Chapter 1

Introduction

Being handsome is a powerful weapon. But a lot of men don’t have the training manual.

That is this guide.

*Notice how I said HANDSOME man not funny man’s game. If you’re funnier than you

are handsome, lean into that. heed this advice, but play up your strength. I don’t even know

funny nigga game. That's not me. This guide is for men whose strength is that they are

Handsome. You don’t necessarily have women laughing their way into your bedroom.

In this guide, we’ll lay the foundation for your success by emphasizing the importance of

maximizing your strengths as a handsome man including physicality, personal style, and your

body language. By taking note of these prerequisites, you'll enhance your overall attractiveness

in the sexual market.

We’ll split it up into two main sections with chapters that go into the nitty gritty. By the

end of this guide, you’ll know exactly how to leverage your handsomeness.

If anything needs to be added, we’ll promptly add it, update it, and send you the updated

version.
 You’re handsome, so play it up.

Being handsome is undoubtedly an advantage, but you can easily fuck it up. Simply

relying on your good looks is not enough. Consider the following elements to further enhance

your appeal:

● Good Face: Emphasize your facial features by maintaining good skincare habits, and

keeping a well-groomed beard or clean look in general.

● Masculine Build: Look strong. Look like you take care of yourself. Strive for a

proportional physique that reflects health and vitality. Regular lifting, proper diet, and

maintaining an optimal weight will help you achieve a body that is neither shrimpy nor

obese. Aim for a confident size that adds an aura to your being.

● Hairstyle: Opt for a distinct hairstyle that suits your face shape and personal style.

Experiment with different cuts, to find a look that complements your features. For me, it's

either waves or twists. Look at your face intently. Test out what would look the best on

you.

● Style: Cultivate a defined personal style that reflects your individuality and taste. Seek out

clothing that fits well and flatters your body type, paying attention to details such as

colors, patterns, and accessories. Strike a balance between comfort and style, ensuring

that you always feel confident and put together in your chosen attire.
Get your style down:

● Your personal style is an essential component of your overall appeal. Aim for a wardrobe

that complements you. Authenticity is key.

● Consider the following tips:

● Comfort and Style: Find a balance between comfort and style. When you feel at ease in

your clothing, it glows through your body language and attitude, making you more

magnetic.

● Put-together Look: Whenever you leave the house, look put together. Never step out of

the house looking sloppy. You’re a grown man. There’s a tasteful way to wear sweatpants.

Throw away those beat-up AF1s immediately. Pay attention to the details. Achieve

Gay-Level hygiene: Clean nails, flossed teeth, etc. Look like you did what you did on

purpose. Have the cleaning habits of a stereotypical homosexual (only half joking).

Have confident body language:

● Confident body language is a key element in showcasing your natural good looks. By

adopting these simple body language principles, you'll walk around looking like a

showroom for your gifts, talents, and good looks. Your body language puts your good

looks on display.

● Posture: Stand tall with your shoulders back and your spine straight. Maintain an open

stance, avoiding crossed arms or a hunched posture. This is simple, and both hit your

brain chemistry and the chemistry of those around you, making you feel and look more

confident.
 ● Eye Contact: Maintain natural eye contact during conversations. When you can't look a

girl in the eye it's the biggest indicator that you get no girls. When you can hold eye

contact (appropriate eye contact), It demonstrates attentiveness and genuine interest, but

most importantly, experience. A Lot of guys can't look a girl in the eye. If you can, it

shows that you’re used to talking to girls. In turn eye contact will naturally foster a deeper

connection with your target.

● Gestures: Avoid excessive fidgeting or nervous movements, as they can undermine your

confidence. Stop shaking your leg, stop moving spastically. Use your hands to get your

point across, but if you use your hands, use them intentionally. Don’t half-ass anything.

● Use Your Voice: Speak clearly and confidently. Ensure your voice is clear and you get

your point across. None of that crunched-over head-voice bullshit. A strong voice exudes

confidence and captivates those around you.

By honing these elements of your handsomeness, style, and body language, you’ve set the

groundwork for moving on to the next level of the handsome man game. In the next chapters,

we'll explore specific strategies to leverage your handsomeness and navigate the sexual market

strategically.
 Chapter 2

Getting laid

All handsome man game is this: Playing It Cool

This chapter explores the art of playing it cool, capitalizing on your good looks, and

navigating the dynamics of female interest in the sexual marketplace. You don’t have to do too

much, you’re handsome, you're handsome you’ve done the bulk of the heavy lifting. Just peep the

signals.

Women are naturally drawn to handsome men, and as a handsome man, you'll get the

appropriate choosing signals that signify her attraction. But if you’re inexperienced it can be

confusing because girls will gaslight you. The same things she accuses men of are “he only

wants me for my body, he only wants me for my looks”, she’s guilty of the same thing.

Especially, If she’s a stranger, she probably lusts after you. It's a primal response. She wants to

take this opportunity to have some fun.

Keep The Fetish Effect in mind: Be aware that women may find you intriguing or

captivating, particularly when meeting someone new. You’re like a new drug. Don’t get confused

and think she wants to marry you right then or wants to have sex with you for your personality. If

you’re handsome and pull her right then and there, you’re literally a drug. She doesn’t know

anything other than that you’re handsome. You could be stupid, you could be lame, but if you’re

calm and cool enough it doesn’t even matter to her because that's not why she’s there.

The more relaxed and natural you are, the less opportunity you have to fuck up the cheeks

(fumble the girl) because you’re saying less and letting her use her imagination. So by relaxing
and being cool or mysterious, the cheeks will fall into your lap. This initial response stems from

novelty-seeking behavior or the subconscious desire to secure good genes.

Too many times have I seen men try and talk their way into some coochie by trying to

impress the girl. If you’re handsome, that's impressive enough. Anything more in a situation

that's not a date, will scare her into thinking you want to lock her down for something more

long-term. - which may be the case, but you do not want to let her find this out so early.

Understand this

Playing it cool is the foundation of your dating strategy as a handsome man.

Lock in the following principles to maximize your pull.

● Confidence, not arrogance. Radiate self-assurance without coming off as overly

boastful. Your good looks have already opened doors for you, so exude a sense of ease

and approachability that showcases your inner confidence. You have to seem like you

know exactly who you are. The best possible way to look like you know who you are is to

actually know who you are.

● Don’t overthink the mystery. You must be relaxed. when they tell you to be mysterious

they mean relaxed. Too many times have I seen a man trying too hard to be mysterious.

And it comes off as stupid rather than cool. You just have to relax and be secure in what

you know and who you are. Don’t boast, don’t downplay, but be very confident and sure

of what you’re saying. And if you’re passionate about it, lean into it. The mystery comes

in when they find out you’re multifaceted. And a rule of thumb, if she didn’t ask, don’t

bring it up. This is also an easy way to make her chase you.

And most importantly,

Do not perform. You’re already eye candy. Funny niggas perform. Handsome niggas get

entertained. Don't think you have to be funny or boastful to be interesting. To be interesting you

have to be like a book with endless pages. Every page the girl turns should reveal something

more interesting about you- and for this to work you have to actually be interesting. - But the

mystery part comes into play in your silence and elusiveness. She will ask what she wants to find

out. And every conversation creates a deeper and deeper cave for her to explore, and that's if

you’re actually interested.

Focus on this when playing it cool

● Cultivating Your Interests: Engage in cultural experiences, pursue your passions, and stay

informed about current events. This depth of knowledge and engagement will add

richness to your conversations and make you an intriguing and well-rounded individual.

● Authenticity with a Touch of Mystery: Be genuine in your interactions, sharing your

interests and values, while leaving room for curiosity and intrigue. Allow others to

discover more about you over time, creating an exciting journey of mutual exploration.

● Emotional Intelligence: Develop your ability to empathize and understand how you’re

making her feel. Feel whether she’s hot or cold. Feel whether she’s locked in or out.

When she tells you something, feel where she’s coming from and you can better respond

to fit her emotional needs. This is also good for the bedroom (and for selling).

● This skill also - and probably most importantly - will let you know when you’re talking

too much or if the energy is off.

● Seeing her point of view and empathizing in the manner of a patriarch will give you

compassion and understanding so she doesn’t feel judged when she’s around you.

● Mastering the art of playing it cool requires a balance of confidence, understated effort,

and empathy. You’re capitalizing on your good looks, and embodying a sophisticated

approach, which makes it impossible to fumble her.

 Chapter 3

The dark side of being handsome.

In this chapter, I intend to keep you grounded. I want to disillusion you for the better. I

walked around with this delusion for over 20 bodies. I used to think the girls I pulled wanted me

for reasons other than how I looked. While that's not always the case, it has been the case for the

women I’ve had sex with on the first link. As a handsome man navigating the sexual market, it's

essential to understand the reality behind certain beliefs and be aware of the complexities of

attraction and connection.

Women's Perception of Men and the Intention of Women: As stated before, you’ll be

gaslit into thinking that men are solely interested in using women for their bodies. However, it's

important to recognize that women also have their own malicious intentions and unholy desires.

Consider the following insights: Curiosity and primal attraction: When encountering a

high-status man who hits a lot of the attraction causes, a woman's initial response may involve

projecting desirable qualities onto you, such as intelligence or charm.

Think about this, If you’re a handsome stranger, she doesn’t know if you’re smart, and

she doesn’t know if you’re charming, best case scenario is that she’s projecting those

characteristics onto you. Worst case scenario she doesn’t care and just wants to get her nut off.

Most likely, it's a plus but she doesn’t really care so once again, you don’t have to do too much.

Women's intentions and expectations can differ greatly, especially in scenarios involving

handsome men.
 Some may be seeking a purely physical experience. They want the high that comes with

having sex. Others may prioritize emotional depth and compatibility. Understand that each

woman's motivations are unique - and not always pure. They often have to do with her situation

in life and the circumstances in which she met you. Common factors to consider are as follows:

● Age

● Career

● Where/how you met (Tinder? Bar? Club? Social circle? Hinge? Concert?)

● How did she grow up?

● What was the dominating cultural narrative throughout her childhood?

● How is her relationship with her mom? (does she gossip about boys with her mom?)

● What about her dad? (does she seek his approval or hate him?)

And more.

A 19-year-old IG model will want you for different reasons than a 23-year-old nonprofit

volunteer. And completely different than a 37-year-old milf.

But because you’re handsome they all want you. It's your job not to be illusioned into

thinking they ALL want you for reasons other than you’re handsome.

As a handsome man, your appearance can indeed be a significant advantage when

attracting attention. However, it's essential to maintain a balanced perspective and avoid

assuming that physical attraction AND SEX guarantee deep connections.

It saddens me that doesn’t always mean deep connection these days. Too many times

have I unknowingly been looking for love, and hoping to find it through cheeks. I don’t want you

to do that. Know the game.

 Your intelligence, charm, and character will play vital roles in sustaining a lasting

connection, but it may not be how you get your foot in the door..

To assume is to make an ASS out of U and ME: do not assume you can keep her with

your looks. You can pull her. You can even smash her. But keeping her is a different beast…

By understanding the misconceptions surrounding your handsomeness, and the nuances

of the game you can better navigate the dating landscape. While your handsomeness can pique

initial interest, and even go as far as to get you laid, remember that genuine connections require a

deeper understanding of each of her desires, her past, and her overall character.

Warnings for inexperienced men: (under 20 bodies)

● You’re wired to catch feelings. If you don’t have too many options or aren’t

extremely busy, a void can be created and filled

● Sex will make you like her. At least a little bit, you will definitely catch feelings

for a girl you clap, especially if she’s bad and you haven’t been with anyone like

her before. Do not let this fuck up you’re ambition.

● Too many times have I seen men not simp until you start clapping consistently,

and then give in once he’s clapped a few times. It’s too easy to get obsessive. Be

weary of this.

● Just because you like her doesn’t mean she likes you. You’ll probably like her

before she likes you, and you need to restrain from spilling your guts.
 Chapter 4

The Art of Mystery

Let's dive deeper into the concept of mystery and its role in getting you laid as a

handsome nigga. As a handsome man, it's important to understand how to effectively exude a

relaxed and confident demeanor, allowing your multifaceted nature to shine without coming

across as trying too hard.

If you get this wrong, you will go out sad. Let's delve into the essence of mystery and its

impact on dating dynamics.

Relax. Anchor Yourself in the Moment.

Talking to a girl is nerve-racking until you’re talking to her, you take a deep breath, and

you quickly realize “She can't kill me, I’m safe” Then I can relax and be myself. Get comfortable

and see what will naturally happen next when two attractive people of the opposite sex are alone

together…

The only way you can fuck this up is by being too excited/not relaxed. You may think

being excited is jumping around, having high energy, and doing too much, but a lot of men are in

their heads. They’re thinking “Oh my gosh I'm nervous, I need to relax” and in turn freeze up and

start sweating bullets. But they think because they’re not moving so much that they’re coming off

as relaxed. NO, you’re coming off as nervous and stiff.

Fight, fight, or freeze. You chose to freeze. The best option is to ride out the feeling - it's

better to be nervous and own it than to try and suppress it.

Signs of nervousness.

● Talking too much

● Freezing up and becoming stiff

● Shaking your leg

● Rubbing yourself

● Constant reaching for your phone

I was with 2 Ethiopian girls and I was talking a lot. My target noticed and say something

as a shit test. “You’re talking a lot, you nervous?” I smoothly responded "I'm with 2 pretty girls

of course I'm nervous" (I wasn't nervous)

You just have to play it off in whatever style best suits you. But you’re better off letting

the feeling pass than trying to suppress it. Literally, shake it out. Whatever you have to do.

Being relaxed is essential in the seduction process. It allows you to stay present and engage with

her authentically. It keeps you from blocking the natural order of operations - meeting to kissing

to sex.

One effective way to achieve relaxation is by employing breathing techniques that anchor

you in the moment.

Try these strategies:

Deep Breathing: Take slow, deep breaths, allowing your breath to fill your lungs and then

exhaling fully. Deep breathing calms your nervous system, reduces stress, and lets you chill.

Mindful Breathing when you're alone. Practice mindfulness by observing your breath without

judgment. Pay attention to the sensations of each inhale and exhale, noticing the rise and fall of
your chest or the feeling of the air passing through your nostrils. This simple act of mindfulness

helps you stay grounded in the present moment, fostering relaxation and a sense of calm.

Breathing Patterns: Experiment with different breathing patterns to find what works best

for you. For example, you can try inhaling for a count of four, holding your breath for a count of

four, and then exhaling for a count of four. This pattern helps regulate your breath and promotes

a state of relaxation.

One I like was recommended by Andrew Huberman, you breathe completely in, and

when your lungs are full you take one more cheat breath to fill them even more, then you release

through your nose. This releases way more cortisol which will relax you even more.

In general, you want to breathe through your nose. It releases more stress than breathing through

your mouth.

Where are you confident already? Lean into that. Project confidence in what you know

and who you are. Avoid boasting or downplaying your accomplishments. Instead, be assured and

articulate in your thoughts and opinions. If you're passionate about a subject, lean into it with

enthusiasm. The mystery arises as women discover your multifaceted nature and depth of

character.

Allowing Discovery and leaving room to be chased.

One key aspect of having a mystery is allowing her to discover different facets of your

personality over time.

Keep the following points in mind

● Let Her Ask: Instead of divulging every detail about yourself upfront, let the woman

you're interested in take the lead in asking questions. This allows her to feel a sense of
 curiosity and in turn, allows you to reveal parts of yourself gradually. Avoid sharing

unnecessary information that hasn't been prompted.

● Make her chase make her pry: By maintaining an air of mystery, you create an intriguing

dynamic that ignites a woman's desire to know more about you. Whenever you answer a

question provide enough detail to where the answer is solid and makes you look cool, but

don’t overindulge unless she specifically asks. And if you did the first part right, she will

specifically ask.

● Remember, it's not about playing games but allowing the natural progression of getting to

know each other. Be receptive and engaged when she shows interest, and let the

connection deepen at a pace that feels comfortable.

Mystery can be a powerful tool in attracting and captivating women. By embracing

relaxation and confidence, and allowing others to discover your multifaceted nature, you'll create

an intriguing presence that sparks genuine interest.

Remember: you’re Handsome, not funny. Do not perform.

 Chapter 5

Girlfriend Part 1

How to find her (or how she will find you)

When it comes to finding a girlfriend, there are key differences between pursuing a

long-term relationship and seeking a casual encounter. The context in which you meet a potential

partner greatly influences the likelihood of developing a deeper connection. I'm about to give you

handsome man-girlfriend game.

The Influence of Social Circles

Meeting a girlfriend within a social circle provides a strong foundation for a relationship.

In this context, important aspects of your character, such as your handsomeness, intelligence, and

ambition, are often already known and appreciated. Consider the following insights:

Built-In Compatibility: Within a social circle, shared interests, values, and experiences create a

natural compatibility that can lay the groundwork for a more substantial connection. By

interacting with like-minded individuals, you increase the chances of finding someone who

aligns with your relationship goals.

Social Proof

Being part of a social circle provides valuable social proof that can enhance your

desirability. Your association with a group of friends or acquaintances adds credibility to your

character and increases the trust and interest potential partners may have in you.

Expanding Your Social Circles.

To increase your chances of finding a girlfriend, it's crucial to expose yourself to diverse

social environments to get in front of as many baddies as possible. While the gym may not be the

most conducive place for developing connections, other avenues can be fruitful.
 Try these places:

Volunteer and Join Clubs: Engage in activities that align with your interests and values.

Volunteering for a cause you're passionate about or joining clubs related to your hobbies creates

opportunities to meet like-minded individuals with whom you can form deeper connections.

Pursue Internships: Internships and involvement in event planning offer chances to interact with a

wide range of people. These settings provide platforms to showcase your talents, skills, and

ambition, increasing the likelihood of meeting potential girlfriend candidates.

Network and Socialize or Throwing Events: Attend social gatherings, parties, and events

where you can meet new people. If you have the opportunity and connections, throw one

yourself. Be open to striking up conversations, making genuine connections, and gradually

getting to know individuals who catch your interest.

Remember, the goal is to position yourself in front of as many potential girlfriend

candidates as possible. You’re a dam trying to get in the way of the stream of women. By actively

seeking opportunities to expand your social circles and engaging in activities that align with your

passions and hobbies, you increase your chances of meeting a girl you would vibe with.

Finding a girlfriend involves putting yourself in circles that have girlfriend candidates. This gives

you the chance to be something other than lusted. You have the opportunity to pull her through

your merit, discipline, hard work, and intelligence along with the social proof. Which is essential

to a lasting relationship. Handsome gets you in the door. Your reputation and personality keep

you inside.

While looking for your girlfriend, it's important to expand your horizons and actively

engage in activities that align with your long-term vision AND increase your exposure to

potential girlfriends. By volunteering, joining clubs, pursuing internships, and participating in

throwing events, you position yourself to meet diverse individuals and increase your chances of

finding your “one” (for now).

 Chapter 6

Girlfriend Part 2

Courting (not tricking) to get a girlfriend

In the pursuit of a girlfriend, the option of courting her through traditional dating methods

presents an opportunity to lock her in by really bonding with her. By spending quality time with

her, getting to know her, and displaying your qualities, you can lock her in. Additionally,

incorporating social proof becomes important in solidifying your desirability. Let's explore

effective strategies for courting and building connections with a potential girlfriend.

Courting Through Dates and Qualification

To develop a meaningful relationship, it's crucial to invest time in getting to know your

potential girlfriend on a personal level.

Use these strategies

● Plan Dates: Take her on fun and high-energy dates that allow for genuine conversation

and shared experiences. Pick activities that align with her interests and preferences,

creating an environment where you can connect on a deeper level.

● Share Meaningful Stories: Engage her with your personal stories, experiences, and

passions. Through storytelling, you can create a sense of intrigue and demonstrate your

unique qualities and perspectives. Be genuine, and authentic.

● Qualify Her: As you get to know her, assess if she aligns with your values and

relationship goals. Find out about her past. See how she responds to stressful situations.

Ask thoughtful questions and analyze her responses. By qualifying her, you ensure that

the relationship has the potential to thrive and she fits the overall direction of your life.
Incorporating Social Proof

● Social proof plays a giant role in displaying your high status. Consider the following

strategies to integrate social proof into your bagging process:

● Group Dates: put together group outings where she can meet your friends and interact

with them. This allows her to observe your social status and the dominance you have

within your social circle.

● Do the same thing with her friends. By getting her friends to like you, they’ll be talking

about you incessantly, and you now occupy more space in her mind. You now have the

village behind you.

● Women usually don’t have that much to talk about, when you’re an interesting character,

and her friends all know you, you’re now a point of gossip. Which means your presence

transcends the time you’re around her. Gaining their approval, you further establish your

credibility and desirability.

● Mutual Friendships: It's way easier if her friends already know like and trust you.

● Fostering connections between her friends and your own also demonstrates your ability to

navigate different social environments and strengthens the trust and comfort she feels

with you.

● Showcase High Status: Introduce her to settings where you can display your

accomplishments, ambitions, and social connections. This could involve attending social

events or engaging in activities that highlight your talents. Even if it's as simple as

bowling. Demonstrating your high status will enhance her perception of you and reassure

her of her mating choice…

 Remember, the bagging process requires sincerity, patience, and intention. By

incorporating social proof, you can solidify your desirability and create a stronger foundation for

a long-term relationship. Turning her into a girlfriend involves investing time and effort into

getting to know her on a deeper level. The most important thing is the collection of positive

feelings and memories you make together.

 Conclusion

In conclusion, finding cheeks is different than finding a girlfriend. Same game, different

skin. Understand her motivations for sleeping with you or entertaining you. If you want to keep

her around, adjust accordingly.

Every day presents an opportunity to refine your skills, expand your knowledge, and

enhance your character. Cultivate a mindset of constant improvement, always striving to become

the best version of yourself. Seek overall growth, engage in meaningful experiences, and

embrace challenges. By consistently investing in your growth, you will not only attract baddies

but also lead a fulfilling and purposeful life.

Remember, getting a girl is just one piece of the pie. You were put here for a reason. Do

not lose sight of whatever that reason is - and it may change! Take this opportunity to become a

high-status man who radiates confidence and authenticity. Lean into your individuality and leave

your mark on the world. women will be drawn to your authenticity, and will naturally vibe with

the depth of your character.

That's all, level up, play it cool, and get in the field.
 Action Plan

Get your look down

Pick one sentence to describe your look, and then experiment with it. Mine is

“UK Drain” others include: Chicago Scammer, East Coast Chad, Granola Gorp

Core, Flexniss Casual. (etc.)

Donate all your clothes that don’t feel natural to you or your style.

Try different haircuts. Pick one that fits your face.

Get Gay-level hygiene (floss, smell good, look put together, etc.)

Pick a breathing technique and try it out. In random situations. Just to practice controlling

your breath, then by the time you’re talking to a baddie you know what to do.

Pick 3 new clubs, organizations, or places to go or join to put yourself in front of the flow

of women.
 If you need more specific and tailored help, sign up for a 1 on 1 game plan where we can

dive deep into whatever situation you’re in right now.

Footnotes
Key points
Notice how I said handsome man not funny man game. If you’re funnier than you are handsome,
lean into that. heed this advice, but play up your strength. I don’t even know funny nigga game
because that's not me.
Prerequisites
● Play up your strengths. You’re handsome, but make sure you have all the bases covered
● Good Face
● Masculine Body (not shrimpy not obese)
● Hairstyle (distinct)
● Style (defined)
● Get your style down. You need to find the perfect mix between comfortable and stylish.
but every time, you want to look put together. If you feel awkward, girls will be able to
feel that. If you feel awkward you probably look awkward.
● Have confident body language. You need to look handsome in every aspect. To have
confident body language is to have your handsomeness on display. Here’s a brief
overview of body language
Getting laid
All handsome man game is this
● All handsome man game is playing it cool
● You don’t have to do too much, you’re handsome, you've done the bulk of the heavy
lifting.
● Girls gaslight you. If she’s a stranger, she probably lusts you. It's a primal response. She
wants to take this opportunity to have some fun.
Misconceptions….
● Women will make you think that men want to use women for their body when in reality,
women use men as well. And the most likely time that you will be used is if you’re
handsome and she doesn’t know you. Think about this, If you’re a handsome stranger,
she doesn’t know if you’re smart, she doesn’t know if you’re charming, best case scenario
is that she’s projecting those characteristics on to you. Worst case scenario she doesn’t
care and just wants to get her nut off. Most likely, its a plus but she doesn’t really care so
once again, you don’t have to do too much.
Mystery
● You must be relaxed. when they tell you to be mysterious they mean relaxed. Too many
times have I seen a man try too hard to be mysterious. And it comes off as stupid rather
than cool. You really just have to relax and be secure in what you know and who you are.
Don’t boast, don’t downplay, but be very confident and sure of what you’re saying. And if
you’re passionate about it, lean into it. The mystery comes in when they find out you’re
multifaceted. And a rule of thumb, if she didn’t ask, don’t bring it up. This is also an easy
way to make her chase you.
● You can't perform because you’re already handsome. Funny niggas perform. Handsome
niggas get entertained.
Pulling a girlfriend
● The main difference between pulling a girlfriend and getting laid is how you meet her.
 ● If you meet her in a social circle, you’re more likely to enter a relationship because all of
the systems are In place. like I said earlier, she knows you’re handsome, she knows you’re
smart, she knows you’re ambitious
● If you meet online or randomly and you clap her the same night, she doesn’t know shit
about you and doesn’t really care to.
● So to get a girlfriend you have to put yourself in front of as many girlfriend candidates as
possible. And anywhere is great for this, except the gym. Nobody’s talking to you at the
gym, so it’s not as straightforward to get the social proof you need for a girlfriend. You’re
gonna have to volunteer, join clubs, join internships, and take part in throwing events.
You have to work your way into as many social circles as possible. That's the first option.
● Second option is to court her. Take her on dates, get to know her, and qualify her. Win her
with your stories. But you’re going to want to have that social proof, so try and get group
dates in, where you meet her friends, win them over, infiltrate their minds, and win their
hearts. And on the other hand, bring her around your friends where she sees your high
status.
Conclusion
Play up your strengths, and continue being handsome. Don’t rely on your youth, always stay
improving.