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Objectives: By participating in this Stop the Tears teaching strategy, students will be able to: (1) analyze how alcohol
and drug abuse could affect their lives as well as the lives of their friends and family and, (2) create a media message,
such as a poster, pamphlet, poem, or song, in which alcohol and drug prevention is advocated specific to how alcohol
and drug abuse has affected students in their school. Target Audience: Students in grades 6-12 and lower-division
college students.
Shimon J, Gibson T-A, Spear C. Stop the tears of drug and alcohol abuse. Am J Health Educ. 2009;40(6):373-377.
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• My father is an alcoholic, and at 26, I am still affected by his choices. He’s helpless and I’m
the parent – at 26. I’m a parent to my parent. That is how it has been my whole life.
SUFFERING • When I was six, I watched my alcoholic dad try to kill my mom by shooting her.
CHILDREN • I grew up in a home with an abusive alcoholic for a dad, a heroin addict for an older sister,
Children who and a cocaine addict for an older brother. My brother just lost custody of his son because of
were affected his addiction. My nephew doesn’t see his dad anymore b/c drugs were more important than
by someone family.
under the • My parents were/are substance abusers as were their parents. My brother and sister both
influence in grew up to be meth users. Guess what? Their kids are now experimenting with pot and alco-
their care hol as young teens. I moved far, far away from my family so that my child would never have to
see the things I have. Substance abuse opens the door for every other kind of abuse imagin-
able: physical, emotional, neglect, sexual – and it tears families apart.
• My dad was drunk and dragged my dog behind his motorcycle and covered my head in
duct tape.
FEARING • My father abused alcohol and drugs. He tried to beat my mother to death; kicking her with
PARENTS his steel-toed boots. He abused my elder brothers and sisters physically, emotionally, and men-
Abusive or tally. Some members of my family are still dealing with problems created by him. Abuse is cyclic
neglecting fa- and I hope it ends in my family!
thers and/or • I grew up in a home with an alcoholic/drug addict mom. Life was very hard for me & there
mothers due was definitely neglect. This does happen & this does affect children.
to alcohol • My stepfather was an alcoholic. He sexually abused me. He beat my mother. He beat my
and drugs brother. My mother worried that he would kill a young family with the car because he was
always drinking and driving.
• Drug and alcohol abuse stole my parents and my childhood. To heal myself, I had to go
through the grieving process for the child I was never allowed to be. No child should ever
know such fear and anxiety.
NEVER THE • My brother-in-law lost his mom in a drunk-driving accident. It still affects him today. He
SAME doesn’t believe in God anymore, and doesn’t teach his children about God either. He has a
Despair or strained relationship with his Dad now, and is still filled with hatred toward the driver. It has
remorse by changed the way he deals with everyone
the user and/ • Both parents of mine are alcoholics and it has definitely affected my life. Do you think I like to
or victims drink? It’s definitely genetic.
• In high school, one of my friends OD’d on LSD. Now he has to rely on his parent to take
care of him due to the lack of his mental ability from LSD.
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quire all students to submit their tear to the sessions. based on the tears posted on the wall, speak of abusive or neglecting fathers and/or
teacher, who will post the tears him/herself. students also may share how their lives may mothers due to alcohol and drugs); Suffering
Tell students that the “wall of tears” will be a change if they were dependent on drugs. Ask Children (tears for the children affected by
reminder to all who read them that alcohol and students to analyze the collection of tears and those in their care who abused alcohol and
drug abuse can bring sadness, loss, and conflict determine categories, themes, or specific areas drugs); Innocent Victims (tears for those
to all it touches. Ultimately, the message from of concern that affect their classmates and/or who were injured or killed by someone
Stop the Tears is that drug abuse affects more school as a result of alcohol and drug abuse. who was under the influence); Never the
than the user. For example, students, who previously have Same (tears of terrible despair or remorse
5. (Closure) Instruct students to get into been involved in this teaching idea, have been by the user and/or victims), Relative Speak-
small groups of three or four and identify ways creative in categorizing the tears (Table 1). ing (tears of the relatives who initiated drug
they will avoid using drugs and reduce related Some of the categories they developed use of family members, especially children);
“tears” to help avoid losing their prized pos- have included: Fearing Parents (tears that One More For the Road (tears about the
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