“The best inheritance a father can leave for his children is good manners”

Because it could make or break a relationship

This quote is said by Hazrat Ali and this quote carries a great message for the present world.

Good Evening everyone

Today I Zain Ali from class Sr-1 stand before you to talk about a topic that is essential for any healthy
relationship, be it personal or professional. And that topic is “manners create or break a relationship”

The prime meaning of “Manners” is the basic social skills and behaviours that we use to interact with others.
These include politeness, respect, consideration, and kindness. While we might think that these are just common
deeds that everyone knows, the truth is that many people forget or ignore them in certain situations and places
where they need to be used.

However, the impact of manners on relationships cannot be understated. They can either make or break a
relationship, depending on how they are used.

When we display good manners, we show the care that we have for the other person and the respect we have for
their feelings. We make them feel valued and appreciated. This replies by strengthening the bond between us
and builds trust.It makes the society alive. It creates respect, loyalty and gratitude in the society. It contributes to
a good social structure. Good manners can be shown at an individual level, social level or International level.

On the other hand, when we ignore manners or show bad ones, we can quickly erode the trust and respect that
we have built with the other person. It can lead to misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and damaged relationships‫۔‬

‫وانك لعال خلق عظیم‬

And indeed you are of a great moral character

This ayah is the 4 ayah of surah Qalam which too extracts the meaning of manners and tells us to follow our
prophet Muhammad. and we should also respect our teachers, and we should pay attention to everyone who is
talking to us.

Bad manners affect others and also the person who has it. People do not like to be with any bad-mannered
person and so such a person becomes alone. One loses many good opportunities in life because of one's habits. It
affects one's studies because one loses self- confidence. By showing kindness and respect to others, we cultivate
a positive mindset and develop a genuine sense of happiness. The act of holding a door for someone, offering a
sincere compliment, or simply saying "thank you" can uplift our spirits and create a ripple effect of positivity in
our lives and the lives of those around us. It's important to remember that good manners are not just about
saying "please" and "thank you." They are about showing respect, empathy, sympathy and kindness towards
others.

Manners play a critical role in relationships. Good manners help us in getting respect and dignity in the society
whereas bad manners defame us. Importance of good manners is known by all. Possessing good manners helps
in creating a good and lasting impression. Behaving nicely with others does not only make a good impression on
them but also makes us feel content.

This was all from my side. Thank you for paying attention and Allah hafiz.