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What It Means to Be
Aromantic
People who are aromantic do not
experience romantic attraction
By Kendra Cherry Updated on October 17, 2022
Table of Contents
DeKnition
Characteristics
Aromantic Spectrum
Relationships
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Characteristics of
Aromanticism
Everyone’s experience is unique, so feelings
about romance and relationships can vary
greatly among aromantic people. Some may
have diCerent desires and expectations for
physical and emotional intimacy. There is no
standardized deKnition of what constitutes
romance, so one person's deKnition may diCer
from someone else’s.
Aromantic Spectrum
Both asexuality and aromanticism are part of
what is known as the asexual spectrum
identities. [5] While many aromantic people are
also asexual, people with various sexual
identities may also describe themselves as
aromantic. For example, a person may describe
themselves as an aromantic bisexual, an
aromantic lesbian, or an aromantic gay
man. [6]
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Gray-romantic or gray-sexual
gray-sexual: These
terms refer to individuals who fall
somewhere in the middle of aromantic
and romantic and asexual and sexual.
They may experience some romantic or
sexual feelings but only under certain
conditions.
Demiromantic or demisexual
demisexual: These
terms refer to people who only experience
romantic or sexual feelings with another
person after forming an emotional bond.
Lithromantic or akoiromantic :
These terms refer to people who may feel
romantic feelings toward other people but
do not wish for those feelings to be
returned. If those feelings are
reciprocated, the attraction fades.
Recipromantic or reciprosexual
reciprosexual: These
terms refer to individuals who only
experience a romantic or sexual attraction
if they know that the other person also
feels the same way.
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Challenges
Societal expectations can create challenges for
people who identify as aromantic. There is a
tremendous amount of societal pressure on
people to Knd a partner, commit, and have
children. People who don’t desire that are often
pressured to settle down, get married, and
have kids anyway. Those who don't are often
made to feel that there is something wrong
with them or that they are missing out.
Amatonormativity
Amatonormativity is a term that has been
coined to describe society’s expectations
concerning romance. It has been used to
describe the pressure to Knd and prioritize
romance, marriage, and monogamy. [7]
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Don’t be dismissive
dismissive: Remember that
people understand themselves and their
own feelings better than you ever can.
Don’t dismiss what they feel or insist that
they’ll change how they feel. Don’t try to
push people into romantic situations they
are not interested in.
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By Kendra Cherry
Kendra Cherry, MS, is an author and
educational consultant focused on
helping students learn about psychology.
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