Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Forms: physical,
psychological,
spiritual,
relational
◦ In the sexual sphere,
sexuality has to do with
vulnerability. Eros, the
desire for another,
makes one vulnerable…
capable of being
wounded.
◦ It can take the form of
failure to support, to
assist, to care for, to
honor in ways that are
required by the context
and relationship
Sexual partners must
be concerned about
not harming third
parties – future
lovers, children who
may be born to one
of the lovers, their
lovers, their children.
Responsibility for
the consequences
of their love and
sexual activity –
pregnancy and
children, violation
of the claims that
others may have
on each of them,
public health
concerns, etc.
Free consent
Respect for the right of
persons to determine
their own actions
Seduction and
manipulation of persons
who have limited
capacity for choice
because of immaturity,
special dependency or
loss of ordinary power
are ruled out
Rape,violence or
any harmful use
of power against
unwilling victims
is never justified.
Deception and
betrayal
(violations of
truth telling and
promise keeping,
e.g in mail order
brides) hinders
the freedom of
choice of the
other person.
Equality of power
Major inequalities in
social and economic
status, age and
maturity,
professional identity,
interpretations of
gender roles, and so
forth can render
relations
inappropriate and
unethical
Equality
of power rules out treating
partner as object; dependency limits
freedom
Equality
may not be perfect…must be
balanced enough for each to respect
each other as ends in themselves
Mutuality
Mutuality of participation
should characterize
sexual activity
Traditional view: male is
Myths, religious
doctrines that
reinforce gender bias
and unjust constriction
of roles
Synthesis
Framework for sexual ethics based on
norms of justice – norms are based from
the concrete reality of persons and
focused on respect for autonomy and
relationality
◦ Autonomy is respected thru a
requirement of free consent from sexual
partners with related requirements for
truthtelling, promise-keeping and
respect for privacy.
◦ Relationality is to be respected thru
the requirements of mutuality,
equality, commitment, fruitfulness
and social justice.
Reflection:
◦ Recall significant friendships you’ve
had (recent or since childhood).
Which of them have withstood the
test of separation? Why do you think
the friendship lasted? (Which norms
of just love were practiced?)
◦ Why did the other friendships fade?
(which norms for just relations/love
were violated)
◦ What does fidelity/commitment
mean in the context of friendships?