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APPROVAL SHEET
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ABSTRACT
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ACKNOWLEDGMENT
First of all, we researchers would like to thank the Almighty God for His
and mentor, Sir Arnick T. Tampoy, for his patience, motivation, and immense
accomplish this study, and for their encouragement and inspiration to us all
throughout, a very special thank you for your parental presence and constant
guidance.
We would also like to thank our fellow classmates and friends for
stimulating discussions, for the sleepless nights we were working together for
deadlines, and for all the fun we have had over the last five months.
Finally, we would like to express our gratitude to all those who have
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
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TITLE PAGE i
APPROVAL SHEET ii
ABSTRACT iii
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT iv
TALE OF CONTENTS v
CHAPTER
1 INTRODUCTION
Research Questions 3
Theoretical Lens 4
Definition of Terms 10
3 METHODS
Research Design 26
Research Participants 28
Data Sources 29
Data Analysis 31
Ethical Considerations 36
4 RESULTS
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5 DISCUSSIONS
Concluding Remarks 88
REFERENCES
APPENDICES
C Transcriptions 129
CURRICULUM VITAE
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Chapter 1
INTRODUCTION
significant life event that can profoundly impact children's mental, financial,
and overall well-being, especially young adults. A study in China by Lan and
conducted in South Korea by Park and Lee (2020) found that divorce and
drinking, using drugs, spending long hours per week of internet use, and
having less physical activity; and mental health indicators include depression,
The results were that young adults experienced more disadvantages from
for parental support and delinquency; other young adults showed a range of
Researchers have observed that some couples still have failed marriages
in the local region, specifically in Tagum City, mainly due to too much conflict and
arguing. Because of that, they go through parental separation. Also, through our
financial problems because both parents are giving financial aid to their children
It was evident from the previous study above that the effects of parental
separation focus mainly on young adults’ mental health and behavior. However,
less research has been conducted on the financial well‐being of young adults
whose parents are separated (Utkarsh et al., 2020). Likewise, She et al. (2022)
stated that financial well-being among young adults is an emerging and important
field of research. Thus, this study could help fill this gap by exploring the ongoing
adults who are victims of parental separation is required to understand better the
specific issues they confront and the issues they carry with them. Research is
crucial on this topic to elucidate the effects of parental alienation on young adults’
financial well-being and identify the potential adverse effects. The researchers
urge the need for the conduct of this study to not only create a groundwork for
further research on the subject but also to provide local insight into the young
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adults’ perspective regarding this matter and, finally, to enable
institutions and other agencies to create programs in line with the study.
financial well-being. This study also aims to understand their emotional and
psychological well-being from being financially unstable. The study will also
aid in our better understanding of the challenges faced by young adults whose
Research Questions
whose parents had separated. This study will concentrate on their viewpoint
aim, the following questions are particularly what the researchers hope to
answer:
(1) What are the experiences of young adults regarding financial problems
(2) How do they cope with financial problems as young adults who experience
parental separation?
(3) What are the insights young adults have gained from their experience of
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Theoretical Lens
M. Danes. According to FFST, what and how children learn about money from
their parents while growing up will be associated with their financial well-being
between parents and children occurs within the family through unintentional
hear their parents discussing money issues, they learn about money
cognitive theory asserts that environmental influences young adults have had
throughout their life shape their attitudes and knowledge (Bandura, 1986). As
young adults learn over the years through social interaction (Bandura, 1986),
they begin to understand and form their attitudes and knowledge about
finances. Thus, because parents are the key influence in children’s lives as
they grow, the positive and negative financial attitudes and knowledge young
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adults have about money are primarily influenced by their parents (Förster et.
Al, 2019).
In this study, the two fundamental theories that will direct the
Gudmunson and Danes’ Family Financial Socialization Theory from 2011 and
Bandura’s Social Cognitive Theory from 1986. Both theories propose that
individuals learn and develop their behaviors through observing and modeling
This study will utilize the said theories to help explain some of the
the young adults may have internalized these beliefs and behaviors, making it
Another theoretical perspective that this study will glean through, is the
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& Schrodt, 2014). A conformity orientation, on the other hand, references “the
attitudes, values, and beliefs” (Koerner & Fitzpatrick, 2002). Additionally, the
FCP theory explains how families communicate with each other and how it
(Moschis et al. 1984). Mugenda et al. (1990) also have shown how family
(2014), families with high conversation orientation tend to have open and
Fitzpatrick, 2002), which may lead to resistance to change and new financial
practices. Thus, the way parents set up communication habits and patterns in
Lastly, this study will also utilize the Family Stress Theory which will
also serve as a framework for this study. The Family Stress Theory (FST) was
developed by Reuben Hill in 1949 and posits that families often face acute
stressors that affect their capacity for adaptation. According to Hill (1958),
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there is a pattern to the formation of a family crisis: A (the event or a stressful
family, which can help it reduce impact when facing a stressor.) interacting
crisis).
In this study, the Family Stress Theory (FST) is used in this study to
provide a framework for comprehending how the stress and strain of parental
separation can cause young adults financial issues. The ABC-X model of
Hill’s (1949) Family Stress Theory can be used to understand that when
series of negative events that affect the family's functioning and ultimately
Xu (2020), Hill’s ABC-X model of family stress is the foundation of the current
strain, and young adults' financial outcomes. FFST focuses on the role of
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understanding how the stress and strain resulting from parental separation
This study is limited to emerging adults who are aged 18 years old and
who had experienced parental separation from childhood ages 7-12 years old.
This scope could gain insights of how this factor may affect the severity of the
Moreover, this study will explore the financial well-being and financial
challenges faced by young adults. Also, this research may also explore how
these financial difficulties can have adverse effects on the emotional and
researchers to learn more about how being financially unstable can affect a
Finally, this study will be conducted locally in Tagum City, Davao Del
Norte, Philippines. The local was chosen since it was found that there are
will include conducting in-depth interviews (IDI) with nine (9) participants and
organizing focus group discussions (FGD) with seven (7) participants. The
responses in their own words. The study’s findings would be limited to the
sample studied and may will not be generalized to all young adults who have
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Importance of the Study
parental separation at a young age was the subject of this study. The
researchers believe that this study will not only yield data that will be helpful to
understanding of their own relationship with money. They may discover that
they have certain beliefs and behaviors around money that were shaped by
This study could help parents who are going through or have gone
through a separation to identify areas where they could have done better or
where they could improve going forward. As the research provides insight into
the experiences of young adults, the parents may realize that they need to
prioritize financial stability for their children, and this understanding can help
To society, this study could help them be aware that this phenomenon
is prevalent and can gain a deeper understanding of the impact that parental
can help society become more sympathetic towards young adults confronting
plan and carry out more effective policies to support young adults going
through this difficult process. The government can learn more about how well
current social programs and policies work by looking into the experiences of
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young adults who are having financial difficulties as a result of parent
that resources are being used in the most efficient and effective manner
possible.
for further similar studies and can be used as related literature. They can
conclusion.
Definition of Terms
In this study, the researchers define divorce as two married couple that
financial situation including the ability to meet current expenses from current
income, save, maintain debt at sustainable levels, deal with financial problems,
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adults’ financial status or situation, wherein young adults are in control of their
own finances because their parents failed to give them financial support.
separation is living in a household that does not include both parents, which
parents do not live in the same household, but their children stay at the house
defined as a person who is in his or her late teenage years or early twenties.
age of 18 that have experienced parental separation at the age of 7-12 years
old.
This research endeavor is divided into five (5) chapters. For further
separation. This chapter will cite related studies across the globe. It will also
include the purpose of the study, research questions, theoretical lens, the
study’s scope and limitation, the importance of the study, and the definition of
terms.
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Chapter 2 presents a preview of related literature and studies of the
authors/sources.
Chapter 5 ends the research study by discussing the themes that have
been picked out from the data collected through interviews and are supported
present the conclusion and what the researchers have drawn on the
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Chapter 2
Divorce/Parental separation
This section of the related literature review stated the definition and
phenomenon as well as the prevalence of this issue, it will also explore the
Divorce/separation can occur for a variety of reasons, but some happen more
causes why some couples end up divorcing. In general, there are many
different reasons for divorce, some of which may be relatively minor while
others may not. What is important to one couple going through a divorce
cohabitation. One of the most affected participants in the divorce drama is the
Lcsw (2022), most parents who choose to be divorced don't give their
child's upbringing and their children's economic and social security in society.
2 times more likely to live in poverty and engage in risky sexual behavior as
they get older (D'Onofrio & Emery, 2019). Estimates suggest that children
behavior issues. They showed how the degree of parental relationship quality
affects the large variance in the effects of parental divorce. They demonstrate
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harms young children. In fact, they imply that they suffer from greater
households. Their findings also suggest that in order to lessen the negative
young adults whose parents are separated on their mental health and attitude.
Since this study also focuses on how parental separation or divorce affects
young adults' mental health and attitudes, researchers have connected the
household can be challenging and stressful for young adults, who are in the
process of developing their own identity and making important life decisions
years, during which there are key developmental tasks that allow the young
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more recent research, children who have experienced parental divorce
worried), problems with peers (e.g. playing alone or being bullied by other
What is more, divorce is one of the most stressful life experiences and
can significantly negatively impact many aspects of the lives of the people
problems and behavioral problems (D'Onofrio & Emery, 2019), and it can also
cause a child to lose their mental stability, financial security, and daily
al., 2019).
itself a risk factor for problem behavior in children according to Xerxa et al.,
separation or by the family conflict, which both increases the risk of separation
2021). A study from the Arizona State University Research and Education
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engage in conflict. Children's anxiety about abandonment is a sign of future
salient stressor for kids, and the link between exposure to interparental
conflict and mental health problems in children is well established across all
parent would feel less fear of abandonment and mental health issues because
the financial literacy and behavior of young adults and how parental
separation can affect their knowledge and attitude toward money. Additionally,
as financial literacy. Financial literacy is the starting point for a connection with
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proven that there is a relationship between financial literacy and parental
Additionally, Putri et al., (2020) stated that the factors that influence the
parents are separated greatly impacted their financial literacy. For instance, if
separation when they grow up and become young adults, they would not
know how to save money and will lack financial education. As parents are key
being including households, society, nations as well as around the world can
(2021) assert that financial well-being is both directly and indirectly tied to
financial behavior and that financial behavior has a direct impact on financial
well-being. Morris et al., (2022) also stated that financial confidence plays a
crucial role in explaining financial behavior and that learning capacity explains
financial confidence.
adults whose parents are separated reveal the role of attitude toward money
for educational and financial institutions and policymakers for improving the
financial management can trigger financial problems and stress for young
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adults whose parents are separated (Guan et al., 2022). When young adults
enter college, many young adults who are experiencing parental separation
face their first financial obligations, such as paying bills, budgeting, and
establishing credit (Aydin & Selcuk, 2019). Financial knowledge and attitude
Young Adults,” parents are the first and leading socialization agents for young
children. Their research aims to examine how much parental influence there
is on financial literacy, and the direct and indirect effects of financial literacy
influence their choice to invest. The findings of their study suggest that
Family structure
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education, and financial well-being. It also talks about how necessary for a
people reside in intact homes, often families with a married mother and father
and children, while some families also include two mothers or two fathers and
children who do not live with both biological parent’s fare somewhat worse on
a variety of outcomes than those who do. In the study conducted by Schaan
et al. (2019), they investigated if young adults with divorced parents are at risk
structure has a long-term impact on how parents feel about their financial
parents were less likely to concur that parents should provide financial
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about economic support than two-biological-parent families, but their attitudes
significant for their kids, especially in young adults' lives. Therefore, this
section will highlight how parents' financial support for young adults whose
finances.
Parents' financial support can play a crucial role in the lives of young
capacity of the parents to provide financially the needs of the young adult
revealed that students were more motivated when they are financially
fact that having parents who provide financial support, not all parents can
provide financial support, which adds stress and helps with emotional
calculated after taking into account other relevant elements, financial aid may
indicate that adult offspring of resource-rich parents are more likely due to
responsible for financial saving and spending habits, and talk about financial
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choice-making (Lowe and Arnett 2020). Relations between parents and
more financially (Lindell et al., 2020). According to Lowe and Arnett (2020)
that parents’ provision of financial support was linked to worries that their
children were not adequately prepared for adulthood, and these concerns
would like for their children to develop healthy attitudes, behaviors, and skills
2019)
separation and the lack of financial support from their parents, the majority of
young adults work extremely hard on their own. Lack of that sense of financial
This section of the literature review discusses how the child's sex in the
and financial behavior, even though all aspects of gender socialization may
children.
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Regarding gender, many studies have found many differences
between young adult males and females in financial literacy and behaviors.
different ways), and modeling (i.e., exhibiting gendered behavior for children)
influence the choices they make regarding how to teach both boys and girls
about money. For instance, if parents support traditional gender roles, they
can emphasize more caregiving roles for daughters and more opportunities
for males to earn money. In this case, parents may give boys greater
and female children differs. For example, Dare et al. (2020) discovered that
parents placed greater emphasis on money and grades for sons than for girls
and that parents had higher expectations for working and saving for sons than
for daughters. Additionally, Dare et al. (2020) discovered that fathers talked
about the family's finances with sons earlier than they did with daughters. This
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was also discovered in a more recent study by Jain & Handa (2021), who
discovered that male children started having money conversations with their
literacy than women and that they complete their financial education about a
year earlier than women do. This may be the case given that men are still
al.,2019). Even still, parents are essential for all adolescents and young adults
are more severe on the daughters in the family. Not only are they less taught
young age, having children, and facing disruption in marital life are more likely
to face financial distress. Financial literacy among women is very low and
upholds that men are more likely to be perceived as responsible for providing
dependent (Sabri, 2021). The financial literacy level among men is increasing
faster than in women. A study conducted by Fan and Babiarz (2019) stated
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that men tend to deliberately find ways to increase their financial performance
and productivity.
It was evident from the previous related works of literature that parental
separation can cause many adverse effects not only to the children and the
parents but also to the young adults who, people may seem as already ‘grown
children, parents, and especially young adults who may appear to be already
"grown up" and assumed to be less impacted by such events. This much was
clear from prior linked works of literature. It was emphasized that the
health and attitudes. The literature also shows that young adults with
tailored therapies for young adults from separated parents that consider their
financial behaviors, such as saving and debt management, and their mental
health and attitudes toward financial literacy. Young adults from separated
parents can get the skills necessary to survive despite the difficulties that
come with parental separation by being empowered. This idea was bolstered
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Chapter 3
METHODS
the role of the researchers. Additionally, this chapter also details the data
are separated.
Research Design
The larger research format and plan, often known as the "research
plan" or "research design," haunts the researcher's mind once the problem
has been chosen and the pertinent literature has been discovered. (Thakur,
2021) defined the research design as the overarching plan a person selects to
integrate the various study components logically and cogently, ensuring they
aims to transform a problem into data that can be analyzed to get accurate
suited for addressing the reasons why specific phenomena are observed (or
suited for exploring problems (Neubauer et al., 2019). Thus, the researchers
and financial behavior. By asking our participants about the effects of parental
with it. In this way, we can gather data on their opinions, behaviors,
separation.
experiences, insight, and coping mechanisms of young adults who have gone
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experienced by young adults as well as their financial issues, which may
Research Participants
experienced parental separation at the age of 7-12 years old. The participants
Participants in this study will select based on the following categories in order
experienced parental separation at the age of 7-12 years old; (2) those who
are young adults (18 years old) ;(3) those who reside in Tagum City.
The researchers follow Cresswell and Poth's (2019) advice that the
when choosing their participants. In line with this, we selected 7 young adults
for an in-depth interview (IDI) and 9 young adults for focus group discussion
best fit for this research pursuit. Purposive sampling, as described by (Hassan,
decisions while selecting the person who might provide the most insightful
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Role of the Researcher
and transcribe the collected data and ensure that the ethical conduct of
research were of utmost importance for the success of this endeavor. Also,
researchers collect data throughout the project life cycle, analyze the data,
and publish the findings to aid new research, enrich scholarly literature, and
Data Sources
The research data source is the reservoir of facts and figures, or non-
Voukelatou et al. (2021) explained that the data source encompasses various
aspects of the study's data. These could also contain information that has
already been acquired or that will be gathered throughout the study. These
More specifically, original and unique data that the researcher directly
studies, and interviews, constitute the primary data source (Islam & Islam,
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sources may include speeches, diaries, letters, photographs, and interviews
(Fitzgerald, 2019).
(Islam & Islam, 2020). A secondary source, which is one or more steps
removed from the event, interprets and analyzes primary sources (Wickham,
2019).
our data. Our primary sources are in-depth interviews and open-ended survey
We will gather pertinent data for this research study in the ways described
below. The procedure for gathering data will include conducting the interviews
the results. Below are the specifics of each step of the data collection process.
First, we will secure a letter from our research adviser to conduct this
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Secondly, in order to display the findings, the transcription will be
sorted, grouped, and themed. (The specifics of each step of the data-
gathering process are provided below, along with information on each stage
of the operation).
Data Analysis
In data analysis, we will use Braun and Clark's (2006) six steps to
A six-step system was created to help generate clarity and rigor around
this procedure. We will employ this system because it is the most popular one
In familiarizing ourselves with the data set, we will read the transcripts
several times to become familiar with them. Reading and re-reading the
transcripts was essential since it gave everyone who did the data analysis a
fresh perspective on the data sets. Thematic analysis will make it easier for us,
to read through and review the data repeatedly so that we, the researchers,
queries, and linkages between data items. This frequently entails underlining
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specific passages of text and assigning labels, also known as codes, to us
that explain the nature of our content. We will be able to create our first codes
in this manner. In this study, codes were crucial because they made it
possible for the researcher to see the connections between terms in the data,
combine several codes into a single theme. Additionally, we will be editing our
codes, and some may be discarded since they are too general or not
participants' perceptions of the topic under study in this study served as the
themes. Searching for themes will be exhaustive and iterative, hoping the
In reviewing the themes, we will study each one while asking questions
about the data's relevancy, the quality of its justification, the coherence of its
structure, and the diversity of its sources. As previously stated, finding themes
and inquiry to ensure that no errors have crept in during the process. The
significance and, more importantly, how it helps us interpret the data when
developing and labeling them. Once we have identified our themes, we will
give each one a concise and clear name so that we can continue to the next
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We will then compile our findings into a written report to finish the
process. As with all scholarly writing, a thematic analysis will begin with an
technique will then be discussed, including how data will be gathered and how
thematic analysis will be carried out. In the results section, each theme will be
means, and examples from the data used to support the argument. The
conclusion section will include a summary of the main points and a description
used to guarantee its quality is its trustworthiness or rigor (Stahl & King, 2020).
Criteria outlined by Lincoln and Guba (1985), quoted by Kelp and Simion
and credibility are correlated. Credibility is the level of trust in the accuracy of
and reflect credible information gained from their initial data. The most
study's accuracy and, consequently, the conclusions (Stahl & King, 2020).
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The researcher will carry out two steps to establish credibility to
guarantee it. The first involved compiling the data into a table to provide a
was able to quickly evaluate the results based on the records of each
respondent and see how far the investigation had advanced by using a table
to store data.
Process logs are the researcher's records of all study-related actions and
choices, such as whom to interview and what to observe (Kelp & Simion,
2019).
findings are consistent with the raw data we will collect. After reviewing the
research study or that we, the researchers, were not sloppy or misguided in
the data and interpretations of the findings are generated from the data and
not from the inquirer's imagination (Korstjens & Moser, 2019). By showing
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which codes and patterns are connected in analyses, an explicit coding
and the interpretation should not be based on our particular preferences and
was.
settings, differs from other parts of research in that readers decide how
applicable the findings are to their circumstances, according to Stahl and King
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participants and the research process to enable the reader to assess whether
our findings are transferable to their settings. This implies that the reader, not
us, the researcher, makes the transferability judgment because we, the
researcher, do not know their specific settings. In addition, our study will be
provided a rich account of descriptive data, such as the context in which the
research was carried out, its setting, sample, sample size, sample strategy,
Ethical Considerations
lives in other ways are frequently the objectives of human research. What you
decide to research and how you conduct that research involve key ethical
set of principles that guide your research designs and practices. As the
followed the Belmont Report (1974) cited by Anabo et al. (2019), which
beings. In the Belmont Report (1974), cited by Anabo et al. (2019), ethical
principles included the following: respect for persons, beneficence, and justice.
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The ethical principle of respect for persons calls for us to maintain
every individual's rights, protection, and dignity. Respect for people is a type
people than with things that are not people (Centre, 2021). Respect for people
is also a fundamental notion in social work ethics, but it has been influenced
by various ideologies that may not reflect its true meaning (Millum &
Bromwich, 2020).
make their own decisions and that those who cannot do so need extra
protection. Anywhere along the line between these two extremes that
participants may fall, the researcher must ensure they are fully aware of the
following to address the fact that respect for human persons is strictly upheld
in this study: they must be made aware of the research study, the inherent
risk in their participation, and the potential rewards associated with their
others while promoting their welfare and safety (Varkey, 2020). According to
harm) also appears within the Belmont Report’s section on beneficence. The
right to freedom from harm and discomfort and (2) participants’ rights to
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In this research study, the researchers will ethically treat the individuals
by respecting their choices, keeping them safe, and working to ensure their
principle, and participants' information they disclose as part of the study will
be kept private.
privacy (Barrow, 2022). Justice is also called the need to treat individuals
fairly and equitably (Pratt et al., 2020). This considers issues like avoiding
bias when drawing samples from a larger population and avoiding subjecting
This rule also states that potential volunteers who decide not to participate in
the right to privacy. Any information shared by researchers will be held in the
secrecy or anonymity are frequently used. The researcher cannot link the
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with a correlation key that is only accessible to a safety or oversight
themselves.
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Chapter 4
RESULTS
young adults who went through parental separation in Tagum City are
Table 1 shows the major themes and core ideas on the experiences of young
Table 1
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● struggle on the minimum wage
of parents
● financial strain due to medical
expenses
● increase in expenses nowadays
Financial Hardship
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stress and obstacles in meeting basic needs and financial objectives, as
sufficient to meet her basic needs, including her basic hygiene needs. She
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include the various financial obligations and costs that need to be fulfilled and
electricity and water, shapes participant’s priorities. Miss Sky Blue pointed out
that:
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“Nakaapekto ang kato nga bases ang pagbulag sa
akong mama ug papa sa akong current financial
situation karun, kay karun nga time nag-stop ko ug
eskwela because of some financial issues samot
na kay naa koy ginahambing nga sakit.”
exact words:
even after the separation of his parents’, as the father was the sole provider
as the sole provider, ensures a stable financial situation for the individual,
autonomy, and the valuable support of a nurturing mother. Mr. Beige pointed
out that:
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(I don't struggle much with my finances because I
can handle myself. If I have any needs, I just go to
my mother, and she will immediately support me,
no matter what the expenses are. So, I'm not really
struggling now.)
Parental Absence
face after their parents' separation is the absence of a parent. The absence of
separate. The emotional health, growth, and social dynamics of these people
and their families have all been significantly impacted by this event.
and can cause emotional difficulties, anger, and rebellious behavior. Miss
and disrupts the previously happy family dynamics, Mr. Magenta expressed
that:
connection with the father figure further compounds the impact of parental
relationship dynamics between young adults and their parents after their
core ideas and verbatim statements of this theme are shown below.
mother's resentment towards her father and a long absence of interaction with
him, has resulted in a significant lack of closeness with both parents. Her
words:
a change in the relationship dynamics between him and his daughter. On this,
connection between the individual's and mother. Miss Yellow pointed out that:
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“Sa akong mama kay wala na jud, wala na jud mi
nag-communicate or mas ninglayo na pud akong
loob sa iyaha.”
communication and connection between him and his mother's side of the
longing for affection, care, and attention from their parents, highlighting their
the separation.
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(There were also many challenges that came into
my life when my mother and father separated,
such as feeling alone and not knowing where to
rely on or where to gather the energy to fight every
day.)
to seek parental attention even in their current stage of life. Miss Grey pointed
that:
Miss Sky Blue expressed that the longing for love and attention from
for a complete and joyful family experience. Miss Green expressed that:
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was complete too?" Perhaps we would also
experience that kind of happiness.)
Upon analysis, the interviews generated four (4) themes: (1) diverse support
system, (2) balancing educational and financial concerns, (3) self-care and
Table 2 presents the main ideas and major themes regarding the
parental separation.
Table 2
Major Themes and Core Ideas on How Young Adults Cope with Financial
Problems Caused by Parental Separation
seeking support from diverse sources, including family members, friends, and
support.
shared:
turn to trusted friends for moral support. This is preserved by Mr. Beige in his
statement that:
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“Member man ko ug 4ps kami sa akong duha ka
igsoon, naa gyud mi suporta gikan sa government
(Miss Indigo).”
act of juggling the challenges of both education and finances among young
adults. It is the ability of young adults to manage and navigate the competing
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Similarly, on what Miss Black stated, Miss Indigo also said:
Brown together with her siblings effectively manage the stress arising from
mindset:
diversion from personal trials. Highlighting this, Miss Sky Blue remarked:
individual matures, gradually embracing the notion that every life experience
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holds a purpose and seeking to cultivate a sense of comprehension and
personal growth, goals, and career over dwelling on past events. Mr. Beige
The final theme elicited from the interviews on this table is adaptive
the need to adjust and modify one’s financial approach and decision-making
young adults into the new arrangement of their family dynamics, they shared
navigate economic fluctuations, and make the most effective use of available
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Miss Brown iterated that the talent for singing among the siblings
becomes a significant source of income, with the older sister coaching and
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The realization of the impact of parental separation prompted us to
adopt a savings mindset and maintain a strict budget for daily expenses to
words:
Table 3 displays the major themes and core ideas with the insights of
Young adults regarding their financial problems from parental separation. The
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Specifically, these themes include the following: (1) independence and
Table 3
encounter after the separation of their parents, they take care of themselves
navigate life after parental separation, taking responsibility for their own
Pink mentioned:
should be adopting a resilient mindset and taking charge of your own financial
their mother and business, eliminating the need for father's assistance. The
parents are unable to meet the needs, offering the opportunity to become self-
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sufficient and address their own financial requirements. On this, Miss Sky
and establish a more secure foundation for their future. The following key
Moreover, Miss Black talked about the value of prioritizing needs over
expenses and prioritizing needs over wants is essential for supporting and
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Moreover, Miss Grey indicated that financial planning is effective prior
to starting a family and is crucial to navigate the challenges that arise in family
words:
individuals with the means to set goals, plan for the future, and attain financial
stability, even in the event of a partner leaving. On this statement, Miss Brown
elaborated that:
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“Mas giuna na ko ang education kay bisan pa’g
naa kay trabaho maka-graduate ka, naa kay
trabaho mas maka–goal ka, bisan pag bya-an ka
sa imohang bana naa kay financial or stable ka.”
Studying ABM equips Miss Indigo with the skills to effectively manage
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“Sa akoa kay laban lang sa kinabuhi ug akong
maingon kay bisan ug bulag imong ginikanan kay
naa gihapon ang ginoo na mubantay sa imoha.”
imparted that:
the parents’ separation might bring peace to other people surrounding you.
commented that:
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don't want to see myself or my future family turn
out like my father.)
family and occasionally triggers feelings of jealousy towards others. Miss Pink
specified that:
The analysis of codes and themes derived from the previous thematic
clarity and highlights the actual words and verbatim statements gathered from
the in-depth interviews (IDI) and focus group discussions (FGD). This enables
subsequent section.
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Chapter 5
DISCUSSION
In this chapter, the study delves into the investigation carried out within
Financial hardship
Young adults who have gone through parental separation face financial
has significant financial implications for the entire family, including young
adults. It was difficult for the young adults in this scenario to meet their
financial obligations, maintain their desired level of life, and pay for essential
financial goals.
compared to those whose parents stay together (Lersch & Baxter, 2020). This
can be attributed to various factors such as reduced economic
resources for the family and less consistent parenting, which can disrupt
parents tend to provide less financial and emotional support to their adult
school trips, proper uniforms, or balanced meals due to poverty. On the other
and distress from their parent's separation, while adolescents are seen as
parent, being the only child in the family, the mother working abroad and
that these young adults had a relatively stable financial situation, mitigating
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the potential challenges that often arise from parental separation.
share the idea that it refers to the absence of widespread instances where the
stability involves the ability of financial systems to withstand and recover from
we have discovered that there are young adults who do not encounter
indicates that if both parents have stable and satisfactory incomes, they have
the ability to offer financial assistance to their young adult children even after
qualify for educational scholarships, grants, or financial aid, which can lessen
the financial strain they experience. Moreover, some young adults may have
Parental absence
significant void that deeply impacts the emotional well-being, personal growth,
and overall dynamics of a young adult's life (Mao et al., 2020). This absence
may result in emptiness, a lack of direction, and a sense of loss. Beyond the
short-term separation phase, its impacts continue to affect the young adult's
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relationships, self-worth, and sense of identity as a whole. Recognizing the
continue to mold and impact young people's lives during this crucial stage of
their development.
Based Father Absence During Childhood for Young Adult Well-Being and
associated with poorer test scores and more depressive symptoms among
between young adults and their parents undergo a shift. Factors such as
(Byansi et al., 2022). Czyżowska and Gurba (2022) found that a supportive
strengths.
for emotional support, validation, and nurturing relationships with their parents.
needed, and making calculated choices to make sure they can continue their
parts of their lives, it takes careful preparation, organization, and the capacity
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People today have a bigger responsibility for managing their personal
finances over the course of their lives. The separation of parents can disrupt
the family dynamic, leaving young adults longing for reassurance and care
from their parents (Thomas et al., 2020). Children require nurturing and
protection to facilitate their growth, well-being, and safeguard them from harm,
adolescents' ability to adapt and thrive in their daily lives (Wanjao, J. N.,
Upon analysis, the interviews generated four (4) themes: (1) diverse support
system, (2) balancing educational and financial concerns, (3) self-care and
This theme expressed the need for support beyond the immediate
family. Young adults recognized that seeking help from various sources can
support. This includes turning to family members who may provide a sense of
and other individuals or resources that can offer guidance and assistance.
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This theme emphasizes the importance of diverse support networks for young
Different people have different ideas about what a family is. While
some individuals strongly believe that having both a father and mother in a
family is essential for a child's well-being and happiness, others prioritize the
quality of time spent with family members rather than the quantity of time
negative thoughts about divorce, and fewer behavioral and social issues were
children's well-being. These results offer more information and are pertinent to
correlation between children's perceived overall social support and their life
refers to their ability to effectively manage and balance the demands of their
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their education while also addressing their financial needs and obligations.
This include handling finances, creating a budget, getting help if needed, and
making calculated choices to make sure they can continue their education
and fulfill their financial obligations. To maintain stability in both parts of their
changing situations.
finances over the course of their lives. Factors such as increasing life
to this shift (Lusardi, 2019). The decisions individuals and families make
their financial future. These decisions encompass selecting the right institution
and degree, effectively managing finances during studies, planning for the
sets them on a path towards financial stability, provides stability and focus
self-care and personal growth. It entails making conscious efforts to look after
one's physical, mental, and emotional needs. Young adults are aware that
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taking care of their wellbeing is essential to overcoming the obstacles they
activities that may be harmful to their physical and mental health as well as
enhancing essential social work practice skills and values (Maddock et al.,
2021). Young adults who face financial instability as a result of their parents'
separation have the chance to improve their sense of connection and alleviate
adopting self-care practices (Stack & Meredith, 2019). Humans need close
these essential elements, impacting their well-being and overall quality of life
(Jordan, 2023).
with the financial constraints that arose from the separation. Additionally, they
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understanding that financial stability could be affected by various external
factors.
make trade-offs and prioritize certain interests over others (Weixiang et al.,
clear goals, regularly assess progress, and make mindful decisions. These
separation. The core ideas and verbatim statements are also presented.
Specifically, these themes include the following: (1) independence and self-
to rely heavily on others for support. Instead, actively seek ways to navigate
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the challenges they encounter, finding strength within themselves to
adults, in large part due to their social support as emerging adults (Leung et
al., 2020). Resilience is the capacity and degree to which one can withstand
cope with the challenges they face, taking responsibility for their financial well-
and expenditures, and making prudent financial choices aligned with one's
adults can enhance their financial literacy and confidently navigate their
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In contemporary times, individuals have greater personal financial
management are crucial for young adults experiencing financial instability due
and skills, they can gain control over their financial situation, achieve stability,
plan for their future, cope with transitions, and ultimately break the cycle of
optimistic mindset when confronting life's trials and situations. This mindset
for growth and personal development, rather than dwelling on the difficulties
continuously grow and develop throughout their entire lifespan (Sisto et al.,
challenges, surpass obstacles, and attain personal growth and success (Skali,
2022). Young adults who have undergone parental separation have the
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mindset, which plays a vital role in effectively navigating and conquering the
financial hurdles they may face. By adopting a positive mindset, they can
This shift in perspective stems directly from the personal encounters and
young adults a unique vantage point from which they now view the dynamics,
structures. This shift is essential for the emotional well-being of young adults
embracing these changes, they can adapt and cope with challenges, moving
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Implications of the study
The results and findings of this study have delved into the experiences,
implications of this study are drawn. Firstly, it highlights the need to raise
families. Secondly, there is a clear need for financial education and planning
Legal and policy considerations should also take into account the
programs. Long-term financial planning for both parents and young adults
The study suggests future research directions, such as examining the long-
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and improve the overall well-being of young adults affected by parental
separation.
perspectives of young adults who have faced parental separation along with
inquiry.
regarded as the definitive answer to all inquiries on the topic. Instead, there is
researchers, we acknowledge that the results obtained from this study are not
participants and employ a mixed methods study design. This approach will
researchers may also choose to investigate this topic with different focuses,
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Concluding Remarks
some of the difficulties they face managing their money during this time of
emotional health as well as the course of their lives as a whole. However, our
findings also highlight how resourceful and tenacious these young adults were
programs that help them overcome financial obstacles, improve their financial
of self-care and self-reliance will greatly help these young adults on their path
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sa iyaha dili na kaayu ko gatabi sa iyaha unlike before galambing man gyud
ko sa iyaha, karun wala na. Dawat na nako na nagbag-o jud ang tanan sukad
nagbulag sila.
Interviewer: So did your experience po ba of parental separation during
childhood still affect you until now po?
Miss Indigo: Dili na kaayu kay samtang ga dako man gud ko is akoa pud
gina-try ug pa-realize sa akong sarili nga ang tanan gyud nahitabo nga naay
rason and na-experience gyud nako na siya, mao to gi-try nalang nako ug
sabot nga nagbulag sila tungod ana pero wa’ gud ko kabalo unsa gyud tinuod
nga rason, ako nalang girasonan akong sarili para madawat nako.
Interviewer: So ang next po na gusto namo matubag is how young adults
cope after the separation of their parents. So, mga what kind of support po ba
or resources na imong na-access po as a child or young adult to help you
influence your financial outcomes po?
Miss Indigo: Katung nagpuyo ko sa farm, member man ko ug 4ps, kami sa
akong duha ka igsoon, so naa gyud mi suporta gikan sa government, but
katung nagbulag akong mama ug papa, kay akong mama is wala na siya ga-
focus sa among 4ps. So, gi-take over siya sa akoang papa, katu nga time is
ang mga makuha niya nga financial aid gikan sa government is dili niya
ginagasto sa amoa, sa iyaha niya ginagasto, and katu nga time is
naapektuhan gyud amoang financial nga panginahanglan namo.
Interviewer: So who or what helped you cope of having to grow up with
separated parents? And in what way did they/it help you po?
Miss Indigo: Firstly, ang maingon nako kay akoang self ra gyud pero naa
man pud akong family, like gina-guide pud ko nila, ginapasabot sad nila sa
akoa nganong naay mga ingana,so nakatabang pud to sa pag-cope and
above all is akong self gyud kay dili man gud kaayo ko gadawat ug rason
gikan sa uban, so kinahanglan jud nako masabtan ang rason, kung dili man
kay ginarasonan pud nako akoang self para makasabot pud ko.
Interviewer: So how did you balance the financial stresses of your parents’
separation with other aspect of your life po pareha anang relationship,
education and career po?
Miss Indigo: Actually dili kaayo nako ginahuna-huna ang separation sa
akong parents pati ang financial needs namo kay ang income sa akong mama
kay gina-budget na namo daan ba. So, wala na kaayo ko’y problema ana, sa
education sad kay ga-focus ra jud ko sa education nako, if before is hilig
kaayu ko mag-cutting tungod ana, like half sa akong school year tung grade 5
ko kay ga-cutting gyud ko, unya katung time nga na-realize nako nga dili gyud
to siya maayu nag-focus gyud ko sa akong education, since grade 7 is
gisanay gyud nako akoang self nga makakuha ug grades nga makarga sa
honors.
Interviewer: So, next po na gusto namo matubag is the insights of young
adults have gained from their experience of parental separation. So, can you
share po ba some specific insights po na imong nakuha saimong experience
po about anang financial problems caused by your parents’ separation po?
Miss Indigo: Firstly gyud ang pinaka importante na akong natun-an during
ato nga time, sikat man gyud na nga saying na “everything happens for a
reason”, mao gyud na akong natun-an, katung time na wala gyud ko kabalo
nga nagbulag sila is parehas gyud kong nasuko sailang duha, na-feel nako
nga wala diay mi nila huna-hunaa, tapos katung time na nag-start ko ug ka
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mature didto nako na realize nga dugay na diay ga antos akong mama
sakong papa so, much better diay nga magbulag sila, and before akong gina-
wish kay God nga magbalik sila kay usahay naa man gud times na makasuya
ang uban classmate before kay samot na kanang naay mga meeting-meeting,
party-party unya kompleto ilang family, mao to gina-wish jud nako nga
makompleto mi, pero katung time na na-realize nako nga dugay na kaayo
naga-antos akong mama is didto na gyud ko ga-stop ug ingon nga mabuo mi
kay kabalo ko pagmabuo mi is mubalik napud sa dati, mag antos napud
akong mama, so much better nga mao ni ang nahitabo, maybe mao jud ni
ang rason ni God nga nag-separate sila para makakuan ug peace of mind
akoang mama.
Interviewer: So, how was your experience po ba anang parental separation
nakapabag-o sa panan-aw sa imong kinabuhi ug unsa pud nga lesson imong
na-learn about anang imong experience po?
Miss Indigo: Nabag-o gyud akoang view sa world ato nga time like halos
tanan siguro nga laki kay ingana, then before man gud is, kita nga bata nu
kay pag naay mag inom kay makaingon ta nga “hala ka cool ana”, unya ako
nga bata ato nga time is naka ingon ko nga ka-cool diay ana uy, tapos katung
na-experience na nako siya, like nakainom naman ko ug nakasigarilyo nako
before, so katung na-experience na nako siya maka-addict gyud siya pero
maygani wala nako gidayon, unya pagma-addict biya ka sa usa ka butang is
dugay kaayo siya mawala, and mao toy nahitabo sa akoang papa, na-addict
siya sa iyang bisyo. Didto gyud naguba akong view sa world, makaingon ko
nga dili gyud tanan laki kay maayu ug intensyon ug responsible, kay kato man
gud akong papa is spoiled kay siya kay kinamanghuran gud ug naa may kaya
before ang side sa akong papa, unya didto gyud ko nakaingon nga
irresponsible kaayu siya and dili ko gusto nga makakita ko ug laki or maka-
family ko nga parehas sa akong papa.
Interviewer: So in what ways po ba naka-shape sa imohang perspective
kung unsa ka important ang financial education and planning, especially in the
context of separation or divorce?
Miss Indigo: Makaingon gyud ko nga importante jud kaayu ang kabalo ka
mu-manage sa imong kwarta, pero sa akoang situation, akoang lola ang ga-
manage sa amoang kwarta pero mao gani nag ABM ko kay para maka-
manage ko sa amoang kwarta kay tiguwang na pud biya akong lola.
Importante gyud kaayu siya kay pag-once man gud dili nimo ma-manage
imong kwarta, like wala ka kabalo aha na sila maadto naay tendency nga
maka-overspend ka, unya kay ginatudluan gyud mi sa akoang lola, sa akong
mga tita, tito ug akong mama nga magtigom gyud, mao to nakakuan mi ug
account sa COOP. Nag-start gyud mi ug tigom kay dili nako gusto maka-
experience atong time nga like nasobraan gyud mi ug ka pobre, nga naay
times nga dili nami makakaon three times a day. Nakaingon gyud ko nga
importante kaayu nga naa gyud mi savings kay para in times of emergency,
naa mi kuhaan ug kwarta.
Interviewer: So, last question na po ni, looking back on you experience, what
advice po ang pwede nimo mahatag sa ubang young adults na who maybe
dealing with financial issues because of parental separation?
Miss Indigo: Akong ma-advice ra gyud is dili sa unahon ang emotion, kabalo
ko lisod kaayu nga imohang parents, kay naa man gud uban gina-look up nila
ilang parents, dili nila ipagtigbabaw ilahang feelings ba, like masuko sila sa
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ilang mama or papa kay nagbulag sila, dapat ilaha sad huna-hunaon ang
likod atong ilang pagbulag unsay rason, basin dako diay kaayu kung
magpadayon pa tu siya kay dili lang ikaw ang maapektuhan kundi tibuok na
pamilya nimo, so dapat sabton gyud niya ang duha ka point of view, and
iyahang, magtuon pud ug financial management kay lisod man gud kaayu if
separated imong parents unya ikaw gastador paka, unsaon pag-manage sa
imong kwarta.
Interviewer: So, mao rana po inyong ma-advice sa ilaha?
Miss Indigo: Mao rajud and mag-believe jud sila kay God kay si God lang jud
ang naay control sa tanan.
Interviewer: Thank you po, salamat po sa cooperation po.
Miss Indigo: Your welcome, unta maka tabang.
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imong father wala ka kabalo nga asa unya dili ka ka-communicate sa iya
since murag gi-block imong number, so wala jud tay mabuhat ana.
Interviewer: So naa ka poy emotional problems po?
Mr. Beige: Naa puy like naa koy makit-another families nga enjoy kaayu sila
sa ilang life, unya ako wala nalang jud koy mabuhat, mag-envy nalang jud ko
sa ila since nganong happy kaayu sila, nganong lucky kaayo sila kay in-ana
ilang family, miskan unsaon nimo’g paningkamot igo ra jud ka mag-wish nga
unta mahitabo sad na sa imoha, mao ra to.
Interviewer: So did your experience of parental separation during childhood
still affect you until now? How so?
Mr. Beige: Para sa akoa, dili na kaayo siya ga-affect sa akoa kay kailangan
man nako mag-focus into other things like sa akong sarili, sa akong goals,
careers. Dili na jud kaayo nako need mag-focus about ana nga butang kay
maskin unsaon man nako ug huna huna ana nga butang, wala najud koy
mabuhat kay since nahitabo naman, naa man ta sa realidad unsaon man nato.
Interviewer: So wala na nimo gina-mind?
Mr. Beige: Wala na nako siya gina-mind like gina-ignore na lang nako.
Interviewer: OK po so, how has your relationship with your parents changed
since your parents’ separation and how has this affected your financial
support po?
Mr. Beige: Since nag-separate naman akong parents dili na kaayo mi-close
sa akong father but naa pud time nga maka-communicate mi pero in a way
like ako pay mismo mu-approach or adto sa ilang balay. Magtigom ko
para ako ang mismo muadto aron maka-communicate lang ko sa iyaha pero
naa pud time nga muadto ko unya atikon ko sa kauban sa akong father na
wala lagi daw busy, so akong effort kay ma-waste.
Interviewer: Sa imong mother, close ka po sa imong mother?
Mr. Beige: Close kaayu mi sa akong mother sa maskin asa man nga aspect.
Interviewer: Sa imong father, dili na kaayo mo close pero naga-support siya
saimo financially?
Mr. Beige: That time katung 4 years ago, ningbalik siya ug support sa ako
hinay hinay pero last year naa may tragedy nahitabo mao to siya pero karun
impossible na jud siya nga mahitabo.
Interviewer: OK po, ang next na gusto namo mga researchers mahibal-an is
how do young adults cope. So unsa pud nga supporta or resources did you
have access to as a child or young adult to help you influence your financial
outcome?
Mr. Beige: Aside sa akong mother nga ga-support sa akoa, naa man pud
akong mga relatives nga ga-support sa akoa financially, maong dili kaayo ko
maglisod sa akong mga gastuhonon or mga daily needs.
Interviewer: So sailaha ka po mo ano-
Mr. Beige: Oo, like sa akoang older brother, muduol jud ko saiya like need
kaayo nako’g kwarta labi nag since busy si mama dili siya maka-reply sa ako
kay busy man siya saiyang duty, so kang kuya ko muduol.
Interviewer: So next po is, who or what helped you cope with the difficulties
of having to grow up with separated parents and in what way did they or it
helped you po?
Mr. Beige: Naa pud time na gina-cheer nako akong sarili kung mag-struggle
ko sa mga nahitabo, sometimes sad ginatabangan sad ko or gina-comfort sad
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ko sa akong mga friend’s para makalimtan ang mga family problems, this way
gina-enjoy sa nako akong day para makalimtan tung past nga nahitabo.
Interviewer: So imo, self-support ug friends support?
Mr. Beige: Yes, mao man pud ang reason nganong dili kaayo ko stress sa
mga financial, sa mga trabahuon.
Interviewer: Next question is how do you balance the financial stresses from
your parents’ separation from other aspects of your life such as relationships,
education and career goals?
Mr. Beige: Naa pud fact na gina-ignore nalang nako ang nahitabo sa akong
parents’ aron maka-focus ko sa akong mga studies and goals, ug karun i-
solve sa nako unsaon nako pag-manage sa akong financial.
Interviewer: So next po is what are the insights of young adults have gained
from their experience of financial problems caused by parental separation. So,
pwede ba nimo ma-share ang mga specific insights or mga na-learn nimo
from your experience of financial problems caused by parental separation po?
Mr. Beige: Ang na-gain nako sa akong experience or na-learn about financial
problems kay dapat kabalo jud ka unsaon pag manage sa imong kwarta, kung
unsaon nimo paggasto, dapat kabalo ka mutipid, or dapat mangita kag other
way nga dili mag salig sa imong parents aron dili jud ka maglisod sa mga
gastuhonon.
Interviewer: So mao na imong na-learn po?
Mr. Beige: For me, mao ra akong na-learn.
Interviewer: Next is how has your experience of dealing financial problems
caused by your parents’ separation shaped your outlook on life, giunsa pag
pabag-o sa imong experience ang imohang outlook or perspective sa life?
Mr. Beige: Para sa akoa wala gihapon siya nausab since pareha raman ta
tao pero lahi lahi man ta ug dagan sa kinabuhi, so pareha ra gihapon akong
panan-aw like same ra gihapon, pero naa puy time nga magselos jud ko sa
ilaha kay complete man sila unya kami kay igo rami mag-wish, kutob ra sa
wish na makauban namo amoang parents pero since nag separate na sila
wala natay mabuhat.
Interviewer: So next question po is, in what ways has changed your
perspective on the importance of financial education and planning especially
in the context of separation or divorce?
Mr. Beige: About sa importance sa financial education and planning, since
wala pa kay plano about anang magpamilya, dapat magplano sa jud ka daan
na magtigom ka, like magbuhat ka’g mga bank accounts, like mga Coop,
need jud kaayo nimo magtigom, tapos magplano ka unsa imong buhaton kay
just in case nga pamilyado naka dili na kaayo ka maglisod sa financial, so
mao to kailangan nimo magtigom aron dili lang pud sa imoha mahitabo ana
kay since naa man pud uban gud na isa sa reason nganong mag-separate
ang parents kay tungod sa financial like sige sila’g lalis nganong daghan
kaayo’g bayrunon ana.
Interviewer: Next question po is, how has your experience influence your
understanding of the impact of divorce or separation on family finances and
stability? Giunsa pag bag-o sa imohang understanding sa impact sa divorce
sainyuhang financial stability po?
Mr. Beige: Before wala pa nag-separate akong parents’ kay OK ra jud kaayu
mi, tanan gusto nako kay mahatag sa akong mga parents like sa school, OK
ra, sa mga daily needs namo, OK ra pero after that since nag-separate sila
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naglisod jud mi sa akong mother, kato pa jud nga time na bata pa kay ko ato
like wala pa jud koy mabuhat ato. Karun for now, since naa namay tarong nga
trabaho akong mama ug karun kaya naman nako ma-handle akong self dili na
jud kaayo ko maglisod sa financial, pero dili gihapon kaayu siya stable. Grabe
pud kaayo ang impact sa pagbulag sa akong mama ug sa akong papa kay
lisod jud kaayu ug need jud biya nimo ang family nu.
Interviewer: OK po, so last question po, looking back on your experience
unsay advice ang imong mahatag to other young adults who maybe dealing
with financial issues stemming from parental separation po?
Mr. Beige: Akong maingon lang kay laban lang, pero kung naka-deal mo ana
na situation or nag-deal jud mo anang situation karun, akong maingon lang
kay need jud nimo ug mangitag support, kung dili jud kaya mu-support imong
parents, mangita jud kag part time jobs, then I-manage nimo imong financial.
Then, sa time nga magbuhat naka’g family dapat kailangan jud nimo mag-
prepare anang financial.
Interviewer: Dapat financially stable?
Mr. Beige: Yes dapat maging financially stable ka bago ka musulod anang
butanga.
Interviewer: OK po, so mao ra po tu no, thank you kaayo sa cooperation.
Mr. Beige: Thank you pud sa opportunity nga I-interview ani nga study.
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gina-ano lang na ko akong utok na ing-ani ing-ana dapat musabot nalang kay
nabuhat naman wala na koy mahimo. So, mao ra to akong sarili lang jud unya
naga kuha lang ko’g moral support sa akong mga amigo,
Interviewer: Friends
Miss Pink: Friends tapos sa akong mama pud.
Interviewer: OK po. So, giunsa pud ninyo pag-balance ang financial stresses
of your parents’ separation po with your aspects of life such as relationships,
education, and career goals po?
Miss Pink: Balance unsa man, naga-maintain nalang ko sa mindset nga
postive lang gani. Gina-balance nalang na ko nga dili na ko gina pa-affect ang
separates sa akong parents sa akong education,
Interviewer: Acads
Miss Pink: Yes, sa friends pud na ko dili nalang na ko siya murag gina-left
behind nalang gani na ko siya or dili nalang ko naga problema nga wala na or
sa separation nila, murag madaot man gud akong mindset kung akoa pa
siyang palabihon ba. So, gina pasagdan nalang na ko, unya kung unsa
nalang na it is what it is nalang jud ko permente.
Interviewer: OK po. Can you share some specific insights you gained from
your experience of financial problems caused by your parents’ separation po?
Miss Pink: Insights unsa man?
Interviewer: Like, mga lessons na na-learned?
Miss Pink: Lesson na pwede I-share, akong lesson lang about sa parental
separation ug sa financial dili ka dapat mag salig, dili ka dapat maging
dependent lang sa imohang parents’ kay naa man jud instances nga mag-
separate tapos maapektohan imong financial status. Ang akoa nalang ma-
learn ani kay ma-learned ko’g to be practical about sa mga gasto-gastohunon
kay para makatabang nalang pud sa akong mama tapos palabihon nalang na
ko akong needs kaysa sa wants kay maglisod man pud gud akong mama kay
maskin pag ako nalang isa kay mag daghan pud baya na siya’g about sa, sa
school labaw na karon mag-college na mahal gyud kaayo tapos sa pagkaon
pa na ko kung unsa akong mga gusto pud, mao lang to.
Interviewer: So, napa bag-o po ba ang perspective nimo po sa panan-aw sa
imong life after anang parental separation po?
Miss Pink: Yes, naay instances nga mubag-o gyud siya kay pareha dati dili
na kaayo ko nagatuo na gud anang about sa family family. Maglisod na gud
ko sa pag pareha anan kung kumpleto inyong pamilya kay maglisod na ko’g
like ginahuna-huna na nako nga ay basig kani sila nga family kay naa pud ni
silay kanang,
Interviewer: Problem
Miss Pink: O, problem murag dili na ko wala na koy thoughts about sa happy
na family, mulahi na gyud siya pero usahay pud masuya nalang pud ko sa
uban pero okay ra man pud kay murag gitanom nalang pud nako sa akoang
sarili ba nga, nabuhat naman unsa man akong makuan. So, pasagdan nalang
na ko.
Interviewer: So looking back to your experience po, what advice would you
give to other young adults who maybe dealing with financial issues po
stemming from parental separation?
Miss Pink: Ako lang ma-advice guro kay mag-work hard kay para
makatabang, kuntahay sa mama or sa papa, makatabang siya sa ilaha unya
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ano nalang jud be practical and don’t sigeg gasto gasto gani sa mga bagay
nga dili man need or dili man nimo needed jud.
Interviewer: So in what ways has your experience shaped your perspective
on the importance of financial education and planning po especially in the
context of parental separation or divorce?
Miss Pink: Like unsa?
Interviewer: Like, paano na-shape imong perspective sa unsa ka-importance
sa financial po, financial education and planning.
Miss Pink: Importante jud kay ang sa akong huna huna, ang financial needed
jud siya, naa man guy pareha sa perspective aning sa akong mama ug papa,
nagbulag man gud sila kay akong mama ni-abroad kay wala lagi mi financial
ug unya akong papa wala kay siya’y trabaho gani mangita pa siya’g lain, unya
mao to nag-drift apart mi tungod sa in ana gani nga rason, mao ng na-attach
na sa akong mind na dapat kung mag, kuntahay mag asawa man or unsa ba,
dapat financially stable na jud kay naa jud mga instances nga ang financial
jud ang maka guba gani sa isa ka relasyon sa mga tao, ana.
Interviewer: Thank you po.
Miss Pink: Thank you.
Interviewer: Thank you po sa cooperation.
Miss Pink: Sige, sige.
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Interviewer: OK po. So, did your experience of parental separation during
childhood still affect you until now?
Miss Brown: Sometimes, maapektohan gihapon ko labi na sa wala kay
maingnan sa imohang problem. Mao jud na pinaka una is diba sa tanan, sa
tanang problems sa imoha diba bisan pag naa kay friend or best friend dinhaa
pero ang una baya jud ang mu kana ganing maminaw or dili kanang OA-han
sa imoha bisan pag mag-reach out ka sa iyaha or unsa ang family gyud
gihapon.
Interviewer: Moving on po, diri ta sa how do young adults cope. So, unsa nga
supporta or mga resources nga naka access ka katong bata paka or karun
young adults naka to help you influence your financial outcomes po?
Miss Brown: Actually, kami na mag igsoon is naa mi talent to mag-sing.
Kana siya is nagdungag siya sa amoa sa financial labi na akong ate is brand
winner siya, karon is naga-couch siya sa mga bata sa sing and then ako is
naga-couch pud ko sa sing and nag-secretary pud ko sa studio. So, kana is
mas nag-enhance ko mas more nga makadagdag mi sa financial bisan wala
mi mama’g papa.
Interviewer: Ah OK po. So, who or what helped you cope up with the
difficulties of having to grow up with separated parents? And in what way did
they or it help you? Like, kinsa nakatabang nimo makaya or maka-cope atong
pagbulag sa imong parents?
Miss Brown: Pagbulag ni mama ug ni papa is didtoa jud mi nagpuyo ay
nagdako sa akoang lolo ug lola. Which is akoang lolo wala gud siyay
permanent works. Ang trabaho sa akong lolo is nagatambal siya sa mga sakit
ing-ana labi na sa mga pasmo ing-ana. Kana siya nga way is mas ay pero
wala nagkulang si lolo nga naa mi mama or wala mi mama ug papa kanang
kulag na mi support. So, mas kang lolo man gud mas gibuhos man gud niya
iyahang,
Interviewer: Love
Miss Brown: Iyahang love.
Interviewer: So, siya nakatabang sa imo cope up po?
Miss Brown: Oo, and then sa kanang maka-inspired. Hantod karon bisag
wala na akong lolo siya gihapon akong inspiration why kanang naga eskwela
ko karon.
Interviewer: So, how do you balance the financial stresses of your parents’
separation with other aspects of your life, such as relationship, education, and
career goals?
Miss Brown: Nagpuyo man ko sa akong lolo ‘no? Diba naa man jud mga
estorya ang mga tigulang. So, hantod karon is since birth ko walay uyab and
then naga-focus ko karon sa...
Inteviewer: Sa inyong education studies?
Miss Brown: O, education studies kay sa amoa man gud mag igsoon is ang
amoa jud goal is mu-graduate sa mi bago mi musulod sa ing-ana nga
relationship and also pag-balance sa, labi na’g sa stress sa eskwelahan and
sa financial. Kami na mag igsoon is open up man gud mi tanan, mag open
forum mi unsa pay mga laing problema ing-ana para masolusyonan dayun
siya.
Interviewer: Ah OK po. So, move on na ta sa mga insights na na-gained
nimo po. So, can you share some specific insights or lessons nga na-learned
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nimo from your experience of financial problem caused by parental separation
po?
Miss Brown: Ang ma-learned na ko sa pag-separate sa akong family.
Actually dili jud siya sayon, dili jud siya sayon nga wala kay mama ug papa sa
imong kiliran labi na’g maingnan nimo problem mao jud nang pinaka una jud
na, second is financial and then ang na-learned na ko didto ay kay ‘no kay.
Actually, sometimes makaingon ko sa kang lord kana ganing like ang uban
parents magtinarong pero ilang anak is dili. So, ang anak ang magtarong ang
parents ang dili. Diha ko naka-learned nga dili muhatag ug problem si god ug
dili nimo kaya. Mao na akoang na-learned.
Interviewer: So, how has your experience of dealing with financial problem
caused by your parent separation shaped your outlook on life? And what
lesson have you learned from that experience?
Miss Brown: Actually, gina padako jud mi na dili jud gina-waste ang money
pag abot sa walay mga pulos na mga butang and then sa amoa nga mag
igsoon ug sa akoa is naga gasto lang ko’g kwarta if kailangan na siya pero if
dili siya need dili na ko ginapalit. So, gina-keep lang na ko ang kwarta maong
usahay pag naa nay baryunon dili na ko mangayo sa akoang nag-support sa
akoa, mabayran na ko siya.
Interviewer: Next question po is how has your experience influenced your
understanding about the impact of divorce or separation on family finances
and stability?
Miss Brown: Dako jud siya’g impact labi na’g ang family is mag-divorce,
mag-separate kay nay uban anak bisan asa na mag,
Interviewer: Mag-stay?
Miss Brown: Mali ang landas and then bisan kami ug wala gihapon, wala mi
nagdako sa akong mama ug papa kay nag-divorce sila. So, naa gihapon mi
sa right pathway nga nadak-an jud mi nga na’y respect and then labi na sa
number one (1) jud ang pageskwela ing-ana murag daghan mi natun-an ba
pagabot sa akoang lolo. Wala man siya nag kulang sa amoa padako. So,
daghan mi natun-an.
Interviewer: In what way was your experienced shaped your perspective on
the importance of financial education and planning, especially in the context of
separation or divorce? Diba nagbulag man po imong parents po? Katong
experience ninyo giunsa siya pagbag-o sa imong huna-huna about sa unsa
diay kaimportante ang financial education and planning?
Miss Brown: Pagabot sa ing-ana nagbulag man ang akong mama and papa.
So, naa lang jud na sa mga tao if kana ganing mag-matured sila, mu-faced
sila sa reality and in that way importante jud ang financial education and
planning kay sa akoa man gud nga perspective kay that’s why karon NBSB ko,
gina-mind na ko sa akoang self nga naa man gud koy trust issues about sa
akong papa nga naa nay family. So, ma-faced na ko siya sa akoang self ba
na if maguyab uyab ko ing-ani gihapon. So, mas giuna na ko ang education
kay bisan pa’g naa kay trabaho maka-graduate ka naa kay trabaho mas
maka–goal ka tapos plano nimo sa imong kinabuhi. Bisan pag bya-an ka sa
imohang bana naa kay financial.
Interviewer: Stable ka?
Miss Brown: O, stable imong financial. Actually maglisod gud ka pero dili
totally ba nga wala kay piso, dili ka magsalig sa imohang bana.
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Interviewer: OK po. So, last question po. Looking back on your experience,
unsay advice nimo ang imohang mahatag sa other young adults nga who may
be dealing with financial issues gikan sa parental separation po?
Miss Brown: Ang akoang ma-advice sa mga labi na sa nagproblema sa
financial
Interviewer: Financial problem
Miss Brown: O, financial problem is mag-set sila sa ilahang self nga para
man gud sa akoa kay actually wala man gud na ko na kabalo nga singer diay
ko. So, didto lang na ko nagamit siya nga need na gani siya wala ko kabalo
nga naa diay koy talent ing-ana. So, nay other way nga sa isa katao nga wala
sa akoa. Like for example, sa akoa naa koy talent pero wala koy sports,
dinhaa sila mangita’g labi na sa job?
Interviewer: Hmm
Miss Brown: O, mag-job ing-ana. Mangita sila’g way nga makapasok sila and
hiyang sila dinhaa nga work and then sa ilaha pud mga kaparintihan need
nila basin mangayo support ug dili muhatag its OK as long as nag ingon, nag-
ask ka sa ilaha pero ikaw raman gud ang makatabang sa imohang self kung
unsa imong kakayahan para masulbadan nimo ang financial kay bisan pa’g
complete family mag problema gihapon sa financial.
Interviewer: Oo so mao to imong ma-advice po?
Miss Brown: Ang ma-advice na ko sa ilaha is dili sila mawad-an ug pag-asa
gani kay naa may plan, naa may plan ang tanan. Ang very important jud is dili
lang siya mutan-aw sa iyahang weaknesses kundi mutan-aw pud sa iyahang
strength.
Interviewer: OK po. Sige po, thank you po. Mao ra to question po.
Miss Brown: OK
Interviewer: Thank you kaayo.
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Miss Orange: O, naka-affect syempre siya kay pagdako nako nag-long ko
like what if wala diay nagbulag akong parents or what if naa pa syempre, ug
unsa jud ang feel sa buo ang pamilya.
Interviewer: So, next po gusto po namo mahibal-an is how young adults cope
with their financial problems after the separation of their parents. So, what
kind of support po or sources imong na-access po as a child or young adult to
help you influence po sa financial outcomes nimo po karun?
Miss Orange: Wala kay ko kasabot.
Interviewer: Mga what kind po of support or mga resources ang imong
nakuha po as a young adult to help you influence your financial outcomes po
like karun, unsa man imong mga, katung bata paka, naunsa na-open imong
mind about anang financial, like giunsa pag-open after anang parental
separation po?
Miss Orange: Katong pagbulag palang, syempre pagbulag palang didto nako
dayun naka-realize nga in ani diay. So, didto nagtigom-tigom nako, unya naay
ginahatag akong lola ug lolo or ante nako, gina tigom nako permente dili ko,
naa koy gina-set na budget for everyday like dili ko mu-go beyond, beyond 20
or 50 (pesos) mga ana sauna, and then miskan muhatag akong mama ug
papa, dili nako ginagasto kay lisod jud mahutdan ug kwarta labi na estudyante
pako.
Interviewer: So, who or what help you po to cope with the difficulties of
having to grow up with separated parents po, and in what way did they or it
helped you? Like kinsay gatabang sa imoha para ma-overcome ng parents
separated na na-experience nimo po?
Miss Orange: Sa akoa, akong mga ante, mga miga nako ug stepmother ug
stepfather nako, since gabalhin-balhin man ko ug balay, ga-cope up jud sila
sa akoa like, wala man sila gaingon na “naa ko diri karun, ako na imong
mama/papa” instead, gina-help ko nila ma-get over, pero hantud karun
syempre wala pako ka-get over.
Interviewer: So, giunsa nimo pagbalanse po ang imong financial stresses sa
parents’ separation po sa ubang aspects saimong life such as relationships,
education and career goals?
Miss Orange: Sa akoa ginatan-aw jud nako like asa pwede maangay akong
budget, didto ko mu-go sa mas cheaper siguro, kung asa nako afford, then
wala koy plano mag relationship sa kay ang focus jud nako ang career nako
ug ang education nako.
Interviewer: OK po. Can you share some specific insights po you gain from
your experience of financial problems caused by your parent’s separation?
Like unsay mga na-learn nimo sa imong mga experience anang financial
problems caused by parents separation po?
Miss Orange: Ang na-learn nako since nagbulag man akong parents, na-
learn nako sa nahitabo sa ako karun importante jud ang magtigom kay kung
dili ko kabalo magtigom, naa sa akong utok ba nakatatak, kung dili ko kabalo
mutigom sa akong kwarta or mag-control, wala ko, wala koy mapala. Like it’s
either di’ ko makaadto og eskwelahan, or magutom ko or mag road to death
nalang ko mao to akong na-learn.
Interviewer: So, naka pa-change sa imohang perspective sa life ang parents’
separation po? Like nabag-o ba imong panan-aw anang ano family ana, kay
tungod aning parents’ separation po?
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Miss Orange: O nabag-o jud, like didto lang jud nagbag-o akong panan-aw
sa kinabuhi. Sa point sa akong life naka-feel ko ug unfair kaayu ang kinabuhi
kay ang other buo pa kaayo ang mga parents, OK pa, like miskan naglisod
wala gihapon sila nagbulag, nganong kami nga kaya kaya man nganong
nagbulag man? Naka-feel ko ato, then after ato murag naglain pud akong
panan-aw sa mga relationships, like dili ko musulod ana unless stable na
kaayu ko.
Interviewer: So, looking back on your experience po, what advice would you
give to other young adults who maybe dealing with financial issues stemming
from parental separation?
Miss Orange: Ang mahatag nako na-advice is, dili isisi tanan sa imong
parents, since kay nagbulag naman imong parents, naa paman pud sila pero,
you’re on your own na. Like it’s either naa silay chance na mag asawa ug
balik or magkapamilya. So, literally ikaw nalang jud isa need nimo self-
discipline ug maturity.
Interviewer: Thank you po, thank you kaayu sa imong cooperation po.
Miss Orange: Thank you.
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naga-supporta nimo or asa or kinsa ka nakakuha’g mga access sa resources
para maka –influenced sa imohang financial outcomes?
Miss Black: Sa akoa po is sa financial is kay mama
Interviewer: Kay siya ra ang naga?
Miss Black: Siya lang po ang naa lang po sa amoang tapad permente, siya
po ang naga-support sa akoa sa akoang mga igsoon apil po.
Interviewer: Ah OK po. So, who or what helped you cope with the difficulties
of having to grow up with separated parents po? And what way did they or it
helped you?
Miss Black: Sa akoa po is akoa lang sarili, gina-mind lang po na ko unsa
iyahang mga gipanghimo sa amoa like nganong wala na siya. So, bali
nadawat nalang po namo nga wala na jud siya di na jud wala na jud siyay
pakialam sa amoa po.
Interviewer: Dili na nimo gina-mind?
Miss Black: Dili na po, bisag mubalik siya kay murag wala na po
Interviewer: Ah OK po. So, how do you balance the financial stresses of your
parents’ separation with other aspects of your life, such as relationship,
education, and career?
Miss Black: So, ano po?
Interviewer: Giunsa nimo pag-balance imong diba naa man moy financial
stresses imong parents giunsa nimo pag-balance imong education like sa
imong studies or sa imong relationship kung baga?
Miss Black: First, gina una si mama man gud pud pag nay financial problem
is dili pud siya muingon sa amoa so bali wala pud mi kabalo po ana pero sa
education po murag wala man kaayo siya naka-affect po kay ginauna man
gud po na ko ang akong education sa uban ano po para mapulihan po ang
kahago ni mama.
Interviewer: Like giing-ana nimo pag-balance?
Miss Black: Yes po
Interviewer: So, next is mga insights ninyo po. So, can you share some
specific insights you gained from your experience of financial problems
caused by your parents’ separation? Like insights mga na-learned nimo sa
imong experience.
Miss Black: Financially po?
Interviewer: Opo or katong sa pagbulag po sa imong parents naa ba kay like
na-learned about ato?
Miss Black: Wala po kaayo kay since gamay pa po jud ko ato murag wala
pay buot po ana.
Interviewer: Karon na ningdako na ka like young adult na ka like unsay
imohang na-learned atong pag-separate sa imong parent unya naka
experience ka atong mga financial problems?
Miss Black: Kato po is dapat kay maning kamot lang jud po kung asa ka na
for example is, sa mama man ko na side. Tabangan lang po na ko akoang
mama para magka, para mas mulago po among business aron magpadayun
po among business para dili na po mi ma mangayo ug tabang sa amo papa.
So, bali tabangan lang jud namo amoang, akoang mama para
Interviewer: Like unsa natabang po like di’ ka mangayo sa imong mama?
Like tabangan nimo siya sa mga gastuhonon?
Miss Black: Magtabang lang po sa balay since ang kakapoy po ni mama.
Kapoy na po kayo iyang lawas murag dili na po siya katrabaho sa balay po
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ana. So, bali ang ang uban na natrabaho-on kay ako nalang ang musalo po
para makapahuway siya.
Interviewer: Ah OK po. So, in what way has your experience ay wait lang. So,
how has your experience of dealing with financial problem caused by parental
separation shaped your outlook on life? And what lesson have you learned
from that experience? Like, basi sa imong experience unsay naka pa-
changed ba siya sa imong perspective about like sa family, like complete
family ana po.
Miss Black: Yes po, since separated akong parent like dili man po. Maka ano
po ko nga dili need ug like duha po ka-parents’ para mabuhi ana kay enough
naman po akoang mama para mag-support sa amoa.
Interviewer: OK po. So, in what ways has your experience shaped your
perspective on the importance of financial education and planning, especially
in the context of separation or divorce? Like diba nagbulag man po imong
parents po then katong na ano inyong business po
Miss Black: Yes po
Interviewer: Like, unya wala nagtabang imohang papa
Miss Black: Opo
Interviewer: Giunsay, unsa na-learned nimo like unsa ka-importance about
sa unsa ka-important ang financial education and planning po? Para sa imoha
Miss Black: Importante jud siya po kay parehas atong covid if wala nag
financial planning si mama murag mo dili jud seguro ko mo po ko kaeskwela
karon kay since kay bag-o paman jud na-lift ang restriction sa covid.
Interviewer: Balikon nalang na ko po. In what ways has your experience
shaped your perspective on the importance of financial education and
planning, especially in the contact context of separation or divorce? Like, like
base sa imong experience nganong makaingon man ka nga importante ang
financial education ug planning as a young adult?
Miss Black: Importante jud po siya kay sa una ‘tong naguban pa po sila
mama ug papa is murag spoiled po kayo mi sa akong mga manghud igsoon
ing-ana tapos karon po is murag gina-limit na po ni mama ang gastuhonon
kay ang sa balay na mga gasto po ing-ana tapos ako po na-realize din po na
ko na mas unahon jud po ang needs kaysa sa wants kay in case of
emergency is like naa pud kay natago na kwarta po like magipon in case of
emergency naa kay magawas na kwarta po.
Interviewer: OK po. So, last question po. Looking back on your experience
what advice would you give to other young adults who may be dealing with
financial issues stemming from parental separation?
Miss Black: Akong mahatag lang po na advice is dapat i-manage jud nila
ilahang kwarta labaw na po if gikan pa sa parents like magipon jud po sila.
Unahon ang needs kaysa sa wants kay murag sa panahon po karon kay lisod
jud po baya kay murag mahal na po ang mga palitunon ana. So, mao ra po to.
Interviewer: Thank you po, thank you kaayo.
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Interviewer: So, wala po nag-changed since nagbulag po sila? Close pa po
mo karon po? Wala ninglayo imong buot po?
Mr. Red: Sa akong parents?
Interviewer: Yes po.
Mr. Red: Wala po, close gihapon mi.
Interviewer: So, did your experience of parental separation during childhood
still affect you until now?
Mr. Red: Aside atong gitubag na ko sa number three (3) one point three (1.3).
Sa una pa man kay katong gipanganak ko, nakaingon ko nga aside atong
gipanganak ko ato nga wala sila gikasal kay naguban pa man to sila sa una
buo pa mi ato sa una katong bata pa ko. Gina-sustained pa man ko nila ba
silay naga-sustained sa akoa sa una.
Interviewer: So, karon po kanang bulag na sila karon na nagdako na ka
nakaapekto ba gihapon na karon sa imoha?
Mr. Red: Ahh wala man pud naapekto sa akoa
Interviewer: Like, wala na ka apekto ilahang pagbulag sa imoha emotionally
or financially?
Mr. Red: Sa kung emotional lang jud na dili na ko sila ma
Inteviewer: Makauban?
Mr. Red: Opo
Interviewer: So, next na mo nga question na gusto namo ma makabalo is
how do young adults cope with financial problems after the separation of their
parents? So, unsa na mga supporta or kinsa ang nag-support sa imo or mga
resources nga naa kay access too as a child or as a young adult to help you
influenced your financial outcomes po?
Mr. Red: Since akong papa man kay last niya nakauban nako kay katung
kinder 2 pako ato, katung sa private paman ko ningeskwela ato, hantod karun
kay wala pa siya ni return sa akoa, pila na mi ka years na wala na nagkita or
wala siya ni bisita sa amoa, naa paman pud akong mama pero akong mama
man gud kay ni abroad man pud tu siya. Sa akong guardian lang ko ningpuyo
sa. Sauna pa katung bata pako ato since diha patu nisugod ug abroad akong
mama, sa akong lola pako ato unya si lola ang gaatiman sa amoa tapos karun
akong stepfather nasad kay akong mama mao pa toy pagkasal niya sa akong
stepfather, aside ana wala puy kasal ang both biological parents nako pero
naga-sustain paman pud sila sa ako.
Interviewer: So, imong parents’ pa gihapon ang naga-support?
Mr. Red: Oo naga-sustain pa gihapon sila, pero majority akong mama lang
jud kay sa side man ni mama ang permi tapos wala pa man kaayo ko kaila sa
side sa akong papa.
Interviewer: So, katung sa pagbulag saimong mama ug papa like who or
what helped you cope up with the difficulties of having to grow up with
separated parents po? Like kinsay nakatabang saimoha na ma-overcome or
makaya ang mga difficulties sa pagbulag sa imong parents po, kinsay naga-
advice sai moha or nagatabang sa imoha?
Mr. Red: Gina-share man tu ni lola sa akoa about sa relationship sa akong
parents tapos gina-reflect lang pud nako sa akong sarili.
Interviewer: Imong lola po ang nagatabang sa imoha na ma-overcome na?
Mr Red: Oo
Interviewer: Then next po is, what are the insights or mga lessons na imong
nahibal-an as young adult naka have gained from your experience, so pwede
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ka po ba mag-share like specific insight or kung unsa imong na-learn sa
pagbulag sa imohang parents po?
Mr. Red: Since separate akong parents pero nagatrabaho pa gihapon sila
para naa silay ma ika-sustain sa akoa, aside sa ilaha po nga nangita ug way
para ma-sustain ko, gina-sustain pud nako akong sarili, mangita nalang pud
kog way para ma-sustain pud nako sila or matabangan pud nako sila.
Interviewer: So unsa man pud nga tabang imong na hatag saila?
Mr. Red: Like maningkamot ko mahuman ug eskwela, para pud ma-achieve
nako ang maayo nga future ba, tapos matabangan nalang pud nako akong
parents pud.
Interviewer: So next po is, in what ways has your experience nakapabag-o
sa imohang perspective about the importance of financial education and
planning, kung importante jud ba ang financial education and planning
especially nagbulag imong parents po?
Mr. Red: Importante jud ang magtipid or mag-budget, as karun senior high
naman ko, akong papa ginahatagan ko niya ug allowance para sa unsay need
nako like projects, pamasahe or any needs nako.
Interviewer: Ginatipid na nimo po?
Mr. Red: Usahay po, depende sa kung unsa nga mga needs ang ma-spend
nako pero once man pud mahurot akong allowance po, gina-inform po nako
daan akong parents na hapit na mahurot akong allowance kay ginagasto
nako sa mga needs nako para sa akong eskwela.
Interviewer: So importante jud ang financial education, or ang pagtipid?
Mr. Red: Opo
Interviewer: Next question is, how has your experience of dealing with
parental separation shape or makapabag-o sa outlook sa imohang life po, and
what lessons have you learned from that experience? So, diba nagmention
man ka na wala kaayo kay problema sa financial, pero katung sa pagbulag sa
imohang parents, unsay nakapabag-o sa imohang outlook or perspective of
life po?
Mr. Red: As karun po, diba naka-mention man ko nga naay giingon si lola sa
akoa, kanang diha na nako nahibal-an nga sakit kaayu sa akong buot nga
akong mama kay dili jud siya ang first nga asawa, naa pa diay mas una nga
naminyo si papa, naa pa siya’y mas una na family pero wala pako kaila kinsay
side sa akoang papa.
Interviewer: So nakapa-change po na saimohang panan-aw sa kinabuhi?
Unsay nakapabag-o sa panan-aw nimo sa kinabuhi po katung sa pagbulag
saimong parents?
Mr. Red: Lisod pud nako ma-imagine kung naa bay possible na magbalik ba
mi as complete family or dili. As I said earlier na nagminyo natu ug lahi akong
mama, dili na jud kaayu, naa paman koy plano nga magkita mi sa akong
biological jud nga parents, magkita mi as kanang mabuo sad gani among
biological na family.
Interviewer: So last question po, looking back on your experience, unsay ma-
advice nimo to other young adults who maybe dealing with financial issues
stemming from parental separation? Or unsay ma-advice nimo sa other young
adults nga nakaagi ug parental separation?
Mr. Red: Base lang sa akong huna-huna, kung kaya ba nimo or gusto ba
nimo magtrabaho ka, para man pud sa imong future, basin naay possible pud
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na matabangan nimo inyong parents gani kung naa ba silay difficulties sa
ilang financial problems tabangan nimo.
Interviewer: Mao rato imong ma-advice na mutabang ra sila if kung naa silay
financial problems?
Mr. Red: Ug unsa pa, kung kaya pud nimo nga maka paningkamot na
makahuman sa imong skwela, pag-eskwela.
Interviewer: Mao ra to po, thank you kaayo, thank you sa cooperation po.
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pako gibiyaan, wala ko kaila sailaha ay kaila gud pero dili mi close, wala ko
kabalo sailang batasan kay usahay rami magkita, usahay rami mag-encounter,
so dili jud mi close. Gina ila lang nako sila as mama ug papa pero wala ko
kabalo unsa ilahang attitude or kinaiya then nakaapekto pud siya sa akoa
financially pud kay wala ko kabalo if either mangayo ko saila, wala ko kabalo
unsay iingon sailaha, maulaw gihapon ko kay dili mi close, separated sila,
maulaw ko sailaha even though anak ko nila.
Interviewer: So dili sila ang naga-financial support saimo po?
Miss Grey: Usahay, usahay if mangayo ko, if kailangan najud nako.
Interviewer: So next po is, does your experience of parental separation
during childhood still affect you until now po?
Miss Grey: Opo, mao to akong ginaingon nga lisod magdako ka or maka-
experience ka ug broken family, samot na saamoa na bata pami naka-
experience ug broken family then ginadala dala namo pagdako then mag-
seek mi ug attention from our parents, and then nakaapekto pa gihapon siya
sa amoa, nakaapekto siya hantud karun nga young adult na especially ingani
nga pang edaron kay naa ka sa punto sa imong life nga looking for attention
mga inana nga huna huna po.
Interviewer: So ang next is ang gusto namo makabalo, how do young adults
cope. So what kind of support or resources did you have access to as a child
or young adult to help you influence your financial outcomes po?
Miss Grey: Ako nagdako ko sa lola ang then napasa ko sa akong tita karun
which is naa sa Davao, and then karun nagsalig ko ug nag-rely ko sa akong
mga tita para mapaskwela ko soon ug balik, para matabangan ko sa akong
daily nga needs, akong maintenance, naga-rely ko sa akong tita sa akong
financial problem.
Interviewer: So next po is, who or what helped you with the difficulties of
having to grow up with separated parents and giunsa nila pagtabang saimoha
po?
Miss Grey: Mao to, sa akong nanay ko nag dako, si nanay ang nagtabang sa
akoa, si nanay ug tatay ang nagsilbing parents, then giunsa nila pagtabang sa
akoa like sila ang tanan, sila ang nagpadako, didtoa nga part dako na kaayo
na ug tabang sa akoa.
Interviewer: So next question po is, how do you balance the financial
stresses from your parents separation from other aspects of your life po, like
relationship, education and career goals po?
Miss Grey: Mao to, karun mag first year college na unta ko pero naay mga
things na wala ta kahibalo especially gipit mo sa kwarta, ang igasto para sa
college kay igamit sa imong maintenance. Makaapekto siya sa akoang life
kay instead na muskwela ko, especially sa akoang education bases kay
imbes na muskwela ko, ang gina-support nila mama karun kay sa akong sakit
nalang sa, gina-focus nalang sa lahi na butang instead sa lahi.
Interviewer: So giinana nimo pag-balance po,gi-set aside sa nimo ang-
Miss Grey: Ang skwela, gi-set aside sa nako akong skwela kay giuna nako
akong health issue.
Interviewer: So next question po is, sa mga insights po sa young adults.
What young adults have gained from their experiences of financial problems.
So pwede ba nimo I-share ang mga specific insights or mga imong na-learn
po from your experience of financial problems caused by your parent’s
separation po?
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Miss Grey: Akong mga na-learn? Siguro ano kailangan nako maging
independent, independent means dili lang sa isa kabutang but mag-
independent ko to balance like maghuna huna ko dili lang karun, naa pay
ugma so kailangan ko mag-budget ug kwarta, ipon, ipon para naay ma-save
para ugma, para sa next mga upcomings, ana.
Interviewer: So mao na imong na-learn po?
Miss Grey: Opo
Interviewer: Then next po is, how has your experience of dealing with
financial problem caused by parental separation shaped your outlook on life
po, giunsa pagbag-o sa parental separation ang view nimo sa kinabuhi po?
Miss Grey: Dako kaayu ug pagbag-o ang pagtan-aw nako sa family,even sa
akoang kaugalingon dili nako ma-picture out na magka-family soon, ingana
like focus sa ko sa akong kaugalingon. Then specially pag magbulag imong
family naa man jud mga financial issues na maabot so, dapat maghuna huna
jud ka ug taman before ka musulod kay lisod man gud musulod ka ug family
unya wala ka kabalo kung unsa nga financial issues imong ma-face in the
future, maybe mao na ang cause na magbulag imong family, so mao jud na
ang huna hunaon.
Interviewer: OK po, so next question po is, katu po imong na banggit po nga
maghuna huna sa first, so in what ways has your experience shaped your
perspective on the importance of financial education and planning especially
in the context of separation po?
Miss Grey: So para jud sa akoa, importante jud ang financial planning bago
ka musulod ug mga family things, kay lisod kaayu na diha pa ninyo planuhon
or musulod ka diretso sa family na wala kay huna huna or idea kung unsa ka
lisod ang family, then mudiretso raka. Maybe mao pa na ang cause nganong
magbulag mo, magkatibulaag mo kay about sa financial issues. Di mo
magkasinabtanay because utang diri, utang didto ka. Mas naa kay laing
priority than your family, ingana gani nga mga part.
Interviewer: ok po, so next question po is, how was your experience
influence your understanding of the impact of separation on family finances
and stability po?
Miss Grey: Sa akong experience, ang impact sa divorce on family situation
for me, experiencing a broken family situation doesn’t mean that youre going
to lose everything you have, pero maybe advantage pud to siya, dili lang
tanan disadvantage kay nagbulag or nag separate imong family. Maybe naa
pud gamay nga mga advantage ato na part. Para mas mugaan or mas ma
okay ang atmosphere sa inyong family, para dili na sila mag stay sa ingato
nga mga kasamok. Para maybe mag focus sila sa lain nga butang. Maybe
mag move on sila or mag move forward sa lain na butang, sa lain na way na
kanang sila na ang mag handle, sila na ang mag huna huna pero dapat gina
huna huna gihapon nila ilang anak. Even though nagbulag sila dapat gina
huna huna gihapon nila ang financial support sa ilang mga anak. Dili lang kay
nagbulag sila ila napud kalimtan ang tanan
Interviewer: So, ikaw po, naka experience na ba ka nga unstable inyong
family sa financial tungod sa impact sa separation.
Miss Grey: Opo, kapila na nga beses naka experience kog ingana pero go
with the flow lang kay di man to siya pasabot na mawala tanan sa akoa kung
Nawala pud ang family sa akoa. Kind of advantage, for me.
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Interviewer: OK po, last question po is, looking back on your experience po,
what advice would you give to other young adults who may be dealing with
financial issues stemming from parental separation po?
Miss Grey: Siguro akong advice nga mahatag sa pareha sa akoa nga naka
experience ug broken family situation is that, go lang lang sa life, sa akong gi
ingon ganina nga experiencing a broken family situation doesn’t mean that
youre going to lose everything you have. So maybe naay advantage, nay
disadvantage pero dapat dili lang ta mag focus sa disadvantage. Even though
maka experience tag financial issues pero dili na siya problema or issue nga
hantod sa hantod nimo dalhon. Which is pwede nimo malutas, dili man karon,
pero maybe sa upcoming, sa future makayahan na nimo. Kung di ka paboran
sa panahon karon, maybe ugma ikaw napud.
Interviewer: Thank you kayo sa cooperation po.
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nako a feel ang love sakong ginikanan. Kay masuya man gud ko naa pud koy
insecurity sa uban students, fellow teenagers na kompleto ilang pamilya, naa
ilang papa. So masuya ko ana na situation. Mao na akong challenges na ma
encounter tung nagbulag akong mama ug papa
Interviewer: OK po, so karon po how has your relationship with your parents
changed since their separation and how has this affected your financial
support? Close pa ba mo sa imohang mother or father?
Miss Skyblue: Sa akong father, tung bata pa ko tung naa pa siya kay close
jud mi. matawag siya nga murag papa’s girl jud ko. After atong nag separate
sila ni mama so mas ni distance mi. di pud nako maingon nga close close mi
sakong mama pero…
Interviewer: Close pa ba mo sa imong papa hantod ron, dili na?
Miss Skyblue: Dili na mi close akong papa
Interviewer: So naka apekto ni sa iyang financial support sa imoha?
Miss Skyblue: Naka apekto jud siyag dako kay since akong mama nalang
jud ga provide samong financial, sauna tung naa oa akong papa kay ga
provide gud siya pero gamay lang jud. Pero karon nan ga wala na siya sa
household namo mas nisamot nga nag lisod mi tunngod kay akong mama
rajud ga trabaho
Interviewer: Okay po, so next question po is did your experience of parental
separation during childhood still affect you until now?
Miss Skyblue: Yes, ga apekto kay lisod man gud nang Wala kay mama ug
papa kay kanang maulaw ka sa imong lola ug lolo ba nga mangayo kay
tigulang na biya na sila no. maglisod jud kag pangayog kwarta sa ilaha kay
makonsensya ka. Ga apekto gihapon siya sa akoa kay traumatic pud to na
bata pa ko kay naghiwalay na akong mama ug papa tapos labaw na ron na
pati ako magool na sa financial problems namo kay naluoy na pud ko sakong
mother kay siya ga provide sa amoa tas mag utang utang na siya kay para
lang jud maka hatag siya sa amoa. Among father kay di jud siya maka provide
sa amoa
Interviewer: OK po, so mao to imohang mg ana experience po
Miss Skyblue: Yes, mao to.
Interviewer: So ang next is, kami na researchers gusto namo mahibalan is,
how do young adults cope. So, what kind of support or resources did you
have access to as a child or karon nga young adult naka to help you influence
your financial outcomes?
Miss Skyblue: Akong source or support is mostly jud akong lola ug lolo pag
wala akong mother. As I said, akong mama lang jud gahatag ug akong lolo
and lola. Pero ginagmay lang ang ginahatagsa akong lolo ug lola
Interviewer: OK po, so next is who or what helped you coped with the
difficulties of having to grow up with separated parents and giunsa man pud
nila pag tabang sa imoha?
Miss Skyblue:Sa tao, kay akong igagaw. Kay ga help jud siya sa akoa kay
mag rant man ko about ana sa akong parents ba like “naglisod najud ko te sa
akong sitwasyon” so naa siya dira to comfort me. Usahay pud ginatabang pud
ko niya if wala koy kwarta. And if sa other things, gina immerse nako akong
self sa kpop para lang ma distract ko and naa koy kalipay. Little distraction
lang sa akong problema kay if di nako na buhaton, di ko magsulod ana na
hobbies or kagustuhan kay feel nako mas ma-stress na hinoon ko maghuna
huna kaysa naman sa wala koy distraction.
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Interviewer: OK po, so next po is, how did you cope with the new household
arrangement, coming from two parent household to one parent household?
Miss Skyblue: Lisod siya pero ginakaya lang nako para sakong manghud tas
naa mi nag puyo ron sa akong grandparents which is matawag na one
grandparent household, gina antos lang nako na ingato among sitwasyon kay
kapag mag sinelfish ko nga didto mi magpuyo sa among balay na kami lang
magpuyo sa igsuon kay akong mama kay layo man siyag gina trabahoan so
kami lang jud mabilin sakong igsoon. So didto nlang jud ko sa pikas balay
namo kay para naa pud mag provide sakong manghud if ever na kapoyon ko
sa school. So mao nang gina antos lang jud nako para sa akong igsoun
Interviewer: OK po, so next question is how do you balance the financial
stresses from your parents separation from other aspects of your life po,
pareha anang relationship, education and career goals?
Miss Skyblue: Lisod siya ibalance, actually. Kay naa man puy gastuhon sa
skwelahan ba ug sa balay. Dijud siya balance kay gina prioritize nako ang
gastuhunon sa balay instead na mangayo ko ug pera para maka gasto ko diri
sa skwelahan, di nalang ko mangayo kay tungod gina consider pud nako
akong lola ug lolo which is dira mi namuyo para di pud sila ma problema.
Gatigum pud mi kay para if ever kato maka help sap ag bayad sa skwelahan
such as miscellaneous or mga bayarunon diri sa classroom.
Interviewer: OK po, so next is mga insights sa young adults have gained
from their experiences of financial problems. So pwede ba nimo ma share
imong mga specific insights or mg ana learn from experience of financial
problems cause by your parents separation.
Miss Skyblue: Akong insight is lisod jud siya. Akong mga na experience tung
naglisod mi kay magtigum jud ka kay wala ka kabalo, for now kay stable pa
mo. For example, nahitabo namo, stable kaayo among financial atong time na
wala nag separate akong parents unya naa papud akong mommy, tung
mother sakong mama so wala mi kabalo, in a blink of an eye kay wala na diay,
unstable na among financial tungod ra sa Nawala na, namatay na pud akong
mommy tas akong parents kay nagbulag. So lisod jud siya, so dapat jud kay
mag learn jud ka nga mag tigum, mag save jud kag kwarta kay para in the
future bahalag di mag bulag imong parents or either magbulag kay naa na
kay naka andam na kwarta or naka save daan na kwarta in case of
emergency.
Interviewer:so mao na imong na learn po, magtigum?
Miss Skyblue: Yes
Interviewer: So, nagtigum ka po?
Miss Skyblue: Yes
Interviewer: So next question po is, how has your experience of dealing with
financial problem caused by parental separation shaped, nakapabago sa
imong outlook on life po, and what lessons have you learned from that
experience
Miss Skyblue: So just what I have said, before na tung experience nako,
naka tuon jud ko nga mag tigum so mas better jud diay na tung gina ignan ko
sauna na magtigum lagi tas dili mag seg gasto kay gastador man jud ko. So,
di jud nako ma pugngan, maypag kato na time kay naminaw jud ko sakong
parents ug grandparents na magtigum ato na time. If di man magtigum is mag
start nalang ug business kay para atleast maka kwarta ko kay uso man ang
online selling ron ang yet both ato wala jud nako nabuhat pero atleast, di jud
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nako siya ma ingon na nag tigum jud ko kay naa jud tay point in life na
makagasto ta niya ang akong coping mechanism gud is mag gasto so akong
ma ingon lang jud is magtigum jud labong sayo pa ang oras.
Interviewer: OK po, so next question po is, in what ways has your experience
shaped your perspective on the importance of financial education ang
planning especially in the context of separation or divorce?
Miss Skyblue: So based sakong experience, na shape akong perspective
kay importante jud diay na magplano ka ug kwarta kay kana bitaw naan aka
sa point of life na unstable na ka financially kay maka ingon jud ka nga money
can buy happiness, kay if there is no money, how can you buy happiness.
Kay if wala kay kwarta then magkaproblema ka. Same sa akoa na nag
struggle jud ko financially tas di lang pud ako, akong mama pud, naguol pud
ko sakong mother na permi na mag provide sa amoa. So na shape jud
akoang perspective unya importante jud na magplano sa ka, if ever na
maadto ka sa point na maminyo kay magplano sa ta about sa dili lang atong
life kundi sa kwarta, kay mostly akong nabantayan if wala biitaw kay kwarta
na ma ipon or if ever wala kay na save kay magbulag jud. Same sa akoa kay
financially stable man mi sauna so okay pa ang progress sa relation sa
among mama ug papa pero after nagkadugay tung akong mama nalang ang
nag provide, akong papa kay ginagmay rag lihok when it comes to working
kay didto na nahugno na jud amoang family sa financial problems namo unya
nasamotan pa tung nag separate na among parents.
Interviewer: So, para sa imo, importante jud ang financial education and
planning?
Miss Skyblue: Yes, very important jud siya, labaw na sa atoang kabataan ron
Interviewer: OK po, so next is, how did your experience influence your
understanding of the impact of separation on family finances and stability?
Miss Skyblue: So based sakong experiences, na influence jud akong
understanding of the impact of divorce or separation sa akong parents kay
nag-struggle jud mi financially sa akong family, dili man karun- akong
manghud kay, since duha man mi nu maglisod jud akong mama ug provide
sa amo kay duha mi ka anak unless if only child rako, so sa akong
understanding is importante jud na magtigom jud ta tas aside from that kay
grabe jud ang impact sa akoa, not just sa akoa, sa akoang manghud, sa
akong mother kay since kay tungod ana magutang utang man jud na nu if
kanang financially unstable ka, since tungod anang utang mao na di kahatag
akong mother kay tungod kay ginabayaran pud niya iyang mga utang sa lain,
mao grabe jud kaayo ang impact sa amoa, not just financially but also our
mental health kay grabe jud siya maka-trauma.
Interviewer: So grabe jud ang impact sa pagbulag saimong parents sa
inyuhang financial stability?
Miss Skyblue: Yes, kay katung sauna tung naa pa sila kay OK OK raman,
pagbulag jud nila grabe jud siya kay akong mama nalang jud nag provide,
wala juy natabang akong papa sa amoa.
Interviewer: So financially unstable mo hantud karun?
Miss Skyblue: Dili nako siya maingon nga wala mi kwarta, pero naa gihapon
mi kwarta pero dili lang nako maingon nga as in na daghan daghan jud ug
kwarta na maka-buy mi ug gusto namo, ang mapalit lang jud kay mga
pagkaon ug mga needs namo.
Interviewer: So mga needs lang inyung kailangan paliton?
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Miss Skyblue: Yes, kanang education, food kana lang jud among ma ano-
mao makaingon jud ko nga mao lang na among kaya na paliton ug financially
unstable jud mi
Kay mao ra among ma palit.
Interviewer: OK po, last question po is, looking back on your experience
unsa imong ma-advice na mahatag sa other young adults who maybe dealing
with financial problems stemming from parental separation?
Miss Skyblue: Sa akong ma-advice nako saila is, if maka-encounter mo
kuntahay separated na ilang parents diba, magsugod na jud mo ug tigom,
labaw na if ever bag-o bag-o ra nagbulag inyong parents, magtigom najud mo,
if ever man na gastador mo or something like that, kay either mag tigom mo
or mag-start namo ug business kay naa jud isa saimong parents na dili ka
provide sa inyung needs, like isa lang or in worse case scenario both saimong
parents dili maka provide sa inyung neesd, mas better na mag-start mo ug
business ug mag-learn to save your money para sa imong future needs ug
para sa imong kaugmaon kung gusto ka makahuman ka ug skwela para mas
ma-better imong kinabuhi.
Interviewer: Mao rana imong ma-advice po?
Miss Skyblue: Yes, mao ra.
Interviewer: Thank you po, mao rana among questions po, thank you sa
cooperation.
Miss Skyblue: Yes, thank you, and your welcome.
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Focus Group Discussion Transcript
Miss Maroon: OK ra
Interviewer: Purple
Miss Yellow: Oo
Miss Green: O
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Mr. Magenta: Sa akoa, syempre kay bata pa jud di’ man jud malikayan na
maglisud tungod sa pagbulag sa ginikanan. Maglisud jud mi sa financial if aha
mi mangita ug kwarta sapag kaon sad namo syempre bulag na lagi among
ginikanan.
Miss Maroon: Sa akoa kay wala man kay bisan naa si mama kay si papa ra
gihapon ang gatrabaho ba. Same ra gihapon sa karon nga nagbulag sila wala
gihapon nagbag-o.
Miss White: Like dili maghatag si papa kay magtipid tipid jud for example,
naay mga requirementsnaa bitaw mga needs unya walay nag-provide both
parents kay struggle jud siya like need nimo maningkamot na ikaw lang.
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Miss Green: Like nakahinumdom man gud ko kay papa gud
Miss Green: Ga-bus lang man mi ato ba unya then sa rizal man ko nag-
elementary ato unya ang iya lang sweldo kay igo ra sa akong pamiliti
padulong diria sa tagum then balon then iyaha pud balon pud. Maong wala
jud mabilin sa iyaha.
Interviewer: Ikaw po
Miss Purple: Yes, lisod gyud kaayo siya nga sa pag-separate is dili jud, sama
sa giingon ni Miss White na dili jud madali-dali ug hatag ang mga needs na
important gud especially sa studies then naa poy purpose nga sa pagbulag
nila nagundang because of financial problem so mao to dili jud pud siya lalim
struggle pud siya kaayo jud.
Mr. Blue: Ano lang still same lang gihapon kay ‘tong time nga wala pa sila
nag-separate akong papa man gihapon ang nagtrabaho ato the mao ra
gihapon same lang ang financial.
Miss Yellow: Ang ga-support lang sa akoa karon kay ang akong papa ug
akong tatay jud duha gyud sila pati akong tatay kay ang akong nanay is dili
man gud mi kanang OK sa akong mama gud. Mao to akong papa lang naga-
support sa akoa pero ang ga-support sa akong papa sa akoa is gamay lang
jud kaayo like dili pud siya kaabot ug bare minimum gud kay bukod sa
bisyoso pud akong papa. Mao to bisyoso akong papa then kung unsa
pangayo na ko dili na niya mahatag kay ginahatag naman niya sa iyahang
bisyo. Mao to nga ang ka-support lain sa akoa is akong tatay kay siya man
gud gikan ang maka-support jud kaayo sa akoa naa koy kailangan is
ginahatag niya biskin naglisod siya pero usahay kay naay times na kailangan
jud na ko magtrabaho aron naa koy pambaon sa akong eskwelahan.
Miss Green: Kay mama pero ano lang man gud siya tindera lang sa palengke
ba. So, dili jud taga adlaw iyahang trabaho tawagan lang siya pag naay mu-
absent. Mao lang.
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Miss White: Yes
Miss White: Akong father pero dili always like if needed lang jud kaayo ana
Miss Purple: Akong papa lang. Since I’m seven (7) years old kay si papa
lang jud nag-support tanan sa amo like baskin piso wala jud mi nahatagan sa
akoang mama since nga nagbulag sila di bali mura siya’g kaning bula gud
nga nawala. Like wala gyud siya’g naka hatag ug maskin tres (3) pesos man
lang.
Interviewer: Ikaw po Mister Blue? Ang question is both parents po ba still ga-
support sa imoha?
Mr. Blue: Dili na akong father lang since nag-separate po sila since parehas
sa Miss Purple since nagbulag, ang father nalang pud ang nag-support. Akoa
mother wala pud siya nahatag bisag gamay hantod karon.
Mr. Magenta: Sa akong lola ko naga-stay karon pero sa karon kay close ko
sa akong mama and then akong mama gyud ang naga-support sa akoa sa
pageskwela
Mr. Magenta: Sa karon kay batan-on naman jud naa naman jud tay sarili
natong panginahanglan ba syempre magpangita man jud ta ‘no kung unsa
atong panginahanglan mao tong maglisod gyud mi labaw na sa karon
pageskwela na ko.
Interviewer: Yes po
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Miss White: Labi na eskwela unya daghan kaayo ug bayronon kay lisod jud
siya pero kung ma-budget nimo kung kaya pa jud nimo siya ma-budget i-
budget nalang jud na apila imong patience ug budget.
Miss Purple: Ako? Same lang gihapon kay Miss White like sa karon man gud
is dili na pareha dati nga makaya-kaya ra ang mga gastuhon. Like, karon lisod
na jud kaayo siya pangitaon pamaagi labi na kaning sama sa giingon na
budget jud ang need jud basta separated imong parents’ kay syempre sa
tibuok family isa raman jud ang maglihok nga ing-ana. So, lisod jud siya.
Mr. Blue: Same lang pud mi ni Miss White ug ni Miss Purple. Ano mga
financial situation po karon diri sa school daghan kaayo mga amutan ug
bayrunon. Mao lang po na.
Interviewer: Ikaw po Miss Green and Miss Yellow? Like, still ga-affect ba
gihapon ni karon sa imoha financially?
Miss Yellow: Oo kay kung wala seguro nagbulag akong mama ug papa kay
naa man trabaho akong mama naa pud trabaho akong papa dili guro ko
maapekto. Ang reason man gud nga ngano bisyoso akong papa karon tungod
kay nagbulag sila sa akong mama. So, makaingon jud ko nga dako jud siya
nga effect ang pagbulag sa akong mama ug papa karon sa among current
nga financial situation kay mao ra gud naka-support sa akoa unya dili na
kaayo niya ma-cover akoang basic nga kinahanglan biskan nga basic nga
hygene dili niya mahatag tungod kay mao to tungod pud sa iyang sariling
problema nga dili niya mahatag sa akoa kay tungod ka dako pud ang epekto
sa iyaha sa pagbulag sa akong mama ba mao to.
Miss Green: Oo
Interviewer: Like, ngano po? Nganong makaingon man ka nga still ga-affect
gihapon sa imo?
Miss Green: Kay akong mama nalang man gud naga-support gihapon sa
akoa ba then naa gani usahay na naay bayaron sa eskwelahan dili dayun
mahatag kay wala naman gud siya tarong trabaho.
Miss Yellow: Other sa financial kay unsa pa man ha. Like, feel na ko kay
bukod sa financial kay naa ko sa akong papa ba pero feel na ko kay wala
gihapon sila. Daghan tao nakapalibot sa ako pero feel na ko wala gihapon sila
ing-ana gud. Focus ra kaayo sila sa ilang sarili wala na sila kabantay nga naa
pa diay silay anak.
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Interviewer: So, murag naapekto ang imong murag emotional?
Miss Maroon: Sa ako kay masuya gud ka sa lain nga bata gud na complete
sila ug family.
Miss White: Importante man jud na ‘no labaw na’g graduation unya like mu-
attend sa imohang recognition then walay present medyo sakit jud siya sa
buot, emotionally kay ako lang jud.
Mr. Blue: Na-ingon naman nila. OK lang man ‘no same lang
Mr. Blue: Nag-change ang relationship sa akong side sa kong mother ug ano
side sa akong father since nag-separate akong parents
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Mr. Blue: Dili na kaayo kay lahi man gud sa una tong wala pa nag-separate
akong parents close mi sa side sa akong mother then since nag-separate
silawala na kaayo mi conversation sa side sa akong mother.
Mr. Magenta: Sa akoa kay ang close ra gyud na ko kay akong mama ra gyud
then akong papa kay conflict bitaw ang relationship namo dili kayo mi,
pagmuadto gud siya sa balay kay dili kayo mi gatingog.
Miss Maroon: Sa akoa kay dati bag-o sila nagbulag kay dili mi close sa
akoang mama tas karon kay dawat naman pud na ko so OK na gud pero dili
ga-support si mama sa akoa, akong papa ra gyud ang ga-support ba
Miss Purple: Ako kay dako kaayo pag bag-o jud like gubot kaayo di’ jud
mawala basta separated ang family like syempre pagkasado po ang imohang
mama ug papa like sa side sa akong mama kay akong mama man ang naay
ano tas lisod gyud kaayo siya kay naay until karon na dili jud wala jud ano ba
na magbati gud like dagko kaayo mga kalagot like lain basta samok gyud
kaayo ang family samok gyud kaayo mao lang to.
Miss White: Ano ang sa side sa akong mother kay dili na jud mi close since
bata pa ko kay ana man akong nawng daw kay naga-symbolize siya sa akong
father so hate jud daw kaayo niya akong nawng murag ing-ana. So, dili jud mi
close then ningsamot siya karon nga nag-separate sila and then sa akong
father pud ten (10) years na mi wala nagkita. So, medyo taas na jud gap ang
amoang kanang closeness bitaw pero hoping gihapon na mag-close bitaw mi
kay syempre father gihapon na ko siya and then father girl like ing-ana. So,
karon kay dili na pud jud mi totally close kay both sa ilaha naa na pud other
families.
Miss Yellow: Sa akong mama kay wala na jud sukad pud atong kanus-a gani
to ha last last year man yata to naga adto man gud siya sa amoa sa mangga
didto man ko nagpuyo sa akong papa. Then, naa pud akong manghud sa
manga so bali kami tanan naguban kay papa unya naga adto siya didtoa kay
naa man akong mga manghud. Unya pagkahuman ato kay medyo naa gud mi
away mao to naglahi sila sa akong manghud. So, mao to sukad pud ato wala
na pud wala na jud mi nag-communicate or mas ninglayo na pud akong loob
sa iyaha.
Miss Green: Close naman na ko sila duha kay usahay kay ga-chat chat pa
man pud sila pero pag mangayo lang ug kwarta si papa mao lang.
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Interviewer: Pero imoha pong relationship sa ilaha wala po nagbag-o sukad
atong nagbulag sila?
Miss Green: Oo
Miss Green: Oo
Miss Yellow: Oo
Interviewer: How po? How so po? Nganong makaingon man ka po? Ay ikaw
lang sa po Miss Yellow
Miss Yellow: Oo, makaingon jud ko kay naa man gud part sa akoa nga
makakita ta sa laing uban pamilya ba nga kompleto then imoha kay dili maka-
feel ko ug jealousy kay what if ing-ana diay akong pamilya? Makaingon jud ko
nga nganong ing-ani akong pamilya? Nganong nganong ako man ing-ana?
Nganong akong mama ug papa kay ing-ana? So, mao to makaapekto
gihapon siya sa akoa karon kay dili man gud kaayo siya lalim nga ikaw lang
dili siya lalim nga imong pamilya kay bulag, didto ka nagpuyo sa imohang
papa unya imong mama kay wala pero naa imong papa pero feel nimo kay
ikaw lang gihapon isa murag ing-ana gud makaapekto gyud kaayo siya.
Miss White: Yes, like naa jud times nga mag-breakdown ka ‘no ma-
breakdown ka kay need nimo ug kana bitawng murag maka-lean ka sa imong
problem ma-share nimo kay even though naa kay friends mangita baya
gihapon ka ug moral support sa imohang parents’ kay lahi ra jud pud baya
kung sa ilaha gikan. So, dako gihapon siya’g impact until now like sa akong
confidence ing-ana bitaw kung sa support ing-ana.
Miss Purple: Oh, tama ‘tong imong gi-ingon. Agree jud kaayo ko kay Miss
White kay syempre kung kay karon man gud is kaning labaw na karon sa
generation is more on overthink overthink na ang mga persons unya human
kay lisod kaayo ba nga labi na ako kay father ang nag naa sa ako na dili na
ko murag never na ko na-experience ang mag-share sa akong mama like
syempre pag babae ka makig-open baya jud ka sa mother. So, murag ano
kaayo siya dako gyud gihapon siya impact hantod karon labi na karon nga
daghan kaayo’g problema jud labi na’g babae ka unya maulaw man gud ka
mag-share sa imong papa kay lalaki dili ka gusto mag-open ba. Maong mas
lisod jud kaayo pag-separated.
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Mr. Blue: O, karon naa gihapon siyay effect hantod sa akoa kay nay times
kada-gabie na mingawon ka kay lahi man gud ang kuan sa imong papa ang
mag-open ka sa imong mama ug sa imong papa. Then, mao lang to.
Miss Green: Oo, maka-affect gihapon makasuya lang sa uban ba kay what if
buo pud akong pamilya? Ing-ana pud seguro jud mi ka-happy ba. Mao nang
dili na lang jud ko magtan-aw sa uban nga naguban sila tanang pamilya kay
magselos ko.
Miss Maroon: Sa akoa karon kay dili na siya maka-affect kay nadawat
naman gud na ko jud
Mr. Magenta: Sa karon kay sa akong mama ra gyud ko gasalig kay syempre
kami nga nageskwela pa maglisod pa mi’g pangita’g trabaho
Miss Maroon: Sa akoa kay akong papa ra sad ko gasalig kay wala man koy
work ana
Miss White: Like, akong grandma since eight (8) years old elementary
hantod ‘ron siya jud ang nag-support sa akong financial kanangneeded lang
jud na ko sa iyaha jud gikan.
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Miss Purple: Ako syempre sa akong papa then sa mga relatives ni papa like
kung siya naga supporta sa akoa then wala pud nagpasagad ang iyahang
mga side gud, nag-support pud sila sa akoa.
Mr. Blue: Parehas mi ni Miss White sa grandmother naga pangayo pud ko’g
uban mga kinanghilanon na ko para sa syempre sa akong pageskwela. Then
naga tunga pud sila sa akong papa ug sa akong lola sa pag supporta sa akoa.
Miss Green: Ano lang naa man gud koy sosyo dati ba then mao ra to akong
ginahulat unya karon kay wala na.
Miss Green: Oo
Interviewer: So, who or what helped you cope with the difficulties of having to
grow up with separated parents? Like kinsa po ang nakatabang po sa inyoha
na makaya ang mga difficulties anang pagdako sa parents ay separated na
parents and what way did they or it helped you po? Like, giunsa po nila
pagtabang?
Miss Yellow: Ang nakatabang lang jud sa akoa financially kay akoang lolo
lang gyud kay mao ra man gud siya ang naga hatag gyud sa akoa. Then ang
akong papa kay dili baya kaayo kahatag sa akoa mao lang jud siya ang
nakahatag sa akoa ug makaeskwela ko maka padayon ko ug eskwela. Akong
lolo lang jud.
Miss White: Ano, mostly like nag-help gyud sa akoa na macope up ang
parental separation kay ang akong grandmother then siya jud mostly ang
nakatabang sa ako emotional support then mentally like kung mag-breakdown
ko even though dili na ko i-share sa iyaha kabalo siya ngano. Unya like
advices ing-ana advices nga need ing-ani aron maka padayun gihapon bisan
pa sa ato nga situation.
Mr. Blue: Ano same, sa akong ano lang grandmother lang gihapon siya ang
naga-comfort sa ako kung sometimes naga-breakdown pud ko mao na.
Mr. Magenta: Sa akoa kay akong parents’ kay ginatabangan man gihapon ko
nila sa financial ga-support gihapon sila ba para sa akong pageskwela.
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Mr. Magenta: Ay wala lang, gina-boost lang na ko akong kaugalingon sa
akong mga amigo labaw na sa akong mga barkada sa sports kay athlete man
gud ko ba then mao lang sa ila lang ko ay sa akong sports lang pud ko
kafocus nalang para mawala pud akong problema about sa pamilya.
Miss Maroon: Akoa kay friends, mga makauban na ko sa bike kay athlete
man pud ko ba pareha kay Mr. Magenta ana gud. So, nakatabang pud
akoang pagka-athlete para maovercome pud ang mga problema sa family.
Akoa pud mga ig-agaw ug mga relatives na ko.
Miss Purple: Sa akoa kay ang akoang papa gihapon kay happy ko kay diba
kasagaran baya karon is ang papa is murag dili kaayo close sa mga anak
pero pag akoang papa man gud is since gamay pa akong manghud pila gani
edad sa akong manghud ha wala pa jud siya nag one (1) years old gibya-an
na siya sa akong mama then ako seven (7) years old ko. So, nakaya siya sa
akong papa nga ay nakaya niya ang mga paglisod gud nga mao nang siya
gyud ang nagtabang sa ako ani kay sa gamay mi handtod karon kay wala jud
siya ning give up.
Interviewer: So, imong mga friends po ninyo po. Like naga tabang po ba sila
sa inyoha po?
Miss White: Kana bitawng type na person na introvert lang na muhilom lang
sa kilid kay dili ka kasabay sa ilaha and ang friends nimo kay dili ka nila byaan
dinha-a na situation, dili sila musugot nga maghilom hilom lang ka unya nag-
enjoy sila like dako jud kaayo sila
Miss Purple: Like dili ka ma OP like dili pud sila mu-judged the way nga
separated ka. Actually, i-share pud na mo sa ilaha then muhatag sila’g advice
unya makagaan pud sa among na-feel na mga advices nila.
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Miss Green: Akong step sister lang sa side ni papa ginatambagan lang ko
nila na dili lang daw magpadala.
Mr. Blue: Ano lang jud tipid tipid lang jud kay naa may sometimes nga walay
kwarta kay tungod pud lagi sa trabaho magundang undang imohang parents.
So, ano lang jud tipid lang.
Miss Maroon: Sa akoa kay ambot lang bisag unsa man akong iingon kay
papa ba kay mahatag man gud dayon niya. Kuntahay sa eskwelahan kay
mahatag man gud dayon niya gud pareha anang mga project or bayrunon
Miss Purple: Ako is ang pag-balance is as a person is pag dili kaayo nimo
makuha imong gusto nga kaning gusto gyud kaayo nimo unya human lack of
financial ka like dili makaya ug provide sa imong parents. So, ang mabuhat
nalang jud is musabot nalang jud ka, mu-balance nalang jud ka unya muingon
lang ka’g “ah okay, sunod nalang naa pa may sunod”. Like tama to siya Mister
Blue nga tipid tipid lang jud.
Miss White: Yes, sa giingon ni Miss Purple na if daghan kaayo ka’g wants
noe ma-attract gyud baya ka sa mga gamit nga gusto gyud kaayo nimo pero
kay nagtipid ka kay daghan pa ka’g others supportahan nga mas importante
pa ato unya pugong-pugong nalang sa jud. Naa jud ta ana para na jud seguro
sa imoha so if dili pa karon like
Miss Yellow: Para sa akoa man gud naglisod jud ko’g balance kay akoa ay
kuan man gud ko unsa tawag ana ha dali raman gud ko maapektohan gyud.
So, para sa ako maglisod jud ko’g balance kay once man gud na masobrahan
na ko ug problema kay makahuna huna nalang man gud ko ug suicide ana.
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So, akong bali ang akoang solusyon sa akong mga problema nalang gyud
kay suicide nalang jud. So, mao nalang jud na akong mahuna hunaan dili na
ko makaingon nga mabalanse pa na ko ang tanan na kong problema kay mao
ra man jud akong mahuna hunaan gud once na masobrahan jud ko sa akong
mga problema. So, mao to.
Miss Green: Same lang kay Miss Yellow, sa kadaghan na ko’g problema ba
makahuna huna nalang pud ko ug suicide unya maghikog unya dili nalang
pud na ko dayunon kay naa pa man gud si mama.
Miss Yellow: Ako lang masulti ay dili man gud pasabot nga naa ka sa imong
isa ka parent enough na ang financial support nila kailangan man jud ang
duha ka parents na mag-support sa imo pareha man gud sa akoa gud kay dili
mag-support ang mama sa akoa kay tungod daw kay naay trabaho akong
papa or responsibility jud daw sa akong papa nga mag-provide pero unsaon
man nga dili man enough iyahang pag-provide dapat kailangan sila jud duha
unya dili man siya mu-provide gud sa akoa. So, mao lang akong ma-share
nga kailangan bulag mo dapat kamo jud duha ang mag-support sa inyohang
anak dili kay ang isa lang gud unya isa pa kung naa moy problema dili ninyo
ipahungaw sa inyong anak kay makaapekto man gud sa ilaha gud kay
makahuna huna gud sila kung nganong ing-ana nganong naay problema si
papa nga ing-ana tungod man na sa akoa, tungod mana kay nganong tungod
mana nga tungod mana sa ako, tungod kay nageskwela ko tungod kay
pabigat ko, tungod kay wala pa koy trabaho wala pa koy matabang ing-ana ba.
Miss Yellow: Oo
Miss Maroon: Akoa kay same ra kay Mr. Magenta pero ang na-learned na ko
about sa ing-ana kay mu-fight lang gyud sa life bisag unsa kalisod sa imong
experience anang parental separation.
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Interviewer: Ikaw po ba Miss White?
Miss White: Oo
Mr. Blue: Sama lang pud sa gi-ingon ni Miss White nga self-support lang jud
kay na-learned na ko sa pag-separate sa akong parents’ kay dili tanan mag-
stay sa imoha.
Interviewer: So, naa pud ba moy in terms of finances naa pud ba moy ma-
learned unsaon pag manage like from your experience gud giunsa ninyo pag-
manage sa inyong financial giunsa ninyo pag-control sa inyong money like
nag tigom ba ka or something ana. Naa ba moy na-learned ana?
Miss White: Sa akong part ‘no kay one-day millionaire man jud ko bisan pag
wala nay kwarta bitaw like labi na’g deserve ko ni kay sa kahago na ko
deserve ko ni. Sa kadeserve na ko ani wala na koy kwarta mabilin. So,
Miss Purple: Ing-ana gyud, sa karon man gud kay murag matintal jud ka ba
like
Miss White: Yes, daghan kaayo ka’g mga wants na gusto jud nimo siya
makuha
Miss Purple: Like, labi na’g magtapok mo mag-friends like lain man gud nang
ikaw lang mabilin unya nagkaon-kaon na sila unsa mani. Mura ko’g buang ani
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Miss Purple: O gani tapos ikaw murag unsa mani
Miss White: Pero interms nga naa kay kailangan jud kaayo bisan pag gusto
jud kaayo nimo nga want jud nimo kay pugong
Miss Yellow: Akong ma ano lang is naa siya kuan na-negative gyud siya kay
unsa na unta dili ay mahuna hunaan na ko ba nga unsa na sila mama man
gud kay kadali ra kaayo sila nagkaila unya nabuntis dayun si mama sa akoa.
So, unsa dati man gud nga dati sa mga tigulang ba once nga maguyab uyab
na is pakasal na dayun ana-ana kay may pa man karon nga naguyab uyab
nga maabot ug kanang two (2) years na mga ing-ana magdugay jud ba kay
makaila jud ninyo ang isa’t isa dili pareha sa unang panahon nga magkaila
lang gani ipakasal na ana-ana. Mao to baskin pa ug kuntahay baskin pag
mabuntis pa ang babae kung unsa gyud kung dili gani sila para sa isa’t isa
unya dili gyud nila gusto dili na ipugos nga ipakasal kay lain man gud kaayo
kay maka-caused man gud siya, maka-caused siya ug negative sa bata gyud
kung dili gyud sila para sa isa’t isa dili na gyud pugson kay lisod kaayo nga
ang bata maoy maapektohan sa ilahang sariling problema ing-ana.
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Interviewer: Like, how has your experience of dealing with financial problems
caused by parental separation shaped your outlook on life?
Miss Purple: Ay wala gihapon siya nagbag-o like as same sa kana ganing
‘tong pagbulag jud nila nga adlaw is ako man gud mismo is ay nag-separate
man gud sila is into ano lang walay closure ba like ano lang siya into phone
lang and then nabalitaan nalang na mo nga naa na diay ano si mama like
murag lain. So, murag akong panan-aw is dili pud jud magbag-o kung unsa
jud ang nasugdan is mao na jud na dili na jud dili na jud ko dili na jud mabag-
o akong panan-aw sa ilaha.
Miss Purple: Yes, wala jud. So, akong na-learned ani is ang learned na ko
ana is sama sa tama tong gi-ingon ni Miss White na dili jud ay kaning dili na
ko i-experience puhon kung ako man ang magkapamilya ang na experience
na ko karon kay kabalo jud ko sa ma-feel kung unsa jud ang situation ba kung
unsa ka lisod ang as a student, as a person nga dili complete ang family. Mao
ra to.
Mr. Blue: Hala pareha raman mi uy. Ano pareha lang jud sa ano sa gi-ingon
ni Miss Purple kung ang sa on phone lang ang sa ano
Miss Purple: Oo maglibog man gud ka kung kinsa jud ang sa tama ug sa
mali like ikaw nga tao ikaw nga person nga naa ka sa point or naa ka sa
punto sa imong papa. So, maisip nimo nga mali ang side ni mama pero sa
tinuod diay is naa pa jud diay mga lalom nga rason nganong ing-ana. So,
tama ‘tong giingon ni Miss White nga dapat jud naay
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Mr. Magenta: Sa kana nga question kay wala koy matubag ana kay wala
man gud nagbag-o akong panan-aw sa akong ginikanan
Miss Maroon: Sa akoa kay wala, wala may changes gud sukad atong
nagbulag sila like positive man gihapon akong panan-aw sa life bisan ug
nagdako ko sa ing-ani nga situation.
Miss Purple: Ako, ako. Ano importante jud siya sa amoang ano like syempre
as a part sa separation ay ikaw nga students nga na unsay tawag ana gani
Interviewer: Na-experience?
Miss Purple: O naka-experience ana nga situation is siya dako siya’g ano sa
akoa kay dapat man gud ay nakalimot lagi ko sa akong iingon nahuna-hunaan
naman unta na ko to. Wait wait lang. Para lang man pud gud na sa imong
kaayuhan kung kay bali ikaw lang man gud ang maka kung wala kay karamay
nga inahan. So, it’s up to you nalang jud nga kayanon nimo ang tanan. So,
naa ra jud sa imoha nga magtipid ka naa ra sa imoha nga dili nimo or dili ka
mag about sa finances unsa ni kaning
Miss Purple: O sa planning nimo sa imong kinabuhi like ikaw lang jud ang
mag naa ra sa imohang decisions na. So, para sa akoa kay sa pag bulag sa
akoang mama ug papa permente ko ga-mind nga mudesisyon ko sa tama kay
syempre lisod kaayo nga dili mi kompleto nga ako lang gud ang mag-decide
like gusto pud na ko ba nga i-share na ko sa akoang papa pero syempre kay
wala koy mama maulaw jud ko musulti kay papa ambot uy since ano pa jud
ah since ano pa jud bata pa ko kay never jud ko nag-share kay papa about sa
problems tungod ana isa pud na sa dahilan nga na maglisod ko. So, sa
pagtipid tipid jud ka pero karon kay
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Miss White: Pero gusto gihapon
Miss Purple: Makagasto man gud gihapon ka kay grabe na’g gastuhon sa
pageskwela amutan palang daan sa PR pa kay dili pud kaayo gasto. So, wala
jud kay mabilin sa imong self so dili jud pag kana ang hisgutan kay syempre
maguna ka sa studies kay para mas matustusan nimo ang paghago sa
imohang parents.
Miss Green: Oo
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Mr. Magenta: Sa akoa kay kinahanglan jud siya na magplano sa ay
importante man gyud nang financial education and planning labaw na
pagmusulod ka or magkafamily ka in the future kay lain man gud kayo na
musulod ka ana nga butang unya wala diay kay kwarta na ikagasto maong
karon na bata pa ka dapat gyud na maka-learn na ka about sa financial and
planning kay para dilli ka mapareha sa imong parents ba nga nagbulag lang
kay tungod dili pa stable sa financial.
Miss Maroon: Sa akoa kay akong ma-advice lang kay dili sila magpaapekto
sa ilang situation karon sa parental separation dapat ipakita niya nga bisan ug
dili complete iyang parents’ kay kaya gihapon niya like mulaban gihapon siya.
Mr. Magenta: Ay sa akoa kay laban lang sa kinabuhi ug akong maingon kay
bisan ug bulag imong ginikanan kay naa gihapon ang kanang ginoo bitaw na
mubantay sa imoha ana.
Miss Yellow: Akong ma-advice lang kay kapoy siya pero padayun lang
gihapon kay unsa-on taman wala naman tay mabuhat kay sala mana nila, dili
mana na to sala nga ing-ana sila. So, wala tay mabuhat magpadayon nalang
ka ug ayaw i-mind kung unsa ang mga swerte sa ubang tao ana unya
kayanon lang jud maskin lisod.
Miss White: Sige. So, akong ma-advice lang base sa akong experience ‘no
kay nga kung naa kay pangarap jud is abta jud na if bisan pa ug ma unsa na
uy ma-delay bitaw ma-delay kay makaharang gyud na labi na’g financial as
long as makaya nimo’g padayon padayuna kung naay mga ways ayaw lang
nang mga ways nga wala na pud na mao ha, mga ways nga kaya jud nimo
abton nga pangarap nimo is abta jud as in. As long as makaya nimo kay wala
man gud ay pwede mana nimo mausab imohang plans pero kung kato jud
stick sa plans ka focus ka sa goal bisan pa’g dili naman gud na nimo makit-an
ang imohang mga makababag sa imohang plans kung focus kaayo ka sa
imohang goal like fr paningkamuti na makuha imong goal. Be strong lang sa
imoha like giingon ni Miss Purple kaganina nga as long as strong ka unya
kaya nimo abton without the help of your parents both I mean need man gyud
nimo na pero kung both sila need kay medyo lisod jud na labaw na kay
parental separation is kayanon nimo, kaya lagi nimo na.
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Miss Purple: So, akong ma-advice ‘no kay syempre sa as a na part sa ani na
situation is ano lang jud ayaw jud ayaw i-look back imohang mga past nga
unsa ang mga nakuan nimo unsa imohang na unsa ni
Mr. Blue: Ako dili man jud kaayo ko good sa mga advice advice sa mga tao.
Akong ma-ingon lang jud is i-support lang jud imong sarili ‘tong parehas sa gi-
ingon ni Miss Purple be strong lang and fight and keep following your goals
nga hantod maabot nimo na siya. Then, mao ra pud to kung unsa imong past
dili na pud nimo siya i-mind ang imong focus lang imong present ug mga
maabutay pa na days.
Interviewer: Ikaw po? Like gamay lang gyud nga advice po like unsa po
inyong pwede ma-advice?
Interviewer: Sige mao lang po tong questions po. Thank you po kaayo sa
cooperation.
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APPENDIX D
Participants Certification
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PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (IDI) held
last 06-05-23 at Arriesgado Visayan Village regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated" conducted by the investigator herself, Annika Remilda
Laisa Lumaan, I hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I
therefore categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided
during the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same
words I uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
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PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (IDI) held last 06-
16-23 at Tagum City National High School regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated" conducted by the investigator herself, Eddie Juan A.
Arcega, I hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I
therefore categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided
during the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same
words I uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
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PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (IDI) held
last 06-05-23 at Arriesgado Visayan Village regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated" conducted by the investigator herself, Joey Lane
Herbito, I hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I
therefore categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided
during the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same
words I uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
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PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (FGD) held last
06-05-23 at Arriesgado Visayan Village regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated" conducted by the investigator herself, Jorelyn C.
Martinez, I hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I
therefore categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided
during the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same
words I uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
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PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (FGD) held last
06-05-23 at Arriesgado Visayan Village regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated" conducted by the investigator herself, Levine Morales,
I hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I therefore
categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided during
the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same words I
uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
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PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (IDI) held
last 06-05-23 at Arriesgado Visayan Village regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated" conducted by the investigator herself, Angel M.
Polenio, I hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I
therefore categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided
during the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same
words I uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
190
PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (FGD) held last
06-05-23 at Arriesgado Visayan Village regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated" conducted by the investigator herself, Manilyn D.
Grancho, I hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I
therefore categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided
during the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same
words I uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
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PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (FGD) held last
06-05-23 at Arriesgado Visayan Village regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated" conducted by the investigator herself, Jaison Vinnie
Maniling, I hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I
therefore categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided
during the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same
words I uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
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PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (FGD) held last
06-05-23 at Arriesgado Visayan Village regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated" conducted by the investigator herself, Aldrey Pond, I
hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I therefore
categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided during
the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same words I
uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
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PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (IDI) held
last 06-05-23 at Arriesgado Visayan Village regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated" conducted by the investigator herself, Alessandra
Trisha Quijada, I hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I
therefore categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided
during the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same
words I uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
194
PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (FGD) held last
06-05-23 at Arriesgado Visayan Village regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated" conducted by the investigator herself, Brillian Lizbeth
Abella, I hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I therefore
categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided during
the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same words I
uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
195
PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (FGD) held last
06-05-23 at Arriesgado Visayan Village regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated" conducted by the investigator herself, Christian Neil
Elipian, I hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I therefore
categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided during
the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same words I
uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
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PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (IDI) held
last 06-16-23 at Prk 6- Gemini Village Apokon regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated" conducted by the investigator herself, Jocy Ann B.
Arsolon, I hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I
therefore categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided
during the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same
words I uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
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PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (IDI) held
last 06-17-23 at Arriesgado Visayan Village regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated" conducted by the investigator herself, Stella Merisa
Balidio, I hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I therefore
categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided during
the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same words I
uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
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PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (IDI) held
last 06-05-23 at Arriesgado Visayan Highway regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated" conducted by the investigator herself, Marla M. Caton,
I hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I therefore
categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided during
the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same words I
uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
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PARTICIPANT'S CERTIFICATION
After carefully reading and checking the transcription of the (FGD) held last
06-05-23 at Arriesgado Visayan Village regarding my concept of "A
Phenomenological Approach Into The Experiences of Young Adults Whose
Parents are Separated)" conducted by the investigator herself, Eliyah Faith
Labastida, I hereby attest to the truthfulness and accuracy of the data. I
therefore categorically declare it as the same information that I have provided
during the audio-recorded interview and that those words are the exact same
words I uttered in response to the investigator’s queries.
Among other things, the investigator has also correctly described the
circumstances surrounding the said interview, named the time and the place
of the meeting has kept his/her word that he/she will provide an opportunity to
verify the information I have given during the interview.
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APPENDIX E
Audit Trail
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AUDIT TRAIL
THEMES ARCHIVAL #
1. What are the experiences of young adults regarding financial problems
caused by parental separation?
Miss Yellow
Miss Brown
Mr. Blue
Financial Hardship
Miss Sky blue
Miss Green
Miss Grey
Miss Purple
Mr. Blue
Miss Pink
Stable Financial Despite Separation
Mr.Red
Mr. Beige
Miss Indigo
Mr. Magenta
Parental Absence
Miss White
Miss Yellow
Miss White
Miss Sky blue
Shift in Relationship Dynamics
Miss Yellow
Mr. Blue
Miss Grey
Seeking Parents’ Love and Attention Miss Sky blue
Miss Green
2. How do they cope with financial problems as young adults who
experience parental separation? ?
Miss White
Miss Brown
Miss Purple
Diverse Support System Miss Black
Miss Sky blue
Mr. Beige
Miss Indigo
Miss Pink
Miss Sky blue
Self-Care and Personal Growth Miss Indigo
Mr. Beige
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Miss Brown
Adaptive Financial Strategies Miss Yellow
Miss Orange
3. What are the insights young adults have gained from their experience of
financial problems caused by parental separation?
Miss Orange
Miss Pink
Miss White
Independence and Self-reliance
Mr. Beige
Miss Black
Miss Sky blue
Miss Black
Miss Pink
Miss Orange
Financial Education and Management Miss Brown
Miss Grey
Miss Brown
Miss Indigo
Mr. Magenta
Miss Brown
Positive Mindset Approach Miss Purple
Miss Grey
Miss Indigo
Miss Purple
Miss Yellow
Shifting Perspective on Family
Miss Indigo
Miss Pink
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This is to certify that I have reviewed and checked the manuscript titled “A
PHENOMENOLOGICAL APPROACH INTO THE LIVES OF YOUNG
ADULTS WHOSE PARENTS ARE SEPARATED”, for the second semester
of S.Y. 2022-2023.
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