Personality Development

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Communication
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Personality Development
Resume Writing and Job Interviews
Grammar and Spoken English
Leadershi
p Communication
Grammar and Spoken English
PERSONALTY
DEVELOPMENT
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PERSONALITY MEANS…
Leadership
Communication
The totality of an INDIVIDUAL’S attitudes,

interests, behavioral patterns, emotional
responses, social roles.
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IT IS ALL ABOUT…
Leadership
Public Speaking Food habit.

Communication
Body language Friends making Skills.
Behavior Relationship Skills.

Anger Management Learning Skills.
 Physical Fitness Dealing with problems.
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WHY DO YOU NEED…
Leadership
It is the most sought for quality Sometimes it is also

known as PERSONAL MAGNETISM.
Communication
The First Step…
is to examine and evaluate

your presence to daily life.
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Leadership
Communication
REALITY…
PERCEPTION vs.
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NEGATIVE EMOTIONS…
Leadership
Superiority and Inferiority

complex
Communication
Fear
Stress
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OVERCOMING NEGATIVE
EMOTIONS…
Leadership
SUPERIORITY COMPLEX INFERIORITY COMPLEX
1. Acknowledged achievements Stop associating with all those who

Communication
make you feel small, inadequate or

2. Accept and recognize feelings insecure.
as valid and never contradicts
them Know your limitations and the extent
of your abilities
3. Do not belittles positive

characteristics and points out Refuse to serve as a mat for others
flaws in others to walk upon.
4. Be willing to compromise on Find out what you do best, work

opinions and views diligently at it until you excel at it
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OVERCOMING NEGATIVE
EMOTIONS… Contd
Leadership
FEAR STRESS
1. Take small steps
1. One thing at a time
Communication
2. Getting some positive

motivation
2. Simple schedule
3. Seeing failure and rejection in
a new light
3. Do something calming
4. The power of ‘NOW
(no other way) 4. Get creative
5. FALSE EVEIDENCE
5. De-clutter.
APPEARING REAL
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POSITIVE ATTITUDE
Leadership
Communication
HOW MUCH DO YOU SEE

OF AN ICEBERG?
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Leadership
ONLY 10% OF
Communication
ANY ICEBERG IS
VISIBLE. THE
REMAINING 90%
IS BELOW SEA
LEVEL.
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Leadership
The Iceberg phenomena is also applicable on

human beings …
Communication
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MAKE YOUR LIFE 100%
Leadership
Let each letter of the alphabetic has a value equals to it sequence

of the alphabetical order:
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U VWX Y Z
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1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 1011121314151617181920212223242526
S K I L L S
19 11 9 12 12 19 = 82
K N O W L E D G E
11 14 15 23 12 5 4 7 5 = 96
H A R D W O R K
8 1 18 4 23 15 18 11 = 98
A T T I T U D E
1 20 20 9 20 21 4 5 = 100
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THE CAN DO ATTITUDE
Leadership
• You CAN DO everything, but not all at once.

• You CAN DO everything, if it’s important enough
Communication
for you to do.

• You CAN DO everything, but you may not be the
best at everything.
• You CAN DO everything, but there will be
limitations.
• You CAN DO everything, but you’ll need help.
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Communication
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Do butterflies
Leadership
attack your
stomach whenever
you’re asked to
Communication
speak before a
group? Can you
confidently
express your
thoughts and
ideas?
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Leadership
SELF CONFIDENCE:
It is about having a positive perception of
ourselves and our abilities.
Communication
A LACK OF SELF-CONFIDENCE:
it is characterized by self- doubt,
submissiveness, isolation, sensitivity to

criticism, distrust, depression, and feelings of
inferiority and being unloved.
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HOW TO INCREASE SELF
CONFIDENCE
Leadership
Think positively about yourself.

Set realistic goals
Communication
Reward/praise yourself when you DO well.

Be aware of your thoughts.
Think logically about the situation, DON’T react
Dwell on your strengths.

Do not attribute your achievement and accomplishments
only to luck. Give yourself credit for your own personal
achievement.
Learn to be assertive.
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ASSERTIVENESS
Leadership
Communication
Is the ability to communicate your

needs, feelings, opinions, and
beliefs in an open and honest
manner without violating the rights

of others
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ASSERTIVENESS
Leadership
IS NOT SAME
AS
Communication
Assertiveness Aggressive acts result in

negative outcomes.
produces positive
outcomes
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WHAT WILL IT DO
Leadership
1. HELPS YOU BECOME SELF-

CONFIDENT
Communication
2. INCREASES SELF-ESTEEM
3. GAIN RESPECT OF OTHERS

4. IMPROVE COMMUNICATION SKILLS
5. IMPROVE DECISION-MAKING ABILITY
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HOW TO BE ASSERTIVE
Leadership
BE HONEST AND DIRECT BE AWARE OF BODY

ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS, POSTURE/LANGUAGE
NEEDS, BELIEFS.
MAINTAIN EYE CONTACT.
Communication
EXPRESS YOURSELF
FIRMLY AND DIRECTLY TO USE “I” STATEMENTS TO
SPECIFIC INDIVIDUALS. EXPRESS SELF
BE REASONABLE IN YOUR DON’T LET OTHERS IMPOSE

REQUESTS THEIR VALUES/IDEAS ON YOU
REGOGNIZE AND RESPECT ENCOURAGE OTHERS TO BE

THE RIGHTS OF THOSE CLEAR AND DIRECT
AROUND YOU.
TAKE OWNERSHIP
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ASSERTIVENESS
Leadership
1. DOESN’T JUST HAPPEN.
2. DOES NOT GUARANTEE

Communication
YOU HAPPINESS OR FAIR

TREATMENT.
3. WILL NOT SOLVE ALL

YOUR PROBLEMS
4. DOES NOT GUARANTEEE

YOU WILL GET WHAT
YOU WANT.
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Communication
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How to maintain good
interpersonal
relationships?
Leadership
Communication
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Nine Ways to Bring People
around?
Leadership
Communication
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SWOT ANALYSIS
Leadership
Communication
INTERNAL
EXTERNAL
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Leadership
A Strength is your
A Weakness is
core capability. An
others having core
advantage over that
capability over you.
Communication
you have others
An Opportunity is an A Threat is a
environmental forecast of condition

condition that can that is out of your
improve your control and has the
position to that of potential to harm
others. your growth path.
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Time Management
for personal Sense of Achievement
Leadership
Communication
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Where are You?
Leadership
20% people feel they are short

of time. They feel so concerned that
they self find answers to Time Mgmt
Communication
10% people feel they are short

of time. They realise this and
are keen to get help and see
how they can improve Time Mgmt
70% people feel they are not short

of time. Though they don’t mind
listening to someone. And then
tell him why all that is impractical
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Leadership
• Balance in Life is important
• Recognize each aspect of life

Communication
• I am not getting enough time

for family/personal life
because of Work
• 80% of day is spent at

work/school/college
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What is it?
Leadership
• Doing the Right things and not setting Things right

Communication
• In control of Life, not driven by circumstances
• Enjoying JOURNEY of life: every day of it, not

waiting for a perfect day in future
• Having right balance in wheel of life
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Managing your Time
Leadership
Things to do list
Communication
Identify Priority
Making it happen
Evaluate deviations
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Leadership
Communication
“The surest way to be late is to have plenty of

time”.
Never Procrastinate
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Leadershi

The totality of an INDIVIDUAL’S attitudes,

Public Speaking Food habit.

Body language Friends making Skills.

Behavior Relationship Skills.

Anger Management Learning Skills.

 Physical Fitness Dealing with problems.

It is the most sought for quality Sometimes it is also

The First Step…

is to examine and evaluate

your presence to daily life.

Superiority and Inferiority

SUPERIORITY COMPLEX INFERIORITY COMPLEX

1. Acknowledged achievements Stop associating with all those who

make you feel small, inadequate or

3. Do not belittles positive

4. Be willing to compromise on Find out what you do best, work

2. Getting some positive

HOW MUCH DO YOU SEE

The Iceberg phenomena is also applicable on

Let each letter of the alphabetic has a value equals to it sequence

• You CAN DO everything, but not all at once.

for you to do.

submissiveness, isolation, sensitivity to

Think positively about yourself.

Reward/praise yourself when you DO well.

Dwell on your strengths.

Is the ability to communicate your

manner without violating the rights

Assertiveness Aggressive acts result in

1. HELPS YOU BECOME SELF-

3. GAIN RESPECT OF OTHERS

4. IMPROVE COMMUNICATION SKILLS

5. IMPROVE DECISION-MAKING ABILITY

BE HONEST AND DIRECT BE AWARE OF BODY

BE REASONABLE IN YOUR DON’T LET OTHERS IMPOSE

REQUESTS THEIR VALUES/IDEAS ON YOU

REGOGNIZE AND RESPECT ENCOURAGE OTHERS TO BE

1. DOESN’T JUST HAPPEN.

2. DOES NOT GUARANTEE

YOU HAPPINESS OR FAIR

3. WILL NOT SOLVE ALL

4. DOES NOT GUARANTEEE

you have others

environmental forecast of condition

20% people feel they are short

10% people feel they are short

how they can improve Time Mgmt

70% people feel they are not short

• Balance in Life is important

• Recognize each aspect of life

• I am not getting enough time

• 80% of day is spent at

• Doing the Right things and not setting Things right

• In control of Life, not driven by circumstances

• Enjoying JOURNEY of life: every day of it, not

waiting for a perfect day in future

• Having right balance in wheel of life

“The surest way to be late is to have plenty of

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