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An Undergraduate Thesis
Presented to the
Faculty of the College of Education
Samar State University
Catbalogan City
In Partial Fulfillment
of the Requirements for the Degree
BACHELOR OF SECONDARY EDUCATION
Major in English
NELSA N. SALVOSA
June 2021
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APPROVAL SHEET
JHONIL C. BAJADO
Faculty Member, CoEd
Member
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Accepted and approved in partial fulfillment of the requirements for the degree,
BACHELOR OF SECONDARY EDUCATION major in ENGLISH.
ACKNOWLEDGMENT
First and foremost, the researchers would like to thank our Almighty God
for giving us the strength, wisdom, and passion to put our hearts into this study.
The researchers would like to thank themselves for putting in all their hard work
and perseverance only to make this research possible. The patience and
understanding, as well as all the efforts, were highly recognized throughout the
University. The University's Research Office and the College of Education uphold
the best quality researches with elite advisers, mentors, and researcher experts. To
the SSU-IRERC, the researchers would like to thank you for giving us the
certificate of ethics approval and for offering relevant tips, too. To the Samar State
would like to thank you for allowing and trusting us to conduct our research that
involves students under your premise. To Ms. Mae Saschiel P. Montallana, the
researchers would like to thank you for your support, guidance, and presence as
our mentor throughout this thesis project. To Dr. Alona Medalia C. Gabejan, the
researchers would like to thank you for your never-ending enthusiasm and
you for sharing your experiences, struggles, and coping mechanism for the success
honored for wholeheartedly accepting the favor and letting yourselves be heard
To the parents of the researchers that supported them from the start of their
research journey, the researchers would like to take this chance to thank you with
all of their hearts. To Macabenta family, the in-laws of one of the researchers, for
adopting us, sheltering us, and free meals every time we are doing our research.
DEDICATION
We would like to dedicate and give thanks and praise to the ALMIGHTY
GOD for His grace and blessings throughout the entire research. Without Him,
We also dedicate this thesis to our family and friends for the never -ending
For all the love and support morally and financially which have served as
our inspiration to continue striving and finish the research and for everyone who
Jean Mariz, Aura Monica, Reina Apple, Clint Johnsen, Nelsa, Ma. Rosela
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ABSTRACT
This qualitative study examined the lived experiences of the English major
student-mothers who were involved in dual responsibilities amid the new normal
setting. The primary data collection method was a semi-structured interview. Data
were analyzed per the research questions. Participants were chosen through
purposive sampling. A total of five participants were involved in the study. Each
research resulted in three major themes. The themes were the lived experiences of
student mothers, student mothers dealing with English subjects, and balancing
motherhood and studentship amid the pandemic. Researchers found that student
mothers consistently struggle to deal with their dual roles. They were caught up
about what they need to fulfill the most. As much as they want to balance the
demands of their dual roles, they ended up prioritizing the most vital role, and
and survive higher education despite this health crisis we are facing.
TABLE OF CONTENTS
CONTENT PAGE
TITLE PAGE………….……..…………………………………………………………i
APPROVAL SHEET…….……………………………………………………………ii
ACKNOWLEDGMENT…...………………………………………………………...iii
DEDICATION……………...…………………………………………………………v
ABSTRACT………………….………………………………………………………..vi
TABLE OF CONTENTS…………………………………………………………….vii
LIST OF TABLES……….……………………………………………………….……x
LIST OF FIGURES………...………………………………………………………....xi
Introduction……………………………..………………………………………1
Problem Statement…………......……………………………………………….3
Research Assumption………..…………………………………………………3
Theoretical Framework……...…………………………………………………4
Definition of Terms…………..…………………………………………………9
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Related Literature……….....………………………………………………...10
Related Studies……..…………………………………………………………11
Chapter 3-METHODOLOGY
Research Design..…..……………….……………………………………….15
Instrumentation……..………...………..……………………………………15
Research Locale………………………...……………………………………16
Validation of Instrument………………………………….………………...16
Sampling Procedure…………………...………………….…………………17
Ethical Consideration………………….……………………………………17
OF DATA
Amid Pandemic……………………………………………………………...37
RECOMMENDATIONS
Summary of Findings……..….……..………………………………………58
Conclusions...………………………...………………………………………60
Recommendations…...………………………………………………………62
REFERENCES……………………………….………………………………………64
APPENDICES……………………………………………………………………….69
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LIST OF TABLES
LIST OF FIGURES
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Chapter 1
Introduction
around the world since 1996, and this statistic raises concerns about playing the
roles of being a mother and a student (White, 2008). A woman may enthusiastically
these two roles, even in ideal conditions, can pull one person in two directions
(Springer et al., 2009). At the onset of the pandemic, their struggle as a student-
mother became heavier since they needed to attend classes while doing parenting
for their children. Role challenges cause women to abandon one role for the sake
of the other (Springer et al., 2009). Myths, expectations, and ideals available in the
effect, it alters their mental and emotional security. Thus, they are bound with two
of the current study, the researchers can generate phenomenal lived experiences
that are yet to be discovered. This also aims to collate the responses of student-
mothers on how did the new normal setting alter their pre-existing coping
Taukeni (2014), in his study, shows that most of the dilemmas of the
student-mothers are to manage their studies and parental role. With the help of
this study, the researchers will be able to discover the different lived experiences
of student-mothers and how they deal with the various duties they have during
the unique situation of students being parents and grant them the necessary
support to fulfill their dual role, the university environment has the potential to
become a setting for enriching experiences that not only promote the integral
development of the student but also positively influence the development of their
child and their new family and contribute to a more inclusive university
Balancing academics and motherhood is a great challenge for them. But, the
processes of how they consistently exchange roles only to work on the various
responsibilities that they bear are under-explored. Thus, there is a need for people
give them assistance to fulfill their duties without giving up another role,
crisis, students require additional support from their families, as well as from the
higher education institution where they are studying (Raeis et al. 2018).
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pregnant regardless of the spaces they occupy because of the nature of their
Problem Statement
mothers in the new normal. Specifically, this aimed to answer the following
questions:
1. What are the lived experiences of English major student-mothers in the new
normal setting?
2. How do you cope with the struggles you encounter on your English major
Research Assumptions
In light of the current study, research assumptions were taken into account.
participate in the study. Hence, it is assumed that they will be open to discuss their
lived experiences in the new normal. In the same way, it is also expected that they
This also held to the nature of the data that the researchers gathered by
sticking with the fact that the current study hinged on English major student-
that explained how our brain functions when we are doing activities
numerous challenges in this new normal setting that juggled their dual roles.
motherhood and studentship responsibilities at the same time. Through their lived
experiences, the researchers were able to gather the data that are essential in
Theoretical Framework
interpretive framework. The theories that supported this study include Feminist
research presented contents showing how student-mothers fulfill their roles while
experiences. In this case, the student-mothers were linked to the different roles
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that made them encountered different tasks at the same time. It also discussed the
different good opportunities that women can get in the field of academe despite
their various roles that might affect their responsibilities. It served as an eye-
opener to the society, specifically to the women, with the underexplored reality of
student-mothers.
“To be ‘feminist’ in any authentic sense of the term is to want for all people, female
and male, liberation from sexist role patterns, domination, and oppression.” Bell
Hooks made this clear and powerful statement in her 1981 study of sexism, racism,
and the feminist and civil rights movements Ain't I a Woman: Black Women and
situations differ from men. Green (2007) asserted that feminism analyses the
a solid support to the study on explaining the various challenges that empowered
women to pursue their education amid the difficulties associated with maternal
responsibilities.
sought to understand their world and develop their own particular meanings that
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of meaning by the learner through experience, and that meaning was influenced
new roles in the new normal setting. It involved explaining their behaviors
Theory of Threaded Cognition was also one of the most important theories
that served as a framework of this study. It supported the different roles that a
cognitive threads is the key to our multitasking ability, the ability of to take single
Threaded cognition can therefore account for the flexible way humans combine
previously unrelated tasks, and for the fact that many tasks can be learned in
isolation first and performed together later (Borst & Taagen, 2007).
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The researchers believed that the study will be beneficial to the SSU key
officials, teachers, English major student-mothers, the community and the future
researchers. The result and input of this study brought understanding to the
following:
useful for all the English major student-mothers, especially in becoming aware and
understanding the different struggles they might encounter in studying not only
To the Teachers. The findings of the study will be a great help for the teachers
in understanding and dealing with their respective students especially with the
To the SSU Key Officials. The findings of the study will be helpful towards
the SSU key officials in planning for several ways in dealing with the current
situation faced by the student-mothers in this pandemic. The findings of the study
will also be a source of enlightenment towards SSU key officials in managing and
student-mothers. The findings of the study will also become an eye-opener to them
education.
To the Future Researchers. The findings of the study will serve as basis and
as inputs to the future researchers who will conduct the same research.
mothers in the new normal. This sought to discover the strategies they applied to
balance their role as a mother and a student. Furthermore, the participants were
who are willing to participate in the data gathering. Hence, the validity of the
Definition of Terms
experiences and choices of a given person, and the knowledge that they gain from
New Normal. Conceptually, this refers to the new way of living and going
about our lives, work and interactions with other people (Inquirer Philippines,
2020). Operationally, this refers to the new way of living and adjustment in the
fulfilled as a mother and student without missing any of those at one time
student.
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Chapter 2
This chapter centers on the literatures and studies anent the lived
Related Literature
Marandet and Wainwright (2010) reported one of the main issues of student
with dependents were time and timing. Student-mothers need to sacrifice one role
just to fulfill the other role. When a woman focuses all her attention on her studies,
her behavior may contrast with her traditional motherhood role (Visick, 2009).
While discourse regarding the “good mother” in any society is based on the
traditional motherhood role (Goodwin & Huppatz, 2010), its definitions vary by
cultures (Zhang, 2011). In Saudi Arabia, a study was conducted to measure the
writing performance and to know the learning styles and strategies used by
English Majors. Results revealed that there was no correlation between the
participants’ learning style preference and writing strategies, nor their use of
writing strategies and their writing proficiency. As a whole, this study contributed
learners in terms of their preferred perceptual learning style, their level of writing
proficiency, and indeed their use of writing strategies (Alkubaidi, 2014). At the
onset of pandemic, a huge gap has arisen between our learning strategies during
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face-to-face classes and modular learning. Hence, the learning styles of English
majors were challenged and compromised to meet the demands of the new normal
educational scheme. This premise calls for an attempt to propose various ideas to
widen the learning styles and strategies of English majors in coping with the new
learning modality.
Related Studies
mothers experienced a challenging yet fulfilling dual role. The researcher used
mother. The result shows three themed emerged, the sub theme would describe
the lived experiences of the student-mother these are; (1) Juggles and Struggles of
students Mothers; (2) Inspiration and Motivations, and (3) Ways of Managing
Dual Roles. Theme 1. Juggles and Struggles of Student-Mothers, its sub-themes are
strength and happiness while the subthemes of Coping Dual Roles are support of
student-mothers in Angeles City on how they manage their dual roles. The
wherein according to Smith and Osborn (2007), it aims to explore in detail how
participants were making sense of their personal and social world” (p. 53), which
it captured and explored the life of the participants assigned to their experiences
(Reid, Flowers, & Larkin, 2005). Guided by the IPA’s data analysis, four master
themes have emerged from the data: (1) Struggles of student-mothers; (2)
and (4) Adjustment to motherhood. The study reveals that the participants were
having a hard time managing their dual roles, their social life was affected after
they became a mother, and they were being judged by other people because of
their situation.
those who have different roles to fulfill such as student-mothers. Taukeni (2014)
Namibia discussing their different challenges being a student and a mother. This
is not something that a mother who is not a student will experience and it is not
something that a student who is not a mother will experience (Lloyd-Smith & Tarr,
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2000). The study has five participants and the researcher used a semi-structured
enough time to navigate between studying and parenting (Taukeni, 2014). Time
mother and a student. As cited in Johnson and Nussbaum (2012), students having
multiple roles used the task-oriented coping strategies. It was used by the
underscored that once the child had born a change in the hierarchy of roles
occurred, and the role of mother/father became the most important. Thus,
participants were faced with the task of redistributing their priorities, trying to
involved making changes to their life project, with their son/daughter becoming
the main motivation to move forward. The female students seemed to perceive
this change more acutely, since their biological condition forced them to miss their
Students also reported that during this process they required constant and strong
indicated that a major aspect that had helped them to reconcile both roles was
having support from home and from their teachers and peers at the university.
Some participants indicated that they felt invisible to the authorities and lamented
support.
resentment regarding being exhorted to choose between being a parent and being
a student, when, in their opinions, they were forced to undertake both roles
The literature and studies cited above will act as a guide in the fulfillment
of the necessary undertakings that the current research demands. Truth be told,
Chapter 3
METHODOLOGY
Research Design
able to connect with their participants and to see the world from their viewpoints
Instrumentation
beforehand to help guide the conversation and keep participants on topic. It also
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Research Locale
This study was conducted through virtual interview to investigate the lived
the safety of the participants, the researchers followed the safety protocols of the
school.
Validation of Instrument
research advisers. They helped the researchers to make a better interview guide
questions that will make it easier for the researchers to come up with major
themes. Both research advisers and the office of SSU-IERC helped to validate the
Sampling Procedure
This was guided by the following criteria: 1. A bonafide English major student of
3. Had the custody of her child/children 4. Either single parent or parent 5. Willing
to participate in the study. Through the use of this procedure, researchers gathered
a total of five participants that are suited in the sampling method that also serve
as the criteria in choosing participants. There are three third-year English major
these participants were asked first for their consent before participating in the
Ethical Consideration
participants the date and time appropriate to their availability and convenience.
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The participants of the study had the right to withdraw their participation at any
given time. Upon the completion of all responses, the researchers transcribed and
To officially man the present study, the researchers sought approval from
the research adviser, as well as the dean of the department under a request letter.
Upon approval, participants were screened if they are qualified with the given
criteria set by the researchers. Once fulfilled, informed consent was given to the
when they would be available to conduct the interview. In collecting the data, the
researchers had phone calls with all of the participants and ask them questions
the data that was gathered from the responses. According to Smith and Osborn
(2007), “IPA aims to explore in detail how participants were making sense of their
personal and social world” (p.53), which is captured and explored the life of the
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participants assigned to their experiences (Reid, Flowers, & Larkin, 2005). Guided
specific levels of coding to identify the emergent themes from the data collected
from the participants. The researchers first transcribe the recorded responses.
transcript was analyzed individually using the levels of coding. The initial reading
was first utilized, wherein each transcript undergoes a preliminary reading for the
had occurred. In this, the researchers noted the engrossing words and phrases that
stood out in the data. When the descriptive coding is completed, researchers re-
read and analyze the responses to extract the frequently used words or phrases by
each participant to understand their lived experiences. In line to this was the
linguistic coding wherein the frequently used words or phrases were considered
and interpreted based on the meaning that each word/phrase implied that
levels of meaning that helped determined the emergent themes within the
Chapter 4
This chapter discusses the research findings of the data collected from the
emerging theme found in the responses of the participants during the interview.
Tables of themes are developed and analysed to determine concrete themes from
Three (3) superordinate themes emerge from the data gathered which
The process has in turn accumulates multiple results which help a great deal in
themes were created which delved deeply on the lived experiences at hand. It
of either one is a great dilemma for student mothers. When a woman must focus
all her attention on her studies, her behaviour may contrast with her traditional
felt the need to adjust their daily routines, particularly in managing time, as the
household per se, that was once a motherhood vicinity, became her learning
environment. This premise held true to the participants at hand as they share how
change of routine anent allotting sufficient time for each role. Participant 5
expressed that, in face-face classes, they had the luxury of time to accomplish
school tasks and attend to their motherhood responsibilities once they get home,
but with the current approach, they can no longer juggle both roles at an optimum
scale.
"Before the pandemic, I was able to have more time on my studies because
as we know it was a face-face interaction unlike now during this pandemic, though I have
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the luxury of time spent with my family, I am struggling with answering my modules."
(P1, lines 20-23)
related problems, financial difficulties, child care and space problems. These
challenges intensified during the pandemic since much of the time is spent at
home. The set-up had them burdened with loads of household work.
that, with the current set-up, their responsibility at home gets even heavier.
"...the more that I am home with my family, the more that I need to
take responsibility of doing household chores..." (P1, lines 30-32)
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insofar as she became bombarded with multiple tasks at the same time.
"...I have also the responsibility as a mother while doing the modules and
doing my housework, and cleaning and cooking, taking care of the children... " (P2, lines
10-12)
With the sudden shift of learning scheme, the dual roles performed by
student-mothers had aggravated. The responses above signified that, since most
of their time are spent at home, student-mothers are more compelled to work on
multitasking
the same time whilst sequential multitasking is when you perform two or more
tasks in rapid succession and in sequential order (Taatgen, 2008). The theme
basically centered on the premise written inside the theoretical framework of the
multitasking.
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their child/children
suffer from job stress, depression, and decreased marital and life satisfaction.
Despite these potential dangers, participants of the study were forced to engage in
concurrent multitasking just so they can fulfill their motherhood and studentship
"You have to multitask because, you are in the... you are in your own place,
do not go to school, do not go out. You can see your responsibilities and though you are
studying and you are... studying in your module there is um... a hindrance because you
cannot concentrate while there was someone talking to you, someone asking um... favor
from you." (P2, lines 32-37)
For contemporary families, juggling more than one task at once is becoming
depression, compared to others who let things slide (Books, 2020). While
The roles of being a student and a mother are highly demanding and
stressful; together these place high demands on one’s body and mind (Springer et
al., 2009). Balancing the two roles and facing strain with respect to time, finances
and academic duties only increase pressure for student mothers. Students need to
deal with academic tasks, such as assignments, group projects and examinations,
while mothers have to perform maternal duties at home (Mayer, 2009; Ricco et al.,
2009). The stress rooted from these multitudinous duties had in turn redoubled as
far as the present set-up is concerned. Participants of the study shared that, they
constantly struggle in doing household works and academic tasks every day.
Juggling two or more tasks distresses our brain and anxiety levels even we
are not multitasking. Multitasking is particularly stressful when the chores are
important, as a person is always on the task. The brain then responds to the taxing
demands by releasing adrenaline and other stress hormones that put a multitasker
learning to their lives. In one way or another, the participants deemed that amid
the difficulties brought by the new learning modality, they still have noted positive
Families are the keystone that holds the educational framework together.
support learning, children tend to do better in school, stay in school longer, and
like school more.” The synergy of these forces is infinitely more beneficial to
students when parents do their part. Since modular approach encouraged greater
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bond.
anent how modular set-up made their family closer. According to Participant 4,
the present mode of learning has strengthened their family relationship since they
“They really are of big help to me. Without their support, I don’t think I can
juggle these things. They keep on reminding me that ‘It’s okay. You can do it.’ They try to
lessen the burden on my part through their emotional support.” (P4, lines 28-30)
For the most part, their responses revealed that student-mothers were able
to establish stronger affinity with their families. The current set-up had in turn
prompted support from their families and help them fulfill their dual roles.
than common courtesy. It’s one of the best ways to create a positive learning
relationships in your school, find out what parent engagement is and how to
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nurture it. Participants stressed that pandemic did not put off their spirit to
continue learning. If anything, they felt even more inspired to pursue their studies.
The analyzed interview shed light on this matter as participants state their
own reasons why they are more inspired to study. Despite the hurdles brought by
“I am more inspired of studying because I have more time with them, with
my family.” (P1, lines 29-30)
“I am inspired because like when my baby cannot fell asleep, they are there
to look after my baby.” (P3, lines 24-25)
from the emotional support they receive from their families and loved ones.
When at home with their children, student parents may have difficulty
getting work done or studying for exams as parenting needs are often
As participants managed to attend to their dual roles, they likewise endured the
academic tasks.
really focus on her modules because her child would interrupt her from time to
time.
“My experience is that, most of the time when I my baby comes to me and
was kind of interrupting my studies, to the extent that I cannot concentrate in answering
the modules.” (P3, lines 3-5)
“…studying in your module, there is um… hindrances because you cannot concentrate
while there was someone talking to you.” (P2, lines 34-37)
(2020), slow internet connections or limited access from homes in rural areas can
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online.
with indignation how she dealt with the poor internet connection.
“What I struggle the most is the Wi-Fi, the network, the internet
connection. It’s the best enemy for me to fight with. That is why it is sometimes hard for
me to online and due to brownout… there is one day like four exams to take and there is
no signal at all.” (P5, lines 71-74)
“I am struggling with answering modules due to slow internet connection.” (P1, lines
22-23)
the huge responsibility brought by their status as a parent, they, too, experience
the present mode of learning. Adonis (2020) cited that teacher suspected that the
students and parents struggled to familiarize themselves with the new learning
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internet connection posed a great challenge among students, especially those who
struggles in my
English majors’
subjects.”
(Participants 2, lines
138-142)
2.3 Academic 2.3.1 Expectations The analyzed “the most difficult
pressure of from people interview shown part for me of being
being an surround who that people an English major is
English Major them expect too much the fear of how
from English could you feel
major students. everyone’s
These expectations and
expectations assumptions about
pressure the your potential and
participants. capabilities but as I
Participant 1 entered the world of
shared her English, I realized
experiences that everything is
about her not about
struggle. perfection.”
(Participant 1, lines
45-48)
sugad hito”.
(Participant 3, lines
39-42)
to help determine the possible and likely causes for the learner’s lack of expected
progress, not only to address the reasons, but also for the sake of the learner's self-
(Shank; Comstock & Kamara, 2003). Hence, student-mothers English major had
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no guidance from the teachers who can explain complex topics to them. They
modules.
that are hard to understand by the participants, especially if they are new to the
modular approach.
“that is why in modular approach it’s really hard being an English major
there are… in module there is sometimes… there is a hard… a difficult or a very… jargon?
Yeah…jargon… I…I… I set and I… I…I also… ahm I’m not awh… being true to myself
not all the jargon or the specific word in English I know the meaning so I need to search…
sometimes in dictionary sometimes in internet for me to catch up to our lesson in modular
approach.” (Participant 2, lines 95-101)
“Ahm, Diglossia. Those that deals with low variety and high variety. That
topic makes me confused.” (Participant 3, lines 51-52)
“I was shocked at first when I realized that English major was not what I
thought it is. It’s quite complex like a maze. I was bombarded with a lot of terminologies.”
(Participant 4, lines 46-48)
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The responses of the participants signified that there are some linguistics
terminologies also add up to their struggles of learning the topics more efficiently.
This struggle hinders them to learn smoothly on their own pace. Teachers can
enrich the courses by using supportive language teaching materials (Osman and
Ali, 2007).
The complexity of content of the learning materials are also one of the
subjects on modular learning. Participants are having a hard time to deduce the
topics given to them, especially that they are new to the topics. Students
particularly more sophisticated adults and teenagers need to feel that the
materials from which they are learning have to be connected with the real world
and at the same time they must be related positively to the aspects of their inner
make up such as age, level of education, social attitudes, the intellectual ability
Researchers found out from the responses of the participants that the
content of the module is not enough for them to understand the topics. Participant
2 also having a hard time to understand the contents in the module that are not
well-elaborated.
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“some subject that like for example in great books which is different…
different literatures…different genre… there were things that I do not understand that I
need to search that is my struggle in being a major students.” (Participant 2, lines 102-
105)
“It’s “Language, Culture, and Society.” I’m a bit confused on some areas,
but our teacher tries to help us get through with those difficulties.” (Participant 4, lines
51-52)
“There are just terms that I cannot discern well. It’s still difficult.”
(Participant 4, lines 53-55)
This theme has dig deep through the struggles and difficulties faced by the
participants in the modular learning. The theme tackled on how the student-
mothers manage and cope with the modular learning difficulties they encounter.
The researchers found out that the contents of the modules are not enough
for them to understand a particular topic. Hence, they search and provide some
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alternative learning materials on the internet for them to have a full grasp of the
alternative formats, include diverse classroom exercises, and let students show
2020).
or watching YouTube videos to have a full grasp of the topics. It is also their way
answered some of the alternatives it uses to further understand their topics on one
of their subjects.
“Reading, like now, I am thankful because there are a lot of sites where I can
download free books and then in YouTube, there are alternatives for me to learn.”
(Participant 3, lines 58-59)
Participant 4 also shared how she asked some help from others when she is
”When I’m having a hard time with a certain topic, I seek help. Most of the
time, I ask help to my sister’s boyfriend - a graduate in SSU, and an English major, too. I
would ask some questions like: “Bro, how is this being done? Can you explain this one?”
That’s when he’ll send me voice records explaining those certain things. In that way, I get
to understand hard-to-grasp concepts.” (Participant 4, lines 57-62)
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Participant 2 also answered the question about how she copes with the
Online sources had been one of their options to further study some topics. With
the help of some instructional material given to them by their instructors, they are
English stands out as one of the most generative fields in all of higher
education. It has been, and continues to be, a wellspring for new approaches, new
ideas and new fields -- some of which have become full-fledged disciplines of their
own (Cartwright, 2019). Thus, the participants really feel pressured because of the
expectations put above their heads. The researchers identified one sub-theme.
The society that we live in has high regard for academic excellence. Those
who fail to meet up to the expectations often face harsh criticism which creates
world out there, Students are constantly pushed to the edge by their parents to
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build a bright future and succeed in life. However, the enormous pressure on the
students not only hinders their growth and learning but leads to increased stress
and anxiety (Poddar, 2020). Therefore, the participants expressed their fears and
The analyzed interview shown that people expect too much from English
“the most difficult part for me of being an English major is the fear of how
could you feel everyone’s expectations and assumptions about your potential and
capabilities but as I entered the world of English, I realized that everything is not about
perfection.” (Participant 1, lines 45-48)
Participant 3 also experienced the same pressure from her friends and
“It is when I realized that being an English major brings too much pressure.
Because I have classmates and friends to whom I asked for help regarding my essays, poems
and projects and when there were times that I forgot some terminologies, they were like
“hagi English major tapos sugad hito.” (Participant 3, lines 39-42)
Additionally, they are still motivated to continue what they have started
night
(Mamabolo et al., 2009), stated that most research has described their two
roles as incompatible and unfulfilling, as the roles are both demanding. This puts
responsibilities.
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“…I pick her first before mine, I make sure I finish his module, and then I
study at night…” (Participants 5, lines 47-48)
responsibilities. They both shared that they manage their time in morning and
dilemma to mix motherhood and learning without losing the other. Her actions
may contrast with her traditional role as a mother if a woman has to focus all her
responsibilities.
“I set my time. Like at 8, I should take my baby to bath, feed him, his
vitamins, and at 10, it is our playtime, pass time, and baby time. Then at noon, he should
be asleep and when he is sleeping, that is now my time to answer my modules. When he
woke up, I will attend to him again...” (Participant 3, lines 68-71)
“I make sure in the right time that I already cook food for my family so that I have
enough time for the... for my study.” (Participant 5, lines 87-88)
(Brown & Amankwaa, 2007; Hofferth et al, 2001) stated that caring for a
child is considered a full-time job and may be very stressful on female college
needs more attention rather than being a student that is why their parental role is
motherhood.
“while being a mother, you cannot stop and say no, you cannot say I do not
like to do my responsibilities.” (Participant 2, lines 206-207)
“For me, it’s being a mother, when you are a student, you have the luxury
of time to set your own schedule in studying.” (Participant 4, lines 74-75)
“But when you are a mother, you have to narrow your full attention to your
child, you have to be wary in every steps that he takes… your top priority is your child”
(Participant 4, lines 77-79)
balancing motherhood and studentship. However, most of the time, they are
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Chapter 5
Summary of Findings
subjects, and balancing motherhood and studentship amid pandemic are the bases
of this summary. There are prevailing themes that are taken into account to obtain
the goal of the data analysis as well as the result. Additionally, there are a lot of
1. One of the major changes that student mothers experience in the new normal
was the alteration of routines by which they encounter change of time scheduled
3. Strengthened family relationship and feeling more inspired to study were the
learning materials.
7. Academic pressure of being an English major had also emerged from the
responses of the participants. Expectations from people who surround them are
theme, the researchers found out significant responses from the participants such
as they fulfill their dual roles through proper time management. They manage
studentship duties at night. Budgeting their time wisely helped them to balance
9. Additionally, the researchers also found out that participants are stressing out
always prioritize parental role over studentship because they believe that this role
Conclusions
Baed on the findings of the study, the following conclusions were drawn:
at home.
families.
sources to aid and support their learning process. These alternatives made
learning their topics a bit efficient and more comprehensible for them
people think highly of them. With these misconceptions, they feel scared
8. The participants state that fulfilling dual roles were done through proper
time management. They are also stressing out that their motherhood
considering its needs for the parental obligations. They always chose
a mother is the most important role for them not just to meet its demands
Recommendations
This research was made to open an opportunity to explore and create future
studies that could suggest and bring up questions and solutions with regards to
the lived experiences of the student-mothers, not only in the new normal set-up,
but also in the daily basis experiences. The researchers had given the following
recommendations:
have a proper and equal time management to fulfill their dual roles, as well
advance knowledge with the contents that will be given to them. They
could also seek help from their seniors or those who have enough
provide consultation and counselling that will help them cope with their
5. Future researchers can use this study as a guide to continuously delve the
6. Student-mothers could also seek help from their seniors or those who have
have a proper and equal time management to fulfill their dual roles, as well
9. Future researchers can use this study as a guide to continuously delve the
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APPENDICES
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At the beginning of the interview the following information were discussed with
the informants:
• Participants will be reassured that they can take their time in thinking and
answering questions.
Interview Questions
Q1: What are your experiences as a mother and as a student at the same time
Q2: What are the changes in your routines before and during the pandemic?
Q3: How does your family relationship impact your learning habits during this
modular learning?
Q3. How do you cope with the struggles you encounter on your English major
subjectss?
Q1: How do you manage your time in meeting the demands of motherhood
Q2: What are the strategies you have come up to balance motherhood and
Q3. What is the most difficult role? Being a mother or being a student? Why?
Checked by:
JANET A. PADILLA
COED Teachers
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Name: P1 Age: 21
5 Clint: Okay. So, I would like to introduce first our study. It is entitled as “Lived
6 Experiences of Student-mother in the new normal” and I know that you could
9 Clint: Okay. Thank you so much. Can I start asking you the questions?
12 First question, what are your experiences as a mother and a student at the same
14 P1: My experiences as a mother and a student at the same time during this
15 modular learning is I can say, a tough and at the same time a challenging
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18 Clint: Oh! I see. I see. So, next question is, what are the changes in your routines
20 P1: Before the pandemic, I was able to have more time on my studies because
22 though I have the luxury of time spend with my family, I am struggling with
25 P1: Well, as of now I can say that I still have a difficulty of handling those
27 Clint: Low internet connection. Next is, how does your family relationship
29 P1: I can say that the impacts are both positive and negative. The positive one
30 is that, I am more inspired of studying because I have more time with them,
31 with my family while the negative part of it is that, the more with I am home
32 with my family the more I need to take responsibility of doing the household
34 Clint: That’s a great answer Ms. P1. Next, can we move on to the next question?
36 Clint: Okay. How does being a mother affect your modular learning?
37 P1: The responsibility and time management as a mother and a student are what
38 I can say the great things I need to consider in this modular learning because I
39 need to balance everything between being a mother and a student at the same
40 time.
41 Clint: Okay. So, do you have your modules already for this semester?
43 Clint: Next, what it the most difficult part of being an English major?
44 P1: Well, the most difficult part for me of being an English major is the fear of
45 how could you feel everyone’s expectations and assumptions about your
46 potential and capabilities but as I entered the world of English, I realized that
47 everything is not about perfection. You can always try because there can always
48 be you know rooms for improvement. What matters the most is that, you have
49 this, the courage, the will, and the dedication to move forward and show that
51 Clint: Okay. That’s a great answer. How do you cope with the struggles you
54 between you and yourself alone. When you learn to accept the struggles, the
55 struggles that you are facing, you will learn that struggles are part of the success
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56 you are aiming for. It will be easy for you to cope up with any type of obstacles
58 Clint: How can you say that acceptance is the key to solve those struggles?
59 P1: Well, I believe that acceptance will be the first thing that you should consider
60 so that you can solve the obstacles or any type of struggles you are facing
61 because when you learn to accept, you will take that struggles into strength and
63 Clint: Yes, indeed, the pandemic really caused us so many struggles and we
64 should really accept it. Next, how do you manage your time in meeting the
66 P1: I always think these two roles which is being a mother and being a student
67 fair and just. I always keep in mind that, I even though I’m a mother now, I can
70 Clint: So, you are pointing this so-called time management. Next is, what are
71 the strategies you have come up to balance motherhood and studentship in the
72 new normal?
73 P1: The strategy is very simple. I answer my modules while my baby is sleeping
76 on time. Okay, let’s come to the last question. What is the most difficult role?
78 P1: Oh! My God. That’s a tough question. Well, I can say that there is no difficult
80 priority will always be my daughter because she carries all the reason now why
81 I still continue to live my purpose and my dreams. So, I make sure I’m with her
82 every step of the way, watching and guiding her as she grows.
83 Clint: I have point out your answers a while ago about acceptance. So, is this
86 Clint: Or should I say that, this acceptance develops during or before the
87 pandemic?
88 P1: I think both. When you say acceptance, it has nothing to with the type of
89 situation you are into. When you learn to accept everything, even though how
90 hard the situation is specially now we’re facing the pandemic, the choice you
91 only have now is to accept what is really happening because when you keep on
92 dealing with the pre-covid situation, let yourself exist in the past, you would
93 never experience the success you want to achieve especially now that we are in
94 the time of pandemic, we have no choice but to accept of what’s happening now
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96 be ready with these changes. Being a mother is what I can say a more difficult
97 role than being a student. It's because in being a mother, you give all your
99 offer. Your whole self is the main requirement to be considered a good mother.
100 Sometimes, it isn't enough because there is no easy way of being a great mother
101 especially when you are experiencing tough times when your child is sick. All
102 the blame are put on you, expect that and you should be ready to accept it for
103 that's part of motherhood. And most importantly, the role of a mother never
104 stops on the part when they're child are already graduated or married. It's a
106 Clint: That’s it Ms. P1. I know that you could really handle the dual
107 responsibilities especially in these hard times. I am very grateful for your
108 answers. Thank you so much, Ms. P1. Keep safe and God bless.
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Name: P2 Age: 39
1 Aura: What are your experiences as a mother and as a student at the same time
3 P2: I learn a lot of experiences this time of pandemic, one is the most difficult
4 experience that I have experience is when we started the modular approach, the
5 first sem in third year? I experience difficulties because it’s hard to understand
6 the lessons while no one giving basic info. about the subject and what are you
9 P2: With the question and the activities that is in the module and as of that, there
10 is also, um… I have also the responsibility as a mother while doing the modules
11 and doing my house work, and cleaning, and cooking, taking care of my
12 children, and most of all doing that… I almost, I almost every day I’m doing
14 student and it’s really hard because, when … before in our, before when, there,
16 hard as now like for example, in face to face, face to face while I’m studying
17 going to school and going to school, and being a mother is not really difficult
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19 responsibilities as a mother, cooking their food, cleaning the house, and wake
21 student so it’s not hard. Unlike now, that the experience this pandemic, I
23 work and doing my modules at the same time because, there’s some modules
26 Aura: So, like what…what are the major changes in your routine of being a
28 P2: The major changes in my routine is that doing the multitasking, doing both
30 mother in… in… our home because it’s, you do not have to go out to study, to
32 as a mother. You have to multitask because, you are in the… you are in your
33 own place, you do not go to school, do not go out. You can see your
34 responsibilities and though you are studying and you are… studying in your
35 module there is um… a hindrance because you cannot concentrate while there
36 was someone talking to you, someone asking um… favor from you, someone
38 Aura: What?
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39 P2: needs to ask something that… or ask something, or you are feel sleepy and
40 tired because the module is so hard to understand. This is true, not all module
43 understand what’s on the module what’s inside, you have to un…um… you
44 have to think critically, you have to understand, you have to search what’s the…
45 what’s really your subject is all about so , when you concentrate and you are in
46 the house and you are a mother and a student you cannot concentrate , as in
47 concentrate in your study so you were having a hard time and sometimes you
48 were just shout or you were just nag… you were just nag “You don’t disturb
49 me , I’m busy!” Like that and… you know it’s just a struggle in facing this, these
50 days and I wish um… the situation will come back to normal as it used…
51 Aura: How…how does your family relationship impact to your learning habits
54 not change… it’s just the same before and now… it’s the same because as… as…
55 ahm… being true to myself is not…ahm… I can say that well I also experience
56 and I feel there’s nothing change because you know as a mother and as a student
58 I… I act as mother and I act as a student and at the same time my responsibility
60 the house as a mother is still I still do it and I don’t leave…ah I don’t set aside
63 Aura: So, does your family help you with your studies?
64 P2: ah well… true to say, ahm… I can say that sometimes they help me but most
65 of the times they become my hindrances in…you know why? Because when do
66 you feel that I’m having a hard time learning in the modular approach… they
67 said “you’re having a hard time? ... stop studying. Oh my God! It’s a big no no
68 and I started studying…so I need to finish whether I like it or not I better like
69 it!
71 pandemic so… how does being a mother affect your modular learning?
72 P2: being a mother affect the… my modular learning…ahm actually face to face
73 and modular learning is a… it’s ah… the same it affects me as mother because
74 ahm I studied… I study… I just study… come back to study this past few years
77 their module but I’m not yet because I’m a mother I have to do some
79 what’s on my modules… the lesson… that its in there and what… how… how
80 and what that’s always ah… questioning me when I am holding the module
81 how would I finish this as … as early as… before the deadline and what would
84 approach that’s ahm basic approach which you can understand easily but there
85 were also some things that… that it’s really hard to understand that you need
86 to.. to search and search and search so you will understand what’s on it and
87 to… to sink… it’s really hard to sink it in and memorize what’s in the module
88 than in face to face you could easily memorize the… bacause… the professor…
89 the instructor discuss and they will let you understand and make it appropriate
90 for you to uhmm… it is really… its easy for you to cope up with the lesson that
91 is why in modular approach it’s really hard being an English major there are…
93 Yeah…jargon… I…I… I set and I… I…I also… ahm I’m not awh… being true
94 to myself not all the jargon or the specific word in English I know the meaning
97 some… some subject that like for example in great books which is different…
100 but all in all its…it’s a little bit fun because I experience… because when I
102 Aura: Okay…what is the most difficult part of being an English major?
103 P2: The difficult part of being an English major is to learn in all… all or learn
104 many many many words as in a very…a specific…words in English that you
105 know I cannot memorize all and I need sometimes… I’m being oh…I’m being
106 block…what is that…what’s that word? What is the meaning of that? So I need
108 Aura: Are there some more like other aspects… like grammar…ahm
109 literature…
110 P2: Yeah in grammar…in grammar also because sometimes I think… I thought
111 that my grammar is correct but… but in the end… at end of the day when I
112 read it again…oh my God! It’s “chaka” (chuckles) it’s “chaka” there’s…there’s
113 something that it’s not…you know I need to change my…my the…the way I
114 approach… the…my grammar there’s something wrong with it because you
115 know being a student… being an English major you have to be careful with
116 the grammar because that’s the first thing you have to learn… then the
118 there were words that I pronounce incorrectly that needs to be…needs for me
119 to correct it because I’m studying as an English major and before…before you
220 deliver some sentences in English language you have to know that correct
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221 pronunciation… the correct grammaring and there were times that I’m having
225 comprehension is that when I have …when I read… when I read ahm…a word
226 that is not familiar to me I would pause for a minute or sometime and look for
227 that simple definition or the…what’s appropriate that would fit to the sentence
231 Aura: And…how do you cope with the struggles you encounter on your
233 P2: There are different ways that I cope… help me cope in my struggles in my
235 classmates and I…I ask… I asked them for help…some help…a little help to
239 Aura: Are there times that you search for the word? Or did your studying
243 Aura: How do you manage your time in meeting the demands of motherhood
245 P2: Well, as I have said earlier as a mother and as a student is you have to do
246 a multitasking…you have to manage your time while you’re doing your
247 responsibilities as a mother and you’re doing your module as a student… you
248 have to manage your…ahm you can manage it one by one…or you can
249 manage it…at the same time while doing your house work doing…doing your
250 responsibilities as a mother in your house and doing your module but it’s
251 just…it’s really difficult because you cannot focus on your module but as you
255 P2: Yeah multitasking… but there are times when I felt like I have no energy
257 Aura: So what are the strategies you have come up to balance motherhood and
260 just when I’m so stress I stop doing my responsibilities… I stop studying and
261 stop waiting my module…and I’m all…I just do sit and hold my
263 Korean movies and when I do not have load that ahm…it’s always ahh… most
265 Aura: So, what are the strategies you have come up to balance motherhood
268 P2: Balancing my mother…my being a mother… balancing it is just like that,
269 you have to set your priority… your priority is like this, your goal is to finish
270 your studies…your goal is to take care of your children… take care of the
271 house…you have to manage what is your most priority doing…while modular
273 set first my…my my obligation in the house being a mother… being a husband
274 and then after that I finished that I would do the multitasking because I cannot
275 finish all my responsibilities as a mother so after that the priorities I do the
278 concentrate in my studies at late at night but in…in early like for example
279 afternoon and the morning I cannot concentrate… I always stay awake at 12
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281 for me… to be able to concentrate because in the morning you know I’m a
282 mother I have to…responsibilities also but they were both my responsibilities
283 but my mother… the mother thing is most priority and my study is ahm my
284 prior ahm… also my priorities but it can wait for a little while… so I set this to
285 make sure that I become… I can focus in my module… I set this in midnight
288 Aura: Yes… so last question, what is the most difficult role being a mother or
290 P2: The most difficult is being a mother…being a student you can…you can
291 take it easy…yes you can take it easy because yeah when your stress so much,
292 stress with your module you can stop and watch…you can stop and listen to
293 music you can stop and read books and you can stop to watch some
294 telenovelas while being a mother you cannot stop and say no… you cannot
295 say I do not like to do my responsibilities, I want to sit, I want to watch and do
296 my thing… I want to be happy…stress…do not stress myself but when you’re
297 a mother you have to do it whether you like it or not it won’t stop… it won’t
298 stop… it’s a continuous like a studies it’s a continuous process because when
299 you are mother every day you learn something… you learn something from
301 house…something from your husband, you learn something from your kids
302 so the most difficult thing is being a mother than being ah…student
Name: P3 Age: 20
1 Rosela: What are your experiences as a mother and a student at the same time
4 there were points when my baby comes to me and was kind of interrupting my
5 studies, to the extent that I cannot concentrate in answering the modules. So what
7 Rosela: So, next. What are the changes in your routines? Like you mentioned
8 right, that there were times your baby interferes with your study. So what are
9 the changes in your routines before and during the pandemic? Like how did you
10 adjust?
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11 P3: Before, when there was no pandemic, you have to wake up early to take a
12 bath. Now that we are in a modular learning and in a pandemic, you have the
13 control of your time. Like anytime and anywhere, you can answer your
15 Rosela: Like, you’re answering your modules with your baby? Or you ask
17 P3: Ahm, it was like, I only find the time to answer my modules whenever my
20 P3: Yes, like right now, my baby is asleep so I have the time to answer my
21 modules.
22 Rosela: Okay next, how does your family relationship impact your learning
24 P3: Ahm, right now, I am inspired because like when my baby cannot fall
25 asleep, they are there to look after my baby and our bond became much stronger
28 P3: Yes, they looked after my baby. That is why they are a huge help and I thank
31 P3: Yes.
32 Rosela: Now, we are going to focus on your experiences in dealing with your
33 English major subjects. So first question for the second part, how does being a
34 mother affect your modular learning, especially in dealing with your English
35 major subjects?
36 P3: Like what I have mentioned when my baby interrupts when I am answering
37 my modules.
38 Rosela: For you, what is the most difficult part of being an English major?
39 P3: It is when I realized that being an English major brings too much pressure.
40 Because I have classmates and friends to whom I asked for help regarding my
41 essays, poems and projects and when there were times that I forgot some
42 terminologies, they were like “hagi English major tapos sugad hito”. It seems
43 like they didn’t understand that English is not my first language and I am not
44 fluent with it and that is the reason why we studied. They are questioning my
46 Rosela: Okay. So how many major subjects do you have this sem?
47 P3: Two.
50 Rosela: Like what kind of topics you are having a hard time?
51 P3: Ahm, Diglossia. Those that deals with low variety and high variety. That
54 P3: Yes, because Ma’am Sassy was also giving us videos to widen our
56 Rosela: How do you cope with the struggles you encounter in your English
57 major subjects? Like what did you to solve or lessen your difficulties?
58 P3: Reading, like now, I am thankful because there are a lot of sites where I can
59 download free books and then in Youtube, there are alternatives for me to learn.
61 Rosela: Because sometimes, what is written in the modules are too complex to
62 understand.
64 Rosela: Okay so, earlier you have mentioned how you dealt with your English
68 P3: I set my time. Like at 8, I should take my baby to bath, feed him, his vitamins,
69 and at 10, it is our playtime, pass time and baby time. Then at noon, he should
71 When he woke up, I will attend to him again because like my mother, she also
73 Rosela: What are the strategies you have come up to balance motherhood and
77 P3: Yes, like now, I should have fed my baby. I should have taken him to bath,
79 Rosela: So, for the last question. What is the most difficult role? Being a mother
81 P3: For me, being a mother. The thought itself like you have to think of your
82 baby’s food, it’s indeed challenging because a baby didn’t like to eat the same
83 food, they are choosy of their food that is why you have to feed him different
Name: P4 Age: 21
3 Rosela: What are your experiences as a mother and as a student at the same time
5 P4: Uhm, before pandemic like I spend my day purely doing mother thingy.
6 Babysitting like that. But, when modular came, I found it hard to adjust… to let
7 yourself study alone. Now that I’m already in college, it really is a heavy burden
8 to me. I don’t know where to start, how to start, it’s really hard. It took me a very
10 Rosela: Thank you, what are the changes in your routine? You just mentioned
11 earlier that you did some adjustments, what are the changes in your routines
13 P4: Well, before, I focused solely on what I want to do, my whims like that. I
14 have the control of my time. But when I became a mother, it’s difficult. I don’t
15 know how to begin… how to do it. But, I’m trying you know. I want to raise
16 my child well. That is why even it’s hard, and no one is there to help me, I still
17 am trying to be the best mother I can be. Every day, I learn new things. Mother
19 Rosela: Now that you are in the modular learning, how do you manage your
20 time?
22 now that he’s getting more active and I really have to pay more attention on
23 him. Other times, when he’s calm and asleep, I pick up my modules and do a
24 tad of work. But, mostly I do it at night because that’s only when I get enough
26 Rosela: Okay. What are the changes in your routine? Now, how does your
27 family relationship impact your learning habit during this modular learning?
28 P4: Uhm, they really are of big help to me. Without their support, I don’t think
29 I can juggle these things. They keep on reminding me that “It’s okay. You can
30 do it.” They try to lessen the burden on my part through their emotional
34 Rosela: Next question, how does being a mother affects your modular learning?
35 P4: Well, modular learning is really hard. I have no idea how to cope with the
37 still uncertain as to how to manage our college life… unlike in face-face classes
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38 that we somehow find some motivation to learn. With the current set-up, I don’t
39 know.
40 Rosela: You mean; the resources are not enough to stimulate learning?
41 P4: I think so. The teachers are good. It’s just different. I mean, in face-face I feel
42 like I am way more encouraged to learn and my mind functions better. But right
43 now, I feel like I am alone. Sometimes, the readings are not enough for me to
46 P4: English major? Well, I was shocked at first when I realized that English
47 major was not what I thought it is. It’s quite complex like a maze. I was
48 bombarded with a lot of terminologies. There are topics that I can’t explain well.
50 Rosela: Is there any subject in particular that you find most difficult?
51 P4: Yes, I have one. It’s “Language, Culture, and Society.” I’m a bit confused on
52 some areas, but our teacher tries to help us get through with those difficulties.
53 The good thing is, she supplies some videos to further explain the topic. There
54 are just terms that I cannot discern well. It’s still difficult.
55 Rosela: Okay, so how do you cope with struggles you encounter on your
57 P4: When I’m having a hard time with a certain topic, I seek help. Most of the
60 “Bro, how is this being done? Can you explain this one?” That’s when he’ll send
63 Rosela: Now, how do you manage your time in meeting the demands of
67 Rosela: What are the strategies you have come up to balance motherhood and
69 P4: I think it’s still the same. Since my baby is still young, I need to spend much
70 of my time attending him. My husband is also busy at work; hence I’m the one
71 in-charge with the babysitting. I only get to study when I have free time.
72 Rosela: Okay next, third question. What is the most difficult role? Being a
74 P4: For me, it’s being a mother. When you are a student, you have the luxury of
75 time to set your own schedule in studying. You can accomplish things anytime.
76 When get bored, you always have the opportunity to divert your attention and
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77 take some leisure for yourself. But when you’re a mother, you have to narrow
78 your full attention to your child. You have to be wary in every step that he takes,
Name: P5 Age: 29
1 Nelsa: The question number 1 would be the lived experiences of being a student
2 mother. What are your experiences as a mother and as a student at the same time
6 learning.
7 P5: Well. Okay, am… actually am… the experiences that I have encounter during
9 for me the current situation in modular learning am it’s, modular learning gives
10 me a great help because through it. I could manage my time in motherhood and
11 studentship status at the same time. In the morning, I could adjust on the time.
12 In the morning when I woke up, do some household chores, cooking, and in the
16 Nelsa: So, let’s go to the number two. What are the changes in your routines
17 before and during the pandemic? Compare and contrast your experiences in
21 P5: My routine before pandemic is I always stay in town in Catbalogan and then
22 I invest more time in study than being a mother and then am… more focus on
24 because I can be a student, I can be a mother and the thing is my time is getting
25 smaller. I have smaller time, minimal time… and for my study than the time for
26 my family. Right now that I am pregnant is really hard to… You have to wake
27 up early in the morning, you have to cook for breakfast, drink some coffee and
28 then suddenly wash the dishes, do the household chores, and then suddenly
29 after that you need to focus… in the afternoon you need to focus in your study.
30 So, that’s only the changes in my routine because before I focus in my study,
31 and then now it feels like… half-half, half for my family and other half for my
32 study.
33 Nelsa: So, let’s go to the number 3 question. How does your family relationship
35 P5: Well, impact am… It’s okay, actually the relationship we have of my family,
36 there’s no changes, maybe they were just give time because…am… let say in
37 the afternoon, once I study… once I’m studying I make sure that I finish the…
38 the Alfred’s modules first before mine, and then time for my husband, he can
39 understand because once I’m doing all my work, my paper work, he just watch
40 tv, as long as I already finished cooking, or whatever it is. So, there’s no impact
41 at all and I’m all good , much better because, At least I have enough time for
42 my family, enough time for my husband, enough time for my study and of
43 course, the family bonding, we need it, so all good, nothing negative.
44 Nelsa: So, the next question is, how does being a mother affect your modular
learning?
45 P5: Being a mother is really hard because being a mother you have to do all the
46 things you have responsibility for your children, right? So, am… it’s hard to be
47 a mom but, am. I can manage because I pick her first before mine, I make sure
48 I finish his module before mine, and then I study at night, actually I study at
49 night until two o’clock and… I still awake two o’clock and then suddenly my
50 husband will go for fishing at two o’clock and he will tell me “Hey! It’s already
51 late and you still awake” and I said “It’s okay, in the morning I will sleep
52 anyway, no worry” and he’ll say “Just make sure is the baby is safe” that’s all.
53 Nelsa: So, what is the most difficult part of being an English major?
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54 P5: The most difficult part? My God, it is… for me, to have confidence to speak
55 fluently because I don’t have that much confidence to speak fluently in English
57 pressured it feels like uh… your being pressured and bombarded. Yes, that’s
58 all. Pero, the other things like quizzes and other staff, I’m fine, I can manage I
59 just accept what’s the result is, that’s all. Just fight! fight! fight! fight! whatever
60 it takes because like I already said I’m already in here so, I just need to finish
61 this one. As a mother, my God, I’ve been through a lot of things and I will do
63 Nelsa: Wow, next is how do you cope with the struggles you encounter on your
65 P5: I think, as long as you manage your time, and then, understand the lesson
66 and then bit by bit, you need to do simple things like, do some… like ,
67 answering the LP, the module, you need 1,2,3, and then 123 again , everyday
68 make sure that you do something, so that there’s no that much struggle you
69 have to pay when the deadline is come, so that’s all . Time management
70 indeed… my way to deal are there are times I am struggling to understand via
71 online. What I struggle the most is the Wi-Fi, the network, the internet
72 connection , it’s the best enemy for me to fight with. That is why, it is sometimes
73 hard for me to online and due to brownout, too. When there is no light, I’m
74 stressed and there is one day like four exams to take and there’s no signal at all,
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75 it’s hard for me to enter until it’s already 2 o’clock, I am at my mother’s terrace
76 just to answer.
78 P5: I keep on connecting on the one-peso coin Wi-Fi. That’s all I do but it’s okay,
79 I can manage.
80 Nelsa: How do you manage your time in meeting the demands of motherhood
83 obligation is always there, every minute, every second, every day. For student
84 whatever that demand it is… if it is really the deadline or whatever it is, I can
85 manage, I can do them both with one row because with my son I didn’t have
86 to… you know, I don’t need to look after him whatever he does, once I told him
87 enough, then it’s enough, and then I make sure in the right time that I already
88 cook food for my family so that I have enough time for the … for my study, and
89 then for the demand of my study, it’s okay to me, I always put time and invest
90 time for that, cause my mother is always there, I don’t worry too much for him.
91 Nelsa: okay so, what are the strategies you have come up to balance
94 Nelsa: In this Covid19 pandemic, what are the strategies you used to balance
96 P5: Time management, it’s all and it’s my way to strategy and make sure that
97 when I wake up early in the morning, I do all the household chores first then,
98 easy and the rest are for later, give enough time for my son, as long as I finish
99 his module, and after that he can go out, then I have enough time for myself,
100 for my study , until afternoon, until night I have enough time. It depends on
102 time management, the best thing is time management, cause no one can
104 Nelsa: Yes, so here’s the last question, what is the most difficult role? Being a
106 P5: Being a mother, it is the difficult role for me because, as a student I can
107 do my best , I can do whatever I can, to fulfill it or finish it, and give enough
108 time and effort to invest whatever I have for my study but, as a mother it is
109 very difficult for me because, imagine it is… a mother is a full time, a lifetime
110 responsibility and no one can take it away from you as long as your children
111 are standing with you so, whatever it is it’s the mother, that’s the difficult part
Dear Ms./Mrs.,
Good day!
We, the 3rd year English Majors of Samar State University, would like to ask for
your consent to be one of our participants in the study titled “Lived Experiences
of Student-Mothers in the New Normal.” It aims to study the underexplored
experiences of the English major student-mothers amid the pandemic. In light to
this purpose, we will be exploring your experiences in managing your dual roles
as a mother and as a student through a virtual interview. This will last for 10-15
minutes. Rest assured that your responses will be kept with utmost
confidentiality and for academic purposes only. We are looking forward for your
favorable approval.
Respectfully yours,
JEAN MARIZ A. GALVEZ
AURA MONICA S. LABINE
REINA APPLE M. MENDOZA
Email: jeanmariz.galvez@ssu.edu.ph
PERSONAL INFORMATION
NICKNAME: Jeanjean
AGE: 21
NATIONALITY: Filipino
EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND
Major in English
3rd year
2012-2014
Hinabangan, Samar
2014-2018
Hinabangan, Samar
2014-2018
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2006-2012
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Email: auramonica.labine@ssu.edu.ph
PERSONAL INFORMATION
NICKNAME: Aura
AGE: 20
NATIONALITY: Filipino
EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND
Major in English
3rd year
2012-2016
2014-2018
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2006-2012
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Email: reinaapplemendoza@gmail.com
PERSONAL INFORMATION
NICKNAME: Apple
AGE: 21
NATIONALITY: Filipino
EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND
Major in English
3rd year
2012-2016
2016-2018
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2006-2012
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Email: clintjohnsen.plasabas@ssu.edu.ph
PERSONAL INFORMATION
NICKNAME: Clintoy
AGE: 20
NATIONALITY: Filipino
EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND
Major in English
3rd year
2012-2016
2016-2018
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SCHOOL
2006-2012
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NELSA N. SALVOSA
Email: nelsasalvosa0@gmail.com
PERSONAL INFORMATION
NICKNAME: Nels
AGE: 22
NATIONALITY: Filipino
EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND
Major in English
3rd year
2012-2016
Hinabangan, Samar
2014-2018
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2006-2009
SCHOOL
2009-2012
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Email: marosela.tuting@ssu.edu.ph
PERSONAL INFORMATION
NICKNAME: Pepay
AGE: 21
NATIONALITY: Filipino
EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND
Major in English
3rd year
2012-2016
OF FISHERIES
2014-2018
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2006-2012