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Attitude
is a learned predisposition to respond
favorably or unfavorably to something.
Attitude reflect what you like and what you
don’t like.
Cont…
Beliefs
the way in which you structure your
understanding of reality – what is true and
what is false for you. Most of your beliefs are
based on previous experience.
Values
permanent concepts of good and bad, right
and wrong. Our values are instilled in us by
our earliest interpersonal relationships ; for
almost all of us, our parents shape our values.
Are you aware of who you
are?
Self-awareness is your knowledge of
yourself; the extent to which you know who
you are.
Researchers have described three ways of
being self-aware (who you are and what are
you doing)
1. Subjective Self-Awareness
Is the ability that people have to differentiate
themselves from their environment. You are
a separate entity from all that is around you
2. Objective Self-Awareness
Is the ability to be the object of our own
thoughts and attention. You have the ability
to think about your own thoughts as you are
thinking about them.
3. Symbolic Self-Awareness
Uniquely humans ability to think about
oneself and use language (symbols) to
represent oneself to others.
4 stage model of how aware or unaware we are
of what we are doing at any given moment by
Abraham Maslow.
BUT not every comment affects our sense of who we think we are. It depends
on three conditions.
Self-Labels
The labels we use to describe our own attitudes, beliefs,
values and actions also play a role in shaping our self-concept.
A B
C D
A relationship with greater breadth than B but A highly intimate, close relationship in which there has
with no intimacy been extensive breadth and depth of disclosure
Understanding How We Learn About
Ourselves From Others :
The Johari Window Model of Self-
Disclosure
Known to Other
OPEN BLIND
HIDDEN UNKNOWN
Not known to Other
A NEW RELATIONSHIP FOR SOMEONE WHO IS
VERY SELF-AWARE
Known to Self Not Known to self
UN
Not known to Other HIDDEN
KNOWN
CHARACTERISTICS OF SELF-
DISCLOSURE (SD)
1. SD Usually Occurs in Small Increments
Appropriate SD should be well timed to suit the
occasion and the expectations of the individuals
Involved
4. SD Involves Risks
- Once you disclose something to someone,
- that person can now share that info with
others.
- Also risk of rejection
5. SD Online is Different from Face to Face
Disclose
More confident communicating online than face to
face, less truthful in what they say about themselves.
6. SD Involves Trusts
To know something personal about someone is to
have power over that person. Using personal info
against others is a misuse of the trust that was placed
in you.
7. SD Overtime : Enhancing Intimacy
SD is often associated with relationship
development
Self-Disclosure