02.2 - Susan Bratton - The 4 Elements of Revival

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4 Elements of Revival
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Table of Contents
1 Introduc+on The master seducer knows
2 4 Elements of Revival that we’re always training our
3 Assump+ons partner, always, with every
4 Results
look, with every frown, with
5 Polarity
8 Polarity Recap every smile, with every
9 Overcoming Resistance gesture.
10 Recap Overcoming Resistance
11 Female Psychology Secondly, you can take the
14 Recap Female Psychology apprecia<on to an
15 Female Anatomy and explora<on level, where you
Advanced Sexual Mastery set up focused educa<onal
19 Recap Female Anatomy and
sessions to open her up.
Advanced Sexual Mastery
20 Checklist
21 Acknowledgements The third key of the master
22 End Notes trainer is to incubate, which
is working with fantasy.
— Dr. Pa( Taylor
Every human
glows in the
light of
apprecia6on
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THE 4 ELEMENTS
OF REVIVAL
Jen ratio refers to
a multilayered
mixture of
humanity,
benevolence and
kindness.
“A man wishing
to establish his
own character,
also establishes
the character of
others,” and
“brings the good
things of others
to completion
and does not
bring the bad
things of others
to completion.”
— Dacher
Keltner
Discover that deeply satisfying

feeling that comes from bringing
your woman to sensual completion.
The most important Thank you for helping experts offered in the
part of your revival plan your woman get to her Seduc4on Summit —12
is knowing the big poten+al. deep dialogs about
picture about how you reviving her drive. They
are going to reverse There are four over-‐ are dis+lled here for
your sex life and help arching principles that you to understand and
her go from frozen to affect her level of sexual apply the solu+ons to
melty, from shut down interest in you. These your situa+on so you
to turned-‐on. are the 4 Elements of can enjoy the pleasure
Revival. They come of seeing immediate
from the culmina+on of posi+ve change.
ALL the wisdom all the
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With patience
and the right
set of tools
you can turn
her around.
Bring her sexy back! The four elements of

revive her drive dovetail to provide the
complete solution to reawaken her.
The four elements of revival are: You may not need to bolster all four of these
in your rela)onship, but it could be even
1) Crea4ng Polarity, Trust and Surrender beXer if you do.
2) Overcoming Resistance and Escala4on Let’s work with the assump+on that you
want to “fire on all cylinders” and that you
3) Female Psychology Strategies
are interested in knowing how these four
4) Female Anatomy and Advanced Sexual components work together to revitalize her
Mastery Techniques sensuality and move her toward being a very
sexy woman, either for the first +me or once
again.
4 Elements of Revival
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No matter how long she’s been numb, she’ll

warm to you with these strategies
Throughout this eBook, specific expert where I cannot help you and you need to
dialogs are noted where applicable. seek professional advice.
This plan of ac+on is based on the If you have a history of some acceptable sex
assump+ons that: (when you first got together) and no major
health issues (we do address aging) then you
1) You want a beHer sex life with your are ready to revive her sex drive.
woman
First, do what ever you have to do to let go
2) You formerly had a reasonable enough of your anger and frustra+on. They are not
connec+on with her that you believe she ge_ng what you want; they are preven+ng
has the poten4al to feel good sexually and you from success.
you’ve seen proof of her ability to enjoy
sex (even if it’s been a tremendously long Forgive her. Forgive yourself. Stay focused
+me since that has occurred.) on bringing pleasure into your rela+onship.
Think long and hard about le_ng anger go if
3) You are willing to learn new skills and you are struggling with any residual
put in some effort to get the reward of nega+vity. Cul+vate compassion for yourself
recrea+ng in+macy and sensuality with and for her. Neither of you is happy. Let’s get
her, including le_ng go of any residual you back on track.
anger or rejec+on you’ve been feeling
Secondly, take this on as YOUR project. Don’t
4) You’d love nothing more than to not expect her to “do” anything. Just let her “be”
only get her back where she used to be responsive to your ac+ons and guidance.
sexually-‐speaking, but you’d like to move This is yours to win. And in doing so, you
her toward an ever increasing hot, juicy both win.
sex life with you
Release any +meframe you are holding. This
Before you get started, make sure that turn-‐around is going to take as much +me as
there’s nothing emo+onally or physically it takes. If your woman is responsive, you
wrong with her health. That’s the one area may see instantaneous results. If she’s a
slow-‐burner, be pa+ent.
Your masculinity and tenderness are an elixir
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to her sensuality
The effort you put in to rekindling your Let’s start at the 10,000 foot view. There are
sexual connec+on will pay off. And four core elements to seduc+on as it applies
everything in these books and interviews to a turn-‐around situa+on like yours.
integrates the power of posi+ve psychology.
The first is understanding that no maXer
how accomplished a woman she is in the
There is nothing in here that’s manipula+ve,
world, unless the two of you have polarity -‐
or uses subterfuge in any way. Even if you a feeling of you being masculine and her
are trying things and not telling her you are being feminine when you are together -‐ she
doing them (as in the stealth techniques we will not feel very sexy toward you. (Xuma, Alanis,
share with you) they are simply done Allman, Hudson)
without talking about them because it

makes it more pleasurable for you and/or Ohen the women with the most strength in
the world want men who are the most
for her.
masculine in the bedroom to balance them
Note: If she finds out you purchased this product, there’s out and make them feel feminine again.
nothing in here that you couldn’t feel comfortable sharing with
her, but it may make it that much more pleasurable an
experience for her to just feel you making these subtle shifts in You may need to cul+vate more of this core
your relating. masculinity for her so she can flower into
her full femininity.
You will see again the powerful forces of
love that exist in your connec+on with your
woman.
Specific expert dialogs are
You will uncover the psychological reasons
she resists and learn how tenderness gets noted throughout for quick
her to surrender to her sensual self again. access to specifics. The Fast
You’ll free yourself (and her) from your Path Guide also directs you
hungry sex-‐bunny feeling. And you’ll both to precise content within
learn how to share in a mutual turn-‐on that the program so you can
brings pleasure (and relief!) to both of you.
apply these 4 Elements of
Best of all, these “psycho-‐emo4onal tools” Revival to your situa6on.
quickly and easily reawaken the passionate
girl you first dated. They are logical and easy
to apply too.

You now have the roadmap to her desire
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A woman can be strong, courageous and Chances are, if there’s a lack of polarity,
buX-‐kicking in all areas of her life, including she’s filling in the gaps where she wants you
in her sexuality. AND she can simultaneously to handle things, but you are not. So she’s
be feminine, soh, sensual, sexy, sweet and doing it. It’s making her masculine. It’s
womanly too. emascula+ng you. And it’s preven+ng her
from le_ng go into her sensual self.
Being smart and accomplished, powerful
and strong can all be done while s+ll being In your defense, she may have never “let”
incredibly feminine. you take control. Now you must wrest it
away from her by showing that you can and
And you, by being masculine for her, by will take care of business.
being her man, her rock, can give her the
plajorm to be all of this and more. Polarity... Masculine feminine balance... In
the bedroom. There are a treasure trove of
ideas and advice inside this program for
The cul4va4on of polarity is ge_ng the polarity back in your connec+on.
key for the two of you to Once you have re-‐established any missing
have great sex together. polarity, she will begin to trust in your
Since you are not yet having masculinity, which is key to her surrender.
the quality and quan4ty of
When she feels confident that you are
sex you crave, scru4nizing taking charge, she can let go. Then she can
this aspect of your get back into her body and relax. Which is
rela4onship is paramount. the first step in helping her surrender.
What are the three phases to this part of the
process of mel+ng her into your arms again?
Polarity. Then trust. Then surrender.
Ask yourself, “Am I being all of the man I can
be in my interac)ons with my woman?” And there’s another one of the four
elements that is +ed in with Polarity/Trust/
“Have I allowed her to dominate decision-‐ Surrender. And that’s within the Female
making?” Anatomy area. She has to TRUST that you
will give her pleasure. (Winston)
“Did I cede the power in our rela)onship?”
Support her completely in exploring
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her full femininity

Ul+mately you want her to let go and trust As the man, your behaviors set the context
her sexual poten+al. For her to turn over her for her behaviors in your rela+onship. (Alanis)
nervous system to you, so you can take And every ac+on you take is training her to
control of the sexual scenario, she must feel be one way or another. (Taylor)
confident that you know how to manage her
body sensa+ons and emo+ons.
Therefore, even if you have polarity

between you, if she doesn’t trust your
sexual technique, she will not be able to
surrender.
Men ohen have a higher level of confidence

about their own sexual capability. A guy
might think he’s an 8, 9 or 10 in bed. His
woman might rate him a 5, 6 or 7. There
may be a difference between her and his
regard for his sexual prowess. Thus, whatever you have now is a direct
result of the behaviors and ac+ons you’ve
The most annoying part about this delta is taken to date. To change her behaviors, you
that she will not be able to ar+culate WHY. must change yours first, because as a
As infuria+ng as this is, there are specific woman, she naturally responds to the
things you can learn, do and know that will standards you, the man, set. (Hudson)
close that gap. You can figure out what she
wants without her telling you! (Van Arrick, Taylor)
Are you wondering why I am not telling YOU

what SHE should be doing? Why am I
recommending you consider YOUR
masculinity when you thought this was
about HER LACK of drive?
Replace those missing “love chemicals” with
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a dose of your irresistible testosterone

Ohen a man’s perspec+ve on how he She might not want as much as you do right
expects his wife to behave result in her now... But once you employ the appropriate
ac+ons. If you don’t think “a wife” should be seduc+on skills to your rela+onship, she will
a highly sexual woman, will your wife be? open to her sensual self and surrender to
your polarity and sexual mastery.
You will be recrea+ng chemistry and
aXrac+on through a new set of behaviors The other limi4ng belief you may
that use seduc+on techniques and posi+ve, be holding is hope that she will
female psychology to replace the receding someday ini5ate sex.
“love chemicals.”
When she’s sexually reinvigorated, there’s a
Within the element of polarity, which likely chance she’ll ask you to make love to
begets trust, which begets surrender, is a her. However, you must look at this as a
limi+ng belief you may need to release. If bluebird, a windfall, a gih. Expec+ng a
you believe that women do not want as woman to ini+ate sex, ge_ng frustrated
much sex as men, or that YOUR WOMAN that she doesn’t ask, will only keep you on
the nega+vity spiral, away from what you
doesn’t want as much sex as YOU, this is the
want.
moment to free yourself from that fic+on.
Women prefer to be desired. To be asked.
Biologically and psychologically Generali+es? Certainly. However, if when
your woman has the same or she ini+ates, you reward her behavior
without expec+ng it to ever happen again, it
more capacity for sexual desire as will take the pressure off both of you. Part of
you do. polarity is that you are the aggressor.
How do you handle the situa+on where

you’ve been asking, begging, bargaining for
sex? The answers to that are in the
Seduc4on Summit. Use your Fast Path
Guide to find specifics.
As an over-‐arching func+on, just “own” all

the sexual ini+a+on so that you will end
your frustra+on around this issue.
You must believe this to move forward.
All you need is right within this program
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#1 Concept Crea4ng Polarity, Trust and Remember, there’s a deep level of further
Surrender detail on every aspect of this eBook within
the Seduc4on Summit audio dialogs and
To recap: eBooks. Experts are noted throughout and
there’s more in the Fast Path Guide.
•Reestablish your masculinity within your
rela+onship by taking charge
•Make sure she trusts that you are taking
care of her and she feels secure so she can
surrender sexually (is your house in order?)
•Your behaviors set the context of your
rela+onship
•You are always training her in every
moment
•You are releasing limi+ng beliefs and now
agree that women are as sexual as men in
the right circumstances, women prefer men
to ini4ate and it’s not a problem if your
woman doesn’t ini+ate, wives can be as
sexual as any woman, given a safe
environment and encouragement
All you need is within this

program.
Overcome Her Resistance
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Pinpoint and deconstruct the issues

Concept #2 Overcoming Resistance Body issues, shame, guilt, fear,
& Escala4on ignorance... they are prime
contributors to her resistance
Once you have begun to reestablish to having sex.
polarity, you can tackle any
Many women have more than
resistance that she’s genera+ng.
one issue.
This is a thorny area, because there
are usually layers of issues. You can help her overcome
nearly any and every blockage
Resistance issues are ohen used as and go on to have great sex
excuses not to take ac+on. Men tell with you.
me frequently that their sex life isn’t
good because their woman suffered Your woman may need some therapy
sexual abuse in her past. to get right with her past and to have
compassion for her abuser.
This is so incredibly common and it
does not have to prevent her from Ohen her willingness to get past it,
desiring sex with you, if she trusts to enjoy the fully sexual life she
you. Which she can. deserves, is enough mo+va+on.
A man
sexually
projects
onto the
woman
what he
wants done
to him,
which is
exactly the
wrong way
to get a
woman
turned on.
Once you root out her issues and focus on
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solutions, the work-arounds will be obvious

First you must iden+fy her issues and you are moving upward on a posi+ve spiral
blockages. Are they physical? Emo+onal? toward your goal of increasing pleasure and
Historic? Recent anger at you? Is she +red, connec+on.
stressed? Iden+fy the root(s) of her fric+on,
then use posi+ve feedback loops to leverage
what IS working.
This can put her on the road to recovery in a
maXer of weeks or months. Especially when
Once you recreate
you combine your aXen+on on helping her a platform of
through her own issues by sharing your
vulnerabili+es and truths about your needs. intimacy, you can
When you begin to posi+vely set the
move her gradually
expecta+on and standards about what it’s into her sexuality.
going to take to be in rela+onship together
for you to be happy, you’ll find it easier to
pursue the solu+on with a determina+on to
solve the issues.
Other key components of overcoming her Overcoming Resistance & Escala4on
resistance to the idea of even having sex To recap:
include concepts such as running a menu of
Small Offers, filling her up first, opening her •You will lead her through the resolu4on of
to her sensual self, Zone Theory and thinking her sexual s4cking points
of her as a rheostat, rather than a light
switch. All of these concepts are within the •You will set a standard for your sexual
Seduc4on Summit, along with +ming rela4onship together
recommenda+ons for these techniques.
•You will learn to manage and overcome
her resistance issues with core concepts
You are going to be surprised at how fast from this program
she no+ces the aXen+on you are pu_ng on
this. You will appreciate her posi+ve
responses and she will appreciate your
aXen+on. In that moment, you will know
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Female Psychology
How to work with the
way she responds to “One thing that’s very
have more sex important in opening a
woman up—and nearly
foolproof; I don’t know
Next up is the thorniest area any woman who doesn’t
love this—is kissing.
for you to master, because
Kissing, kissing, kissing.
it’s “how chicks think.” Hot make-out sessions
will fuel her to the nth
#2 Concept Female degree. And the more
Psychology, rooted in our aroused she is, the less
biological wiring and laced inhibited and the more
with cultural programming, open to surrendering
is complex. she’s going to be.”
—Tallulah Sulis
So in the dialogs, we focused
our conversa+ons on exactly
how women like to be Seduc+on is not the art of You become a master
seduced, even when they laying a trap, it’s enrolling seducer, an ero+c genius.
can’t ar+culate themselves your woman and heading in
what would turn them on. the direc+on of more And once you integrate the 4
pleasure of many kinds,
Keys to Seduc+on into your
Use Dr. Pa_ Taylor’s 4 Keys including the ero+c.
daily life, it pays dividends
to Seduc4on (see below) as for the rest of your life (and
the founda+on for you to Secondly, luck has nothing to
hers).
understand and manage her do with seduc+on. You don’t
feminine psyche. “get lucky.” You have skill.
4 Keys to Seduction Vulnerability — are a

the core framework framework on which you can
hang nearly every single
The 4 Keys to Seduc4on
piece of advice within the
from Dr. Pa_ Taylor is the
Seduc4on Summit.
most powerful model you
can ever learn.
These 4 keys, plus your
sexual skills, are all you
The combina+on of the four
The spiritual journey is need. Everything else lays on
where the magic happens. — Ero4c Vigilance, Small
top of the 4 keys.
Offers, Vision and
A woman is looking for an excuse to give in.
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Just come sweep her off her feet!

Some women are numb, some are angry, She wants to be seduced, in the context of
some overeat... but the boXom line enjoying pleasure with you, so begin to lead
is that all that ac+vity is arousal energy -‐ just her into pleasure. When you put your
nega+ve arousal. By using the 4 keys to aXen+on on her in this way, you come
seduc+on that work naturally with her across as incredibly sexy.
female psychology, you will begin to move
her arousal energy from nega+ve to neutral Moreover, if you begin to tease her and play
to posi+ve. with her as a sexy woman, acknowledging
her “bad-‐girl” side, she’ll rise up to that fun
In addi+on to the 4 Keys to Seduc4on, there and open to her naughty self. And when she
are a number of psycho-‐emo+onal does let her bad girl out, honor it and love it.
techniques, including “mirroring,” “future-‐ Leave your weirdness, your disapproval, out
pacing” and using the “voice of authority” of the equa+on -‐ support her in her opening.
which will accelerate a woman’s desire for You can work with your “Cool Guy” or “Big
sex (not just arousal, but sex). Daddy” energy to make it even more fun.
Once you start focusing on how you can

create pleasure together, you become a
master seducer. How you conduct yourself A woman is looking for
around her will create her response in the
posi+ve or nega+ve. It’s simple female an excuse to give in.
psychology.
If, in the past, you’ve let the sexually-‐ Just come sweep her
oriented interac+ons slip over to your
woman’s responsibility, it biologically kills off her feet!
the chemistry. When you’ve let her decide
if you have sex or not, you seldom if ever
HAVE sex. Once you start focusing on Please note, there are a number of counter-‐
crea+ng pleasure together, leading her intui+ve female psychology teachings within
toward sensuality, moving her from shut the Seduc4on Summit, including the fact
down or angry to posi+ve, you will begin to that your focus on HER PLEASURE may be
make her offers to which she’ll finally say, backfiring on you by pu_ng extra
“yes!” performance anxiety on her.
When you powerfully transform a woman
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sexually, it spills over into her whole life.

In addi+on to the female psychology Find your pleasure in doing this for her, so it
strategies for warming her to passionate turns you on too.
sensuality, you’ll put focus on the language
of love. Talk to her about travel, food and popular
culture. Ask her to tell you the best and
Crea+ng aural pleasure for her will worst thing that happened in her day. Put
accelerate your success and her sensual your aXen+on on her in many ways during
growth. She loves roman+c language and this reconnec+on process to accelerate the
words. This is powerful female psychology tenderness.
to her. (Talking during sex overcomes her
nega+ve self talk too.) The women who have the highest barriers
ohen have the sohest core. Those barriers
Where you’d like nothing beXer than for her are high because she is tender. Once she
to touch your penis to show you she’s feels your manly aXen+on and desire again,
turned on for you, she’d prefer you to she can let you back in.
whisper sweet, sexy things about how
beau+ful she is to you in her ear. There may be some emo+on that comes up
for her as you begin your revival program.
Sexy text her, call her and whisper sweet
nothings in her ear, leave her a love note, Stand firm and hear her, without moving to
tell her how beau+ful she looks, use sensual “fix” anything she discusses. Learn to hold
words and it will move her in a way you yourself solid in the gale force of her
cannot imagine. emo+ons. She’s tes+ng you again. It’s
female psychology.
This emo+on is a good sign — she wants to

Take yourself out of your see if she really lets go, can you handle all of
her reac+ons and feelings? You CAN handle
scarcity mentality — fill it. And you must. If you ever want to
her up and fill yourself up luxuriate in her deliciousness at the level you
desire.
too — with sensual
pleasures found in every Start with her brain (through her ears) and
heart, start from the outside (foot rub) in
day moments together. toward her Yoni. This is the female
psychology that governs how she wants to
be seduced.
The more like herself a woman perceives you
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to be, the faster the barriers diminish.

Do a quick self-‐check here... Are you
smooth-‐shaven and good-‐smelling, wearing
touchable clothing, in case? What 4 things does a
As you are opening her to her sensual self, woman fundamentally
make sure you are sensually appealing to
her. need from her man to
Female Psychology
express her full
To Recap: sexuality?
• Focus on crea+ng and leading her to
pleasure
• Remember that your behavior creates her According to David Shade, one of the dozen
behavior amazing experts in the Seduc+on Summit,
these are the 4 things a woman needs to
• Start seduc+on from the outside in -‐ brain express her full sexuality:
and heart and furthest edges of her body
first and take it sloooooow, cowboy “The masterful lover first understands that
female sexuality is en)rely mental. A woman
• Memorize the 4 Keys to Seduc4on and use needs four things.
it as your plajorm for all seduc+on for the
rest of your life: Ero+c Vigilance, Small Number one is to feel special and
Offers, Vulnerability and Vision appreciated.
• Use the psycho-‐emo+onal techniques of Two is to feel a deep, emo)onal connec)on
mirroring and voice of authority during any to her man.
sex you do have to magnify her desire
Three is to feel feminine, beau)ful, and sexy
• Be careful not to put too much goal-‐ — those three are all mental.
oriented pressure on her. Don’t over-‐
emphasize HER pleasure, let her Four is to have hot, passionate sex.
experience YOUR pleasure too
If you look at any break-‐up, the woman leL
because she was not geMng one or more of
these four things.”
Sexual arousal is a trance state
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Our tools are touch, breath, sound, movement and vision
Concept # 4 Female Anatomy and Advanced Within the Female Anatomy and Advanced
Sexual Mastery Techniques Sexual Mastery Techniques content you will
discover these key concepts:
You’ve learned the three most significant
components to seducing your woman again. • Crea+ng a “conjoined trance state”
1) Polarity, Trust and Surrender • The 4 kinds of touch
2) Overcoming Resistance and Escala4on • Her arousal in terms of a “system”
3) Female Psychology
• Transpor+ng her on ero+c adventures
First you re-‐establish your masculinity in the
rela+onship so she trusts that you are taking • Your orgasmic “choice,” male mul+ple
care of her so she can relax and surrender orgasm
into her sensuality.
Secondly, you’ve pinpointed the real reasons

she’s feeling resistant to lay down with you
in pleasure and you are doing what is
necessary, from changing her job to helping
her get therapy to simply ge_ng her to
realize that she is beau+ful and sexy in your
eyes and you adore being physical with her.
You are employing the four keys to

seduc+on and truly believe that she has the
poten+al to want to make love and be
sensual and sexy too.
Finally, you are a lifelong student of female

anatomy and arousal so that you can “bring
it on” for her in new ways to her constant
delight.
Remove the friction from your sex life and it’s
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no longer a drag
Reclaim your sex life and you BOTH win
Men seem infinitely able to come up with That she has to surrender herself to the
new sexual ideas. You can feed your idea trance (by trus+ng you and knowing you will
factory with the Seduc4ve Sexuality eBook make her feel good).
and audio sampler that combines all the
best sex-‐related advice from all the That you have to surrender yourself to the
interviews in the Seduc4on Summit. trance by being fully present and leading
her.
Have you experienced that feeling of being
ONE when you make love? And it really helps if you have your
ejacula+on under control. If you choose
That +me when you feel her, she feels you, when you ejaculate, and can keep going
you feel her feeling you, she feels you feeling un+l she’s spent, you can get into and enjoy
her... when your nervous system is a single this state for significant amounts of +me.
en+ty and every pleasure she feels, you feel,
and on and on?
Think of her body as a
You can call that a “conjoined trance state.”
It’s that +me when your body, mind, spirit, network of ero<c
heart, everything becomes one while you “systems.” First, knowing
make love.
her erec<le <ssue network
It is one of the things we humans live for.
-‐ where it’s all located and
And it gets easier the more you prac+ce. how you engorge it -‐ are of
Think of this as the goal you want to give
utmost importance.
your woman. Sure, you are reviving her drive
(and yours along with it). And the goal is to
achieve this human experience together and Make sure you are stroking all of her erec+le
to escalate it over +me for the rest of your +ssue network, from her ves+bular bulbs to
life. her fourcheXe and front commissure, to her
perineal and urethral sponges up inside. This
So what do you need to know to achieve informa+on is a map to her body! Listen to
this? the Sheri Winston interview and buy her
amazing book. This is IMPORTANT. Don’t
That it’s possible. think you know this. It’s new informa+on.
What will it be like when she’s “hot to trot?”
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FUN!
Your seduc+ve sexuality focus: and making more sounds of apprecia+on
and pleasure when you do make love. (Gerek)
• Touching her all four ways
There are four kinds of touch: nurturing,
• Engorging her en+re erec+le +ssue healing, sensual and sexual. During this re-‐
network igni+on phase, focus on the first three,
leaving her feeling the desire for the sexual
• Transpor+ng her on ero+c adventures touch without giving it to her. Let her WANT
YOUR TOUCH by giving her lots of nurturing,
• Being in control of when you choose to healing and sensual touch during the first
ejaculate, so you can be ready to make weeks of your revitaliza+on plan.
love to her for a loooooooong +me, once
she’s ready to have you back in her body Learn Zone Theory too -‐ star+ng from Zone
3 and working toward Zone 1. (Winston)

As you get her turned-‐on again, you’re going Start adding in the idea of transpor+ng her
to need some new sexual techniques to into sensual or ero+c (non-‐sexual at first)
delight her and take your love making from experiences. (Sulis)
your last pinnacle to your next pinnacle.
Take her on the 3 Day Sensual Pleasure
It takes Vision (one of the 4 Keys to Journey (This is a bonus from Rhonda Cort
Seduc+on) to enjoy a lifelong escala+on of that is something only a woman could create
amazing sex that just keeps ge_ng beXer for a man to woo his woman -‐ a guy
and beXer. (Taylor) wouldn’t think of this -‐ and she’s going to
love “your spin” on it.).
You have to know what she might enjoy
next, and next aher that. You should always
have a few new tricks in your back pocket. Remember, you are s<ll
warming her up. You
And you should be able to run menus for her
with op+ons that include the “tried and
true” with the “new and naughty.” want her to ask you for
As you ease her back into her sexual desire, sex if possible.
add more physical touch to the auditory
signals you’re already sending with the sexy
You are rekindling,
tex+ng, sweet talk and lots of compliments... reawakening her.
making growls and using low-‐voice whispers
Moan, sigh and breathe with her
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Fill her with orgasmic pleasure

As you start using your voice (and sounds We are so deeply wired to crave
you make) and your hands and taking her on
liXle pleasure journeys, you’ll soon be
affec4on, aHen4on, sensual
whispering in her ear, “that’s a good girl.” pleasure and in4macy yet sadly,
“Yeah, baby, c’mon -‐ let yourself go. That’s it. most people go to their graves
Good girl.” “You look so beau)ful right feeling unfulfilled by their
now.” “God, you feel so good, baby.” “Ohhh, I
love to be with you.” “ Thank you, baby.” partners’ ability to open them
“Mmm.... darlin’, how does this feel?” fully into their birthright, into
what their bodies naturally know
But you’re not there yet!
how to do.
Take your +me with these processes so your
woman begins to get excited about what While you are moving her into this new level
you might do next. of sensual connec+on with you through your
sound and touch and fun adventures, start
Cul+vate her naughty side and reward her working on your ejaculatory control. Once
good behavior. she knows you won’t “pop” too early, she’ll
feel more confident about having
While you’re running menus of small offers intercourse with you. (Gerek)
(4 Keys to Seduc6on -‐ PaL Taylor) you can start to
offer her strokes and massages that become Moan, sigh, breathe with her and make her
more sexual. have a lot of orgasms, by taking your +me.
Start with kissing. Kiss her whole body, Let her know that you just want to turn her
especially her neck and breasts and if she’ll body back on and you’ll spend as long as it
let you, her stomach and boXom (without takes, with no feeling of quid pro quo -‐ that
going “in”). Don’t get sexual, stay sensual you get turned on just ge_ng her turned on.
when you focus on her body.
Be fully present, pay close aXen+on to her,
Spend an hour loving her body and don’t use Ero+c Vigilance, flex your gra+tude
expect it to become sexual. Relax! Enjoy just muscle that you finally have your woman
feeling her, awakening her again to the back in your arms again. Treasure her.
delight of your touch and aXen+on. Treasure the moment.
Her smile will light up when you walk in
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Just like when you were first dating

#4 Recap Anatomy and Sexuality: done to pa+ently repair past wounds,
reawaken her sensual self, unearth her
You’ll put your focus on: naughty girl side and let her know she can
rely on you for life and love.
• Touching her all four ways
The work you’ve done will relax her and
• Engorging her en+re erec+le +ssue engender her trust in you and desire for you.
network
Now you want to enjoy mind-‐blowing sex
• Transpor+ng her on ero+c adventures with her in a way that makes you feel
connected to your humanity, that feels
• Being in control of when you choose to divine on your genitals and all over your
ejaculate, so you can be ready to make body.
love to her for a loooooooong +me, once
she’s ready to have you back in her body You want her to melt into orgasmic bliss and
look at you with that sa+sfac+on of a
What’s the culmina+on of all this effort? woman well loved.
This ONEness, this in+mate connec+on

comes from looking at and feeling each
other with love and apprecia+on.
Set the stage for a beau+ful +me together

with all the details to her liking.
Start with eye gazing. (Allman) And move into

sensual stroking. Make sure the loca+on is
suitable for her comfort. What temperature
is the room? Are there towels? Do you have
water? Music? Is your phone turned off?
Then look her in the eyes. Tell her how much
you love her, how beau+ful she is, how
The feeling of ONEness together... much you love her body and having her in
your life.
A “conjoined trance state” is going to be the
crowning moment of all the work you’ve Kiss her. Welcome home. ♥
Final Review
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The Four Elements of Revival

This is the final recap: listen to every one of the dozen interviews in
which ever order you prefer.
The Four Elements of Revival are:
You can also complete the Rela4onship
1) Crea4ng Polarity, Trust and Surrender Values Workbook with your woman when
you feel the +me is right. She will LOVE this
2) Overcoming Resistance and Escala4on
exercise.
3) Female Psychology Strategies
And when you have reconnected sexually
4) Female Anatomy and Advanced Sexual and you’re ready to approach some
Mastery Techniques advanced sexual mastery skills together, I
recommend you start with Expand Her
Orgasm Tonight: 21-‐Day Program for
On which of these do YOU need to focus?
Partners, by Dr. Pad Taylor.
Masculinity turbo booster
If she’s not yet that open, and you need
Focus on crea+ng pleasure together more seduc+on skills, or a deep
understanding of the 4 Keys to Seduc4on,
Five senses firing on all cylinders
try Dr. Pa_’s Seduc4on Trilogy:
(especially touch and auditory)
1. Seduce Her Tonight: Sex Life Strategies
Ac+vely working through her resistance
for Gedng to Yes
issues instead of allowing them to be 2. Seduc4on Accelerator: The Most Turn-‐
On and HoHest Sex
roadblocks
3. Her Sexual Trainer: Unlock Her Most
Taking her on ero+c, sensual journeys Intense Sensual Responses
Taking it oh, so slowly with her body
Managing your ejaculatory choice If you need any help naviga5ng your
situa5on, please send an email to us at
support@personallifemedia.com.
And remember, you are always training her,
with every ac+on you take! Sloane Fox and Susan BraEon handle all
inbound, private and personal requests.
Now you can either review the Fast Path
Guide to go directly to those interviews
within the Seduc4on Summit that most
pertain to your needs, or you can simply
Gratitude and Appreciation
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Giving thanks to all who supported you

I’d like to acknowledge the many contributors to Drive” is exactly what we longed for in a product
this program. There are so many people suppor>ng >tle. And Carlos Xuma, thank you for not le(ng me
me in suppor>ng you. give up un>l the perfect name was coined and for
>relessly teaching me, “how dudes think.”
First, my husband and love of my life, Tim BraDon.
To the whole Seduc>on Mastermind -‐ you all buoy
Tim, if you hadn’t taken the maDers of our sensual me daily in my drive to bring passion into the lives
life into your strong hands, we may well have been of others. I love your nerdy >ps and naughty barbs.
divorced and on round two of not ge(ng what we It’s pure pleasure to associate with you.
truly desired.
To the Personal Life Media team. I feel your
I love, adore and respect you for re-‐igni>ng my embrace, support and quest for perfec>on in all
sensuality, because that triggered a happiness and things you do to support my work. Paddy P. -‐ every
crea>vity explosion in my life. day you figure out some cool new feat of
programming that helps us help others. Erwin Liu -‐
It just keeps ge(ng beDer. I love you. what can’t you do, dear? Love the covers! Neil
Estrella -‐ appreciate your pa>ence in edi>ng
And thanks to David Shade for being the place to perfec>on. Angela Corrice -‐ treasure your stretch to
which Tim turned first when he decided to fix, grow to my dreams of perfect transcrip>ons.
instead of replace, our roman>c poten>al.
Thanks also to friends willing not only to proofread,
To all dozen experts who contributed their highest but to copy edit the sampler eBooks. Lisa Abourezk,
and best thinking to help men revive her drive you are a genius at edi>ng my wri>ng. Thank you.
everywhere, I say “thank you, I am honored to work
with you.” David Garfinkel, you gave me my voice and pushed
me to pitch-‐perfect posi>oning. Mark Joyner, I
Pa( Taylor, Sheri Winston, Carlos Xuma and Alex wrote this with your higher mind, your noble
Allman, your work is fundamental and approach, locked in my sights.
extraordinary.
The only outcome as sweet as one man
Adam Gilad, Tallulah Sulis, David Shade and Des>n reconnec>ng with his woman in ONEness by using
Gerek, your crea>vity saturates your perspec>ve, this program, is the way my friends raise my bar and
making it refreshingly unique and evolved. I raise theirs in an infinite game of pleasure and
support in our poten>al together.
David Van Arrick, Karen Brody, John Alanis and
Chris>an Hudson, you speak from the heart and I love you all from my heart.
represent the sexes at their highest point of
humanity. It’s beau>ful. Susan Bratton
Zachary Browman, you listened so intently to our
desire for the perfect product name. “Revive Her
© Personal Life Media, Inc. 2011
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All Rights Reserved

By Susan Bratton

All of the material noted can be found within the
Revive Her Drive program in full detail inside the
“Learn how have
dozen Seduc<on Summit interviews in both eBook spontaneous,
and audio form:
serendipitous,
• Sustaining ADrac>on -‐ John Alanis
• Lifelong Passion -‐ Alex Allman amazing, mind-
• Sexual S>cking Points -‐ David Van Arrick blowing, cosmic
• Ejaculatory Choice -‐ Des>n Gerek
• Ero>c Communica>on -‐ Adam Gilad sex on purpose.”
• Dance of Polarity -‐ Chris>an Hudson
• Masterful Lover Manifesto -‐ David Shade —Sheri Winston
• Ero>c Adventures -‐ Tallulah Sulis
• 4 Keys to Seduc>on -‐ Dr. Pa( Taylor
• Seduc>on Integrity -‐ Karen Brody Please do not copy, pirate, reuse or in any way
• Alpha Masculinity -‐ Carlos Xuma unscrupulously handle this material. Do not take
por6ons of this material nor the whole report, for
• Secret Arousal Maps -‐ Sheri Winston reuse in any way. Our experts have spent years
accumula6ng this informa6on and deserve to be
aPributed. Have a heart. Thank you.
Imagine how
beau<ful
she’s going to
be, laying
there,
wai<ng for
you to take
her... you are
ready to
harvest the
seeds of
pleasure
you’ve been
plan<ng in
her mind.

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Bring her sexy back! The four elements of

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4 Keys to Seduction Vulnerability — are a

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Once you start focusing on how you can

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Finally, you are a lifelong student of female

Fill her with orgasmic pleasure

Just like when you were first dating

This ONEness, this in+mate connec+on

Set the stage for a beau+ful +me together

Start with eye gazing. (Allman) And move into

The Four Elements of Revival

Giving thanks to all who supported you

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