Unit 1.2 Active Listening It's defined as a communication technique that requires a listener to fully concentrate, understand and respond to what is being said.
Active listening is a core element of efficient communication in
general. It improves communication, raises the level of comprehension, and increases efficiency in everyday activities. What do you do to listen actively? Active Listening Strategies 1. Pay attention Make a conscious effort to hear not only the words of a speaker but the complete message that is being communicated. In order to do this, you must pay attention to the speaker carefully by keeping all distracting thoughts aside. Maintain eye-contact. Also, pay attention to your body language and the speaker’s as well. Interpret the hidden messages. Active Listening involves attentively seeking to understand a speaker’s message, rather than passively hearing the words that a speaker says.
Your goal as an active listener is to truly understand the speaker’s
perspective (regardless of whether you agree or not) 2. Provide Feedback To enhance your listening skills, you need to let the other person know that you are listening to what is being said.
Acknowledgment or providing feedback can be something as
simple as a nod of the head or using body language and other signs to acknowledge that you are listening. 3. Defer Judgment Interrupting is a waste of time. It frustrates the speaker and limits the complete understanding of the message, especially early in the conversation.
Allow the speaker to finish each point before asking questions.
Don't interrupt with counter arguments. 4. Summarize to Clarify Restating key themes as the conversation proceeds confirms your understanding of speaker’s point of view. It also helps both parties to be clear on mutual responsibilities.
Thus, briefly summarize what you have understood while
practising active listening. 5. Respond Appropriately Active listening encourages respect and understanding. You gain information and perspective.
Active listening is first about understanding the other person,
then about being understood as the listener.
Be candid, open and honest in your response. Assert your
opinions respectfully. Share your ideas, feelings and suggestions. References
Rost, M., & Wilson, J. J. (2013). Active listening. Routledge.
Tyagi, B. (2013). Listening: An important skill and its various
aspects. The Criterion An International Journal in English, 12, 1- 8.
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