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RELATIONSHIPS
By Sabrina Bendory
Updated May 2, 2023
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Being objective means being a bit removed from the
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situation, mentally and emotionally. You have to be
able to think about the real relationship
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there in front of you, not the fantasy relationship
you’re hoping for. This means not getting overly
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invested in a guy before he’s totally invested in you.
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This isn’t just for the distant future, it’s for the near
future as well.
If he’s hot and cold it’s because he’s not sure about
you, and if he’s not sure about you he’s not serious
about you.
It’s only when a guy is unsure of you that you feel like
you have to measure everything you say and do—like
you can’t just express your thoughts but instead have
to filter them in order to make them align with what
you think he wants to hear. When this is happening,
you try to mold yourself into the kind of woman you
think he wants.
Final Thoughts
So, remain objective by taking the relationship for
what it is right now, not what you want it to be. If you
see these 13 signs it means he’s not serious about
you, and you wanting it to be otherwise isn’t going to
change that.
Sabrina Bendory
Sabrina Bendory is a writer and entrepreneur. She is the
author of You’re Overthinking It, a definitive book on
dating and self-love.
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