This document discusses how childhood trauma can lead to "basic anxiety" and influence personality development. It describes how people adjust to basic anxiety in three ways: moving towards people through clinginess, moving away through detachment, or moving against people through aggression. These adjustments can create an "idealized self" different from one's real self. The document also outlines therapeutic approaches to help patients discover their adjustment techniques, work through externalization, and progress towards self-realization and their real self.
This document discusses how childhood trauma can lead to "basic anxiety" and influence personality development. It describes how people adjust to basic anxiety in three ways: moving towards people through clinginess, moving away through detachment, or moving against people through aggression. These adjustments can create an "idealized self" different from one's real self. The document also outlines therapeutic approaches to help patients discover their adjustment techniques, work through externalization, and progress towards self-realization and their real self.
This document discusses how childhood trauma can lead to "basic anxiety" and influence personality development. It describes how people adjust to basic anxiety in three ways: moving towards people through clinginess, moving away through detachment, or moving against people through aggression. These adjustments can create an "idealized self" different from one's real self. The document also outlines therapeutic approaches to help patients discover their adjustment techniques, work through externalization, and progress towards self-realization and their real self.
Wounded Healer Child starts life with a feeling of helplessness relative to the powerful parent. Two basic child needs (Karen Horney) • Safety (stability): security and freedom from fear • Satisfaction (happiness): food, water, shelter, and sleep
clingy • Need for Affection and Approval – Butuh dikasihi • Need for a Partner Who Will Run One's Life – Butuh dikuasai • Need to Live One's Life within Narrow Limits – Isolasi diri
Adjustments to Basic Anxiety Moving away from People (the Detached Type – Withdrawal) – Need for Self-Sufficiency and Independence – Need for Perfection and Unassailability – Need to Live One's Life within Narrow Limits
Adjustments to Basic Anxiety Moving against People (the Hostile Type – Aggression) – Need for Power – Need to Exploit Others – Need for Social Recognition and Prestige – Need for Personal Admiration – Need for Ambition and Personal Achievement
Luka Batin dan Kepribadiaan Palsu Real and Idealized Self – Each person has an ideal Real Self • Living in accordance with Real Self leads to Self- Realization • Basic evil leads to creation of the Idealized Self • Tyranny of the Should (Life directed by unrealistic self-image) Externalization – Internal processes experienced as if they are outside the Self – Related to projection but more comprehensive – Leads to overvaluing and dependency on external factors Auxiliary Approaches to Artificial Harmony Living according to idealized self-image leads to series of lies Seven unconscious devices used by neurotics – Blind Spots: Ignoring factors not in accordance with Idealized Self – Compartmentalization: Situational rules and ethics – Rationalization: Logical, plausible justifications, and excuses. – Excessive Self-Control: Controlling expression of emotion. – Arbitrary Rightness: rigid dogmatism. – Elusiveness: Indecision and lack of commitment. – Cynicism: Failure to believe in anything. Therapy Psychotherapy – Used to discover which adjustment technique a client was using – Greater interest in transference as due to adjustment technique – Externalization as an obstacle to therapy Goals of therapy – Bring patient back to Real Self – Guide patients toward Self-Realization Self-Analysis – Essential to become an effective therapist