I know, I know. Every woman is a unique creature.

But women have more commonalties than they have

differences. So let’s start with what I think they have in

common and then we’ll move on to how they differ. (The

ideas that I’m about to share with you here are from my

own research, testing in the real world, and personal

analysis.)

For most men, a woman is like a Chinese puzzle

inside of a brain twister.

Much of their behavior makes no sense at all (to

men).

If there’s one thing that I’m clear about, it’s that most

women THINK differently than most men, and most

women want different things than most men.

This is hard for many men to grasp or understand,

but it’s true. And the sooner you get a handle on what’s

going on here, the sooner you’ll become more successful

with women.

Let’s start by comparing what men and women are

interested in.
Have you ever stopped to think about what entertains

women as a group compared to what entertains men as a

group? Women buy Cosmopolitan magazines, watch soap

operas, and read romance novels. Men buy Playboy,

watch sports, and read the paper.

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Hey, wait a minute here! What’s in those Cosmos,

soaps, and romance novels? And why are women so

attracted to them?

And why is it that when men try to watch a soap

opera or read a romance novel all they can say is, “I don’t
get it...”?

I’ll tell you why. It’s because women’s brains are

wired differently from men’s brains. That’s why.

And by telling you about what attracts women’s

attention, I’ve also given you a clue about how to attract

them to YOU.

Where Our Desires Come From

After spending the last ten years or so studying

psychology and behavior, I’ve come to the opinion that

MOST of our desires, drives, preferences, strengths,

weaknesses, behaviors, and personality traits are

determined by our DNA and some by our social

conditioning. I’m talking about both men and women

here.

Even differences like whether a person prefers

adventure or couch riding are largely a matter of

programming from birth (If you really disagree with me

on this one, read some books on the Myers-Briggs Type

Indicator or try the book Who Am I? by Steven Reiss.)

In any event, HOWEVER they got to be interested in

these common things, most women have a few main

interests, needs, desires, or whatever you want to call

them when it comes to men, relationships, and romance.

Have you ever read the personals? Have you ever

noticed how many women say things like “princess

looking for prince”, “friends first”, and “looking for my

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