CONTENTS • Self Esteem • What is self esteem • Concept of self • Types of self esteem • Self esteem vs. self confidence • Low self esteem and quality of life • Self esteem building • Six Pillars of self esteem • Conclusion SELF-ESTEEM You yourself, as much as anybody else, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love. WHAT IS SELF-ESTEEM? Definition: • Picture or perception of ourselves, a person’s mental model of his or her abilities and attributes. • It is the confidence in one’s own worth. CONCEPT OF SELF • Self concept is what you understand about yourself.
It includes: • Your social character or abilities • Your physical appearance and your body image • Your thinking YOUR WORTH… YOU ARE IMPORTANT!
• Do not ever doubt your worth!
• You exist for a reason! • You are here because you are needed! “ REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE NOT YOUR CIRCUMSTANCES.” TYPES OF SELF ESTEEM 1. LOW SELF ESTEEM UNHAPPY CHILDHOOD POOR ACADEMIC PERFORMANCE FINANCIAL TROUBLE
2-HIGH SELF ESTEEM
POSITIVE ATTITUDE SENSE OF RESPONSIBILITY ACCEPTING YOURSELF
3- INFLATED SELF ESTEEM
ACTING SUPERIOR TO OTHERS UNREALISTIC EVALUATION STATE OF DELUSION SELF-ESTEEM VS SELF CONFIDENCE • Self esteem refers to how you feel about yourself overall • Self confidence is how you feel about your abilities and can vary from situation to situation. “Confidence in one’s own worth and abilities” • Self esteem refers to how you feel about yourself overall; how much esteem, positive regard and self love you have. • Self esteem is the way people think about themselves, and how worthwhile they feel. LOW SELF-ESTEEM AND QUALITY OF LIFE • Negative feelings • Fear of Trying • Fear of Judgement • Low Resilience • Lack of Self-Care • Self-Harming Behavior SELF-ESTEEM BUILDING • Take yourself Positively • Don’t Compare Yourself to Others • Acknowledge the Positive • Appreciate your Special Qualities • Forget the Past and Stop Worrying • Exercise • Have Fun SEEK OUT SUPPORT TO BUILD SELF-ESTEEM • Talk to a trusted friend or a loved one • See a doctor • Read books on Self-Development • Discuss your issues and get advice from a therapist SIX PILLARS OF SELF ESTEEM • The Practice of Living Consciously • The Practice of Self-Acceptance • The Practice of Self-Responsibility • The Practice of Self-Assertiveness • The Practice of Living Purposefully • The Practice of Personal Integrity CONCLUSION • Self esteem is the basic part of human life • It should be maintained in any manner • Self Concept is not fixed permanently • Room for improvement and change for the better • Clarification of all the negative critics • Creating a positive image