kinksters will be happy to help you, especially if you feel you�re in trouble.

Being asked for money � Do not wire any money to someone you�ve only met online.
There are Mistresses, Doms and even Babydolls out there who demand or request money
without ever intending to meet you, make a connection with you or to provide you
with any service. If they are genuine and they are asking for money from the
outset, be prepared that this will continue throughout the relationship. If you do
wish to entertain such a relationship, test the person. Start with very small
amounts you are prepared to part with as �gifts� and see how their trustworthiness
develops. Don�t start with exorbitant amounts. Never expect your money back or
anything in return when you are asked for money online. It is always a risk.

Here are some guidelines:

A Tribute � some online Mistresses will require a tribute before considering you.
This is their fee for time taken to go over your slave application (if they have
one) and to determine whether you are a worthy consideration. It�s a way for the
slave applicant to show good faith and it it�s also the Mistress�s way of weeding
out insincere applicants and time wasters.

The tribute fee is usually minimal ranging from $5 to $25, but some do charge as
much as $300. Note, you should not expect to get anything in return for the tribute
other than for the Mistress to consider you. The tribute is not refundable and does
not guarantee the Mistress will ever contact you. Take it as an application fee.
Many Mistresses don�t require any tribute.

Upfront Fees for being Dominated

I receive a lot of emails fr

om slaves/submissives AFTER they have made payment and their self-proclaimed Domme
never shows in person or online again, despite repeated promises before the money
is received. Sadly, some payments were in the thousands.

There is no such thing as �blind trust� when negotiating a dynamic or scene. A D-

type, and yes, including Mistresses and Pro Dommes, need to earn trust. These are
some of your options:

If you�re looking for a session in person, don�t pay the money online up front.
Advise the Domme you are interested in her services, however you require to meet in
person first to ensure you are suited to each other. It would be appropriate to pay
her fee for meeting you (a reasonable amount for a 1 to 2 hour �session�). This
payment can be done in person by cash at the time of the meeting. If the Domme
refuses, this is a good indication she will renege on any promises to meet you in
person.
If you�re looking for or are restricted to finding an online Mistress � the
financial request may be for a sum of money or for �purchase of toys� for your
session. You can send her the money � but make sure you are ok with never seeing it
again. She could end up domming you online and purchasing the toys she promises to
buy or she may just take your money and run. There are a lot of scammers, even on
the beloved and trusted FetLife�.so, that is the risk you take. You could perhaps
send it by PayPal, which may offer you some protection, but that is NOT guaranteed.
You could also vet her by asking to speak with prior subs/slaves and/or seeing her
longer term profile activity/interactions on reputable sites. You can never be too
cautious; it is your right and responsibility to be cautious, so please don�t ever
feel guilty for that.
If you�re looking for a romantic, long term connection � this can be much harder to
find online. You�ll need to be patient and be prepared to put in the work to find a
genuine Dominant looking for a long term Female Led Relationship (FLR). You�ll need
to sift through the myriad of online Mistresses looking for payment for providing
professional services, online paypigs and victims to scam. BUT, but it�s not
impossible. Even if you do decide to be a paypig, I know of one case where a paypig
slave ended up being permanently collared by his financial Dominatrix and lives
with her for several years now. But, I wouldn�t be entertaining this gamble. You
are better off joining sites like Fetlife.com, making connections and looking for
those who are searching for the same connection.
A Contract Fee or Commitment Fee

They often call it a �contract fee� or a �commitment fee�. These are scams. There
is no way of getting your money back after you send it (whether you pay by credit
card or you deposit money into their personal account). If you want to book a BDSM
session with a prodomme in Her dungeon, that�s a different story. Although, we do
suggest you pay in person and, unless you�ve had dealings with the prodomme before
and you�ve built some trust, only pay for one session at a time.

A good example�.

Recently a slave wrote to us asking whether he was liable to pay Mistress�s

�contract termination fee�, as She called it. The slave had met Mistress online
(never in person). She had required an upfront payment (few thousand dollars) to
enter into a Contract which She had sent to slave by email. Under the Contract,
they were meant to meet in person for several sessions. The slave signed Her
contract and sent the money. After She received payment, Mistress reneged on Her
promise to meet the slave and also never signed the Contract Herself. A few months
later, this Mistress proceeded to tell slave that he must pay another sum of money
in order to be set free from the Contract he signed. Of course, he did not owe ANY
obligations to this so-called Mistress. However, she had manipulated him to the
stage where he felt unsure.

The moral of the story? If someone (even a prodomme) asks you for money or gift
cards before meeting you in person, don�t fall for it. It�s sure to be a scam and
you�ll most likely never see your money again, not even if they say it�s
�refundable�. Who are you going to complain to if they decide not to refund your
money? As for BDSM dating, last time I checked, dating someone is still free, so
anybody wanting money to be your online Mistress/Master, that�s a scam!

Aside from asking you for money to enter into some form of contract or
relationship, scammers like to play on your sympathy. They�ll tell you they need
your help for an emergency or they need money for their sick relatives or even
needing money to come and see you. Don�t send them any money please.

Personal details � Do not reveal your phone number, address or other

personal/contact details unless you�ve met someone in person and developed a sense
of trust. When meeting in person for the first time, choose a public place.

Do some research � Try searching for the person�s username or title (e.g.
Master/Mistress xyz) or their surname into a search engine. See whether they�ve
been reported for scams before. You could even copy and paste the content of their
message into the search field. They might be sending a standard scam message to
lots of potential victims. Another way to research a scammer is to use their photo.
Upload it to tineye.com or Google Goggles to see where else it appears. They may
have stolen it from someone random or from a model.

Avoid a computer virus � As with any message you receive, be careful about the
attachments you open from someone you�ve never met. It could be a virus.

Are you chatting up a bot? � If the person you�re messaging always responds
immediately or within 10 minutes then it could be a bot.

We hope this gives you some guidance about dealing with scammers in the BDSM online
dating world. You can find more tips and resources about keeping safe online by
doing a web search. Use your common sense and ask yourself why does this person
want this from me?

Also, we have discovered that some of these scrupulous Dominants are using a
contract which has our website name on the top. These are not our Contracts forms
and we are not associated with such persons in any way. If you didn�t get the
contract from our site, it�s probably a fake. Please note our BDSM Contract Forms
are designed for couples who are or intend to start a relationship without any
requirement for payment or compensation. Our contract templates are intended to
help couples negotiate and grow their bond, they are not a fee-for-a-service type
contract. We are not associated with any person or product that requires payment in
order to have a D/s relationship with you. We suggest you cut off all communication
with such persons and report them to the police.

All the best.

The BDSM Contract

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