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Colossians 1 Bible Study XIV
Colossians 1 Bible Study XIV
As is fitting in the Lord – This does not mean submitting to your husband as if he
were god, that it defines the extent of the submission the limits to submission. It
does not mean as long as the husband does what the Lord want, this too defines
the limits of submission.
It defines the MOTIVE for submission
You submit to your husband because it is an expression of your submission to the
Lord.
Wives – v18
Wives submit simply because it honour God’s Word and His order of
authority.
It is part of her Christian life
As such great care should be taken in choosing a husband
However, this command is not absolute
This love is the kind of love Jesus has for His people
Do not be bitter towards them – even if the husband feels justified, he isn’t
They must love with tender and faithful affection as Christ loved the Church.
Hosea is the best example we can see in scripture of this
Marriage
Paul is speaking to children still within the family household and under their
authority.
Obeying is not separate from honouring
Children must obey their parents in all things. If the child does not obey in
everything and recognise their authority, then the child is unlikely to recognise the
authority of others
You are not doing them a favour by allowing them to run freely and doing
whatever they like.
Children vs 20
It should be noted that this letter was read to the church which meant that the
entire family was present to worship and hear God’s word together.
Again obedience has limits – Children should not obey anything that violates God’s
Word
How have we seen the rebellion of youth in society?
Father vs 21
Often times children are blamed for their bad behaviour. What Paul is saying it can
be provoked by the parent. Mind do you this doesn’t justify the bad behaviour
Less they become discouraged – children who growing up being provoked become
discouraged
Father vs 21
Children who are discouraged don’t feel loved and supported. They often believe
that the world is against them.
Therefore as parents our parenting should be seasoned with grace, grace and more
grace.
Like our Heavenly Father, we should be gracious, gentle, forgiving, longsuffering
with our Children.