Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Teams and
Mastering Listening
and Nonverbal
Communication
Skills
Chapter No. 2
Working in Teams
– Informal Teams
– Problem Solving teams and Task Forces are informal teams that assemble to
resolve specific issues and then disband once their goal has been accomplished.
Team members often include representatives of many departments so those who
have a stake in the outcome are allowed to provide input
– For e.g. a team of members from every department in DSU has been made to
look whether COVID 19 precautions are being observed or not.
Types of Teams
– Team’s are unproductive and frustrating and they waste everyone’s time
– A team may develop Group Think, the willingness of individual member to set
aside their personal opinions and go along with everyone else, simply because
belonging to the team is more important to them than making the right decision
– Some team members may have a hidden agenda private motives that can
interfere with the group’s efforts to accomplish its mission
– Other team members may be free riders-those who don’t contribute their fair
share to the group’s activities because they aren’t being held individually
accountable for their work
Group Dynamics
– Self Oriented Roles are motivated mainly to fulfill personal needs so they tend
to be less productive than other members
– Team Maintenance Roles: Help everyone to work well together
– Task facilitating Roles: Help solve problems or decisions
Self Oriented Roles Team-Maintenance Roles Task Facilitating Roles
– Orientation: Team members socialize, establish their roles, and begin to define their
task or purpose
– Conflict: Team members begin to discuss their positions and become more assertive in
establishing their roles
– Brainstorming: Team members air all the options and discuss the pros and cons fully.
At the end of this phase , members began to settle on a single solution to the problem
– Emergence: Team members reach a decision. Consensus is reached when the team
finds a solution that is acceptable enough for all members to support
– Reinforcement: Group feeling is rebuilt and the solution is summarized. Members
receive their assignments for carrying out the groups decision
Characteristics of Effective Team
– On the other hand if you approach conflict with the idea that both parties can
satisfy their goals at least to some extent (win-win strategy), no one loses
– The principle behind the win-win strategy is that parties in conflict can better
solve their problems by working together than by waging war.
– However for the win-win strategy to work everybody must believe that it’s
possible to find a solution both parties can accept, that co-operation is better for
the organization than conflict
Developing an Effective Team
– Allow enough time for the team to develop and learn how to work together
– Manage Conflict Constructively
– Share leadership
– Encourage equal participation
– Discuss disagreements
– Focus on the issues, not the people
– Don’t let things get out of hand
Developing an Effective Team
– Stay on Track
– Make sure everyone understands the team’s purpose
– Communicate what is expected of team members
– Don’t deviate from the core assignment
– Develop and adhere to a schedule
– Develop rules and obey norms
Resolving Conflict
– As the meeting gets under way, you will discover that some participants are too
quiet and others are too talkative.
– To draw out the shy types, ask for their inputs on issues that particularly pertain
to them
– The best meetings are those in which everyone participates, so don’t let one or
two people dominate your meeting while other doodle in their notepads
– If you’re a meeting participant, try to contribute to both the subject of the
meeting and the smooth interaction of the participants
Conducting and Participating in
Meetings
– Close Effectively: At the close of the meeting either summarize the general
conclusion of the discussion or list the actions to be taken
– Wrapping things up ensures that all participants agree on the outcome and gives
people a chance to clear up any misunderstandings
– Following Up
– Make sure all participants receive a copy of the minutes or notes, showing
recommended actions, schedules and responsibilities
– Generally the secretary who attends the meetings prepares a set of minutes for
distribution to attendees and interested parties
Improving your Listening Skills
– Your ability to listen effectively is directly related to your success in team relationships.
– Most of us are not good listeners
– We listen at or below a 25% efficiency rate, remember only half of what’s said during a
10 minute conversation and forget of half of that in 48 hrs.
– That’s because we tend to listen to words, we don’t necessarily listen to the message
– Effective listening strengthens organizational relationships, enhances product delivery,
alerts the organization to innovation from both internal and external sources, and allow
the organization to manage growing diversity both in the workforce and in the
customers it serves
Improving your Listening Skills
– Companies that listen effectively stay informed, up to date, and out of trouble.
Those that don’t loose millions of dollars each year
– Learning to listen effectively is difficult indeed, but it’s one of the best ways to
improve your communication skills
– Good listening gives you an edge and increases your impact when you speak
– Effective listening also enhances your performance
Distinguishing Good Listeners from
Bad Listeners
The Bad Listener The Good Listener To Listen Effectively
Tunes out dry subjects Opportunist. What’s in it for Find areas of interest
me?
Tunes out if delivery is poor Judges content: skips over Judge content, not delivery
delivery errors
Tends to enter into arguments Does not judge until Hold your fire
comprehension is complete
Listen for facts Listens for central themes Listen for ideas
Takes extensive notes Takes fewer notes Take selective notes
Fakes attention Works hard; exhibits active Work at listening
body state
Is distracted easily Fights or avoids distractions Block out competing
thoughts
Resists difficult expository Uses heavier material as Paraphrase the speaker’s
material exercise for the mind ideas
Types of Listening
– Critical listening
– Critical listening is a form of listening that involves analysis, critical thinking and judgment.
Critical listening is where listeners have to evaluate the message. Listeners have to critically
respond to the message and give their opinion. The ability to listen critically is essential in a
democracy. On the job, in the community, at service clubs, in places of worship, in the family—
there is practically no place you can go where critical listening is unimportant. Politicians, the
media, salesmen, advocates of policies and procedures, and our own financial, emotional,
intellectual, physical, and spiritual needs require us to place a premium on critical listening and the
thinking that accompanies it.
– When the Regional Sales Manager presents sales projections for the next few months, you listen
critically, evaluating whether the estimates are valid and what the implications are for your
manufacturing department
Types of Listening
– Empathetic listening
– Empathetic listening is paying attention to another person with empathy
[emotional identification, compassion, feeling, insight]. One basic principle is to
"seek to understand, before being understood. Another basic principle is to
connect emotionally with another. Empathy is not sympathy. Whereas sympathy
is "feeling for someone," empathy is "feeling as someone.“
– By listening in an empathic way, you help the individual vent the emotion that
prevent a dispassionate approach to the subject. Avoid the temptation to give
advice. Try not to judge the individual’s feelings. Just let the other person talk.
Types of Listening
– Receiving: Physically hearing the message and taking notes of it. Physical
reception can be blocked by noise, impaired hearing, or inattentions
– Interpreting: Assigning meanings to sounds according to your own values,
beliefs, ideas, expectations, roles, needs, and personal history
– Remembering: Storing a message for future reference
– Evaluating: Applying critical thinking skills to weigh the speaker’s remarks
– Responding: Reacting once you’ve evaluated the speaker’s message.
Barriers to Effective Listening
– One reason people’s minds wander is that they think faster than they speak.
Most people speak at about 120 to 150 words per minute. However, studies
indicate that depending on the subject and the individual, people can process
information at 500 or 800 minutes per minute. This disparity between rate of
speech and rate of thought can be used to pull your arguments together, but
some listeners let their minds wander and just tune out.
– The important thing is to recognize these counterproductive tendencies as
barriers and to work on overcoming them. Becoming a good listener will help
you in many business situations especially those that are emotionally laden and
difficult
Improving your Listening Skills
– Eye contact. Since the visual sense is dominant for most people, eye contact is an
especially important type of nonverbal communication. The way you look at someone
can communicate many things, including interest, affection, hostility, or attraction
– Touch. We communicate a great deal through touch. Think about the very different
messages given by a weak handshake, a warm bear hug, a patronizing pat on the
head, or a controlling grip on the arm, for example.
– Space. Have you ever felt uncomfortable during a conversation because the other
person was standing too close and invading your space? We all have a need for
physical space, although that need differs depending on the culture, the situation, and
the closeness of the relationship
Types of Non-Verbal Communication
– Voice. It’s not just what you say, it’s how you say it. When you speak, other
people “read” your voice in addition to listening to your words. Things they pay
attention to include your timing and pace, how loud you speak, your tone and
inflection, and sounds that convey understanding, such as “ahh” and “uh-huh.”
Think about how your tone of voice can indicate sarcasm, anger, affection, or
confidence.
Evaluating nonverbal signals
– Eye contact – Is the person making eye contact? If so, is it overly intense or just right?
– Facial expression – What is their face showing? Is it masklike and unexpressive, or
emotionally present and filled with interest?
– Tone of voice – Does the person’s voice project warmth, confidence, and interest, or is
it strained and blocked?
– Posture and gesture – Is their body relaxed or stiff and immobile? Are their shoulders
tense and raised, or relaxed?
– Touch – Is there any physical contact? Is it appropriate to the situation? Does it make
you feel uncomfortable?
Evaluating nonverbal signals
– Intensity – Does the person seem flat, cool, and disinterested, or over-the-top
and melodramatic?
– Timing and place – Is there an easy flow of information back and forth? Do
nonverbal responses come too quickly or too slowly?
– Sounds – Do you hear sounds that indicate interest, caring or concern from the
person?
Tips for Maximizing Nov verbal
communication skills
– Smile Genuinely
– Be aware that people may give false verbal cues
– Keep an appropriate distance between you and others, and use touch only when
appropriate
– Respect status with your eye contact
– Adopt a handshake that matches your personality and intention
Types of Non Verbal Communication
– Facial Expressions: The face especially the eyes commands particular attention as
a source of non verbal message. When your words send a positive message
averting your gaze can lead your audience to perceive a negative one
– Gesture and Posture: By moving your body, you can express both specific and
general messages, some voluntary and some involuntary. Slouching, leaning
forward, fidgeting, and walking briskly are all unconscious signals hat reveal
whether you feel confident or nervous
– Vocal Characteristics: Your voice carries both intentional and unintentional
messages. Consider the sentence “What have you been up to” four or five times
changing your tone of voice, you can convey quite different messages
Types of Non Verbal Communication