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STUART BONNINGTON1
Auslin Peay State University
of .25 ( P < .05). Further, the correlation for family-of-origin's health between the
divorced persons' scores and the scores of responding family of origin's members was
.38 (n = 36). For the family of origin's members, M = 130.8, SD = 32.7, and range
= 55-196. The family-of-origin respondents included 14 sisters, 12 mothers, 7
brothers, 1 father, and 1 stepmother.
While the expected correlation between adjustment to divorce and perceived health
of the family of origin was not substantiated, it was interesting to note the low, sig-
nificant correlation between feel~ngsof self-worth and perceived health of the family of
origin for women. Gilligan's ( 2 ) d~scussionof the differences in men's and women's
self-concept development may clarify this finding. In Gilligan's conceptualization, fe-
males' development is tied much more heavily to "connectedness" than is males'. Gilli-
gan conceptualized males' development as hinging much more o n differentiarion from
the family. The finding seems consistent with that explanation. While the correlation
for self-esteem and perceived health of the family of origin for men was extremely low,
this r was based on a small number of men ( n = 19). Such correlations must be
validated o n larger samples.
The low significant correlation between perceived health of the family of origin
for the divorced persons and for their family of origin members suggests this scale may
measure a common perception among family members. Perhaps this correlation was in-
fluenced by the divorced persons' choices of family members, for they may have tended
to select those members whom they expected would agree with them about the health
of the family of origin. Also, siblings' scores may correlate higher than parent/child
scores, as siblings may share a more common view of family atmosphere. A larger study
comparing siblings' scores with parent/child scores may be worthwhile.
A number of respondents added comments to the Family of Origin Scale which sug-
gest further psychodynamic aspects. Several individuals characterized the experience of
completing the scale as having been painful but valuable. One respondent noted that it
was difficult for her to complete the scale because her parents were "totally different"
from each other. This woman asked her mother to complete the scale. That both had
high scores suggests this person's memory of her family of origin is more tied to the
influence of her mother than that of her father. Another woman noted that she answered
the scale in relation to her father whom she perceived as having had a much more nega-
tive influence on her.
An examination of family-of-origin issues may have a place i n counseling those
seeking help in adjusting to divorce as issues of autonomy and intimacy are salient for
this population. As has been shown by Fisher ( I ) , self-esteem normally shows a con-
siderable fluctuation during such an adjustment process.
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1. FISHER,B. F. (1978) When your relationsh+ ends. Boulder, CO: Family Relations
Learning Center Publ.
2. GILLIGAN, C. (1982) In a different voice. Cambridge, M A : Harvard Univer.
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3. GOODE,W.J. (1956) After divorce. Glencoe, IL. Free Press.
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5. KANTOR, D., & VICKERS,M. I. (1983) Divorce along the family life cycle. In
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Accepted March 10,1988.