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Condolence Message
Condolence Messages for Loss of a Mother
Condolence Messages for Loss of a Father
Religious Condolence Messages
Condolence & Sympathy Bible Verses
Simple Condolence Messages
Short Condolence Messages
How to Sign A Sympathy Card
Sample Condolences
Rest In Peace Messages
Miscarriage Condolences Message
Condolence Messages in Spanish

Condolence Definition
Why Send Condolence Message
Should I Send A Condolence Message
How To Write a Condolence Message
How To Offer Condolences Via Text Message
Offering Condolences Under Difficult Circumstances
Condolences For Loss Of Pet

Condolence Message

Finding the right words of condolence to offer the bereaved is


difficult. There is no perfect condolence message; there’s
nothing you could say that will make the sorrow disappear.
However, the following brief and simple condolences will let the
grieving family know you care:

Our thoughts are with you.


Thinking of you in these difficult times.
My prayers are with you and you family.
Our hearts go out to you in your time of sorrow.
Sharing in your sorrow with love and friendship.
No words can describe how sorry I am for your loss.
My heart goes out to you in your time of sorrow.
My Deepest Sympathy
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Condolence Messages
Condolence Messages for Loss of a Mother

Moms are special people, and we will pray for you and your
family.
(Name), you have my deepest sympathy! I am tremendously
saddened for your loss. The memory of your Mother will give
you comfort, and her legacy live through you all! God Bless your
family.
Your Mom always had a smile and a kind word. She was a joy to
know.
Heaven has added an Angel; your Mom was such a kind person.
God bless you and your family and watch over you during this
most difficult time.
Moms are special people, we will pray for you and your family.
Your Mom was a beautiful person inside and out, you and your
family are in our mind and prayers. In loving memory of your
Mother. From your Neighborhood Friends.
Your mom was a truly an extraordinary woman and was admired
by everyone who knew her.
May time heal the sadness that you feel with the loss of your
Mother. During these tough times, know that you are in our
thoughts and prayer.
We will pray for you and the rest of your family. God Bless your
Mom.
Thinking of you in the loss of your sweet dear mother. Love
(Name) Family!!!!
My heartfelt Condolence for the loss of your mother, we pray
your faith will give you strength.
The loss of your incredible mother has saddened us. You remain
in our thoughts and prayers. We love you all SO much!!
The loss of your mother has saddened our entire family, she was
such a great friend. We hope the precious memories you carry in
your heart will help you through this challenging time.
Moms are special people, and we will pray for you and your
family.
You are forever in our hearts and prayers. Your Mother was the
very best.
We would like to express our sorrow and condolences to you
and your family. Your Mother will be a part of our prayers from
now on.
I remember how much she used to love us, and take care of us,
and be there for all of us. We will always consider your Mom
part of our family.
Your mother was a gift to everyone who ever met her. Sorry for
your family’s loss.
Your mother encouraged others to be the best they could be.
That’s reflected in your life successes.
I am so thankful that I knew your mother. She was a wonderful
mentor.
Your mother was always laughing and brought joy to all of us.
Our condolences.
Please accept our genuine condolences in this difficult time for
you and your family. Loss of a Mother is a significant loss. We
share your pain and are here for you.
Your mother was a lovely woman and a dear friend, and the
news of her passing saddened us all. Wishing condolences from
our family to yours.
I was devastated to learn of your mother’s passing. I offer my
condolences, and I will be here for you and your family.
Your Mother was an Angel to all of us. Stay strong; you are in our
Prayers.
Keep the memory of your Mother alive, and may you find the
comfort you need.
We are devastated to hear of your Mom’s passing. You are in our
prayers, God Bless.
May your Mom rest in peace and continue to guide your way in
life.
Losing a parent is never easy, may you find solace in the lovely
memories you shared with your mom.
Suffering the loss of your mother pains and stings unlike
anything else. Please accept my sincere condolences and send
much love to your family.
May your Mom rest in peace. Please share our sympathies to
your entire family.
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Condolence Messages for Loss of a Father


The loss of a father is especially difficult to deal with. The
following sample condolence messages for the loss of a
father will help you to find comforting words to share:
May his memory be eternal. Your Dad truly loved his family.
Your dad was a kind man and a true gentleman, he always put
others before himself. He will undoubtedly be missed.
My sincere condolences. Your father was a remarkable friend,
and his passing was tragic. We will be praying for your family.
I am sorry for your loss. Your Dad was the pillar of our
community and will be missed. Your family is in our prayers.
Your Dad was such a nice man. It saddened us when we heard
he passed on. Rest in Heaven.
We are profoundly saddened for the loss of your father. You will
be in our prayers.
Your Dad always boasted about what a beautiful family he had. I
know that you meant so much to him. Truly sad for your loss.
I know, he will be looking out for you and your brothers always.
That’s the type of guy he was.
I worked with your Dad for over 35 years, he was a kind and
honest man. Please, tell your Mom that we share her sorrow.
Your Father has passed on, but his thoughts, hopes, and dreams
live on.
I am genuinely sorry for your loss. No condolence message can
express how much your Dad meant to me and how sad I am
about your loss.
Your Dad was a fantastic man who loved everyone, we were
privileged to work and golf with him.
I want you to know that all the people that worked with your Dad
are saddened. He was indeed a delightful man, and we will miss
him dearly.
I know how proud you were of your Father. His passing must me
hard on the family. We are praying for you.
I played high school football with your Dad, many years ago.
Over the years he would mention what a beautiful family he had
and thanked God for that blessing. He will be missed.
Your Dad brought much joy to all his Golf buddies. As you grieve,
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
I was saddened when I learned of your father’s death. (Name of
Deceased) was a wonderful friend and co-worker.
Your Dad was respected by all the people that worked for him.
He was a true leader, and we will miss him. Condolences from
everyone at the plant.
I was shocked by the news that your Dad has passed. He was a
great guy and will be missed by all of us. We are praying for your
entire family.
Please accept my heartfelt condolence of your father’s death.
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Religious Condolence Messages

(Name of deceased) has found eternal rest.


God sees and knows everything. He is with you right now.
May fond memories of your (Relative) bring you comfort during
this hard time in your life. My heart and prayers go out to you
and your family.
Our condolences to you and your family on the passing of your
aunt. May our friendship and prayers ease you through this
challenging time.
The loss of your brother deeply saddens me. He will be truly
missed, and I will include him in my daily prayers.
(Name of deceased) soul is now free.
I offer you my thoughts, prayers and well-wishes during this dark
time in your life.
Please accept my deepest condolences and know that God
loves you and can restore your spirits, give you peace, and
strengthen you.
(Name of deceased) pain is gone, and it is our turn to deal with
sorrow. (Name of deceased) has found eternal rest.
I cannot even begin to understand what you’re going through
right now, but I would like to offer my prayers and condolences.
May the soul of the dearly departed rest in peace, may my
prayers help guide her on her journey to our Creator.
We are deeply saddened by the news of (Name) passing. Our
thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
We/I are/am deeply saddened by the news of (Name of
deceased) passing. Our/My thoughts and prayers are with you
and your family.
(Name of deceased) soul is now at peace.
His compassion, they fail not. They are new every morning: great
is Thy faithfulness. Lamentations 3:22-23
May my condolences bring you comfort, and may my prayers
ease the pain of this loss.
Prayers and fond memories are what we have to remember
(Departed).
We want to offer our prayers and condolences to you and your
family.
He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the
weak. Isaiah 40:29
May God comfort you among the other mourners of Zion and
Jerusalem.
The hope of salvation is most important in our lives when death
touches us.
Call unto Me, and I will answer you… Jeremiah 33:3
I’ll be praying for you and your family. God’s love and grace are
always with you.
Please accept our condolences and may our prayers help
comfort you.
We’re praying that the light of God’s face shines on you in the
darkness of your grief.
Your loss deeply saddens us; may our prayers guide his soul to
our Heavenly Father. Sincere condolences!
God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.
Psalm 46:1
I leave with you; my peace I give to you. John 14:27
May our Lord bless and comfort you and your family during this
time of grief.
That you should know no further sorrow.
(Name of deceased) is resting with the lord.
I am sorry for your loss, and I want you to know that I will be
praying for strength, peace, and comfort for you and your family.
May the soul of (Name of deceased) rest in peace.
The thought of knowing that our loved ones are in the presence
of the savior can be of some comfort.
Heaven has received a new member.
May God embrace you in comfort during thisamazo difficult
time.
The Lord is my strength and my shield; my heart trusted in him
and I am helped. Psalm 28:7
We want to express our sorrow and condolences to you and
your family. She will be a part of our prayers from now on.

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Condolence & Sympathy Bible Verses


Everyone will eventually face death; the Bible has provided us
with hope for life after death.

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you
as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not
be afraid. John 14:27
So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am
your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you
with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10
Therefore, we will not fear, though the earth give way and the
mountains fall into the heart of the sea. Psalm 46:2
And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take
you to be with me that you also may be where I am. John 14:3
Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my
life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever. Psalm 23:6
Those who walk uprightly enter into peace; they find rest as they
lie in death.. Isaiah 57:2
The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who
are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18
For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe
that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in
him. Thessalonians 4:14
Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Matthew 5:4
Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil,
for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
Psalm 23:4

Bible Condolence Verses

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Simple Condolence Message


Our deepest sympathy and prayers to you and your family,
(Name of deceased) will deeply be missed.
May God wrap his arms around you and the entire family and
give you peace. We love you all and are so blessed to have
known Snow. Love always,
With heartfelt sympathy on the passing of your daughter, (Name
of deceased). May the love, prayers and support of your family
and friends bring you comfort during this most difficult time -
Love,
Our prayers continue for you, your mother, sister and family. May
this throw give you warmth and comfort as you carry the
memories of your father.
When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory
becomes a treasure. May you treasure all your memories of your
Mom. Hugs,
He was a wonderful father and grandfather to me and mom but
we know he was also your friend and confidant! I hope this helps
commemorate him for future generations of our family! With
Love,
Lori, I so wish I could be there today with you and your family. I
loved (Name of deceased) as a brother. I will continue to love
him and you all until we all greet one another in the Presence of
Christ!
Prayers for peace and comfort in the days ahead. Love,
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days
ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart. Love,
Our deepest sympathies.
May the good memories see you through the difficult times
ahead. We are all here for you!
So sorry! We are here if you need anything! She was an amazing
person!
We hope this blanket will bring you warmth and support in your
time of grief and in the days to come. With our deepest
condolences
Those who have shown us love, brought us joy, and made us
laugh, have given us the lasting gifts of a beautiful life - and
blessed our memories forever. Our Sincere Sympathy.
May this special throw give you warmth, peace and comfort.
Love your cousins
(Name) and I continue to remember you in our thoughts and
prayers believing that God will provide you all that you need to
endure.
We are so sorry for your loss. Ed was an amazing man and we
were blessed he was a part of our Family
We are so sorry to hear about your mom. We are keeping you
and the family in our thoughts and prayers. We are here for you
if you need anything. Love,
Our hearts are saddened by your loss and our thoughts and
prayers are with you. Sincerely,
A great man has left this earth but will forever be in our hearts.
Great memories will live on. All our love,
Our sympathy for the loss of your father. Sincerely, your
coworkers
I know it's nowhere near the same, but maybe sometimes when
you're really missing your mom, you can wrap this blanket
around your shoulders and imagine it's a hug from her. I cannot
express
How sorry I am that she has gone so soon. My heart is with you.
Love,
We hope you know how much you and yours are loved. We are
so sorry.
Know that our thoughts are with you and your family at this
sorrowful time. May you know that your dad is now at peace and
he Loved you Dearly...Our Deepest Sympathy---
For you and your sisters, from all of us in your work Family. We
know your dad had to be spectacular as he raised you. You are a
wonderful legacy.
Although we are apart in miles, we are together always in heart
and spirit. Much much love,
May you feel warm embrace, comfort and peace in your grief
journey. You and your family are close in thought and prayer. I
love you
Words just can't say enough. Know that I mourn with you and
pray for your strength through this painful loss. Love,

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Short Condolences Messages

Short Condolence Messages

A kind voice is just a phone call away.


A loved ones passing is never easy.
A thought of comfort and condolences to the grieving family.
Allow the love of others to lift you in this time of grief.
Allow yourself time to grieve tears can heal the soul.
I am deeply saddened by (Name of deceased) death.
I am sorry for your loss. Our thoughts are with you and your
family during these difficult times.
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your (Name of
deceased). I don’t know what to say.
This must be really tough for you.
I hurt for you.
I want to express my condolences to you.
I want to offer my deepest condolences.
I want you to know friends who love you surround you.
I was deeply saddened by the news of (Name of deceased)
passing.
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
I was truly saddened by the death of (Name of deceased).
I will be thinking of you in this moment of pain.
I hope you can hold on to the good memories.
I’m always there in your hour of need. May her soul rest in
peace.
I’m so sorry about your (Father, Mother; Brother; etc. or Name
the deceased)
If we can provide you comfort, know our thoughts are with you.
It was a shock to hear the news of (Name of deceased) passing.
Let patience be upon you in this time of grief.
Let the memories of (Name of deceased) life comfort you in
his/her death.
May the memories of (Name of deceased) help you find peace.
May the passage of time heal your grief.
May you find comfort in loving memories.
My family and I were saddened to learn of (Name of deceased)
death.
My family extends to you our deepest sympathies.
My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your family
No words can describe how sorry I am for your loss.
Our collective hearts are heavy with sympathy.
Our hearts are with you.
Our hearts go out to you in your time of sorrow.
Please accept our heartfelt condolences.
Please let me know of any way I can help you.
Sharing in your sorrow with love and friendship.
Someone so special can never be forgotten.
Sorry to hear about (Name of deceased). It is never easy. My
prayers are with you and your family.
The news of (Name of deceased) death brings much sadness.
There were few who could compare to (Name of deceased).
Thinking of you, at this time of loss.
We are consumed with sadness to learn of the tragic loss of
(Name of deceased).
We are here for you.
We are thinking of you during these difficult times.
We cannot begin to imagine what you are feeling but let us
share our heart-felt condolence.
We know the day will come but death always leaves us with
grief.
We offer deepest condolences to you and your family.
We pray the love for the lost is forever carried in your memory.
We stand by our uncle, in a time where his beloved wife passed
away.
When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory
becomes a treasure.
Words fall short of expressing my sorrow for your loss.
Words fall short of expressing my sorrow. My condolences.
You and your family are in our prayers. Sorry to hear of your loss.
You are in our hearts and prayers.
Your family is surrounded by the love of many.

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How to Sign a Sympathy Card?

Listed below are examples of simple condolence signatures to


assist in selecting a closing that expresses your feelings.

Caring thoughts are with you, (Name)


God bless you and comfort you, (Name)
God bless, (Name)
In caring sympathy, (Name)
Keeping you in our prayers, (Name)
Lifting you up in prayer, (Name)
My heart goes out to you, (Name)
My sincere condolences, (Name)
Please accept our condolences, (Name)
Praying for you, (Name)
Sharing your sadness, (Name)
Thinking of you, (Name)
Wishing you healing, (Name)
Wishing you peace, (Name)
With caring, (Name)
With deepest sympathy, (Name)
With heartfelt sympathy, (Name)
With love at this sad time, (Name)
With prayers and sympathy, (Name)
With sincere sympathy, (Name)
With sympathy, (Name)
With warm thoughts and prayers, (Name)
With you in sorrow, (Name)

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Sample Condolences

God rest my wonderful childhood friend and reward you for a


lifetime of service to the lord.
Deepest condolences to all of the (Name) family. I will always
remember (Deceased Name) love for his family.
After a lifetime of friendship, it is very difficult to say goodbye.
Our deepest sympathy to your family.
Thinking of your family, (Deceased Name) was a great friend to
my parents and our family.
Lord be with you at this time. She is safe in the arms of Jesus
now. Our deepest condolences.
So sorry to hear about (Deceased Name) - she was a dear, sweet
person that had a lot of love in her heart! She will be missed!!
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Had the pleasure of working with your Brother, everything
seemed brighter when he was around. We share your sorrow.
Our hearts ache for you during this difficult time.
All of us from (School) High School, Class of '67 express our
sincerest condolences to the family of (Deceased Name). She
will surely be missed by everyone.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. God bless
Your Sister will be missed. I am a better person because of her.
God Bless your family.
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Rest In Peace Messages

The expression "Rest In Peace", RIP, is used in classical Christian


services and prayers. The following collection of short RIP
messages are ideal for cards, letters, flowers, texts, tweets,
Facebook or emails:

Someone so special can never be forgotten, may his soul rest in


peace.
My families hearts are with you and your family, may (Name of
deceased) rest In peace.
Please be strong so that her soul can rest in peace.
May (Her/His) the soul rest in peace.
My prayers to the Almighty would be that may her soul rest in
peace and may you stay calm.
May the soul of your (Name of deceased) rest in peace.
A good person has stopped beating, a good soul soared to
heaven. We part with our beloved (Name of deceased) in pain. -
RIP
Rest in peace, my friend.
Rest in peace, (Name of deceased). And thank you.
Condolences and Prayers to the Family ..RIP!
Spanish - descansa en paz
Vietnamese - An Nghỉ
Arabic - arqid fi salam
French - repose en paix
Chinese - 安息
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Miscarriage Condolences Message- Focus on a basic, simple


and loving message.

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m here for you.


Is there anything I can do for you right now?
If you ever want to talk, I’m here for you.
I know you must be hurting, and I'm here to listen.
Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own
understanding. Proverbs 3:5
"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen,
nor touched, but are felt in the heart." - Helen Keller

Now your an angel, even before you were born.


I know your in heaven, but my heart is torn.
I had only four months, to celebrate your life.
The wonder of what you may have been, How I never got to hold
you tight.
When they told me your heart had stopped, I wanted to go with
you.
But I knew I had to be strong, and hold on.
For god has taken my angel to a place far beyond.
Johanna M. Bailey
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Condolence & Sympathy Messages in Spanish

Lamento su pérdida y quiero que sepa que oraré por la fortaleza,


la paz y la comodidad para usted y su familia.
I am sorry for your loss and I want you to know that I will pray for strength, peace and
comfort for you and your family.
Rezaré por ti y por tu familia. El amor y la gracia de Dios están
siempre contigo.
I will pray for you and your family. The love and grace of God are always with you.
La esperanza de salvación es más importante en nuestras vidas
cuando la muerte nos toca.
The hope of salvation is more important in our lives when death touches us.
Estamos orando para que la luz del rostro de Dios pueda brillar
sobre ti en la oscuridad de tu dolor.
We are praying that the light of God's face may shine on you in the darkness of your pain.
El cielo ha recibido un nuevo miembro.
Heaven has received a new member.
Lamento su pérdida y quiero que sepa que oraré por la fortaleza,
la paz y la comodidad para usted y su familia.
I am sorry for your loss and I want you to know that I will pray for strength, peace and
comfort for you and your family.
Por favor acepte mis más profundas condolencias y sepa que
Dios lo ama y puede restaurar sus espíritus, darle paz y
fortalecerlo.
Please accept my deepest condolences and know that God loves you and can restore your
spirits, give you peace and strengthen you.
Dios lo ve y lo sabe todo. El esta contigo en este momento
God sees it and knows everything. He is with you at this time
Nosotros / yo estamos / estamos profundamente tristes por la
noticia de (Nombre del fallecido) que pasa. Nuestros / Mis
pensamientos y oraciones están con usted y su familia.
We / we are / are deeply saddened by the news of (Name of the deceased) that passes.
Our / My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Las oraciones y los buenos recuerdos son lo que debemos
recordar (Partidos).
Prayers and good memories are what we must remember (Matches).
Que nuestro Señor los bendiga y consuele a usted y a su familia
durante este tiempo de dolor.
May our Lord bless and comfort you and your family during this time of pain.
Que el alma de (Nombre del difunto) descanse en paz.
May the soul of (Name of the deceased) rest in peace.
Nos gustaría ofrecer nuestras oraciones y condolencias a usted
y su familia.
We would like to offer our prayers and condolences to you and your family.
Que Dios te abrace con comodidad durante este tiempo difícil.
May God embrace you comfortably during this difficult time.
Dios es nuestro refugio y fortaleza, una ayuda muy presente en
problemas. Salmo 46:1
God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in problems. Psalm 46:1
Llámame y te responderé ... Jeremías 33:3
Call me and I will answer you ... Jeremiah 33:3
Da fuerza a los cansados ​y aumenta el poder de los débiles.
Isaías 40:29
Give strength to the tired and increase the power of the weak. Isaiah 40:29
Te acompaño en este momento de duelo / de dolor
I accompany you in this moment of grief / pain
Lamento profundamente esta gran pérdida.
I deeply regret this great loss.
Mis mas profundas condolencias
My deepest condolences
Isaías 41:10 no temas, porque yo estoy contigo; no desmayes,
porque yo soy tu Dios; Te fortaleceré, te ayudaré, te defenderé
con mi mano derecha justa.
Isaiah 41:10 Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, because I am your God; I
will strengthen you, I will help you, I will defend you with my right hand.

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Condolences - Sharing In Your Sorrow


Condolences Definition

Simply an expression of sympathy in which someone is made aware that their pain
is shared. Latin word condole, meaning “To Suffer Together.”
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Why Send a Condolence Message?


Many times we we think the grieving individual wants space, but
that is usually not the case. Condolences bring comfort to the
bereaved and let them know that you are thinking of them. This
is particularly meaningful if you are far away and unable to
attend the funeral or remembrance service.

Expressing condolences can be difficult, heart-breaking,


awkward, distressing and sometimes even embarrassing. It is
not something one does everyday and very few people can
claim to be skilled at this.

Very often, people simply feel that it is better to ignore the event
and carry on with your life, leaving the bereaved to sort
themselves out and come to terms with the death.

Here are a few points to re-consider if you are in two minds


about sending condolences.

1. Not expressing condolences can have long lasting


subconscious negative effects that will worry you - ignoring the
event is not good for your well-being. It can leave you with a
sense of unfinished business that will niggle for years to come.
2. Meeting up with the bereaved friends or family at a later stage
may raise feelings of embarrassment and tension, knowing that
you did not send condolences.
3. Sending condolences gives you a sense of calmness and clarity.
It allows you to take time and evaluate your relationship with the
deceased. It lets you ponder and express your thoughts in
meaningful words. You don't have to write screeds, a few simple
lines will do. Find words that will bring joy to the mourners.
Highlight a special quality, an event, a warm anecdote or a
community deed that the person did.
4. Condolences bring comfort to the bereaved and let them know
that you are thinking of them. This is particularly meaningful if
you are far away and unable to attend the funeral or
remembrance service.
5. Once the trauma is over, friends and family will sit down and
read the condolence notes. Your words will bring comfort,
guidance and support and help them deal with the passing.
6. Very often the family are in a traumatic state and are not able to
talk to you. Sending condolences is a way to reach out, make
contact and let them know that you are thinking of them.
7. If you are able to offer help, your condolence message can
include that as a suggestion. Family may help to do errands and
tasks that they are unable to deal with. Your message will make
it easier for them to ask for help.

Take the time and do the right thing. If you are not good with
words and are struggling to decide what to say, take a look at
our selection of condolence cards and messages. They will give
you ideas and help you choose the correct thoughts and words
to convey your feelings.
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Should I Send A Condolence Message?


When you learn about the death of a person, you are filled with a
variety of emotions. These will vary depending on how close you
were to that person or under what circumstances your lives
touched one another. Letting the bereaved know that you care
will mean a lot. Reaching out and offering your condolences is
always a good choice.

You could be a very close family member or a life-time friend, in


which case this event will be both traumatic and devastating.
Perhaps you are a distant relative who didn’t have much contact
but are still saddened.

People you interact with daily in the work place could be friends,
respected colleagues, admired mentors or even not-well-liked.
But, their passing will leave you with mixed feelings on how to
deal with this.

Neighbors, members of the community, your local Church, book


clubs, gyms and other recreational venues have been part of
your life and their passing should be acknowledged in a
dignified and thoughtful manner.

Many people are not good with words and struggle to find the
appropriate thing to say. Our selection of condolence cards and
messages will give you ideas and help you to choose the correct
words to convey your feelings.
Here are some helping hints

1. A loved one is probably the most difficult. Try to include some


personal mention of happy moments that will bring comfort to
the bereaved when they read it.
2. A close friend can be remembered by special times spent
together and memories shared.
3. Acknowledge co-workers by telling the bereaved how they
impacted on your life on a daily basis or inspired you, as you
spent many hours together in the work place.
4. Neighbors can be remembered with thanks for their support and
friendship.
5. Community members can be acknowledged for their work and
dedication to the neighborhood and local initiatives.

Always be true to yourself. Don’t write words that you don’t feel
are true. If the person was not close to you, simply express
condolences and good wishes. If the person was close, a
personal note will bring much needed comfort to those reading
the condolence messages.
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How To Write a Condolence Message

Writing an effective and meaningful condolence can help the


grieving individual get through a difficult period. It’s important to
correctly express your sorrow and offer appropriate support.

Foremost, Take into consideration the relationship between the


the person grieving and the deceased. The condolence message
would be different for an immediate family member such as
husband, father, or child rather than a cousin or family friend.

Another consideration would the circumstances of the passing.


Was the deceased older and passed from natural causes or a
younger person that died in an accident. Occasionally the death
may have been the result of drug overdose or suicide.

Religious beliefs can influence the message. “May his soul rest
in peace” or a favorite Bible Verse would be comforting for a
deeply religious person. A Sympathy Quote such as “Unable are
the loved to die, for love is immortality - Emily Dickinson” would
provide solace to a non-believer.

After you’ve thought about the consideration above, look at the


the list of suggested Condolence Message and select one or
combine several.
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How To Offer Condolences Via Text Message

Texting has become a part of modern day life. Very few people
will claim not to have sent a text message to someone about
something. In fact, today, SMS texting is fast becoming the
substitute for actually talking, especially when it comes to the
younger generation.

Is it appropriate to send a condolence text? Sending


your condolences via text is dependent on your relationship
with the bereaved. If it is your Grandfather, probably not a good
idea; however, a younger friend would be a suitable way to
express sorrow.

Texting Condolence Message Example:

1. I am so sorry for the passing of your sister. Call me when you


have time - I want to help.
2. Sincere condolences from our family to yours. Your Father was
a loving, kind, and full of positive energy. May he Rest In Peace.
3. So sorry for your loss. He lived an amazing life. Prayers to the
Your Family.
4. [Deceased] was a wonderful man to work with. He will be
remembered by his [Company Name] family.
5. Please accept the heartfelt sympathy from The Class of 1970 -
North High School . We are holding you in our thoughts and
prayers.
6. [Name] my sympathy to you and family on the passing of your
wife. May GOD continue to bless and comfort you at this time
7. Accept my condolences.
8. So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you!
9. My prayers are with you and family.
10. [Name], You are in my prayers during this time of the loss of
your brother.

Note: With an SMS Text, you can send a message of up to 160


characters to another device. Longer messages are commonly
divided into multiple messages.

How Do You write a Condolence SMS text?

Like many people, you may be at a loss for words. Very few
people encounter death on a regular basis and often are not
sure what to say. Reading through our list of suggested text
messages will give you some ideas. You can even use them as
is, if you feel that they adequately express your thoughts.

Without a second thought, when learning about a happy event,


we are more than ready to text messages of congratulations.
Happy Birthdays, Thank You’s, Anniversaries, Engagements,
great achievements, winning awards and all types of celebratory
occasions get us tapping away on our mobile devices. We can
choose frivolous and colorful emojis to enhance our message
and have loads of fun.

But, when it comes to offering condolences, many people may


hesitate after they have received the news. Apart from the
expected emotions of shock, grief, sadness and loss, we are
faced with a dilemma. Does one send a text message or email?
Is it appropriate? How will it be received? What does one say?
Dealing with news of a death is not something that one does
every day and there is sure to be an amount of stress as to how
to communicate with the bereaved.

Considerations When Texting a Condolence Message:

1 - Different age groups will respond differently.

For the younger generation, texting is a part of life and sending


condolence messages via a mobile device will probably be the
first thing that comes to mind. Texting is the way of
communicating and it would make sense to convey your initial
thoughts and reactions in the same way.

The older generation, or people with a more formal outlook on


life, may feel that sending a message via text is not appropriate.
It may seem to be too impersonal, frivolous or informal. Calling
and offering condolences via the phone will appear to be a
better and more suitable way of expressing your thoughts.

2 - Consider how you usually communicate with the bereaved.

If you communicate regularly via text with the person suffering


the loss, a text message will be acceptable and probably
expected. It may seem strange to the bereaved not to receive an
instant message from a close friend or family member who
connects via text messages on a regular basis. Send a simple
message and say that you will follow up with a phone call or
visit when appropriate.

3 - What if you cannot easily get hold of the family or the


bereaved person?

Trying to contact a bereaved person soon after a loss may be


difficult. You may often find that the person is not answering
their phone or has handed it over to a family spokesperson to
field the calls. They could be grieving, comforting others, trying
to cope or simply do want to talk to anyone at this early stage. In
this case, sending a text message to let them know that you
have heard the news and are grieving with them is a start. Say
that you have tried to call and understand that they are not
available. Text some suitable words from the heart that express
your feelings. End by saying that you will follow up with another
phone call in a day or so.

4 - How did you hear about the death?

Today, many people will text out the message of a death. It


works well if the person is not close to you or is part of a large
network, or well known in the community. Personally calling
dozens of people may not be a viable option. Group texting is
quick and efficient. If you belong to a WhatsApp or similar type
of social media group, you may very well receive the sad news
via a text. In this case, you can feel comfortable responding in a
similar fashion.

5 - Is the bereaved a business colleague?

In the business world, you are probably often texting colleagues,


suppliers and other people in your organization that you have
possibly never met face to face or have not spoken to one on
one. Sending a text message will be an acceptable means of
communicating. You can express condolences from yourself,
other colleagues, your department or section of the company.

6 - What if you are at a loss for words?

Many people feel that they cannot easily deal with death and
bad news. They may feel awkward, tongue-tied or at a loss for
words. You may feel embarrassed that your emotions will get
the better of you on a personal call. In this case, send a text
message and say that you are so upset that you cannot deal
with a one on one call. Text a thoughtful message and end by
saying that you will follow up soon when you can deal with the
death and speak calmly.

7 - What if the person does not respond?

Don’t take it personally if the person you are texting does not
respond. They are probably dealing with all sorts of pressures,
both emotional and logistically. Comforting other family
members, coming to terms with their own grief and making
funeral arrangements will be their first priority. Send your
message and leave it at that. They will eventually get to sit down
and follow up. Remember that they are probably receiving many
messages and working through them all will take time.

8 - Offering help via text message

If you are available or live nearby, you can offer to help via
sending a text message. People often need food, lifts, baby
sitters or someone to run errands. If you can do this, say so in
your message and be ready to respond if asked.

10 - It is becoming a trend to set up Social Media Pages or


Forums.

If the deceased had a Social Media page, their death is often


announced on the page by a family spokesperson. Followers of
Social Media pages like Facebook are then able to message
their condolences, feelings and thoughts on the page. Be
respectful and keep it simple and sincere. Read the message
that the family spokesperson has posted and try to keep to the
same tone and feel. Often they may ask for personal
experiences, photos or stories to build up a long-lasting
keepsake of the deceased. In this case, you can feel free to
express yourself and write about your special memories.

11 - On Social Media, you can offer condolences for a famous


person that you admired.

Everyone has their personal heroes in life. They may be movie


stars, music icons, artists, authors, royalty, politicians or other
people in the spotlight. Prior to Social Media, learning about a
death would probably be via a printed newspaper, radio or TV
news broadcast. This was impersonal and simply transmitted
information. Today, you are able to take a much more personal
approach to a death of your icon. Posting your message on
Social Media gives people a feeling of being involved and able to
express your unique thoughts.

You can choose to create your own post or you can add your
message to existing posts. A word of caution - if you are
planning on creating a new post or posting on a Facebook Wall,
make sure that the family is aware of this and have given you a
go ahead. They may still be informing close family or key people,
and won’t want the news to be made public at that moment in
time. Be as thoughtful and respectful as possible and if in doubt,
rather do not post public messages.

If you find that a public or friends-only Social Media page has


been created, then feel free to add your message. You can write
your own words or choose from our suggested list of
expressions depending on your relationship with the deceased.

12 - What about using Emoticons?

Adding emoticons to text messages has become an accepted


part of the mobile messaging culture. They are fun and trendy
and add character to your message. When it comes to text
messages of condolences, it is probably preferable not to add
emoticons, unless you are really close to the bereaved and they
understand you. If in doubt, type a simple and meaningful
message and leave out the emojis.

13 - Should you follow up with a formal communication?

Depending on how close you are to the bereaved, you should


consider some sort of formal communication as a follow up to
your text message. If the person is a remote colleague or
someone you don’t know very well, a text message will suffice. If
you have a closer relationship, then there are several options you
can consider.
Making a one-on-one phone call is the way it has been done for
generations. Call the person up, have a chat and express your
condolences. Don’t ask leading questions if the cause of death
was in any way tragic or unexpected. Rather allow the grieving
person to talk when they are ready.

Sending a letter or sympathy card is an acceptable way of


communicating. There is a great selection of sympathy cards
that you buy and post. If you don’t have time to get out and
shop, you can even arrange Online to have one sent to the home
via special Websites.

Paying a visit to the bereaved family is a wonderful gesture. Try


to establish from the family spokesperson when the best time
will be and take along a small gift or plate of food.

Attending the funeral or memorial service is the ultimate means


of expressing your condolences. If you are able to attend the
funeral, then do so. It shows your commitment and makes you
part of the grieving process. It also allows you to speak directly
to the bereaved and the family.

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Offering Condolences Under Difficult Circumstances

Offering condolences is difficult for most people - it is not


something we do everyday. How does one write words that are
honest and meaningful without sounding awkward or simply
saying the wrong thing?

Being old and dying peacefully in your sleep is a blessing that


very few will have. Many people die under tragic or difficult
circumstances, making the writing of a condolence note even
more of a challenge.

Here are some ideas to help you write a meaningful note under
difficult circumstances.

1. Many families have rifts. Sisters and brothers don’t talk to one
another, parents and children fall out. When someone dies,
these rifts take on another perspective, often leaving you with
the helpless feeling that ‘it is too late to make amends’. Choose
simple words and indicate that you wanted to heal the rift but
didn’t know how. The bereaved will at least have that measure of
comfort in years to come.
2. Strained friendships are part of life and take on a new dimension
when someone passes on. If you learn that a friend’s loved one
has passed, send a condolence note. Mention that you miss the
wonderful times you shared and that you would love to rekindle
your friendship when they are ready.
3. A boss or work colleague you dislike passes on – it may be
terrible to say but in real life some people might feel relieved or
even happy. Keep these thoughts to yourself and in no way pass
them onto the grieving family. Write a simple note that offers
condolences, don’t say anything negative and leave it at that.
4. Suicide is a shock for all and can leave close friends and
relatives with feelings of guilt. Your condolence note is not the
time to pry and ask for details. These issues can be dealt with at
a later stage.
5. Tragic accidents are a part of life. Express condolences and
don’t ask for details. The bereaved often do not want to talk
about the event and prefer to be reminded of happy memories or
anecdotes about the person.
6. Be aware of religious issues. Saying things like ‘She is happy in
Heaven’ may upset people who do not have the same cultural
beliefs as you. Avoid references like this unless you are sure of
the religious beliefs of the family.
7. Illness and death. Avoid clichés like ‘He is better off now’. These
statements do not help the mourners. Rather focus on a
personal good memory and write about that. The family will read
your message at a later stage and gain comfort from it.

If you are struggling to write a condolence note, browse through


our messages and cards. They will give you ideas and help you
find the meaningful words you need.
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Condolences For Loss Of Pet

For pet lovers, losing a pet can be as traumatic and distressing


as losing a family member or close friend. For non-pet people,
this can sometimes be a difficult thing to understand and quite
hard to raise the emotions one needs to write a condolence
note. The following are sample pet condolence messages:

May the memories of your beloved (Name) soften the grief in


your heart.
The heart remembers greatest what it has loved best. May
loving memories comfort you and bring you peace.
(Name) sure was lucky to have you in her life.
(Name) had such a marvelous life with you. I’m so sorry you had
to say goodbye.
(Name) was fortunate to have had you love them so much.
I am sorry for your loss. (Name) will be greatly missed.
You’re not alone. I understand your grief and know there’s a hole
in your heart. I’m here.
You loved (Her/Him) with everything you had; that’s what all pets
want the most.
With deepest sympathy on the loss of your beloved friend,
(Name).
(Name) was one in a million.

Understanding that the person is suffering grief and despair will


help put you in the right frame of mind. They need to mourn and
heal in the same way a person would do after losing a loved
one.

For older people who live alone, a pet is sometimes the only
companion they have had for years and the loss can be
devastating.

Short Cat Loss Poem


Four Feet in Heaven

Your favorite chair is vacant now…


No eager purrs to greet me.
No softly padded paws to run
Ecstatically to meet me.

No coaxing rubs, no plaintive cry


Will say it’s time for feeding.
I’ve put away your bowl, and all
The things you won’t be needing;

But I will miss you little friend,


For I could never measure
The happiness you brought me,
The comfort and the pleasure.

And since God put you here to share


In earthly joy and sorrow;
I’m sure there’ll be a place for you
In Heaven’s bright tomorrow…

Alice E. Chase

Children can be traumatized by the death of a pet. This is often


the first real-life experience of death, making it all that more
difficult to cope with.

Couples who are unable to have children often treat their pets as
children and are just as devastated when they pass on.

Here are a few things to keep in mind when talking to a friend,


or writing a condolence note, after a pet has died.

1. Try to use the name of the pet if you know it. Pets are part of the
family and have names like everyone else – not just ‘dog’ or
‘cat’.
2. Ask if they need help with anything. Sometimes removing the
pets toys, eating bowls and bedding can be traumatic. If you are
up to it, they may welcome your help.
3. Include a fun anecdote or a fond memory in your condolence
message about an experience you had with their pet. At a later
stage, the bereaved will read the messages and get a sense of
comfort.
4. Don’t say things like ‘When are you getting another one?’. It will
certainly upset the person – you would never say that if a child
had passed on.
5. Don’t mention your own experiences of a pet dying - it is not the
time or place. Let the person talk and be a good listener.
6. If a pet was put to sleep, the person is probably dealing with
feelings of guilt and remorse. This is not an easy decision to
make and you cannot pass judgment. Simply listen and offer
support.
7. Don’t say things like ‘She was old and it was for the best’. Those
are not the feelings that the mourners are experiencing. Imagine
that the pet was a person and you will get the correct
perspective.

Browse our collection of condolence messages and cards - they


are ideal for pets too. The suggestions will help you find the
correct words to say, offering comfort to a grieving friend or
loved one.
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