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Condolence Message
Condolence Messages for Loss of a Mother
Condolence Messages for Loss of a Father
Religious Condolence Messages
Condolence & Sympathy Bible Verses
Simple Condolence Messages
Short Condolence Messages
How to Sign A Sympathy Card
Sample Condolences
Rest In Peace Messages
Miscarriage Condolences Message
Condolence Messages in Spanish
Condolence Definition
Why Send Condolence Message
Should I Send A Condolence Message
How To Write a Condolence Message
How To Offer Condolences Via Text Message
Offering Condolences Under Difficult Circumstances
Condolences For Loss Of Pet
Condolence Message
Condolence Messages
Condolence Messages for Loss of a Mother
Moms are special people, and we will pray for you and your
family.
(Name), you have my deepest sympathy! I am tremendously
saddened for your loss. The memory of your Mother will give
you comfort, and her legacy live through you all! God Bless your
family.
Your Mom always had a smile and a kind word. She was a joy to
know.
Heaven has added an Angel; your Mom was such a kind person.
God bless you and your family and watch over you during this
most difficult time.
Moms are special people, we will pray for you and your family.
Your Mom was a beautiful person inside and out, you and your
family are in our mind and prayers. In loving memory of your
Mother. From your Neighborhood Friends.
Your mom was a truly an extraordinary woman and was admired
by everyone who knew her.
May time heal the sadness that you feel with the loss of your
Mother. During these tough times, know that you are in our
thoughts and prayer.
We will pray for you and the rest of your family. God Bless your
Mom.
Thinking of you in the loss of your sweet dear mother. Love
(Name) Family!!!!
My heartfelt Condolence for the loss of your mother, we pray
your faith will give you strength.
The loss of your incredible mother has saddened us. You remain
in our thoughts and prayers. We love you all SO much!!
The loss of your mother has saddened our entire family, she was
such a great friend. We hope the precious memories you carry in
your heart will help you through this challenging time.
Moms are special people, and we will pray for you and your
family.
You are forever in our hearts and prayers. Your Mother was the
very best.
We would like to express our sorrow and condolences to you
and your family. Your Mother will be a part of our prayers from
now on.
I remember how much she used to love us, and take care of us,
and be there for all of us. We will always consider your Mom
part of our family.
Your mother was a gift to everyone who ever met her. Sorry for
your family’s loss.
Your mother encouraged others to be the best they could be.
That’s reflected in your life successes.
I am so thankful that I knew your mother. She was a wonderful
mentor.
Your mother was always laughing and brought joy to all of us.
Our condolences.
Please accept our genuine condolences in this difficult time for
you and your family. Loss of a Mother is a significant loss. We
share your pain and are here for you.
Your mother was a lovely woman and a dear friend, and the
news of her passing saddened us all. Wishing condolences from
our family to yours.
I was devastated to learn of your mother’s passing. I offer my
condolences, and I will be here for you and your family.
Your Mother was an Angel to all of us. Stay strong; you are in our
Prayers.
Keep the memory of your Mother alive, and may you find the
comfort you need.
We are devastated to hear of your Mom’s passing. You are in our
prayers, God Bless.
May your Mom rest in peace and continue to guide your way in
life.
Losing a parent is never easy, may you find solace in the lovely
memories you shared with your mom.
Suffering the loss of your mother pains and stings unlike
anything else. Please accept my sincere condolences and send
much love to your family.
May your Mom rest in peace. Please share our sympathies to
your entire family.
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Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you
as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not
be afraid. John 14:27
So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am
your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you
with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10
Therefore, we will not fear, though the earth give way and the
mountains fall into the heart of the sea. Psalm 46:2
And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take
you to be with me that you also may be where I am. John 14:3
Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my
life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever. Psalm 23:6
Those who walk uprightly enter into peace; they find rest as they
lie in death.. Isaiah 57:2
The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who
are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18
For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe
that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in
him. Thessalonians 4:14
Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Matthew 5:4
Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil,
for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
Psalm 23:4
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Short Condolences Messages
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Sample Condolences
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Simply an expression of sympathy in which someone is made aware that their pain
is shared. Latin word condole, meaning “To Suffer Together.”
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Very often, people simply feel that it is better to ignore the event
and carry on with your life, leaving the bereaved to sort
themselves out and come to terms with the death.
Take the time and do the right thing. If you are not good with
words and are struggling to decide what to say, take a look at
our selection of condolence cards and messages. They will give
you ideas and help you choose the correct thoughts and words
to convey your feelings.
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People you interact with daily in the work place could be friends,
respected colleagues, admired mentors or even not-well-liked.
But, their passing will leave you with mixed feelings on how to
deal with this.
Many people are not good with words and struggle to find the
appropriate thing to say. Our selection of condolence cards and
messages will give you ideas and help you to choose the correct
words to convey your feelings.
Here are some helping hints
Always be true to yourself. Don’t write words that you don’t feel
are true. If the person was not close to you, simply express
condolences and good wishes. If the person was close, a
personal note will bring much needed comfort to those reading
the condolence messages.
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Religious beliefs can influence the message. “May his soul rest
in peace” or a favorite Bible Verse would be comforting for a
deeply religious person. A Sympathy Quote such as “Unable are
the loved to die, for love is immortality - Emily Dickinson” would
provide solace to a non-believer.
Texting has become a part of modern day life. Very few people
will claim not to have sent a text message to someone about
something. In fact, today, SMS texting is fast becoming the
substitute for actually talking, especially when it comes to the
younger generation.
Like many people, you may be at a loss for words. Very few
people encounter death on a regular basis and often are not
sure what to say. Reading through our list of suggested text
messages will give you some ideas. You can even use them as
is, if you feel that they adequately express your thoughts.
Many people feel that they cannot easily deal with death and
bad news. They may feel awkward, tongue-tied or at a loss for
words. You may feel embarrassed that your emotions will get
the better of you on a personal call. In this case, send a text
message and say that you are so upset that you cannot deal
with a one on one call. Text a thoughtful message and end by
saying that you will follow up soon when you can deal with the
death and speak calmly.
Don’t take it personally if the person you are texting does not
respond. They are probably dealing with all sorts of pressures,
both emotional and logistically. Comforting other family
members, coming to terms with their own grief and making
funeral arrangements will be their first priority. Send your
message and leave it at that. They will eventually get to sit down
and follow up. Remember that they are probably receiving many
messages and working through them all will take time.
If you are available or live nearby, you can offer to help via
sending a text message. People often need food, lifts, baby
sitters or someone to run errands. If you can do this, say so in
your message and be ready to respond if asked.
You can choose to create your own post or you can add your
message to existing posts. A word of caution - if you are
planning on creating a new post or posting on a Facebook Wall,
make sure that the family is aware of this and have given you a
go ahead. They may still be informing close family or key people,
and won’t want the news to be made public at that moment in
time. Be as thoughtful and respectful as possible and if in doubt,
rather do not post public messages.
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Here are some ideas to help you write a meaningful note under
difficult circumstances.
1. Many families have rifts. Sisters and brothers don’t talk to one
another, parents and children fall out. When someone dies,
these rifts take on another perspective, often leaving you with
the helpless feeling that ‘it is too late to make amends’. Choose
simple words and indicate that you wanted to heal the rift but
didn’t know how. The bereaved will at least have that measure of
comfort in years to come.
2. Strained friendships are part of life and take on a new dimension
when someone passes on. If you learn that a friend’s loved one
has passed, send a condolence note. Mention that you miss the
wonderful times you shared and that you would love to rekindle
your friendship when they are ready.
3. A boss or work colleague you dislike passes on – it may be
terrible to say but in real life some people might feel relieved or
even happy. Keep these thoughts to yourself and in no way pass
them onto the grieving family. Write a simple note that offers
condolences, don’t say anything negative and leave it at that.
4. Suicide is a shock for all and can leave close friends and
relatives with feelings of guilt. Your condolence note is not the
time to pry and ask for details. These issues can be dealt with at
a later stage.
5. Tragic accidents are a part of life. Express condolences and
don’t ask for details. The bereaved often do not want to talk
about the event and prefer to be reminded of happy memories or
anecdotes about the person.
6. Be aware of religious issues. Saying things like ‘She is happy in
Heaven’ may upset people who do not have the same cultural
beliefs as you. Avoid references like this unless you are sure of
the religious beliefs of the family.
7. Illness and death. Avoid clichés like ‘He is better off now’. These
statements do not help the mourners. Rather focus on a
personal good memory and write about that. The family will read
your message at a later stage and gain comfort from it.
For older people who live alone, a pet is sometimes the only
companion they have had for years and the loss can be
devastating.
Alice E. Chase
Couples who are unable to have children often treat their pets as
children and are just as devastated when they pass on.
1. Try to use the name of the pet if you know it. Pets are part of the
family and have names like everyone else – not just ‘dog’ or
‘cat’.
2. Ask if they need help with anything. Sometimes removing the
pets toys, eating bowls and bedding can be traumatic. If you are
up to it, they may welcome your help.
3. Include a fun anecdote or a fond memory in your condolence
message about an experience you had with their pet. At a later
stage, the bereaved will read the messages and get a sense of
comfort.
4. Don’t say things like ‘When are you getting another one?’. It will
certainly upset the person – you would never say that if a child
had passed on.
5. Don’t mention your own experiences of a pet dying - it is not the
time or place. Let the person talk and be a good listener.
6. If a pet was put to sleep, the person is probably dealing with
feelings of guilt and remorse. This is not an easy decision to
make and you cannot pass judgment. Simply listen and offer
support.
7. Don’t say things like ‘She was old and it was for the best’. Those
are not the feelings that the mourners are experiencing. Imagine
that the pet was a person and you will get the correct
perspective.