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Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (A.C.T.) Workbook To Get Out From Anxiety, Relieve Depression, and Break Free From Stress and Worry, For A Newfound Mental Health
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (A.C.T.) Workbook To Get Out From Anxiety, Relieve Depression, and Break Free From Stress and Worry, For A Newfound Mental Health
Therapy (A.C.T.)
Workbook to Get Out From Anxiety,
Relieve Depression, and Break Free
From Stress and Worry, for a Newfound
Mental Health
The above-mentioned points demonstrate the process you go through any time
you engage in negative behavioral experiences. First, you have thoughts that
stimulate fear, and you fuse with those thoughts, causing you to believe they are
true. Then, you evaluate the experience based on the negative belief system you
have accumulated around this experience. Then, you avoid the experience
because you have now firmly associated it with something negative or unwanted.
Lastly, you give reasons for your behavior or justify why you are engaging with
this behavior in the first place. All this does is reinforce your negative beliefs
and leave you feeling unable to proceed with certain experiences, for fear of
having a negative experience.
The healthier alternative to FEAR is ACT. Aside from Acceptance and
Commitment Therapy, ACT stands for:
Accept your reactions and be present
Choose a valued direction
Take action
In other words, recognize anytime you feel negative and accept it for what it is;
however, choose to remain present in the moment rather than becoming
entangled with the fears or concerns growing in your mind. Instead of
overreacting, choose a valued direction, or a direction of focus that will bring
you closer to your goals and desires. Lastly, take action on your chosen valued
direction, so you can actually begin to experience positive momentum. By
following the ACT acronym, you gain the ability to recognize an unsavory
situation and turn it in your favor by exerting resiliency and consistency.
These types of inner dialogues are powerful in debunking the myths you cling to
in your mind and making space for you to create and enjoy healthier beliefs. It is
important to have this conversation with yourself every time you formulate
beliefs that create disappointment or other ill feelings about yourself or anything
else.
As you begin to switch the dialogue, be particularly cautious around beliefs that
seem to carry all-or-nothing energy to them and look for more realistic
perspectives that help eliminate the exaggeration from your beliefs. This is an
excellent way to leverage cognitive diffusion to minimize the overreactions that
we can sometimes experience, effectively allowing you to put ACT into action in
your life!
Switch: “I’m never going to be happy ” for “ I’m having the
thought that I’ll never be happy .”
Switch: “I’m never going to get all that done ” for “I’m having the
thought that I’ll never get all that done. ”
Switch: “I’m going to embarrass myself ” for “I’m having the
thought that I’ll embarrass myself. ”
Answering these questions should help you identify where the aligned decision
lies, or at least recognize if no aligned option has been discovered yet.
Once you have discovered the aligned answer, you need to be assertive in
making that decision. As mentioned previously, it may feel strange to assert
yourself and make a decision this way; however, it is essential that you do. The
more you practice making aligned decisions and respecting your own values and
boundaries, the easier it will be to create a life that feels genuinely fulfilling for
you.
Another benefit behind deep acceptance is that you stop blaming. Be aware of
blaming behaviors, even if you are blaming yourself, as blame is a strong
indicator that you have not yet reached acceptance. Feeling the need to blame
indicates that you have strong feelings toward this experience, still, which means
you are creating shame and disappointment in yourself around it. If you discover
yourself blaming anyone or anything for your experiences, stop and shift into a
state of acceptance immediately.
To engage in deep acceptance does not mean to permit something or write off
the pain or challenges associated with it. Instead, it means you have decided to
acknowledge these truths and accept the entirety of the experience for what it is,
even if it is painful or disappointing. As you accept the experience for what it is,
you agree to lay it to rest and stop it from taking up any further real estate in
your mind. Rather than worrying, obsessing, or mulling over it relentlessly, you
are putting it back down and placing your focus elsewhere, on more meaningful
experiences.
What Is a Crisis?
A crisis is any experience you have that triggers a significant emotional response
from you, especially relating to a specific problem you have been correcting in
your life. For example, let’s say you want to quit smoking, a crisis would be
anything that causes you to have serious, incredibly overwhelming cravings to
smoke. This might be anything from waking up or drinking coffee to spending
time with certain people or in certain places. These triggers are generally when
we want to engage in the old behavior most, which is why we have such epic
emotional responses when we resist engaging in familiar, comfortable behaviors.
You know you are in crisis when you start feeling a sense of doom around your
present goal. If you feel as though it is bound to fail, there is no reason for you to
change, or you will feel miserable either way, you know you are approaching
crisis. This all-or-nothing emotional experience can be intense, painful, and
convincing. It is also not quite as bad as you make it out to be, as long as you
become mentally willing to accept it as a temporary experience. Yes, it will still
be painful; however, it will not be life-ending, although it may feel that way.
A crisis is named such because it is the point where most people will actually
jump ship and revert back to old patterns. As time goes on, a crisis can feel more
challenging to navigate, as it begins to feel as though you will never stop having
these intense, draining emotional experiences. Rest assured, the longer you
maintain your new behaviors, the fewer crisis you will experience as you start to
genuinely experience the manifested reality of your changed behavior.
Realizing crisis is a short-lived experience might be helpful for some, but it is
unlikely to provide adequate relief or support during these times. Although a
shifted perspective helps, there are other steps you can also take to help you
begin to experience relief from your intense emotions. This way, you can bring
them to closure and find peace while effectively maintaining your changed
behaviors long-term.
What Is CBT?
CBT is a form of psychotherapy that seeks to aid people in recovering from
experiences such as depression by adjusting their automatic responses to stimuli
in their environment. This therapy was designed as a way to naturally treat
depressive symptoms in people that either refused medicinal treatment or failed
to respond to it. These days, CBT is regularly advised alongside medicinal
therapy as a way to gain a holistic approach toward treating individuals suffering
from mental and emotional illnesses.
CBT is based on the concept that we all have automatic reactions to things in our
lives. These automatic reactions stimulate the production of thoughts, feelings,
and behaviors in that order specifically. They are triggered in response to a
stimulus in ourselves, or in our environments, and they cause us to engage in an
automatic, habitual behavior that is associated with whichever the original
trigger itself was.
Identifying your own automatic reactions means you can identify everything
associated with the CBT loop, which includes your trigger, thoughts, emotions,
and behaviors. Once you become aware of the many aspects of your CBT loop,
you discover ways you can adjust your automatic experiences, leading to more
intentional and preferable ones. This takes practice, though it becomes easier
over time as your more intentional reaction becomes automatic over the previous
one. The one drawback of CBT is that it is not capable of actually erasing
unwanted neuropathways. In fact, almost nothing is. This means that, despite the
fact your automatic behaviors have changed, you might still experience the urge
to fall back into past cycles. Often, past cycles can be retriggered relatively
easily and can bring with them intense obsessions as you grow afraid of losing
that perceived comfort again if you were to once again engage in changed
behaviors.
CBT is often referred to as talk therapy, as the therapy itself does not include any
specific medications or medicinal treatments to assist in the healing of the
problematic emotional or mental experience. CBT was developed as a
reasonable alternative to conventional treatments for depression, post-traumatic
stress disorder, anxiety, and other conditions back in the 1950s, though it was not
popularized until much later. These days, it is one of the most common forms of
therapy used to treat people dealing with troubling experiences. While it is not
always capable of entirely healing an ailment, it certainly helps people regain
control over their mental faculties, providing greater relief from troubling
experiences.