A Great Action Date You Should Try

by ApocalypseCow

I had a date last night, and I originally had plans to do something outside. The
problem? It started raining.

The solution? Bowling!

Damn, this was a great date. I was a little apprehensive, but it worked out so
well. It’s fun, plus there are lots of opportunities for kino (touching). There’s
lots of stuff to laugh at (missing easy shots, making hard ones) and you can
build up some friendly tension by competing.

Also, you get to be out in the public. In the past, I had vastly under-estimated
how important this was. But now, I know — women want to be seen with a
guy, and that makes them feel good.

And if you’re wondering, getting this girl to come into my apartment for an
"after date drink" was trivial.

From now on, bowling is going to be my standard first/second action date.

An Excellent Place to Meet Women

by Bungo Pony

I think that a Karaoke bar is an excellent place to meet women. If you can sing
— Great! If you can’t sing — Great!

Either way, get up on stage and sing something. It’ll build up some confidence
in you, and shows that you’re not afraid of doing it.

Also, think of the possibilities!

Now that you’ve been up on stage, you can freely walk up to any woman and
say "How come I haven’t seen you up on stage?" or "Would you like me to
sing you something?"

If she has been up on stage, you can ask her "Where did you learn to sing like
that?"

There are lots of possibilities, so I urge you all who haven’t tried it, to go out
and do it!
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Why You Should Try Speed Dating

by Huisy

I’ve recently tried something here in London called Speed Dating. For those of
you who don’t know what it is, here’s a lowdown:

One hour. Twenty girls. Three minutes each.

That’s it! It’s all arranged at a pub.

Twenty girls sit at a table each, and men go and sit opposite them. After three
minutes a buzzer sounds and you move on. If you like the person, you tick a
card. For matches (both of you ticked yes), email details are sent out to both
people the next day.

My Experience With Speed Dating

Both the men and women there are generally acceptable people, and not the
kind you would think are desperate to get a date. I made several useful
contacts out of the men that were there. (I’m planning to work in the City of
London.)

Mostly it was people in demanding jobs who don’t go out to bars too often.
Many of the guys said they chatted up more women that night in the hour than
they had over the past month. Even I must admit I’ve never managed
anything close to 20 chat-ups in 60 minutes.

As for the women, I’ve split them up like this:

 5 mingers (not too good)
 10 dateable girls (5-7 range)
 3 lookers (8+)
 2 stunners (9+)

I ticked 7 girls, and I got 4 matches. Not bad.

They don’t tell you if a girl liked you if you didn’t like them. Shame - always
good for an ego boost!

Benefits of Speed Dating

Let’s start with the obvious ones. I’ve been busy recently, and had only
managed 4 numbers and 1 measly date last month. A bad performance, I
know, but that’s beside the point.

I’ve now got 6 dates lined up over the next week. I consider this mightily
impressive, and it’s great to be overloaded with women.

This method gets dates. Simple.

Now, for the more important benefits!

Whilst I consider myself to have reasonable success on the dating scene, one
of my weaknesses was the opening 5 minutes. Conversation didn’t often flow
naturally in the beginning.

I don’t think I can practice openings on 20 women in 60 minutes anywhere

else. I got good at it. And after the speed dating, I went out and got 3 numbers
easily at another bar.
Finally, this is a confidence booster.

This site is filled with "how to boost confidence" tips, and, as has been seen,
the only real way is to get out there and try it. Best analogy I can think of is
driving a car -- It was really scary first time out, but now it’s natural. That state
is achievable with dating as well.

The problem is people who lack confidence just won’t go out and try. The best
solution to this I’ve seen so far is DJ Boot Camp, but it still requires a lot of
effort from the person.

This way, once you have paid your speed dating fee, you will HAVE to talk to
20 women, and you WON’T get a rejection, just a buzzer!

I highly recommend this as a confidence booster mainly, with the added

bonus of dates!

And for the record, one of the stunners, two of the lookers and one of the
datable girls checked me. Not bad!

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